Harry: I wouldn't say much of anything. I would be too busy laughing in your face.
Sometimes Good Is Not Nice, hence a hero can be obnoxious and rude. Similarly, sometimes an Affably Evil villain could be friendly or polite. When either or both of these work their way into to the tone of a conversation between a hero and a villain, you end up with conversations in which the villains sound more respectful than the heroes.
Depending on how this is treated in the context of a story, it could serve as a Pet the Dog moment, or alternatively, it could serve as a sign that the villains really, REALLY don't deserve respect and hence the heroes will not give it to them. Then again, that would by its very nature imply the villain's at least humble enough to be polite to the heroes... or at least not too proud to pretend to be.
Can be a sign that Evil Cannot Comprehend Good — the villain sees the hero as a Worthy Opponent who happens to be working at cross-purposes to him, but doesn't understand the hero's visceral hatred of everything he stands for. It can also be a character flaw for the Anti-Hero, who when confronted by evil may act so tactlessly as to seriously disgrace his own reputation.
Sometimes, the moral is that actions speak louder than words; while the villain in the picture might be speaking courteously, there is the small matter that he has just poisoned the hero. Some works take it so far that the moral seems to be "politeness is deceptive, bluntness is honest" — a message that all those Reality Show contestants who "speak [their] mind and don't care what anyone thinks" must have taken to heart.
- InuYasha: Inu-Yasha and his half-brother have no love lost between them. Sesshomaru is formal but contemptuous while Inu-Yasha is generally rude to almost everyone to begin with. Though Sesshomaru also does insult Inuyasha over being a Hanyo/Half-Demon, so it's kinda hard to think of him as polite when he does that.
- GUN×SWORD seems to fit. Although Wendy and Joshua are nice enough, Van and Ray and to a lesser extent Carmen 99 are pretty jerkish, while the Claw and all of his minions are a really nice bunch.
- Panty & Stocking with Garterbelt zigzags this one a bit, although that shouldn't surprise anyone given the show's creators. The angels are always contemptuous toward the demons, but said demons alternate — sometimes mid-conversation — between subverting this trope, acting respectful, and (extremely rarely) genuinely being respectful toward the angels. It should be noted that in this setting, Heaven emphasizes freedom while Hell is a tyrannical dictatorship, so Lawful Evil vs Chaotic Good (given our heroines, really more Chaotic Neutral) is in full effect.
- Fullmetal Alchemist has Edward Elric, the bratty teenage genius protagonist who's brash, short-tempered, and swears quite a bit. He is constantly calling his opponents (and his own father) "bastard" and "third-rate novice". In contrast, the main villain, Father, heals his broken arm, inquires after his health and family, and allows Ed to live and continue his journey while he casually plans the death of over 50 million people. The Fuhrer of Amestris, King Bradley, even invites Edward and his brother Alphonse to tea. There's also Solf J. Kimblee, the Crimson Alchemist, a mass-murdering psychopath who treats Edward's mechanic, Winry Rockbell, with genuine respect and kindness while politely asking Ed to stage a massacre at Fort Briggs. She doesn't even realize she's a hostage without being told.
- Dragon Ball: A common theme. Goku is a country bumpkin with No Social Skills and a tendency towards Brutal Honesty, while several of the series' main villains, like Frieza, Cell, and Goku Black, are Faux Affably Evil enemies who have polite mannerisms and often compliment their opponents before mercilessly torturing and killing them.
- Inverted with Future Trunks. He is more polite and well-mannered than his enemies.
- In Death Note, Light, the cold and manipulative mass murderer with a bad god complex, is almost always polite and well-mannered; while L, the detective trying to stop him and bring him to justice, is usually very blunt and has little regard for others' feelings.
- s-CRY-ed plays with this one. At first you have the angry, loud-mouthed Kazuma opposing the calm, controlled Ryuhou. After Ryuhou's Heel–Face Turn, the main villain is Kyoji Mujo, who is Faux Affably Evil at first, and then becomes full-blown Ax-Crazy.
