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"Instead, to Jack's mild surprise, he discovered he was worried about Alison. And Taneem, too, of course. But mostly he was worried about Alison. It was a rather annoying discovery, actually."
— A revelation of Jack's in Dragon and Liberator by Timothy Zahn

When a couple/potential couple — who spend the entirety of the show yelling at each other, insulting one another, stabbing each other in the back, etc. — have a moment when they reveal that, deep down, they really care for one another. Awwww.

Often takes place in a humorous rushing-to-your-spouse's-defense manner, where one of them angrily defends the other against the same kind of insults that they themselves like to dish out. The common line is: "Nobody insults/beats up/threatens my wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend but me!"

If this relation is between friends then they are Vitriolic Best Buds. If it is between siblings, then it either combines Big Brother Bully and Big Brother Instinct or is Thicker Than Water.

If the romance part comes without warning or justification, the trope may fall flat, since it comes out of nowhere when the previous context of the story makes it seem like they have nothing to love about each other. When couples don't even have these moments you get No Accounting for Taste.

See also Defrosting Ice Queen, Slap-Slap-Kiss and Belligerent Sexual Tension. A couple version of a Pet the Dog moment.


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  • Mazinger Z:
    • Kouji and Sayaka, the prototypical Battle Couple. Although in the original manga they got along well, the anime series took their Belligerent Sexual Tension Up to Eleven -some of their fights were legendary-. However, you always had moments where they stopped to get mad, bicker and insult each other and showed they cared for each other very much.
    • In episode 29 Kouji saw a Mechanical Beast -Grengus C3- walking from the direction where Aphrodite A -Sayaka's Fembot- had gone at before. Inmediately he panicked, got on a bike and drove towards the place, yelling "Sayaka" all the way (he was so freaked out he did not realize the bike he had got was not his). When he finally found her -wounded and lying down on the floor beside Aphrodite A's remains- he shook her awake and hugged her.
    • In another episode, Kouji and Sayaka got an genuine serious fight, and Sayaka refused to back him up in battle. When he was seriously injured, Sayaka took care of him in the hospital and kissed him in his comatose sleep.
  • In Franken Fran, in the epilogue, Gavrill and Fran console Veronica after some teasing. While this behavior is perfectly par for the course from Fran, for Gavrill of all people to display this kind of behavior is... actually really sweet.
  • Kogoro Mouri and his live-separatedly wife Eri Kisaki in Detective Conan. Kogoro acts like a Lovable Sex Maniac, always chasing after pretty women and maintaining a crush on Idol Singer Okino Yoko, but never actually seems to take the act further than ogling or, at most, platonic dating. This behavior always takes a sudden turn for the worse whenever Eri is around, which causes Eri to get about ten degrees colder whenever Kogoro is nearby. On the other hand, they actually try to do nice things for each other once in a blue moon. (In recent manga issues, Kogoro actually bought Eri a birthday present except that he got the day wrong and accidentally gave her the wrong gift box). Eri has also been known to make Kogoro dinner (too bad she's a Lethal Chef), and both her and Kogoro have turned Papa Wolf and Mama Bear respectively when the other has been suspected of murder.
  • Anna and Yoh in Shaman King. To be specific, there were a few instances of this to be shown in the anime, when it was thought that Hao killed Yoh and Anna has a Heroic B.S.O.D. moment, clinging onto his headphones and staring into space that goes on for a few episodes until he comes Back from the Dead. The two share a few words and she gives him back his headphones before he goes back into battle. In the manga and anime, when Yoh let's an evil spirit possess him to save his friend, the Spirit tells everyone he's going to force Yoh to kill himself when he possesses him. This causes Anna to drop to her knees in tears. This instance was the first instance that you realize that Anna truly does love Yoh. There are several more instances that crop up in the manga proving that both characters really do care about each other, like the first time they met, or when they spend the last night together before Yoh leaves to America.
  • Koizumi and Otani in Lovely Complex.
  • Sket Dance
    • Bossun and Tsubaki, despite being rivals, team up well and have shown mutual respect for each other. Things only get better between the two of them after The Reveal.
    • Bossun and Himeko. Despite their constant bickering, they are shown to care a lot for each other, inching ever closer to She Is Not My Girlfriend territory.
  • Ranma ½:
    • This sums up Ranma and Akane's relationship:
      Ranma: Please, Akane. I need you... to hear me now... I wanted to tell you... I wanted to tell you that I love you!
    • Also Ranma and Ukyo and Ranma and Shampoo, from a friendly rather than romantic standpoint.
    • Ranma and Ryoga qualify as well.
    • And for that matter, Ranma and Genma. Even though they are always fighting and never really show any platonic affection for each other, they've got each other's back when it really counts. No mercy when it comes to food though. That stuff is serious business.
      Ranma: Irresponsible jerk! [slaps Genma around] How dare you make us worry about you!
  • Urusei Yatsura:
    • Ataru Moroboshi sums up his relationship with Lum when Mendo confronts him about how the oni princess would be much better off without him: "I hate being bound to Lum... but I hate people trying to take Lum away from me more!"
    • Also, when he was shown the possible future in which he had the harem he had always wanted and discovered that Lum had abandoned his future self due to some truly horrible treatment (pawning and selling her stuff, tricking her into working and making her sleep on the roof to make room for his other 'wives'), he proceeds to whack future-Ataru on the head and openly admitting that without Lum, a harem means nothing to him. Likewise, when he sees the future where he and Lum are just walking out of a church where their wedding took place and sees that Lum is so happy she's openly crying of joy, he softens up to the idea and proceeds to attempt to save this future (the others are about to be destroyed).
  • Happens a lot in Bludgeoning Angel Dokurochan. Dokuro even claims in the opening theme that all of the torment she piles on Sakura is just how she shows her love (while she cuddles and kisses his lifeless body on the ground.)
  • In X1999 Seishirou and Subaru get some form of this, in their short conversation as Seishirou lays dying in Subaru's arms.
  • Kana and Chiaki from Minami-ke show the sisterly variety. Mostly seen fighting and arguing throughout the series, they also share some more intimate moments from time to time—especially when they face a threat from their big sister, Haruka.
  • In Kyouran Kazoku Nikki this happens more and more between Ouka and Kyouka as the series progresses. Oddly enough, it is Kyouka who works the hardest at this, despite her aggressive tendencies.
  • Suzuna and Kouichi in Moonlight Lady—after four episodes filled with lots of Slap-Slap-Kiss, they really start to grow on one another. It's heavily implied that it's more because of magic than actual love, however...
  • Haruhi Suzumiya and Kyon have many of these moments throughout the series.
    • During Remote Island Syndrome (anime only), Kyon and Haruhi are exploring the island in the storm, and they hold hands as Kyon admits to himself that he feels safer with her there. At the very end, he tells Koizumi that he knew the murder was fake from the start, since Haruhi would never wish for someone to actually die.
    • In The Disappearance of Haruhi Suzumiya, Kyon wakes up in the hospital, where he was apparently in a mini-coma for three days. Koizumi tells him that at Haruhi's orders, they've been taking shifts watching over him so that no matter what, someone familiar would be there when he woke up. Haruhi herself, however, insisted that it is her duty to watch over her subordinates, and spent all three days curled up in a sleeping bag in the corner next to Kyon's bed. And he wakes her up by gently caressing her face.
    • In The Surprise of Haruhi Suzumiya, Kyon risks his life to save Haruhi from falling to her death as part of an attempted deicide. When that plan falls apart (because a Diving Save doesn't really help in this situation), he's at least thankful that they'll die together.
    • After the aforementioned deicide incident in Surprise, Kyon is bouncing around time, and ends up in Haruhi's bed, on all fours on top of her. Not only does she not freak out or throw him out, but she was the one who sent him there in the first place.
    • In a different sense, Haruhi and Mikuru. Haruhi usually molests, dresses up, and tortures poor Mikuru, but there have been scenes where the two of them show they really do care about each other as friends.
  • Zettai Heiwa Daisakusen's entire premise focuses on this trope and Arranged Marriage, with a pinch of Hilarity Ensues for good measure.
  • Shugo Chara! characters Amu and Ikuto have their moment as Ikuto attempts to board an airplane. (We say 'attempt' because he wasn't doing very well.)
  • Cardcaptor Sakura: It's true that Sakura and Syaoran's relationship may be based on rivalry in an attempt to capture the cards but after a couple of episodes, there are a lot of scenes that shows they really do care for each other. Naturally this blossoms into a full romance by the end of the series.
  • Despite hating one another at first, Natsume and Mikan of Alice Academy have gradually progressed to the point where they've confessed to one another. It almost seemed one-sided for a long time as Natsume had already declared his feelings twice before (Albeit once was quite indirect and anonymous), but she has finally realized how much she cares for him as well. In fact, taking into account their parents' history together, it seems that they were perhaps destined to be with one another.
  • Pandora Hearts: Gil and Alice have had a few of these moments in both the anime and the manga, they * claim* to hate each other but find themselves inexplicably worried when harm comes across the other.
  • Averted in Panty & Stocking with Garterbelt when Panty and Brief finally make love (implied to be more than just sex). Brief is falling from the sky and when Panty has a chance to save him, she flinches away from him in disgust because he's in dork mode. And he falls straight into the keyhole of Hellsgate.
    • Played straight, however, in "The Phantom of Daten City" when Stocking is preparing to elope with a Ghost, despite the fact this means she might never get back to heaven, Panty intervenes and tells Stocking the ghost isn't good enough for her, prompting the previously Jerkass Ghost to prove his true feelings and make an Anguished Declaration of Love to Stocking. (Much to Panty's disgust.) Also played straight in "Cat Fight Club", when Panty pulls a Big Damn Heroes to save Stocking after an argument, and the two reconcile at the end. Both of these heartwarming moments make the Gainax Ending all the more jarring.
  • Lucky Star
  • Quarterback Hiruma Youichi and Manager Mamori Anezaki from Eyeshield 21 have a lot of these moments near the end of the series.
  • Sae of Hidamari Sketch usually acts distant toward younger sister Chika, which often gets them into fights with each other. She really does think fondly of her, though, as seen when Chika is sleeping and Sae slips a book with her autograph into her bag and gently strokes her hair, and when she gives her a nice necklace as a present in honor of her passing of an entrance exam.
  • Yusuke and Keiko in YuYu Hakusho
  • Rather hilariously in Infinite Stratos, defrosted Laura. Everyone was expecting a Yandere with full-on murderous impulses. Instead, she's downright sweet.
  • Dragon Ball
  • Axis Powers Hetalia
    • Russia stalks China, then (sort of) comforts him after Japan's betrayal. General Winter has tormented him since childhood, but protects him during wars and Russia CRIES saying "My friend can't be defeated this easily" after General Winter falls after trying to protect him from them mysterious enemy in the Hetalia Bloodbath 2010.
    • The very dynamic of the Frying Pangle (Austria, Hungary, Prussia) works like this. While they do tend to quarrel and fight each other every now and them, they all really care and look out for one another.
    • France goes from taunting to genuinely concerned when he realizes his Sitcom Arch-Nemesis England is seriously sick in one strip and hurries to try to treat him. Sure, it's ruined when France gets a Dude, She's Like, in a Coma! moment and America bursts in, but it was sweet while it lasted.
    • England himself gets a moment in The Movie, where he cries out America's name in distress when the latter is hit by the aliens' transforming attack, leading to England getting distracted and hit as well.
  • Naruto:
    • The Infinite Tsukuyomi shows that for all his complaining about her, Temari really is important to Shikamaru, enough to show up by his side in his dream world.
    • After all the murder attempts and insults, Sasuke's affectionate forehead poke to Sakura in Chapter 699 revealed his feelings for her.
  • Inner Moka from Rosario + Vampire acts cold to Tsukune and always tells him that she tolerates him to make Outer Moka happy, but God help you if she finds out you hurt him (later extends to the rest of his harem). Tsukune, meanwhile, is scared of her at first, then admits in chapter 27 of season 2 (manga) that he loves her as much as he loves Outer Moka and wants them to become one person. And now Tsukune is putting himself through a potentially deadly surgery so he'll have the power to protect her.
    • Tsukune's harem towards each other, they fight one another and plot each other's downfalls but when a legitimate threat shows up, they are more then willing to lay down their lives for each other. Kurumu especially, she is so in love with Tsukune it's killing her, but she wants to still be friends with everyone to the point that she is the Team Mom and the first to bring back any haremites that may leave.
  • Misaki from Junjou Romantica can't say "I love you" toward his boyfriend Usami, only managed to do so once, constantly shouts and scolds him (not that there aren't any reasons for all that), and always denies their relationship when asked, even though it's painfully obvious they're in love, but when his schoolmate made a move on Usami, he was really quick to react and go all "He's mine!"
  • Soul Eater:
    • Although not an Official Couple as of yet, Soul literally throws himself in front of Maka to protect her at least three times during the manga, despite acting like a jerk to her most of the time. (Although Soul says it's his job as a weapon, you don't see Tsubaki doing that for Black*Star or either of the Thompson sisters doing that for Kid.) Maka's also devastated and blames herself when Soul is in the hospital after nearly being killed by Crona and infected with Black Blood, despite her being a jerk to him as well. Later chapters tend to show Soul being more compassionate toward Maka, especially during the fight with the Clown and in the Book of Eibon's Sloth chapter, where he doesn't need or allow Maka to apologize for her behaviour. They also tend to hold hands or have an arm around the other.
    • Liz seems to be this way towards Kid recently; she's always calling him 'prissy' and trying to kick him out of his OCD-mode, but at one point in time refers to him as 'wonderful' and starts to cry at the thought of his hospitality and her inability to thank him for it.
    • Black*Star towards Tsubaki, when he refuses to move from her side as she fights her brother, allowing her to take center stage. Tsubaki also seems to feel this way towards Black*Star, as she is the only one who stands up for him.
  • Ai no Kusabi ends with a tragic version of this. Despite being in a Master and "Pet" relationship which Riki hated and therefor was hostile to his master Iason, there are no doubts at the end that Iason and Riki were in love with one another. Iason was fatally injured and Riki stays by his side to die with him in an exploding fortress.
  • In JoJo's Bizarre Adventure: Stone Ocean, Jolyne Kujo's relationship with Jotaro is rocky enough that she refuses to acknowledge him as her father. However, when he loses his Stand and memory and ends up in a state that's all but dead while helping her escape from prison, she forgoes her chance at freedom for the slim hope of bringing him back.
  • Tomoe and Nanami from Kamisama Kiss. Tomoe is a Deadpan Snarker Jerk with a Heart of Gold while Nanami is a Type B Tsundere. On top of this, Tomoe is much more powerful, intelligent, and experienced than Nanami but is forced to obey her thanks to a magical contract. Because of this, Tomoe is rude and sarcastic towards Nanami most of the time but should anyone else mock, belittle, or ridicule her he is quick to come to her defense.
  • Episode 18 of The Pet Girl of Sakurasou reveals more of Jin and Misaki's back story, and why he always felt he was never good enough for her. Despite that, Sorata and Nanami help them to meet each other at least one more time before he goes off to Osaka for college.
  • Sunako Nakahara and Kyohei Takano in The Wallflower are often shown bickering. However its shown more often than not that they place each others well being on very high levels even if they don't admit it to themselves.
  • Rintarō Okabe and Kurisu Makise in Steins;Gate.
  • Kaoru and Hajime in I Can't Understand What My Husband is Saying. Despite seeming distant, Kaoru really does want to understand her husband and the two of them have many moments throughout the series where they show their care for one another.
  • In Sonic X, Rouge has a crush on Knuckles just like in the games, but their love interest aspect is more expanded on. As such, they have a tone of Foe Yay going on, and they do get moments like this from time to time.
    • Amy and Sonic's relationship runs entirely on this trope. Amy often acts like an overbearing Stalker with a Crush, which usually results in Sonic fleeing the first chance he gets. However, it's the little things that show just how deeply they care for one another. Sonic is terrified of water because he can't swim, but he willingly jumps into the ocean to save a drowning Amy. He also wears the protective shell bracelet she made him. Later on, Amy returns the favour by jumping into the vacuum of space to save a trapped Sonic. The two also hug several times throughout the show, and at one point, Sonic even hands her a rose.
  • Kaguya and Shirogane of Kaguya-sama: Love Is War spend most of their time on-screen playing mind games with each other, but it's made blatantly clear at multiple points that they have a rather large mutual crush.
  • Space Patrol Luluco: Despite a violent divorce and being on opposite sides of the law, Lalaco and Keiji do still love each other (even if the former has a very weird way of showing it). Lalaco is also shown to care about her daughter Luluco despite her status as an Abusive Parent, giving her full support (both emotionally and literally) when she goes to confess to Nova.

