"So you have to decide between a life without sex, or a gruesome death? Tough call."Alice and Bob are in love. However, thanks to a curse, Curse Escape Clause, Applied Phlebotinum, Clingy Costume, Man of Steel, Woman of Kleenex, or some other reason, they can't consummate their love. Often only the sex act between the cursed character and the one they love is forbidden—they could probably boink anyone else if they wanted—though it's not uncommon for the cursed character to be forbidden from having sex with anyone without dire consequences. Contrast No Sex Allowed, where nobody at all is allowed to get down and dirty. Bob and Alice may or may not still try to see each other, sex be damned, but as a general rule this leads to the end of the relationship. This is a guaranteed source of Unresolved Sexual Tension that can never end, not to mention Celibate Hero. Some couples will try to break the curse, find a cure for the disease or try to otherwise circumvent whatever is keeping them from consummating the relationship, but due to Rule of Drama, Finagle's Law and Status Quo Is God, Failure Is the Only Option in many such cases. However, there are also many cases of the trope being ultimately subverted. This happens a lot to Horny Devils. See also Nature Adores a Virgin and Courtly Love. Often leads to But I Would Really Enjoy It. Contrast with Asexuality — "Doesn't Want Sex, Ever" — and Vow of Celibacy — "Is Prohibited from Having Sex, Ever."
— Phillip J. Fry, Futurama
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- Chobits uses this as a source of drama: penetrative intercourse with Chii will activate her reset mechanism and erase all her memories, destroying her feelings of love in the process. In the anime, it's more vague, but apparently "only the one who is just for me can ever come inside."
- Alice19th: Not sex, but close. Mayura, jealous over Alice and Kyo's relationship, curses Kyo so that if he ever hears a word of love from Alice he will die.
- Implied to be Kusanagi's hangup in the Blue Seed OVA Time Skip, almost causing him and Momiji to break up because he becomes distant. It's never really resolved in the end either, just sort of alluded to that they will attempt to find a way to work around it.
- My Balls: The premise is that a guy had a superpowerful demon sealed in his right testicle, so he has to avoid having sex or ejaculating in any way for a month, or she will be released and destroy the world. This is the cue for every hottie in Hell to come banging on his door.
- In Yuria 100 Shiki, Yuria is a Sex Bot programmed to become the unquestioning love-slave of the first person to insert the proper hardware, something she'd prefer not to happen. The alternative is no sex at all. She's a Sex Bot programmed to have sex…
- Vaguely used in Black Bird. Later on both Misao and Kyo are given permission because of a curse Kyo receives. For whatever reason, if they don't have sex, Kyo dies.
- Fruits Basket: Many members of the Sohma family transform into animals from the Chinese Zodiac if they come into contact with someone of the opposite sex, though the series is never more specific than "hugging." There are ways around it, though, if Shigure's little rendezvous with Ren is any indication.
- Played straight in Mai-Otome, thanks to the limitations of their Applied Phlebotinum. Akane and Kazuya come this close to averting the trope after eloping, but they keep being interrupted at inconvenient moments, culminating in him getting dragged back to his home country and her getting arrested. Finally, someone arranges a way for them to stay together as master and Otome, but then flat out tells them that this trope still applies.
- My Wife Is a High School Girl plays this one for laughs. The male lead legally marries his student but her father forbids the act with a written contract until she graduates. It is strongly suggested on the anime's last episode that they finally did it, although this is left open to interpretation by the fact that the girl had often fantasized about this kind of thing before only to be rudely interrupted just like that last time. Even funnier, most of the frustration is on her side. Her husband seems to have few problems waiting for her to graduate.
- Oku-sama wa Mahou Shoujo (don't confuse it with the former) features a character who would lose her powers when she kisses. This may be a case of G-Rated Sex, though the series never says that sex would do it.
- As they are taken from The Kouga Ninja Scrolls, both Ninja Scroll and Basilisk have female characters named Kagero who have poisonous traits associated with sensuality. Ninja Scroll 's Kagero's body absorbs poisons, and since she finds poisoned foods and drinks for her chamberlain, her body is so heavily laced with toxins that even kissing someone would kill them. Basilisk's Kagero's breath turns into a toxic vapor when she's aroused, which she uses as a weapon for assassination.
- In Bizenghast, Edrear has an irremovable exoskeleton, which means he can't have sex. Word of God is that it is supposed to deter shipping between Dinah and Edrear (didn't work), but he does shed every three months.
- M. Alice LeGrow is adorably naïve if she expected such a ploy to actually work.
- While they couldn't mention anything explicit given the age of their target audience, cyborg Guy Shishioh's relationship with his girlfriend Mikoto is visibly strained by the fact that the only flesh-and-blood part left of him is his head. It's subverted by the last episode.
- Explicitly stated in Death Note: Shinigami can't have sexual relations with each other or with humans. Of course, there is a reason for this: If a shinigami falls for a human and then saves him/her from dying, they themselves die. According to How to Use: XXXVI it's stated that it's both forbidden and actually impossible for shinigami to have sexual relations with humans. This double-emphasis may have been in an attempt to prevent speculation or curtail human/shinigami shipping, though you can guess how well that turned out XXXVI also says shinigami cannot have sex with each other, though it is not clear if this is impossible or forbidden.
- According to Word of God, Zelgadis from Slayers will injure anyone he goes intimate with, because of his stone body.
- In A Certain Magical Index, while Touma Kamijou is very Oblivious to Love, it is pointed out it would be very difficult for him and Hyouka Kazakiri to have a relationship. She's an artificial angel, and as a supernatural being, would be erased if she touches his Anti-Magic right hand, Imagine Breaker. Technically, he could just wear a glove.
