This index compiles tropes that illustrate how gender is used in fiction.
Male and female characters are subject to different forms of characterization and they are exploited as plot devices in different ways. One overarching way is the active-male/passive-female dichotomy. Women are judged more by their passive attributes and men by their actions. Within that dynamic is a sub-dynamic in which women's interior world of emotional reactions is expected to exert more of an influence on the actions of others than men's interior world.
Another way to look at it is this: female characters are defined by the passive value that others give them, male characters are defined by their actions, usually to protect or win that which they find valuable. Female characters have passive value but they don't create it while male characters don't have passive value so they must create active value. Female characters can be exploited for their passive value and male characters are expendable if they fail to create their own value by advancing the plot through their actions.
This index is divided into five sections:
- Gender Dynamic Metatropes: Illustrating the underlying dynamic in the characterization of male and female characters that give rise to many Double Standards.
- Female Tropes: How the Gender Dynamic Metatropes manifest for female characters.
- Male Tropes: How the Gender Dynamic Metatropes manifest for male characters.
- Contrasts: Direct contrasts between Always Female and Always Male Tropes that illustrate gender dynamics.
- In Real Life: Research that illustrates aspects of Gender Dynamics. (Acceptable: studies on double standards in how we view men and women or media that illustrates a double standard. Unacceptable: Political writings aiming to use evidence of double standards to advance an agenda.)
This index is not for complaining about Double Standards, arguing which gender has it worsenote , or going on wild tangents about what these tropes could be implying. This index is about observations of the use of gender in fiction. We'd like to see positive changes, ie. more balance in the portrayal of male and female characters, but debates on the morality of the use of gender in fiction don't belong here. If you want to add discussion of the effects of these tropes in real life, be moderate, consider both sides of the equation and be brief. If you disagree with anything on this page, take it to the discussion page to avoid natter.
Some tropes end up in both the male and female categories; this is due to the reinforcing nature of misandry and misogyny. Where there's one there is usually the other as well. Also, when adding an example to this page, keep in mind how it reflects and illustrates the dynamics listed—don't just add it because it's annoying, stupid, or sinister. (That's what the Unfortunate Implications and Double Standard pages are for.) Please avoid implicating a gender or group as responsible for these dynamics as well; they're dynamics, everyone is responsible for maintaining them, from primary caregivers of children to media moguls to politicians to social activists promoting them while attempting to correct them.
Gender Dynamic MetatropesThese metatropes underlie most of the Double Standards regarding male and female characterization in media.
- Everybody Wants the Hermaphrodite: Hermaphrodites are sex bombs because they have men's "having sex is a mark of honor" code without women's "sex makes you a whore" stigma despite having attributes of both genders.
- Guys Smash, Girls Shoot: Weapons appropriate for either gender.
- Higher Education Is for Women: Men go to work while women go to college.
- Male Might, Female Finesse: Force and Finesse, applicable to men and women, respectively.
- Men Are Generic, Women Are Special: Men are the generic, default, or normal form of humanity; women are a special sub-category or are "other".
- Men Are Strong, Women Are Pretty: Men are attractive as long as they're active and/or physically strong or strive to become so. Women are born attractive and if they're not, nothing but plastic surgery will ever make them attractive.
- Men Act, Women Are: Men are expected to be active and create their value through their achievements; women are allowed to be passive and take their value from passive attributes.
- Men Get Old, Women Get Replaced: Males are important enough to stay around for as long as they need; female characters are replaced as soon as they get old and unattractive.
- Men Like Dogs, Women Like Cats: Dogs are considered active and masculine, whereas cats are considered passive and feminine.
- Men Use Violence, Women Use Communication: Men physically destroy the enemy, accepting a compromise only if all else fails. Women parley with the enemy and compromise, resorting to physical violence as a last resort.
- Mother Nature, Father Science: Women are nature-oriented and caring, whereas men are science-oriented and industrious.
Female TropesAs a rule in fiction, the default assumption is that Women Are Delicate. Used as plot devices and story trappings, female characters tend to be used as Fanservice, to provide motivation for other characters, a way of generating a feeling of horror in the audience and as a source of in story emotional reactions to events. In terms of characterization, female characters tend to be characterized by their relationships to other characters and by their passive attributes, and tend to exhibit more passive emotions.
Overall there are four categories to how women are portrayed in fiction: Objectified, Reactive, Relational and Motivational.
See also the index Acceptable Feminine Goals and Traits.
- Bait-and-Switch Lesbians
- Cat Fight: Fights between women are often played as fanservice or amusing bickering rather than legitimate, serious battle.
- Cute Monster Girl: Female monsters still have to be attractive to human males.
- Discount Lesbians
- Double Standard: Rape, Female on Female: Objectification taken to the extreme, never the victim's opinion about being molested by another woman. No penis, thus nothing serious and there's nothing to complain about.
- Faux Action Girl: Everyone says she's an Action Girl, but she never shows her chops. Male characters being "actified", they only rarely fall prey to this.
- Girl-on-Girl Is Hot: Ironically, lesbians tend to be a Periphery Demographic for Girl-on-Girl Is Hot; straight men are the main target.
- Green-Skinned Space Babe
- Hooker with a Heart of Gold
- Lady Not-Appearing-in-This-Game
- Male Gaze: A great way to objectify women is zoom the camera in on either their cleavage or rump.
- Missing White Woman Syndrome
- Most Common Super Power
- Ms. Fanservice: When portrayed poorly, a female character runs the risk of being little more than eye candy rather than a well-rounded character who happens to have a bunch of eye candy shots. Although the latter is becoming more common.
- My Eyes Are Up Here
- Neutral Female: She's not doing anything to advance the plot, she's just there to be fought over. Not unlike the last piece of cake at a child's birthday party.
- Sweeps Week Lesbian Kiss: In case you're wondering, just because you're a lesbian doesn't mean you can't be objectified.
- Vanity Is Feminine: Women must care about nothing else than their potential to be objectified. If they don't, they're not real women.