    Comic Books 
  • Gambit and Rogue from X-Men.
  • Ball and Chain is about a marriage on the rocks. A couple that can't seem to get along. But Edgar and Mallory show that they really care about each other occasionally. When Edgar thinks he's going to die, he narrates that you're supposed to see your life flash before your eyes... but all he can think of is Mallory. When Mallory thinks Edgar is dead, she weeps bitterly and says that he was everything to her.
  • Thor and Loki from The Mighty Thor. Beneath the centuries of Sibling Rivalry and Cain and Abel behavior, they truly do see each other as brothers.
  • Issue 8 of Red Hood and the Outlaws provides a lot of this, bordering on Fanservice.
  • Bigby Wolf and Snow White from Fables. In the early issues, she shoots him down whenever he tries to flirt with her, but eventually reveals that it was more her being put off by his half-assed attempts, and implies she wouldn't turn down a direct request for a date. When she gets pregnant after their enchantment-caused liaison, she is initially angry at him (he could tell from her scent as soon as he woke up from the enchantment, but didn't tell her) and is at first intensely worried about the damage to her image, then spends several weeks avoiding Bigby. But when The Adversary's army of wooden soldiers attack Fabletown, Bigby saves the day. Finally realizing the depth of his love for her, she dashes downstairs (heavily pregnant, and in the pouring rain) and gives him a gigantic hug in front of pretty much everyone of importance.

    Fan Works 
  • A Crown of Stars: After the Angel War, the Third Impact and the horrors of the next four years, Shinji and Asuka were so messed-up that they had all but given up on the possibility of having a real relationship. Still Shinji was always trying to take care of Asuka and looking at her, and Asuka dreaded the possibility of Shinji leaving her or someone forcing them to stay apart, and they were always thinking of each other.
  • Advice and Trust: Even though Shinji and Asuka argued frequently to try to hide they had gotten together, they could not help to make things that showed they cared for each other, such like Shinji's reaction when Leliel swallowed Unit 02.
  • The Child of Love: Even when they were fighting and mad with each other, Shinji and Asuka still showed they cared for each other.
    • When Asuka collapsed in front of Misato’s apartment Shinji remained the whole time by her side, keeping watch over her and gazing at her beautiful sleeping face.
    • Asuka said Shinji’s birthday gift was the only gift meant something to her that day, and she cried when she saw it.
  • Children of an Elder God: Shinji and Asuka's relationship was uneasy at the beginning. Still, when Gendo lectured Asuka angrily, Shinji went out of his way to reassure her. And when Asuka found out that Gendo ordered Shinji getting into an Eva without previously warning his son that most people tried to synch with an Eva died or went crazy, she got angry.
  • Doing It Right This Time: When Shinji and Asuka visit Rei's apartment for first time after their return and she tells them what her life was like, the three children hug each other reassuringly.
  • Don't Keep Your Distance: Maxwell the Firefly is a recurring bully of protagonist Paint the Seedrian-Fox, but comes to respect her after she delivers an abrasive "The Reason You Suck" Speech to his neglectful parents, and ends up defending her (albeit awkwardly) when she is on trial and risks being banished from her home village.
  • Evangelion 303: After several chapters of fights, dog fights, arguments and paranoid behaviour between Shinji and Asuka, you had this simple, sweet kiss between both.
  • Ghosts of Evangelion: After returning from Instrumentality Shinji and Asuka’s relationship was very strained, but they still showed they cared about each other. When Asuka goes back from Kyoto, she visits Shinji to tell him she doesn't blame him for what happened, and he is the one she wanted to live with.
  • HERZ: Although Asuka seems being always angry, there many times where it is clear how much she loves Shinji, and where it is obvious he loves her back just so much:
    • In chapter 2 she wakes up from a nightmare. Shinji hugs her while she cries and she pleads him never leaving her.
    • Later she deems necessary deploying Unit 01… and she wants to deploy all Evas together with it to protect Shinji.
    • In chapter 10 Shinji got kidnapped and Asuka was barely keeping herself under control.
      Asuka was obviously upset but was trying admirably to keep her turbulent emotions under control. Her first impulse was to run off and thrash wildly in an effort to find her husband. She didn't notice the blood beginning to drip through the patch covering her left eye. She took a deep breath.
  • Last Child of Krypton: After spending one or two chapters arguing, Asuka accidentally sees Shinji berating his friends for taking pictures of her and selling them, and she is moved. Later he is not in their apartment so that she goes out to find him, the whole time telling herself she is not looking for him.
  • The One I Love Is: At the beginning of the story Shinji and Asuka argued very often. Then Rei gave Shinji chocolates and Asuka was jealous, slapped him and stormed out of the classroom... and Shinji felt awful because he had noticed she was crying, and her tears hurt him more than her slap. Later he found a chocolate heart in his bedroom, made by Asuka.
  • Scar Tissue: After spending months abusing him and finally going too far Asuka is so horrified that she resolves to stop to hurt him, change her behaviour and atone for her actions. It takes a lot of effort to snap out of an abusive mindset, but she managed it for Shinji's sake.
  • Superwomen of Eva 2: Lone Heir of Krypton: Although Asuka and Shinji argue a lot, after a certain point Asuka starts to deliberately make things so that Shinji feels better (such like stopping to show off her superior strength because he feels more entushiastic when he thinks he is catching up to her).
  • Kai and Violet from Hogwarts Houses Divided, frequently demonstrate this, though considering their age, YMMV on whether this is Aw Look They Really Do Love Each Other, or a Friendship Moment.
  • A "brotherly love" example in Tales of the Emperasque. Leman spends a few minutes badmouthing Guilliman, ending with calling him a bastard. When Roboute arrives, freshly healed after spending ten thousand years with cut throat, Leman is the one to give him a hug.
  • Tamers Forever Series:
    • Despite constantly mocking Takato, Rika frequently shows genuine concern for him, something that nobody else fails to notice
      Rika: You HAVE to let us go help him!
      Ms Asagi: If I didn't know you, Miss Nonaka, I'd think you're worried about young Takato.
      Kenta: You know, I was THIS close to saying that.
    • By the end of the series this is taken Up To Eleven Thousand Seven Hundred And Sixty Five
    • Also Despite their marriage being on the decline, Sora is genuinely horrified when Matt almost get's his eyes cut out by a Darkscubamon
  • A big element in Buzz×Mira fics, since their canonical relationship at the best of times is friendly antagonistic.
  • In Calvin and Hobbes: The Series, when Calvin nearly drives himself insane trying to be good so that Karma won't hurt him, it's Susie who talks him down (with a weird variation of a "World of Cardboard" Speech, no less):
    Susie: Calvin, you live by your own rules! You make things up! You create! You destroy! You tease temptation! You do all sorts of horrible things, most of them to me, yes, but then there are days you do good all on your own! You shouldn't let something like Karma run your life! You need to be rude and nasty and gross and weird, so that you can be good on your own accord.
  • In Marie D. Suesse and the Mystery New Pirate Age!, Mar's parents' marriage is plagued by frequent arguing, her father is often not home, and Mar herself is fairly critical about both her parents' flaws. Toward the end of the fic, it is revealed that the tragic events of the last 20 years in the One Piece world can be undone, but doing so will result in Madelyn- who is actually Mar's mother- never eating her Devil Fruit, which also means that she never meets Mar's father or had Mar. They take it fairly hard, and spend their final minutes together as a family.
  • This is a huge point in Warden/Mistress fanfics.
  • Common in Fullmetal Alchemist Roy/Ed fanfics, as they are Vitriolic Best Buds in canon.
  • In the Ryuk/Light fic A Charmed Life after they get together Light decides he doesn't want to use Ryuk in his schemes anymore and Ryuk helps Light through his psychotic breakdowns.
  • In Im Giving You A Night Call, despite Ed and Dante constantly sniping at each other and being rude, Dante pushes Edward out the way of the assassin's bullets to save him. Edward is beside himself with grief when she dies instantly.
  • Moratorium: Tom and Harry might snark at each other, but they're still good friends.
  • In The Second Try, chapters 2 "Survive" and 4 "Love" explore Shinji and Asuka’s slowly developing relationship during nearly two years. Even at the beginning, when they’re merely trying to not kill each other –again-, they still try to help and support each other.
  • Thousand Shinji: At the beginning, Shinji and Asuka argued, bickered and fought the whole time. However Shinji wanted to romance her as soon as he met her, he winced when he realized how sad and hurt she was, and he tried to help her to lessen her pain. And Asuka was completely drawn to him.
  • Neon Genesis Evangelion: Genocide: In spite of their constants and bitter fights, Shinji and Asuka often show that they care about each other deeply. For example, Shinji spends much of the first half of the story blaming himself for not helping Asuka when she was in pain, and Asuka's She's Back moment is brought on by her witnessing an Angel about to defeat Unit-01, causing her to will the unresponsive Unit-02 back into activation and jump into the fray to protect Shinji.
  • In Once More with Feeling, Shinji and Asuka trade barbs the whole time, but Shinji is fully committed to Asuka, and the red-haired girl shows that she cares for him, too. When they danced together she dropped her mask for a while, and when he was having a nightmare she tried to reassure him and comfort him.

