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"Mr Wooster is an agreeable young gentleman, but I would describe him as essentially one of Nature's bachelors."


It's not for everyone.

This character is one who is not just unmarried, not just uninterested in marriage, but for one reason or another is staunchly against marriage. They may be against the institution of marriage itself and believe that no one should get married, or simply be opposed to the idea of getting married themselves. Most examples are male, but females can count as well. With the increasing legality of gay marriage, gay characters can fall into this as well if marriage is available to them but they make a point of eschewing it.

There can be a few reasons for this:

  • The He-Man Woman Hater Bachelor: This character is a Straw Misogynist (or Does Not Like Men if female), in which case expect to see them Mistaken for Gay, assuming they're not...
  • The Closet Gay Bachelor: Pretends to be one of the other types to explain why they're single, but it's really just a cover. The term "confirmed bachelor" is often used winkingly as a euphemism for this, although its broader definition is the original one and still widely used.
  • The Lost Love Bachelor: This character might have considered marriage, but their preferred partner is unavailable (either deceased, married to another, of the wrong orientation, or just uninterested) and they are unwilling to settle for someone else. May seize on a He-Man Woman Hater attitude as an excuse, similar in some ways to the above.
  • The Casanova Bachelor: On the flip side, they may like the opposite sex just fine and either prefer the single lifestyle or Really Get Around and enjoy variety a little too much to settle down with just one person. Or in the case of the Casanova Wannabe, they may just aspire to this.
  • The Commitmentphobic Bachelor: Somewhere in the middle, this character enjoys romance but has issues that keep them from getting all the way down the aisle. May overlap with Serial Romeo or In Love with Love, especially if they believe that marriage would somehow kill the spark between them and their amore.
  • The Uninterested In Love Bachelor: This character simply has no interest in love or romance, let alone marriage, being too busy with other pursuits. Often overlaps with Married to the Job in cases where the character is too buried in their work to even try to find a suitable spouse, as opposed to cases where they try and fail or wish they had the time to try. For much the same reason, can overlap with Celibate Eccentric Genius. If the entire cast is like this despite being of an appropriate age for romance, it's No Hugging, No Kissing. Often overlaps with Asexuality in fiction, although real-life asexuals are often still interested in romance and companionship and some do marrynote .

Whatever the reason, the end result is a character who would otherwise be considered marriageable — is of the proper age, reasonably attractive, financially stable, confident, hasn't taken a Vow of Celibacy, etc. — who nevertheless is unmarried, has never been married, and is not expected to become married.

Often overlaps with Celibate Hero. If one of these characters winds up getting "turned" and becomes Happily Married, they have become a Deconfirmed Bachelor. Compare Awful Wedded Life, which is what many Confirmed Bachelors consider marriage to be. Spouses trapped in an Awful Wedded Life often express anti-marriage sentiments similar to those of certain types of Confirmed Bachelor. See also Superheroes Stay Single, when celibacy is enforced by the authors rather than self-willingness.

Has nothing to do with getting a four-year college degree.


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    Anime and Manga 
  • In The Case Files of Jeweler Richard, Tanimoto is aromantic and asexual, and has stated on multiple occasions she has no interest in dating or marriage. She is quite happy sticking to that!
  • In Death Note, L and Light Yagami fall into the Married to the Job category. Light does become engaged to Misa, but never follows through and his reasons have little to do with romance in any case. Despite the Foe Romance Subtext, they are not canonically of the closet gay variety.
  • Robert E.O. Speedwagon from JoJo's Bizarre Adventure is stated to have been a "lifelong bachelor," although since none of his character development involved romance, which specific category he falls into is a matter of debate.

    Comic Books 

    Fan Works 
  • The Good Hunter from The Night Unfurls eschews marriage. He is not interested in courtship, outright tells Grace he will never marry, and turns down multiple potential marriage candidates. It doesn't stop Grace and Celestine from having Imagine Spots about a betrothed Kyril, though.
  • Solas is this, of the Uninterested in Love variety, in Skyhold Academy Yearbook. He has no issue with anyone else getting married, and quite cheerfully participates in his friends' bachelor parties and supports their life choices. He just finds science (and cake) to be more interesting than anything romantic ever could be.

    Films — Live-Action 
  • The Barefooted Kid: Madam Pak, the owner of the "Four Seasons Weaver" mill, is still single in her late forties, due to an Arranged Marriage from her childhood days that goes wrong. She was supposed to be married to a boy from a neighboring, wealthy family as part of a pact with her own parents, but the boy she's engaged to dies before reaching adulthood. Due to her family's rule of honor, she's forced to remain single for the rest of her life.
  • Early Summer: A rare female example is Noriko's friend Aya, who doesn't want to be married and mocks her married friends for the hassles and concerns they have to deal with in married life. She isn't that sincere about it, however. Late in the film when Mr. Manabe drops by and Noriko expresses reluctance to take a look at him after she's decided to marry Kenkichi, Aya says "I may marry who's left."
  • Marriage Italian Style has Domenico, a wealthy bachelor who enjoys a comfortable life with lots of girlfriends and hookers. He's marriage-phobic enough that his most faithful hooker girlfriend Filomena can't get him to commit, despite the fact that she's Sophia Loren. When Domenico finally does decide at age 50 to get married to a much younger girl, after 20 years of a Friends with Benefits relationship with Filomena, she's outraged.

