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"...that class of poor and honourable gentlemen. Their ancestors had attained nobility through some warlike deed. They grew up as sons of valiant squires, who themselves were accustomed to country life and the hunt. From the age of twelve they conditioned themselves to every kind of hardship sleeping in the woods with their dogs, arresting poachers, and fighting every now and then with a neighbor's son over the possession of a hare."
Christopher Duffy, The Military Experience in the Age of Reason

These guys are considered the model military officers. Most forms of media will typically portray the Officer and a Gentleman as being a member of the upper-class in whatever society he originates, and almost undoubtedly attended a Military Academy. If this character is a British officer (or speaking with an English accent), you can often tell whether he is an officer and a gentleman because he will almost invariably speak with a Received Pronunciation (i.e., the Queen’s English). If he's American, he will either be a Southern Gentleman with a soft voice but pronounced Tidewater or Dixie accent (especially if in the Army), or a Northeastern gent with Mid-Atlantic tones (particularly in the Navy). If he is German or French, expect the preposition von or de on his surname. It is very likely he has generations of military traditions and an unbroken lineage of soldiers in his family, and his genetic ancestors may have been knights in shining armour.


Besides typically being a member of the upper crust, an officer and gentleman is personified by his behavior: No matter how savage the fighting, no matter how pitiless the combat, the officer almost never lets his base nature take over. He will remain polite, and even in the worst of situations will always retain his sense of propriety, often unfailingly displaying a Stiff Upper Lip. If a more clever sort, he may be a Gentleman Snarker. After all, a gentleman is not a mere label, but a way of life.

For example, an officer and a gentleman will rarely if ever cuss, and never knowingly in the presence of a lady. He will rarely drink to the point of inebriation, unless it is used for comedic purposes or to tragically show how the war may be taking a toll on him. He would never, ever take advantage of a lady, and will be very protective of women, both of their persons and their sensibilities, even when it is not merited. Further, if you insult his honour, or worse, the honour of a lady he fancies, you may earn yourself a challenge to a duel, unless profuse apology is the next thing out of your mouth. Otherwise, expect a fair, gentlemanly duel in which he will proceed to carve you into cutlets. However, he would not think of fighting dirty, and most certainly Would Not Shoot a Civilian on purpose. On the other hand, if he is evil, he might have some of his less honourable henchmen do the Dirty Business for him. Further, whether good or bad, he will always keep his word… after all, he gave his word as a gentleman. Characters typifying this trope often have the habit, for better or worse, of displaying Honour Before Reason. Expect him to be A Father to His Men. Likely a Cultured Badass, especially when Authority Equals Asskicking is in play.


Do not misunderstand—this fellow can be just as deadly as any other warrior; often more so, because one aspect that is often used with this trope is the fact that the more experienced officers are typically very composed and often have Nerves of Steel, making them less likely to act irrationally or misstep. However, while his training and experience may have forged him into a very skilled fighter, he will rarely be a Combat Pragmatist, and can often fall victim to more unsporting chaps.

When it comes to actual leadership ability, the Officer and a Gentleman runs the gamut. If portrayed in a good light, the officer will be shown as being a Reasonable Authority Figure, like The Brigadier, and if he takes pains to look out for his soldier’s wellbeing, he is A Father to His Men. In a really positive light, they may be shown to be great front-line leaders and warriors as well, playing the role of Colonel or General Badass. If they are being portrayed in a negative light, they will be the Blood Knight, Nazi Nobleman, General Ripper, or The Neidermeyer. If they are cruel and/or incompetent, they will most likely be portrayed as a Colonel Kilgore or General Failure. While these more negative incarnations may be just as dedicated to politeness and etiquette as the good ones, their good behavior is reserved for their superiors and people of proper social rank, rather than the rabble of men they lead. Further, the evil officer would not hesitate saying "We Have Reserves." After all, the only ones whose lives are at risk are the commoner soldiers, and who cares about them?

Remember, what separates this character from the Proud Warrior Race Guy or the Warrior Poet is not only the character’s devotion to honour but to a set of "gentlemanly" principles, which include good manners and etiquette. Most representations of the officer and gentleman are most certainly Lawful Good or at least Lawful Neutral. If on the side of the antagonists, or the major antagonist himself, he will often be Lawful Evil, or likewise Lawful Neutral if meant to be sympathetic, and is often portrayed as an Anti-Villain. Satirical versions of this trope are often represented as being Lawful Stupid.

Compare with Knight Errant and Knight in Shining Armor. Contrast Up Through the Ranks (for an officer who isn't a gentleman) and Gentlemen Rankers (when a gentleman isn't an officer). Compare and Contrast The Gunslinger, who is often considered a more pragmatic, if otherwise similar character. If during peacetime the Officer and a Gentleman was an academic, then he is a Gentleman and a Scholar. If there's focus on the gentleman part then he follows the code of Old-School Chivalry.

The trope shares the same name with the 1982 film An Officer and a Gentleman (starring Richard Gere and Deborah Winger), but the term "an officer and a gentleman" itself actually predates the film.