  • In The Incredibles, siblings Violet and Dash bicker with each other every chance they get. But when either of them is in danger, they get very protective of each other.
  • In Kung Fu Hustle, the ferocious landlady and her cowardly husband, who have been squabbling for the entire first part of the movie (she even throws him out the window and hits him in the head with a flower pot), band together to defend the neighborhood from the Axe Gang, fight the Beast, and nurse the movie's hero back to health. They also had a brief dance together... before resuming their usual henpecking roles.
  • Ball and Chain — Sunil Malhotra's and Lisa Ray's characters are forced into an engagement by their parents. They do all they can to sabotage the relationship, which is cool until realize they may have feelings for each other. By this time, Lisa Ray's character is engaged to someone else.
  • In Blindness, the Japanese couple seem to be incredibly strained after they become blind, to the point of her rejecting him completely. But after a while they reconcile. The same goes for the Doctor and his wife, who is sickened and humiliated with how she cares for him now like he was a baby rather than her husband, but ultimately they prove to still care for each other.
  • For all his selfishness and scheming, you've got to "Awww" at the look on Jack's face when Will gets stabbed in Pirates of the Caribbean: At World's End.
  • Star Wars:
    • Han Solo and Princess Leia might have moments like these only under threat of carbonite freezing, death by stormtrooper, or in post-I-can-t-believe-we-survived-that-elation, but they do have them.
    • The Expanded Universe novels take this further. Whenever they're together it's hinted at, and finally results in Han winning a planet in a game of Sabacc to give it to Leia as a gift in a fit of jealousy after the Hapan Consortium offers her a shitload of shinies to marry their prince. This doesn't work, so he kidnaps her, takes her to the planet and makes her a bet: if he gets her to love him in seven days or less, she has to marry him. Of course the trip goes horribly wrong but she does end up loving him and they do get married. Later books show that they have kids.
    • C-3PO and R2-D2 even have a moment in A New Hope. After blowing up the Death Star, the team pulls R2 out of the X-Wing in disrepair. 3PO is in a panic, begging the others to fix the droid and even offering to donate any of his own parts to help with the repairs.
  • Steps Trodden Black: Despite the two bickering for the first half of the movie, Alex is genuinely worried when Jack's whereabouts are unknown and theres a monster on the loose.
  • Bud and Lindsay Brigman from The Abyss. At the start of the movie they're in the middle of a very bitter divorce, but a few near-death experiences remind them that they still do, in fact, love each other, to the point of being willing to die for one another.
  • GoldenEye provides a non-romantic example between M and 007. Despite delivering a "The Reason You Suck" Speech to James Bond and even saying she has no problem sending him to his death as long as it was worthwhile, M's farewell to him is:
    M: Bond?
    Bond: (turns around to look at her)
    M: (tries to hide a smile) Come back alive.
    Bond: (smiles warmly at her)
  • Into the Storm (2009) shows Clemmie and Winston bicker a lot, but they have their sweet moments too.
  • In the remake of The Stepford Wives Walter and Joanna clearly have a difficult marriage, but both gradually learn compromise and in the end, Walter doesn't get a Stepford wife, which in this movie means brainwashing his wife into a servile domestic servant, and proceeds to help Joanna put a stop to their scheme, and Joanna in return protects Walter from Mike. At the end, nothing is really perfect, but it is real.
  • In Casper Meets Wendy, the title characters don't exactly have the most supportive families. The Ghostly Trio and Wendy's aunts pretty much bully and restrict the kids respectively. But when Casper and Wendy end up in trouble from Desmond Spellman and about to be trapped in the Mystic Abyss, neither the witches nor the ghosts hesitate to save them.
  • The Love of Siam. When Tong's mother forbids Tong from seeing Mew, he simply brushed her off and went to search for Mew. Unfortunately, the two boys doesn't get together in the end. However, the movie do end with a bittersweet ending with Tong confessing his love for him. Furthermore, there's many foreshadowing that they will get together in the future.
  • As much as Katniss Everdeen bickers with Haymitch and as angry as she is with him in The Hunger Games: Mockingjay Part 1, they still have moments that show how much they've grown to care about one another. For example it's his arms she cries in over Peeta's torture.

  • Kidnapped has Alan and David, who frequently have disagreements, but are still good friends.
  • A Brother's Price has several of those. When Corelle, who is a bit of a bully, goes out to face a potentially dangerous group of strangers, Jerin realizes that he does love his sister after all. Also, heartwarmingly adorable with Trini when she takes Jerin's hand and acknowledges their engagement, despite having had "better things to do" than spend time with him beforehand.
  • A father-daughter version in American Pastoral when Swede and Merry reunite for the first time in five years. Despite all the terrible things that happened between them, they cry and hold onto each other and express their love... and then trouble starts again.
  • In the ColSec Trilogy, Jeko and Heleth's interactions consist primarily of him needling her and her lashing out at him (usually by calling him a "yeck-mouth," but occasionally by outright getting violent) in response. But every so often, they'll turn around and display genuine concern for one another.
  • ''Dark Lord of Derkholm': Derk and Mara. They seem to be drifting apart over most of the book, but eventually are brought back together, and decide to have another baby (with wings, even).
  • Howl and Sophie in Howl's Moving Castle. The sequel outright says that they're happiest when they're bickering, but when they're reunited at the end of the book, Sophie glomps him. Also, Michael had commented to Sophie that the day Howl forgets to take two hours every morning to perfect himself would be the day that he has truly fallen in love. So when Sophie gets kidnapped by the Witch of the Waste, Howl arrives to rescue her looking like absolute, bedraggled hell.
  • Played with in Stephen King's Dolores Claiborne. When her husband is trying to drag her into the well along with her, Dolores has a sudden image of her neighbours finding their bodies together and thinking that they committed suicide like this to show how much they loved each other. The fact that people would think this give Dolores the strength to struggle free from her husband's grasp.
  • Mr. Knightly and Emma are always arguing or disagreeing about something. However, they both really do care about each other's opinion and are truly the very best of friends.
  • Happens a lot between Ron and Hermione. For instance, early on in Order of the Phoenix, after they had spent most of the book so far bickering at each other as usual, Hermione unexpectedly offers to finish Ron's overdue homework (which she almost never does), to which Ron replies "Hermione, you are the most wonderful person I have ever met!"
  • The Host gives us brothers Ian and Kyle who spend most of the story against one another, especially where it relates to Wanda, and it gets to the point where Ian is briefly the main person trying to kick Kyle out of the caves. Just when you think they are going to fall into Cain and Abel territory, they get moments that reveal their bond and love for each other.
  • Katniss and Haymitch have one of these moments in Mockingjay, the third book of the The Hunger Games series. Katniss breaks down crying because she is upset over Peeta's capture and torture at the hands of the Capitol. Though she could have asked for just about anyone, she only wants to be comforted by Haymitch. Haymitch, who is usually a Jerk Ass, sits down and consoles her.
  • Buttercup's parents in The Princess Bride. They bicker so much that they keep score, but when Buttercup's father feels that his life is so sufficiently complete that "now [he] can die," his wife looks at him fondly and replies, "Don't." The narration further states that when he really does die a few years later, she dies almost immediately afterward, with the majority of their acquaintances being of the opinion that it was the 'sudden lack of opposition that did her in.' (This does not apply to The Film of the Book, where Buttercup's parents are neither shown or mentioned.)
  • In the 2nd book of The Chronicles of Prydain, Taran is yelling at Eilonwy for following them into danger, but when Ellidyr echoes the sentiments Taran defends her. That kind of thing happens a lot where those two are concerned. It doesn't hurt that Ellidyr is the The Rival and an all-around Jerk Ass.
  • Rudy and Liesel in The Book Thief.
    How about a kiss, Saumensch?
  • Tal and Milla from The Seventh Tower book series. When they first met they alternate between wanting to kill each other and fighting about their cultural differences, but when it comes to what matters they work together very well and by the end they had a strong bond of trust and friendship.
  • The Sisters Grimm is the definition of this trope. Sabrina and Puck spend most of the time together arguing. When they're not arguing, they are giving each other silent treatments. Puck frequently tells Sabrina that she's ugly, but then, when he finds out she's experimenting with makeup, he tells her that she doesn't need to wear it.
  • Tristran and Yvaine in Stardust.
  • The whole point of Mil Millington's Things My Girlfriend And I Have Argued About. Though the protagonist and his girlfriend live in a state of open war and have raging argument down to a science, it's really just surface noise; their relationship is the most solid one in the book. This is based on the author and his girlfriend's real life together, which he describes as "The secret to happiness is to become irretrievably embroiled in a bitter fight to the death."
  • Alanna and George in Song of the Lioness. George has made his feelings known to her, though Alanna has been avoiding talking about it, thinking it might ruin their friendship. But when they were on a trip and George was badly wounded, she was panicking, begging him not to die and not moving from his bedside the whole night until he woke up. Appropriately, he's the one she chooses in the end and they end up Happily Married.
    George: [teasing her] I didn't know that you cared.
    Alanna: [wiping her tears] Of course I care, you unprincipled pickpocket! Of course I care!
  • In Joyce's Ulysses, the last chapter is the main character's wife's internal monologue. She's ordered him around and cheated on him through the whole book, and portions of the monologue are her debating whether to leave him or not. But the word "yes" keeps popping up even when not warranted by the sentence. In the last lines, the reader discovers that she's stuck on the word "yes" because she's remembering the day she accepted his marriage proposal, by saying "yes, yes I will, yes."
  • Warrior Cats
    • Squirrelflight and Brambleclaw are almost the poster couple for this pairing. There's at least four fights between them a book.
    • Also, Firestar and Sandstorm in the first arc suit this trope, too. Sandstorm hates Firestar until he saves her life in Fire and Ice, when she starts to like him.
  • P. G. Wodehouse's Bertie Wooster and his Aunt Dahlia are a non-romantic version of this; they bicker and snark constantly, but when matters turn (relatively) serious, they quickly rally around and support one another.
  • Shadow and Déaspor in Murderess have their moments, in between comedic fights that almost lead to death.
  • Near the end of Red Moon Rising, each member of Danny's family individually come to peace with what he's going through and show their love for him in different ways. The most blatant is Paige, who writes him a letter talking about how lame everything he's going through is and that she hopes he'll be okay.