Female characters are often judged harshly on their lack of passive value. Passive value can be either physical beauty and/or helplessness and vulnerability. And women who refuse to embody these traits are often portrayed as lesbians or man-haters (despite the fact that women who wish to avoid the objectification/actification dynamic might be doing so for its negative effects on men just as much as its negative effects on women).
- Abhorrent Admirer: Being average or ugly is inexcusable for a woman. Ridiculing her for her failure at being properly feminine is perfectly justified.
- The Baroness: Of the "Rosa Klebb" type. Only physically unattractive and sexually unavailable villainesses are treated as serious threats, again for their passive attributes rather than their effective acts. Double points if they're also lesbians.
- Christmas Cake: Women reach an "expiration date," after which they are perceived as old and less desirable.
- Brawn Hilda: Physically strong women are usually mannish, unfeminine, ugly, and Played for Laughs. Balanced out by the Amazonian Beauty, but since the woman is conventionally beautiful to begin with, it's a Broken Aesop.
- Death by Disfigurement: Almost always female, since losing one's beauty is a death sentence for female characters.
- Fat Girl: Being fat, or just rotund, is also unfeminine and worthy of contempt.
- Old Maid: See "Christmas Cake"
- Psycho Lesbian: A true lesbian—meaning not bisexual—is perceived as a sexual competitor who refuses to be sexualized, thus evil and crazy.
- Lesbian Vampire: Same deal as above, with the added benefit of being inherently evil.
- Tomboy: Active and refuses the feminine gender code—made fun of, expected to grow out of it, presumed to be lesbian.
- Vasquez Always Dies: One reason why women with lots of agency might be earmarked for death is that they are not helpless and vulnerable, thus have lower passive value.
- White-Dwarf Starlet, along with
- Hollywood Old: Old women (ie past 50) are sexually undesirable thus have lost all intrinsic passive value they could have had. They can sometimes play to the relational part of the dynamics but almost always as a Disposable Woman, proving one more time that old age is a female character's doom.
A side effect of Objectification is that women can only be moral objects and not moral actors. Consequently, more often than not, a woman's chastity and general attitude towards sexuality is the sole unit of measure of her morality. Many of these tropes are being challenged in Western media, however, they still hold considerable sway, possibly because their inverse, that male sexuality is dirty, damaging and defiling has not been addressed to any great degree. It may be that men have to be seen as having sexual innocence (and, conversely, women an equal sexual potency) in order for women to stop being judged by their innocence.
- All Women Are Prudes: Women should be averse to the idea of sex and preferably frigid when they have it. It ensures their morality.
- Defiled Forever: Doesn't matter if the "sullying" was from actual rape, if you're a woman and you've had sex, you're damaged goods.
- Disposable Sex Worker: Goes without saying.
- Lie Back and Think of England: When a woman has the audacity to engage in sexual intercourse with a man, even if he's her husband, she shouldn't experience pleasure. Only disgusting sluts have orgasms without a doctor's prescription.
- MadonnaWhore Complex and
- Slut-Shaming: A woman is judged solely on her hymen. If she still has it, she's pure and perfect. If she doesn't, she's a whore who should be ashamed of existing and must be treated as she deserves i.e. getting a Cruel and Unusual Death.
- My Girl Is Not a Slut: Only chaste women and virgins are worthy of romance.
- Rape Portrayed as Redemption: Are you a "bad girl", or even a "bad boy"? You need some Karmic Punishment to teach you to be more passive, and thusly, to be a better person!
- Nature Adores a Virgin: Applicable mostly to females. Virgins are unable to do bad deeds, as the hymen is a woman's Morality Chip.
- Virgin Power
- Virgin Sacrifice
- Virgin Tension: Virginity is highly desirable in a woman for it heightens the "purity" of women's body.
And, in some cultures, a very negative effect of reducing women's value down to their passive attributes, in this case, sexual chastity, is:exactly the same dynamic. The implication is that a woman's femaleness, not her chosen actions, have made her better than men. Telling girls that they have the power to make the world better because they are girls and not because of their personal choices, once again reduces girls' value down to their passive attributes!
This trend ties into an older trend of viewing women as morally and emotionally superior to men; reflected in the Victorian concept of the 'Angel in the house'.
- Father's Day versus Mother's Day: Both are intended to be celebrations of the good things parents do and appreciation for them. However, Father's Day is also used as a rallying cry against bad fathers (abusers, deadbeats) whereas it would tend to be seen as completely inappropriate to criticize mothers on Mother's Day.
- Female Angel, Male Demon: Angels are often portrayed as females because positive attributes such as kindness, refinement, and mercy are associated with femininity.
- Flawless Token: They're incapable of making mistakes.
- Men Are Childish and
- Parenting the Husband: Takes Women Are Wiser to it's most insulting by portraying all men as idiots in need of a woman to guide them.
- Women Are Wiser: Female characters are shown to be more competent and wise then male characters.
One additional effect of focusing on female character's passive attributes rather than their actions is that their actions tend to have fewer negative consequences because female characters aren't seen as responsible in the same way male characters are.
On the one hand, this could be seen as a positive benefit to female characters because they avoid punishment, but on the other hand, the lesser consequences make the moral choices of female characters less compelling—thus female characters less compelling.
Additionally, media exerts influence on how we model our own choices in life. By softening the consequences of a female character's moral choices with excuses—or presenting women as morally perfect to begin with—the potency of moral choice is removed for both female character and female audience. Girls learn that their femaleness—passive attribute—is always more important to an outcome than their actual actions.
- Females Are More Innocent: Female loathsome villains are rarer because it is believed women never partake in evildoing for the sake of it. There's almost always a man responsible for making her that way. Never a Self-Made Woman meets Women Are Wiser.
- High-HeelFace Turn: Consequence of the above. Since women are never moral actors, villainesses need a man with a stronger morality to orient them in the right direction. Thus, females are more redeemable than men.
- Karma Houdini: more often applied to villainous female characters.