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    Anime & Manga 
  • Pip Bernadotte in Hellsing is a lot more cultured than most of the men in his squad. And he is the heroine's love interest.
  • Berserk: Roderick of Schtauffen, the "Sailing Prince of Iith" is an aristocratic and educated naval captain who excels in warfare. He never fails to be fair, courteous, and polite, especially towards ladies.
  • Sir Allen Schezar in the The Vision of Escaflowne has this kind of quality, being a well-spoken, clean-shaved gentleman commanding a Ragtag Bunch of Misfits. He seems rather chauvinistic at times to his love interests (Princess Millerna and Hitomi), though this is somewhat explained through his tragic backstory because Allen is pretty screwed up after he failed to protect three women he very much cared for: his mother (dead), his younger sister Selena (kidnapped and tortured by Zaibach, to the point of her becoming someone else), and his first love Marlenne (married King Freyr, had Allen as her lover and the father of her kid Chid unbeknownst to Allen, died too). To top it all, he heavily blames his Disappeared Dad for abandoning their family… not knowing that Leon Schezar had died many years ago. To his credit, he gets better and is reunited with his sister.
  • In Fullmetal Alchemist, Major Armstrong lives this trope, especially compared to the behavior of most of the other officers in the Amestrian Army, who range from sexist pigs, shameless flirts, Badass Briggs soldiers and pencil-necked stiffs, with the occasional psychopath thrown into the mix.
  • To a degree, Hiroshi Yagyuu and Yuushi Oshitari from The Prince of Tennis.
  • 2nd Lt. Alice L. Malvin in Pumpkin Scissors has very definite ideas on what it means to be the daughter of one of "the thirteen noble families." The example she sets shames other less principled members of the privileged class and impresses poor commoners outraged by the nobility's excesses.
  • Ghost in the Shell: Major Kusanagi can be an Officer or a Lady. She can be very kind and blends in perfectly with high society but doesn't hold back her badassitude in combat.
  • In Mobile Suit Gundam Wing, OZ, the special forces unit that overthrows the world government to change the destiny of the human species, strives for its leaders to be this—at least, when they're not being slaughtered by the Gundam pilots. Its unfailingly-cultured and chivalrous commander, Treize Khushrenada, is this in spades accordingly, even amid his scheming and plotting.
  • Several characters in Strike Witches and its associated media. Heinrike Prinzessin zu Sayn-Wittgenstein being the most prominent example, Karlsland ace with noble Orussian heritage.
  • Albert James Moriarty of Moriarty the Patriot is one of the only genuinely well-meaning Blue Blood characters, and he works a Lieutenant Colonel in the army before his retirement to head MI6, using his soldiers to help rescue his brother William in a chessmastered ploy to create the secret service and use it to help Britain.

    Comic Books 
  • Hans von Hammer, from the Enemy Ace comics from DC Comics, is the epitome of the trope.
    • His most notable aspect, apart from working for the other side, is not shooting down already damaged aircraft. A straight-on duel, yes, plinking the defenseless, no.
      • Making it Truth in Comic Books. In the early days of military aviation, fighter pilots had complex rules of chivalry which included "never shoot a cripple."
  • Captain America has his own special ranking within the US military and is considered one of the most gentlemanly of all the heroes in the Marvel Universe. It's not uncommon for even the bad guys to look up to him.
  • In Arrowsmith Fletcher thinks he should be one, but he's not, and neither are the other airmen. Later, the trope is defied in no uncertain terms.
    Fletcher: I'm not a gentleman, all right? My father's a blacksmith!
  • Dastardly & Muttley: Dick describes himself and "an officer and a gentleman"
  • Wonder Woman: While Steve Trevor is rarely a "gentleman" by birth he's nearly always one by action and tends to be a high ranking military officer by the end of his service.
    • Wonder Woman (1942): Steve is quickly promoted to being a USAAF officer and won over Diana and the Holliday Girls with his respect and humility.
    • The Legend of Wonder Woman (2016): Steve Trevor and Lawrence Stone are both USAAF pilots who are very respectful lieutenants who get promotions for their actions, though Steve feels his is undeserved. They are gentlemen by their honorable and polite actions not by class, as they are Americans from lower-middle-class families.
  • While Garth Ennis World War Two comics often portray officers as sleazy Armchair Military there are exceptions.
    • The tank officers inTankies are selfless but refuse to risk their men unfairly. Their general understands this and so he and his aide take a walk near the range of enemy artillery while chatting about bird watching to inspire the others to make the (ultimately successful) charge.
    • The squadron leader in Happy Valley is a reserved, Reasonable Authority Figure whose final scene has him stating that he can't send the Diary of a slain hero home to his family (as it includes classified maneuvers) but he can wait until the end of the war to present it once that is no longer classified rather than just destroy the diary.

  • The protagonist Asher Walters becomes this in later chapters of The Chronicles of Utopia. Enlisted in Veluna's army, he is given officer training and becomes a battalion commander who looks after his men and followers a fairly strict code of conduct, though he is not afraid of using illusion and trickery to confuse and demoralize the enemy.
  • The character of Lieutenant Phillip Holtack, and other British officer types described in, A.A. Pessimal's Slipping Between Worlds. Holtack is a fairly typical product of officer training in the recently modern British Army, a largely easy-going liberally-minded young man, content to leave most of the command and disciplinary stuff to a far more experienced platoon sergeant, considerate to his men and despairingly protective of the rogue and villain Fusilier "Head-Butt" Powell. Abruptly uprooted to a strange and foreign place, he has to work out quickly just how big a bastard he needs to be to survive, but he is still a good-mannered well-brought-up young man who, even without complete awareness of what lady Assassins and female Vampires are capable of, still treats them as a gentleman should… he has also been exposed to hostility and extreme opinions by his right-on feminist sister's associates, but still manages to treat even Greenham Common types with politeness and common respect.
  • The Guardians of Childhood: General Kozmotis Pitchiner is usually portrayed this way, which makes what he later becomes all the more tragic.
  • Britt Reid from The Green Hornet fanfic Bad Medicine is a graduate of West Point Academy and a former Army Captain who served two tours in Afghanistan (which is how he met Kato). He puts the skills he's learned in the Army to good use as the Green Hornet but also retains a sense of honor. He even invokes the words 'as an officer and a gentleman' to get someone he's trying to protect to trust him.