- Samurai Deeper Kyo: Kyo himself is a sociopathic, badmouthed Blood Knight who more than once insults his opponents, even after he just butchered them to shreds, and is quite abrasive and obnoxious with his own friends. By contrast, most of the Mibu Elite like the Four Elders and the members of the Goyosei tend to be much more polite, cold and respectful, even the Crimson King, who comes off as a cultured if megalomaniac tyrant. Subverted with Yukimura, who's quite polite and civil, and many of the low-tier enemies, who're just as vulgar and rude as Kyo if not worse.
- Sword Art Online Progressive has Kirito and Morte. Kirito's generally a Nice Guy, but he can be somewhat brusque and rude toward his enemies or people who try his patience. Morte's a Faux Affably Evil Pungeon Master who jokes around and uses polite speech on Kirito, while threatening to sabotage Kirito's efforts to complete the quest, and planning to kill Kirito during their duel.
- In Chick Tracts, the angels helping the "good guys" tend to be rude and uptight, and aren't above punching sinners/devils like bullies. And many of said good guys are often condescending, disrespectful, and arrogant to the others.
- In Sin City, almost all of the "heroes" are brutal and rude, befitting an Anti-Hero status. While the villains tend to be just as nasty, we do have Herr Wallenquist, who is polite to the point of not seeking vengeance after a major defeat.
- Usually Inverted in Disney Mouse and Duck Comics stories from Italy (and Italian translations of foreign stories), where the heroes tend to be politer than villains. The only regular exceptions are Donald Duck, whose temper and sarcasm make him about as rude as the average villain, and Phantom Blot, who is just that polite to everyone.
- When we finally meet the Adversary in Fables, he turns out to be the soft-spoken, grandfatherly Gepetto who is philosophical about the trouble Boy Blue has caused him and just generally acts as hospitable as you can while still keeping your "guest" in a cage. Blue, meanwhile, smirks and spits his contempt at the Adversary all through their conversation.
- In Street Sharks Redux, this just about sums up every interaction between Dr. Paradigm and the protagonists in a nutshell.
- In Death Note: The Abridged Series (kpts4tv), Light is outraged over Near's poor manners:
- In Hellsing Ultimate Abridged, Luke Valentine and Alucard (for a rather loose definition of hero).
Luke: I'm trying to have a civil conversation with you here.
Alucard: Oh, so am I. And I'm failing. And I'm sorry for that. It's just that I'm so agitated, because this blond little shit stormed into my room, destroyed my 70 inch plasma wide screen TV, and is trying to impress me like I'm his alcoholic father.
- Frozen: Even after The Reveal that he is the Big Bad, Hans is still smooth, charming, and well-dressed in contrast to Kristoff, who is the snarky, impolite and sometimes insensitive Tritagonist of the film.
- The Great Mouse Detective: Basil is a Good Is Not Nice heroic mouse and Ratigan is a Faux Affably Evil villainous rat.
- Peter Pan: The gentlemanly, elegant Captain Hook and versus the bratty Peter Pan.
- Indiana Jones: In Raiders of the Lost Ark, this happens with most of Indy and Belloq's interactions.
Belloq: How odd that it should end this way for us after so many stimulating encounters. I almost regret it. Where shall I find a new adversary so close to my own level?
Indy: Try the local sewer.
- Inglourious Basterds, has a Nazi, of all people, as one of the more polite characters in the film. When Hans Landa captures some of the heroes, he remarks how much he is impressed by them. The Basterds reveal they don't know nor care who he is and openly insult him. Landa lampshades this by complaining about the lack of mutual respect.
- Mandi and Tyler in Mean Girls 2. Only those two however; Mandi's horrible to everyone else.
- In Phone Booth, the protagonist is a rotten liar and the antagonist teaches him the better way to live.
- According to the official visual companion, the Operative in Serenity was intentionally written to seem like a better, more refined man than Malcolm Reynolds.
- Star Wars: Count Dooku from the prequel trilogy is far more polite than Obi-Wan, if not more polite than most of the Jedi as a whole.
Dooku: You have fought gallantly. Worthy of recognition in the archives of the Jedi Order. Now it is finished. Surrender — and your lives will be spared.
Mace Windu: We will NOT be hostages to be bartered, Dooku.
Dooku: Then, I'm sorry, old friend.