    Live-Action TV 
  • Game of Thrones:
    • Sansa fondly remembers Arya, with whom she had a difficult relationship with back in Season 1, and makes it very clear that she misses her.
    • Sansa's eyes light up when Ramsay mentions her half-brother, Jon Snow, in Season 5 and their reunion in Season 6 is also very affectionate — a contrast from her aloofness toward him in Season 1.
    • In the Season 2 finale, Arya overcomes her grudge against Sansa and accepts that she's her sister and she must find her, too. Also telling is that in the Season 4 finale, she refuses to put the Hound out of his misery even when he begs her to...but when he brings up Sansa and how he should have raped her when he had the chance, that is when Arya is visibly the most tempted to kill the jerk right there and then, though she manages to resist.
    • In the sixth season, Arya finally admits that she had taken the Hound off her list before she abandoned him because she was confused about how she felt about him.
    • One thing that makes Kevan dislike the Sparrows more than Cersei: they took Lancel and he misses his son.
  • Xiao Yan Zi in Princess Returning Pearl acts oblivious most of the time and it isn't always obvious that she loves Yong Qi. But there are telling moments when she is caught off-guard that shows how much she truly does love him. The most touching when she blindly rushes between him and a sword blade when his life was in danger (twice!).
  • Mama's Family: For all the bickering, arguing and name calling that goes on, the Harpers – even Thelma and Naomi, who were constantly at each other's throats – will grudgingly admit they love and care for each other, and ultimately they will always stick up for one another.
  • Sanford and Son: Fred and Lamont were always at odds, usually over Lamont wanting to pursue a real job and get married. However, at least during the original series, Lamont agrees to stick it out at the junkyard, feeling an obligation to look after his father. Also, Fred and Aunt Esther were always at each other's throats, but in the end, they could count on each other to help each other in their time of need.
  • Jade and Beck in Nickelodeon TV show Victorious.
  • Frank and Marie on Everybody Loves Raymond
    • Near the end of "Frank's Tribute," after an unresolved dispute in bed, Frank takes a tissue, wipes off Marie's facial beauty cream, and says "I like you better without the crap on your face."
    • In the episode "Marie's Vision," Frank strongly objects to the accusation that he's in a "loveless marriage."
  • This trope probably appears in any Disney Channel sitcom where a character has a sibling. Taken Up to Eleven in Wizards of Waverly Place, to the point of a Relationship Writing Fumble with siblings Justin and Alex. Consequently, they are show's Fan-Preferred Couple.
  • Married... with Children
    • Al and Peg. Strange, because one of the show's creators, Ron Leavitt, relates a story in which, during a pitch session for selling the show, someone suggested they write this trope in for the Bundys, whereupon Leavitt replied, "You are everything that is wrong with American television today." Of course, they might've decided to give Al a reason to stick around. Maybe because it's funny for him to be trapped with his wife because he cares — Al once says about getting a new car that it would be like "trading you [Peggy] in for a young blonde with new, smooth, factory-warranted hooters. Sure the first few rides would be nice but in the long run, and this Peg, is what depresses me everyday, I realize that... You're the one I want."
    • One might say that this also involves his family. When in Hell during a near-death experience, Al is given the choice of returning to Earth with a trio of gorgeous women (leaving them in Hell), or returning WITH his family. He chooses his family, and even as their bickering resumes, observes it with a smile on his face.
    • Bud and Kelly too. They insult each other and scheme against each other constantly, but when the chips are down, they do stick up for family. (Biggest example: On one occasion, a girl humiliates Bud at a homecoming dance, and while Kelly did nothing to stop it, she did punish the girl for it later; at the end of the episode, the girl was Bound and Gagged, chained to a wall in the school hallway, wrapped in nothing but a towel, with Buck's leash tied to the towel and a huge sign saying "DON'T MESS WITH A BUNDY" taped to the locker. Then Kelly walks in and calls Buck to her, and he runs to her, dragging the towel, just as the students start to come in.)
  • Scrubs
    • Dr Cox and Jordan. Zigzagged as it is stated early on that they both like being mean (to both each other and others). Then it becomes clear that Dr. Cox is, at heart, a terrific guy. He uses the surface nastiness as a protective shell. Jordan, on the other hand, definitely does delight in cruelty, though she's not all bad.
    • Dr Cox and JD, kinda. Though it does become apparent a few times that they (both) do care, the final episode, in which Cox defends JD from (set-up) false bad claims shows this.
  • Arrested Development
    • George and Lucille, especially evidenced in the episode "Visiting Ours" where his wife agrees to a conjugal visit in jail and they begin arguing angrily and end up ravishing each other.
    • Also, most people forget that, over the course of the entire series, there were one or two of these for Tobias and Lindsay (notably at the end of season one, when he overcame his never nude status).
    • Michael and GOB get a few of the brotherly version. When Michael mistakenly believes that he tried to run GOB down in a car (it was actually their mother, but Michael got a head injury and she took advantage) and goes to apologize, GOB immediately realizes something is up.
      GOB: That doesn't sound like you. That sounds like Mom. You kinda like me.
  • Niles and Maris on Frasier (this was later undermined somewhat by their vitriolic divorce) Although since Maris was She Who Must Not Be Seen, (and the longer the show ran, the more horrible her offscreen actions became), the couple might easily have been a one-sided version of the trope, making it depressing rather than heartwarming.
  • Ralph and Alice on The Honeymooners are constantly fighting, but have such a moment at the end of every episode, giving an opportunity for Ralph to say one of his Catch Phrases: "Baby, you're the greatest."
  • Apollo and Sheba on Battlestar Galactica (1978). Saul and Ellen Tigh from the reboot.
    • For the latter, there is a scene in the finale of a flashback from before the fall, where they are celebrating Saul's retirement. Keep in mind, this is right before Saul is asked by Adama to join him on Galactica for one more ride. But it exemplifies how deep Ellen's love for Saul was at that time, and explains why they went through such intense ups and downs through the series because she was denied her deepest desire: to fully enjoy life with her beloved husband.
      Ellen Tigh: Saul! All I ever wanted was to be with you! Not just weekend liberties or, or two weeks' leave a year. I mean full time. You and me. Together in a house... in a tent... homeless and on the street... Just be together.
  • Mighty Morphin' Power Rangers:
    • Lord Zedd and Rita Repulsa. Squatt nearly evokes the trope by name in one episode. (In fact, when Goldar discovered that Rita had initially seduced Zedd with a love potion, he forced Finster into making an antidote; it proved worthless when he actually used it because, well, as the Trope says...)
    • Also Ziggy and Dr. K on Power Rangers RPM.
    • A non-romantic example are Bulk and Skull. In the first few seasons, it seems Bulk sees Skull as nothing more than a minion/tool for his wacky schemes. But in later seasons, the pair do share multiple heartwarming moments with each other. One notable moment happens during Power Rangers Zeo, where Bulk dismisses classical music as something for dweebs, not knowing Skull is secretly a very talented pianist. But once he hears Skull play before an audience, he freely admits his dismissal was wrong and openly admires Skull's talent.
  • Fred and Ethel Mertz of I Love Lucy had many such moments. In fact, in an early episode, when Lucy assumes that Fred and Ethel can't stand each other based on their bickering, Ethel laughingly corrects her: "We're not fighting — this is how we make love!" Ironically, in Real Life, Vivian Vance and William Frawley absolutely and unconditionally detested each other and never, ever had this kind of moment. They hated each other so much that by the end of the series, they would not speak except when the script required it.
  • C.C. Babcock and Niles in The Nanny profess their love for each other towards the end of the series
  • Buffy the Vampire Slayer:
    • Xander and Cordelia have their fair share of this during early seasons; "Bewitched, Bothered and Bewildered" comes especially to mind.
    Cordelia: And you know what? I'll date whoever the hell I want to date! ...No matter how lame he is!
    • After they break up for good, and Cordelia's family loses their fortune, resulting in Cordelia being unable to afford a prom dress, Xander surreptitiously buys it for her.
  • Babylon 5:
    • Londo Mollari openly badmouths all of his wives, which, considering that they openly badmouth him back or are gold-diggers, this isn't unexpected. When he is given a reward from the emperor as thanks for his years of service, he asks for a divorce. He is required to keep at least one for official purposes, so two openly try to seduce him while the third treats him like crap. However, the first two conspire to murder him for the inheritance. The third anonymously gives him a blood transfusion to help him survive. Guess which one he keeps. In the Expanded Universe novels, they come close to rekindling the relationship they used to have back when they first were married, but Londo, fearing that the Drakh might use her against him, had to send her away.
    • Londo and G'Kar have sort of a Heterosexual Life-Partner version of this trope, especially in Season 5. In the Lower-Deck Episode A View From The Gallery, two maintenance men see G'Kar and Londo bickering, and one asks the other, "How long have they been married?"
  • Mal and Inara in Firefly. Piece of advice: don't call Inara a whore when Mal's around. Or pick a fight with Mal around the not-incense. Of course, Mal has no problems calling her a whore himself, although he explains that when he says it, he means her job, while everyone else means her.
  • Sun and Jin on Lost spend most of season 1 emotionally estranged, but they get a fabulous moment in "Exodus Part 1" as they declare their love before Jin sets off on the raft.
  • The George Lopez Show
    • A case of Flanderization caused George to transform from a loving, family man who was only sarcastic on occasion, to an uncaring, snarky asshole who constantly makes fun of his wife, children and mom (though she deserved it), giving an overly-harsh punishment when Carmen and Jason were caught in bed together (they obviously didn't have sex). mocks Vic's Cuban accent and treats Ernie like shit. Though rare moments show that he does love his family.
  • House
    • House and Cuddy.
    • House and Wilson just about every episode.
    • When Wilson decides to donate a part of his liver to a patient, House refuses to come to the operation because, as he tells Wilson, "If you die, I'm alone." House ends up going anyways, creating another example.
    • Wilson thinks House is trying to push the limits of their friendship until it breaks. Later that episode, House protects Wilson by making him leave the room while House helps a patient kill themselves and tells him, "I don't want to push this until it breaks."
    • House and Wilson are generally very protective of each other. When Cuddy responds coldly to a very rare attempt by House to be nice, Wilson buys the apartment she and Lucas wanted to use to move in together and says "She hurt my friend. She should be punished."
    • Just look at how House takes care of Wilson in "The C Word". House holds the bucket when Wilson's throwing up; House goes without Vicodin so he can give it to Wilson; and when Wilson's half mad with pain and screaming abuse at House, House holds his tongue. And it turned out he made a truly hilarious video of the whole terrible experience, which made Wilson laugh like he probably hasn't laughed for weeks.
    • Wilson decides on two occasions to try and cut House out of his life; once after Amber dies and again when House injures him while driving a car into Cuddy's house. On both instances, as soon as Wilson spends any real time with House, he can't go through with it and they become friends again.
  • Sonny Munroe and Chad Dylan Cooper from Sonny with a Chance have at least one Aw Look moment an episode. After becoming an Official Couple. And they've "broken up" three times in the past three episodes. Yet it's been made very clear that they care about each other, and for every second that they snark at each other, there's another second or two where they are completely adorable.
  • Supernatural: Castiel and Dean have these moments, and it's obvious that it breaks Dean's heart when Castiel lets Crowley manipulate him like a puppet down the road to Hell. Also, there's the entire reason why Castiel went to Crowley for help in the first place: he didn't want to bring Dean back into the hunting life after he got out. Castiel thought Dean would be happier being left alone to live a normal life with Lisa and Ben.
    • Crowley and his mother Rowena normally despise each other, having each openly attempted to have the other killed multiple times. However, in Season 12, Crowley responds to learning that his mother's new fiance is a philandering gold digger by exploding the man's head. Rowena tearfully responds that "That is the sweetest thing you've ever done for me", and Crowley smiles like a little boy who just made his mommy proud.
  • Paul and Estelle on Fortysomething. Every episode ends with one of these moments.
  • Stargate SG-1 and Stargate Atlantis had a couple of these.
    • Daniel Jackson and Vala Mal Doran in the SG-1 finale, though this was subverted through a Reset Button.
    • The Siege, Part 3. Sheppard had gone out on a kamikaze mission and came back due to the Daedalus' Big Damn Heroes moment.
      Sheppard: I'm home!
      Weir: [calmly walks up then hugs him] Yes... yes, you are...
    • John Sheppard and Elizabeth Weir in the Atlantis episode Misbegotten.
      Sheppard: How much diplomatic trouble is it going to cause if I knock this Woolsey guy upside his head?!
      Weir: What makes you feel like that?
      Sheppard: Beside from judging every damn decision you ever made???
      Weir: John Sheppard, are you defending my honor?
      Sheppard: ...and judging me for agreeing with you?
    • (Meredith) Rodney McKay and Jeannie Miller, two estranged siblings, reconcile after four years in the Atlantis episode "McKay and Mrs. Miller". The dynamic here works especially well since the two actors really are brother and sister.
  • Merlin:
    • Merlin and Arthur bicker and insult each other most of their time. But when it comes down to it, they do really care for each other and will sacrifice themselves to protect or save the other.