- Villainesses Want Heroes: All a villainess needs to be redeemed is true love. Or just good sex.
- Wouldn't Hit a Girl: Even if she is a Complete Monster, her female parts trump any actions that cause her to deserve a good ass whupin'. Unless, of course, the ass-whupin' is done by another woman.
In summary, objectification is when a female character is reduced down to her passive attributes and her agency denied. It can manifest in being valued for fanservice, but more subtly when a female character is characterized as good or competent because she's female or her negative actions downplayed as the fault of a male character. The implication is that objects, namely women, don't have the ability to make moral choices; their existence is summed up by their attributes and all their apparent 'choices' are the result of the agency of real people, namely men.
Succinctly, objectification is when a woman's femaleness is presented as more important to the story and her characterization then her actions or choices.
The reactions of female characters are also used to characterize other characters. A character who causes distress to a woman is usually a villain or at best a dark Antihero. This distress can be caused by as little as arguing with her or speaking harshly to her. In extreme cases, this is one reason why the trope Double Standard: Abuse, Female on Male exists. The initial female on male abuse is ignored because calling the woman out on it, much less responding in kind, would lead to her being upset.
In terms of characterization, female characters often put more emphasis on their emotional reactions to events and actions taken by others than actual actions taken in response. A female character's emotional sensitivity is seen as a big part of her femininity (see "The Princess and the Pea"). In essence, the more vulnerable, the more delicate, the more she suffers, and the greater emphasis on her inability to recover or take proactive action—her victimhood—the more feminine she appears. Even in modern works, this holds true. Active women may be portrayed as positive characters, but their agency does not make them more feminine.
Overall, anything that creates a negative emotional reaction in women is bad; anything that creates a positive emotional reaction in women is good. To see this in action, observe media for how often it portrays the following sequence; A unexpected revelation is made or there is a surprising action taken, followed by a close-up shot of a woman reacting. Adjust for the relative proportions of male and female characters.
This is likely a result of the Women Are Wonderful effect. What is good for women is seen as good for everyone; conversely, what is bad for women is seen as bad for everyone. This may sound favourable (and in certain circumstances, it definitely is); however, it limits women's drive to achieve and makes their passive attributes more important then their personal successes—what's valuable about women is something they have no control over and don't build for themselves.
- Final Girl: To maintain the horror in horror movies usually requires a female protagonist.
- Monster Misogyny: Monsters who target women are perceived as more threatening.
- Rape Is a Special Kind of Evil: But only if it happens to a woman and if the perpetrator is male. Otherwise
- Rape and Revenge: Often implies that losing her lady parts' integrity is the sole situation where a woman can get proactive.
- Screaming Woman: The motivation for many a Knight in Shining Armor to take action.
Creator and audience ambivalence is often expressed towards women in powerful roles who necessarily have to take on a proactive versus reactive role. Their femininity is often portrayed in opposition to their duty to their people to be proactive and strong and their relationship to power is rarely as natural-feeling as a man in the same position. Although some brands of evil powerful figure are disproportionately female (See God Save Us from the Queen! and Lady Macbeth), as the trope Iron Lady notes, most female leaders are super-competent and less corrupt than their male counterparts.
Although seemingly positive, this may, again, be a reflection of ambivalence towards female power. We feel more comfortable examining all aspects of male power, including the negative ones; these examinations make us far more uncomfortable when it comes to female power—this ambivalence in some cultures manifests as portraying female power as all bad and in ours as all good. Perhaps because a balanced portrayal would make female power more grounded and real rather than stereotypical and unreal thus dismissible as fantasy.
Modeling failure—as well as a success—in female characters is also one way of empowering women to view their success as a result of personal effort rather than unchanging attributes (See Real Life for research into why this is so very important). Also, most powerful people in real life are rarely all good or all bad, just effective.
- Aggressive Submissive: A dominant character who has a submissive sexual side. Mostly these are women or gay men.
- Evil Matriarch
- Family Versus Career
- God Save Us from the Queen!
- Go-Getter Girl
- Iron Lady
- No Guy Wants an Amazon: Female characters who take action rather than motivate men sacrifice their attractiveness and femininity. (Is balanced out in some respect by Amazon Chaser.)
- No Guy Wants to Be Chased: Romantic agency in female characters is undesirable to male characters.
- Quickly-Demoted Woman
- Rape and Revenge: Rape is often seen as an acceptable in-universe motivation for a female character to become a badass—thus embracing greater agency—and avenge herself. In a way, this supports the idea that agency and action are innately male; only women who are deeply wronged by men become active and only then to punish men for their actions against them—being forced into an active role becomes part of the negative emotional fallout of rape for the woman. This is a somewhat old-fashioned trope.
- Vasquez Always Dies: Masculine women are more likely to be earmarked for heroic sacrifices than feminine women. It could be because of the discomfort between agency and femininity, it could also be because the woman in question moves from the reactive-valued dynamic of femininity to the active-sacrificial dynamic of masculinity.
- The Woman Wearing the Queenly Mask: Suggests that women are usually unhappy with wielding power and find no fulfillment through it. Somewhat balanced out by the more gender-neutral The Chains of Commanding.
One example of the Reactive dynamic for female characters is how emotional dynamics are portrayed in families in fiction. Often children (mostly male children) tend to the emotional needs of their mothers. This is usually portrayed as charming and sweet, rather than abusive and creepy. A specific example would be after a death in the family, after which children are portrayed as tiptoeing around and tending to the emotions of their mothers. Often, these mothers are labeled as pillars of strength for the family; however, they function in story more like emotional albatrosses. This despite the fact that a mother is necessarily older and more mature then her children (yes, even adult children), thus has had more time to develop the wisdom and emotional strength to guide her children through emotional trials.
- Adults Are Useless
- (Faux) Apron Matron
- Hysterical Woman: Pulling women's reactions to a ridiculous extreme.
