This trope is when someone sates their need for revenge by taking a much pettier (or at least non-harmful) revenge on the subject before forgiving them. Typically in the form of a prank or superficial attack.
The reasons for this can vary; the hero might have done something wrong (or attacked someone innocent by mistake, or taken down someone who deserved it) and actually been forgiven, or they might have been framed or made The Scapegoat, in which case it's likely to satisfy some sort of oath. Other times they may not have been planning a particularly serious revenge to begin with, but the audience or the victim assumes they are (for roughly the same effect) or it might be clear that the recipient deserves it (in which case it shows that they've already been forgiven).
If they swore to do something specific, they might invoke Exact Words to take a lighter revenge (for example, they might "take their life" by humiliating them to destroy their social life). May involve a Cool and Unusual Punishment or even a quite enjoyable Unishment.
Super Trope to My Fist Forgives You (where the "revenge" in question is a physical blow) and the Paranoia Gambit (where the transgressor's own reaction to the threat of revenge is the revenge). Subtrope of Easily Forgiven. Can be a way to deliberately invoke a lighter shade of Redemption Equals Affliction. Compare Forgiven, but Not Forgotten if the character still harbors resentment while forgiving the wrongdoer. Contrast Cycle of Revenge and Disproportionate Retribution (which it may also be used to subvert). If they don't want to admit it, they may claim it's a case of Villain's Dying Grace.
- In one episode of Trigun, Vash agrees to help a wealthy town mayor who is being threatened by a bandit leader...until he finds out the mayor murdered the bandit's peaceful family and took their land to build his town, at which point he stands aside when they confront each other. With the mayor's beautiful daughter pleading for her father's life, the bandit ends up shooting him in the leg instead of the killing he had originally planned on.
- In Love Hina, Keitaro constantly gets Megaton Punched by the Tsundere cast (usually for something that wasn't really his fault.) There's at least two instances where the girl in question (Naru and Motoko respectively) realizes he was genuinely trying to help her, winds up for the usual violence, and then taps him on the head while he goes "huh?".
- In Soul Eater, after defeating Chrona (who'd previously almost killed Soul), Maka delivers a mild version of the Maka Chop by lightly tapping him/her on the head with a book.
- In an episode of Ghost in the Shell: Stand Alone Complex, Batou is tasked with tracking a soldier he'd encountered in the past who became a Serial Killer with the help of a couple of CIA agents. (They're hoping he'll snap and kill him to cover up the war crimes he committed on their behalf). When he has him cornered, he seems ready to kill him, but instead opts to empty his pistol into the wall and arrest him.
- In Prison School, after Shingo admits to the group that he was acting as The Stool Pigeon all the while treating Kiyoshi like crap, Kiyosh tells him stand up and... proceeds to gently tap his shoulder with his fists, stating that true friends forgive one another no matter what. Then Shingo admits that not only was he hanging out with a girl behind their backs but also saw her nipple, at which point they beat him to a bloody pulp.
- Dragon Ball Z
- In Battle of Gods, Lord Beerus said he would destroy the Earth primarily as retaliation for Buu refusing to share his pudding with him. After the climax, he blasts a small rock rather than the whole planet and leaves satisfied in having destroyed "a very small earth".
- After Krillin is killed by Frieza and with Gohan as the next target, Goku goes after Frieza with the intent to kill him. After beating the holy hell out of each other, Goku finally has Frieza at his mercy, but decides to simply let him live with a shattered ego. Frieza presses the issue, but then gets cut in half by his own energy disc. Goku gives Frieza some of his energy and tells him to just leave, but when Frieza decides to ignore Goku's generous offer to let him leave alive for the second time, Goku calls Frieza a fool, and Frieza is blasted to pieces and Left for Dead.
- The Pony POV Series has this happen when the Dark World Mane Six finally confront Discord, who was mortally wounded by his sister Rancor and on his deathbed. Partially due to the machinations of Nightmare Paradox, the others (sans Twilight, who's realized something is wrong) deliver a No-Holds-Barred Beatdown to Discord. Apple Pie, however, merely walks up to him, gives him a "The Reason You Suck" Speech, and walks away satisfied with that.
