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Get away from her, you BITCH!

"That's what moms are like - if you mess with their babies, they're gonna bite you back."

Bears usually won't attack humans - but get between a mother bear and her cub, and she'll tear straight through you. Apparently, the same rules applies to human parents. Threaten their husband/wife, child, boyfriend/girlfriend, cat, etc., and you are in for a world of hurt. Never harm someone's loved one - whatever the goal, it's not worth the consequences. Losing their loved one may cause a drastic Start Of Darkness into villainy or Anti Hero-dom... anything if it will get their revenge. And not just on their own enemy but on anyone who would inflict this same pain on others. Of course, it's not always dark—sometimes, righteous awesomeness ensues, and the hero reclaims their child/whatever with a tearful embrace.

Oftentimes, when a previously perceived meek mother goes into this mode, it's her Crowning Moment Of Awesome. And Heaven help you if an Action Mom invokes this trope.

Men who exhibit Mama Bear tendencies are referred to as "Papa Wolves" rather than "Papa Bears"- Disney aside, male bears are notoriously poor parents in the animal kingdom, in fact, infanticide among bears is the main reason why mama bears are so protective in the first place, whereas male (and female) wolves will react to their offspring being threatened in a very similar manner to mother bears. Due to the Double Standard, there are some differences however.

While Mama Bear moments are usually treated as awesome, they're also... well, scary. Even the children Mama Bear is protecting are often scared by it. Sometimes this is even highlighted by the children starting to cry after the moment is over and the danger gone — which of course turns Mama Bear back into the Apron Matron. Papa Wolf incidents on the other hand receive standing ovation from the kids, and comments like: "You were so cool Dad!" Notice how most Mama Bears are mothers of main characters, while Papa Bears tend to be main characters themselves.

When invoked by a woman, this trope is occasionally criticized as sexist against both genders. This trope is also known as the Uterus of Justice, because it often seems that only a child in danger can turn a woman into a Bad Ass (other than being scorned, and revealing fury like which hell hath none), and only a woman (and never a man, the dick) can care enough about a child to be driven all the way from mild-mannered to Bad Ass just by seeing them threatened.

Sometimes overlaps with Apron Matron. Provides both simple and believable way to switch someone between "Bad Ass" and more "cute" modes without compromising character as either. After all, if Its Personal...

If an older sibling is the one who takes up the role, s/he is a Knight Templar Big Brother. For a teacher who behaves like a Mama Bear if their students are threatened, see Badass Teacher. May be a Knight Templar Parent.

Related to Beware The Nice Ones. See also the non-human counterpart, Monster Is A Mommy. Not to be confused with Everythings Worse With Bears (unless you're dealing with a literal Mama Bear).

Remember when adding examples that this is a female only trope. The male equivalent is "Papa Wolves" so all male examples should be placed there.
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