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    Film — Live-Action 
  • Commodore Norrington of Pirates of the Caribbean fame started out this way but went disappointingly south once he fell from royal favor, Death Equals Redemption notwithstanding.
    • He did let his emotions get the best of him even in the first film. When Elizabeth asked him to go rescue Will from Barbossa, Norrington refused until she agreed to marry him. Then all his talk of duty and serving others went right out the window.
  • Colonel Robert Gould Shaw from Glory. Also a Real Life example.
  • Forbidden Planet: While his crew openly lusted after Altaira, Commander Adams was chastising her for her overt and provocative behavior. Granted, the only male she ever had contact with prior to the arrival of the C57D was her father, so her social skills in this area were decidedly undeveloped. And, of course, it was Commander Adams she ultimately fell in love with.
  • Major West in 28 Days Later initially appears to be this sort of character — a civilized, erudite gentleman in contrast to his lewd, boisterous underlings. Then he agrees to let his men gang-rape the female civilians they've "rescued". And seems a wee bit fond of Jim, as well. And then, when Jim brutally slaughters all of his men, he abandons what little of his civilized side he has left and goes completely insane.
  • The movie The Water Horse plays with this trope by initially presenting the captain as per the trope as an Oxbridge educated gentleman leading "common" soldiers, but then reveals him as a mild example of The Neidermeyer before allowing some redemption towards the end of the film.
  • Captain Jack Aubrey in Master and Commander represents this trope to a T. Jack is still gentlemanly in the novels, but is far more complex. He often philanders (away from Mrs. Aubrey!), dislikes and goes to great lengths to avoid duels. Even though he is of far lesser "rank," his friend Dr. Maturin is much closer to this idea.
  • Chard, Bromhead, and Bourne in Zulu.
  • The Bollywood movie "Lakshya" (based on the Kargil War between India and Pakistan) has a sequence where Amitabh Bachchan orders his men to bury slain Pakistani soldiers in accordance to their religion. The soldiers protest, citing the defiling of Indian soldiers by the Pakistani army. His reply, translated roughly, is: "Even in war, we show some decency/dignity" ("हम युध मे भी एक शराफत रखते हैं।").
  • Admiral Boom in Mary Poppins, if you sidestep the fact that he shoots cannons from the top of his roof with absolute punctuality.
  • Captain Anson in Ice Cold in Alex not only recovers from Drowning My Sorrows as he flees Rommel's assault in a beaten-up ambulance but also saves the life of a South African soldier who tagged along for the ride who's revealed to be a German spy.
  • Captain Nicholls in War Horse is a typical example, even objecting to his superior's plan to attack an undefended German garrison with a surprise cavalry charge. Like a good officer, though, he follows orders. He doesn't have much of a Stiff Upper Lip, though, and the look of horror and desperation is evident on his face when he realizes that the Germans have set up machine guns in the treeline, which are mowing down the cavalry. He keeps charging, though.
  • From The Avengers (2012), the good Captain America qualifies. He's less upper-crust and more the ideal American Boy Next Door type; however, he makes up for that with his keen intelligence and artistic talent. He's unfailingly polite to every woman he meets - he shields Black Widow instead of himself or Hawkeye during battle, and he pretty much gets lip-raped by a random secretary because he can't figure out how to turn down her advances without being rude. He will do anything to help a friend, even go on what basically amounts to a suicide mission, alone. The only time we see him drinking heavily is when said friend dies later on - and even then, his hyperactive metabolism won't let him get drunk. He plays The Spock to Iron Man's The McCoy (and challenges Iron Man to a one-on-one fistfight, not over a woman, but because Tony's being the consummate douchebag we all know and love). And the only time we hear him swear is when he's vehemently ordering his love interest (who outranks him) to get the hell outta Dodge before she's shot down by anti-aircraft artillery. Damn.
  • Commander James Bond, serving the Royal Navy before being recruited by MI6 as a double-O agent. He's seen in uniform in You Only Live Twice, The Spy Who Loved Me, and Tomorrow Never Dies.
  • Flowers of War: Colonel Hasegawa of the Imperial Japanese Army is a cultured officer who puts a stop to the slaughter at the convent by having guards posted outside. Appealing to his humanity only goes so far, however, as John finds out. While Hasegawa is better than most Japanese soldiers and may even have personal misgivings about the way the war in China is being fought, his sense of duty compels him to carry out his orders to have the convent girls taken away to become sex slaves for his superiors.
  • Major Chip Hazard from Small Soldiers is certainly no example and is hardly anyone to talk, but he calls Brad out for striking one of the modified Barbie Dolls all the same:
    Chip Hazard: You maggot! An officer and a gentlemen does not strike a lady!
  • The Patriot: This archetype is embodied by General Cornwallis, which was very much the ideal that high-level British officers at the time were at least supposed to strive for. He treats the entire Colonial War as a sporting game with temporary enemies and is more than willing to hold a civil negotiation with Benjamin Martin. At least at first. His subordinate Colonel Tavington, whose brutal, unprofessional conduct in battle initially earns him furious rebukes from Cornwallis, is eventually given free rein to engage in war crimes after Cornwallis has been dealt a personal slight by Martin.
  • Greyhound: The Keeling's commanding officer Commander Ernest Krause; a Reasonable Authority Figure who is fair to his crew, only demanding that two that got into a fight explain their actions, but is called to the bridge before he can mete out discipline so lets the matter drop, does not swear and doesn't allow it in his presence, is quick to give credit where it is due and perhaps more importantly does not blame his men for things that go wrong if it's out of their control, and is a devout Christian.

  • The Alice Network: Captain Cameron is an honorable, kind soldier who would never leave a lady in distress. His gentlemanly qualities only make him more attractive to Eve, who rarely encounters kindness in the course of her life and her short-lived spying career.
  • Discworld:
    • Subverted in Jingo in the form of Willikins, Vimes' butler-turned-sergeant. When addressing Vimes, Willikins is the picture of politeness - so far so good - but when talking to the men under his charge he turns into a bellowing, foul-mouthed authoritarian. Also played straight with Lord Rust, who is the negative, incompetent, "Blue Blood who is polite to equals and superiors only" variety, with lots of "honor" and not a lot of reason, utterly convinced that their enemy (who has spent the last several decades fighting a variety of enemies and getting really good at it) will "turn and flee the minute they taste cold steel"; he is described in Night Watch as following the "subtract the enemy's casualties from thine own, and if the number is positive, then it was a Glorious Victory" school of strategy.
    • Sergeant Jackrum of Monstrous Regiment fame would tell you that, as a sergeant, Wilikins is neither an officer or a gentleman. Sergeants are crafty bastards, and he would know. Lieutenant Blouse from the same book would fit this trope if it were any other kind of story—he's an officer, a gentleman, and honorable to a fault — but war is a very ugly thing that has no time for honor and chivalry.
  • Faramir from The Lord of the Rings fits this trope perfectly. An officer and gentleman, he is extremely honorable (to the point he wouldn't lie even to an orc) and impeccably courteous (even toward his war prisoners).
  • One of the primary themes of Starship Troopers.
  • In Lois McMaster Bujold's Vorkosigan Saga, all Barrayaran officers are expected to be, and sometimes they even are:
    • Aral and Miles play this trope to a tee. However, Aral's reputation as "The Butcher of Komarr" does not.
    • Cordelia—as a captain in the Betan Expeditionary Force — is the female equivalent… as contrasted with Cordelia's prior tour in the Betan Astronomical Survey, where being captain was more like being Team Mom.
    • A young example (and lampshade) is Lieutenant Miles Vorkosigan in Cetaganda who early in the book reminds himself that he is "an officer and a nobleman."
    • Miles' relative Ivan also shows quite a few traits of this. Ivan—a soldier in the Barrayaran Imperial Service—employs some irony when asked, "Are you a hired killer?" He replies, "Well, in a ''sense''." Further, although he has the manners and breeding for this trope, he ends up being the beleaguered enlisted man to Miles most of the time.
    • Being a blend of Samurai and Prussian Junkers, the Vor of Barrayar are expected to act this way whether or not they are technically officers, being a class (excuse me, 'warrior caste') of Officers and Gentlemen.
  • Ista from Bujold's Paladin of Souls is attracted to a man who fits the trope before ending up with that guy's younger brother who behaves much more casual and considers himself second best at everything. Of course, the older one was taken and undead.
  • The Chaste Hero Captain Avery in the book The Pyrates which is a Deconstructor Fleet of pirate movie cliches fits this description perfectly.
  • Very prevalent on both the American and Japanese sides in The Great Pacific War. Prisoners are treated fairly, ships go out of their way to rescue enemy survivors, etc. Especially notable for the Japanese as it was uncommon to portray them as noble warriors rather than brutish savages.