    • Arthur and Morgana have a similar dynamic, as well. (Well, not so much now that Morgana wants to kill everyone and take over the throne. But before that.)
  • Malcolm in the Middle has the familial version of this trope. Sure, 99% of the time Malcolm's family is a dysfunctional mess, but when Hal's relatives drive Lois to tears at a family reunion, Hal gets the courage to Call The Old Man Out while the brothers singlehandedly demolish the entire party with a golf cart. Also the scene in Lois' Birthday where Hal and the boys take on a posse of clowns.
  • In the short-lived cooking show parody Posh Nosh, the annoying Stepford Smiler wife and her obviously gay husband can't help but get on each other's nerves. However when Simon's in deep mourning over the death of his tennis coach, Minty happily introduces him to a new tennis coach who has a striking similarity...
  • Puck and Quinn, from Glee. Usually, they're too busy snarking and insulting each other, but every once in a while when they're alone we get to see just how much they care for each other.Finn interrupts most of the time, but still.
  • All in the Family
    • Once or twice every season or so there would be a special episode made just to prove that Archie may be a Jerkass, but he still is just as much in love with Edith as she is with him.
    • In the episode where Michael and Gloria move out, Archie is obviously broken up about his little girl leaving. More surprising is his tender farewell scene with the Meathead, whom he admits was Like a Son to Me.
  • A twisted example on Law & Order: The perp is on trial for killing her husband. Said husband was her therapist when she was young, and they had a sexual relationship while she was still his patient. Part of the evidence was a set of tapes labeled "Meredith", with the victim talking about a young patient in a very romantic/pedophilic way. The prosecution's theory was that she killed him out of jealousy. The wife's defense was A) the "trauma" of her childhood sex, and B) Finding those tapes and realizing that he was doing the same thing to another girl. The reveal? "Meredith" was the name of the town the victim took his wife for getaways. The tapes were about her, not some other girl. The tapes were notes, for a memoir he was writing of their affair. When the wife realized the truth, she broke down crying, on the witness stand, and started apologizing.
  • At least one of the three main couples in Modern Family experiences this nearly every episode. Not just the couples, the main characters (who are all family after all) all have these moments with each other regularly.
  • Law & Order: Special Victims Unit:
    • Because Liv and Elliot are Platonic Life-Partners, their arguments invariably end like this.
      Olivia: You're the longest relationship I've ever had with a man. Who else would put up with me?
      Elliot: Sorry about that.
      Olivia: Don't be. [pause] Do you want to get something to eat?
      Elliot: Sure. Who's paying?
      Olivia: Well, you do have four kids and you are going through a I guess you are.
      Elliot: That's what I figured.
    • Also Fin and Munch. When Munch gets shot in the ass, Fin brings him his favorite milkshake and says he's glad Munch pulled through. Doesn't stop Fin from joking about the situation in a later episode, though.
  • Basil throwing a surprise anniversary party for Sybil in Fawlty Towers. The trope name was even mentioned by the actress of Sybil in the DVD extras.
  • Doctor Who
    • River Song and the Doctor can get this vibe, since especially in some of the Doctor's earlier meetings with her, he spent a lot of it directing insults at her and feeling out-of-sorts.
      • "Let's Kill Hitler" is loaded with these moments for the Doctor and River, despite the fact that she's technically not even there. Early in the episode, the Doctor keeps making reference to River and from this, a new character immediately picks up on how much he really cares about her. And then, when dying, he gives Melody a message to give River and her response is "I think she knows." Made all the more poignant by the fact that Melody discovers a few moments later that she is, or will become, River.
      • Later versions of River and the Doctor. The two flirt, fight and she even claims she "hates [you]"; he knows better and flirts, fights and tells her that she doesn't, even checking out her ass in Angels of Manhattan.
    • Done in Tear Jerker fashion between Pete and Jackie Tyler in Father's Day. Despite all the bickering, jealousy, and hostility expressed by Jackie in this episode, she has one Last Kiss with Pete...just before his Heroic Sacrifice.
    • The TARDIS and the Doctor. Many, many, many times! She may be older than old can be, broken, falling to bits and unreliable, but he loves her, often affectionately calling her "old girl"; he may be mad, occasionally heartless, often changeable, never the same (due to his regenerations) and often smacks her with a hammer (in his 9th and 10th incarnations at least!) but when the TARDIS gets a body (that makes sense in context!) she outright states "what makes you think I'd ever give you back?" and that she deliberately felt the Doctor coming and left her doors unlocked, despite being an obsolete museum piece at the time — she wanted to see the stars... and the Doctor was just mad enough to take her. She also states that, though she doesn't take him where he wants to go, she does take him to where he needs to be. Done in Tear Jerker fashion too; when her body fades and she has to return to her box form, the TARDIS's last words to the Doctor are "I love you." The Doctor even mourns her return to the box.
    • The TARDIS gets another one when, finally, she allows herself to be ripped open and allows Rose to look into her heart to save the Doctor. Being ripped apart could easily destroy the TARDIS, but leaving the Doctor to the Daleks is unacceptable.
    • Amy and Rory: the two may bitch and snark, and even get close to divorce before the Doctor meddles and fixes it, but the two do truly love one another.
    • Clara has problems adjusting to the Twelfth Doctor, as he is outwardly the polar opposite of the previous incarnation in virtually everything. After he has settled into the TARDIS once again, she comes clean and tells him she doesn't know whether she can trust or understand him the same way as before. Minutes later, thanks to friendly (but desperate) words from the Twelfth and a special phone call from the Eleventh beforehand, Clara realises he has only changed at face value and deep down, he's still the same friend she grew to like. Cue her awkward but kind hug of the Doctor and both of them agreeing genially to go buy some coffee together. Given that the Twelfth's regeneration episode centered on the topic of "not judging a book by its cover", it's a rather poignant ending to the tension that was present between the two of them for most of the episode.
      • Midway through Season 8, Clara finally has enough of the new Doctor and essentially breaks up with him. They soon reconcile. By the end of the season it's made clear that the two's feelings for each other are much deeper than was even implied during his younger incarnation, with Word of God (Steven Moffat) confirming that when The Doctor tells Clara in "Dark Water" that even her betraying him makes no difference to how much he cares for her he's saying the equivalent of "I love you." Clara returns the favor in "Last Christmas" by telling the Doctor he's the only man, other than her long-dead boyfriend Danny, that she could imagine ever marrying. Once her youth is restored she does not hesitate to run away with him in the TARDIS. These themes continue into Season 9, with further Word of God from Peter Capaldi that their relationship is an old-fashioned romance. The bickering that had been featured throughout Series 8 which exemplifies the trope faded to almost nothing in Series 9, and by the time of the finale trilogy ("Face the Raven" and "Hell Bent" in particular), leading up to Clara's departure, all pretense had been dropped.
  • Blake's 7 has at least one scene of this kind a season between Avon and Vila, although some are quite subtle. A good example would be when Avon defends Vila from Tarrant.
  • Primeval, season 2: Connor and Abby spend the first half of an episode arguing, but when Abby is taken by one of the creatures of the week, Connor cries.
  • (Probably) non-romantic version of this occurs on NCIS. Wherein both Kate and Ziva seem to find Tony intolerable, until (about Once a Season) he gets kidnapped, blown up, catches the plague, etc.
    • Definite non-romantic example between Tony and McGee. Tony may constantly pick on him, McGee may snark back, but if one or the other is hurt or in danger, there's no question they'll take any kind of risk to help each other.
  • Pete and Catherine Martell in Twin Peaks. They've been married for many years, with Catherine constantly belittling and yelling at Pete (and cheating on him), while Pete responds by snarking at her and swooning over Josie. Pete still tries to rescue Catherine when she's trapped inside the burning saw mill and cries when he can't. When she returns to him after letting everyone think she was dead for a while — for business reasons — and pulls off her disguise, he's overjoyed:
    Pete: (grinning) You look terrible! (embracing her and sobbing on her neck) You look terrible...
  • Lister and Rimmer in Red Dwarf. Notably the part where Lister tells Rimmer there was nothing wrong with the way he lived in Holoship, or Lister wanting to give Rimmer a good send-off when he leaves to become the next Ace.
  • Castle:
    • While Castle isn't exactly secretive about his feelings toward Detective Beckett, as he constantly jokes about it, Beckett belittles Castle — sometimes jokingly, sometimes not — at least once an episode, if not more. Throughout the first season she can't wait for him to leave and in the finale of season 3, ends her partnership with Castle for good though. But she also, at least once an episode, shows that she really does enjoy having him around, whether by stating that she'd break him out of jail, defending him to someone else, or simply by the look on her face. Castle himself also gets a rather serious one in the season 3 finale when Kate is shot and he tells her 'I love you' right before she loses consciousness. According to Word of God, she heard him.
    • At least twice, Beckett has attempted to start something with Castle, even breaking up with her then-boyfriend for that. Unfortunately, he had just gotten back together with his second ex-wife. The second time, she goes to her bedroom in their luxury suite, only to come back a minute later, but Castle has already gone to his room. Timing is not one of Beckett's strong suits.
  • These moments are the only reason Ben and Susan Harper of My Family have yet to murder each other.
  • NUMB3RS: It's implied more than once that the entire series is this for Don and Charlie.
    Alan: I was afraid before [their first case] that you had grown so far apart that I was the only thing you had in common. I figured after I died, you might spend years without seeing each other, but to tell you the truth, I'm not worried about that anymore.
    • "Breaking Point" also plays out the trope quite clearly. Don spends the entire first half of the episode furious with Charlie for doing a TV interview about a case (which is against FBI rules). However, when Charlie becomes a target, Don completely forgets that he was mad and is only upset that Charlie didn't feel like he could tell Don what was going on.
    • David also gets a few of these with Colby, specifically in early Season Four when their relationship is still strained.
      • In "Velocity", Colby gets his personal effects back to find that he's missing an irreplaceable fishing lure he used to keep on his desk. At the end of the episode, he sees David playing with his lamp, and when he looks at it, he sees that David has attached the lure to it.
      • This also implies that David either spent a lot of time and effort just to track down something that was precious to Colby, or that he kept it as a reminder of their friendship despite thinking Colby was dirty. Either way, it looks like Colby means more to him than he's ready to admit.
      • In "Thirteen", Colby falls hard off the bed of a moving pickup truck. David is right there making sure he's okay.
  • The Pretender:
    • Miss Parker has several of these moments with both Sydney and Broots, not in romantic terms but in terms of 'they are my people, hurt them and I will kill you'. One particularly striking example:
      Miss Parker: [talking to Lyle] As much as I hate to admit it, Broots is more of a brother to me than you will ever be.
    • She also has moments like this with Jarod, siding with him a few times over the course of the series, though even by the end of the second movie she still can't bring herself to completely break her ties with the Center.
    • In the same episode with the above quote, Jarod has a moment like this with Broots, helping him to clear his name and being helped by him to track down Damon. Despite Broots being on Team Capture Jarod, Jarod kills the only person he kills in the entire series run to protect him.
  • JAG: In the final episode and after 9 seasons, Harm and Mac go from friends to lovers.
  • The X-Files: Mulder and Scully have several moments like this.
  • Star Trek: The Next Generation: Worf spends the whole show glaring at Data more intensely than anyone else, but when Data's Shuttlecraft explodes and he is presumed destroyed in "The Most Toys", he looks absolutely devastated and says very quietly "Data...", he spends the rest of the episode with his head slightly down and seems to be smiling when Data is found safe at the end of the episode. Keep in mind that Worf never smiles...
  • Star Trek: Deep Space Nine: Quark has these moments a lot, especially with his much-abused brother Rom, his estranged mother, and Odo.
    • Before his Character Development into a kindly Idiot Savant, Rom usually appeared fairly stern and even cruel with Nog. The first major instance of this change was when Nog decided to join Starfleet, and Rom stood up to Quark to make sure Nog fulfilled his dreams.
    • General Martok and his wife. When you see them together, they appear to despise each other. But when he discusses her with someone else, he clearly worships the ground she walks on.
    • Miles and Keiko O'Brien. Initially she was unhappy with having to move to Deep Space Nine, and occasionally came across as Tsundere toward him, while O'Brien sometimes seemed clueless toward Keiko, but at the end of the day they were absolutely devoted to each other. It's telling that, even when most seasons had at least one "O'Brien Must Suffer" episode, Miles and Keiko never even considered breaking up.
  • Lance Hunter and Bobbi Morse on Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.. Formerly married, the pair of them spending most of any mission snarking or bickering, but they still care deeply for each other and will go to any lengths to protect and save each other.