- Actually enforced in High School Dx D by Fujimi Shobo, otherwise a series with as much Fanservice as this one would have already gone into a much different direction. Then again, this series is definitely "Rule 34-friendly."
- An In-Universe example with Koneko. As a Nekoshou, Koneko can bear children even at her agenote . If she did, both she and the child would likely die. Issei tells her they should wait, and she agrees.
- Also gets Played for Laughs in regards to Irina. She'd like to have sex with Issei, but as a Brave Saint, committing the sin of Lust would lead to her becomes a Fallen Angel—and her wings start flickering just from her Covert Pervert side showing through, so simply being creative is out. Until she can find a work-around, she settles for making sure nobody else gets in before she does. Michael has since created such a workaround for her in the form of a room that is essentially a pocket dimension where the angels' rules wouldn't apply, meaning she and Issei could have sex in there to their heart's content without any risk to Irina's status as an angel. But again, the trope is still enforced by the publishers so don't expect that to change much.
- In Overlord, Momonga is currently in the body of a skeletal lich, so he can't have sex because he lacks the equipment to do so. This frustrates him.
- Kimihito in Daily Life with Monster Girl can't sleep with any of his roommates. The extra-species exchange bill forbidding sexual relations between exchange students and their hosts. Unfortunately for him they're all love in with him, and more than willing to ignore the rules. Then they become the test for the inter-species marriage act. So while he might not get in trouble for it, he still doesn't want to sleep with any of them before he picks a wife.
- When Yuuta from Punchline gets aroused twice in a row (which isn't hard as he gets so just by looking at panties) his nose bleeds and he faints. When this occurs, his power levels go through the roof and this causes an asteroid to hit the Earth and cause the end of the world. Luckily he can go back in time to stop the events from happening.
- This is parodied by Uruguayan comedian El Bananero in his "trailer" for The Impotent Hulk (warning: in Spanish, NSFW), where Bruce's situation is that he hulks out whenever he's excited, but when he goes to a shady doctor to try to solve this situation and have normal sex with Betty, he ends with his privates sadly lost to the cause permanently, which prompts him in a semi-permanent Hulk state out of horny frustration.
- The Sandman: Dream and Nada. It's forbidden for a mortal and one of the Endless to be lovers. When Nada spurns Dream after breaking this, he condemns her to hell.
- Legion of Super-Heroes: Wildfire doesn't actually have a body, having been turned into an Energy Being by a Freak Lab Accident. This puts severe stress on his romance with fellow Legionnaire Dawnstar. Eventually he learns to create a solid body... but it's still made of energy, and Dawnstar gets burned trying to touch him. This is the point where he tells her to just go.
- X-Men comics have many mutants with a mutation that makes sex impossible. Examples include Rogue and Wither, who respectively hurt or kill whatever living things they touch. Their partners would effectively need full-body condoms. In Rogue's case, the problem isn't insurmountable: there have always been characters immune to Rogue's absorption power (e. g. the Avengers' Wonder Man in her debut story) and also quite a few who could protect themselves through their own powers (e. g. Magneto in the Age of Apocalypse) or through a machine (e. g. the apparatus Joseph built as a Christmas present). Another way out was exposing Rogue to the powers of mutants (e. g. Leech) or machines (e. g. the one used in the "love grotto" story in UXM #350) or mystical devices (e. g. the Siege Perilous) that can strip mutants of their powers, at least temporarily. And then, there's the number of powerfully telepathic characters around. In any case, with some help from Professor X and Danger Rogue finally learned to control her absorption power and now can have sex if she wants. Which she eventually did in X-Men Legacy #249 with Magneto.
- Fantastic Four: The Thing has had several lovers since his transformation (the main ones being Alicia Masters and Debbie Green) and this has been addressed a few times. The (overall) interpretation is that he can't have sex because he lacks genitalia, and Stan Lee himself has said that he never really thought about how the Thing could have sex being a giant rock-covered dude and didn't really consider it important in the first place. This is lampshaded in Rise of the Silver Surfer, when Johnny asks how Ben and Alicia manage a physical relationship, joking that he doesn't want to learn that she died under "a rockslide." All Ben is willing to say is that they have some arrangement worked out.
- In The DCU, Heatstroke and Coldsnap are lovers who are members of the villain team the Masters of Disaster. Their motivation for committing crimes is to earn enough money to find a cure for their 'condition' that prevent them from touching.
- The Darkness character Jackie Estacado had this problem ever since he turned 21 and acquired his powers (and takes his frustration out on mob goons using Darklings and actually dropping a rabid one down in a Mafia Boss's pants) until they went autopilot and humped an unconscious Sara Pezzini. Usually bearers of the Darkness are male and when a baby boy is born the current owner drops dead. Luckily for Jackie, Sara gave birth to a girl. There is a loophole, that Darkness bearers can create constructs for this purpose. However this took a turn for the worse when it was revealed that The Darkness intended for this loophole, to encourage the Estacado's to eventually create a construct mate that could bear children. The resulting being would be purely of the Darkness with no human "weaknesses." Once it was born the Darklings mutinied to the creature's side as it tried to become a Self-Made Orphan. It went about as well as you'd expect, but left Jackie without access to his powers for quite some time.
- Played for laughs in The Awesome Slapstick, when protagonist Steve Harmon is thrilled that high school beauty Barb Halsey loves his alter-ego, Slapstick. His Black and Nerdy friend Mike then points out that his Slapstick form lacks the requisite equipment…
- Done with Fin Fang Foom in Nextwave.
"Oh, you cannot imagine how annoyed he is."
