Some parents really want their kids to become child stars. And they'll do anything they can to make that happen, up to and including interfering in the kids' work. They'll do this even at the risk of derailing the production, straining their relationship with their kids, or even endangering their kids outright. Sometimes this helps their kids start successful careers, but more likely, it'll actively hurt the kids' chances when they lose gigs because the directors don't want to deal with the parents. And failure usually turns out badly for the kid.
A Stage Mom is similar in theme to an Education Mama, but driven by pure narcissism. She's a massive Control Freak, persecuting other people's children and being incredibly pushy with her own. It's clear that she has self-serving reasons for pushing her kids into show business, wanting to vicariously experience the fame and fortune she dreamed of herself. Sometimes she may be a failed actress or musician and this is the next best thing. The worst cases overlap with The Svengali, exploiting their children for their own gain.
The family's financial status greatly plays a part in how the Stage Mom behaves. If the family is poor, she might be pushing her child to have a better life than she had, or less altruistically, she sees their talent as a cash cow to milk for all it's worth. Extra points if the kid's performing career is the family's most stable source of income. If the family is wealthy, the mom might want to project the image that her little darling is perfect in every way. And if she's a successful performer herself, she might be grooming her child in her own image...whether the poor kid wants it or not.
If she has other children that aren't performers, don't ask about her relationship with them.
If the child is an adult who had a more conventional rise to fame, the Stage Mom could still reappear later in life. This usually happens when she realizes that she could manipulate her kid's fame for her own gain. Bonus points if the parent wasn't involved in the kid's life growing up but is now interested in a relationship. Most likely, the kid winds up telling her off for her behavior, she realizes the error of her ways, and the plot is resolved before the episode ends.
Although stage fathers can be just as pushy as mothers in Real Life, in fiction the trope is almost Always Female, due to the perception that pursuing the arts is not seen as very masculine. That said, there is a male equivalent in the "Sports Dad" who pushes his children into becoming star athletes and gets more worked up during games than the kids actually playing. This variation is particularly focused on living vicariously through his kids and trying to make up for his own failed ambitions.
- In the hospital arc in Candy Candy, the eponymous Candy has to deal with the overbearing and bitchy mother of a young piano prodigy who's been hospitalised in the clinic she works in. It turns out that the massive pressure she put on the girl drove her to illness in the first place. Candy figures out what's up and manages to convince the mother to see the error of her ways and seek forgiveness from her daughter.
- Captain Tsubasa:
- Averted with Karl-Heinz Schneider's father Rudi. He was a former player himself and now coaches the team, so there's speculation that he pushed Karl-Heinz into doing it himself. But Karl-Heinz genuinely loves soccer and is happy being The Ace of the German team.
- The patriarch of the Konsawatto family is implied to be a Stage Dad. The three sons play soccer, but are also very popular sepak takraw players in their native Thailand, and their dad was a former player as well. Mr. Konsawatto tells his kids that if the Thai team qualifies for the WYC, he'll let them switch from sepak takraw to soccer. They lose to Tsubasa and Co., but he still allows them to keep on playing soccer.
- In Charisma Doll Kazuma wants Sara to "follow in her footsteps" and have a chance to be a star. Sara doesn't like being a pop idol, because she feels that her androgynous appearance and voice are nothing but a cheap gimmick to get money.
Sara: Remember this... a kid is not a parent's doll.
- In Detective Conan, Conan, Ai and their friends step in a kidnapping case that has two of these. One is the mother of a boy named Keita, who forces her son to practice endlessly on the piano. The other is the father of the kid's rival, Chiaki, who wants his daughter to win so badly that he kidnapps Keita and tries to kill him so that he won't interfere in Chiaki's career. The father realises how fucked up that is and tries to go the Bath Suicide way; thankfully the children rescue him, Keita is released, the mother apologises to him, and Keita and Chiaki become friends.
- In Fushigi Yuugi, Hotohori's mother was completely determined to get her son atop the succession line at any cost, even being willing to kill the real heir if need be. She ends up succeeding in making Hotohori the Crown Prince (and according to a novel she fatally poisoned one of Hoto's half-brothers, though not the Crown Prince), but then she dies and Hotohori is stuck as Emperor, which makes him extremely unhappy. The novels and an OAV reveal that this had repercussions much later: the real Crown Prince, Tendou, came back and confronted Hotohori.
- In Future GPX Cyber Formula ZERO, Henri Claytor's father was a former racer who trained his son to be one and wants him to be the youngest champion in Cyber Formula. When that didn't happen and Hayato Kazami got that title before him, his father becomes an alcoholic and started to abuse and ignore him. This leads Henri to hate Hayato for taking what he thinks was his. After some lecturing from Osamu and then Hayato, he starts realizing what he has become due to his father's training and starts seeing Hayato as the father he wishes he had.
- Subverted by Miyata's father in Hajime no Ippo. While his son Ichiro took up boxing few after Miyata-san's forceful retirement, it was because of Miyata's own will and not because his dad pressured him to do it, and father and son care for each other very much.
- Ojamajo Doremi:
- Onpu Segawa's mother, Miho, is a milder example. She does care for Onpu more than the typical Stage Mom, but she pushes her hard to be an Idol Singer like she used to be. When Onpu falls into a Convenient Coma after using her power against the rules too frequently, Miho has a Heroic BSoD and blames herself for pushing her too hard.
- Haruka Harukaze, Doremi's Tsundere mother and an ex-pianist, who lost her career due to a Game-Breaking Injury, almost became a Stage Mom. When little Doremi showed some degree of musical talent, she tried to shape her into a good pianist, but Doremi panicked on stage, and Haruka didn't insist. She felt so guilty about it that when Doremi's little sister Poppu wanted her mom to teach her how to play, it took both her and Doremi's efforts to convince her.
- Pokémon, being essentially about competitive monster fighting, naturally has a number of these:
- Grace tries to push her daughter Serena into Rhyhorn racing, even though she hates it. She decides instead to become a Pokémon performer, which causes no end of fighting between the two. Grace eventually relented, though, and let her pursue her dreams.
- Tammi the cheerleader, from the Johto league, took this attitude out on her own Pokémon; she became bitchy and demanding to them and furiously berated them for any mistakes. It took a brief Break the Haughty and a harsh call-out from Misty to get her to stop doing this.
- Sawakita's father in Slam Dunk looks like this a little, but he's actually an aversion since he does truly care for Sawakita himself.
- In Speed Grapher's first episode, a young would-be ballerina and her stage mom visit the ballet dancer Kazuya Shirogane in his camerino so the girl can show off her dancing skills and become his pupil. Shirogane turns out to be an Euphoric, and ends up breaking the girl's arm while screaming "Not flexible! Not flexible! NOT FLEXIBLE".
- In xxxHOLiC, Kohane Tsuyuri's mother pushes her to appear on television specials. The girl is clearly uncomfortable with this and only wants her mother's love and approval. The mother denies her almost any affection to keep her powers from being tainted, doesn't refer to her by name, and attacks her and Watanuki when Watanuki questions her on live TV.
- Kousei's mother Saki from Your Lie in April wanted him to become famous and perform in Europe, which she couldn't herself do due to illness. She demanded him to play the piano to perfection and made him practice for hours, often beating him up for small mistakes. Turns out she actually wanted him to become successful so that he could live on his own when she was gone, as her illness was a fatal one; however, her initially understandable worries became anger and despair, and things went From Bad to Worse.
- Yu-Gi-Oh! has a brotherly example with Siegfried pushing his younger brother Leon to beat Yugi at all costs, even if it means cheating. Joey lampshades this in the dub.
Siegfried: Now crush Yugi Muto, just like we rehearsed it a thousand times!
Joey: Sheesh... Who knew Siggy was such a stage mom?
- Yu Gi Oh Zexal features a child actor who's under his mother's constant control, wrecking any chance for a social life. Things then go From Bad to Worse when he ends up with a mind-warping Number card.
