In any work featuring both angels and demons, most of the time the angel will be female (or at least more feminine or androgynous) and the demon will be male (or at least more masculine).
The primary reason for this is that angels are supposedly beautiful, refined, merciful and noble creatures, while demons (even if they are being portrayed as Affably Evil) are usually ugly, rude, crude, callous and mean. Traditionally, the former traits are considered feminine while the latter traits are considered masculine.
Often, even when an angel is portrayed as being male, he will still be played by a woman. Aversions generally seem to occur when heaven is represented as some kind of bureaucracy. When Played for Laughs, the relationship between the angels and demons will be portrayed as a friendly rivalry that inevitably leads to se...um...romance.
In the rare cases where the genders are inverted, the angel will be indeed more masculine than the usual standard, but he will mostly be here to highlight that Good Is Not Nice and will often be cold and unemotional. The demoness, on the other hand, will mostly be The Vamp, at best a Manipulative Bitch if non-sexualized, but she will seldom be portrayed as physically intimidating as her male counterpart. And don't expect any romance between them if they ever happen to be on "friendly" terms because My Girl Is Not a Slut.
Oddly enough, most classical visually artistic depictions of Abrahamic angels such as Michael or Gabriel are those of men. Youthful, powerful, admirable, virile men. This is in spite of the fact that there's supposedly no description of their gender in scriptures. Moreover, those angels' names have always been used to name boys.
Naturally, this trope often carries the Unfortunate Implications that women are good and men are evil. Additionally, it could be said that Wish Fulfillment may come into play as well when there's romance involved, i.e., the classical plot of a caring and merciful woman who redeems an evil man with love. Gender reversals are increasingly common, but still rare- your guess is as good as ours as to why.
Notice Evil Sounds Deep.
- Played straight in Black Butler with the male demon Sebastian and the female angel, Angela. That is, until near the end of the first season of the anime, when Ash, the Queen's butler/bodyguard is revealed to be Angela in male form. The angels in this series are Knight Templars and Light Is Not Good.
- Go Nagai's Devilman series zigzagged this. It has naked, beautiful hermaphrodite angels. Meanwhile, the demons (who absorb the bodies of their victims to "evolve" into stronger forms) look like Darwin on LSD. However, the supreme leader of demons, Satan, looks just like the angels do, and is a hermaphrodite. Averted in the 1972 anime, in which the titular hero fights as many female demons as he does male ones.
- Not played completely straight; but somewhat present in Kamikaze Kaitou Jeanne. The angel Finn Fish is aligned with the God and supporting protagonist Maron, while antagonistic demon Noin is male. This is less the case in the anime, where a second female (and full-race, rather than formerly-human) demon named Myst was added. Beyond Finn and Noin, the male dark angel Access Time is also introduced from the very beginning, albeit also as an antagonist in a manner that reinforces the major implication behind the trope - male supernatural agents, angels or devils, tend to be working for the Devil, while female supernatural agents are working for God. Even this implication, so toyed with, completely breaks down once it's revealed that Finn is the actual fallen angel working for the Devil, while Access is actually an agent of God.
- The cosmology of Mnemosyne is similar to this: although men infected by time spores are referred to as "angels", they are much closer to the mindless, savage demon image, and are led by the Satanic Archetype Big Bad Apos, while immortal women tend to be refined and benevolent (with the exception of Sayara). Moreover, when Rin becomes the Yggdrasil Guardian and sprouts wings of her own, hers are much closer in appearance to classical pure-white angelic wings than the blood-red stubbled ones of the "angels" (though they are still pinkish-white, not pure white).
- Inverted in My Balls, the demons (including Satan) are female, Evil Is Sexy Horny Devils. There are only two angels shown and both are male: Michael is an old man, and Gabriel is a Bishōnen.
- Actually there was a female angel shown in an omake chapter and Satan becomes an angel again in the end.
- The Angel and Devil from Nowhere Boy.
- This is averted in Panty & Stocking with Garterbelt. It's female angels and female demons in this show.