- Deliberately invoked in the penultimate book of the Animorphs series between team leader Jake and his infested brother Tom. Tom, playing up his role as Smug Snake to the hilt, is attempt pleasant banter with the Animorphs, but neither Jake nor his team is having any of it. A few pages later, he betrays them and tries to have them all killed.
- The chapter "The Voice of Saruman" from The Lord of the Rings comes to mind. Saruman is (faking) pleasantness, the good guys respond harshly.
- In the book The Robots of Dawn by Isaac Asimov, Elijah Baley reflects at one point how the supposed "good guy", Dr. Han Fastolfe is unpleasant and antisocial, while Kelden Amadiro, the "villain", seems friendly and accommodating. The "wolf" behind Amadiro's apparent friendliness becomes apparent to Baley later.
- This sort of contrast happens a lot between Harry Dresden and "Gentleman" John Marcone in The Dresden Files. Marcone is usually polite to Harry; Harry rarely shows Marcone much respect in return, since Marcone is a mob boss. This happens a lot between Harry Dresden and practically any villain he talks to; the supernatural big bads of the Dresdenverse generally try to maintain a pretense of civility, and Harry... generally doesn't.
- Harry actually justifies this by saying that you never show fear or weakness to a predator. His snarkiness is actually an attempt to keep them off-balance and stop them from thinking that he's an easy target.
- Galbatorix's conversation with Oromis at the end of Brisingr in the Inheritance Cycle. He tries to convince Oromis to join him using smooth speech — Oromis calls it "A balm of honeyed lies." After this, Galbatorix gives up and his voice is said to have "acquired a harsh, angry cast."
- In Playing For Keeps, the villains tend to be Affably Evil and fairly polite to the main characters, in stark contrast to all the "heroes" save Pallas, who, besides the Fantastic Racism towards the protagonists and abusing their power, quickly prove to really care little for the civilians of Seventh City.
- 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea: This is the dynamic between Wicked Cultured Captain Nemo and Idiot Hero Ned Land. Nemo is Affably Evil, and Ned Land doesn’t lost any chance to insult Nemo, no matter how petty. Nemo is a Well-Intentioned Extremist that maintains Ned in a Gilded Cage, and then you realize that Dumbass Has a Point.
- Seen in Journey to the West: Sun Wukong (especially before the Character Development kicks in) is very rude, disrespectful, aggressive and short-tempered, while almost all the monsters that he encounters on his journey are surprisingly good-mannered even if man-eating, some of them bordering with Noble Demon.
- In Le Silence de la mer, the French uncle and niece who are forced to provide lodgings for a soft-spoken, Francophile German officer resist by completely ignoring him.
- In Witches Abroad, Lilith de Tempscire (actually Granny Weatherwax's sister Lily) is the villain, a Happiness is Mandatory type who thinks she's a good fairy godmother, so she's all about being refined and polite. The heroes are the witches, and they're impolite in different ways; Granny Weatherwax is arrogant, pushy and constantly complaining, Nanny Ogg is a Dirty Old Woman, and Magrat is an awkward Granola Girl who tries to be kind but just isn't very good with people.
- In Twilight New Moon, when Edward, Alice, and Bella are brought before the Volturi, Aro is very pleasant and is perfectly willing to let them off as long as the Cullens agree to have Bella be turned into a vampire to preserve their secrecy. Edward reacts rather rudely, repeatedly making thinly-veiled accusations of Aro being corrupt.
- Warbreaker: This is a major twist in the book. Polite, friendly, and affable Denth is the villain who is trying to start a world war that will kill millions of people. Rude, angry, and unhappy Vasher is the hero who is trying to stop it. Compare and contrast their methods of getting Vivenna to help them: Denth carefully steers her towards suggesting his own ideas, making her think they will weaken her enemy in the war that he has convinced her is inevitable, while Vasher throws her into a meeting with a bunch of peasants and says "See, your princess doesn't want war. Now stop being stupid and make peace."
- Victoria plays this straight with Captain Halsing, the charming and polite Nazi officer, when contrasted to the often abrasive hero of the story, Captain John Rumford. Also compare the Anti-Villain President Warner earlier in the story, who never uses any foul language. Otherwise generally averted.