Another example is how emotional reactions tend to be portrayed as more of the concern of female characters, particularly positive or empathetic emotions (as opposed to anger, hate, and jealousy). Female characters are often shown mediating disputes between male characters, offering solace to other characters caught in a reactive moment (where they are depressed or upset at something), and if a mook expresses concern over the morally dubious behavior of the Big Bad or his orders, almost invariably it will be a female mook (the lone female mook of a bad boss is always the one to bet on for a HeelFace Turn; she is almost never depicted as relishing the evil she does). Rarely are male characters depicted offering each other an emotionally safe space as this might come across as uncomfortably effeminate or gay (the only exception seems to be war movies). This has the effect of making sympathetic emotions the domain of female characters, which somewhat ridiculous because all people have them and there is evidence that we can't think or make decisions without emotions and this includes the positive and sympathetic emotions. Essentially without them, far from being more effective, we are paralyzed with indecision.
- The Chick
- The Empath: Almost always a female.
- Heart Is an Awesome Power
- What Kind of Lame Power Is Heart, Anyway?
- Women Are Wiser
In summary, the Reactive dynamic uses female character reaction as a shorthand way of illustrating how we should feel about setting, events, and characters in the story. Often these reactions are necessarily negative because without conflict there is no plot. This can start feeling somewhat misogynistic. Until audiences start consistently caring about events, settings, and characters negatively impacting on the reactive interior world of male characters, this dynamic is unlikely to change.
- All Lesbians Want Kids: Even lesbians need to be in a relationship with a man. Somehow.
- Career Versus Man
- The Chief's Daughter
- Daddy's Little Villain
- Dark Mistress: A villain's Satellite Love Interest.
- Disposable Love Interest: 99% percent of the time, it's a woman.
- Everything's Better with Princesses: Princesses, by default, combine both Relational and Reactive dynamics: they are defined mainly by their relation to the (usually male) monarch and are born into high status, (usually) without having to work for it. The motivational role is often included for free in classical plots, and said high status complements the Achievement-Oriented male dynamic, since "getting a princess" sounds better than "getting a girl". Following subtypes are particularly affected:
- Princess Classic: Her relationship to her father is what she derives all of her significance from.
- Family Versus Career: Female characters have to choose between being valued for their relationships and being valued for their actions. Relationships often win out.
- Feminine Women Can Cook: Making food is women's only acceptable proactive ability, often suggested to be somehow innate to femininity.
- The General's Daughter
- Girl of the Week
- Good Girls Avoid Abortion: Morality debates aside, refusing to be a mother often equates refusing to be a real woman.
- I Have Brothers: May overlap with Never a Self-Made Woman to imply that Tomboy traits come from older, male siblings.
- I Want Grandkids
- Lineage Comes from the Father: Only men transmit nobility and honor through their bloodlines, women only get to be disposable vessels who earn their title from marriage or paternal descent. Consequently, when the mother is noble and the father is not, their child isn't considered part of the bloodline.
- Mad Scientist's Beautiful Daughter
- Mandatory Motherhood
- The Mistress: Often has no relevance to the plot other than being a guy's "side dish" wishing to become the "main course".
- My Biological Clock Is Ticking: Women must have children before their menopause if they want to be recognized as valuable members of society.
- Never a Self-Made Woman: Because it's both acceptable and expected for female characters to take their value from passive attributes, they often are portrayed as family members or love interests of more accomplished male characters.
- Satellite Love Interest: Disproportionately a woman.
- Temporary Love Interest: Ditto.
The difference between Reactive and Motivational dynamics is the focus. With the Reactive dynamic, the focus is on female characters' reactions to events; with the Motivational dynamic, the focus is on female characters motivating other characters. Often female character's reactions will be used to set up the motivations of other characters—or help the audience buy into those motivations. A classic female-reaction/character-motivation set up involves a scene of a distressed damsel chained to train tracks screaming her head off paired with a shot of The Hero rushing to her rescue on his white steed. There is no question what's motivating his action.
The existence of the Motivational dynamic in media is why despite being portrayed as passive, events in plots often seem to revolve around female characters.
- Always Save the Girl
- Cartwright Curse: Disposable Woman taken Up to Eleven.
- Chickification: Female characters can function, in story, to motivate other characters as well as being heroes in their own right. That's why female characters survive Badass Decay into a Damsel in Distress without facing death or being written out of a series like male characters. They can still fulfill a plot-important function by motivating others.
- Damsel in Distress
- Disposable Woman: Her only purpose is to be killed off, preferably in a gruesome manner, so a male character can avenge her to prove his manliness.
- Lady Macbeth: Even when it comes to evildoing, evil women usually limit themselves to motivating villains into acting evil.
- Leg Cling
- The Lost Lenore: An Always Female Love Interest whose death still affects the main character or his entourage. Male examples do exist but are much rarer.
- Manic Pixie Dream Girl: She exists solely to cheer up, nurture, and inspire a brooding, depressed guy and motivate him to prove his manliness by solving some major problem for the world. She has no life to speak of otherwise.
- Moe: In its' most extreme form, Moe encourages a romantic or sexual attraction to helplessness, whether the character in question is male or female.
- Morality Pet, Morality Chain: Often a younger, smaller, weaker, kinder female character who keeps an older, bigger, stronger, meaner male character from going off the moral deep end. And his concern for her gives people a reason to care about him.
- Roaring Rampage of Revenge: Often inspired by the death of a male protagonist's wife, daughter or sister.
- Stuffed into the Fridge: Disproportionately a woman.
- Wife-Basher Basher
A necessary consequence of focusing on female character's motivational qualities rather than their action is:
- Stay in the Kitchen: Taking physical action is unfeminine and deprives men of the motivation of "a home to protect".
Female characters with dubious morals can use this trope to deceive and manipulate other characters to do their bidding.
- Female Misogynist: Conservative variants are often of the opinion that women are weaker than men yet immediately follow up with "and that's why men should be protecting and providing for them." A strangely paradoxical position in which a women's weakness is employed as a means to rule men.
- Munchausen Syndrome: Female characters will fake illness not to achieve a goal but to get sympathy.