- The front cover of the English translation of Pretty Face.
- In Violinist of Hameln, Hamel is a demon, after their father's side, while Sizer is an angel, after their mother's side.
- In Wish, the angels are specifically androgynous, but since Tokyopop decided that would be too hard to do in English, angels were all referred to with feminine pronouns and demons male ones, except for the demon catgirls. (And yes, the romance does indeed occur.)
- In The Seven Deadly Sins, there are apparently female demons and male goddesses...we just rarely see any on-screen. That was not a typo, the word for someone of that species is "goddess", regardless of gender.
- The Darkness: The titular force in the Darkness always has a male host, who can create hordes of goblin-like creatures and uses darkness-based powers. Conversely, The Angelus always has a female host, and she and her creations appear angelic and used light-based powers. Though the comics have shown at least one female demon, and the male Legion of the Cherub Hostile for the angels, the two greatest opposing forces are exclusively male for the Darkness and female for the Angelus.
- Marvel Universe:
- The setting's cosmic deities include Mistress Love and Master Hate, the living embodiments of their namesake emotions whose appearances and temperaments play directly to this image.
- Adam Warlock: Adam uses the Infinity Gauntlet to purge himself of all emotions. As a result, two new beings are created: the male Magus, who represents all of his evil, and the Goddess, who is all of his goodness. This is Played With, because the Goddess is the Big Bad, wanting to destroy the universe to end all sin.
- Preacher: Inverted, as Genesis is the offspring of a male angel and a female demon.
- PS238: Gender Flipped, as Malphast (possibly meant to be a Lighter and Softer Captain Ersatz of Genesis, above) is the son of a male angel and a female demon. Though in this series, they're more aligned with Order vs. Chaos, respectively, and the two sides sometimes come across like Friendly Enemies.
- Angel Of The Bat: Played with. Cassandra Cain's new costume is designed off the more gentle, modern design of angels. The Seraphim borrows from their more classical, monstrous appearances. For what its worth, Satan is often depicted as a Seraph.
- The Bridge: Played with with the Nexuses of Magic. Harmony, the Nexus of Light Magic, is female. Grogar, the Nexus of Dark magic, is male. The Big Bad from Terra is their equivalent in status and power and is genderless, but has a masculine voice.
- Played with in The Book of Life; La Muerte and Xibalba are both Gods of the Dead, but while Xibalba is dark and menacing with black wings and skulls for pupils, La Muerte is much lighter and more appealing, as befits the bright, positive realm she rules over. Played With because he at least undergoes a HeelFace Turn.
- Bedazzled (2000): Subverted in the remake. Satan is played by Elizabeth Hurley. She plays chess with a man implied to be God. The man appeared earlier as Elliot's cellmate.
- Extra nice because while Elizabeth Hurley is sexy and plays up the sexy a lot, she's not really a Horny Devil, but just using another form of manipulation (and Fanservice).
- And at one point, she appears as a masculine devil, possibly implying that gender is not a big part of what God or the Devil are.
- In the Made-for-TV Movie Child Of Darkness, Child Of Light, the titular children turn out to be, respectively, a boy and a girl.
- In Constantine, the Archangel Gabriel is specifically portrayed as androgynous, but is played by Tilda Swinton.
- Lucifer, on the other hand, is undoubtedly male.
- There are other angels in the film that are definitely male as well, such as that one paramedic and in a cut scene Shia Lebouef's character became one post mortem.
- Averted in the Richard Burton Doctor Faustus where the Devil is played by Elizabeth Taylor.
- Sort of subverted in Dogma in that the angels (and the demons) are all androgynes... but they're all played by men. (Serendipity, played by the very female Salma Hayek, is also sexless... but Hayek is neither an angel nor a demon but a Muse.)
- God appears as both a man and a woman, as well.
- In Don't Tempt Me (originally titled Bendito Infierno), the two main characters, are both female. It's later revealed that the demon is actually male, as part of his punishment in hell was having to be a waitress there for many years.