  • Despite being a rabble-rousing populist, General Nortier of The Count of Monte Cristo provides a good example of a gentleman soldier behaving honorably to those of the same class, even if on opposing sides. In the backstory which led to Dantes' imprisonment, Franz d'Epinay's father, a Royalist, was caught infiltrating the group of pro-Napoleon soldiers Nortier belonged to and seeing that d'Epinay was a fellow gentleman, Nortier allowed him to duel to the death instead of simply killing him outright.
  • Several examples in War and Peace. Two prominent ones are the French captain Ramballe and Field Marshal Kutuzov. War isn't very personal; most prisoners throughout the book are treated relatively well, even equally.
  • Capt. Laurence, of Temeraire. He was originally a British Navy captain—where such is apparently expected—before harnessing Temeraire and is still more polished and formal than most of his crew and fellow officers, the Aerial Corps almost necessarily being much less formal. His own crew, out of admiration for him, started taking after his example. He, in turn, began to shed the stiffness in his manners as he embraced his new life.
  • Peter D'Alembord from Sharpe, a charming, elegant, and well-educated gentleman (who only joined the army because he killed a man in a duel). The title character is often pointed out to not be a gentleman, though an officer, although his conduct towards women is usually better than most of his well-born peers
  • Commander Mitth'raw'nuruodo, of the Star Wars Expanded Universe novel Outbound Flight, qualifies as one, if one given to somewhat underhanded tactics and his own set of morals. However, later-set books have him as an Affably Imperial Cultured Warrior.
  • The hares of the Long Patrol army in the Redwall series behave like this (even some of the ones who aren't actually in the Long Patrol). The Long Patrol itself didn't appear by name in the first few books, but grew in importance eventually taking centre stage in (naturally) The Long Patrol.
  • Jane Austen's Persuasion plays this straight with Captain Wentworth.
  • Sten mocks this trope with the incompetent Admiral van Doorman, who prides himself on spit-and-polish while sneering at Army-trained Sten. Yet Sten himself embodies this trope to a certain degree. His Combat Pragmatism is never really seen with regard to women, to the point that it's an Informed Attribute. Doubtless it's to preserve the sympathy of readers who have yet to reach the egalitarian attitudes of the future.
  • The armies of Victorian Europe in the Flashman novels are full of officers who are jovial, charming, considerate of their men, and thoroughly chivalrous. Naturally, our Fake Ultimate Hero protagonist despises every last one of them.
  • The same author wrote semi-autobiographical short stories about his time as a subaltern in the Gordon highlanders, shortly after WW2. The McAuslan series depicts Lieutenant Dand Mc Neill as a typical young gentleman Scottish officer: walking the thin line between managing a platoon of largely Glaswegian soldiers effectively, and doing so to the satisfaction of the Colonel, a much older gentleman officer one step away from retirement. Mc Neill is hailed by his men as a "fly man" - a cunning bastard who leads with style and essential decency.
  • Commissar Ciaphas Cain (HERO OF THE IMPERIUM!) does his best to be seen as one.
  • In Gene Stratton-Porter's Michael O'Halloran (published 1915), cited to counter the argument of a Royal Brat that gentlemen don't work.
    If the world has any gentlemen it surely should be those born for generations of royal and titled blood and reared from their cradles in every tradition of their rank. Europe is full of them, and many are superb men. I know a few. Now, will you tell me where they are to-day? They are down in trenches six feet under ground, shivering in mud and water, half dead for sleep, food, and rest, trying to save the land of their birth, the homes they own, to protect the women and children they love. They are marching miles, being shot down in cavalry rushes, and blown up in boats they are manning, in their fight to save their countries.
  • Rudyard Kipling's Gentlemen Rankers describes those who failed to be this trope.
    • Kipling also poked fun at this trope, noting how useless most of that book-learnin', college degrees, and gentlemanly chivalry actually are on the battlefield.
    A scrimmage in a Border Station-
    A canter down some dark defile
    Two thousand pounds of education
    Drops to a ten-rupee jezailnote .
    The Crammer's boast, the Squadron's pride,
    Shot like a rabbit in a ride!
    No proposition Euclid wrote
    No formulae the text-books know,
    Will turn the bullet from your coat,
    Or ward the tulwar's downward blow.
    Strike hard who cares - shoot straight who can
    The odds are on the cheaper man.
    —"Arithmetic on the Frontier" (1886)
  • Honor Harrington has its fair share.
    • On the Manticoran side, the most prominent are probably Hamish Alexander and Michael Oversteegen.
      • Oversteegen is particularly notable in that he has every known trait of a Manticoran Upper-Class Twit, belongs to the previously self-serving Conservative party, and seemingly got his first major command because his idiotic, cowardly, self-serving cousin was the Prime Minister. Yet he kicks a truly monumental amount of villainous backside while being a good, honorable, dedicated, responsible, brave, hardworking, and generally brilliant officer who believes in aristocratic responsibility as much as he does aristocratic privilege and has no patience for his incompetent relatives.
      • Hamish Alexander is a completely straight example: Earl of White Haven, brilliant tactician, fleet commander, etc.
    • The Havenite side has its share:
      • Javier Giscard, Admiral and romantic partner of future President Eloise Pritchart.
      • Warner Caslet, who sadly defects to the Manties after his sojourn with Honor on Hades.
      • Thomas Theisman, the man who shot Oscar Saint-Just and arguably the most gentlemanly gentleman in the whole Republic, with a depth of patriotism and loyalty that is quite simply staggering.
    • Grayson Officer Commissions specifically say that the bearer is an Officer and a Gentleman. This causes a minor plot point in one short story when someone points out that they never actually changed the wording when they first recruited female officers so technically speaking the female officers are also considered gentlemen rather than ladies (the semi-feudal nature of Grayson law means that the term Gentleman does have some limited legal standing).
  • Captain (later Admiral) John Geary, protagonist of The Lost Fleet is a lone positive example amid a veritable sea of negative ones.
  • Subverted with Kydd during Quarterdeck and Tenacious, as well as other "tarpaulin" officers who "came up aft through the hawsehole". While certainly very good at their jobs through experience, they're considered crude by the standards of those who play this trope straight, which is why Kydd begins to resent his fellow officers in Quarterdeck.
    • Played straight with Renzi during those two books, highlighting his status as a Foil to Kydd.
  • Frequent theme of the works of German author/philosopher Ernst Jünger. In most of his works of fiction, the title character is an officer and gentleman from a royal background. (Especially Heliopolis and the marble cliffs.) The villains of his works are frequently villainous because they violate the nobleman's obligue.
    • Jünger frequently criticized that this attitude dies out because of modernism and the enlightenment, paving ways for war crimes and genocides.
  • The Unknown Soldier has the archetypal Captain Kariluoto, who starts as a White Prince Ensign Newbie, and Lieutenant Koskela, who started as Working-Class Hero and owes his gentlemanly nature not to Blue Blood, but to being a Farm Boy.
  • Richard Hannay, the hero of John Buchan's thriller novels, joins the army and serves as an officer in Greenmantle and Mr. Standfast, retiring with distinction at war's end.