  • The plot of The Da Vinci Code centers around attempts to prove that Jesus, contrary to his depiction in The Bible (see under Religion), averted this trope with Mary Magdalene.
  • In Louisa May Alcott's Eight Cousins and its sequel, Uncle Alec is this, of the Lost Love variety. Several hints are dropped in the narrative that he had been in love with Rose, who had married his brother George and died giving birth to their daughter of the same name. Alec and George had a falling out some years earlier, quite possibly over Rose Senior, but made it up the last time they saw each other before George died; as part of the reconciliation, George left guardianship of Rose Junior to Alec. Alec becomes as completely devoted to his niece as if she were his daughter, and never gets involved with anyone else.
  • Harry Potter:
    • Both Snape and Dumbledore are bachelors for pretty similar reasons.
      • Snape is of the "love lost" variety. He’d been in love with Harry’s mom, Lily since they were kids. She didn’t reciprocate and he pushed her friendship away when he called her a Fantastic Slur and became a Death Eater. He fairly directly caused her death and he just wasn’t ever able to move on from her specifically or forgive himself for it. Although Voldemort says he tried to convince him he’d moved on, implying he may have fake-dated someone.
      • Dumbledore is of the "gay before it was socially acceptable" type and of the one attempt at love ended in catastrophe type like Snape. Right after he graduated from Hogwarts, his mother died and he got a Promotion to Parent over his two younger siblings. A fresh out of getting kicked out of Durmstrang Grindelwald came knocking to his village and manipulated him into running off with him with his mentally ill sister in tow for a whole year. His brother tried to stop them and she got killed in the crossfire. He was also never able to forgive himself for it and decided from there on out, he was going to be a teacher and not ever get involved with anyone else. For many years, it was debatable whether or not this relationship was reciprocal or manipulation but the prequel film series later confirmed that it was the former.
    • Word of God also mentions Ron's older brother Charlie never married or had children, being more interested in studying dragons than romance.
  • The House With a Clock in Its Walls: Jonathan Barnavelt. In The Vengeance of the Witch-Finder (book five of the series), he explains this, self-identifying as "an old bachelor" who never married after a girl he was in love with jilted him and broke his heart thirty years before.
  • My Next Life as a Villainess: All Routes Lead to Doom!:
  • Martin the Warrior from the Redwall series is an example of the Lost Love type. It's not known if he and Rose ever considered marriage, but he never gets over her death in the Battle of Marshank and never becomes romantically involved with another character.
  • Sherlock Holmes is one of these because, he asserts, strong emotions such as love would interfere with his ability to be a perfect reasoning machine.
  • A Song of Ice and Fire
    • Ser Brynden Tully also known as The Blackfish, is famous for his refusal to marry, despite living in a world where Arranged Marriages are the norm and the decision requiring him to cut ties with much of his family. Fanon has him of the closet gay variety (enforced by the setting, which is not gay-friendly), although he has no known lovers of either gender.
    • Lord Galbert Glover, despite being head of an old Northern house, has never married and is said to have no love but his horse and his sword.
  • This Side of Paradise: After the death of her husband, Clara Page decides not to marry again and has sworn off men for the rest of her life so she could be with her children at all times. Thus, she turns down Amory despite liking him.
  • P. G. Wodehouse's Bertie Wooster gets deliberately engaged a time or two early in the series, but the attempts inevitably fall through and as the stories progress, he begins actively avoiding marriage. Unfortunately, he still often becomes accidentally engaged and must rely on his valet Jeeves to get him out of it.
  • The Wheel of Time: Very few Aes Sedai (female magic-users) marry, many being Married to the Job and some of the rest informally pairing up with each other in the largely women-only White Tower. The fact that they'd be very likely to outlive any prospective husband doesn't help. The few exceptions are mostly of the Green (Battle) Ajah, who often marry their Warders in a Lady and Knight Battle Couple arrangement. Defied by their male counterparts the Asha'man. Those who are already married when they're recruited are allowed to quarter with their families at the Black Tower and those who aren't married are encouraged to do so if they find a willing partner, on the theory that they'll fight harder if they have someone to fight for rather than locking themselves away in an ivory tower as the Aes Sedai do.