- In This Bites!, Cross finally repays Robin for almost killing him during their first meeting, letting Chopper almost dissect him, and encouraging the Groin Attacks from the other girls... by giving her a noogie.
- In Killer Bean Forever, Killer Bean gets even with the bartender by going to the loo, leaving a "double flusher" in there...and only flushing once.
- The main character of Minority Report finds himself confronted by the man who sexually assaulted and then murdered his young son, with a gun in his hand. It looks very much like he's going to simply blow the guy away, but at the last moment he regains control of himself and reads the man his Miranda rights... and then we find out that things aren't quite how they seemed.
- In the H.I.V.E. Series book five, Laura is cornered by Block and Tackle. Lucy protects her by forcing the boys to stand in the middle of the hallway hugging for days. Although the rest of the cast thinks this is hilarious, Lucy worries they may starve, unable to think their way out of her mind control because they're too stupid.
- In Honor Among Enemies, one of the characters - the series' first full-book-length viewpoint character who isn't a commissioned officer, Aubrey Wanderman - falls afoul of Randy Steilman, a low-life thug who's spent his last 20 years trying (in no particular order) to avoid work and hurt people. After a fairly vicious beating by Steilman, Wanderman is counseled by Horace Harkness to seek hand to hand combat training with the ship's marine complement. One growth arc later, Wanderman hands out a fairly vicious beating to Steilman after Steilman attempts - and nearly succeeds at - murdering his best friend. For the beating, Wanderman suffers through a Captain's Mast (a nonjudicial punishment hearing in front of the Captain) where he is sentenced to... spend a day locked in his quarters and lose a week's pay. Compared to the planet that could have fallen on him for his actual offense (3 grades' demotion from his permanent rank of Electronics Technician 1st Class and up to 45 days' imprisonment on the spacegoing equivalent of bread and water), he was getting a tiny slap on the wrist that conveyed actual - if unofficial - approval.
- In Tangerine by Edward Bloor, the resident badass protects his rep after being slighted by "kicking his ass"—literally, kicking him in the rear.
- In the Law & Order: UK episode "Immune", after being asked to lie in court (pretending that Jake Thorne must have misunderstood him), Casey gets even with Thorne by using his testimony to call him stupid (invoking Hanlon's Razor to explain why he was misunderstood). In the American version, Detective Curtis insults ADA McCoy in a similar manner for similar reasons.
- In Scrubs after J.D. coaxes Elliot away from her boyfriend...only to realise that he doesn't want her. After spending the whole season being mad at him, Elliot gets her revenge by giving him a note that he assumes will tell his current Love Interest (and Elliot's mentor), Dr. Molly Clock, that she's forgiven him and she doesn't need to feel guilty about sleeping with him. One mad dash later, he gives it to Clock, who reads it and says it's addressed to J.D.; "Now we're even."
- The Office (US): Michael initially threatens Dwight with losing his job after he finds out Dwight lied about his dentist appointment, and was actually meeting with Michael's superior Jan to try to convince her to give him the regional manager position. He forgives him after Dwight breaks down into pleas for mercy, and the two even watch a movie together, but he still punishes him by having him stand on a box the next day wearing a sign that says "Liar". He also has him do his laundry for a year.
- In Power Rangers S.P.D., Commander Cruger has defeated Emperor Gruumm, the one who destroyed his homeworld and left him and his wife the last of their kind, as well as caused a massive amount of pain and suffering to the Earth and the universe, and has him at his mercy. Gruumm tells him to Strike Me Down with All of Your Hatred. Cruger swings...and slices off Gruumm's horn (Cruger cut off the other one a long time ago) and arrests him.
- In an episode of Night Court, one of Dan's old high school classmates threatens to blow him up as revenge. Harry convinces him he would be no better than Dan if he killed him. So he settles for revealing his real name: Reinhold..