    Live-Action TV 
  • Horatio Hornblower:
    • Sir Edward Pellew, Captain on HMS Indefatigable, later promoted to Admiral. He's a fine fighting man and a fabulous commander who cares about his officers and common crew. He is absolutely charming at a formal dinner party in Gibraltar, hosted by their excellencies Major General Sir Hew and Lady Dalrymple.
    • Major Edrington ("I am in fact the Earl of Edrington") in "The Frogs and Lobsters" (also known as "The Wrong War"). He's an accomplished and capable military leader in the British Army and looks damn fine in his red coat. In his first scene, he appears to be a haughty elitist who sneers at the Royal Navy and demands to be called "My Lord", but he turns out to be ok and behaves like a perfect gentleman (if a Gentleman Snarker).
  • Major Charles Emerson Winchester III from M*A*S*H attempts to affect this trope during his time at the 4077th, with varying degrees of success. He's a brilliant surgeon from a respectable old money Boston family, however, he is very snarky (and not in a Gentleman Snarker way) and often behaves like a jerk.
  • In Rome, Lucius Vorenus has ironclad impulse control (except when it comes to his infamous temper), which is amusing given that the generals of the army (Caesar and Anthony) are just as lewd as the enlisted men.
  • General Hank Landry of Stargate SG-1. Apart from being a fine general, he was also fond of quoting historical figures like Patton and Churchill.
  • Star Trek: The Next Generation: Captain Jean-Luc Picard. Starfleet is a pretty genteel place (exceptions need apply only to the Engineering division, and occasionally Security), but Picard still stands out. Better manners than most of the diplomats we see; unflappable (except around Borg and children); fences; rides horses; fond of classic literature… The writers were certainly well-aware of this tendency in his character, anyway; in the future timeline of "All Good Things…", Picard is an Ambassador (or rather, a retired one). The same honor was previously given to Spock.


    Professional Wrestling 

  • The modern pentathlon of the Olympic Games was intended to replicate a scenario potentially faced by a cavalry soldier caught behind enemy lines –- the competitor rides a horse, swims, uses his pistol and sword, and finally runs to the finish. However, from 1912 (when it was introduced) to 1952, only cavalry officers were allowed to compete. The reason? Cavalry soldiers (i.e., enlisted men and NCOs) rode and trained horses for a living and were considered "professionals." As independently wealthy gentlemen, cavalry officers weren't in the military to make a living; therefore they were classified as Olympics-eligible "amateurs."
  • Canadian figure skater Stephen Gogolev had portrayed a gentlemanly naval officer for his short program during the 2019-2020 competitive season. His elegant costume combined with the choreography and the music ("Grand Waltz" and "Russian Sailor's Dance") convey to the audience that he's gracefully "dancing" with a lady.

    Tabletop Games 
  • The ideal for Imperial Guard officers in Warhammer 40,000, penchant for shooting their own troops for cowardice notwithstanding. As in real life, most of them fall well short.
    • Some Space Marine commanders fit this as well.
    • The occasional Inquisitor falls under this trope.
    • Commander Farsight of the Tau Empire also qualifies. There's a short story in the Farsight Enclaves supplement where he encounters a Space Marine apothecary retrieving the geneseed of the fallen Marines during the battle and lets him go, an act that won respect of the Chapter in question and contributed to the remarkably civil cessation of hostilities when the Imperium had to call off the Damocles Gulf crusade.
  • Crimson Skies has Nathan Zachary; captain of the pirate airship Pandora and known throughout the Americas as the Gentleman Pirate.
  • 7th Sea has too many to count.
  • In Battletech, Marion Marik was this during the Reunification War. Despite the ruler of the Star League having officially rescinded the Ares Accords prior to the war, Marion declared at the onset of her campaign against The Magistracy of Canopus that she and all forces under her command would obey the Accords as long as they were respected by the Magistracy. As a result, the Canopian Campaign was fought considerably cleaner than the Taurian Campaign and the Magistracy survived the war with almost no civilian casualties and considerably less ill will against the Star League.

  • Comically subverted in H.M.S. Pinafore, with extremely polite sailors being shocked when Captain Corcoran breaks his rule about never ("well, hardly ever") swearing.
  • In The Gentleman Ranker all of the officers are British Gentlemen, who can recognize that Private Smith has the right mannerisms. Harford is German, but still an aristocrat.

