"Every romantic comedy should just be called Trying to Fuck. "This week, Jennifer Aniston and this guy are Trying to Fuck. Next week, Jennifer Aniston and this guy are Trying to Fuck. Will they fuck? Probably.
Romantic comedy, aka "rom-com", is a genre in which the development of a romance leads to comic situations.
Since all it says on the tin is "love" and "laughs", the genre provides large meadows for the screenwriters to frolic in. Many writers have pushed and blurred the lines of romantic comedy.
Many rom-coms use a set of certain tropes. Many feature two more or less equal protagonists with one slightly more equal than the other. The story may start with one character being dumped/divorced/widowed. His/her friends and family urge him/her to find someone. The protagonist may agree to go on several blind dates. At some point, they meet our second protagonist. Usually, the second character isn't an obvious match for the first; maybe she's wild and crazy and he's a CPA. Or he's rich and she's poor. A romantic comedy usually provides a victory of love against all odds. A certain amount of overlap with Dramedy is not unusual. Romantic comedies in more recent years have made a concerted effort to subvert some parts of the genre where possible, present the story in a more down to earth or certainly less light and fluffy manner, add raunchier humor, more flawed characters and occasionally elements of self-deprecation, but in most of them there remains a large degree of audience-understood foregone conclusion.
Every story needs a conflict, and since rom-coms are driven by the quest for love, the conflict derives from the obstacles to the quest. This could be the apparent incompatibility of the leads: mutual Love at First Sight is rare. The two characters will spend a good part of the movie fighting their obvious attraction. Eventually, they'll realize they're perfect for each other. Or, something will pop up; maybe a Three's Company kind of misunderstanding, or a revelation in the third act about one of them lying. One of the two characters will storm off in a huff. Or the couple is already married for some reason, and the conflict comes partially from different expectations and misunderstandings.
The climax of a rom-com requires the satisfactory recognition of love: the other chases after the love interest and does something really romantic to win them back. The reconciliation scene ends with the two characters reunited in a romantic embrace. Often ends in a wedding.
Tropes typically employed in a romantic comedy are covered in:
- Attraction Tropes
- Flirting And Courtship Tropes
- Dating Tropes
- Love Tropes
- Sex Tropes
- Wedding and Engagement Tropes
- Marriage Tropes
The usual rom-com main characters are covered in Love Interests. Characters that often occupy the stratosphere around the rom-com protagonists include: Beta Couple, Deadpan Snarker, Pet Homosexual, Plucky Comic Relief. The main characters are typically employed in a Rom Com Job.
See also Romance Arc, Rule of Romantic, and compare with the Bromantic Comedy.
Examples
- Films of the Screwball Comedy sub-genre of the 1930s-1940s were often these.
- Bringing Up Baby
- Carefree
- The Doctor Takes a Wife
- The Gay Divorcee
- Easy Living
- Hands Across the Table
- It Happened One Night
- It's a Wonderful World
- It's Love I'm After
- Libeled Lady
- Love Before Breakfast
- Midnight
- Mr and Mrs Smith
- My Man Godfrey
- Ninotchka
- Shall We Dance?
- Stand-In
- Theodora Goes Wild
- Top Hat
- His Girl Friday adds a curve in that the romantic protagonists are divorced as well as former boss and prize employee (editor and ace reporter).
- A similar situation is found in the '50s musical comedy Kiss Me, Kate, where the divorced protagonists falling back in love are, respectively, the director and leading lady in a modern adaptation of an earlier example of the Romantic Comedy genre, Shakespeare's The Taming of the Shrew.
- 1981's Arthur (1981) was an intentional throwback to these, and a very successful one.
- 1972's What's Up, Doc? was an earlier one.
- 1951's Singin' in the Rain is an even earlier throwback, also very successful.
- Leatherheads was also a throwback. Except it didn't work too well.
- The Runaway Bride strays deep into screwball territory, although it is more serious in some respects than most - the protagonists' psychological hang-ups are explored and e. g. the father's drinking problem is not done for laughs.
- Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day is a modern incarnation, but the threat of war on the horizon casts a shadow over all the gaiety.
- There are quite a few young adult books that follow this formula, Sarah Dessen's work being a good example. They usually are exactly like the countless movies in this genre, except that they take place in high school. Most of the common stereotypes of rom coms are translated into a high school setting, for example instead of them being not compatible the couple usually will be childhood friends, and usually the girl wants the most popular guy, but realizes she's in love with her best friend.
- Many of the Fred Astaire/Ginger Rogers musicals. In addition to the ones mentioned under Screwball Comedy above:
- Every bleeding Kevin James vehicle save Grown Ups.
- Some of Woody Allen's films, most famously Annie Hall. He's more prone to the Bittersweet Ending than most.
