Women in the position of power are capable of any number of cruel and/or foolish things in the name of protecting their children. However, none of those things is actually going to prevent said children from dying in a cruel way.
Additionally, women in the position of power will somehow discover their latent bisexuality.
Treating your deformed dwarf of a son like something you found on your shoe will turn him into a good person. Probably.
If you have the temerity to be born attractive and/or to do well in life, you will invariably a disgustingly self-centered and evil individual.
If you're born to great wealth destroying your family business and behaving like a worthless playboy makes you a hero. Bonus points for pulling pranks that cause immense damage to innocent people and wipe out millions of dollars of railroad stock.
You can make more in industry by sucking up to government that you can by working honestly on the free market. And if you get enough regulations imposed on your honest competitors they'll all run away to a Hidden Elf Village leaving the market entirely to you.
If you're a woman, sex is only satisfying if the man violently rapes you.
Auntie Mame: Life is a banquet—-if you've been lucky enough to inherit a fortune that allows you travel to exotic places and spend a mint on your own kooky hobbies. If you're poor though, you're pretty much out of luck unless you can land yourself a rich man.
Compassion and kindness are for pussies. Don't try to help the Chosen One through his many crises involving family and the nature of his powers, just tell him not to be such a wimp and keep throwing him at new obstacles, that'll make him tough.
Oh, and lest we forget, forcing him into an arranged marriage with a spoilt, uptight bitch is perfectly all right! He'll just have to live with it.
Constantly bullying, berating, emotionally and physically abusing elementary school children is a good way to keep them from misbehaving! Never think of punishing said children instead, because being a Sadist Teacher and/or staff member is A-OK!
There's nothing weird about a grown man running around in his underwear. Nobody will be grossed out at all!
Catch Twenty Two: Being a Grade A coward who will let friends in the same situation die around him is the only good way to conduct yourself in war. After all, it doesn't have anything to do with you, who cares about stopping Fascism and fighting for human rights?
For the dead-poor, the best course of action is to devote all of one's scant money into lottery tickets.
Augustus - All fat people are lazy, greedy, Jerkass gluttons who have nobody but themselves (and maybe their parents) to blame for their fatness, and who fully deserve whatever mishaps befall them.
Violet - Chewing gum is an offense as severe as being a totaly evil Spoiled Brat, and more severs than being ready to call everybody else a loser and beating them up.
It is OK to increase your revenue selling a product that you personally detest, along with everybody who uses it ( chewing gum), and also OK to hate people who most likely got fat eating your main product (chocolate).
Chocolate is harmless. Period. Unless it makes you fat.
Kids are always Genre Blind, no matter how clever they are.
Charlotte's Web: People will believe anything a sign says.
Confessions of a Video Vixen: It's completly okay and reasonable for you to sleep your way to the top in the entertainment industry. Your just doing what it takes to advance your life/career/business whatever. If people dissagree they're either naive, unrealistic, or jealous of the success that you got from it. Things like cars, jewelry, money and job opportunities (that and the fact you got to sleep with tons of famous, powerful, celebs). In fact sleeping around is just another form of "networking" . (Interestingly enough this is actually what some people got from the book.)
If you discover a town full of people that are "undesirable" / different from you then you should blow it up.
Death In Venice: That weird middle-aged man who watches and follows your incredibly attractive underage son around? Completely harmless. In fact, he’s actually concerned for your family’s well-being! Remember, he warned you about that encroaching cholera epidemic? There’s no need to alert the authorities!
Deenie: "I wanted you to have it better than I did" is a perfectly valid reason to push one daughter into being a supermodel against her will and punish another for liking a boy who isn't her intellectual equal.
Hogfather: If you don't believe in Santa Claus, you're not human.
No, that's the original "Yes, Virginia" monologue. Seriously.
Equal Rites: You can become the trailblazing first of your gender in a prestigious work if you then sneak off to your office and never show sign of your existence to your colleagues.
Night Watch: Protesting a corrupt, repressive government will just make things worse.