- The original Silk Spectre from Watchmen coached her daughter to take up her profession as a superhero. It led to some of her issues.
- In Young Justice, Bonnie Jones, mother of Cissie Jones-King (aka Arrowette), is a superhero stage mother, pushing her daughter into becoming a superhero because of her own frustrated ambitions. She seems to care more about fame than her daughter's own safety, and she's been called out for this many times by other heroes:
- Cissie's first appearance was in Impulse, where her superhero Mentor Max Mercury was so disgusted by her mother that he called Child Services.
- Nightwing got a chance to get in on the action and chew her out (having met her at Tim's parents' conference).
- Wonder Girl's mother was particularly disgusted with Arrowette's costume, which Bonnie seemed to have picked out to be more flashy than functional and wasn't good at protecting her from injury. (Bonnie didn't take it well and started a Cat Fight). Arrowette's costume change to something more sensible (well, at least relative to what she wore before) seems to imply that Bonnie has backed off a little bit.
- Cissie herself quit the superhero game out of frustration. Undeterred, Bonnie quickly found a new vocation for her: competitive archery. Cissie qualified for the US Olympic team and eventually won gold, which only got her mother to start scheduling public appearances for her.
- The Mark Waid Strange miniseries featured pageant mothers who made deals with a demon so that their daughters would win. As one would expect (and because the demon was a huge cheater who decided he didn't have to adhere to the rules of magic), this backfired horribly. Some readers concur that everything in the book except the Deal with the Devil is Truth in Television.
- Striker of Avengers Academy had a mother like this who gave him his drive to be famous. Even worse, at one point in the series, it's revealed that she allowed him to be sexually abused so that he would get cast in a commercial.
- Henry "the Duke" Duke of The Intimates didn't want to play football (he prefers golf), but his dad made him. He's not so sure he wants to be a superhero either (he's more into space travel), but his dad doesn't want to hear it.
- One MAD article, showing some children playing sports, points to parents trying to live vicariously through their children. Another article in late 2012 parodied this by giving "guidelines" for pageant moms to follow.
- The Flash's mother in Tangent Comics loves the limelight, and tries to keep it on her and her daughter any way she can. The Flash, for one, doesn't care much about being a star, but there's no reasoning with a larger-than-life figure like her mom.
- In PS238, Ultima and Sovereign Powers want their son Tyler to follow them into the family business and become a superhero, ignoring completely that he's a Muggle Born of Superheroes. They push him into a school for superheroes, using their clout as famous heroes to get him enrolled despite him being technically unqualified for entry, and basically ignoring him until he gains superpowers while insisting they'll develop "any minute now". Ironically, Tyler responds to this by taking tutelage under an Expy of Batman whom his parents dislike for "butting his head into metahuman business". Things get even more complicated once Tyler's superpowered clone Toby makes his appearance. Toby has to use his Reality Warper powers to keep Tyler from being disowned (at the cost of losing any chance of being on good terms with Tyler's best friend), and even then Ultima and Sovereign routinely forget about the existence of their unpowered eldest child.
- In Rising Stars, Joshua Kane is born with the ability to levitate and generate light, which his pastor father exploits in order to build an empire as a televangelist. This makes poor Josh, who is a closet transvestite, utterly miserable.
- In Runaways, it's been hinted that much of the abuse Chase Stein suffered at the hands of his father stemmed from his father's disappointment that Chase had not inherited his aptitude for science.
- In The Wicked + The Divine, Minerva's parents are shown as ruthlessly exploiting their daughter's status as a member of the Pantheon to turn her into a cash cow. It's possible that this may be because they can't deal with her inevitable death. Turns out it's because they're not actually her parents, just a random couple who Minerva hired to play the roles and were greedy enough to go along with the charade.
- The Inferior Five came about because their superhero parents forced them to follow in their footsteps, despite the fact that the Five are completely incompetent at being superheroes.
- In The Order, Becky Ryan's dad forced her to become a country music star at a very early age.
- Karui in Kitsune no Ken: Fist of the Fox has this problem with her mother, who pushes her to excel in her music studies with the expectation that Karui will become a talented concert pianist someday, because the mother had failed in her own endeavors to build a musical career. Karui deeply resents her mother for pushing her own thwarted expectations onto her daughter, and takes part in underground oil wrestling in an effort to be in control of something in her own life.
- In Blazing Generations, a sequel to the Sword Art Online fic I Will Not Bow, Akane Migakuri's mother is more manager than mother, and basically runs her career as the Idol Singer Akimi. When she appears in chapter 65, it's revealed she leaked information on where Akane's attending school to the paparazzi, and is determined to turn the singing competition at schoolinto a publicity stunt for Akane and force her to resume her career at the end of the school year whether Akane likes it or not. In chapter 66, she furiously chews Akane out for dropping out of the competition in favor of Lilly, calling her a "loser girl with no reputation," Akane has finally had enough; she gives her mother an Armor-Piercing Slap, furiously calls her out over her attitude and actions, and fires her as her manager, declaring that the idol business has turned her into a different person and she wants her mom back. After Akane sings the song her late father used to sing with her, and then explains that she wants to be the idol she herself envisions, Akane's mother realizes how far she had fallen and breaks down in Tears of Remorse.
- In Sing, one of the auditionees is a kangaroo joey who was dragged along by her mother in her pouch. After they get rejected, her mother insists that she will become a star.
- Stage Mother is a 1932 film in which the titular stage mother uses blackmail to get her daughter out a touring revue so she can take the lead in a huge Broadway production.
- Noni Jean's mother, Macy, in Beyond The Lights is a stage mom, even smashing a second place trophy that Noni received because she thought Second Place Is for Losers. Her treatment of her results in Noni attempting suicide and a well-deserved calling-out.
- Erica Sayers of Black Swan, the smothering mother of the main character, who has a lot of issues.
- The Breakfast Club:
"Andrew! You've got to be number one! I won't tolerate any losers in this family! Win, win, win!"
- Andrew's dad is a male example:
- Brian's parents live vicariously off of his academic achievements.
- Violet's mother in the 2005 version of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory pushes her to win pretty much any competition she enters, including those involving her beloved gum-chewing. We don't see her interacting with (or even acknowledging the existence of) the other kids or parents, but she keeps pushing Violet and plays up to a very indifferent Willy.
- Kirstie Alley's character in the black comedy Drop Dead Gorgeous takes it to the biggest extremes, as she's determined to have her daughter Rebecca (played by Denise Richards) win every single contest she's in by sabotaging them. The kid finally ends up dead — when her mom lights up fireworks placed under a swan float she's in.
- In Get Him to the Greek, Jonathan Snow is a washed-up Vegas musician and the father of (soon-to-be) washed up rock god Aldous Snow. The relationship is deconstructed somewhat to reflect Jonathan's macho, northern English roots; he wants financial help from Aldous, but he's much too proud to ask for money directly, exasperating Aldous with his hair-splitting.
- Velma Von Tussle in Hairspray, among other things, tries to seduce Tracy's dad to get her kicked off the Miss Teenage Hairspray competition, and later tries to tamper with the votes.
- Troy's father and basketball coach from High School Musical is a less exaggerated example, but he's clearly suffering from his own high school basketball failures.
- Highway 61 has Mr. Watson, who is trying to bring his three daughters to stardom.
- Spike's dad in Little Giants is your typical "sports dad" variation; in his words, his son was "bred for football glory." As such, Spike is a merciless Jerk Jock, stronger and faster than any other kid his age. Spike's dad is in tears when his son's team loses at the end.
- Little Miss Sunshine was all over this; the family itself is okay (if kind of dysfunctional), but all the other parents they see when they finally get to the pageant are quintessential stage moms.
- The Catcher: Johnny's father is the Sports Dad version: obsessively driving his son towards perfection in baseball.
- The Godfather has a particularly appalling example: when Tom Hagen visits film executive Jack Woltz, he discovers that Woltz molested a twelve-year-old child actress — and her mother doesn't mind one bit, thinking that he'll be more likely to cast the girl.