- 10
- 13 Going on 30
- 27 Dresses
- 40 Days and 40 Nights
- The 40-Year-Old Virgin
- 50 First Dates
- (500) Days of Summer is a deconstruction of the genre.
- About a Boy
- About Last Night...
- Adam's Rib
- Addicted to Love
- After Eden
- Alex & Emma
- Along Came Polly
- Always Be My Maybe
- Amélie has many elements of the romantic comedy; probably it's not considered so by most people because it's so original in terms of not only its story but also its art direction and acting that it's hard to associate it with the romcom's reputation of formula.
- Anastasia might not be a Romantic Comedy exactly but it does have Meg Ryan voicing the lead who has a typically sparky Rom Com like relationship with the love interest Dimitri (John Cusack). Possibly the closest analogue in animation to this genre, though romantic subplots in contemporary Western animation often invoke its tropes (consider the Shrek films).
- The Apartment is at once a subversion and a straight example of this.
- As Good as It Gets
- Ask Any Girl
- The Bachelor
- Bachelor Mother
- Barefoot
- The Baxter
- Bell, Book and Candle
- The Best Man
- Bewitched
- Bicentennial Man
- The Big Sick
- The Big Wedding
- Black Cat, White Cat
- Blast from the Past
- Blind Date
- The Bold Type
- Boomerang
- Breakfast at Tiffany's
- The Break-Up is a rom-com with a difference: its Bittersweet Ending.
- Bride Wars
- The Broken Hearts Gallery
- Butterflies
- Cactus Flower
- The Callback Queen
- Carry On Loving
- Casanova (the 2005 film with Heath Ledger)
- Chalet Girl
- Chasing Liberty
- Christmas in Connecticut
- Come Live with Me
- Confetti
- Crazy Beautiful You
- Crazy Stupid Love
- The Dead Inside
- Designing Woman
- Desk Set
- Destination Wedding
- The Devil and Miss Jones
- Did You Hear About the Morgans?
- Dirty Love
- The Divorce of Lady X
- Doki Doki Literature Club!, though the story goes through an abrupt genre shift to psychological horror partway through.
- Down with Love is a parody.
- Drinking Buddies is a rare example that examines the difficulties when you're already in a relationship, rather than simply capturing the beginning of one.
- Drive Me Crazy
- Dr. T & the Women
- Engaged to the Unidentified
- The Eternal Love combines this genre with Time Travel and Sharing a Body.
- Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind is a deconstruction of the genre.
- The Ex-Mrs. Bradford
- Failure to Launch
- A Fine Mess
- The Five-Year Engagement
- The Flintstones in Viva Rock Vegas
- Flying Down to Rio
- Focus
- Fools Rush In
- A Foreign Affair
- Forgetting Sarah Marshall At least one review for this movie referred to it as a "romantic comedy for guys".
- For Love or Money (1963)
- The Four Seasons
- Frankie and Johnny
- French Kiss
- Friends with Benefits
- The F Word
- Gigli
- Get Over It
- Get Your Man
- Ghosts Can't Do It
- The Ghost Goes West
- Ghosts of Girlfriends Past
- The Girl Next Door
- Going the Distance
- GoldenTime
- Good Advice
- The Goodbye Girl
- A Good Year
- Go Princess Go combines this genre with Time Travel and gender-bending.
- Gorgeous
- Government Girl
- Gray Matters
- Green Card
- Gregory's Girl
- Groovy, Kinda Is a webcomic that follows Larry Pye, his girlfriend Edison Lighthouse, and Anya Langerak as they try to make a three way relationship work.
- Grumpy Old Men
- Happiest Season
- Happy Accidents
- Hatsukoi Zombie
- Having Wonderful Time
- Heartbreakers
- The Heartbreak Kid (1972)
- The Heartbreak Kid (2007)
- He Said, She Said
- He's Just Not That into You
- Hitch
- Holiday
- The Holiday
- Honeymoon in Vegas
- How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days: With Kate Hudson and Matthew McConaughey, how could it go wrong?
- How to Marry a Millionaire
- How to Talk to Girls at Parties
- I Could Never Be Your Woman
- I Don't Want to Be a Man
- I Feel Pretty
- I Know Where I'm Going!
- I Love Trouble
- I Love You Phillip Morris is a gay-romantic dramedy.
- I Married a Witch
- Imagine Me & You
- The Importance of Being Earnest
- In The Good Old Summertime - The Shop Around the Corner re-imagined as a musical.
- Intolerable Cruelty
- I.Q. - Meg Ryan again, as Albert Einstein's (probably historically inaccurate) niece, with Tim Robbins as an auto mechanic who winds up with Uncle Albert (hilariously played by Walter Matthau) and his buddies trying to help him get her away from her stuffy psychologist fiance (played by Stephen Fry).