- In the last issue of Crystar Crystal Warrior, with his dying breath, the evil wizard Zardeth punishes Moltar and Lavour for betraying him by restoring Moltar's humanity, but leaving Lavour still a woman made of living magma. And this just after Lavour had finally realized that she genuinely loved him. Fortunately, Lava is Boiling Kool-Aid, so they don't have to avoid each other entirely, but they can never touch.
- Seems to be the case with Princess Kavatah in Megalex, at least as of Volume 1. A noble general tries to touch her romantically, and he bursts into flame. She believes it to be a curse.
- Jack Hawksmoor of The Authority is fully capable of having sex. However, the process that turned him into the God of Cities also did unspeakable things to his genitalia, to the point that the first woman to see him naked post-conversion threw up on the spot. He eventually hooks up with the Engineer, who has her own set of body issues
- The Plutonian in Irredeemable. He's Made of Diamond—so much so, that simply touching his hair would cut a normal human's hand. The Plutonian went so far as to acquire a power nullifying magic candle so he could spend a night with his lover which plays a critical role in his eventual defeat at the end of the series.
- In one of Phil Foglio's Xxxenophile comics, one of the main characters is a priestess (to the god of contraception) who's under a curse that will (apparently—it's never actually shown) do a Baleful Polymorph on anyone she has sex with. She's also immortal and has been unable to have sex for hundreds of years. It's revealed that the reason for this was so that she could resist the curse of a MacGuffin that causes anyone to touch it to become uncontrollably horny, because her long pent-up frustration is greater than the Macguffin's power, allowing her to hold it without being overcome. After she finds it and returns it to her god, her curse is modified so she can choose one day a year it's not in effect. Presumably, this would help her for the next task she needed to complete for him.
- The Superman villainess Anguish has Intangibility. Though she can be solid for periods of time, she at one point complains that it is very difficult to turn her power off, even if she wants people to touch her.
- In Coming Back Late, Harry and Hermione can't do anything physical together because even though she's estranged from Ron, their magical marriage vows are "till death do us part." After Hermione is killed and Harry brings her soul back from behind the Veil, this obviously no longer applies.
- Paul agonizes over this in With Strings Attached, since he's way too strong to dare make love to Linda any more. He is extremely happy when he's depowered at the end of the book.
- Unfortunately, as we find out in The Keys Stand Alone: The Soft World, while he lost the strength, he didn't lose the sense he would harm Linda if he just hugged her, let alone had sex with her. It takes him a ways into the book to reveal to the others that their marriage almost collapsed because of it.
- In the The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time fic Blood and Spirit, Sheik explains to Link that the Sheikah are forbidden from having romantic relationships because they believe that such emotions cloud their better judgment and rational thinking; thus, they reproduce via birthing mothers, whose sole purpose in the tribe is to bear the children. As a result, the Sheikah children are raised by the entire Sheikah community rather than by their birth parents.
- In the Maleficent fanfic Your Servant Mistress, Maleficent and Diaval. Though they're both human in the fanfic, Maleficent is freaked out by the very thought of it. As they're both into BDSM, that is not the problem it could be for other couples.
Films — Live-Action
- Irena Gallier and Oliver Yates from Cat People. Irena is a werecat, and she and her brother can only sleep with each other without transforming into deadly panthers. However, both of them give in to their urges during the course of the film.
- In Bringing Up Baby, the hero's Disposable Fiancé mentions that their marriage is only meant to solidify their working relationship and must entail no domestic entanglements of any kind.
- Frank and Lonette from Cool World, because 'noids' and 'doodles' (humans and toons) can't have sex without disastrous consequences.
- In Sin Takes A Holiday, Sylvia and Stanton get married purely out of convenience, and one of the terms in their agreement is to keep it an "in name only" marriage.
- Marvel Cinematic Universe:
- The 2008 The Incredible Hulk movie had Bruce and Betty almost start, at which point his wrist-mounted pulse-reader starts beeping. Bruce stops Betty, explaining that he can't get excited or else he'll Hulk out; she responds, in a disappointed tone of voice, "Not even a little?" And yet one never heard Bruce Banner say "You wouldn't like me when I'm horny."
- Avengers: Age of Ultron has Bruce state to Natasha Romanoff that he "physically can't" have children, which alludes to the 2008 film regarding his dilemma with Betty: if he gets too excited, he'll hulk out, which is why he physically can't have children, as he explains to Romanoff.
- In Star Trek: The Motion Picture, Ilia and Decker can't have sex because Ilia is a Deltan, and sex with a Deltan is so intense that humans just can't handle it.
- In Bent, the main characters are a gay couple in a concentration camp. They are incapable of touching each other, standing within a foot of each other, or even looking at each other. What they can do, however is have incredibly emotional and vivid verbal sex.
- In the X-Men films, Rogue can't have sex or even kiss someone ever. It tends to be hazardous to their health. In X2: X-Men United, multiple characters point out the inherent problems faced by Iceman and Rogue.
- The Lobster: David and the Shortsighted Woman are in love, but live with the Loners, who forbid all sexual contact and romantic relations between members.
- Partial trope in The One Who Waited, Alice and the Boogeyman can technically never have sex, except at the very end, when the act of doing so kills Alice
- In For Love of Evil, Parry has become a Friar in the Middle ages. He has a very strict celibacy oath to which he must adhere to remain a friar. He had a beautiful, intelligent wife (Jolie) who was murdered, and is now a ghost. He still has a very high sex drive. One night, he has the opportunity to have sex with Jolie, thanks to the intercession of a willing female host. Suffice it to say, his intense performance that evening sets the plot of the entire rest of the novel in motion.