- In James Joyce's Dubliners, the short story "A Mother" reads this way today. At the time, given the limited career opportunities for women, it's more an example of an Unbuilt Trope.
- In Noel Streatfeild's Skating Shoes/White Boots, Lalla's aunt acts like this with regard to skating. The other adults in the book spend a lot of time worrying about it.
- Mace Tyrell in A Song of Ice and Fire is a military failure whose one successful campaign was due to the work of Randyll Tarly. Therefore, he pushed each of his sons to become great knights. He put his eldest son Willas in his first tourney before he was ready and up against Oberyn Martell, which ended up getting his leg crushed.
- In Virtuosity by Jessica Martinez, Carmen's mother Diana is a former opera singer who gets throat cancer and can no longer sing. Diana instead ends up living vicariously through Carmen, a violin prodigy. In the end, Diana ends up bribing the judges in a competition (in which the prize is a priceless violin and a concert series) so that Carmen's only worthy opponent doesn't make it past the semifinals.
- A minor character in The Gates of Sleep is a child chess prodigy, whose father drove him into a breakdown by pushing the kid into more and more public exhibition games.
- Janet Bunterman in Carl Hiaasen's book Star Island is a stage mom, enabling her daughter's addictions and making her a Child Pop Star at a young age.
- Fifth Formers at St. Clare's features Felicity Ray, a talented violinist whose parents forced her to participate in a very difficult music exam, just so that she could have the distinction of being the youngest person to earn its certification. The poor girl is so stressed out that she's verging on a nervous breakdown and started sleepwalking.
- Nina Tanleven: The Ghost in the Third Row has a toned down version - Melissa Clayton wants to be a star, and its said that her mother really wants her to be a star. The toned-down part comes in that Mrs. Clayton is off-screen the entire book; the most she can be credited with is encouraging Melissa to audition for The Woman in White and stay in it, despite her unending string of complaints about the theater and insults towards her fellow performers and the others around.
- 30 Rock:
- Jenna Maroney's mother Verna showed no concern for her safety back when she was filming commercials at one point forcing her to stand dangerously close to a live alligator. She also used to force Jenna to sing in department stores, so that she could use the distraction to shoplift. Doing so was the one thing Jenna enjoyed about Christmas, and it led to her becoming an Attention Whore as an adult.
- Angie Jordan shows these tendencies to Tracy Jordan, who's not her son, but her husband (and a famous Manchild). Tracy's biggest complaint was her attempt to get into a Cat Fight with Liz Lemon, which bothered him so much that he had to behave maturely, which he really didn't want to do.
- The Bones episode "The Girl with the Curl" features a child beauty pageant queen as the Victim of the Week, and one of the prime suspects is her mother, who is universally described as a stage mom. She's not the murderer, but security footage from before the murder shows that the mother was very controlling and abusive.
- In an episode of CSI: Miami, a pop star's mother pushed her daughter into a pop music career because she wanted to live on her daughter's success. The girl's manager is even more exploitative, though, and deliberately drives a wedge between them. The mother was Properly Paranoid to put a GPS chip in her daughter, but she ruins her daughter's career by encouraging a Loony Fan to murder her daughter's Body Double.
- All of the mothers on Dance Moms.
- An episode of Designing Women has Mary Jo allowing her daughter to compete in a kiddie beauty pageant. While Mary Jo resists the urge to become a stage mother she meets one backstage who has three children in three different pageants on the same night. Suzanne, a former pageant queen, exhibits some stage mother tendencies as Mary Jo's daughter's pageant coach.
- There's a "What if" episode of Desperate Housewives in which Gabrielle pushes her youngest daughter to become a child star, despite her absolutely sucking at acting. It ends up with both of them wasting their lives, and her husband and other daughter leaving them.
- Dinosaurs had Fran becoming one of these when Baby becomes a big star in frying pan commercials. It takes a calling out from her best friend Monica and her husband Earl, as well as a bad dream about Baby as an adult, to make her realize that what she was doing was wrong.
- An episode of In the Heat of the Night showed a young woman entering a local beauty pageant. Her Rich Bitch mother — who had been pushing her into these contests since she was a little girl — was so determined that she win that she arranged for someone to drug the girl's chief rival, take nude pictures of her, then threaten to leak the photos to the press unless the girl dropped out of the pageant. The other girl was so devastated and traumatized by the entire thing that she killed herself. The bigger problem was that the two girls were friends, the victim really did want to be a model and was genuinely passionate about it, and the daughter really wanted the victim to win. The daughter is so disgusted by what happened that she dedicates her victory to her friend, whom she calls the "real winner", flings her sash and crown at her mother ("you wanted it so badly, here it is!"), and storms out of the auditorium and presumably out of her mother's life.
- Tom Hanks portrayed himself as a stage dad in a Jimmy Kimmel Live! sketch that parodied Toddlers & Tiaras.
- Kamen Rider:
- One episode of Kamen Rider Kiva focused on a girl whose Stage Mom was pressuring her to play the violin when she didn't want to; the title character's Blithe Spirit father encouraged the girl to find her own happiness, which resulted in her becoming an Olympic-level archer years later.
- Interestingly, the girl's actress returned to the franchise a couple of years later in Kamen Rider Double...except this time she played the Stage Mom. She hired the services of a Monster of the Week with Overnight Age-Up powers to turn her daughter's "rival" into an old woman; when that girl's mother found out, she hired the Monster to do the same to the first girl. The two mothers get into a shouting match until someone draws their attention to their daughters (who saw each other as friends, not rivals) huddled together and crying in fear, which triggered a My God, What Have I Done? moment in the mothers.
- Law & Order:
Patricia Blaine: My mother couldn't decide whether I was Martha Graham or Helen Hayes.
- An early episode, "Aria", shows a stage mother whose obsession with living through her children had already driven her older daughter away. She thus pushed her younger daughter into porn, hoping that would land her bigger roles. The younger daughter commits suicide out of despair.
Phil Cerreta: Who were you?
Patricia Blaine: I was Patty Blaine. So I got out before I wasn't.
- A later episode was about a man who killed his son's high school hockey coach over a playing time dispute. He was fixated on his son becoming an elite pro hockey player and wasn't willing to let anyone get in the way of that dream.
- One Law & Order: Special Victims Unit episode is about the death of a child prodigy at a prestigious boarding school. Detectives find that her father, who lies about his own academic achievements (namely, that he has any), was a slave driver who abusively forced his daughters to study day and night. The killer was her roommate, whom she discovered leaving the school at night and partying, who killed her as a means of rebelling against her own stage parents.
- A recurring sketch on Little Britain featured a stage mom who would sabotage other kids' chances and even harm them to get her son even a minor part.
- Averted for the most part on Make It or Break It. Kelly's mom, Kaylie's father, and Lauren's father fit this trope, but the other parents of the main cast are properly supportive without being pushy.
- In the Monk episode "Mr. Monk and the Critic", Natalie's daughter Julie's performance is given a negative review by a critic, and she Natalie transforms into a stage mom obsessed with proving him wrong. She gets it into her head that he killed his girlfriend (who happens to be the Victim of the Week) and goes as far as trespassing on his property and rifling through his garbage for evidence.
- Mr. Show:
- In the episode "Operation Hell on Earth," Bob Odenkirk and David Cross play stage dads to their daughter Superstar after claiming they wouldn't be pushy like their own parents. Their daughter grows up to be disgruntled, eventually hosting a telethon which features others blaming their parents for how they were brought up.
- In another sketch, a husband and wife with a child in beauty pageants discuss how wrong it is for parents to force their children into pageants; their baby wants to do it. Turns out their baby is a fetus, and they are participating in the "Pre-Natal Pretties" pageant.
- My Name Is Earl features Shelly Stoker, Joy's rival from their child beauty pageant days.note Ms. Stoker now has a daughter named Candi whom she's training to be a pageant winner, even though Candi wants to go to school and eventually become a doctor.