- In Little Nicky, all devils are humanoid males, demons are mostly humanoid males but occasionally monsters of ambiguous gender, and angels are Valley Girls.
- One of Tom Holt's books has a female angel (who's frankly kind of a bitch) and Oscar the demon (who's a bit...off). They get together in the end; this is why you should always listen to someone whose day job involves a bestselling Love Potion.
- Daughter of Smoke and Bone: It has the rare inversion; a boy angel (or seraph) meets a girl demon (or chimaera) and they fall in love. Things haven't gone well for them so far.
- Inverted in The Dresden Files. The only angel we see is Uriel, portrayed by a man, and the primary demon (actually a Fallen Angel) is the female Lasciel. Uriel is Heaven's wetworks guy, probably the least 'masculine' of the primary angels (also featuring Raphael, Michael, Gabriel, the usual suspects). Lasciel, along with a number of other Fallen, (such as Tessa,) are terrifying and badass. They often do play up the sex gig, but it doesn't define their character. It's more zig-zagged than actually inverted, as per usual with Butcher's fantasy-kitchen-sink approach.
- However, an Angel of Death appears female, and there are many male demons.
- The Fae (and their queens, all six of them) generally avert this, but they do occasionally play it straight by take any chance (or technique) to get a certain Chicago wizard on their side. The males nobles? Disguise themselves and lead him into a trap, then later join up and lead a cavalry charge against Harry.
- In Golden Dawn, the angel trapped in the crystal is definitely female, whilst the demons in the surrounding valley are of either gender.
- Good Omens gives us Crowley (demon) and Aziraphale (angel)...both of whom have taken male forms. Aziraphale, however, is written as the more effeminate of the pair. Of course, they get paired together.
- It's mentioned that "[m]any people, meeting Aziraphale for the first time, formed three impressions: that he was English, that he was intelligent, and that he was gayer than a tree full of monkeys on nitrous oxide. Two of these were wrong; Heaven is not in England, whatever certain poets may have thought, and angels are sexless unless they really want to make an effort."
- Keepers Chronicles: In "The Second Summoning" by Tanya Huff, the first sex between the Keeper and the Hero calls an angel down from heaven. As a counterbalance, a young female demoness is brought up from Hell. Eventually each of them becomes a "neutral" terrestrial—the angel is a cat familiar to another Keeper, the demoness is a normally-rebellious female teenager. They drift apart. The cat is a character in the third novel, "The Long Hot Summoning", the ex-demoness is nowhere to be seen.
- In Seven Days for an Eternity, by Marc Lévy, God and Satan send each an agent to decide who should rule the Earth : God sends Zofia, and Lucifer sends Lucas. Problem is : they didn't count on the Angel and the Demon to meet and fall in love.
- Inverted by William Shakespeare in Sonnet 114:
Two loves I have of comfort and despair,
Which like two spirits do suggest me still:
The better angel is a man right fair,
The worser spirit a woman colour'd ill.
To win me soon to hell, my female evil
Tempteth my better angel from my side,
And would corrupt my saint to be a devil,
Wooing his purity with her foul pride...
- "Your Orisons May Be Recorded" by Laurie Penny is about a female angel working in Heaven's call centre, whose cubicle mate - following the merger - is a male demon.
- One Charmed episode has two guardians of The Hollow, a female angel representing Good and a male demon representing Evil. Of course in this case it only appears to be symbolic, as both guardians are neutral, having dedicated their lives to preventing The Hollow from being released by either side.
- The MST3K short "Out of This World" follows the trope, although the theology is rather sketchy.
- Averted/Inverted in Supernatural: Most of the angels we've seen have taken male humans as vessels, and demons' hosts are more-or-less split 50/50. Demons are damned human souls hopelessly corrupted from centuries in Hell, and the humans they once were are, again, split between men and women. We don't know if angels have genders the way we think of gender, and haven't seen the angels' true forms, but they're suggested to be in Eldritch Abomination territory.