  • Voltaire's song "Stuck With You".
  • The Parlotones (a South African rock band) portrays this in their music video for Push Me to the Floor, in which the married couple spend the entire video getting back and sabotaging at each other in every possible way...and at the end start getting frisky and about to have sex on a billiards table .
  • In the final song of The Simpsons Sing the Blues, "Sibling Rivalry," after it ends with a quiet a capella refrain about their fractious relationship, you hear softly afterward Bart say "Let go of my hand, Lisa."
  • Depending on your interpretation, either played straight or deconstructed in The Pogues' "Fairytale Of New York".
  • Darkly subverted/deconstructed by The Mountain Goats song "Oceanographer's Choice". The bickering couple getting back together in the end is depicted as them being too dangerously codependent and screwed up to get out of their mutually abusive and destructive relationship.
  • Reel Big Fish's "I Know You Too Well To Like You Anymore" is a duet where each singer spends the time insulting one another, but ends with them ultimately admitting they love each other, concluding with "Oh well."

    Newspaper Comics 
  • Beetle Bailey: Happens sometimes between Sarge and Beetle, or Sarge and the privates in his company in general, typically involving a situation where someone is about to leave the company but starts remembering all the good times they've had together. Sometimes subverted instead: One party's happy memories about their times together are ones that make the other angry.
  • Calvin and his parents rarely ever see eye-to-eye. Calvin often doesn't think too highly of his parents, Calvin's Dad sometimes offhandedly comments about wanting a dog instead of a rambunctious youngster...but every so often, we do see that both parties do care for each other in a few strips, with one memorable one showing Dad taking a break from working to play with Calvin in the snow.
  • Dogbert more often than not belittles Dilbert in varying ways- but when Dilbert's life is actually in danger, Dogbert will act. As Word of God says, "Dogbert will always save Dilbert."

  • Almost the entire point of The Bickersons — John and Blanche may constantly fight with each other, but there's no doubt that neither one would ever consider a divorce.
  • Damien and Anthony in In and Out of the Kitchen — they bicker all the time, but are obviously in love.

  • John and Elizabeth Proctor in The Crucible realize this just a bit too late.
  • Walter and Marion spend almost all of Don't Drink the Water bickering like the old married couple they are...until Marion starts to cry with worry over their escape plan. Walter finally calms his brash demeanor to comfort her and the two remember their first few dates together.
  • In Fiddler on the Roof, Golde and Tevye get their moment after seeing their first two daughters marry for love. Up until now all we've seen is Golde harassing Tevye and Tevye evading her. In a charming duet they consider the fact that theirs was an Arranged Marriage and they'd never met until they were reciting their wedding vows. After evading for awhile Golde finally admits that yes, she does love him and he responds in kind. If done well, these two can outshine all the young couples as the cutest in the show.
  • In Fools, a curse not only makes most of the characters stupid but also prevents them from falling in love. Once the curse is broken, the parents of The Ingenue, Sophia, Lenya and Nikolai realize they've always loved each other
  • Nathan and Richard have a scene or two like this in Thrill Me—generally speaking, Richard tries to deny he could possibly care about anyone, but he does genuinely like (and need) Nathan.
    Richard: [reluctantly] ...I...I screw up without you.
    Nathan: What?
    Richard: I screw up without you, okay!
    Nathan: ...You never said you needed me before.

    Video Games 
  • In Fantasia - Requiem of the Abyss, Cain and Valen spend most of the time insulting each other. Cue "awwww" when he says that he loves her. On a less romantic side, Oswald and Valen as well. Stern daddy admits he cares about daughter's safety.
  • Erk and Serra in Fire Emblem: The Blazing Blade if you pair them up. Their A support has him asking her rather roughly why does she tag along with him when she hates him so much... but Serra unexpectdly says she's trying to take care of Erk so he won't neglect himself to death. Then he replies that he's trying to protect her because he believes nobody else would do it.
  • Knights of the Old Republic:
    • Carth Onasi and a female player spend a lot of time arguing.
    • As do Bastila Shan and a male player. The relationships in the sequel are much less combative, unless you want to be literal about the training sessions with the Handmaiden.
  • After rather a lot of sarcastic bickering between the Smuggler and Risha in Star Wars: The Old Republic, she drops the caustic mood long enough to express concern when he's heading out the airlock to answer a distress call.
  • Dragon Age: Origins
    • The romance between a male Warden and Morrigan.
    • Despite Morrigan frequently expressing annoyance at the Dog in Origins for leaving dead rabbits in her pack because he thinks she needs to eat more, when the Dog happily bounds up to greet her for the first time in two years at the end of Witch Hunt, she greets him as an old friend and displays one of her very rare smiles.
  • Dragon Age II:
    • Happens when Hawke is romancing Merrill as a rival.
    • Really, any rival romance is like this. Extra points go to the Anders rivalmance.
      Anders: I swear I don't know whether to kiss you or kill you.
  • Karl and Lynn from Valkyria Chronicles. So much that their (in-game) death quotes are entirely of one of them calling out to another... in a really sad way.
  • Radiata Stories has Jack and Ridley who initially can't hold a conversation that doesn't involve insulting each other. After a mssion goes wrong, Jack devotes himself to protecting her and she becomes affectionate in return.
  • Possibly subverted in the end of Ratchet: Deadlocked, where the commentators Dallas and Juanita, having verbally attacked each other all through the game, end up getting married, though this was a result of deception on Dallas' part. They then go on to star in their own TV show, where Juanita attempts to kill him in every episode.
  • If you end up taking Banjo or Kazooie far apart from each other in Banjo-Tooie, they will end up whining about missing each other. And considering how much they argue, their differing personalities, and the fact Banjo often uses Kazooie as a weapon, this means A LOT.
  • Kaltos and Charlotte from The Spirit Engine 2 if you have them in the same party. Despite constant bickering and insults, they suddenly turn out to love each other near the end, even though there's no indication of it whatsoever.
  • Nick will spend all of Left 4 Dead 2 insulting his comrades, but if any of them die, he may say something about how he'll miss them, except for Ellis on some occasions.
  • In the end of Chibi-Robo!, after Chibi and Mr. Sanderson have saved the house from the Spydorz, Mrs. Sanderson rushes to his side, tackles him to the ground and, and gives him a big smooooch! She considers the argument they've been having over the entire game to be over.
  • Radiant Historia has one and only one moment where Stocke and Raynie share affection, during a Nonstandard Game Over, and it's a doozie. In which they give up fighting to live in peace together for an entire year before the world ends together. Stocke uses the White Chronicle to go back in time to tell Raynie he can't give up fighting, and instead makes The Promise.
  • Grand Theft Auto V: Micheal and his son Jimmy. While Jimmy openly calls his father a Jaded Washout with a "completely fucked" moral compass and Micheal repeatedly calls Jimmy a fat slob who leeches off of his money, Micheal tends to level with Jimmy and Jimmy outright states he's worried Micheal is gonna get himself killed.
    • The entire DeSanta family, really. Michael doesn't understand his kids at all and his attempts to bond with them usually don't go well. But the second either of them are in danger, Michael will rush in to help them. Michael and Amanda are constantly at each other's throats, but after a period of separation Amanda and the kids begin to miss Michael. After they reunite, at the end of an intense family therapy session, Michael tells Amanda that he'd kill her if she ever reported him to the police, in a tone that makes it sound like he means. Afterwards, the two have a civil conversation on the way home where Amanda tells Michael to not get himself killed while he takes care of his business.
    • Michael and Trevor. The two fight about everything, from how to approach a job to Michael's decision to retire. Trevor is extremely bitter about Michael giving him up to the police as part of a deal with the FIB, and becomes homicidal when he discovers that their partner Brad was killed, instead of arrested like Trevor thought. Yet, no matter how bad things get between them, they can never stop caring about the other's well being. To borrow a quote from South Park, they're best friends whether they like it or not.
  • Guild Wars: Eye of the North has Gadd and Vekk at odds with one another, Gadd criticizing Vekk for too much concern with safety and for his comrades while Vekk criticizes Gadd for putting his pursuit of knowledge ahead of everything else. When Gadd dies while preparing a golem Vekk collapses in tears because no matter how much they argued, they were still father and son.
  • A child and father example plays out in Pokémon Super Mystery Dungeon with the partner and Carracosta. The partner is a mischievous trouble maker who's also a starry-eyed idealist about joining the Expedition Society despite being only a child, both of which grate on Carracosta, leading to a lot of yelling between the two and chores as punishment. But at the end of the day, he cares deeply about his adopted child and by the end of the first half, encourages them instead of stopping them from joining the Expedition Society. And as for the partner's feelings towards him, when visiting their village after everyone was turned into stone, they didn't want to see their father if he was alright or not, because they imagined that they couldn't go on if they found their father (technically) dead.
  • Mortal Kombat X: Johnny Cage and Sonya Blade are this to a T, especially on her side. Especially seen in the flashbacks, where Sonya is easily resting her head in Johnny's arms after he had just defeated Shinnok, or her immediate reaction to seeing him get stabbed is a severe beatdown on Quan-Chi, topped off with a vicious stomp between his legs. And despite a rather bitter divorce during the timeskip between 9 and X, when Cage is feared killed in the comic, Sonya frantically begs for him to respond, and is surprisingly gentle in dressing his wounds. Pretty much all their more heartwarming interactions in MKX boil down to this trope.