- In Pitch, Ginny's dad wanted a major-league pitcher in the family, and to this end put both her and her brother through Training from Hell. While Ginny ended up going pro at 23, her dad's abuse has left her with some issues that she has to work through.
- Psych shows us that Shawn and his father have had this relationship for Shawn's entire life — even in the present, where Shawn is over thirty years old. Interestingly, it's not about sports or academics, but detective work. Given the show's irreverent comic nature, this is usually played for laughs.
- Two spectacular examples appear in the Rizzoli & Isles episode "Don't Stop Dancing, Girl"; they become the prime suspects after the mother of a rival dancer is murdered.
- Spoofed in Roundhouse: the main character had a bitchy rival in a talent or other competition, and in response to his "What do you have that I don't?" she brought out her stage mother (castmate David Sidoni), who proceeded to launch into an "I Am" Song.
- In an episode of Small Wonder, Ted and Joan pretend to be a pair of stage parents in an attempt to get Vicki removed from a cereal commercial, after they learn that the product is comprised mostly of unpronounceable additives.
- An episode of Southland has a woman shoot her son's middle school football coach (in front of some cops, no less) for keeping her boy on the bench.
- The sports version is invoked and lampshaded on 3rd Rock from the Sun when Dick decides Tommy should play basketball:
Dick: Because it's important that you experience the humiliation of adolescent boys at the hands of bitter adults trying to rewrite the failures of their youth. It'll be fun!
- Daniel Tosh has mocked stage parents who let their children appear in dubious bits on Tosh.0.
- A pair of Sports Parents show up on Corner Gas. After a high school kid shows great talent and passion for cooking while job shadowing Lacey at the Ruby, his parents show up. Lacey expects to be praised for helping their son find what is obviously his true calling, but instead they are furious with her because they planned for him to become a pro hockey player when he grows up, but now he wants to be a chef instead.
Dad: You, stay away from my son!
Mom: You're a bad person.
- Jessica Jones (2015): Dorothy Walker. She's entirely responsible for Trish's childhood career, pimped her out to pedophile producers like Max Tatum for roles, as well as all of Trish's bruises, bulimia and drug problems. In season 1, there's an implication that her talent agency also sees a lot of these.
- Bravo aired a reality show called Show Business Moms & Dads that was built on this trope.
- "[Antichrist Television Blues]" by Arcade Fire concerns a father pushing his daughter into the limelight so that he doesn't have to "work in a building downtown."
- "Perfect" by Alanis Morissette is a satire of this trope.
- Noel Coward's "(Don't Put Your Daughter On The Stage,) Mrs. Worthington" is addressed to a stage mother whose aspirations are greater than her daughter's potential.
- "Talent is an Asset" by Sparks plays Albert Einstein's mother as a stage mom.
- In wrestling, this happens quite often between wrestling promoters and their sons. Promoters really wanted men who would be loyal to them, and no one would be more loyal than family. The most notorious wrestling stage dad was Fritz Von Erich, who outlived all but one of his six sons.
- WWE's Jack Swagger had a Gimmick of an overachieving child with a Stage Dad, now all grown up and determined to find the same success in wrestling. In order to completely cement him as a Dirty Coward, Swagger ran away while Kane beat up his father — and then justified it by saying he felt vindicated for his father being an overbearing Stage Dad.
- WCW put Buff Bagwell's mother Judy on television mostly because she regularly called WCW executives to agitate on her son's behalf.
- In Gypsy, Mama Rose obsessively worked her two daughters into her vaudeville acts, highlighting Baby June, who ended up running away and eloping, and downplaying Louise, who ended up becoming more successful than her sister and becoming Gypsy Rose Lee. Mama Rose went as far as to have multiple 10th birthday parties to try to trick her daughters into thinking they were indefinitely 10 years old so she could continue to milk them for all they were worth. The worst part? She was a real person.
- Mrs. Walker from Once in a Lifetime has elements of this, even though she causes relatively little harm in the course of her championing her daughter Susan.
- The Phantom of the Opera: Madame Giry becomes one for Meg in Love Never Dies, and resents that the Phantom doesn't appreciate all they've done to help him attain success in America, including whoring Meg out to other men.
- A proto-example in Shakespeare's Coriolanus, of all things: Coriolanus's mother Volumnia pushed her child son into military service so he could accrue honor and fame in the eyes of Rome's populous. It worked a little too well.
- Gloria's mother from Psychonauts abandoned her at Hagatha's Home for Girls for years to focus on her own career, then grew jealous when Gloria's eventual career far eclipsed her own, eventually killing herself in despair.
- Kotoko Utsugi's mother from Ultra Despair Girls was a stage mom who made frequent use of the Casting Couch to get her daughter roles. It didn't matter one bit to her whether the couch's owner wanted her, her underage and very much unwilling daughter, or even both of them together. Anything to get her daughter a role. Kotoko was of course horribly traumatized by the experience, but hey, at least she's a really good actress now!
- In Fire Emblem Fates, Subaki's parents wanted him to be a good retainer for the Hoshidan Royal Family, which is okay. What's not okay is them pressuring their son to be perfect in everything he did, causing him to be a Broken Ace who is seen as pretty much the perfect fighter and retainer, but is actually a Stepford Smiler who is terrified of messing up in anything.
- Hifumi Togo from Persona 5 has one, but not for her shogi. Instead, Hifumi's mother wants her to be a gravure idol and get the most out of her youth when she could not. It's also because Hifumi's father played shogi to the point that he became extremely ill, and her mother doesn't want her to suffer the same fate, in spite of Hifumi's wishes. Her Mementos mission name references this trope by name.
- Phoenix Wright: Ace Attorney: Morgan Fey's power as a channeller is so weak, she was passed over to become head of the Fey family in favor of her younger sister Misty, who was a much stronger medium. This means that her niece Maya is now technically head of the family, and calls all the shots. So naturally, the sane course of action is to frame Maya for murder so that her eight-year-old daughter Pearl, whom Maya declares to be the greatest channeling prodigy the family has yet seen, becomes the head of the clan, thus giving Morgan de facto control for at least the next decade. Only a series of risky gambits from Misty stops this, but it concludes also with Misty's own death.
- In Katawa Shoujo, Shinichi Nomiya is not a parent to anyone's knowledge, but he has this attitude toward Rin Tezuka, the star member of his art club. On Rin's route, he seems to realize that he's nowhere near her or for that matter, Sae's dead husband's level of skill, which he says contributed to his decision to become an art teacher. As a result of seeing Rin's talent, he pushes her to work harder and put her paintings on exhibit, even though she doesn't want to. When she ultimately runs away from the exhibit, Nomiya goes berserk; when Rin comes to him to apologize, he declares that Rin does not have what it takes to be an artist.
- In Shining Song Starnova, Akis mother Yumiko has been pushing her daughter to become a successful Idol Singer since she was ten, purely to make herself rich, and doesnt care what Aki needs to do to reach that point. When a fourteen-year-old Aki came home crying one day because her producer had tried to molest her, Yumiko got angry at Aki for jeopardizing her career, demanded that she go back and apologize, and beat her when she refused to do so.
- In True Love Junai Monogatari, Ryouko's Shimazaki's brother and guardian Tadaki is essentially a Stage Dad who doubles as her manager. It seems to work, as she's the famous Idol Singer Sonoko Takahashi. She explains to the protagonist that he sacrificed almost everything in life so that she could be successful, but he's also extremely demanding and has staged more than one risky Batman Gambit to try to further her career. If the player wants the protagonist to romance this young lady, the conflict must be resolved to her favor.
- In Worm, Bambina is a child-supervillain whose popularity is managed and leveraged by her mother to make money via illicit sponsors.
- All Hail King Julien features the large Tammy and her son Todd. She has him so well trained that she essentially commands him to perform like a machine.
Tammy: Get back out there or I will put you up for adoption!!
