Even if you run, I will find you I decided I want you, now I know I need If you can't be bought, tougher than I thought Keep in mind, I am with you Never left out fate, can't concentrate, even if you run YOU WILL BE MINE!
What's that, love? You don't know what a yandere is? Why, I'll happily explain it all for you, precious!
The word "yandere", a term that blossomed in
moe fandom, refers to a character who is
crazy about someone else.
Often literally and violently. Despite the anime-inspired name, this type of character
is much, much older than that, as one of the
earliest examples is the
Mesopotamian goddess Ishtar (Inanna).
Instantly identifiable by their
blank eyes when they go crazy,
blood being soaked on them for the majority of their screentime, carrying at least
one signature weapon that they use to kill and/or attack others for the majority of their screentime, a mostly
Moe appearance or at least an
appearance that will deceive others, psychotic behavior, and
a tendency to attack and/or kill people who would get in the way of his/her love. Many of them are
Ax Crazy. When on Good Guys' team they are often the
Token Evil Teammate.
The character almost always appears
perfectly cute and harmless on the surface... but underneath they may be
obsessive, controlling, and sometimes just plain insane. Woe to anyone who happens to be the object of their often genuine affection. Even more pity should be saved for anyone who
gets in the way — the psycho-obsessive is
amazingly unwilling to put up with any rivals (but the rivals had it coming). There could be a long mental instability; the boy's/girl's always been
just a little bit off. Could be the
vicious product of
Break the Cutie. Often eventually goes off the deep end and becomes an
Ax Crazy Boy With Psycho Weapon/
Girl with Psycho Weapon, and that's just fun. May also be
Not Good With Rejection. As a result, they are potentially scary.
They come in two equally
Evilicious flavors:
- Possessive: This type of Yandere is so in love with his/her crush that (s)he's willing to kill their beloved to prevent other love interests from taking him/her away from him/her. Severed head in a bag? Fair game.
- Obsessive: This type of Yandere is willing to kill off their competition so (s)he can be closer to their loved one.
Such characters are
mostly female, but male examples exist.
Compare with the
Violently Protective Girlfriend, who can become
Ax Crazy when the love interest is in danger, but is otherwise MUCH more stable mentally. See also
Living Emotional Crutch for a reason why she goes from affectionate to murderous.
More details are available on the
Analysis page, such as its history and its appeal.
Part of the
dere family along with
Tsundere (unapproachable outside, sweet inside), or sub groups;
Kuudere (cold outside, sweet inside), and
Dandere (asocial outside, sweet inside). But those are all sweet inside, while the Yandere is sweet outside, crazy inside. Also compare
Cute and Psycho, who is also sweet and crazy, but whose craziness
isn't tied to love.
See also
Clingy Jealous Girl, her
Spear Counterpart Crazy Jealous Guy,
Love Makes You Evil,
Love Makes You Crazy,
Stalker with a Crush,
Domestic Abuser,
Violently Protective Girlfriend, and
If I Cant Have You. Compare
Stepford Smiler and
Psycho Supporter. May God have mercy on you if you are caught in a
Psychotic Love Triangle (a love triangle with two members being
Yanderes). Contrast with
Bitch in Sheep's Clothing, in which a character is consciously using the illusion of purity and niceness to cover up a sadistic true nature (though a BISC
can become a
Yandere if we add mental instability to the mix). At the extreme,
A Love to Dismember can occur. Don't confuse with
Yandere Kanojo, a manga which surprisingly doesn't involve actual yandere (except for one case, in which the victim had it coming. It ends well, though).
One may be compelled to wonder why the object of their affections
doesn't just shoot them.
It should be noted that while many below listed examples are drama and horror ones, this trope is not exclusively
Played for Drama. It might just as well be
Played for Laughs through
Comedic Sociopathy as it is for drama or horror.
Almost all the examples listed below are
spoilers, so read at your own risk, tee-hee!
Oh, and
please do not bring real life examples here; This page used to have them, but not anymore. "What happened to them," you ask? ...Let's not think about such things, dear~!
Examples
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