- Wounded Gazelle Gambit: A female character fakes an injury to herself to achieve some goal.
- Wounded Gazelle Warcry: A female character gets herself in harm's way so the male heroes have a reason to avenge her.
- Action Girl: A female character whose greatest value is her agency and her actions to advance the plot.
- Amazon Chaser: A female character is desirable because of her proactivity.
- Damsel out of Distress: A traditional damsel as "getting captured for the plot" aspect but more likely to rescue herself or otherwise be a Defiant Captive instead of a passive observer.
- Double Standard: Rape, Female on Male: The crime of rape is justifiably considered horrific, but if inflicted by a woman on a man, nobody cares.
- Female Gaze
- Effortless Amazonian Lift: An attempt to show a woman's unexpected physical strength or her dominance in a relationship.
- Masculine Girl, Feminine Boy: Reversal of gender roles.
- Mistaken for Misogynist: A man who treats a woman unequal is actually revealed to be "gender blind" and have other motivations for their deferential or discriminatory treatment, usually a more positive motivation such as Tough Love to motivate the woman to succeed.
- Real Women Don't Wear Dresses: Strong women aren't feminine and shouldn't be; opens up a whole set of characterization problems. As a consequence of this is the Bald Women trope. When a woman wants to appear powerful and respectable, nothing does the trick better than shaving off her hair. It shows a refusal of femininity, thus a refusal of "being weak and incompetent".
- Rebellious Princess: The antithesis to Princess Classic, who rejects her relationship-based inherited status to make her own fortune. Unless, of course, her "rebellion" boils down to substituting one man (her father) with another (her love interest).
- Showing Up Chauvinists: a woman surprises others by performing well in a field normally dominated by men.
- Spirited Young Lady: a woman who, while fitting into her culture, knows what she wants and is active in getting it.
- Proper Lady and
- Silk Hiding Steel: More modernist takes on these types of characters emphasize that traits which are traditionally considered feminine aren't necessarily weaknesses. When poorly executed, can lead to the implication that strong women are always feminine, and should be.
- Sisterhood Eliminates Creep: Multiple women team up on one male.
- Yamato Nadeshiko: The Japanese variant of the above.
- World of Action Girls: Where a setting tends to toward female characters being more likely to provide the action than males, or where it seems every woman is innately badass.
Male Tropes:As for plot devices and story trappings, male characters tend to be used as expendable minions or pawns creating a sense of danger in a story or establishing a protagonist as a badass. Certain actions taken against men are more acceptable than equivalent actions taken against women as their emotional effects on men are more easily ignored. Male characterization tends towards focusing on action rather than emotional reaction and men exhibit more proactive emotions.
Overall there are four categories to how men are portrayed in fiction: Actified, Proactive, Achievement-orientated and Expendable.
Such patterns also run a risk of stepping into the much darker territory: action taking from men often involves violence and killing other people—almost always other men and almost all exceptions to this rule are villains—at one point or another. Even though it is widely thought as a rite of passage, this expectation associates "real" manliness with the readiness to do violence to other men, often in the service of saving women. Also applies when the story focuses on getting Revenge.
- All Girls Want Bad Boys
- Blood Knight: Lives only for the battle and has no other purpose in life aside from this.
- The Brute
- Implacable Man: Just like the Magnificent Bastard, impressive to watch but impossible to match in Real Life.
- The Juggernaut
- Magnificent Bastard: Fun to watch but impossible to emulate in real life.
- Manly Men Can Hunt: Once again implies men should love the thrill of killing.
- Rated M for Manly: Blatantly associates manliness with gratuitous violence, Jerkassery, selfishness, death and destruction instead of more honorable values; can be played out well but it's rare.
- A Real Man Is a Killer: "True" manhood is primarily about being violent and enjoying it; also associates men with death and destruction.
- Testosterone Poisoning: Manliness often has to be stereotypical and blown out of proportion to be perceived as credible.
- Training from Hell: Men should always undergo the nastiest training possible when they want to improve.
Male characters who fail to live up to an impossible standard of action-taking or being successful (just as you can never be too busy or too thin if you're a woman, there're always more macho things to achieve if you're a man), are failures as men and just like women who fail to be properly feminine, are punished by death or ridicule:
- Butt-Monkey: Male examples are often this because they do not conform to stereotypical masculinity.
- Bury Your Disabled: Disproportionately a man, unless they manage to become a Handicapped Badass. But don't count on it if they use a wheelchair.
- Evil Cripple: Almost Always Male, because being unable to take action also trumps a male character's morality.
- Inspirationally Disadvantaged: Again disproportionately a man. This rather condescending trope carries the unfortunate subtext that only those who compensate for their disability by being brainy or active by proxy deserve a second chance but God forbids they ever angst over the loss of their mobility.
- Men Are the Expendable Gender: Self-explanatory.
- Sissy Villain: A man who is not manly must be evil and worthy of been beaten.
- What Measure Is a Non-Badass?: The worst offense a man could make is not to live up to the audience's expectations of badassery.
The emphasis on male characters' actions over their attributes may be a contributing factor to the idea that virginity in men is undesirable. Virginity is valuable as a marker of innocence and newness but real men should be taking their value from their actions, not their lack of action. That and also the fact that male sexuality is considered simple and unworthy of study (why going to a proctologist is still considered shameful even as people get more accepting of women going to gynecologists). In fact, it is rarely ever addressed in as much detail as female sexuality, implying that men have no complexity or nuance in their sexuality, other than being sex maniacs. Strangely this also holds true for gay men despite them being depicted as being more cultured then straight men in other areas. When they're not depicted as completely asexual, that is.
- Eunuchs Are Evil: The "logical" extreme of the idea that male virginity is a bad thing.
- I'm a Man; I Can't Help It: Probably the sole element of male sexuality to ever be acknowledged to exist.
- A Lady on Each Arm
- All Men Are Perverts: Virility is more about reveling in perversion than just enjoying sexuality.