Well technically, that was the Aesop of Les Misérables, which it's clearly based upon...
A drug addict should rule the universe as long as he proves it by killing lots of people, forcing a princess to marry him, and then ignoring her while having sex with a desert barbarian who wears smelly clothes. His mother will be very proud of him.
Or teenagers who threaten to destroy civilization are really cool.
How about, never trust your doctor?
Or people who live in countries with lots of water like reading about how wussy they are.
Foundation: According to mathematics, unless you're literally not human, you can do nothing to change the course of history and even if you think you're changing the course of history, you're just helping it along.
Unless you know the mathematics yourself. Which is a good reason to keep it secret.
If you want convince someone to try new things, stalk and pester them to do what you want, never giving them a moment's rest until they cave in. Consider sweetening the deal by changing the locale and/or getting cute animals involved.
If someone tries to get you to do something, especially if they pester you about it. Try the food, drink that beer, smoke the pot, bury that hooker's body — whatever anyone wants you to do, you should do, because someone else told you to, a lot. Peer pressure is awesome, and must be obeyed.
Dodgy-looking meat and animal byproducts are delicious and not at all likely to give you food poisoning.
Gossip Magazines: It's perfectly fine to pry into people's private lives if they're famous.
Killing people makes you look like a snake. Therefore, killing is wrong.
The rambling lecture that your headmaster gives you will actually be really, really important later on — e.g., "Now pay attention, Potter. This bird can carry huge weights, is naturally loyal, its tears heal wounds, and by pure coincidence its tail feathers went into your wand and your mortal enemies'. I wonder what use you could put it to, hmm?"
Isn't the real Aesop then "pay attention in class, 'cause a few items mentioned at some point during an entire school year might save your life"?
It's a good idea for an abused child to follow a seemingly kind stranger who then brainwashes the child into being part of a cult where people believe they can make "magic" with sticks.
When all your efforts towards a goal fail (not that you should try really hard in the first place), apply a mind-altering substance — it will give you all the correct answers, direct your actions along the only right path (don't bother to question either of those) and will even alter reality for your good.
Give children weapons that can kill/torture/maim people instantaneously. Just tell them not to. It'll probably be fine.
If a schoolyard brawl does happen to result in the maiming of a fellow student at your hand, then you can expect several hours of detention, causing you to, at worst, miss an intramural sports match. Your team wins the cup in your absence anyway, however, and you can still share in the celebrations, including a public make-out with your best friend's younger sister. The whole episode of the maiming is soon forgotten.
Loving your family is wonderful, unless you report an illegal secret society to the proper authorities in order to protect them. If you do that, you deserve to walk around with a disfigured face for the rest of your life.
Hey girls! The guy who sexually humiliates your best friend in front of the entire school to blackmail you into dating him will be an excellent husband to you.
Journalists are jerks. Except those who believe in all conspiracy theories.
While we're at it: a bastard journalist you blackmailed is more reliable to transcript a story you dictate word by word than writing it by yourself.
Mind-controlling and torturing people is wrong, unless you're the hero.
It's a joke, seriously, turn off the fun policing.
You Guys! You're forgetting the most important one: 'It's easy to become a maniacal dictator who throws the world (i.e. England) into a Crapsack spiral. Kill anyone who defies you! However...you should probably stop at one-year-olds and loving mothers. They can, like, totally ruin your plans...by dying...and being a lovable infant...'
If the relationship between two pupils under your charge has deteriorated to the point that they're trying to seriously kill each other, resulting in a fight to the death that leaves one maimed, the most important lesson to teach the other is to remind him just how much you still hate his dead father.
If your specially-designed weapon for slicing people open is used by a student, it's the perfect time to go on about how horrible his father was.
When you are told that some acts are so evil that doing it once result in life sentence in prison, they never mean it. Actually you can do it every single day, it's okay if you do it for greater good. And even if you do it for evil, it will be forgiven if you switch side at the last second. this refers to Dumbledore forgiving Draco, even if he used Imperium for a whole year.
It's better to leave a child in an abusive home than to run the risk that he'll grow up to be proud, spoiled, or egotistical.