- Garibaldi vs Bester in Babylon 5. Though Garibaldi isn't really rude — he's just rough hewn.
Bester: If I had my talent working, I could have warned you when he was coming.
Garibaldi: And if I had a baseball bat, we could hang you from the ceiling and play piñata.
Bester: A piñata, huh? So, you think of me as something bright and cheerful, full of toys and candy for young children? Thank you! That makes me feel much better about our relationship.
- Doctor Who: The Twelfth Doctor and the Missy incarnation of the Master have this dynamic, as the former is a Knight In Sour Armor who is rude and snarky to everyone while saving the universe, while the latter is Affably Evil and generally polite and charming to others, all while casually murdering anyone in her way.
- Played quite straight in Hannibal. Protagonist Will Graham is gruff, shabby looking, and has No Social Skills, but genuinely cares for people and takes in stray dogs. Hannibal Lecter is a cultured, refined, Renaissance man with impeccable table manners... and a cannibalistic mass murderer who blackmails and exploits his patients.
- This is the impression Chirs Sims and David Uzumeri had when they recently watched the pilot episode of Smallville: Pa Kent is a dick who eventually pushes Lex into supervillainy.
- The show in general. While some monsters are flat-out dicks (such as the crocotta) or non-sentient (such as the wending), most demons and sentient monsters tend to be mockingly (or even genuinely) polite, while Sam and Dean make very clear their contempt for them.
- In the episode "All Hell Breaks Loose, Part One" (S02, Ep21), Sam threatens the Yellow-Eyed Demon while the demon complements Sam.
Yellow-Eyed Demon: You’re awfully quiet, Sam. You’re not mad at me, are you?
Sam: I’m gonna tear you to shreds, I swear to—
Yellow-Eyed Demon: (chuckles) When you wake up, Tiger, you give it your best shot.
- The Cylons in Battlestar Galactica (2003) are polite, religious and well-dressed, while the heroes are a scruffy bunch of shell-shocked veterans with a laundry list of personal defects.
- From Rhapsody of Fire there are some, well, interesting lines spoken by the main hero against the Big Bad Akron in "The Mighty Ride of the Firelord", including calling him bloody bastard, spit on him and threaten to burn him and eat his brains. Granted, he has just raped to death Princess Airin and killed the warrior Arwald, but still.... They also don't exitate to refer to the Queen of the Dark Horizon as the "God-forsaken Bitch".
- In the Blind Guardian song "Time Stand Still", Melkor is quite affable and polite, while Fingolfin curse him on sight.
- The zombie "Bob" in Jonathan Coulton's song "Re: Your Brains" speaks as if narrating an excessively polite corporate email while trying to convince the survivors to leave their safehouse.
- In the opera La Fanciulla del West, the bandit (love interest of the heroine) is kind, chivalrous, and charming, while the Sheriff of the mining post is a self-absorbed, greedy, would-be adulterer. No surprise on who gets the girl.
- In Siegfried, the hero Siegfried is rude and contemptuous of his Illegal Guardian Mime, who affects politeness in dealing with him. This is taken furthest in their final scene, where Mime affects polite, friendly and fatherly manners while inadvertently revealing his evil intentions. This leads Siegfried to ask him increasingly angry questions and finally kill him on the spot.
- Legacy of Kain: Raziel is one of the more moral characters in the series, which is saying something considering that it runs on Black and Grey Morality, and displays far less respect towards Kain and Moebius than they show him in turn.
- The opening of Castlevania: Symphony of the Night, in which Richter barges into Dracula's castle and interrupts the Count's relaxed wine(?) drinking, greeting him with "Die, monster!" He then insults Dracula, to which Dracula replies very calmly and philosophically. Richter continues insulting Dracula until he provokes a fight. Now that's rude!
- The same is true for every conversation between the protagonists and Death prior to the ending split in Portrait of Ruin. However, Death does have an instance of mocking both Jonathan and Charlotte in the same breath, when, in response to Charlotte scolding Jonathan for antagonizing him by reminding him of what happened to his father, Death mockingly says "To think he needs a little child to admonish him!"
- In Aria of Sorrow, a perfect contrast exists between the snooty and closemouthed Arikado and the helpful and friendly Graham.