- All Men Are Rapists: The default setting for a man is 'rapist'.
- A Man Is Always Eager and
- Must Not Die a Virgin: Disproportionately applied to virgin men.
- Nature Abhors a Virgin: Almost always a man.
- Unexpected Virgin: Seen as a negative occurrence when it comes to men.
- Virgin-Shaming: Expect virgin men to be made fun of and considered weak.
One possible consequence of actification is the fact that gay men are viewed as more gay or perverted than lesbians. The focus is on the men's actions, not their emotional responses, which may tend to make people view gay men as insatiable sexual deviants but gay women as merely looking for love in an ultimately harmless but inappropriate way.
- All Gays Are Pedophiles
- All Gays Are Promiscuous
- Bury Your Gays
- Cure Your Gays
- Depraved Homosexual: Gay men are perceived as the "natural predators" of straight men, double points if they are of the Manly Gay type.
- Depraved Bisexual: Only bisexual men are really considered depraved, not women.
- Heteronormative Crusader: Usually much more disgusted with gay men than lesbians.
Male characters are also given disproportionate responsibility for the activities that transpire around them relative to female characters.
- Teacher/Student Romance: A male teacher seduces a female student; a female teacher is seduced by a male student.
- This Is Something He's Got to Do Himself: Disproportionately applied to male characters. Female characters who tend towards this sort of a loner, exclusive responsibility approach to their problems tend to get the Power of Friendship treatment more often.
- The Unfair Sex: If something goes wrong in a relationship, it's usually considered the man's fault. Questionable actions taken by men in a relationship are usually seen as worse than the exact same action taken by a woman.
It is also interesting to note that, somehow, Jerkassery is masculine. Being smug or just outright assholish (think House) is often seen as a sign of confidence and a willingness to be more proactive than others, thus acceptably manly. Consideration for others being a passive emotion, showing no care for anyone other than oneself, unfortunately, associates selfishness and self-centeredness with manhood. However, unless the character in question wants to run into villain territory he better be shown to respect and care for female characters in some way. Either his Jerkassery gets things done and saves the girl when a more compassionate approach wouldn't have worked, or he demonstrates a willingness to help old grannies across the street on his off hours.
Male characters are expected to set their emotional reactions to events aside in favor of responding proactively to them. In some cases, proactive emotions such as anger and hatred are acceptable, as long as they fuel the action. The more a man can shrug off emotionally, the more masculine he appears to be.
Because male characters are expected to be proactive, their emotional responses to events and characters tend to be downplayed and don't exert as much of an influence on the plot or other characters. An interesting effect of proactive versus reactive emotions is how they change our sense of sympathy for characters who are victims of other character's violence. Victims who react with anger tend to receive considerably less sympathy then victims who react with fear or pain.
- Get a Hold of Yourself, Man!: If a man does break down and get trapped in passive emotions rather than proactive, he needs a talking-to.
- How Much More Can He Take?: The tension is in seeing just how much damage a male character can take before he succumbs or gives in.
- Macho Masochism: Same as above but self-inflicted and over-the-top to the point of being laughable.
- Made of Iron: Male characters shake off things that would kill normal people or have them in serious therapy for the rest of their lives.
- Men Are Uncultured and Book Dumb: Being cultured implies receiving education and refinement. Cultural refinement or a focus on learning suggests an aversion to action. Also falls into Women Are Wiser.
- Men Don't Cry: Expressing sadness and sorrow is strictly forbidden for men since it's an unspoken confession of weakness. Only Berserker Tears are acceptable and Manly Tears, if acknowledged to exist, must be used sparingly.
- Nigh-Invulnerability: Incapable of being hurt at all.
- Real Men Hate Affection: In order to be seen as a man, a male character must not display passive emotions such as love and tenderness.
- Real Men Hate Sugar and Real Men Eat Meat: Related to the above and Manly Men Can Hunt.
- Slasher Smile: Smiling is an expression of joy which is somehow an unmanly emotion. It's only acceptable when it expresses a killing intent.
- The Stoic: Men shouldn't show emotion of any kind, not even positive ones.
In situations where a character needs more passive, nurturing emotions to succeed, male characters are often shown as useless or actively malevolent. This includes raising kids and other family situations.
Men's relationship with their children is often portrayed ambivalently. On the one hand, if they don't want children and their partners do (or are pregnant) they are often portrayed as unprepared and immature. If their partner gets pregnant on purpose to jumpstart or upgrade their relationship they are usually told to man up rather than having it recognized in story that forcing a person into parenthood is abuse. Men who want children when their partners do not are often portrayed as creepy, controlling and/or borderline abusive.
- Awkward Father-Son Bonding Activity
- Bumbling Dad: Fathers are often clueless around their children, especially widowers, single dads or when the child is a daughter.
- I Hate You, Vampire Dad
- Heir Club for Men: Noblemen are complete jerks to their daughters and only see their sons as vessels for the next generation. (And that's often all they see their sons as.)
- Mama's Baby, Papa's Maybe: Men need DNA testing if they can get it, to be sure that the child the woman bore is actually theirs. This is often played to make them look jealous.
- Overprotective Dad: Fathers have usually no other way to show their care for a daughter than being a judgemental obstacle to their love life.
- Panicky Expectant Father: Men are useless when it comes to childbirth and break down in hilarious hysterics as soon as labor starts. Even more amusing if the man was established as a badass and he faints during the delivery.
- Parental Abandonment: Almost always the fact of fathers.
- Raised by Dudes: Without the presence of women, men are usually shown to be unable to nurture and raise young children. If this can be played out positively when the kid is male and sufficiently grown up to walk, it is not the case at all for babies or little girls.
- "Well Done, Son!" Guy
- When You Coming Home, Dad?
A male character can be depicted as falling into a depression, almost always in response to his own failures as a man. If he fails to be proactive enough—by not protecting loved ones who then die, or, alternatively, for not upholding a standard of morality—he is allowed to succumb to sadness, self-loathing and guilt. But these emotions are always directed at his failure to be proactive resulting in others being hurt, not in response to events or the actions of others that hurt him.