    Visual Novels 
  • In Grisaia no Rakuen, Makina spends pretty much the entire story mocking and abusing Michiru as a flanderization of her previous mildly annoying behavior. She considers Michiru to be one of her best friends, but rarely shows that. However, in the afterstory, Michiru is incredibly upset and frustrated about getting pregnant which the other girls consider to be a good thing. When they see Michiru is upset, however, they instantly cut out the jokes and spend a few minutes assuring her everything is going to be okay.
  • As one of the Valkyrie, Wildfire has spent all her life seeing men as lust objects in War: 13th Day, but when Brooks attempts to rape Chase, the player can have her put a stop to it. In the same scene, Chase reveals that he didn't fight back against Brooks because he knows she is Wildfire's best friend.

    Web Animation 
  • In one episode of Red vs. Blue:
    Church: From now on, if anybody makes my girlfriend cranky and psychotic, it's gonna be me!
    Tex: Aw, that's sweet.
    Church: Shut up, bitch.
    Tex: Asshole.
  • DSBT InsaniT: Alex and Seth value each other as good friends, even though they seem to always be at each others throats, which is revealed in 'Beach Brawl'. Koden even jokingly teases them about it.
  • Louie stands up for Dewey and Huey in Ducktalez 4, when Buzzkill is about to kill them, because they're Louie's brothers despite the crap they give Louie.

  • In Koan of the Day, the tortoises fight when they run out of lettuce, both thinking that they took the last bite, until they both confess simultaneously.
  • Homestuck
    • Platonic example: Rose Lalonde unfolds her plan to destroy Jack Noir to her paradox brother Dave Strider — which entails a suicide mission to destroy a sun with twice the mass of the universe. His violent reaction to this plan serves as an indicator that, yes, he really does care about her despite all of the mutual snark. (Rose even points out that his outburst was, in fact, pretty sweet.
    • He goes along with it immediately when it becomes clear that she intends to use her Dream Self for the suicide mission, rather than her "real" self.
    • Karkat and Terezi:
      • This happens in a more typical fashion via Trollian, when despite their constant bickering, they have a conversation ending with mutual <3's (although Karkat's is after Terezi logs off).
      • Later, in the aftermath ofTerezi being forced to murder Vriska to save the lives of everyone else,, Karkat shows up with some support.
      • A while after that, Terezi admits that while Vriska did some awful things, Terezi feels terrible about killing her and admits that she misses Vriska.
      • And then again later, when Terezi expresses insecurity stemming from the radness of her ancestor and fear for her usefulness to the group, Karkat gives a very sweet response about how she doesn't need all that crap because she's already a beautiful person deep down. It makes such an impression on her that after he leaves she goes to follow him...only to be stopped by Meenah wondering if Karkat asked her out on a date. Terezi seems genuinely upset.
    • Also, this conversation between Karkat and John.
      CG: PLEASE.
      EB: oh, man.
      EB: our "first" conversation ever? i can't wait.
    • Also, despite Gamzee's Lusus literally never being there for him during his Grubhood, Gamzee still holds his Lusus as it dies.
  • In Monster of the Week Mulder and Scully constantly snark and call each other the likes of "conspiracy nut" and "boring" respectively, but there are few moments when they show that they genuinely care for each other. Both being smart, they quickly note that this is bound to inspire fanfiction.
  • Girl Genius
    • Gil responds to his father sending a small army, led by a Jager, to capture him (and maim him, if he resists) with "He DOES care!" And by "capture" we mean "remove from a place that may very well get wiped off the map soon if any little thing goes wrong." Vole is cuddly compared to what he's planning to hit the place with.
    • The three-way love/hate relationship between Agatha, Gil, and Tarvek probably provides enough examples for its own page, to limit things to one among them:
      Tarvek: I can't believe [Gil] was here, and you let him get away! We could have... have... kept him prisoner! We could have used him as a hostage! A bargaining chip! We could have... we could have... we could have kept him safe.
      Agatha: I'm sorry.
  • Velma and Marge from I Was Kidnapped by Lesbian Pirates from Outer Space: For the first time, when Male Man threatens to kill Velma.
  • In Blip, when Bang first enters the scene, he and K start fighting almost non-stop. Name calling starts, ClusterFBombs are thrown, and catfights are held. But when the turmoil stops, it's clear that K is really happy to see him. Later, there's a few photographs of how their friendship has changed since 2nd grade. It hasn't.
  • In Pictures Of You, Christo and Michelle spend all there time either fighting or screwing — no in-betweens. It isn't until Michelle thinks she's pregnant that they themselves admit that they are in love with each other. Of course, they proceed to fight afterwards...
  • VG CatsDawwwwwww
  • Tedd and Susan in El Goonish Shive... Awwww... sort of.
  • From Looking for Group, Benny and her adoptive father Krunch. Constant snarking, but he always looks out for her, and she really does adore him. Still, when she hugs him with tears in her eyes, she cries out in joy "Old cow!" (He's a minotaur.)
  • Dan and Mab's Furry Adventures' Widly shows she really is Dan's friend. With a hug of course.
  • In Platinum Grit Nils torments Jeremy without mercy and angrily denies any suggestion that she has feelings for him. But she loses her shit whenever he almost dies and becomes insanely (and transparently) jealous when Kate takes him out on a date.
  • Penny Arcade's Gabe and Tycho. When they're not insulting or threatening one another with bodily harm.
  • Death and the Maiden—After a run-in with Pestilence causes Mercedes to become deathly ill, Death first takes her to a place where she can't get any worse (but not better either), and admits that he cares about her. The next few strips are one long Aw Look moment.
  • In The Order of the Stick, Roy and Julia are shown to have a fairly strong sibling rivalry, considering that Julia is the favored child of Eugene for pursuing magic. However, a bit of a shouting match, Roy asks how she's doing and the two proceed to hug it out, saying that they love each other. This utterly confuses Nale, who believes that siblings should have an unreasonable hatred of each other and be each others' sworn enemies.
  • In Sinfest, a tender moment.
  • In Sequential Art, despite knowing who and what Hillary is, Art still has to note that she looks genuine.
  • Layla and Kade in Eerie Cutiesusually they don't look like they care much about each other. But they have their moments, such as when Layla jumps to protect him and Kade really appreciates it, to her tsundere-ish blushing awkwardness.
  • The Inexplicable Adventures of Bob! — Bob and Jean have an argument at a restaurant that seems to be escalating. Their waiter notices and asks, "Are you guys fighting?" They both look at him, startled, and respond, "What? No, I don't... think so." "No! If we were, we'd know!" They then laugh it off and the fight ends.
  • Gloomverse: Wallis and Harold fight a LOT, but it becomes clear later on that they both mean a lot to each other.

     Web Original 
  • In There Will Be Brawl, Captain Falcon and Pit's relationship can be borderline abusive sometimes. But when someone else threatens to hurt Pit...
    Captain Falcon: I may have held mercy for you before. But there is only one fist that can bruise the face of my angel. FALCONNNNNNNN PUNCH!
  • In Plague and Treachery on the Oregon Trail, Cyrus goes psychotic when he finds out the sheer number of how many men his wife has slept with behind his back, and she ends up doing a running away to live in the wilderness, only for them to realize they really do care for each other, and will start their lives over together in Oregon.
  • While calling it "love" would be a stretch, The Nostalgia Chick and The Nostalgia Critic tend to have a few sweetly (if slightly freakish) affectionate moments amidst their Foe Yay.
    Nostalgia Chick (To the Critic in a fond, affectionate voice): You stupid sack of shit.
  • "Hate" means "Love"
  • Le Donjon de Naheulbeuk: The Dwarf really doesn't like the Elf. Even though he constantly berates and mocks her, this doesn't stop him from perving over her with the other males when she decides to go bathing in the nude. Played more poignantly when the Elf dies later on in the story, and the Dwarf, the swearing grumpy old git who started an argument with her literally three seconds after meeting her, is utterly heartbroken.