- The Irony of Fate
- Isn't It Romantic
- It Could Happen to You
- I Think I Love My Wife
- It's Complicated
- It Should Happen to You - Jack Lemmon's first feature-film, and Judy Holliday in a great Dumb Blonde role.
- I Want Someone to Eat Cheese With: A bit of a twist on it as the point is that the guy does not get the girl.
- Jane Wants a Boyfriend
- Jeffrey
- Julia Misbehaves
- Just Friends
- Just Go with It
- Just Like Heaven
- Just My Luck
- Just the Way You Are
- Kaguya-sama: Love Is War
- Kate & Leopold
- Kamisama Kiss
- Keeping the Faith
- Keep the Change (2017)
- The King 2 Hearts
- The Kissing Booth
- The Kissing Booth 2
- Kissing a Fool
- Kissing Jessica Stein
- Knocked Up
- The Fanfic Knowledge Is Power is theoretically this.
- Kotoura-san: A surprisingly dark one. The romance and comedy is mixed with substantial amounts of drama. The Downer Beginning is the first bump in the road.
- Lady and the Tramp was basically a Disneyfied take on the traditional rom-com story, and judging how famous and homaged the movie is more than 60 years later, it worked out pretty well.
- Laggies
- The Last of Mrs. Cheney
- Laws of Attraction
- Leap Year
- Let's Play
- Life After Beth
- Life As We Know It
- A Life Less Ordinary
- The Little Hut
- Little Nicky
- Long Shot
- Lost & Found (1999)
- Love Actually: Multiple love stories going on around Christmastime in London. Stars Hugh Grant, Alan Rickman, Emma Thompson, Liam Neeson, Bill Nighy, and some other people.
- Slightly unique in that a few of the couples didn't get together.
- Love at the Christmas Table
- Love, Chunibyo & Other Delusions
- Love in the Afternoon
- Love Me Tonight
- The Love Parade
- Made of Honor
- Magic in the Moonlight
- Maid in Manhattan with Jennifer Lopez— is "Cinderella"-derived; she's poor, he's rich, obviously.
- The Major and the Minor Starring Ginger Rogers and Ray Milland. Billy Wilder's directorial debut.
- Manhattan Love Story is a Romantic Comedy TV series.
- Make-Out with Violence is absolutely heartwarming.
- Mannequin
- Man Up
- The Marriage Chronicles
- The Marrying Kind
- Milk Money
- Min & Max
- Momokuri
- Monster-in-Law
- Monte Carlo (1930)
- Monte Carlo (2011)
- The Moon is Blue
- Moon over Parador
- Moonstruck
- The More the Merrier
- Morning Glory - It's mostly a comedy about Rachel McAdams working as the producer of a morning show, but it still gets categorized as a chick flick. Like IQ, it's story is bigger than just the romance.
- Moscow on the Hudson
- Mr. Right
- Much Ado About Nothing: Old school Romantic Comedy.
- As is A Midsummer Night's Dream and several other William Shakespeare plays.
- Shakespeare in Love: Indeed, Shakespeare's own life got fictionalized for Shakespeare In Love. Also, there's been a bunch of Recycled IN SPACE! variations on his romantic comedies in recent years:
- 10 Things I Hate About You (The Taming of the Shrew)
- She's the Man (Twelfth Night)
- Kenneth Branagh's version of Love's Labour's Lost, which cross-breeds the original text with the songs and style of 1930s movie musicals.
- Much Ado About Nothing (1993): 1993 film adaptation of the play.
- Much Ado About Nothing (2012): 2012 film adaptation of the play.
- Must Love Dogs
- My Best Friend's Wedding
- My Big Fat Greek Wedding
- My Blue Heaven: The subplot of this movie has Barney Coopersmith and Hannah Stubbs, an FBI agent and a police officer respectively meet with Belligerent Sexual Tension, and as the movie progresses, they fall in love. He even spends the night at her house and throws out her ex-husband the next morning.
- My Boss's Daughter
- My First Girlfriend is a Gal
- My Sassy Girl
- Never Been Kissed
- New in Town
- New Year's Eve
- No Strings Attached
- No Tomorrow
- Notting Hill
- Nyaruko: Crawling With Love! is "love(craft) comedy that 'boy meets a devil'". Yeah, a parody of Cthulhu Mythos.
- The Object of My Affection
- Obvious Child
- Oddman 11
- Ojisan And Marshmallow'
- One Touch of Venus
- Only You
- Out at the Wedding is a rom-com about a woman who pays a lesbian to act as her fiancee when she gets caught up in a white lie involving her family.