Tammy: Oh, it's how I motivate Todd!
- In the Aqua Teen Hunger Force episode "Ezekiel", Shake forces his son Ezekiel to play basketball and tennis in an attempt to make him a sports star, constantly berating him when Ezekiel shows no talent or interest in it, and tries to commit suicide to make him feel guilty. When he finds out Ezekiel is so skilled in chess that he beat the Chess Dragon, Shake shows pride in him and plans on taking him to the Olympic committee. (Shake's not very smart, and doesn't know chess isn't an Olympic sport anymore.) That's when Frylock tells him not only is Ezekiel not his son, he's actually older than Shake.
[Ezekiel] is going to be a professional basketball star because that is what his father demands of him.
- In Bob's Burgers, Linda is shown to have shades of this when Gene becomes a member of the cheerleading team at school, and Linda attempts to use this as an opportunity to live out her own dreams of being a cheerleader back in high school. It doesn't go as far as this trope usually takes it, as Gene quickly puts his foot down and confronts her that her ideas are terrible and she isn't a cheerleader now either. Unsurprisingly, Linda does not take this well.
- BoJack Horseman: Sarah Lynn's mother had extreme shades of this. At one point, Sarah Lynn asks BoJack where he went to college, a question he doesn't mind her asking, but her mother quickly tells her that college is essentially for losers with no talent. When she expresses a follow-up desire to be an architect, her mother tells her "Mommy didn't do what she did to that Star Search producer for you to be an architect." A callback is made to this multiple times in 3x11, "That's Too Much, Man!" She not only begins talking about architecture, but also expresses her feelings on child acting, revealing she hated it:
Sarah Lynn: Y'know, it's amazing that it's legal for kids to be actors. How is that not child labor? I didn't know what I was signing up for. I was three.
- Beebee Bluff's mother on Doug was a stage mother for one episode, but at the end, Beebee was able to call her out on it and her mother quickly saw the error of her ways.
- Family Guy:
- In the aptly named episode "Brian's A Bad Father", Brian becomes one when he meets up with his son Dylan Flannigan and discovers his television connections. He then exploits these (and Dylan's kind nature) to improve his failing writing career in the TV business. He's found out and disowned by the end of the episode, leading him to be kicked off the writing board. Brian and Dylan do reconcile by the end of the episode.
- Olivia's mother provides the current page quote, complete with Suspiciously Specific Denial and Lampshade Hanging for good measure.
- In "The Peanut Butter Kid", Stewie lands a part in a commercial. He soon lands more commercial parts and his parents let it go to their heads. They buy luxury goods they don't need and work Stewie to exhaustion. Peter even gives Stewie an energy drink that includes cocaine. Brian plays the voice of reason this time and tries to convince Peter and Lois that they are ruining Stewie's life, to no avail. He convinces Stewie that the life of a child actor is a thankless and brutal one that often leads to a bad end later in life, pointing out former child stars who either ended up in porn or died unpleasant deaths. In the end, Brian and Stewie convince Peter and Lois to stop being stage parents by having Stewie pretend to have a total meltdown during his next commercial shoot.
- In The Grim Adventures of Billy & Mandy episode "My Fair Mandy", Grim is disgusted by how tarted up the other contestants are and asks, "What kind of sad, needy person would do this to them?"
Mom 1: Remember, this is mommy's big day!
Mom 2: The bigger you smile, the more beautiful mommy looks!
Mom 3: Baby, it's time to win mommy's love.
- Helga's parents in Hey Arnold! neglect Helga's needs and shower her sister Olga with attention — except they become stage parents, and Olga has become a neurotic Fragile Flower who thinks Helga has it easier, because while her parents ignore her and it sucks, it's still better than having them obsess over her every move.
- The Simpsons:
Luanne: I'm sorry, I can't hear you son! Your mother is wearing a Jacuzzi suit!
- Homer has shown some elements of being a Stage Dad, but more for Lisa than for Bart. The biggest example is "A Star is Torn", where he manages Lisa in a talent contest and bullies everyone behind the scenes to help her win. But in his first such appearance, he subverted the trope when he signed her up for a beauty pageant not for his personal glory, but because Lisa was feeling insecure about her looks and he thought it would help her self-esteem. (And it worked!)
- In "Radioactive Man", Milhouse's parents become stage parents when he gets the part of Fallout Boy. They immediately take advantage of Milhouse's newfound fame and wealth and start stocking up on luxury items. Milhouse is much less enthusiastic about his role.
- Referenced in "The Last Tap Dance in Springfield", where Lisa's tap dance instructor is very blunt with her lack of talent and tells Marge not to live out her dreams through her child.
- In "Smoke on the Daughter", where Marge has Lisa enroll in a ballet class to make her live out Marge's own failed dream of becoming a ballet dancer. This is particularly lampshaded when Marge describes her vision of "seeing her little Margie dance", much to Lisa's annoyance.
- Briefly invoked in a flashback scene where a young Homer has an angelic singing voice in the church youth choir, and Abe thinks of how his son's singing could make him millions. Then Homer's voice breaks mid-song, nipping that right in the bud.
- The South Park episode "Dead Celebrities" has the kids take Ikenote to a child beauty pageant where all the parents are like this. When Ike wins, the other parents' reactions range from crying fits to physically abusing their children for not winning.
- In Steven Universe, it's revealed that Sadie's mother Barb does this every single time Sadie expresses the slightest interest in sports or the performing arts. Played with in that Barb genuinely does love her daughter, but has a bad habit of "taking over everything" and pushing Sadie to do more than she's comfortable with, rather than letting Sadie do it her way. The worst part is that Barb genuinely didn't realize she was actually doing anything wrong until Sadie finally called her out on it.
Barb: I just wanted everyone to see how talented my daughter is!
Sadie: This isn't your daughter!
- Susan Dinwittie from What's New, Scooby-Doo? is a stage parent her Former Child Star kids, Andrew and Mandy, to the point where she secretly becomes a master in robotics so she can control the Mystery Machine remotely, and buy it back cheap from them, because it used to belong to the band. She also neglects her third child, The Un-Favourite genius whose work she was only interested in so that she could exploit it. Andrew and Mindy eventually agree that their mom had gone way too far, declared they'd never work in show business again, and walked off with their brother.
Real Life examples:
- Minnie Marx, mother of the Marx Brothers, was a rare positive example; it was mainly her hard work that got them recognition in vaudeville before their breakthrough.
- The first child movie star, Jackie Coogan, lost almost all the money he made through his parents' mismanagement. This led to the enactment of the Coogan Act in 1939, the first law designed to ensure that a parent can't siphon of the money his or her minor child makes as a performer.
- Natalie Wood, who starred in the film version of Gypsy, had plenty of real-life preparation for the role due to her own mother, Maria. Natasha, the biography by Suzanne Finstad, reveals some shocking details: for example, Maria would take a live butterfly and tear its wings off in front of young Natalie in order to make the child cry before scenes that called for it. It parallels a scene from Gypsy that also happened in Real Life, where Rose made June cry by telling her that their dog died.
- William Shatner's Star Trek Memories claimed that the wife of Jeffrey Hunter (who played Christopher Pike in the pilot) insisted he be shot from certain angles, among other techniques, in order to make him look good. Eventually, Desilu Studios couldn't handle this and stopped using the actor.
- In Star Trek IV, Sulu (George Takei) was meant to have a chance encounter, while walking around 20th-century San Francisco, with a kid who would turn out to be his ancestor. Unfortunately, the kid who was to play the part had what Shatner described (in Star Trek Movie Memories) as "the most over-the-top stage mom" he had ever encountered, and she ended up making her kid so stressed out that she made it effectively impossible to actually film the scenes.