- In Piers Anthony's Apprentice Adept series. Stile's wife has been prophesied to have one child by her second husband. So as long as they don't consummate their marriage, Stile remains safe from death. They eventually do consummate after the third book, and they have their son, but since the prophecy does not specifically mention imminent death after that son, Stile and his alternate reality counterpart, now trapped in opposite worlds, continue to be major characters for the rest of the series.
- Joshua from Dora Wilk Series would really like to have sex with Dora (opposite is true as well), but Guardian Angels are forbidden to have romantic or sexual relationship with people they guard. Subverted in All Stays In The Family when Archangel Gabriel proposes that he can free Joshua from his Guardian position, but by then Dora's with Miron and Joshua is just too nice to pursue her.
- Cal Leandros is so afraid of impregnating the human he loves (he doesn't trust birth control at all) with his half-evil-fairy sperm that he will only boink other species that he's biologically incompatible with.
- The Dresden Files:
- Thomas can no longer even touch his beloved Justine—or even a scarf she made by hand—without being burned, because they truly love each other, and true love is holy water to White Court vampires like him. He's free to do anything he wants with anyone he doesn't care about and in fact drains the life force his demonic side needs through acts of lust. Eventually subverted when Justine figures out she can have casual sex with other people, temporarily eliminating the protective effect of having last had sex with her true love Thomas until she sleeps with him again. Cue the threesomes.
- After Susan becomes a vampire, she can't have sex with Harry because she can't separate her desire for him from her desire for ripping out his throat and drinking his blood. Understandably, this puts a slight damper on their relationship. However, they end up getting around it by tying her up with enchanted rope. (It wasn't planned that way: he tied her up for an unrelated reason but then their feelings for each other took over.)
- After Molly becomes the Winter Lady, she discovers that the mantle will actively enforce this by lethally attacking anyone she tries to have sex with or they try to do the same to her, since having a child would destroy the power of the mantle. And take note that the Winter Mantle actively fills her with lustful feelings... that she can't act on. Maeve, Lily, and Sarrisa are likely in the same boat.
- Georgina Kincaid of the Succubus books is a Horny Devil who can't date anyone she likes without sucking his life force.
- This is a frequent problem in Anne McCaffrey's The Ship Who... series, where the protagonists are very handicapped humans who operate as the "brain" of a ship. They can't get physical when they are an immobilized body in a column. Averted halfway through the series, when one brain deals with the problem by commissioning a remote-controlled full-sensory human body, opening up the same possibility for other brains.
- Confessors from the The Sword of Truth can have sex, just not with anyone they actually like, because they accidentally release their power while love making, and it would essentially destroy their lover. This causes much drama for Richard and Kahlan in the first book. Once this is resolved, they have another problem because of some prophecy that she'll give birth to a male Confessor (who are Always Chaotic Evil).
- Subverted in Spider Robinson's Callahan's Crosstime Saloon series. Michael Finn, a humanoid alien cyborg, believes he can never have sex because his superhuman abilities would cause him to accidentally injure or kill whoever he has sex with. One of the other characters points out that he can still administer oral sex, and be given hand jobs.
- Wizards traditionally aren't allowed to have sex because the eighth child they conceive will be a sourceror, a living magical power source capable of destroying the entire world by accident. They don't seem to have heard of non-procreative sex. It's implied, at least in the earlier books, that sex uses some of the same circuits as doing magic does, for wizards at any rate. In Mort, it's noted that once Igneous Cutwell starts spending time with Queen Keli of Sto Lat, he doesn't do any magic any more: this is clearly a big hint that they are getting it on instead. Judging by Moving Pictures, at least, the idea seems to be to never ever tell them anything about sex so that they have no idea how it works. If they don't know how to have sex, they won't, and no sourcerors will show up! It's actually worse than not having discovered non-procreative sex; a sourceror will only be born if they're the eighth son of an eighth son of an eighth son. So in theory, there's lots of sex that can be had before they have to stop, and some wizard could never have a problem. This is mentioned in some of the early books, so there's a good chance it's the kind of canon that can be safely ignored. Mostly, though, wizards don't have sex because they usually find magic more interesting. They're nerds, after all...
- This is then possibly averted in Making Money, where it's revealed several necromancy students only want to be necromancers because they get the official skull ring which they claim is a "babe magnet." Technically it's only marriage that's forbidden. There's presumably only a problem if all eight children are with the same woman.
- In Unseen Academicals it is mentioned that Professor Macarona, at Unseen University on exchange, has apparently left a trail of angry husbands and at least one angry wife in other cities he's visited. Not his wife, you understand. Apparently celibacy is an Unseen University tradition rather than one that necessarily applies to all wizards, and there are indications that even UU is occasionally willing to look the other way as long as you're not too blatant about it.
- In the first book, Rincewind is describes as looking like an "apprentice enchanter who had run away from his master out of defiance, boredom, fear and a lingering taste for heterosexuality." Make of that what you will. In The Light Fantastic Rincewind knows what orgasms are — he's had a few. Sometimes in company. His first use of real magic is compared to a good orgasm, and most wizards can use magic when they want. The tendency towards celibacy is pretty deeply ingrained in at least some of the wizards. Rincewind at one point finds himself as the only male on an island full of half-naked Amazon babes who offer to give him anything he wants, no matter how depraved or lascivious. He's literally drooling in anticipation of the satisfaction of his desires. He asks for potatoes.
- Played on a villain in Exiles at the Well of Souls, when the sexually-perverse and licentious Antor Trelig is transformed into a Makiem, a frog-like alien race. Makiem don't copulate at all, they just release gametes into the water once a year without any physical contact. Karma's a bitch, eh?
