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Literature / Waiting to Exhale

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A 1992 novel by Terry McMillan, later made into a 1995 film adaptation directed by Forest Whitaker.

Savannah Jackson (Whitney Houston) is a successful television producer who holds on to the belief that one day her married lover (Dennis Haysbert) will leave his wife for her. Bernadine Harris (Angela Bassett) abandoned her own career and desires of having a catering business to raise a family. Her husband (Michael Beach) is now leaving her for a white woman. Robin Stokes (Lela Rochon) is a high powered executive and the long-time mistress of Russell (Leon Robinson). She has problems finding a decent man of her own, while waiting for Russell to leave his wife. Gloria Matthews (Loretta Devine) is a beauty salon owner and single mother raising a teenage son (Donald Faison) who is preparing to leave home and travel the world with Up With People. After years alone, she falls in love with a new neighbor, Marvin King (Gregory Hines).


A sequel to McMillan's original novel, Getting to Happy, was published in 2010.


  • All Men Are Perverts
  • Big Beautiful Woman: Gloria.
  • Break-Up Bonfire: A very extreme version of it. And a completely justified one.
  • Bros Before Hoes: The whole aesop of the film. Friendship and "sisterhood" are much better assets to a woman's life than being The Mistress of a married man who leads you on so as to have sex with another woman than his wife.
  • Chick Flick: Subverted. About women but embittered, vengeful and disillusioned instead of all smiley and fluffy with Babies Ever After.
  • Cult Soundtrack: The soundtrack had several Billboard hits and went 7x platinum.
  • Death by Woman Scorned: Almost all reactions to men's wrongdoings seem justified. But in all fairness, for some cases it is.
  • Defenestrate and Berate: Bernadine gets dumped by her husband for another woman. This is after she's spent the last 11 years sacrificing her dreams of owning her own business to help him build his. Her reaction? Taking his entire very expensive wardrobe, stuffing it in his very expensive car and setting the whole shebang on fire. And what she couldn't get in the car, she sold. For a dollar.
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  • Double Standard: Abuse, Female on Male: Justified almost every single time. Most guys are such assholes in this movie that it's a wonder why a sane woman would even bother give them any time of the day.
  • The Film of the Book
  • Important Haircut: Bernadine cuts her long hair after her husband leaves her. As he insisted that she keep it this way, cutting it is symbolic of her newfound freedom.
  • Incompatible Orientation: Gloria finds out her ex-husband is gay after trying to seduce him when he comes to visit.
  • Lifetime Movie of the Week: A particularly egregious full-length example but it still better than average.
  • The Mistress: The white woman Bernadine's husband was with, and also Robin to Russell.
  • Nice Guy: Marvin, especially compared to every other man in the story.
  • Revenge Against Men: This is what the movie is mostly about, except it's more about humiliating men and making them pay for their Jerkassery and their ungratefulness than killing them.
  • The Unfair Sex: Goes without saying. The movie is so bitter against men that only a few of them have any redeeming qualities.
  • Unflinching Walk: Bernardine sets fire to her husbands car, walks away, and in a painful subversion, proceeds to have a total nervous breakdown.
  • Where Da White Women At?: A major part of Bernadine's rage is that her husband cheated on her with, of all people, a white woman.
  • Woman Scorned: Hooo boy...
  • Your Cheating Heart: Almost all of the main male cast. A word to the wise for straight men: this is not a good date movie!

Alternative Title(s): Waiting To Exhale


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