- The Mr. Potato Head Show: After Mr. Potato Head has a segment of his show where Queenie gets hit by about a dozen pies, she tells him she's not upset because of her new philosophy: Don't get mad—get even! She then pies him in the face. He laughs it off and admits he deserved it.
- In the Biblical book of Genesis, Joseph is Prime Minister of Egypt when he meets his treacherous brothers (Excepting Reuben, who was halfway decent to him, and Benjamin, who was a complete innocent in the conflict) as they come to purchase food and failed to recognize him. As much as Joseph could have had them all executed, he satisfies himself with scaring them by accusing and jailing them for three days as spies, keeping Simeon in prison until they return with Benjamin, and purposefully arranging Benjamin to be falsely accused of petty theft until he was satisfied they had matured enough to let them off the hook and reveal his true identity.
- In Hawaiian Mythology, the snow-goddess Poliahu takes revenge on her fiance Aiwohikupua after he stood her up at their wedding because he wasn't quite over his ex yet. She afflicts his other lover Hina actually a form of Pele; this is a major reason these goddesses don't get along with chills. The kahuna take Hina down the mountain to a sunny spot to warm her up, at which point Poliahu switches Hina's chills to fever. Aiwohikupua decides he'd better go talk to Poliahu, and while he's on the mountain, he too is afflicted with chills and then fever. He begs the angry goddess for mercy, and she shakes her head at him and goes back up to the summit of Mauna Kea by herself. Hina decides it's too dangerous to continue the relationship and breaks up with Aiwohikupua, who himself becomes Persona Non Grata because of his dishonesty.
- In Two Gentlemen of Verona, Valentine catches his best-friend-turned-villain Proteus trying to rape his girlfriend. He decides that Proteus' punishment will be nothing more than the embarrassment of hearing the story of his crimes related to his friends and to the Duke.
- The titular revenge in Zemsta is marrying Rejent's son to Klara, instead of Podstolina - then it turns out that all this wonderful money Podstolina has actually belongs to Klara. So Cześnik is quite a bit embarassed at the end.
- Dawn of War: Retribution: At the end of the ork campaign, Kaptin Bluddflagg tracks down Inquisitor Adrastia, who'd shot his ship out of orbit at the beginning, and refused to give him her Nice Hat as a bonus (the deal was to kill Kyras in exchange for getting a battle set up with three Imperial Guard regiments wherever he wanted). He grabs and lifts her in one hand, loudly proclaims that if she's no good for a fight, she's of no use to him... then grabs her hat, drops her and leaves. Subverted in that while Adrastia thinks she got off lightly, considering someone not worth killing is the absolute worst insult orkdom can think of.
- Portal 2: GLaDOS seems to believe she's doing this for Chell, who killed her in the first game. Rather than killing Chell, GLaDOS simply makes Chell go back to testing.
- Dragon Age: Inquisition: Chief Movran the Under pelts Skyhold with a live goat as the bare minimum for avenging his son. He considers his son an idiot for going after the Inquisition when he was supposed to be attacking Tevinters.
- In the original Mortal Kombat universe, Kung Lao had sworn to avenge the defeat of his ancestor, the original Kung Lao, who had been killed by Goro in a previous tournament. By the time Kung Lao finally came face-to-face with Goro, they were working on the same side against Shinnok. After Kung Lao lashed out and struck Goro without warning during a Pre-Battle Banter, he immediately relented and declared that the ceremonial blow had "avenged" his ancestor, allowing the two to work together for the rest of the conflict.
- In Dan and Mab's Furry Adventures, Jyrras is marked for Fey vengeance. Dan recounts his own experience: Creatures leave you alone, terrified of what the Fey in question will do to them if they interfere. The vengeance imposed upon Dan? All of his feathers fall out if he eats shellfish. What eventually happens to Jyrras? He's made Bachelor of the Year. He hates the publicity. The reason the Fey do this is because as they are virtually immortal (time is stated not to matter to them and they tend to live for very long time), they tend to take a long time to make up their minds about what the punishment shall be and they hate finding out that someone else killed off their target in the meantime.