- This seems to define Edge and Rubicant in Final Fantasy IV.
- In Shadow Hearts, the hero Yuri is a rough brawler; before he's given a name, he's even referred to as "Rude Hero". His main antagonist is a dapper English Gentleman with a top hat who begins battle with a polite bow.
- In Bayonetta, Bayonetta is pretty flippant and mean to the angels she fights; the big bosses among them, the Cardinal Virtues, are very pleasant in conversation. Also done with Father Balder, who also maintains his manners with Bayonetta while she outright loathes him. Though in Balder's case, he crossed the Moral Event Horizon three times in one scene, and even Ax-Crazy Bayonetta is disgusted by what he's done.
- Part of the reason why Zero Wing was so badly translated is that CATS is using a very formal and polite form of Japanese, while the Captain and his crew are using a brusque, informal form. Even in the Good Bad Translation, contrast "How are you, gentlemen?" with "It's you!"
- Subverted in Dm C Devil May Cry: At first it seems that Mundus is the soft-spoken, polite business man contrasting Dante, who's much more rude and disrespectful than his previous incarnations and will use swearwords often here and there. The subversions comes from later in the game, when we find out that even Mundus isn't above using F-bombs here and there.
- In Final Fantasy VII, AVALANCHE are a rowdy, rather sweary bunch, with even more demure characters like Aeris and Tifa talking with tough slang at times. Sephiroth's dialogue, however, is hugely polite and clinical. (He talks more normally in a flashback before his Start of Darkness.) Cloud, as Sephiroth's specific rival, is a Perpetual Frowner with an overly blunt and arrogant way of talking.
- During the Hierophant Confidant in Persona 5, Sojiro often gets visits from Youji Isshiki, a seemingly cheerful and friendly old acquaintance of his, and is always fairly cold to the other man. After it becomes clear that Youji isn't going away any time soon, Sojiro warns the Player Character that the other man's friendly nature is just an act. It turns out that the man was Sojiro's old friend Wakaba's brother, who ended up abusing his niece after Wakaba's death due to long-seated resentment of her, and made Sojiro pay him to take Futaba off his hands. While Youji's insults and threats are relatively subtle at first, hi façade eventually cracks late in the Confidant, when he calls Futaba a "brat" and a "bitch," and tries to hit her after realizing Sojiro found out about his debts.
- In Sequential Art, Hilary is very pleasant and polite to Art, when they meet at Kat's high school reunion. Kat, on the other hand, starts screaming the word "BITCH!" repeatedly the instant she lays eyes on her. Kat is very polite to everyone else, but Hilary bullied her so much that she became her Berserk Button.
- Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog: Doctor Horrible is an intelligent, respectable guy who happens to be a supervillain, while his archenemy, Captain Hammer, is basically a huge jerk who mocks the homeless. Dr. Horrible seems to think of them as dirty and gross, but at least tries to keep his opinions to himself, and is interested in helping improve their situation (by taking over the world and re-ordering society) even if he doesn't want to touch or be touched by them. Their interactions with Penny are even more telling — Dr Horrible is genuinely interested in her but unsure of how to proceed. Captain Hammer, meanwhile, is blatantly disrespectful of her and goes after her just because it gives him one more thing he can rub Dr Horrible's face in.
- Parodied in The Nostalgia Critic's review of Small Soldiers, with Lady Lovembrace, a Designated Villain Princess Classic, opposite Devil Boner, a manic, shouting, hyper-macho Designated Hero.
- Archer. Everyone who works at ISIS, especially Archer, has strong Jerkass tendencies, with the only exception being the Token Evil Teammate Krieger. KGB agents and other villains will tend to be very polite to the heroes even as they're trying to kill them.
- Star Wars Rebels: Grand Admiral Thrawn is a Wicked Cultured strategic genius who is polite enough to tell off a subordinate for disrespecting a captive rebel in her own house, which the Empire has taken over as a headquarters. The rebel in question, Hera Syndulla, is just as abrasive towards Thrawn as she is towards all the other Imperials she's interacted with. Pretty much all of the Ghost crew are pretty rude and snarky, as a matter of fact.