Hey! A boy has a scar that gives him horrible pain? It's best to not remove it even if you knew how. Because your selfishness far outweighs a boy's comfort of not feeling like his own head is on fire and about to crack open from the inside.
Relationships that began when you were seventeen will always work out so that you are happy with plenty of children in twenty years. Also, your friends will never change, in fact it will be like the twenty years never happened except for said adorable kids.
Alternatively, if you're an author writing a Distant Finale, you better make sure your characters' friendships and romances don't break apart during the Time Skip or your fans will go apeshit and a coin a new term*
"getting rolfed", named after Luna Lovegood's offscreen husband in the finale
for your treachery of daring to give your characters further development off-screen.
You should never be afraid to underestimate your enemies. Being evil will strip them of the very last shred of reason, imagination and the ability to learn from their mistakes.
School bullies and his/her friends will never, ever, not even when their lives are in chronic peril by some homicidal loon, decide to do the right thing and help out. They'll always try to sell out the hero. Therefore, it's okay to kick them out of the school without a second thought.
Not liking the Chosen One either automatically makes you a bad person or will turn you into one, no matter how justified your dislike of him is.
Alternatively, liking the Chosen One greatly increases your risk of injury or death, so you should probably keep your distance.
If you are an unpleasant female character than you deserve to be ravaged by centaurs. However if you are an attractive male villain you can get away with mind control and attempted murder and everyone will forgive you.
Harry Potter and the Halfblood Prince: Especially books you can learn things from.
Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets: (naturalist's worst nightmre) if you discover a rare animal that has somehow survived thousands of years you should kill it immediately!
Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix: So, you've got an adventurous and independent child who also happens to be a trouble magnet, has a murderous supervillain after him, and has been known to act without thinking? Don't tell him any relevant details, ever. It's not like he'll try to find out on his own and end up getting into even more trouble along the way.
Heidi: It's okay to destroy handicapped people's only means of support as a form of therapy.
Only people who have something fundamentally wrong with them (shoes too tight, head not screwed on right, heart two sizes too small) could possibly have any reason to dislike a holiday they don't celebrate, especially one that generates so much noise it can be heard up a mountain a mile away.
Comply, absolutely, with society or go fuck yourself.
If you find that someone robbed you on Christmas morning, all you have to do is sing a joyous song about how his actions did not prevent Christmas
How To Teach Filthy Rich Girls: If it's the only way to get certain people to like and trust you, it's okay to lie about your entire life and identity as long as you plan to tell the truth once you succeed.
If you ever attempt to change society, you are doomed to fail.
A policeman who chases the logical but incorrect suspect or is obsessive about his work should go to Hell.
Gals, let men control your life. Odds are, you'll be a victim, a villain, a whore or a characterless rich man's daughter, so there's little or no chance that you'll ever do anything important - except maybe just dying.
Whoa, did you just say that villains aren't important?
The pretty rich girl always wins out over the poor girl, even when the poor girl has known the guy for much longer and the guy in question is a revolutionary who supposedly doesn't care about issues of class.
You have a deformed wife who wants to save money rather than spend it? Beat her to death with your bare fists! It's more than perfectly okay to do that!
It's also more than perfectly okay to run your family like a military and beat the ever living shit out of your youngest son because he started whining. Everyone else will either ignore your abusive behavior or actually condon and mimic it! To hell with the kid's emotional and mental welfare!
Memoirs of a Geisha: If you see a little girl in trouble, arrange for her to become a glorified call girl. When she grows up, she'll be more than happy to repay you with hot lovin'!
Hey kids, eat flakes of metal and you'll get awesome superpowers!
Do you constantly hear a disembodied voice telling you to kill everyone you meet? Don't worry, you're not crazy - that's just Satan!
My Sister's Keeper: If it happens to be your lot in life to make sacrifices for your sibling, up to and including your kidney, suck it up. If you try to assert yourself, fate will intervene and your braindead body will end up being used for parts anyway.