- In Isaac Asimov's novel The Gods Themselves, it is emphasized a few times that Earthborn and Moonborn people suffer from a slight sexual incompatibility due to Earth people's tendency to subconsciously move as in normal Earth-gravity during moments of abandon—an "Earthie" would be very likely to injure their partner in the lower gravity of the Moon. In the end, it's implied that the protagonists can work something out.
- The titular Cat Girl of The Nine Lives of Chloe King technically can have sex, but her claws pop out when she's aroused, and they apparently have some sort of venom on them, so it's not recommendable for her partner. Apparently, she can have sex with others like herself. It's indicated to be a curse on the Mai. In the end of the books, the curse is broken. The TV series never made it that far.
- Cal from Peeps has a sexually-transmitted parasite that gives most people who pick it up vampiric traits, something he didn't figure out until his ex-girlfriends went crazy. This is eventually subverted when (a) it turns out that passing on the parasite is a good thing, (b) the craziness can be cured easily for those that it happens to, and (c) the girl Cal likes eventually picks up the parasite from his cat (cat breath is another vector) instead.
- The hitek, a near-future offshoot of humanity from Man After Man, are unlikely to survive having sex, as their bodies are so crippled by the accumulation of genetic defects that they need constant life-support to function. A hitek couple in the book require the approval of their physicians to even make the attempt, and when the female dies of heart failure from the exertion, the bereaved male crawls back into his life-support cocoon, never to emerge again.
- In Louise Burton's Hidden Grotto novels (House of Dark Delights, Bound by Moonlight), there are two characters in love who may never touch—Elic, a dusios (type of sex-changing incubus), and Lili, a succubus. They find ways around not having sex with each other…
- Subverted for The Narrator and Marianne Engel in The Gargoyle, as the loss of his penis in a fire doesn't stop them from having an active (if somewhat one-sided) sex life.
- This trope heavily figures in The Sun Also Rises by Ernest Hemingway. Jake Barnes is very much in love with Brett Ashley. She even reciprocates! However certain practical (and metaphorically mental) issues preclude any consummation.
- In the last book of The Emigrants tetralogy Karl Oskar and Kristina can no longer have sex since they have no reliable birth control and if Kristina gets pregnant again it will lead to her death.
- Neal Shusterman's Scorpion Shards features an otherwise-Ordinary High-School Student who is cursed to somehow suck the soul out of any girl he kisses. It also makes every girl he meets fall madly in love with him, but that's not much comfort.
- In The Vampire Chronicles, once you're a vampire, you can't have actual sex. However, everything else practically becomes a substitute. Even the pattern on a carpet can bring rapturous pleasure to one's enhanced senses.
- In a Polish vampire trilogy Nocarz, this can happen to a vampire couple if one of them gets neutralised with Sator's anti-symbiote vaccine. The victims not only lose their vampiric traits, but also react with deadly allergy to any physical contact with a normal vampire (it's implied this effect will pass with time). Knowing this, Vesper assigns his human friend to provide medical first aid to the neutralised vampires, as any other member of the team would kill them with barely a touch.
Echis: How could I argue with you, when you could kill me just by spitting in my face?
- After Icta gets neutralised, Vesper imagines her having a normal life, but decides that Echis would make a better husband and protector than him. It's implied that it will work out in the future, unlike the rest of his hare-brained plan.
- There's a cat character in Clare Bell's Clan Ground series who's like this. He's half Unnamed, and as most of the Unnamed are dumb, brutish, unintelligent cats, he fears passing on his Unnamed genes to any potential offspring. So, he leaves the clan during breeding time each year.
- Every time Laurent and Thérèse try to have sex after they get married (or even try to sleep for that matter) in Thérèse Raquin, they are haunted by memories of Thérèse's first husband Camille.
- In Warrior Cats, medicine cats are forbidden from having kits, so they aren't allowed to have mates. That's not to say they don't break the rule, but for the most part they adhere to Clan standards.
- In Tales of Kolmar, Kantri have incredibly high internal temperatures. A human once helps one of the Kantri deliver a baby, has to reach in and turn it, and the flesh on the human's arms is so burned it comes off in rags. Humans and Kantri are not sexually compatible. The very idea that they could be is seen as absurd; there is a prophecy of human-Kantri children spelling the end of the world as we know it, but someone outright says that there might as well be a prophecy warning them to beware of a bull and a butterfly. So when the Lord of the Kantri falls in love with a human woman, they can't consummate. Until he's turned into a human himself.
- In Tim Dorsey's Serge Storms books, Johnny Vegas is always interrupted, sometimes by incredibly unlikely things, just before he's about to have sex.
- In Dave Duncan's "A Man of His Word" books the Sultan of Arakshit, Azak, is cursed so that he can't touch a woman without burning her badly. Even after the sorceress who cursed him dies the curse is not lifted, cutting his wedding night short, marking Inosolan and leading to a lot of frustration.
- Undead in Kevin J. Anderson's Dan Shamble, Zombie P.I. novels apparently do retain the ability to have sex. Dan, however, can't have sex with his girlfriend Sheyenne because she's a ghost, unable to touch anything animate. In Unnatural Acts, they find a stopgap solution: Sheyenne can manipulate inanimate objects, so she wears gloves to hold Dan's hand or possesses a blow-up doll for intimate relations.