An example of this dynamic is a heroic male character who somehow fails to protect another character (usually a woman) who then falls into a deep depression punctuated with guilt and self-doubt. Possibly leading to a situation where the hero needs to be roused out of his stupor to combat some greater threat.
- The Alcoholic and Drowning My Sorrows: Alcoholism being acceptably manly because of its potential danger to one's health, this is about the only expression of sadness that you'll ever see in a male character, along with...
- The Atoner: Gender-neutral in itself, but much more males than females apply for this character type.
- Dirty Business: A man can regret having done something morally questionable to solve a problem... but only if it's brief and never mentioned again after the fact.
- Failure Knight: A man's failure at something is only acceptable as a motivator, not as a source of remorse.
- I Let Gwen Stacy Die: Typical reaction to the death of a Disposable Woman, which always leads to...
- I Should Have Been Better: Mostly the only reactive emotion coming from men.
- Mangst: Men's angst mustn't show. They are allowed to feel it but they should never express it, lest they'll be branded as sissies.
- My Greatest Failure: Mooning over it is only acceptable as a motivator.
- You Did Everything You Could: Often presented as cold comfort but it's the only words of solace a man can address to another man.
The lesser focus on men's internal world may also be why creators tend to make more villains men. If you want an uncomplicated bad guy, it's a lot easier to make him male rather than female because female villains inspire more questions in the audience's mind about why she's evil and who made her that way, all of this being summed by the phrase "Behind every bitch, there's a bastard who made her that way". Unconflicted male villains, on the other hand, feel more believable.
- All Abusers Are Male: People who abuse tend to be abuse victims themselves. Poverty and drug use also play a large role. In a lot of media, men are not only portrayed as abusive, and the only abusers, but they are one-dimensional and over-the-top abusers with no effort to examine why.
- All Men Are Rapists: All men are rapists and only the exceptions are notable.
- Complete Monster: More often than not a male character is pure evil than a female one.
- Female Angel, Male Demon: Demons are representations of unexamined evil. Why are they evil? No reason, just made that way. Due to this, they are often portrayed as male. Also, note that this falls into the trap that negative emotions like anger are inherently masculine.
- But Now I Must Go: No matter how much a man may achieve, he can still do more, cue an unending need to achieve still more with virtually no limit to what is materially possible. If all is done in a place, a man has to go somewhere else and achieve again.
- I Just Want to Be Badass: Badassery being the quintessence of manhood in fiction-land, this goes without saying.
- I Want to Be a Real Man: Self-explanatory.
- Miles Gloriosus: Talks a big talk, but has little to back it up. Usually universally loathed.
- The Neidermeyer: A superior officer who is characterized by his lack of effective action.
- Old Master
- Small Name, Big Ego: A male character whose inflated opinion of himself is not backed up by his actual achievements.
Male characters who put emphasis on their passive attributes are often portrayed as undesirable or unmasculine. This holds particularly true for physical appearance.
- Bling of War: Men can wear shiny things as long as they reflect glory and achievement (well, sometimes...)
- Camp Straight: One trait of the Camp Straight is his focus on his appearance.
- The Dandy: Considered somewhat effeminate for his obsession with his looks.
- Guys Are Slobs: Low standards of hygiene, vulgarity, and boorishness indicate a man has no concern for his physical appearance. Apparently, the stench is close to manliness.
- Men Can't Keep House: A companion to Guys Are Slobs. Being messy also means being manly. Apparently.
- Sharp-Dressed Man: A man who isn't considered less manly for caring about his appearance. However notice that his choice of attire is usually a business suit, yes this is a subversion that really isn't because a suit evokes a man's business achievement.
—Peter Marin, Jill Gets Welfare--Jack Becomes Homeless
An Expendable male character is treated as if their interior, emotionally reactive world is irrelevant. In a way, this dynamic takes Actification to its most extreme and disturbing conclusion; whatever happens to a man he deserves because he failed to stop it from happening. This is the intersection between our belief in men's omnipotent agency and responsibility (compared to women's lack of agency and responsibility) and events that no person can reasonably be expected to be responsible for. It also explains why female-on-male violence (emotional, physical, magical, etc.) is so much more acceptable than the reverse; a man only ever lets a woman hurt him; a woman who is hurt by a man is helpless to stop it.
Another aspect of the Expendable dynamic is that a man who fails to demonstrate uber-agency (a man who isn't Actified) deserves what he gets for failing to be manly. The portion of the Men Are the Expendable Gender quote quoted illustrates this dynamic succinctly.
When a character is Actified, his actions are focused on to the exclusion of almost every other aspect of his character, but we admire him for it. When a character is Proactive, he is shown ignoring his emotional reactions to events and others' actions in favor of responding proactively or having proactive emotions, and he's portrayed as more masculine for it. When a character is made Expendable, he is generally a victim—he's being abused, killed, tortured and raped—however, the audience is expected to feel contempt or just not care. He's letting it happen and failing to live up to a masculine standard, after all!
In some cases this dynamic results in creators 'missing' the fact they're writing rape and abuse into a story. Notice also that some of these tropes involve male characters being the victims of aggressive female action: Oftentimes this is considered humorous precisely because it defies our strong beliefs about male agency and female passivity.
- Dismissed Gender: The fact that media tends to ignore men's internal world of emotional reactions is why many Dismissed Gender plots stop working when you reverse the sexes.
- Disposable Sex Worker: If you are a male prostitute, don't expect a happy ending.
- Disposable Vagrant: Almost always a man, doubly guilty for being defined more by his need and suffering (homeless) than his strength and determination to succeed.
- Double Standard: Abuse, Female on Male: A man who isn't strong enough to keep a woman in line deserves what he gets. How exactly he's supposed to 'keep a woman in line' without violating Wouldn't Hit a Girl or Domestic Abuse is never explained. Apparently, it must involve passively radiating an aura of masculine agency at her.