- Nearly all of Macaulay Culkin's Hollywood crash-and-burnout can be attributed to his father/manager, Kit Culkin. To give an example, one of the reasons Macaulay was pushed into the horror film The Good Son was Kit's pushing and threatening to withdraw Macaulay from Home Alone 2: Lost in New York. Kit's presence on The Good Son wound up forcing the first director to quit. Eventually, studios were turning the kid down for roles specifically because they didn't want to deal with Kit. This, along with him getting burned out after being forced to work on film to film with no break, led to Macaulay's retirement from acting at the age of fourteen. Macaulay has since become estranged from Kit and refuses to speak to him. Home Alone producer Chris Columbus had such a hard time with Kit Culkin that he made sure he would never hire a child actor with a stage parent again — and enforced this rule when casting the Harry Potter movies.
- Judy Garland's mother was a stage mom in addition to being an Abusive Parent. According to Barry Norman's book The Hollywood Greats, Judy's mother would punish her by locking her in the closet. And she later suggested that studio officials do the same if she was acting up.
- Dina and Michael Lohan, parents of Lindsay Lohan, are exemplars of the self-serving side of this trope. Dina took Lindsay to nightclubs and let her drink when she was underage, then used her daughter's personal troubles to launch her own career in entertainment, getting herself a reality show on E!!. Then, she pushed her younger daughter Ali to enter showbiz as well, causing many people to fear that Ali would end up with the same issues as Lindsay. Michael, meanwhile, blabs about Lindsay to the media every chance he gets, and went on Celebrity Rehab for seemingly no reason other than to get attention and talk about her.
- In a blog post on SMBC Theater, JP talked about how unnerved he was when he was talking about the show with some others in a diner, and a ten-year-old girl came up to them and told them that her mother told her to tell them that she's an actress. It showcased everything wrong with the trope: mother being pushy and forcing her kid to talk to total strangers, kid doing it only because her mother told her to, mother interested in her kid performing in something that's very much not for kids (to the point that in most sketches, child characters are played by kneeling adults).
- Drew Barrymore's mother Jaid could be blamed in large part for her daughter's drug and alcohol problems at such a young age. Jaid regularly took young Drew to such adult hangouts like Studio 54 and the China Club. Years later, some time after Drew posed for Playboy, Jaid decided that she wanted to pose nude too!
- Hilary Duff's parents are said to be the reason why the Lizzie McGuire franchise was cancelled after The Movie.
- More than one similar accusation has been leveled at Billy Ray Cyrus (Miley Cyrus' father and co-star) in regards to the Hannah Montana franchise. Billy Ray says it's the other way round: the executives were the ones abusing and restraining Miley. Then again, he's also blamed atheists for the same thing. Billy Ray might just be cuckoo.
- Thora Birch's father Jack Birch, a former porn star, has meddled in his daughter's affairs enough that he's caused a hit to her reputation. He reportedly showed up on set during production of the 2007 film Horrified and watched over his daughter while she performed a simulated sex scene with Dean Winters, then in 2010 he reportedly stayed in her dressing room at a stage adaptation of Dracula and tried to micromanage the production. This ended up getting her fired from the play. Thora was also fired from a biopic about the Manson Family girls, and the director specifically blamed her father's interference. Equally distressing, Thora doesn't appear fazed by her dad's behavior, nor is she upset that he has cost her work. After she was fired from Dracula, she said, "My dad is my support, and he is the best support that I ever could have."
- Will Smith and Jada Pinkett-Smith have been accused of pushing their children into showbiz at too early an age. Their son Jaden is an actor (best known for The Karate Kid (2010) remake, which was produced by Will and Jada), while their daughter Willow is a singer. Willow eventually took back some control over her career and dropped out of a remake of Annie because touring as a singer too much out of her and she "just wanted to be twelve" again.
- This is part of the reason Galactica 1980 did so poorly. Because it was aired during a time-slot that was considered "child friendly", ABC's Standards and Practices demanded that the show include more children. This, of course, brought a large influx of pushy stage moms, "all of whom ought to be locked up," according to executive producer Gary Larsen.
- Chrisoula Workman, mother of Ariel Winter, was a bad enough stage mom that the state revoked her custody over Ariel and put her under the care of her adult sister, the also actress Shanelle Gray.
- Teri Shields, the mother of Brooke Shields, used to happily admit to being a stage mom. She also didn't seem that bothered by Brooke's nude scenes in Pretty Baby, which were done when Brooke was twelve.
- The documentary Life After Tomorrow chronicles the lives of the women who played orphans in Annie. A full segment was devoted to talking about the stage moms (and one stage dad); though not all were as horrible as the trope described, some were, and usually her daughter would not continue acting because of it.
- Averted with Mara Wilson's parents, who reminded her that her education was more important than being in movies. As a result, she is remarkably more level-headed than other child stars, and even wrote an entire article on Cracked about the crash-and-burn of child stars.
- Walt Disney wanted to avoid this trope when casting for The Mickey Mouse Club. He looked around mostly for amateur kids of a certain degree of talent rather than professional actors, and he kept the mothers (who according to labor laws had to be around) off set by setting up a room where they could relax, chat, knit, or read.
- Corey Feldman's parents forced him to act at age 3; they'd often lock him in his room to make him recite lines and songs until he memorized them. He was also the sole breadwinner of the family for a while and they'd tell him if he didn't get a gig they wouldn't eat that night. His mother would force him to take diet pills and dye his hair and his father would only really connect with him when they got high together, and they also never told him that they loved him.
- Taylor Momsen said she was pushed into modelling and acting when she was only two years old. As such she got burnt out by the time she was seventeen, and quit altogether - while Gossip Girl was still airing. She has focused exclusively on her music in The Pretty Reckless since then.
- Cracked.com interviewed a "child wrangler" (basically the person who keeps an eye on the children on sets) and she revealed that the majority of parents will go out of their way to avert this. One woman even carried around a copy of Natalie Wood's biography to remind her what not to become. But that isn't to say that stage parents don't really exist anymore. The child wrangler has a specific story of one woman who caused her child to choke by pressuring her too much and later yelled at her to get the line right or else they'll be back in poverty. The nicest thing said about the mom was that she took her daughter being dropped from the part much more graciously than expected, instead of throwing a tantrum like other stage parents.
- Peruvian model and TV presenter Mónica Santa María is a tragic example of that. Her father didn't want her to become a model, but her mother pushed her daughter into modelling at age seven. Later, at age 17, she became one of the presenters of children's show Nubeluz, which was not only popular in her native country but also in Hispanic America note , but left the show in March 1993, only to return six months later. She had a type of bipolar disorder that led her to commit suicide at the tender age of 21.
- Britney Spears' mother Lynne pushed her and her sister Jamie Lynn to become stars. It ended poorly for both of them. Britney eventually resumed her career and got her life back together, but she remains under her father's conservatorship.
- Joe Simpson, father of Jessica and Ashlee Simpson, meddled hugely in their careers. Jessica's ex-husband Nick Lachey has strongly implied that her dad's meddling was a major factor in the breakdown of their relationship.
- Joe Jackson, patriarch of The Jackson Five, really, really didn't want his kids to become criminals on the streets of Gary, Indiana. He probably could have found a better way to do this, though, than forcing them into performing. His children have said they suffered hours upon hours of incessant rehearsals after school and on weekends, would be physically abused if they made mistakes, and were strongly discouraged from showing any interest in activities or hobbies removed from the family business.
- Michael Jackson, one of the youngest (and by far the most talented), had it particularly hard. He indicated that he basically never had a childhood because he spent all of it performing, and that this was a big factor in his turning his home into a private amusement park once he became a big star and had enough money to do so. Joe still insisted on having some say in his career and hinted that he would do the same to Michael's children. Even after Michael's untimely death, Joe used an interview with a reporter days afterwards to pitch a record label project he was involved with.
- Averting this trope was key to Janet Jackson's success. Like all the Jacksons, she was initially managed by her father. But after the critical and commercial failure of her first two albumsnote , she fired Joe as her manager and hired a new one through her record label who introduced her to the production duo Jimmy Jam and Terry Lewis, known for their work with Prince. They required that she move to Minneapolis during the production of her third album explicitly to keep Joe out of the creative process. Joe obviously protested, but by that point Janet was 20 years old and free to control her career as she wished. Her efforts paid off; Control sold over 10 million copies, is considered one of the greatest albums of all time, and made her a superstar in her own right.