    Video Games 
  • Captain Anderson and Paragon Commander Shepard in Mass Effect as well as several other, less prominent examples.
  • The general portrayal of the heroic player character in any RPG, generally.
    • Prominently so with the captain in the Neverwinter Nights 2 mod Dark Waters, who goes as far as cutting his own left hand off so that his nemesis won't do the same to one of his crew.
  • In Sabres of Infinity, one of your fellow officers, Elson, is highly educated, well-spoken, and generally friendly towards you, provided you abide by the war's rules of engagement.
  • Tales of the Abyss has General Aslan Frings of the Malkuth Imperial Forces. The first time you meet him, he thanks you for disobeying orders in the name of trying to alert his troops of danger, and he's later shown going out of his way to treat captured enemy troops with respect… even before he falls in love with his Distaff Counterpart from Kimlasca, General Jozette Cecille.
  • General Leo fits this, in Final Fantasy VI.
  • In Paper Mario: The Thousand-Year Door there's General White, a retired Bob-omb general with a rather elegant moustache. Admiral Bobbery comes close too, though he's a little rougher.
  • In Lost Horizon, a number of characters are current or former British army officers, but despite outward appearances, most of them don't make the cut. Fenton lacks the refinement, Huxley lacks the courtesy, and Lord Weston lacks the integrity. Richard Weston might qualify, though.

    Web Original 
  • DSBT InsaniT: Shawn is the leader of some sort of squad, although it has yet to be seen, other than his bodyguard, Kerry. He is certainly a chivalrous and polite guy too.
  • Happy Tree Friends has Flippy, who isn't serving anymore, but still wears his uniform and dogtags. Throughout the series, he is unfailingly polite, more than eager to lend a hand, and has a knack for even enagaging in childish activties. He's such a sweetheart that it's easy to forget he has a Split Personality of an Ax-Crazy mass murderer when reminded of the war he served.

    Western Animation 
  • Though a twenty-six-star General rather than a captain, "captain" Zapp Brannigan subverted this in Futurama with his incredibly lecherous (and cowardly, and irresponsible, and moronic…) behavior.
  • Griff of Gargoyles, complete with British accent and derring-do. He helps the Royal Air Force battle those damn Nazis in the skies above London, later meets the goddamn King Arthur
  • Surprisingly, Yosemite Sam of all people is able to pull this off during the short film Southern Fried Rabbit (1953) by Friz Freleng. Sam is depicted as a Confederate officer who didn't get the message that The American Civil War ended decades ago. Though he relentlessly pursues Bugs Bunny, bent on keeping Yankees off of Confederate soil, when Bugs disguises himself as a woman, Sam is genteel and unfailingly polite to the "Scarlet Ma'am". This is also one of the few times where Sam isn't talking at his usual volume level.
  • Near the end of Dastardly and Muttley in Their Flying Machines episode "Medal Muddle", Dick Dastardly was falling and had no medal to offer Muttley so, in order to convince the dog to save him, Dastardly invoked the trope and promised to help Muttley find his lost medals. Dastardly kept good on his promise.
  • Brick from Total Drama is only a cadet, but considering he's the only one in the show with any military training he still counts. He has a strong No One Gets Left Behind philosophy, gives up his chance of winning a challenge to save the opposing team from a giant, mutant gopher and would be the Team Dad if his rival Jo didn't have near-full control of the team.

