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Parental Abandonment

"To lose one parent may be regarded as a misfortune; to lose both looks like carelessness."
Lady Bracknell, The Importance of Being Earnest

A stunningly large number of heroes and their coteries are lacking in the parent department, either through death or in that they just aren't talked about. Even if both parents are alive, they may well be emotionally or physically distant (although that's just Parental Neglect). Everyone is, for the sake of the plot, Conveniently an Orphan, whether they actually are or not.

This is a very convenient way for characters to be able to run off in the middle of the night to fight Evil, get sucked into another world, etc. without having anyone responsible for them making a fuss. In fact, one of the first things a creator of stories about children or teens having adventures needs to do is explain a lack of parental involvement.

It also allows for the Ordinary High-School Student to be revealed as a super-powered demon fighter, or intergalactic being without the need for a messy Retcon answering the question an alert viewer would ask about why the parents didn't know about this. It's simply a case of the child following in their parent's Secret Legacy.

Of course, if you go back far enough, you'll reach a time when most young adults in Real Life actually were orphaned or abandoned. Adults died younger than than they do now, and people with chronic illnesses like schizophrenia or tuberculosis were often sent away from the family to recover or die. It was also easier to abandon a family, given the poor communications of the times and the lack of a police force. Because of all this, it's quite common for a fictional character from the 19th century or earlier to mention being orphaned with no more emotional reaction than a shrug, since the experience was considered a normal part of real life. A good example is Jane Austen's Emma, where the title character's mother died years earlier, but is barely mentioned.

Note that the parents in question don't actually have to die for this Trope to be in effect. Note also that in a few cases listed below, parents are hardly even mentioned — which makes things incredibly awkward.

If only one parent is missing or dead, then it's a case of Missing Mom or Disappeared Dad. When several siblings lack their original parents, the first born will receive a Promotion to Parent. Parental Abandonment is also a leading cause of Dark Magical Girls. One standard method for achieving it is to make your characters Blitz Evacuees.

In families with servants, this can lead to the Old Retainer acting as a Parental Substitute. If they were traveling abroad when both parents died, the child may be Raised by Natives. If the parents die in the wilds, their surviving child may be Raised by Wolves. It is also possible the parents left them out there to die, expecting them to be a meal, not a adoptee.

When the parents had to separate from the child in order to protect it, this results in Moses in the Bullrushes. When the parents had to leave the child in order to give it "a better life", then it leads to Give Him a Normal Life.

In animation, cases of parentis abscentia can be caused by budgeting; it's cheaper to animate one character (usually Dad) than to have two characters basically doing the same thing.

Parental Abandonment is a common feature of a Dark and Troubled Past (though children lucky enough to find a Parental Substitute generally avoid such a fate). It is a common feature of a Tear Jerker.

It should be noted that parental abandonment does not always mean either or both parent(s) leaving, but also the child being ignored by the parent, knowingly or unknowingly.

May entail Tell Me About My Father. Or rarely, mother. For reasons of economy, the child is seldom interested in both parents. See also Parental Neglect, Hands-Off Parenting, Missing Mom, and Disappeared Dad. Parental Abandonment en masse may create a Teenage Wasteland.

Compare Free-Range Children when it's the children who voluntarily go out on their own accord.

For the opposing extreme, contrast Meddling Parents, My Beloved Smother and Fantasy-Forbidding Father.

Examples


Mysterious PastBackstory IndexPosthumous Character
Orphan's OrdealSolitary TropesRemember That You Trust Me
Orphan's Plot TrinketOrphaned IndexParental Substitute
Parents Know Their ChildrenThe Parent TropeParental Betrayal
Panicky Expectant FatherGender Dynamics IndexRaised by Dudes
Overprotective DadParental IssuesDisappeared Dad
Parent Ex MachinaCharacters as DeviceParental Substitute
Hidden DepthsOverdosed TropesOne-Winged Angel
Out-of-Character MomentCharacters/Soul EdgePerpetual Poverty
Not the Fall That Kills YouImageSource/Web ComicsSpanner in the Works

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