- In Spider Robinson's short story "True Minds", the great romance novelist Philip Rose and his wife Dr. R.V. Walton cannot have sex for very tragic reasons. Decades ago she took the opportunity to join the research team on a space station, only to find out that one of the downsides for humans living in that environment for too long is that they can no longer survive on Earth. Even worse, Philip also has a congenital heart condition that ensures he would never survive the difficult trip to space. The only contact the couple have had with each other for most of their married life is through a monitor. Both are absolutely committed to each other as well, so they refuse to have sex with anyone else. Which is even more frustrating for Philip since he's a famous romance novelist with many admirers who have offered themselves to him.
- One minor character from Sewer, Gas & Electric is a war veteran who lost his private parts in a battle injury. His VA medical coverage provided for installation of a prosthetic scrotum, but thanks to a conservative-hyped law banning federal funding of anything possibly usable as a sex toy, an artificial penis wasn't included.
- In Gil's All-Fright Diner, Duke the werewolf implies this trope applies to him to dissuade Loretta's seduction attempt. It doesn't really—his transformations aren't triggered by sex, and there's no risk he might change and harm her—but Loretta is very unattractive and he doesn't want to offend her by rejecting her advances for that reason.
- In the Coldfire Trilogy, the Hunter cannot have sex without violating the terms of the pact that made him immortal since doing so is technically an act of procreation and life.
- The Film Noir Monster Mash Fifty Feet Of Trouble, features the jaguar people, clearly based on some famous feline-based monsters. Whenever they get horny they turn into a jaguar and proceed to try to kill anything near them. And pretty much everything gets them horny.
- Newter's bodily fluids are contact hallucinogens, to the point that even trace sweat on his skin can render someone incoherent. While it's his main weapon in a fight, this poses certain difficulties in the bedroom.
- Tattletale also avoids sex because her Hyper Awareness power would cause an extreme case of Too Much Information.
- Buffy the Vampire Slayer: Angel had one night with Buffy, which enabled his Curse Escape Clause and led to his infamous Face–Heel Turn as Angelus. Angel has moved on to boink other women he doesn't love, but he can never close the deal again.
- Played with on Angel with Cordelia and her beau, the Groosalugg. She has reason to believe that having sex will lead to her losing her precognitive powers; after spending time bemoaning, her response is to find a magical prophylactic so that won't happen.
- Angel eventually has the characters work out that Angel's curse isn't the No Sex Allowed curse they originally thought but is, in fact, this trope played straight. In series 1, When Wesley and Cordelia discuss the idea of Angel and Rebecca Lowell having a relationship, Wesley points out the curse's requirement is "perfect happiness" and also points out how rare that criterion actually is. In series 2, Angel can get away with having sex with Darla, who he has complicated emotional ties to, because he experienced "perfect despair" with her. In series 5, Angel doesn't lose his soul by having sex with Eve because he doesn't trust her and they were under a mystical compulsion. Wesley reiterates that "perfect happiness" is very rare and most relationships are formed from "acceptable happiness" instead which is why Angel can have sex with Nina without his soul being endangered. As a result, the only people Angel can't have sex with are the women he regards as his true loves (and the ones he truly wanted to be with): Buffy and Cordelia.
- Becomes a running gag throughout Angel, with Angel himself having to clarify more than once that he's "not a eunuch."
- And then there is Gwen, whose electric powers are always on, forbidding her from touching people. At least if she wants them still alive afterwards. She eventually gets around this by obtaining an electronic Power Limiter, and immediately tries it out by shagging Gunn.
- Every pairing in Lexx suffered from this. Afflicted characters included a dead man who lacked certain parts, a severed robot head with no moving parts, and an alien who was "smooth round the bend". And that was before the plot device of the ship's coveted key—a symbiotic energy life-form—abandoning its host at the height of ecstasy...
- And the writers loved to taunt the audience with it, too; when 790 gains a working arm, thus becoming a robot-head-with-arm, he tries to get his new hand in Xev's pants… but she's too tired from previous events to care and 790 loses the arm shortly thereafter. 790 would again come close to getting some actual action when Prince arranged for his head to be attached to the body of a moth breeder who had the key to the Lexx, as well as going through the United States military's service record to find the most well-endowed soldier to volunteer an equipment transplant to the moth breeder's body. Before 790 could get his freak on, his head was knocked off, leaving him bodiless again, and Xev went to "find" the moth breeder.
- In an earlier episode, 790 attaches himself to a headless cyborg body found in a prison ship. However. reactivating the body causes 790 to be intermittently possessed by the personality of the body's previous owner, a Depraved Homosexual Scary Black Man rapist who immediately sets his sights on Stanley.
- Dark Angel loved doing this to Max and Logan. At first they couldn't do it because Logan physically couldn't (he was paralyzed from the waist down). Then Logan gets better, but Max has been infected with a designer virus made especially to target Logan's DNA—so any skin-to-skin contact with her would kill him. Then the show was canceled.
- Pushing Daisies: Ned and Chuck. His power allowed him to bring her back to life at the cost of killing a bystander, but she will die if he even touches her, let alone if they attempt sex.
- Alisha from Misfits can't have mutually consensual sex with anyone due to her power (she's basically a walking Love Potion, whoever touches her is overcomed with uncontrollable lust).
- At first she doesn't see the problem with her ability, which basically means she can have sex with whoever she wants and given that she's a Femme Fatale that works out great for her, until she's almost forced into sex by two men due to accidentally touching them. As from then, she realizes that forcing people into sex without their actual consent is not right and does not have sex anymore. Until Seth takes away her ability in the Series 2 finale, that is.
- In season 2 of Torchwood, after Owen dies and is resurrected, becoming a moving, thinking corpse, he finds that he can no longer have sex. This is the time that Toshiko finally confesses her feelings to him…
- In Alphas Rachel's Super Senses leave her prone to Sensory Overload, making sex at least very difficult. She finally does manage to get around this, and it's strongly implied that it was mostly a case of finding a partner she trusted enough to let herself become totally vulnerable and helpless with them.