Of Mice and Men: Engaging in pleasant small talk with a woman while on the job will inevitably result in all of your and your friends' future dreams and goals being destroyed.
Orlando: A Biography: If you ever find yourself in a situation where you spontaneously switch sexes for no apparent reason, you should just shrug it off and immediately get on with your life as if nothing had changed.
A man's word is his bond. Always. Once given, it is binding and inviolate. It doesn't matter if the Big Bad forced your promise at literal gunpoint, or blatantly lied to you about the circumstance of said promise. Keep your word at all times, even if the promise was given on your behalf before you were born by someone with neither legal nor moral right to do so in your society. Or suffer ill-defined, barely alluded-to consequences!
A woman is only as good as the man she's banging.
The natural state of man is Knuckle-dragging Rape-Brained Lout and men should be praised for not succumbing to the natural urge to be a Mr Hyde-like rape monster.
Marriage is the only way to find happiness. Anyone who thinks they can find fulfillment in research on the nature of the world, doing important work for the benefit of pretty much everyone else, or living a pleasurable life of bachelorehood just needs to find the right person to find their significant other and then they can forget the whole thing and settle down to a life of wedded bliss.
It's perfectly okay for women to try and sexually molest men. Any man who tries to defend his personal space is a jerk.
There's nothing wrong with adult men banging barely pubescent girls.
Go on kids, take cocaine. It will totally turn you into an intellectual badass, equally adept at both deducing a man's entire life from the stain on his left sleeve and whomping people's asses in bar fights. Only downside - you may forget whether the sun revolves around the earth or vice versa.
More Values Dissonance than a warped aesop: Many folks of the era did consider cocaine in that way (see also: absinthe).
Alternatively, social skills, cultural literacy, basic concern for one's health, and any attempts to have a meaningful social (let alone romantic) life are merely distractions. Overspecialization will turn you into a total badass, and even if you're a bit of a jerk, fate will find you a compatible long-suffering life partner.
Star Wars, Harry Potter, The Chronicles of Narnia, Eragon, and oh so many others: who gives a shit if you have a life? Who, for that matter, gives a shit if you fall in love, get a job, change the world? So long as the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE(s) survives and is kept happy, you're basically cannon fodder. If you've ever been in proximity of the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE(s), you're cannon fodder with makeup and a voice.
Additional: Being the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE also gives you carte blanche to be a whiny jackass in many cases. Don't worry; being the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE means everyone has to put up with you.
If you're a mentor, teacher or friend to the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE. Congrats! You are officially above the law and don't have any obligation to tell the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE or anyone else the truth. As long as you can thinly disguise your actions as being for the greater good then life will bend over backwards to justify your actions. If the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE whines about this tell him he's stupid until he gets back in line.
For Eragon specifically: Mercy and sympathy are for suckers. Who cares that the enemy soldiers you slaughter enmasse are conscripts with no say in the matter, or that your brother is magically compelled to work for the Big Bad, or that you've doomed a species to extinction and the last survivor's final request is for the memory of his race to continue, or even that the guy completely at your mercy had fairly understandable reasons to do what he did. Hell, don't even consider that the city your allies are about to destroy hates the Empire and committed no crime beyond cutting down a few trees, like every city needs to do to survive. Kill or torment them all you want, and do not even consider treating them like human beings. Nobody will ever call you on it. Also, the only reason the Big Bad is any worse than you, your allies, or the old order everyone's so fond of is because he's not an elf or a worshipper of elves.
For Harry Potter specifically: Do you hate being the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE because all it has ever done is bringing you the death of your friends, contempt and jealousy from your rivals and even from your own best friend, the breakup with your love interest, the murder of your original family which in turn putted you with an abusive adoptive family and years later killed the closest thing you ever had as a father, and last but not least made you a living walking target for the most psychotic cult leader ever lived? Well fuck you then because thats life of being the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE so just shut it and take it as a man. Fate has decided to make you the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE and no one says no to fate without harsh punishment so there is nothing you can do about it. So forget your dreams about a normal life because you ain't getting it until fate thinks you have done your job for it.