- Inverted in the episode "Caged Heat" where male angel Castiel gets French-kissed by female demon Meg. The two of them displayed UST signals long before that episode. Inverted in general by Ruby, Meg, Abaddon, and Lilith.
- Played straight with Anna, who is the first female angel we see, and is probably the nicest (at first). There are more female angels besides her, but they tend to be either villainous (Naomi) or not featured enough for us to know much about their personalities (Hester and Rachel). Hannah seems to be breaking that pattern, as she's on Castiel's side and has gotten a decent amount of screen time.
- Archangel Raphael is in a male vessel, Donnie Finnerman, most of the time, but when that vessel is destroyed, his new vessel is female.
- Inverted in the Tales from the Darkside episode "Let the Games Begin." A male angel and a female demon have a contest over a man's soul. They get together at the end of the episode.
- For a costume party, One Life to Live's Cassie and Andrew dressed up as this. Ironic, as he was a minister.
- Trans-Siberian Orchestra's "Beethoven's Last Night" features the male demon Mephistopheles and a more "angel-like" female — albeit not an angel, but the incarnation of Fate. And her son Twist is the same sort of being.
- Extreme metal bands that use the Soprano and Gravel, with the female vocalists doing soft vocals while the male ones do harsh vocals invoke this trope in a symbolic manner.
- In the music video of the song Aku no Tenshi to Seigi no Akuma (which is also the seventh ending from Dragon Ball Super) the "angel" character is played by a woman, while the "demon" character is played by a man.
- Ma'at and Apep in Egyptian Mythology.
- Inverted in Balinese mythology, where Barong is the king of spirits and personification of benevolence, while Rangda is a demon queen and personification of malevolence. One of traditional Balinese dance, Barong Dance, portrays their fight which represents eternal war between good and evil.
- Averted in most Christian tradition, where the angels have spiritual, and not physical, bodies, meaning that they are neither male nor female, and as the demons are fallen angels, they would be genderless by default.
- Anima: Beyond Fantasy: All but one of the seven Beryls — godly spirits of light, named after archangels in the setting — are female, and all but one of the seven Shajads — godly spirits of darkness, opposite to the former and usually named after demons or devils — are male.
- Averted in Demon: The Fallen, where both sides were both genders. Granted, the demons started as angels. This is a Abrahamic world... to an extent.
- Subverted in Infernum where angels can be genderless or of either gender, while all demons except Malcubi are genderless. Also, there is no artwork of female angels in any of the rulebooks, and many female demons (some of which are Fan Disservice — such as one 'she-demon' that is basically a four-breasted wolf-woman with tentacles instead of legs).
- In Magic: The Gathering, all angels are female (with the exception of one Alternate Universe and one instance of Early Installment Weirdness). This was one of the first notable appearances of female angels as warriors, which remains a nearly universal trait of angels in Magic. Their clothing has varied from Stripperiffic (Razia) to, more frequently, full plate armor. Demons are usually so twisted and monstrous that questions of sex hardly arise, but those that do have a human or semi-human appearance are almost all male.
- Innistrad prominently feature a conflict between the archangel Avacyn and the obviously male archdemon Griselbrand.
- Ironically, however, Children of the Nameless introduces female demons on Innistrad.
- Averted thoroughly in Amonkhet, where angels are male. So are most demons, but the ammits, demonic crocodile beasts, may be female.
- Yu-Gi-Oh!: "Ruin" is a female Fairy (Angel in the Japanese version) of "Oblivion", while "Demise" is a male Fiend (Demon in the Japanese version) of "Armageddon". Their youngest selves are respectively titled "Angel" and "Demon" in the Japanese version.
- In Auto da Barca do Inferno by Gil Vicente the demon is usually portrayed by a male actor and the angel by a female actor, even if neither are identified by sex in the original work. The most modern version can be seen as a subversion though, as the angel is just as evil as the devil.
- An amateur production of Doctor Faustus inverted this; the good angel was played by an old man, while the bad angel/demons were all played by young women.