- Nick and Natalie venture into this territory in Forever Knight, because sex and feeding are very much tied together for vampires, and Nick is mostly unable to control himself once he starts feeding. He knows he'd either wind up turning Natalie or more likely, that he'd kill her.
- In Legend of the Seeker the main characters, Richard and Kahlan can never consummate their love, as Kahlan's Confessor powers would be unleashed in the throes of passion which then would leave Richard "Confessed" or a slave to Kahlan's will. There are numerous flirts with intimacy, but the trope holds fast. Until the second season finale, that is, when Richard and Kahlan discover that she can't Confess him because he's already so deeply in love with her that it makes no difference.
- In Haven, Nathan Wuornos has Feel No Pain, and the only person he can feel is Audrey Parker and her past incarnations like Sarah Vernon. He can have sex with other women, but it's obviously not very enjoyable. Jordan McKee inflicts agonizing pain on anybody who touches her bare skin, so only Nathan can touch her (Audrey can too, but both girls are straight).
- Being Human (UK) features a strange case with Mitchell and Annie, who have two problems: first, Annie is a ghost, so the only way for them to touch each other, not to mention have sex, is for her to possess Mitchell's partner. The second problem is that Mitchell's a vampire, who, in the show's universe, are walking metaphors for drug addicts, and finds it hard to separate sex from feeding (and he very much doesn't want to drink human blood). Eventually they decide to forgo sex altogether. It's not clear whether it works as Mitchell dies pretty soon after.
- Saibra from the Doctor Who episode Time Heist, effectively suffers this, because she shapeshifts into anybody who she touches directly, and it turns out Screw Yourself is a very uncommon fetish, or more disturbing in reality than people expect.
- In both Were Wolf The Apocalypse and Werewolf: The Forsaken,, werewolves mating with each other tends to have bad results. The Apocalypse gave us Metis, the sterile, deformed offspring of Garou mating—the only "upside" is that they're born in the Wolf Man Crinos form, giving them more power. The Forsaken changes it so that the child of two Urathra is a unihar, a vicious, powerful spirit bent on killing its parents and any werewolves that get in the way. Though this is more "Can't Have Sex With Own Species"; werewolves haven't gone extinct yet because they're interfertile with humans (and, in Apocalypse, wolves).
- In Warhammer 40,000, having sex (or any excessiveness of pleasure) as an Eldar will result in your soul becoming the newest sex toy for the Chaos God Slaanesh, lord of sensations and excess. This is one of the reasons they are a Dying Race. Dark Eldar avoid this by offering the souls of others in place of their own to placate Slaanesh while they indulge themselves. Natural born Dark Eldar, called "Trueborn", are still rare enough that they are treated with great honor and privilege.
- Teenagers from Outer Space strongly recommends that the GM derail all attempts by players to get further than, say, first base, by having circumstances interfere in whatever silly fashion they GM can devise, because endless UST is funnier.
- Darklord Ivana Boritsi has turned both herself and members of her entourage into ermordenung: living humans whose bodies are permanently saturated with a deadly poison. Ermordenung can't touch anyone normal without killing them, and Ivana cranks up their frustration by using a different poison to create each one, so they'll kill each other if they touch their own kind. Bitch. (To make this worse, the leader and most powerful of the ermordenung, the first who received this "gift", was Nostalia Romaine Ivana's best friend as a child, and it was with her help that Boritsi seized control of Borca, using Natasha as an assassin to kill her mother, the previous ruler. Despite this, Natasha and the others are still utterly loyal to her; of course, when you work for a darklord, you tend to be just as evil as your boss.
- And any attempts Jacqueline Renier has ends when she inevitably turns into her wererat form and kills them, she can't control this. She also arranges for her sister's lovers to be murdered before they can consummate their relationships out of jealousy (and to keep Louise from usurping her power). Jacqueline's curse only applies if she actually loves her prospective partner. She can have all the casual or Foe Yay sex she wants.
- Sir Tristen Hiregaard of Nova Vassa isn't a straight example of the Trope, but he's to Renier similar. He can have sex if he wants (and he has several sons from his Arranged Marriage to show for it) but any woman he actually loves is in mortal danger. A curse he suffers from transforms him into a fiend called Malken (the true darklord of Nova Vassa) a madman who targets any woman Hiregard loves. (Unlike Renier, Hiregaard isn't malicious, and doesn't truly know that he is Malken, but he does know that there's a dark presence inside him, and tries to avoid becoming attached to women because of it; it's often hard to find any who are attracted to him nowadays anyway, as they tend to remember what happened to his previous lovers.)
- Subverted in Warhammer Fantasy with the Dark Elves. To save his life the Witch King Malekeith had a magical suit of armor fused to his body that grants him to strength to fight, and makes him hard to kill (both in the background and in game). However, he believes only a male wizard using dark magic can kill him, especially since most of his protection don't protect against magic. So he has every male sorcerer in his empire killed off, forbids males from learning magic and has them hunted down, and has all sorceresses married to him to ensure that they do not have a child (he's fused to the armor, it ain't coming off). It's a subversion because many of the Witch King's Brides take on male lovers, and sometimes have children in secret.
- Both love interests in Planescape: Torment suffer from this. Grace drains the life force of anyone she kisses. Annah heats up to dangerous temperatures once her blood starts racing. And since the main character is immortal, it doesn't matter one bit.