- Or so they claim. In actuality, Jyrras's mark was put on him in order to protect him from other creatures attacking him because of the threat he presents; the Bachelor of the Year "revenge" made him into a public figure who was always being followed around by the press and thus was much more difficult to assassinate quietly. Dan notes that he took advantage of his own mark to mess with some of the creatures he was confronting. The fey marks are probably yet another way for the fey to subtly exert their influence over the world and put certain people under their protection.
- Vinnie, a recurring character in Gargoyles, repeatedly suffers misfortune at the Gargoyles hands and finally seems to break under the pressure, muttering constantly that he's going to take his revenge. He has a huge custom gun made, which he names "Mr. Carter" and tracks down Goliath and threatens him with it. However, Mr. Carter fires... cream pies. After the Pie in the Face, Vinnie walks off humming, apparently satisfied with his revenge. It should be noted that the futility of the pursuit of revenge is a recurring theme in Gargoyles. Several villains are hamstrung by their inability to let go of old grudges, and more than a few episodes have explicitly used this as an aesop. Vinnie is the only character in the series who sought revenge and got away with it, mostly because his intent wasn't murderous.
- In "Dan Vs. the Wolfman", Dan hunts down the eponymous wolfman responsible for scratching his car. When Dan finally finds him, his retribution consists entirely of keying the wolfman's car - and Dan is appalled that Chris would suggest he actually kill the wolfman for being a dangerous threat to society. For the sake of context, note that Dan once destroyed Canada because he slipped on some maple syrup. Disproportionate Retribution is practically the man's middle name.
- On The Simpsons, after Abe and Mr. Burns are the only ones left in a Tontine agreement for a bunch of stolen paintings, Mr. Burns makes attempts on Abe's life, and even brings Bart into it. Abe has the chance to kill Mr. Burns, but chooses not to, on the grounds that it would be cowardly. Instead, he uses the fact that he held a higher military rank than Mr. Burns to have him dishonorably discharged.
- Bart and Nelson also become friends in one episode, with the former merely using it as protection while the latter takes it very seriously. When the truth's revealed, Nelson spends a while glaring and apparently stalking Bart, and when he finally gets him alone and cornered, he seems poised to unleash the beating of Barts life but instead delivers a passionate "The Reason You Suck" Speech, calls Bart a bad friend, and declares their friendship over.
- One episode of the Kablam short Sniz and Fondue sees Sniz, carrying some modeling clay home, accidentally ram into a mysterious Gypsy woman. He apologizes a moment before the woman yells that she'll curse him. Since Sniz already said he was sorry, she decides to go easy on him and "only" curse the clay. Unbelieving, he shapes it into a sculpture of his brother...
- One episode of The Mighty Ducks has Duke accused of returning to his old jewel thief ways. When his name is cleared and the others apologize for suspecting him, he gathers them into a group hug. A minute later, they all realize they are missing several items.
- In the Animaniacs cartoon "Pigeon on the Roof," Pesto fantasizes about murdering the Godpigeon and taking over the flock, but after he has a nightmare where the Godpigeon comes back as a zombie, he tearfully confesses everything to the real Godpigeon and apologizes. The Godpigeon seems to easily forgive him... but then gives him a Jump Scare with a Nightmare Face just before leaving.
- In cultures where one was required by honour to duel someone who offended you, it was fairly common to "delope" — deliberately miss your shot, thus fulfilling the terms of the duel while making it obvious to all involved that you never intended to hurt your opponent, and giving them the choice of either doing likewise, or shooting you and ruining their own reputation.
- Sword duels were often restrained to literal "first blood" — giving your opponent a nick on the cheek or arm, and a cool scar, rather than a serious injury. That's before they devolved even more to the point when giving each other cool scars became the entire point and the whole "fighting" thing was forgotten about.