    Real Life 
  • Truth in Television: modern-day officer corps are the direct descendants of knights. When warfare became a science instead of an art in the 15th century, most generals noticed that knights - professional soldiers who had trained for fighting, warfare, strategy, and tactics - were far more valuable as officers and commanders of units composed of commoners, rather than privates in elite units.
    • The tradition amongst European noble families is that the eldest son will inherit the estate and the younger sons will select a career, either in military, clergy, academia, or as civil servants. The name cadet for an officer trainee means "younger" in French - cadets were the younger sons of nobility.
    • The best example of this would be the Prussian 'junker' class of middling nobility, who utterly dominated the officer corps of the German army from the 18th century to the end of World War Two.
    • Sons (and, in today's world, daughters) of noble families are even today grossly over-represented in the military academies everywhere in the Western world. Except the United States, for obvious reasons, where they instead tend to be the sons and daughters of the wealthy and well-connected (after all, it's easier to get an appointment to West Point when your dad knows the Congressman making the appointment).
  • Real-life subversion in conduct Robert Graves, the author of I, Claudius, describes doing during World War I. He describes an occasion when a German officer was sighted as being within sniping range, and declaring that it would be dishonorable to kill a fellow officer this way, Graves handed his gun to a lower class soldier and ordered him to make the kill.
  • After the death of legendary German WW1 Ace Oswald Boelcke (known for writing the first manual of air combat, still relevant today), the English sent a plane to drop a wreath mourning the loss.
    • Just because there's a war on, it doesn't mean you have to be insensitive, dontcherknow.
    • World War I had several of these moments, mainly because the war was mostly political and the soldiers were just fighting because they were obliged to.
    • It happened again with Boelcke's student, Mandred von Richthofen, aka the Red Baron. After he was shot down in combat, the Allies organised a full military funeral, and many soldiers placed wreaths on his grave inscribed with such phrases as "To Our Gallant and Worthy Foe".
  • Truth in Television, again: Joshua Lawrence Chamberlain, a Union general at the American Civil War battle of Petersburg, received applause and a brief unofficial cease-fire from both sides for bravery. He later returned the favor at Appomattox when he ordered his troops to salute the surrendering Confederate troops as equals. The Confederate general who received the salute later called Chamberlain "one of the knightliest soldiers of the Federal Army."
    • Which is probably about the only way Chamberlain could have possibly topped his previous feats of talking 80 disgruntled deserters into joining his regiment and then using them to save the entire Union Army (with a bayonet charge!) less than 24 hours later at the battle of Gettysburg, earning himself a well-deserved Medal of Honor.
      • And the kicker is that, in peacetime, he was a professor of rhetoric- basically a guy whose day job was studying and explaining Rousing Speeches.
      • He was also wounded 6 times, but still made it home to become the governor of Maine.
  • In the War Of 1812 the British navy was demoralized after losing several engagements against the newer and heavier American frigates. Captain Broke of HMS Shannon sent his accompanying frigates away, and then sent the following challenge to the USS Chesapeake, safely docked in Boston Harbor, captained by James Lawrence.
    "As the Chesapeake appears now ready for sea, I request you will do me the favour to meet the Shannon with her, ship to ship, to try the fortune of our respective flags. The Shannon mounts twenty-four guns upon her broadside and one light boat-gun; 18 pounders upon her main deck, and 32-pounder carronades upon her quarter-deck and forecastle; and is manned with a complement of 300 men and boys, beside thirty seamen, boys, and passengers, who were taken out of recaptured vessels lately. I entreat you, sir, not to imagine that I am urged by mere personal vanity to the wish of meeting the Chesapeake, or that I depend only upon your personal ambition for your acceding to this invitation. We have both noble motives. You will feel it as a compliment if I say that the result of our meeting may be the most grateful service I can render to my country; and I doubt not that you, equally confident of success, will feel convinced that it is only by repeated triumphs in even combats that your little navy can now hope to console your country for the loss of that trade it can no longer protect. Favour me with a speedy reply. We are short of provisions and water, and cannot stay long here."
    • The USS Chesapeake then left harbor and sailed for the Shannon, neither ship firing until they were at point-blank range. After the battle, there were more than 200 killed and wounded, one of the bloodiest ship-to-ship battles of the age. Captain Broke was badly wounded and would never command another ship. The American Captain Lawrence was killed in action, and buried with full military honors by his enemies, with 6 Royal Navy officers as his pallbearers.
  • Also General Robert E. Lee of the Confederacy, a cultured Southern gentleman who only commanded the Confederacy's army rather than the Union's because his home state of Virginia joined the Confederacy, and Lee believed in My State Right Or Wrong (at the time, most Southerners considered themselves citizens of their home states first and as Americans secondnote ).
  • Nigerian military officer C. Odumegwu Ojukwu led his homeland of Biafra all throughout the Nigerian Civil War, which seceded from Nigeria due to ethnic tensions. He was a well-educated man who studied at Oxford University in England, and he spoke with a refined English accent.
  • Peruvian Admiral Miguel Grau. After sinking the Esmeralda battle boat in 1879, he immediately wrote the Esmeralda captain's widow praising her dead husband's bravery and sent her the guy's personal effects.
    • He also made sure to rescue and shelter the surviving crew of the very enemy ships he fought against and sank, in contrast with other admirals at the time who would take such opportunity to finish them off by shooting them.
    • So well known he was as this, that his nickname, "El Caballero de los Mares" (The Knight of the Seas) was coined by his adversaries, the Chileans.
  • Yet another example: Korvettenkapitän (Lieutenant Commander) Karl von Muller, during World War I as the commander of the commerce raider SMS Emden. He often risked his ship and crew in order to be polite and often released his prisoners aboard neutral or civilian ships. Still regarded as an example of a wonderful campaign and Knightly service.
    • That tradition held into the second war with Kapitän zur See Hans Langsdorff, commander of the German "pocket battleship" Admiral Graf Spee. He strictly held himself to "prize rules", stopping and inspecting merchant ships and giving their crews a chance to evacuate before sinking them. Some crews were taken prisoner, but held in humane conditions; at least once, Langsdorff sent a distress call on behalf of his victim so sailors in boats would be picked up. Only when he was attacked by three British cruisers did the Graf Spee actually kill anybody. The ship was damaged, put into port in Montevideo, Uruguay. As a neutral country, they demanded Graf Spee either leave within 72 hours or be interned for the rest of the war. Believing himself trapped by superior forces, Langsdorff wanted to avoid getting any more of his crew killed and scuttled his ship in the harbor, then sent a telegram to Berlin taking full responsibility and shot himself, symbolically Going Down with the Ship.
  • George Washington was known for his gentlemanly conduct both on and off the battlefield.
    • During one battle of the Revolutionary War, the dog of British Commander-in-Chief William Howe wandered into the colonial camp. Washington had the dog returned with a friendly letter, and Howe wrote a glowing assessment of Washington's character in his journal.
    • During the winter at Valley Forge, when Washington took up residence in a local farmhouse, he actually paid rent (as opposed to simply occupying the house by force).
  • Major John Andre, the British spymaster who assisted Benedict Arnold's treason and was caught and hanged by the Americans, comported himself with such dignity that even his jailers were saddened by the necessity of his sentence. His only complaint was that he would have preferred to face a firing squad (as a soldier, rather than be hanged as a spy). When the time came, he blindfolded himself and put the noose around his own neck.
  • "Conduct unbecoming an officer" is still a listed court-martial offence in the British armed forces, the "and a gentleman" part having been removed in letter but enduring in spirit.
    • It's still an offense in the US military as well (and the "gentlemen" bit remains), usually tacked on to any other offense(s) an officer commits.