- Overnight Delivery
- Paperback Hero
- Paris When It Sizzles
- Parting Glances - a gay film set in New York during the height of the AIDS crisis. Notable for not killing off any of its characters and for being Steve Buscemi’s feature film debut.
- Personal Property
- The Philadelphia Story
- Pillow Talk
- Phffft!
- Playing It Cool
- Populaire
- Pretty Woman
- Jane Austen's Pride and Prejudice, where Elizabeth Bennett and Mr. Darcy start out acting contemptuously toward one another. Given the conventions of Romantic comedy, isn't the ultimate outcome of their relationship inevitable?
- The Prince & Me
- The Prince and the Showgirl
- Prince Charming
- Princess O'Rourke
- The Proposal
- The Quiet Man
- The Rebound
- Remember the Night
- Return to Me: David Duchovny plays Bob, an architect whose wife dies in a car crash. Minnie Driver plays Grace, who has a heart transplant early on. About a year later, Grace is waiting tables at her grandfather's restaurant when Bob shows up on an abysmal blind date. Bob and Grace click and all seems to be going well, until Grace finds out just who her heart donor was... Carroll O'Connor (yes, a.k.a. Archie Bunker) gives a solid supporting performance in his final role, playing Grace's kindly grandfather, who proves quite helpful to both parties.
- Roman Holiday
- Roxanne
- Runaway Bride
- Sabrina (1954)
- Sabrina (1995)
- Sam: A Gender Bender romantic comedy in which a Handsome Lech is transformed into a woman, only to develop romantic feelings for his best friend.
- Saving Face
- ''School Rumble'
- Second Act
- Serendipity. It was in fact marketed with this tag line: "Destiny with a sense of humor."
- Set It Up
- Shallow Hal
- She's Dating the Gangster
- She's Out of My League
- The Shop Around the Corner
- Shaun of the Dead is a "romantic comedy with zombies". (A "Rom-Zom-Com", if you will.)
- Sierra Burgess is a Loser
- Singles
- Sin Takes a Holiday
- Sirene
- Siscon Ani To Brocon Imouto Ga Shoujiki Ni Nattara
- Skin Deep
- Sleepless in Seattle - Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan. A kid calls a radio talk show looking for someone to date his widowed dad and a woman on the other side of the country tunes in. She gradually becomes Genre Savvy and finally meets him at the end of the film.
- Smiles of a Summer Night says right after the title: "en romantisk komedi av INGMAR BERGMAN."note Yes, that Ingmar Bergman.
- Something Borrowed
- Something's Gotta Give
- Splash
- Splash Too
- Strange Bedfellows
- The Strawberry Blonde
- Summer Lovers
- The Sweetest Thing
- Sweet Home Alabama
- Swept Away
- Teacher's Pet (1958)
- The Test (2012)
- That Touch of Mink
- There's Something About Mary
- Think Like a Man: The surprisingly well acted story in which Steve Harvey releases a book telling women how men think, women read, and men react.
- Third Finger, Left Hand
- This is the Night
- Three to Tango
- A Ticklish Affair
- TiMER
- Tin Cup
- Tonari no Kashiwagi-san
- To All the Boys I've Loved Before
- Too Many Husbands
- Tomo-chan Is a Girl!
- Tootsie
- Too Young to Kiss
- Toradora!
- Trainwreck
- Trouble in Paradise
- The Truth About Cats & Dogs
- Tsurezure Children
- Two-Faced Woman
- Two Weeks Notice (the quintessential Hugh Grant romantic comedy, stars Sandra Bullock, another Rom Com staple)
- The Ugly Truth: Stars Gerard Butler as a foul-mouthed, sexist TV personality and Katherine Heigl as his producer.
- Vacation from Marriage
- Valentine's Day
- Virtual Sexuality
- The Voice of the Turtle
- Walk, Don't Run
- Walking on Sunshine
- The Wedding Singer: One of Adam Sandler's most critically acclaimed movies.
- Wedding Wars
- The Wedding Year
- What's Your Number?
- What Women Want
- When Harry Met Sally... was far from the first Romantic Comedy; it was filmed in 1989. But it has wit and humor and a nice soul, and as such is generally regarded as the model for the genre.
- When in Rome
- While You Were Sleeping
- Why Him?
- Wimbledon
- Win a Date with Tad Hamilton!
- With Six You Get Eggroll
- The Woman in Red
- Woman of the Year
- Working Girl
- You've Got Mail - Tom Hanks and Meg Ryan again. This time she runs a small bookshop, he's one of the owner/execs of a big bookstore chain threatening Meg's store, and while they're hostile in real life, they're close friends online. A remake of a the Jimmy Stewart movie, The Shop Around the Corner (1940).
- Why Be Good? is a silent film from 1929 that has many elements that would later be associated with Romantic Comedies. Misunderstandings galore!