On that note for Harry Potter, if one subset of society is different from the rest of society, of course it is wrong for outright hatred and genocide between the two groups. That said, the two groups should remain completely separated and oblivious of each other. If someone born to one group has attributes of the other group, they should immediately join the former, basically having few connections to their families. Nobody will ever question this status quo. EVER.
Subversion (for Star Wars only): You are not the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE. Your father is. But you have to be electrocuted in order for him to know it.
Cheer up orphans! Your family didn't abandon you because of abuse, neglect, tragic accidents, or socioeconomic reasons, it's because you're the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE, and your family just left you behind because they wanted you to rise to greatness! You should hold out for the mysterious bearded guy who will come any day now and whisk you off to train to be the MAGIC CHOSEN ONE, because he's trying to find you.
The Awakening: If you feel unhappy in your relationship, you shouldn't tell your husband. You should Wangst about it, have an affair, Wangst about it, have an affair with another guy, Wangst about how the first guy wants to run away with you, then kill yourself. Never mind that your children and husband are going to suffer for your actions, as long as you can go swimming, it's all good.
Brokeback Mountain: You shouldn't attempt to establish any meaningful commitment with your lover. If they ever ask about living with you, you should avoid the issue by having sex with them.
Also, if you're caught doing something against the law, you should confess immediately, but while doing so, you should also accuse several innocent bystanders of doing the same thing (bonus points if they're upstanding citizens that you happen not to like). Not only will the authorities forgive you immediately, but they'll let you testify against the people you accused. And anyone who doesn't follow your lead may be publicly ostracized and executed.
Considering that the play was meant to show people the similarities of the 1950's red scare and the witch hunts, this was a sarcastic endorsement of McCarthyism. It even got Miller put on the FBI list of suspected communist for its obvious analogy.
The Last Battle: organized religion is twisting true and honest faith with it's lies, use false, perverted image of loving and real god to justify slavery and murder, the pope is a monkey, the only god you can find in a church is an E Ldritch Abomination that will eat you or make you revert backwards in evolution and atheists are either evil manipulators behind organized religion who use it to control mindless crowds or it's victims.
Battles are ugly when women fight. However, if a woman turns away from battles and towards girly things, like looking pretty, she deserves total condemnation.
The Devil and Daniel Webster: It's perfectly okay to cheat your way out of your end of a contract after the other guy's already upheld his, since the other guy is clearly evil.
Also, if a woman shows attraction for you, run. There's at least a 95% chance she's mind controlled and/or wants your soul.
If you're male, being willing to do anything to save your daughter from a horrific, undeserved death is a bad thing. (If you're a woman, it's perfectly fine and will be considered admirable.)
Similarly, if a budding mage brainwashes people and thus causes the death of multiple innocents, you should risk your life to protect her from those trying to execute her for breaking the law. It's The Moral Thing to do, and anyone who disagrees with you is Lawful Stupid.
If a friend of yours attempts suicide and continually shows signs of depression, don't tell anyone else or suggest that he see a therapist. True Heroes can handle any personal crisis, no matter how life-shattering- but they should never let emotional trauma *GASP* influence their decisions or allow their priorities to take precedence over those of other people. If they do that, then they are obviously reckless and irresponsible jackasses, and it is your moral duty to talk down to them until they feel guilty.
Christians are either selfless paragons of morality or tyrannical Knight Templars. There is no middle ground.
It's okay to use your 'feminist principles' as an excuse for irrationally disliking someone.
If you manifest strange, unearthly powers that you don't understand, the first person you should tell is the mysterious, bloodstained warrior who shows up occasionally at your house.
Sure, trick the guy who raised you into marrying you- why not? It's not like he's got a real reason to object- if he does, just act depressed until he gives in.
The Tamuli: Benevolent dictatorship, in the form of absolute monarchy, is the only good government. You are justified in using tactics up to and including continent-wide mass assassinations in order to dismantle the bureaucracy and return total power to the monarch.
