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"If my son talked like that, I'd beat him to within an inch of his life, I'd whip him senseless with my belt, and hold his head in the toilet till he was begging for mercy! I still don't see why the judge cut off my visitation rights."
Sosumi reveals why his son is not part of Ultimate Muscle

Parents are supposed to be the protectors of children, but these parents are either so damaged themselves they can't do the job, they're so greedy or villainous to the point that they never had any interest in doing the job properly, or they'd rather use the child as a means to an end.

This includes parents who are emotionally abusive, physically abusive, mentally abusive, or who neglectfully allow their children to be abused by others if they don't abuse the child themselves. Sometimes the abuse at the hands of their parents or others end up as the Freudian Excuse for a villain. But sometimes the character manages to not grow up broken, bitter, and hateful, and ends up being a different and better person than the upbringing would incline one to think.

The Abusive Parents are commonplace in Fairy Tales, which makes this trope Older Than Print. Note that The Brothers Grimm, when they collected fairy tales, were uncomfortable with the idea of Abusive Parents and so frequently changed Abusive Parents into abusive stepparents in the traditional stories.

Unfortunately, Abusive Parents often are Truth In Television. It is horrible that children suffer cruelties at the hands of those who are supposed to be the most loving and trustworthy figures in their lives. And the damage can take years to undo, even with competent assistance. (If it can be undone at all - often, the (emotional) scars will stay forever.)

Sometimes a parent will go as far as to kill the child in question, in which case this is Offing The Offspring. In other cases, the parent's abuse occasionally drives the offspring to kill them, usually becoming a Self Made Orphan in the process.

Do bear in mind, though, that while some acts are obviously abusive, not everyone agrees on the line between actual abuse and merely heavy-handed parenting (or even normal parenting). Some include spanking as abuse; others think it's appropriate given certain guidelines. Some believe it's okay to make a kid go without a meal (a kid won't starve that easily); others disagree. Making a kid miss a friend's birthday sleepover — is that emotional abuse? Raising a kid without exposure to TV? Telling your daughter she's getting fat? A little friendly name-calling? There's a line here somewhere, but not everyone agrees on where it is.

If a parent has just dumped the child, for whatever reason, that's Parental Abandonment. Contrast Mama Bear. Abusive Precursors can be considered this on a metaphorical level.

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