- In Peter Ustinov's The Love of Four Colonels, they appear as "the Good Fairy" and "the Wicked Fairy"... but they were also the supernatural actors in the Garden of Eden.
- The heaven-and-hell simulator Afterlife (1996) uses this with your advisors. It goes a step farther, portraying the Angel Aria as The Ditz and the Demon Jasper as a Deadpan Snarker.
- Averted, somewhat, in Darksiders, in which both the angels and the demons are mostly male, and the angels can be either masculine (Abaddon) or feminine (Azrael). There are also notable females on both sides, the angels having Uriel, and the demons having Silitha, Tiamat, Lilith. It should be noted, though, that many Darksiders characters are based on figures from Babylonian/Greek/Roman/Judeo-Christian mythology.
- Inverted in Bayonetta: The clan that controls darkness and makes pacts with demons, the Umbra Witches, are female; while the clan that controls light and are allied with angels, the Lumen Sages, are male. A majority of angels are masculine, while all known demons the Witches have made contracts with (Madama Butterfly, Madama Styx, and Madama Khepri) and the one demon with actual dialogue (Alraune) are female. The ruler of Paradiso, Jubileus, is feminine, but so is both Queen Sheba (Jubileus' infernal counterpart) and Omne (a figure that appears to be both half demonic and half angelic). The catch is that the angels are the main antagonists of the first game and major antagonists in the second, with the protagonist being one of the Umbra Witches. God and Satan Are Both Jerks applies since the demons don't have clean hands either.
- BlazBlue: Consider Ragna and Nu. The former is a Boisterous Bruiser-type who uses his full power by releasing "restriction 666." The latter is a mecha-woman with bladed wings who wants nothing more than to impale Ragna with a giant sword in an act of creation. The end result of this will bring about The End of the World as We Know It, 100 years ago.
- Diablo has a picture of an female angel and a male demon for the health and mana orbs respectively. Be that as it may, this doesn't apply to the characters, as both Angels and Demons are portrayed with both male and female, both sides mostly male. The backstory, on the other hand, inverts it with Star-Crossed Lovers Inarius and Lilith, the former being a male angel and the latter a female demon.
- In DmC: Devil May Cry Dante and Vergil are Nephilim, a.k.a. the sons of a demon (Sparda) and an angel (Eva), and thus have incredible Hybrid Powers. Albeit the game has some female demons too.
- Chaos and Cosmos (technically a god and goddess) from Dissidia Final Fantasy.
- Necro and Undine, Dizzy's Wings from Guilty Gear.
- Heroes of Might and Magic V has female Angels and male Devils (though there are female demons). In previous games, they were both male. It's debatable whether angels are female or just Bishōnen though.
- The Legend of Zelda: Skyward Sword
- It is revealed that the conflict over the possession of The Triforce that the series revolves around boils down to two God-like beings who wish to use it for their own purposes. The Goddess Hylia wished to protect it from evil forces while the Demon King, Demise, wished to obtain it for absolute domination. The true form of Hylia is not seen in the game, but depictions of her portray her as an angelic woman. Demise isn't seen until the very end of the game, but his true form is extremely masculine (people say he resembles Akuma).
- This also extends to their Weapon of Choice. Fi is a stoic, almost computer-like feminine spirit that inhabits and transforms into the Goddess/Master Sword. Ghirahim is a flamboyant, overly emotional masculine spirit that does the same for the Demon Tribe Swords of Despair.
- In general, most powerful forces of good are female: Hylia, Zelda, the Golden Goddesses, the Oracles and the Great Fairies. In contrast all of the major villains are male: Demise, Ganondorf, Vaati, Yuuga. Intermediate forces, such as the sages and other animal and tree spirits, are either-or.
- Averted in Neverwinter Nights 1 and 2. When the outer planes appear, their denizens are usually demons or devils of both genders, and the only full-blooded angel to feature in either game is male.
- Inverted in Painkiller: Overdose in that the main character Belial is the son of a female demon and a male angel.