- Mass Effect universe:
- Quarians are generally like this with other races—thanks to their weak immune systems, sex is dangerous even between two quarians. However, Tali, the quarian love interest in ME2 actively works to subvert the trope if you're romancing her. By the third game, her immune system has adapted to Shepard and the two can have sex without issue.
- Turians have a similar issue—being dextro-amino-based lifeforms unlike most of the Citadel races (humans included), any sort of fluid-exchange could (in a worst case scenario) cause a deadly allergic reaction in either party. Mordin also warns of chafing due to the roughness of turian body plates (they resemble birds with armor instead of feathers, an adaptation against the higher-than-average background radiation of their homeworld). Once again, you can still go with it if you're romancing Garrus, but it takes quite a bit of planning beforehand. Mordin suggests that you try not to ingest.
- Asari reproduce by a variant of parthenogenesisnote , triggered by Touch Telepathy with a partner. This is intense for the partner under normal circumstances, but some asari, called Ardat-Yakshi, suffer from a condition that fatally burns out the nervous system of anyone with whom they mate. To make matters worse, this also gives the Ardat-Yakshi a boost to their own natural biotic ability, which proves addictive. If you replace Samara with her Ardat-Yakshi daughter Morinth, you can try to have sex with her, leading to a Non-Standard Game Over.
- Your brittle-boned pilot Jeff "Joker" Moreau is implied to be unable to have sex unless willing to risk a shattered pelvis due to his disease. He even claims "light, over-the-clothes action" carries risks for injuries.
- Isabella "Ivy" Valentine, the whip-sword fighter from the Soul series, swore a vow of celibacy so that she may not pass on her Malfested curse note to any of her potential children. This wound up being a valid concern, as both of Sophitia's kids wound up with their fates cursed by Soul Edge and Soul Calibur. Ivy vents out her sexual frustration by being generally dominatrix-themed.
- Similarly, Word of God gives this reason for why Jin Kazama of Tekken strays away from any kind of relationship, or even meaningful human contact for the most part. Being the scion of the Mishima family's cursed bloodline and having personally suffered because of the supernatural forces his lineage attracts, Jin refuses to let anyone else be afflicted by such a terrible fate—to the point that he plans to ensure the Mishima family tree and the Devil Gene will end with him in the sixth game.
- Implied by the fandom in Xenoblade regarding Fiora after her transformation into a Mechon, yet subverted in the epilogue when she gets her Homs body back.
- Yasu/Shannon/Kanon/Beatrice from Umineko: When They Cry is said to be unable to have sex due to the injuries and mutilation of his/her genitals after being thrown from a cliff as a baby. This together with his/her confusion about his/her gender and sexuality makes him/her consider him/herself as "furniture" and not human. This only gets worse since each of his/her Split Personalities fell in love with a different person, and one of them talks frequently about marriage and children…
- Because Cardia's body is poisonous, she is unable to have sex. Her father even warned her that she could never know love. Victor manages to find a way around it, and the poison issue is solved completely in Lupin's route. Her relationships with Impey, Van Helsing, and Saint-Germain, however, are firmly in Chastity Couple territory. They do keep searching for a way to cure it, however, and they succeed in the sequel.
- Sam's species in Freefall dies whenever they have sex.
- They also don't gain full sapience until after the species equivalent of andro/menopause. So their society is made up entirely of those who either couldn't or wouldn't breed when they had the chance.
- In The Inexplicable Adventures of Bob!, it's never been spelled out, but it's been heavily implied that, however effective Voluptua's shapeshifter unit that lets her appear human may be, she and Bob would not be able to do much of anything physical, even if they were so inclined.
- Deepblooded (drastically mutated) crater hounds in Wurr are not permitted to mate, as stillbirths or Death by Childbirth would likely result.
- Spring goddesses in MYth face their doom when they have a child, since the goddess passes her powers to her child and then dissapears to return to Gaia. Demeter suffers this after giving birth to Persephone and Hades is aware this could happen to Persephone too.
- One early strip in The Perry Bible Fellowship is called "The Adventures of the Man with no Penis." The man takes one look at a passing attractive woman and immediately blows his brains out.
- Dominic and Sarah from Unreality fall into this trope due to the fact that they're 13 and 16 respectively, on top of the fact that they're Not Allowed to Grow Up
- Artemis, Athena, and Hestia of O Cast. The first two are more than happy with the arrangement, although Hestia does not seem quite as pleased. In her words: "Forever's a long time to be a virgin."
- Way too many characters in the Whateley Universe. Fubar has been turned into a water-breathing thing like a Star Spawn. Puppet's secretions are an incredibly deadly poison and also she's on a machine to circulate her "blood" and drain her "lymph," so she lives alone in a room she never gets to leave. Compiler's nanites give her superstrength and superspeed she can't control. Diz can't even touch people because she has a force field that exerts eight tons of force all the time and she can't turn it off. Antenna generates so much electricity he's like a walking lightning storm. And there are more, just on the campus of Superhero School Whateley Academy.
- Random Assault: Matt has a dry spell. Hasn't had sex in 4 years.
- Part of the conceit of Lovely Little Losers, since it's inspired by Love's Labour's Lost, is that none of the main characters can have sex — or, indeed, kiss or snuggle.
- In Futurama, after members of Zoidberg's species mate, they die. Averted because this doesn't stop them.note
- Brock Samson (of The Venture Bros. fame) can never go past second base with Molotov Cocktease (the only woman he ever loved) because of her chastity belt.
- A more PG version in Adventure Time with Flame Princess — it turns out her Emotional Powers are unstable and romance could cause her to burn through the crust and destroy the Earth. Unfortunately, neither she nor Finn realize that before they decide to have their first kiss.