If you really love someone, you should give them everything they ask of you without requesting anything in return - absolutely everything, right down to your whole existence. You should be happy to do this, even if they take everything from you, show not the smallest scrap of gratitude, and eventually leave you without glancing back, because eventually, when you have nothing left to give, they'll come back.
And on the other side of the coin: all your relationships are to be looted for all possible benefit. They are nothing but resources, even if they don't know it yet. Oh, but don't worry. They never, ever leave you and will always take you back.
If your mummy doen`t give you anything you want, she doesn`t really love you!
The Good Earth: If you have any ambitions above subsistence agriculture, you will inevitably become decadent and corrupt.
The Grapes Of Wrath: All attempts at honest work are futile and will bring you nothing but misery.
The High Crusade: Military technology is for wusses. True Englishmen conquer the galaxy with longbows.
The Hunt for Red October: Mutiny, treason, and the stealing of multibillion dollar pieces of equipment from your employer are admirable activities.
The Odyssey: If your entire army disappears off the face of the Earth for 20 years due to flipping off Poseidon while ''sailing home'', you have every right to be infuriated to find that someone tried to marry her when you eventually DO get home. The best thing to do is disguise yourself as a hobo, get everyone drunk, then beat them all to death so that you can reclaim your throne.
Give a fat, bullied geek muscles and good looks, and he will gradually turn into a megalomaniac warlord who won't stop at drawing swords against his best friend.
His imaginary best friend, when he stops admiring what for lack of a better word is his creator (or at least the reason for his existing in his first place).
The Redemption Of Althalus: Nobody cares that your father was murdered and you have to work with his killer. It's not like your feelings matter when it comes to saving the world, and you think he's hot, so what's the problem?
The Sneetches: If everybody got cosmetic surgery, the world would be a better place.
It doesn't matter how badly you treat all the men around you, they will want you.
Reading minds is completely horrible and ruins your life- unless you're blond and pretty. Then you can solve mysteries that are tenuously, at best, connected to you.
You should stay in a house you can't really afford, in a town where the people who don't treat you with pity, scorn and/or fear can be counted on one hand (fewer still if you remove any supernaturals), even when you had several chances to leave with help from others (who actually like you). Why? Because that's where you belong.
The Stranger: Arabs are not really people. In fact, no one except you is really a person. Their lives don't matter. Nothing matters.
If you come to believe in your own moral infallibility, you will at best become a frothing Knight Templar who cheerfully butchers pacifists. At worst, you'll wind up a Complete Monster. (Which is actually a pretty good Aesop, just not what the author intended.)
He has a couple more really warped ones: organized sports, especially the general concept of athletes being treated as highly desirable sexual partners, are evil. Organized religion is evil. Pacifism is evil.
And Richard suffers from the whole "Magic Chosen One" thing listed above.
Chickens are evil.
It's okay to break a child's jaw if you think she's possessed by an evil spirit.
As long as you really love him, it's okay to let him stop you from visiting friends, break into your house at night, hurt you when you sleep together, get married at a young age, and have a child less than a year after marriage. And, if you really want to show your love, the best way is to cut off all your relationships with everyone but him!
Females, regardless of age, have no worth outside of their relationship with a man.
It's acceptable, even admirable, for men to fall in love with a small child.
Additionally, Hikaru Genji totally had the right idea when it came to child grooming.
If a woman doesn't want to be married and have kids, then there's something desperately wrong with her.
And if she can't have kids, then there's something twice as wrong with her.
Actually, Bella believes exactly the opposite; "wanting to get married before sex is so out of date it's idiotic. Marriage is a pointless institution! I'm agreeing to live with you for the rest of eternity, but we're NOT getting married, that's crazy talk!" It's the narrative that proves her wrong and establishes the warped Aesop. Although that's probably an intended Aesop, too.
You'll be happier dead than without your boyfriend.
It's entirely okay, if not recommended, to establish romantic relationships entirely on personal appearances.
Women have no choice in their relationships. Once a guy has singled you out as his, there is no escape.