  • Subverted by the Auxiliary Division of the Royal Irish Constabulary during the Irish War of Independence. Composed of veteran WW1 officers, they had a notorious reputation for their lack of discipline, drunkenness, for carrying out murderous atrocities and for burning Cork city center to the ground. They later wore burnt cork in their hats as a symbol.
  • Gregorio del Pilar, one of the youngest generals in the Philippine Revolutionary forces, and one of the youngest commanders in the Philippine-American War. After a delaying action to cover Philippine leader Aguinaldo's retreat, the five-hour standoff resulted in Del Pilar's death due to a shot to the neck. Del Pilar's body was later despoiled and looted by the victorious American soldiers and his body lay unburied for days, exposed to the elements. An American officer, Lt. Dennis P. Quinlan, was disturbed by this treatment of what he deemed a Worthy Opponent and gave the body a traditional U.S. military burial. Upon del Pilar's tombstone, Quinlan inscribed, "An Officer and a Gentleman".
  • Erwin Rommel was the most chivalrous of the Wehrmacht's frontline Generals and Field Marshals: he committed no War Crimes at all, not even letting POW die of neglect or implementing the standard Retaliation Ratios (50:1 for wounded, 100:1 for dead) in response to partisan attacks! He is one of two Generals of Combat or Security units, of more than five hundred, known not to have done these things. He also embarrassed the Wehrmacht by refusing to execute Jewish POWs, and even demanding that slaves be paid for their labour (when building the 'Atlantic Wall' of anti-amphibious-landing defenses in France using French slaves)!
    • Rommel is also known to have expressed objections when the SiPo sent a survey party to North Africa to "assess the Jewish problem" in Jewish ghettoes in North African cities then under Axis control. Rommel pointedly said that with shipping space so limited and problematical, he would have preferred an equivalent number of fighting soldiers, or their weight in petrol or ammo, rather than a bunch of Useless Mouths (using the rhetoric applied to Germany's disabled, who were being euthanized in Aktion T-4) to feed and house out of his scarce resources. No more SS personnel were dispatched to Africa. However, if he had succeeded in capturing Palestine then, police units would have been sent there to cleanse it. Rommel's reputation as "the Good German" would then have been shot.
    • During the Fall of France, Rommel's division murdered numerous French colored soldiers after they'd been taken prisoners - a ffew time crushing them under their tanks' tracks. It was not on his orders ( and other divisions did the same ) but he knew of at least some of the murders and did nothing to prevent them.
  • General Hans-Jürgen von Arnim was the closest thing the Wehrmacht had to another 'white sheep' among its Generals and Field Marshalls, and one who illustrated the difficulty of not participating or being implicated in War Crimes unless one refused command or was posted to North Africa. Commander of the 17th Panzer Division during Operation Barbarossa, he refused to implement the 'Commissar' Order and is not known to have taken any action against civilians beyond the usual 'foraging'. While the POW he captured and sent to the rear areas did suffer the same fate as the rest, as a mere junior commander he could make a reasonable claim not to have been able to do anything about that. On the 1st of October 1941, he was appointed to command of the XXXIX Panzer Corps, Army Group North, and charged with the maintenance of the Siege of Leningrad. More than 600k dead civilians later, in late November '42 he was transferred to command the 'Fourth Panzer Army' (little more than a Division) under Rommel's North African Front. Appointed to command the Front upon Rommel's recall in February 1943, he surrendered it in May '43.
  • Jimmy Stewart, or rather, Brigadier General James Stewart, often described by his costars as one of the nicest men in Hollywood. And a man who survived the disastrous Schweinfurt raid and many more bomber missions in World War II when he could have asked for, and easily received, a cushy job with the Air Force Motion Pictures Unit.
  • Finland's very own Churchill, Field Marshal and later President Mannerheim. Being raised in an upper-class family, serving in the Russian court, and then as Supreme Commander in Finland's four wars did little to prevent him from being a true gentleman. He did, however, subvert it on occasions. His predecessor as president, Risto Ryti, gave a solemn personal pledge that he would continue their strictly-unofficial alliance with Nazi Germany against the Soviet Union - including holding up their sector of the Siege of Leningrad (which did not extend to sending raiding parties out to disrupt the food imports across Lake Ladoga). On the 2nd of February 1943, the last survivors of the Stalingrad pocket surrendered. The following day Mannerheim met with the Cabinet, Mannerheim's memoirs claiming they unanimously agreed that Germany was utterly screwed and that they had to find a way to ditch them at the earliest opportunity. The moment came some eighteen months later when the Soviets threw the Germans back from Leningrad and drove them into the Baltic: Ryti resigned, Mannerheim took office, and the new government declared war on Germany. When the Nazis demanded that they explain their 'betrayal', Mannerheim (politely if snarkily) reminded the Germans that A) their countries had never had an official alliance and B) countries are not bound by personal pledges of their leaders (however solemn).
    • Mannerheim also had a great distaste for Hitler, even refusing to shake hands with him without gloves. To most other German officers (those who weren't Nazis) he was most polite.
    • Not that it prevented him from having several thousand POW executed after the Civil War.
    • This trope is somewhat averted in the Finnish armed forces in general. All applicants to the Finnish Military Academy must already have attained the rank of vänrikki (2/Lt in Army) or aliluutnantti (Sub-Lieutenant in Navy) as conscripts and passed the Reserviupseerikoulu (Reserve Officer Academy) curriculum and acted as platoon leaders as conscripts. They have thus already been "pre-selected" and are more Up Through the Ranks officers rather than Officer and a Gentleman type. Note that sons of old nobility are still somewhat over-represented amongst Finnish officers as they are likely to take military career due to family traditions.
  • Zig-Zagged with the Soviets. The Red Army amid the Russian Civil War did have a good number of ex-Tsarist officers who made up most of the Red officer corps. A good number of these officers played this trope straight, but many of them such as Semyon Budyonny came from poorer backgrounds and those with a penchant for vulgarity were more favored by the communist ideology to contrast with the White Army's noble officer corps. Once the USSR was established, this trope was generally averted as gentleman officers were portrayed as imperialist class enemies, and the idea was to instead establish that anyone could be an officer. This culminated in the great purge ridding much of the Soviet's old guard officer corps due to the paranoia that they were politically unreliable, even ones who were never Tsarists or nobles, and thus young inexperienced officers who were at least reliably communist took their place. This purge contributed to multiple Soviet setbacks in the early 1940s, but the growing professionalism of the Red Army in World War II brought upon pragmatic forces that embraced professional officers, relented purges, and saw those hastily promoted young officers mature and transform the Red Army onto the most devastating land force on the planet. By the Cold War era, the Soviet Army's officers were "red" gentlemen and nobles that indulged in special privileges but sought to end the "decadent" west as well despite their own vulgarity.
    • Generally, the Warsaw Pact's officers averted this trope due to their poorer backgrounds unless they were Soviet collaborators. They did come close to being part of the closest thing a socialist state had to nobility though and post 1989 central/eastern European armies looked at military officers with suspicion due to their communist ties.
      • NATO's Western European and North American officers similarly by the Cold War were no longer disproportional nobles, but this didn't stop the two sides of the iron curtain from portraying each other's officers as decadent oligarchs. The wealthy and well connected were still over-represented in both sides' officer schools, however, but average Joes commissioned from the ranks were steadily taking over due to the need for military build up.
  • The Patron of the Brazilian army, Duke of Caxias. As implacable was he was on the battlefield, he was known for treating all his foes as equals, offering them mercy and being open to diplomacy.
  • Field Marshall Sam(ji) Hormus(ji) Jamshed(ji) Fram(ji) Manekshaw of the Indian Army. Each of the "ji"s are honorifics appended to his actual name as a mark of respect from both military and civilian government officials who had the opportunity to work with him. And what did he accomplish militarily? Nothing less than liberating Bangladesh in sixteen days
  • Preceding Manekshaw was the only other five star general in the Indian Army - the polyglot Renaissance Man known as Kodadendra Madappa Cariappa.


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