The Fisticuff-Provoking Comment marks the point in a dispute when verbal violence escalates to physical violence. Typically, it occurs during a heated argument when one character goes too far and says something insulting and/or offensive to another character who responds with force.
Similar to Rage Breaking Point except with a Fisticuff-Provoking Comment, the character is already expressing his rage before the punches fly. Also similar to Berserk Button except that trope often involves people making innocent comments that inadvertently trigger someone and the same words, phrases, and subjects always touch off a character. In contrast, a Fisticuff-Provoking Comment depends upon the context and circumstances the offensive statement is made. There may be times when the same offending words and phrases won't elicit any type of violent response from the character. Also, a Fisticuff-Provoking Comment is often something that would reasonably enrage someone thereby making the recipient's physically violent response a foreseeable outcome. It can be the reason a character who Can't Take Criticism reacts violently and be an example of someone trying to win a argument through Appeal to Force.
Can overlap with Talk to the Fist but that trope is about interrupting someone else while they're talking, whereas the Fisticuff-Provoking Comment is timing-insensitive.
Sometimes immediately after the Fisticuff-Provoking Comment and before the violence begins, the character-who-is-about-to-physically-attack-the-other will say something like "Them's fightin' words!", "[Verb] This!", or some variation on "Shut Up, Hannibal!" Other times, it will be a Pre Ass Kicking One Liner or Pre-Mortem One-Liner in more extreme cases. A Turn the Other Fist fake-out can also occur.
Argument of Contradictions, Cavemen Versus Astronauts Debate, Passive-Aggressive Kombat, Volleying Insults, I Shall Taunt You, Trash Talk, Unsportsmanlike Gloating, Your Mom (and especially I Banged Your Mom), and "The Reason You Suck" Speech can lead up to the Fisticuff-Provoking Comment. A Bar Brawl, Diner Brawl, Escalating Brawl, Big Ball of Violence, Cat Fight, Glove Slap, Throwing Down the Gauntlet, Duel to the Death, Blood on the Debate Floor, and Armor-Piercing Slap can result afterward. Someone pulling a Wounded Gazelle Gambit may purposely say something to trigger violence.
A frequent occurrence on a Talk Show with Fists.
Contrast with Hit Me, Dammit! if the punchee explicitly wants to be punched.
- A notorious drawing◊ by Caran d'Ache about the Dreyfus case show a common meal ending in a mass fighting once someone speak about the aforementioned case.
- Asterix: The page image comes from "Asterix and the Actress"; Roman actress Latraviata, while posing as Panacea, causes a heated argument between Asterix and Obelix. When Asterix, in the heat of the moment, pushes Obelix's Berserk Button by calling him fat, Obelix punches him. He immediately regrets it though, since, while they had their arguments before, this is the first time ever he punched Asterix.
- In Bambi II, Ronno confronts Bambi during the start of the climax, the latter already at an emotional low due to his father handing him over to a doe. Ronno, who has gotten competitive towards Bambi throughout the film, starts heckling Bambi, though the latter, while clearly ticked, walks away. Then Ronno mocks the fact his father was supposedly ashamed enough of him to give him away. Bambi turns around and angrily bucks Ronno onto the floor. Cue the deer fight.
- Lilo & Stitch 2: Stitch Has a Glitch: Stitch is forced to restrain Lilo when Myrtle gloats that she'll beat her at the hula-dancing contest. But when she says that she'll never be as good as her late mother was, a furious Stitch lets go and proceeds to photograph the ensuing catfight.
- In Planes, Trains and Automobiles, an aggravated Neal (Steve Martin) learns the hard way that a snide remark can lead to physical pain.
Cab Dispatcher: Where are you going?
Cab Dispatcher: Chicago?
Neal: Yeah, Chicago.
Cab Dispatcher: You know you're in St. Louis?
Neal: Yes I do.
Cab Dispatcher: Why don't you try the airlines? It's faster and you get a free meal.
Neal: If I wanted a joke, I'd follow you into the john and watch you take a leak. Now are you gonna help me or are you gonna stand there like a slab of meat with mittens?
[cab dispatcher punches him in the face]
- Star Trek (2009): Kirk tries to prove that Spock doesn't have his emotions in check, and succeeds when he cracks about his mother, who had just perished in the destruction of Vulcan. Even then, he still probably didn't expect what would happen when he did.
- In Goliath, Deryn hits Alek when he accuses her of not being a real soldier when he finds out that she was actually a girl. She dares him to repeat himself, only to hit him every time he does.
- El corazón nunca se equivoca: Temo's implication that Mateo is jealous of him is what causes the latter to push him and start a fight.
- The George Lopez Show: In "Why You Crying?", Max mouths off at Benny, who gives him a slap on the face when he tells her to "get her tired ass home".
- Star Trek: The Original Series:
- In the "This Side of Paradise" episode, Kirk intentionally delivers a series of vicious insults to Spock in order to anger him enough to fight off the influence of pacifying plant spores. Spock manages to hold out until Kirk says he belongs in a freak show with "the dog-faced boy". Curb-Stomp Battle ensues.
- Played hilariously in "The Trouble with Tribbles", with a Klingon who's trying to provoke Enterprise crewmembers into fighting him. Chekov in particular is on the verge of attacking him every time he insults Captain Kirk, but Scotty keeps holding him back, saying "We're big enough to take a few insults." This prompts the Klingon to change tactics and aim for Scotty's Berserk Button by calling the Enterprise a "garbage scow". This gets a reaction.