    Live-Action TV 
  • Adam-12 Pete Malloy for most of the series. He outright tells Reed that he doesn’t think marriage is for him and likes meeting different girls and keeping his solitude at home. He may have evolved after dating Judy near the end though.
  • Cobra Kai has returning characters Kumiko and Chozen Toguchi from The Karate Kid Part II. Kumiko has been unmarried throughout her whole life despite her aunt's wishes, and there is no indication that Chozen ever married or had any children when Daniel questions him about it.
    Kumiko: I stayed, uh... What was your word for it? A "free agent".
    Daniel: Come on, I'm supposed to believe that a guy never got a ring on that finger?
    Kumiko: Many tried. But... none of them fought to the death for me.
  • Dragnet had the same thing with Friday, with Bill always saying he should get married.
  • Rounding out the trio, Chet on Emergency! (Johnny seemed receptive to it down the road)
    Chet: I'm all for weddings... as long as it's not my own.
  • In the Dr. Quinn, Medicine Woman episode "The Body Electric", Grace is the only person not bothered by rumors of Walt Whitman's sexuality—"Where I come from (New Orleans), we had all kinds of folks. Plenty of families had their bachelor uncles and maiden aunts."
  • In the Murdoch Mysteries episode "Murdoch Escape Room", Detective Watts calls himself a "confirmed bachelor" to Miss Cherry. He's a closeted gay man claiming to be the lost love version, although everything he says about his lost love apart from claiming Jack was "Jacqueline" is true.
  • Dean Winchester of Supernatural ends the series never having married or been in a relationship with a woman lasting longer than a year, in contrast to his brother Sam, who's had several long-term love interests by the series' conclusion and ends up with a wife and son.

  • In The Bible, Jesus is depicted as the Married to the Job variety, too busy spreading His teachings and generally being a really cool guy to worry about romance. While the Bible itself doesn't call much attention to His bachelor status, it's either taken for granted or considered core dogma in most Christian denominations that Jesus was celibate His entire life. The fact that the Bible has this bachelor status simply there without being commented on actually rather unusual; it would've been quite rare for any 1st-century Jewish man, let alone a religious leader, to be unmarried.
  • St. Augustine embraced The Casanova variant of this lifestyle in his youth, famously praying, "Grant me chastity and continence, but not yet." His prayers were apparently answered when he converted to Christianity and entered the priesthood some years later.

  • Benedick in Much Ado About Nothing is explicitly called a confirmed bachelor. In regards to women, he calls himself a "professed tyrant of their sex." That doesn't actually last long.
  • Professor Henry Higgins from My Fair Lady is of the He-Man Woman Hater variety, believing that marriage would destroy his domestic bliss. The song "I'm an Ordinary Man" is all about the chaos he thinks a wife would bring to his life.

    Video Games 
  • In the Ace Attorney series, Miles Edgeworth shows no interest in women, and states in the Phoenix Wright: Ace Attorney – Spirit of Justice DLC episode "Turnabout Time Traveler" that he wishes to remain unmarried.
  • Agent Brown of the Detectives United seems to be this. Both of his partners get married during the course of their respective origin series (DU being a Crisis Crossover of disparate series produced by Elephant Games), but there's no indication that Brown has or has ever had any romantic relationships. Somewhat justified, as he's been an agent with the Mystery Trackers since he was a teenager and they don't seem to encourage romances for their employees; also justified in that he's invisible and would likely find dating to be difficult.
  • Word of God via John Carmack confirms that the Marine/Doomslayer from Doom is one, not caring for sexual attraction or lust, and only wanting to kill demons.
  • Sebastian in Dragon Age II is a priest who took a vow of celibacy, after a hedonistic youth as The Casanova. Even if Hawke romances him, they never consummate the relationship (at least not in the game itself, unlike the other romance options).
  • In Fallout: New Vegas, the perk that identifies male characters as homosexual is named "Confirmed Bachelor", thus giving the player the opportunity to invoke the closet gay variety.

    Western Animation 
  • Prizmo in Adventure Time is averse to romantic relationships because of the compromises they demand, using the ever-present question of coordinating dinner plans as an example. Jake says that he has an overly-bleak outlook on relationships and ends the episode saying that he needs to get that guy a girlfriend, although Prizmo seems more interested in Jake than women.
  • Granddad on The Boondocks says at one point that he believes that "all marriage is wrong." It's unclear if he was serious or if he was jokingly trying to evade the question of his stance on gay marriage, but aside from raising his grandchildren, he certainly does fall into the Casanova Wannabe subtype in his lifestyle.
  • Scrooge McDuck in DuckTales (1987), something he loudly reaffirms after Ma Beagle runs a scam faking a marriage with him so she could get at his fortune. This seems to be a more recent development, however; in his youth, he seriously considered marrying Glittering Goldie, and there's clearly still something between them in the episodes where she appears.