- Pokémon has the duo of Cresselia and Darkrai. The former is an angelic-looking bringer of good dreams who is always a female, the latter is a shadowy creature of darkness who induces nightmares (and while Darkrai has No Biological Sex, most portrayals of it make it masculine). The "demon" aspect of Darkrai, however, is (usually) downplayed, if it's present at all.
- RuneScape has a dungeon where armies from the God Wars are still battling it out. The leaders of two of those armies are an Icyene named Commander Zilyana and a demon named K'ril Tsutsaroth. The two appear to be rivals, and are often seen together.
- A variation of this occurs The Secret World. Early in the opening cutscene, players are visited by two supernatural beings: the first is a woman in white who insists that it's not her place to intervene, that it's up to you to decide your path and warns you that the voices that whisper in your sleep will try to corrupt you, ultimately bestowing power upon you with a swarm of bees; the second is a man dressed all in black, who claims that he's there to "guide you to the light," that you'll have to make the right choices and that the voices speak the truth - and then bestows power on you with a swarm of flies. Later on, they even manifest energy wings Color-Coded for Your Convenience: white for the woman, red-and-black for the man. However, they're both angels, just from different factions. They reappear at the end of the game to provide counsel for the players after they've decided what to do with the Dreamer's prison: reinforcing the prison gives you an interview with the woman, destroying the restraints prompts the man to appear.
- Shin Megami Tensei: Strange Journey: Zelenin (transformed into an Angel) and Jimenez (fused with a Demon). In general, however, the series averts the trope - angels are for the most part genderless, and demons come in all shades.
- Angel and Devil in Tekken. Due to the limitations of the PlayStation, many people came away with the impression that Angel had epic sideburns, blurring the issue somewhat.
- A Very Long Rope to the Top of the Sky: The God figure is The Mother, while the Devil figure is The Eater, who's refered to with 'he'.
- Bendy and the Ink Machine centers around a demon-based cartoon character, Bendy. His Distaff Counterpart, Alice Angel, is introduced after the first chapter.
- Black & White: Downplayed with the player character deity. It doesn't have a physical body, but if it becomes solidly Good on the Karma Meter, its few snippets of spoken dialogue have a female voice, whereas they're done in a deep male Voice of the Legion if Evil.
- Inverted in this El Goonish Shive filler strip.
- Seraphim and Asmodeus in Megatokyo.
- In The Order of the Stick, the Bureaucratic Devas and the celestial here are both female, and the IFCC Directors and Qarr are all male. Sabine gets a pass for being a Horny Devil.
- The Italy web-comic Sacro e Profano feature the sexy love-story of a beautiful angel Angelina and the horny male devil Damiano. They Can't Have Sex, Ever until the marriage.
- Buwaro & Kieri, main characters in Slightly Damned. But Buwaro starts out completely naive and un-demon-like, and eventually he and Kieri fall in love. Other angels and demons come in both genders.
- Jack Farrago and Jack, though while she is an angel he's more the Anthropomorphic Personification of the Sin of Wrath than a "demon".
- In Aaagh! It's the Mr. Hell Show! The episode "From Here to Paternity" reveals that Mr. Hell (A male demon) has an illegitimate child with a female angel.
- Raf and Sulfus from Angel's Friends. The show's plot centers around their lives and relationship, every character is affected by it, and both characters are determined to do whatever the hell they have to to stay together.
- Donald's Better Self showcases the struggle between Donald Duck's responsible and devious personalities; while they're both clearly male, what with looking exactly like Don, his good self is voiced by a woman. Oh, and both angel and devil's voices are easy to understand, unlike Don himself.
- Likewise, in The Legend of Korra, Vaatu, the spirit of darkness, is male, and Raava, the spirit of light, is female. Exceptionally bizarre because they draw on Yin-Yang symbolism, which assigns darkness to women and light to men. A downplayed example, as both Raava and Vaatu are completely inhuman in appearance, and identical in every way but their color scheme.
- In Star Wars: The Clone Wars the Daughter is the embodiment of the Light side of the Force, while the son is the incarnation of The Dark Side.