- The Beach Boys suffered through years of dreadful stage-fathering. Murry Wilson, father of Brian, Carl, and Dennis Wilson, was a mildly successful songwriter/producer. For their first few years, he acted as the group's manager, producer, and publisher. Among other questionable practices and decisions, he allegedly whacked Brian Wilson in the head with a 2x4, causing hearing damage. Celebrities At Their Worst, a collection of... well, you know, features a 10-minute outtake of the elder Wilson guilt-tripping his sons through a recording session for "Help Me, Rhonda".
- Luis Gallego Sánchez, aka Luisito Rey, was a Mexican singer whose career was starting to decline when he noticed that his oldest son, Luis Miguel, was a Child Prodigy who could become greater than he ever was. From an early age, he controlled "Luismi" and his career and was allegedly physically and psychologically abusive. By the late 80s, when Luismi was old enough to do so, he told off his dad and fired him. Luisito Rey became so depressed that he died in 1992
- The Shaggs, a band comprised of three sisters, came into existence because their father believed a prophecy that they would form a popular music group. As soon as they were old enough, he pulled them out of school and bought them instruments and lessons, and forced them into gigs and the studio from 1968 until his death in 1975. Despite his efforts, the band would go down in history as legendarily So Bad, It's Good.
- Pop girl group Destinee & Paris' mother is like this. The main reason they became Destinee & Paris was that their mother suffocated the previous members of their rock band (Ariel and then Sarah, who lasted less than half a year as the Clique Girlz) and they were forced into it after all the bad publicity. (Ariel went on to name her next band NMD — No More Drama — as a Take That!) When the two were featured on the E!! reality show The Dance Scene, their mother continuously told everyone around them that they weren't ready to perform on the night of the performance despite Laurieann Gibson (choreographer for Lady Gaga) saying they were great. Laurieann dropped them as clients not long after.
- Quite common in Classical Music:
- A number of well-known classical composers — especially of the Child Prodigy variety — were pushed into playing and composing music from an early age due to their parents' wishes. For example, Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart and his sister, Maria Anna, toured Europe as little kids playing piano and violin, under the tutelage of their father Leopold, a well-known composer in his own right. There are also darker examples, like Ludwig van Beethoven's father, who was so obsessed with his son becoming the next Mozart that he beat him if he didn't practice enough. But overall, the "child prodigy" notion has become so ubiquitous in classical music circles that fans are often surprised to find out that some of the greatest composers — such as Richard Wagner and Johannes Brahms — didn't start writing music until middle age, and even the so-called "child prodigies", including both Mozart and Beethoven, didn't really hit their stride until at least their late teens.
- If you were a prepubescent boy in 17th-century Italy, and you showed promise to be a great singer, your parents might have had you undergo a... procedure to turn you into a castrato soprano.translation If successful, there was a chance that you could become incredibly wealthy and famous, and had famous opera composers start composing arias specifically for you. Otherwise, you'd end up mutilated and possibly a social outcast for the rest of your life because your parents thought you'd make them incredibly wealthy. Fortunately, with help from the Catholic Church, the practice became defunct by the 19th Century.
- Even today, it's very common to see kids starting to play the piano or stringed instruments at preschool age. This happens even if there are no expectations for stardom from the parents; it's just that since practically everybody who has a shot at stardom in this field started playing when they were that young, anybody who started later is at a disadvantage. Then some parents try to do the same thing with wind instruments or opera singing, where it isn't a good idea to start so young because those fields pose physical risks that could hurt one's chances at an adult career.
- Vaudeville star George M. Cohan's father is a rare positive example. Cohan, his mother, and his sister were all brought into the act, and encouraged every step of the way; Cohan spoke of how encouraging it was to see his father in the crowd cheering him on for his entire life.
- Nick and Aaron Carter's parents' behavior wound up having disastrous consequences for Aaron later in his life. At the height of Aaron's career, they blew through his earnings, leaving him saddled with tremendous debt before he turned 18. He cut all business ties to them when he found out what they were doing. Between that and his drug problems, Aaron eventually had to file for bankruptcy in 2013, at the age of 25. Their mother had also attempted to launch a singing career for their sister Leslie, but that went nowhere.
- It's suspected that Beyoncé's estranged father Mathew Knowles was a huge stage dad during the early stages of her career with Destiny's Child. His apparent determination to make his daughter a star had fractured the family until they managed to get a record deal, and while he was an effective manager, his abrasive personality made him unpopular with industry folks and fans. Beyoncé has gone on record that when she turned 18 and started having more of a say in her career, her relationship with her father became more tenuous. His personal and financial problems are rumored to be the real reason why Destiny's Child broke up, and she cryptically mentioned in an interview with Oprah about "needing to let him go" after severing their professional relationship.
- Ringo Starr is an aversion. His own experiences with the music industry made him understandably reluctant to let his son, Zak Starkey, follow in his footsteps. It was actually Zak's godfather, Keith Moon, who bought him his first drum set and encouraged him to become a drummer.
- Formula One seems to attract its share:
- Lewis Hamilton's dad and ex-manager Anthony was a total stage dad. Lewis eventually had to fire him, and they're no longer on speaking terms.
- Max Verstappen's father Jos was himself a F1 driver (best remembered not for his driving so much as having caught fire once) who really wanted Max to be a racing driver. He started his son racing when he was just four years old, was a harsh disciplinarian, has a record of assault (and a restraining order against him from Max's mother), and forced Max to debut professionally at age 17 (which, by the way, is too young to legally drive any care in several countries, including the country he races for). Max couldn't finish that first race because of a blown engine (so through no fault of his own), but the cameras caught Jos' visible disgust.
- Hockey player Eric Lindros had stage parents who made a big impact on his career. Lindros was widely expected to be the next great superstar when he was a teenager, and he was set to be drafted first overall by the NHL's Quebec Nordiques in 1991. Neither of his parents wanted him to play for the Nordiques, partly because Quebec City was small, provincial, French-speaking, and unlikely to market him properly (and partly because the Nordiques were a tire-fire of an organization that was perpetually broke and rumored to want to leave Quebec themselves). The Nordiques drafted Lindros despite declaring (at his parents' behest) that he wouldn't sign. He refused to play for them and held out for a year before the Nordiques were able to trade him to the Philadelphia Flyers. This got Lindros' career off on the wrong foot and made him an early pariah with a Jerk Ass reputation. Lindros did go on to become a very good player for the Flyers, until his career (and that of his little brother) was cut short by injuries.note
- Tennis seems to love this trope:
- Australian/Serbian player Jelena Dokic's father/coach Damir was notorious for his aggressive and abusive courtside behaviour when she began playing in major tournaments. He also moved his family back from Australia to Serbia after accusing Australian tennis officials of match-fixing. She eventually managed to break away from him, sacking him as her coach and moving back to and competing for Australia.
- Mary Pierce's father/coach Jim admitted to training her when she was a child by repeatedly serving balls with his full strength at her face, notoriously screamed "kill the bitch!" at her from the audience during a match when she was twelve, and was on the receiving end of a restraining order from her in 1993, after which he got stabbed by her bodyguard.
- Bernard Tomic's father/coach John was banned from the ATP tour after he assaulted his son's hitting partner Thomas Drouet. He has reportedly been verbally and physically abusive to his own son for a long time; Drouet said that he once saw him punch Bernard in the mouth during practice.
- German icon Steffi Graf was introduced to the sport by her father, a car-salesman-turned-tennis-coach who later became her manager and kept a tight grip on her schedule. He eventually landed in jail for tax fraud.
- Plenty of fans would like to see Andy Murray's mother/former coach/now heavily involved in the women's game Judy take a step back.