    Western Animation 
  • Justice League:
    • John Stewart and Shayera Hol in "Comfort and Joy" and "Wild Cards".
    • Flash and Hawkgirl share a similar heartwarming scene in the finale. He was very vocal in his defense over why Hawkgirl shouldn't be kicked out of the group and before she left on her own, he stopped her so he could hug her. Reciprocated in the Season Fauxnale of Justice League Unlimited, 'Divided we Fall'. When Flash, in his Crowning Moment of Awesome proceeds to trash the combined Luthor/Brainiac entities by punching repeatedly him at superluminal speed, and literally skinning Brainiac from Luthor's body at superspeed is called into the very source of his powers, with no way to return back Shayera seems unable to accept his apparent fate. She then instigates an human chain inside the Speed Force, literally begging Wally to "take her hand" and return to the real world. When she finally gets her friend back, she tenderly caresses and hugs him, with her on-and-off boyfriend John Stewart joining in as a cheesy, happy family glad to have gotten their wayward kid back.
    • Batman has several moments with the other Leaguers that show the heart of gold underneath the cowl, especially with his Foil, Superman; case in point, Supes bear-hugs Bats at the end of "Savage Time." He also protects them from personal threats (even though these people have superpowers and could break him in two), whether it's helping Flash deal with his Rogues Gallery or checking out Shayera's new beau like an Overprotective Dad. He's not a bat, he's just a big ole teddy bear!
  • Batman: The Animated Series:
    • In the episode "Harlequinade", the Joker finally manages to push Harley Quinn over the edge, prompting her to point a gun at him. The Joker taunts her that she will never have the guts to actually shoot him, but though shaking in fear and anger she actually pulls the trigger... only to reveal to the both of them that the gun was a "Bang!" Flag Gun. In response, the Joker scowls at her and her determination quickly melts away and she looks nervously back at him, but his scowl turns into a sincere smile as he tells her: "Baby, you're the greatest!" And the two embrace.
    • In "Mad Love", the Joker, in quite a grumpy mood, pushes Harley Quinn off a building, injuring her deeply. She finally comes to see that he never cared for her... Until she sees roses and a get well card from him. Awwwww(ful).
    • Given another sick twist in Under the Red Hood, where Batman admits that he does consider just killing Joker, all the time. Joker's response?
      Joker: Awww, you do think about me!
    • There's also the episode, "You Scratch My Back", where Batgirl chastises Nightwing (aka Dick Grayson) for his aloof behavior as well as the fact he's partnered with Catwoman. They eventually show their feelings to each other by the end of this episode.
  • Metalocalypse:
    • There's a non-romantic example in the season two finale.
      Toki Wartooth: Nathans, the real reason you tells me this is that you cares abouts me.
    • Once in a blue moon someone will say something about how they do consider the other band members (or the Manager) their friends. To name a few:
      • Nathan calling the band is "stupid, dumb, fucked up dysfunctional family" in Fatherklok. He also insists in "Dethzazz" that the rest of the band has to help Toki recover from his punishment coma despite the fact that the band wouldn't suffer at all musically from his absence.
      • Pickles' line about calling the band his family in Rehabklok.
      • Charles telling the band that they're all important to him in Doublebookedklok.
      • Nathan apologizing to Pickles despite the fact that doing so literally causes him to vomit blood and cringe in pain.
  • In an episode of Chowder, Mung and Truffles get into an argument that escalates in vitriol and volume; it ends in a prompt make-out session. They part with "GET AWAY FROM ME."
  • The Simpsons:
    • In "The War of the Simpsons", when Marge and Homer go to couples counseling, another couple is shown bickering, and throwing mean, petty insults at eachother. Then the reverend asks them to look into each others' eyes...
    • In "Mother Simpson", Homer's long lost mother returns and neither she nor Abe is happy to see the other. Yet when the FBI raided the Simpson house to arrest her, Abe's immediate response is to provide a distraction so Homer can get her out of there. Though Abe admits to not being totally certain if it was a distraction or just senility.
    Abe: A little from column A, a little from column b.
    • "Burns Baby Burns: Burns meets is long lost son, Larry, but finds him to be a boorish oaf and gradually wants nothing to do with him. Homer and Larry attempt to invoke this reaction into Burns with an ill-thought out kidnapping scheme, but Burns doesn't show concern, only anger at being robbed. After Larry comes clean, Burns admits while he glad to know Larry, he wants nothing to do with him afterwards.
  • Slightly twisted South Park example. Subverted on Cartman's side, as he only saves Kyle to have an entertaining nemesis and avoid boredom. Kyle however genuinely shows sympathy when he thinks Cartman is sincerely upset about something. He usually isn't.
  • Averted in Moral Orel. After all the crap they've put each other through, Clay and Bloberta genuinely hate one another, and their own children. The only Aw Look They Really Do Love Each Other moment even vaguely suggested in the show is the fact that Clay tears up for a split-second when talking about the mistakes he's made during a drunken rant. The other residents of Moralton fare little better, though there are enough Pet the Dog moments to keep it from being an irredeemable Crapsack World.
  • In the first Halloween Episode of The Real Ghostbusters, Samhain is hurting Slimer, and Peter shouts, "Nobody picks on the spud but me!"
  • In Wakfu, minor characters Kabrok and Miranda have one of these moments.
  • Kevin Spencer
    • Percy and Anastasia. They routinely fight with and cheat on each other, but are still in love (or at least lust). They also get extremely jealous when the other cheats — Anastasia gets pissed off when Percy hires prostitutes, while Percy will cheerfully attempt to kill anyone who dates Anastasia.
    • Percy and Anastasia supposedly keep Kevin around for the money they would get for having a dependent. A flashback reveals that they really do love him, and Anastasia breaks down in tears when they had to give up Kevin's twin brother for adoption.
  • Phineas and Ferb: Buford and Baljeet have a very interesting relationship. Although Buford is "supposed" to bully the smaller nerd, they have times when it's obvious that they actually do care about each other. In "Bully Bromance Breakup" Buford states that "[Sometimes] you just want to bully someone you love," and Baljeet discovers that accomplishing a great feat is not as satisfying when he's not sharing it with his best friend. They also sing a song entitled "Frienemies" in the episode "Lotsa Latkes." In "Mission Marvel," Buford manages to calm down Hulkjeet by telling him "I worry about you, you know.'re my best friend." Of course, then he makes Baljeet angry again by demonstrating the proper way to lift someone by the front of their shirt...
    *throws Buford and runs off in a rage*
    Buford:*lands in Ultra-Soft Bedding Warehaüs* Okay, the throwin' was good! But when you grabbed my shirt, you didn't twist!! I swear, it's like in one ear and right out de other! Oh, oh! Baljeet, wait up!
  • Avatar: The Last Airbender: Zuko and Mai's kiss at the end of "The Beach," an episode where they didn't seem to be having very much fun together, got into a big fight, and broke up briefly. At the end, Mai puts it best when she says "I know one thing I care about. I care about you."'
  • In one episode of Family Guy, Brian is replaced by "New Brian," and Stewie tries to convince him to come back.
    Brian: You always said I was a douche.
    Stewie: Yeah, but you're my douche.
  • In Futurama episode "Zapp Dingbat", Leela is utterly disgusted when her mother starts a relationship with Zapp Brannigan and tries to break them up by proving that Zapp is a lecherous creep. However, he is in love with Munda, and resists Leela's lingerie-clad attempt to seduce him so he can propose. Before the wedding, he manages to offend Munda by being his usual General Failure self.
    • The first glimpses we get from the Fry family, they all seemed like selfish people who Fry was glad to be rid of. But all of them ultimately showed concern for Fry, and were upset when he disappeared.
  • My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic:
    • Rarity and Applejack have very different personalities, and when the series started, couldn't stand one another. Even after they got over their initial dislike of one another, they were still very likely to snark or needle one another. Every so often, however, they'll stay or do something to show how much they care.
      Applejack: But good things are better when they're a Rarity. [winks]
      Rarity: Ooooh!
    • Rarity also has this relationship with her pet cat Opalescence. Their relationship is rocky at best with Opal usually swatting at her owner whenever she tries to come close. However, Opal is shown to care for Rarity as she worries about her in issue #23 of the comic and reminds her to make Twilight's birthday dress in "Sweet and Elite".
    • Also, Rainbow Dash and Fluttershy. In the beginning, Dash couldn't stand being around Fluttershy, but they show time and time again, that they do care for each other.
  • The Scotsman and his wife from Samurai Jack. He's head over heels for her the entire episode, but she spends the entire episode hollering and insulting him. Then finally at the end she admits "it was sweet of him to rescue her", and makes a complete change into a friendly and kindhearted woman.
  • In Ed, Edd n Eddy, this is Eddy's relationship with his friends.
    • Don't expect her to openly show it, but there are several moments in the show where it's confirmed Sarah does love Ed deep down.
  • Trudy & Oscar share this relationship in The Proud Family.
  • Jake and Helen in Daria, despite all of their squabbling and conflicting schedules, still seem to really care about each other. In one episode, Helen tells Daria about their first anniversary, Jake made her a poorly constructed candle that was supposed to be a Hobbit, which he then accidentally dropped into the hot tub they were sitting in, causing it to melt. Helen then noted to Daria that instead of being disappointed with her gift, she realized "a lot of time and love went into that silly lump of wax." The end of the episode reveals that she still kept it after all those years to remind herself why she married him.
  • Non-romantic example with the main characters from Kaeloo. They fight with each other, insult each other and use lethal weapons against each other, but there have been instances where they have shown that all four of them deeply care for each other — and if somebody else tries messing with one of them, that person is pretty much doomed.
  • In Hey Arnold!, Helga frequently clashes with her parents and sister, but many episodes show that they really do care about each other ("Olga Comes Home", "Quantity Time" and "Road Trip" are a few examples.)
  • In the Garfield Specials, this is how Garfield and Odie are depicted. Even though Garfield repeatedly berates Odie and Odie does not seem to notice, there are moments in the specials that show they actually care about each other. Notably:
    • In "Here Comes Garfield", Garfield helps Odie escape from the big sleep in the dog pound.
    • In "Garfield's Halloween Adventure", after Odie saves him from drowning in the river, Garfield, who was initially going to keep both his and Odie's bags of candy for himself, shows his gratitude by giving Odie his half of the candy.
    • In "A Garfield Christmas Special", Odie gives Garfield a homemade backscratcher, which Garfield enjoys, and hugs Odie.
    • In the "Garfield" segment of Garfield: His 9 Lives, Odie saves Garfield from getting hit by a truck, and Garfield is eternally grateful. However, this is Subverted, since it is shown that years later, Garfield tells his grandchildren the inverse happened.
      • In the epilogue of the same special, God gives Garfield the chance to live all of his nine lives again. God then asks if Odie is also a cat, and Garfield claims he is. (Odie even "meows" to keep up the charade.)
  • Les Sisters: Marine and Wendy, the titular sisters, enjoy annoying each other and fight a lot, but they don't like it when other people mess with the other one and they are horrified when their parents suggest separating them to stop them from fighting and causing chaos.

    Real Life 
  • Admit it, even YOU have had this relationship with someone. Whether it be your siblings, family members, or significant other.
  • Even the meanest, grumpiest male crocodile would soften up if you pair him with a female.
    • Unless one of them ate the other for dinner instead. In nature, male and female often only show interest in each other in that way at mating time, the rest of the time, it's just another rival/potential meal.
  • Dogs; if you own two or more, you'll often see them badgering each other, swiping their toys, chasing one another around and generally harassing one another back and forth. But if one is sick or injured, the others will stick by him or her and comfort them until they get better.
    • Cats as well, to a lesser extent. Most companion cats (who live together but may or may not be related by blood) spend a fair chunk of their time fighting, but it's all for play and they'll often slip into social grooming shortly thereafter. And God help you if a door stands between a sick cat and her mother. Momma doesn't care that her baby is full grown now- she will make damn sure you let her in that room to look after her baby.
  • Neil Young has had this relationship with Stephen Stills since they were in the Buffalo Springfield. Their arguments are the stuff of legend in the rock music world. Yet they deeply respect each other's musicianship, frequently announce that they love each other as brothers, and Stephen named his youngest son Oliver Ragland, a name in Neil's maternal family.
  • Although The Beatles disbanded in bitter acrimony, each of them eventually patched up their differences. This included even John Lennon in the early 70s, at a time when the band had recently broken up and Paul and John were still supposed to be at each other's throats. A fan encountered John strolling around Greenwich Village with an "I Love Paul" button from the days of Beatlemania. Wondering if he was making some kind of ironic statement, the fan asked him why he was wearing it—to which John replied, without missing a beat and without a trace of sarcasm, "Because I love Paul."

Alternative Title(s): They Really Do Love Each Other