Scotty: (Death Glare) Laddie...don't you think you should...rephrase that?
Klingon: (imitating Scotty's brogue) Yerr right. I should. (normal voice) I didn't mean to say that the Enterprise should be hauling garbage. I meant to say that it should be hauled away as garbage. (laughs)
(Scotty slowly stands up and punches the Klingon. Bar Brawl ensues.)
- Turns up in the promos for the following WWE episodes:
- The promo for the go-home episode of Raw prior to Money in the Bank 2011 had CM Punk comparing John Cena (a Bostonian and a diehard Red Sox fan) to the New York Yankees, prompting a punch from the usually calm Big Match John.
- For the Smackdown Live! episode after Hell in a Cell 2018, a promo had Becky Lynch telling Charlotte Flair "I just want you to call me queen" as Charlotte turns her back. Becky then adds a calm "bitch" prompting Charlotte to attack her ex-friend.
- In the promo for the June 18, 2018 episode of Monday Night Raw, Alexa Bliss made the mistake of calling Ronda Rousey an "overhyped rookie". Cue Ronda kicking Alexa's ass, GM Kurt Angle's ass, several officer's asses... and getting a suspension for the troubles.
- In Kingdom Hearts II, Sora and the party mistake the Steamboat Willie version of Pete for the bad guy Pete they fight with on occasions. After one too many insults and calling SW Pete a bad guy, he fights the party after being insulted too many times, yelling at them for what did he do to earn their anger and mentions that their comments are fighting words.
- Family Guy:
- In "Play It Again, Brian", Peter and Brian have an argument when the former finds out that the latter tried to have sex with Lois. A Bar Brawl ensues when Peter mocks Brian for his inability to hold down a girlfriend and says that his longest-lasting date (Jillian) was "dumber than Lou Ferrigno".
- In "Tiegs for Two", Brian goes on a date with Quagmire's old flame, Cheyl Tiegs, so he dates his ex-girlfriend Jillian to spite him. When both couples go on a double date, Brian and Quagmire get into a verbal sparring match that involves spilling each other's secrets, and Quagmire goes berserk when Brian asks "Does Jillian know you're half-Polish, Mr. Quagglechek?".
- Looney Tunes: This often happens when Yosemite Sam confronts Bugs Bunny. However, before Sam can physically attack him, Bugs instead uses Sam's angry state to trick him into, say, stepping across a line at the edge of a diving board.
Yosemite Sam: Now, you dog-blasted, ornery, no-account, long-eared varmint!
Bugs: Hey, just a minute, you! Dem's fightin' woids!
Yosemite Sam: Yeah, dem's fightin' words!
Bugs: I dash ya to step across dis line. [traces line along edge of diving board]
Yosemite Sam: I'm a-stepping. [steps over line and off board]
- Often played for laughs on The Simpsons.
- In the "Colonel Homer" episode, there's this exchange:
Redneck 1: Let's fight.
Redneck 2: Them's fightin' words!
- Happens twice in the "Grampa vs Sexual Inadequacy" episode.
- The first time, Homer and Abe are at the mall trying to peddle Abe's homemade aphrodisiac. Homer approaches a man saying, "Hello sir! Yes, you look like a man who needs help satisfying his wife." The would-be customer responds by punching him in the face.
- The second time occurs after Abe's aphrodisiac results in Springfield's adults spending all their time in their bedrooms and abandoning the city to the children. Bart attributes the absence of grown-ups to an invasion plan by "the saucer people" but Milhouse sharply disagrees stating it's the result of "a massive government conspiracy" and accuses Bart of being part of it. Bart reacts by attacking Milhouse and the two briefly scuffle on the floor before Lisa breaks up the fight.
- The people of Springfield are prone to getting into mass brawls that usually start with one character becoming so offended by what another character said that he punches him in the face. This, in turn, encourages every single person on the street to start brawling with whichever person is closest to them at the time.
- In the "Colonel Homer" episode, there's this exchange:
- In the Wild West there supposedly were four fighting words that you would call someone only if you were prepared to fight for your life: coward, thief, liar, and cheater (especially when playing cards in a saloon).
- Truth in Television: The phrase, "Them's fightin' words!" comes from "fighting words" which originated as a legal term describing words spoken to deliberately incite a fight (e.g., in Tennessee and the DC area, you can get arrested for calling someone a coward if they refuse to fight you). The "fighting words" defense for assault in common is based on the premise that what someone said was so recognizably enraging that the injured party became an Asshole Victim and the person who punched/slapped them was entirely justified in doing so.
- Among The Mafiya, calling someone "cock/rooster" ("petukh" in Russian) is the gravest insult, because that terms denotes the lowest of the Russian criminal prison castes. As a result, the only appropriate response to this insult is to immediately physically assault the one using it, lest you be actually considered a petukh for the rest of your life. This holds even when you are outmatched and outgunned.
- Averted with the legal excuse of provocation, which doesn't allows mere words to be considered.
- What provoked Zinedine Zidane's headbutting of Marco Materazzi in the 2006 FIFA World Cup Final that earned Zidane a red card was Materazzi calling Zidane's sister a whore.
- The writer Osamu Dazai and Nakahara Chuuya met up in a cafe and exchanged some insults and observations while it stayed mostly calm. Until Chuuya asked Dazai for his favorite flower, at which Dazai answered (allegedly): 'Peach blossoms.' He chose these small flowers as a jab to the 160cm 'tall' Chuuya, who almost bashed Dazai's face in after that.