Just because he ripped half your face off when you refused to go out with him doesn't mean he doesn't love you! Also, if he goes into a downward spiral afterwards because of his actions, you should instantly forgive him and become the perfect housewife for him and all his friends.
Screw The Guy Next Door who actually knows and understands you. Go for the relationship with an attractive stranger with whom you have no actual chemistry or compatibility whatsoever!
Necrophilia is awesome. So is bestiality. And pedophilia.
Wouldn't the logical answer then be to have sex with a dead puppy?
If he attempts suicide, he is showing that he loves you. The best way to show your affection is to commit suicide. If he tries to stop you, it's because he doesn't want you around for very long.
Stable relationships are only for the dead and necrophiliacs.
A man without massive amounts of body glitter is unattractive.
It's perfectly okay for your boyfriend to blackmail you into marrying him, endanger your life, and cause you to be in terrible agony for two days straight. It's all in the name of love.
Additionally, there's nothing wrong with marrying a guy who refuses to have sex with you even though you're both aware that A:) Sex is something that you want very much from him and B:) Once married, you fully and reasonably expect to spend the rest of your life having sex.
If your daughter breaks her hand trying to slap the boy who forced a kiss on her, feel free to compliment him on his sexual aggression.
Continuing from the above: If a girl refuses your romantic advances, you should force a kiss on her, not stopping even if she clearly struggles and tries to pull away.
Ladies - don't waste your time on those boring, friendly boys who offer to help you get used to your new school, or invite you to hang out with their clique. Clearly, there's something wrong with them. What you want to do is hold out for the guy who sits in the darkest corner of the room and glares at you.
If you're a doctor and you fall in love with anyone, you're automatically an irresponsible, morally bankrupt traitor to your clan, and they are completely justified in exiling you from the only home you've ever known. There's no way that doctors can balance work with a love life, and if you refuse to unquestioningly accept the religion and cultural norms of your clan, everyone will think you are a bad person and turn against you, no matter how competent you are at your job.
Actually, that first sentence also applies to clan leaders. Also, leaders- don't ever try to have families or cultivate a life outside your job, (unless you're the main protagonist) because all your loved ones are going to die anyway.
Always follow the commands of Heaven's inhabitants, no matter how contradictory, useless, or stupid they may seem.
If the woman you love decides to date someone other than you, you should make attempts to kill her family and ruin her life. It's all morally pure because you did it for love, so you'll even get into heaven upon your death!
If a naïve, foreign teenager is recruited into your clan and constantly questions your beliefs and culture, you should promote him as soon as possible and admire his curious spirit. If someone born in your clan constantly questions your beliefs and culture, they are a traitor and should be chastised for their lack of faith.
In fact, all foreigners are bad people unless they believe exactly what you believe.
If your half-brother, like you, has endured unjust oppression and distrust all of his life because of who his father was, you should not want to be close with or support him and your peers are perfectly right in wanting to ostracise him.
If you are socially isolated from your clan for committing a crime, a marriage of convenience will make them all feel better about you.
Also, don't feel obliged to actually show any love toward a child that results from said marriage. You'll never have to deal with any repercussions for neglecting him, even if he grows up to be an evil, vengeful fanatic who leads attacks against your clan.
If your ancestors made a tragic mistake generations ago that has almost no repercussions on anyone in the present day, you should do everything in your power to fix it. Even if that means abandoning the clan that relies on your leadership. And risking your own life pointlessly to trek miles away to a completely unknown destination.
When assigning a second-in-command, choose your best friend over the wise, experienced veteran, even if both are loyal to you.
It's okay to be a Jerkass who treats everyone like crap except for his love interests. No one will ever call you out on your cruel behaviour, and you'll still be a total Chick Magnet.
Unity and peace between clans is necessary, when the plot demands it. Once that world-threatening disaster has passed, feel free to start fighting and murdering each other again. Also, anyone who advocates a life of not murdering their neighbours is automatically evil, their pacifism simply a cunning plot to destroy everything you hold dear.
Change is good, when brought by a protagonist. Any antagonist who suggests change is irredeemably evil.