- Double Standard: Rape, Male on Male: Prison Rape of men. Not a huge humanitarian crisis and condemned by Amnesty International but really, really, REALLY funny! The man let it happen after all. This trope, by contrast, apparently gets even more hilarious when the character is shown to be badly traumatized.
- Double Standard: Rape, Female on Male: Even when the man couldn't stop the rape, he's responsible for it. Not his rapist. Him. Somehow. Victim blaming at it's finest. A surprisingly common belief in Real Life.
- Gorn: Disproportionately targeted at male characters.
- Groin Attack: The humor seems to be partially in defying the expectation that men don't react or suffer.
- Teacher/Student Romance: Far more acceptable when it's a female teacher and a male student.
- Men Are the Expendable Gender: Audiences aren't supposed to have as much sympathy for men's suffering(particularly anonymous men), male characters are used as cannon fodder.
- Missing White Woman Syndrome
- Motherhood Is Superior
- Stalking Is Funny If It Is Female After Male: When a woman stalks a man, it's cute and harmless. However, if a man stalks a female, he is a creep and a pervert.
- The Unfair Sex: It's not the same if a woman does it to a man.
Some very negative effect of this dynamic for men is:
- Circumcision Angst: Regardless of where you sit on the pro versus con end of circumcision, genital surgery on infant boys without anesthetic is a pretty good example of ignoring male pain.
- Conscription: With the exception of Israel (which still exempts women from combat), the draft or registration for the draft only applies to men.
- Draft Dodging: Historically men who were not willing to die or kill for their country were put to death. In World War I non-enlisted men were shamed with a white feather campaign.
- Honor-Related Abuse: One-third of all honor killings target men. Men are sometimes targeted for failing to live up to the ideals of manhood.
- We Have Reserves
- Action Survivor: Male characters are now allowed a bit more latitude to freak out in the face of danger and not know what the hell they're doing or what's going on. Creators have discovered that this can make a more interesting story.
- Distressed Dude
- Female Fighter, Male Handler: Male character appear to help/aid/encourage/handle/support female one when she's an Action Girl, being usually a Non-Action Guy.
- Female Gaze: The passive attributes of men are emphasized for the pleasure of female viewers. This allows for male characters having some innate value.
- Shirtless Scene: Likewise.
- House Husband: Men have only recently become accepted as homemakers and caregivers, the traditional "motherly" roles, in contradiction to the literally centuries of assumptions that the only personal value a man could have in a family setting was as breadwinner.
- In Touch with His Feminine Side
- Non-Action Guy
- Papa Wolf
- Shell-Shocked Veteran: Male characters who've succumbed to emotional trauma related to war are now characterized in a neutral way, rather than condemned as malingerers. In other words, taking emotional damage in war can be seen as a reflection on how awful war is rather than how weak the man is.
- Weakness Turns Her On
- Action Girl versus Non-Action Guy: An action guy is expected, therefore only the exception is tropable; an action girl is unexpected therefore tropable.
- All Women Are Lustful versus All Men Are Perverts: Women may be hypersexual but men take it one step further by preferring sex to be as sleazy as possible.
- Apron Matron versus The Patriarch
- Bury Your Disabled versus Death by Disfigurement: The price to pay for each gender when they fail to live up to the Men Are Strong, Women Are Pretty rule.
- Instant Seduction versus Show Some Leg: Seduction for women emphasizes passive attributes; for men, it emphasizes their actions.
- Leg Cling by itself contrasts male dominance versus female submissiveness.
- Men Buy from Mars, Women Buy from Venus: Exaggerating gender stereotypes to a ridiculous extreme so as to sell a product better.
- Mother Nature, Father Science
- Psychopathic Manchild versus The Ingenue: Innocence in men is more often portrayed as creepy or unnerving than innocence in women.
- Silver Fox versus Hollywood Old: Older men can still be framed as attractive, despite no longer being in their prime. Older women, on the other hand, are a big no-no. However, the emergence of tropes such as Mrs. Robinson tends to attenuate the sway of the Double Standard.
- Turn Out Like His Father versus Even Bad Men Love Their Mamas: Sons with evil fathers are more likely to turn evil themselves than their female counterparts and any goodness they, or male villains in general, do have will come from their mother.
- Moral Typecasting involves separating people into moral agents and moral patients: moral agents are capable of right and wrong and incapable of being affected by the right or wrong done to them by others, moral patients have right and wrong done to them and are seen as incapable of doing right or wrong to others. Moral Typecasting explains why moral patients who do nothing are sometimes viewed more positively than moral agents who do good—if someone is capable of doing good s/he is also seen as capable of evil. In this schema, a hero is closer to a villain than either are to a Damsel in Distress. Note that this schema exactly mirrors the active/passive; proactive/reactive; achiever/motivator dichotomies listed above.
- Men and women associate more positive characteristics with women and more negative characteristics with men. Despite this, women are still discriminated against for certain job positions that require a perception of greater agency. In light of the research into Moral Typecasting, it's possible that women are viewed more positively than men because they are seen as moral patients who are incapable of doing bad or good. This view subsequently hampers them when they wish to achieve positions associated with greater agency and responsibility.
- Being ogled reduces women's ability to do work.
- Female characters are defined more by their passive attributes and their emotional responses; male characters more by their actions. That's why male characters are preferred in fiction.
- If a girl thinks of her abilities as passive, unchanging attributes, rather than something they earn through work, they tend to give up on challenging tasks.
- Women are more likely to receive lighter sentences than men; eyewitnesses to equally violent male and female criminals tend to rate the female criminals as less violent over time.
- Proposal to close women's prisons by the Women's Justice Taskforce; an effective end to custodial sentencing of female criminals.
- Video depicts what happens when a woman spikes a man's drink versus a man spiking a woman's drink.
- Video depiction of bystander reaction to male-on-female and female-on-male abuse
- People help a blind woman who is cheated more often than a blind man.
- Male civilians more likely to be targeted in wartime and less likely to be evacuated from dangerous areas.