- Bill Butterfield was a man from suburban Dallas whose athletic aspirations were cut short in high school when his girlfriend became pregnant. He then tried to mold both his sons into sports stars in his place, through a strict diet and training regimen and years of verbal and emotional abuse. His elder son Billy eventually just walked away, leaving his father to focus on younger son Lance, who was eight at the time. Over the years, Bill became increasingly controlling, abusive, and crazy towards Lance, dictating his life, recording his matches, giving him steroids, and eventually beating him daily. His wife sometimes tried to intervene, only to be cowed into submission herself. The final straw for both was Lance's relationship with a girl named Kim; for Bill, it was the specter of his own downfall, and for Lance, it was his father becoming downright obsessive with ending the relationship and keeping it ended. Eventually, on December 27, 1995, Lance snapped and shot him dead. Tellingly, at Lance's murder trial, the crowd booed the prosecution; the defense, meanwhile, fielded dozens of character witnesses for Lance, including Bill's own sister and father (the latter writing a sworn affidavit that Lance shouldn't be prosecuted), but the prosecution could not find a single person who would testify that Bill Butterfield was a good man.
- Marv Marinovich, father of former NFL player Todd Marinovich, tried to engineer Todd from birth to be the perfect quarterback. In high school and college, Todd earned the nickname "Robo QB", because he was like a machine. Nobody else had his training and diet regimen, so there was no one who could compete with him. That changed when he got to the NFL, where he was an infamous bust. Todd never especially liked football; he just couldn't tell his obsessed father he wanted to do something else. Once he got to the NFL, with no one to tell him what to do, he spent more of his time getting stoned than maintaining his "Robo QB" talent.
- In 2017, an Irish teenager sued his former football club for allegedly causing him post-traumatic stress disorder by dropping him from the under-15 team. The boy's father was the team's former coach, and behind the scenes, he complained to the club's board and even unsuccessfully attempted to bring a vote of no confidence in the team's current coach. Unsurprisingly, the judge ruled in the club's favour, and he saw exactly what was going on, explicitly telling the boy's father to distance himself from his son's sporting career.
- LaVar Ball quickly made a name for himself as a basketball dad, promoting his three sons as future NBA stars as soon as they were teenagers. He also has his own athletic apparel brand and unashamedly uses his sons to promote it in a feeble attempt to go up against the big names like Nike and Adidas. His oldest son Lonzo is a genuinely talented college player who was drafted second overall by the Los Angeles Lakers in 2017 (good thing, too, because LaVar insisted Lonzo would only play for the Lakers), but some basketball fans are actively rooting for Lonzo to become a bust and for the Lakers to implode just to get LaVar off their TVs and out of the picture. Among other things, Lonzo turned down a multi-million dollar shoe endorsement deal with Nike and signed up with his father's company, a huge financial gamble that would likely only benefit LaVar if anybody, and a move many saw as forced on him by LaVar.
- Roy Jones Jr's father was an abusive man who was driven to mould his son into becoming a successful professional boxer, forcing him to fight grown men at the age of 8, train ridiculously hard at a young age, and encourage him into getting into cockfighting. Jones Jr has gone on record saying that he isn't afraid of any punishment he takes in the ring, because what his dad used to do to him was worse.
- Defied by former NFL quarterback Archie Manning. Despite knowing the ins and outs of making it to the NFL (having played himself) and having three sons (Cooper, Peyton, and Eli) with huge potential, he had almost no involvement in his sons' football careers. When the boys reached high school age, Archie and his wife sent them to a prep school in New Orleans with rigorous academic standards and a poor football program because he felt school was more important. Even after the kids became hot college recruits, Archie didn't force them to attend his alma mater Ole Miss and let them choose their schools (though Cooper and Eli picked Ole Miss anyway). Though the college coaches invited him in sit in on games and meetings and discuss offensive strategies, Archie declined and sat in the stands on game day like a regular fan. In the end, Peyton and Eli became NFL quarterbacks with Hall of Fame worthy careers that surpass their father's, while Cooper may have made it as a wide receiver had it not been for a severe spinal condition that forced him to retire in college.
- Wanda Holloway, the woman who inspired The Positively True Adventures of the Alleged Texas Cheerleader-Murdering Mom and Willing to Kill: The Texas Cheerleader Story, asked her brother-in-law to hire a hitman, who was in turn asked to kill the mother of her kid's rival in a cheerleading competition.
- In any show about child pageants, all the moms and more than one dad shown will be like this, more often than not to sickening degrees. The show Toddlers & Tiaras is almost entirely dedicated to showing them off. Some of these pageant moms' exploits:
- One particularly sickening example is the story of Kerry Campbell, who gave her eight-year-old daughter Botox injections. When she was found out, she not only defended this practice (claiming it was never too early get your child cosmetic surgery to "get rid of the lines"), but also claimed that other pageant moms practiced this as well. The fact that the story turned out to be fake did nothing to dispel it.
- One 5-year-old girl named Carley developed an alter-ego called Darla to cope with her mom's pushing her to win beauty pageants. In other words, the mother's abuse led to her daughter developing dissociative identity disorder.
- Joel McHale of The Soup fame usually saves his most vicious snark and insults for these particular parents. One such parent was compared unfavorably to Cronos, the Titan famous for eating his children when they were born.
- George Sampson, the winner of Britain's Got Talent in 2008, should have had a very promising career after his victory in the show. Unfortunately, his career was run into the ground in less than a year, in no small part due to his obnoxious and extremely demanding mother, who was largely responsible for Simon Cowell's company ditching Sampson after they became sick of her. Sampson made a rebound, however, after starring in the 2010 Street Dance.
- Rose Hovick, mother of burlesque star Gypsy Rose Lee and actress June Havoc, became legendary for this trope following Gypsy's 1957 autobiography and the subsequent musical adaptation Gypsy as mentioned above.
- A common nickname for Kris Jenner (mother of Kim, Kourtney, and Khloe Kardashian, as well as Kendall and Kylie Jenner) is PMK — short for "Pimp Mama Kris". It's commonly believed that she forced her daughters into Reality TV stardom and modeling careers as a means of living out her own dreams of fortune and celebrity. It's most evident from her comments on Kim's famous sex tape:
- Claude Drouet, mother of Child Prodigy poetess Marie Noelle "Minou" Drouet., was accused of being the real author of Minou's works. While this was ultimately proven false when Minou wrote stuff without her mom being present, the pressure soundly affected the poor little girl.
- Margaret Palermo, the mother of popular Youtuber Venus Isabelle Palermo (a.k.a. Venus Angelic), was under suspicion of being a stage mom ever since the start of her daughter's career. It was fully confirmed in 2016, when Venus ran away from her with her boyfriend and later husband to Japan, where she now resides and works (as of 2017). Ever since then, Margaret has been ranting and complaining online about her daughter and her career and trying to hijack her accounts.
- The Sony hacks in December 2014 revealed that during Jeopardy!'s 2014 "Kids' Week" games, a Stage Mom caused a stir with host Alex Trebek when she demanded that a round be re-shot. Trebek threatened to quit rather than giving in to her demands. This was the last straw to the already troublesome games, as Jeopardy! hasn't done "Kids' Week" since, and the series has all but distanced itself from them.
- Downplayed with the Knight family - a Professional Wrestling dynasty in Norwich, England.
- Paige never had any interest in becoming a wrestler and only trained at their school for fun. She only had her first match because someone else dropped out on the night of a show - and she was picked to replace her. Since then Saraya Knight confessed to knowing that fans find her daughter attractive and marketed plenty of posters and merchandise to sell. Paige recounts a story of being in a car accident one evening and her father still making her wrestle later. Paige did later develop passion for wrestling in her own right, and making it to WWE was entirely her decision.
- Her older sister was a straighter example, pushed into wrestling from a young age and nearly got sent to Japan to train when she was only twelve. For those who don't know, Japanese training is a whole different ball game altogether - pretty much resembling Training from Hell.