Can't Take Criticism
"A fool despiseth his father's instruction: but he that regardeth reproof is prudent."It's hard to listen to criticism, whether it's being put down in a blunt manner because we aren't doing certain things correctly or it's being criticized for our decision making, especially if it's moral. Instead of taking heed to it, some would break down miserably and are unable or unwilling to make themselves better. Then there are some would go as far as to become unexpectedly enraged by it. This character hates being criticized in every way possible. At best, they often mistake the criticism for an insult more than Constructive Criticism, or maybe the criticism was too unpleasant and harsh for them to handle. At worst, the character just naturally hates criticism period and would rather listen to something they want to hear. Even gentle criticism will cause the character to dish out Disproportionate Retribution. Not even a Compassionate Critic or a Honest Advisor can deal with this character. In moral situations, a character who resents being rebuked for taking a dark turn (usually a hero bordering to Anti-Hero territory) can make him worse than ever. If the character is a villain, showing displeasure in criticism for his wickedness can demonstrate how they cannot comprehend good. This can be seen as a character getting revenge on those who had a justifiable reason to criticize them, which makes them petty. This encompasses narcissistic characters like the Insufferable Genius, Entitled Bastard, and The Prima Donna. It is also the hallmark of a Small Name, Big Ego character. Can easily make the character prone to Wangst. Compare Fragile Flower and Minor Insult Meltdown if they are shaken by the criticism instead of being enraged. Often overlaps into With Due Respect. The trademark method of ensuring a Bad Boss will be set on destroying you is to commit this trope. Can be a response to a complainer who actually is right for once. Contrast Heroic Self-Deprecation. A Straw Critic character might stem from this flaw on part of the author. This is unfortunately Truth in Television (and got many messengers shot).
—Proverbs 15:5, King James Version
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- Suggesting what Light Yagami, aka Kira, of Death Note is doing is wrong is a very good way to end up dead. He also walks out on a family meeting where his father is calling him nothing but a murderer and later he looks visibly upset when the taskforce begins to (rightly) doubt his innocence again. In fact, when Lind L. Taylor insulted him on national television, Light's immediate response was to use the Death Note to kill him on the spot.
- In Puella Magi Madoka Magica, it is implied that Isabel the Artist Witch was once a magical girl who didn't like criticism. Like what her card description says, "In order to defeat this Witch, remember to bring a critic."
- Played for Laughs In CLANNAD. Sanae runs out crying when anyone says her bread is bad.
- Rosario + Vampire: In the anime, during the fight against Kuyou, Inner Moka tells him that he's nothing but a corrupt bastard and has no right to "preach about preserving order and protecting the peace." In response, Kuyou angrily tells her to shut up right before Moka drop-kicks him through the roof.
- The Plutonian from Irredeemable. As a hero, he had a big problem letting go of anyone who said anything bad about him, justified or not. Not as big a problem when he becomes a villain, presumably because when you murder people by the thousands you stop caring what anybody thinks about you.
- Deconstructed. He heard the criticisms of everyone he ever saved. He ended up having to go to the moon for a few minutes of silence and peace, which costs him dearly. The fact of the matter is that after a certain point, you lose all ability to take criticism because you are constantly exposed to it.
- Frank from Mini Monsters is prideful with his knowledge and doesn't take critics very well. This is due to his own lack of self-esteem, which tries to hide with a mask of happiness and self-confidence, all for the well-being of the Frank's gang. However, he slowly begins to overcome it.
- At the end of Eugenesis Rodimus Prime asks Ratchet a question deliberately intended to upset him just to stop Ratchet from lecturing him about doing something that would cause debilitating psychological harm to a group of badly traumatised patients.
- Rosario Vampire: Brightest Darkness:
- In Act III chapter 23, the girls of the group call out Apoch and Astreal for their uncharacteristically harsh treatment of Yukari, stating that they can't just act like that. Apoch and Astreal's response? They scream at the others not to tell them what to do, and then blow up Felucia with little-to-no provocation before lying to Ms. Nekonome to get the girls kicked out of class.
- Virtually every time someone tries to lecture Arial Kuyumaya about her Hair-Trigger Temper or her Jerkass behavior, she responds angrily and violently. For example, in Act VI chapter 44, after Mizore tells her that she's going to end up driving away all of her friends due to her temper, Arial responds by shooting Mizore in the forehead with an ice shard and screaming at her to "do them all a favor" and shut up.
- In Theatre of Blood Vincent Price plays an actor who kills the critics who gave him bad reviews, each murder in the theme of a Shakespeare play he was in which the reviewer panned.
- In the film adaptation of The Lorax, when the forest is nearly wiped out, the Lorax asks the Once-ler if the sight of him makes him feel guilty or remind him of "the man you used to be?" The Once-ler responds by aggressively driving him back down a staircase and snarling at him that he's done nothing wrong.
- In The Dresden Files Winter Queen Mab, Queen of Air and Darkness is this in a public forum. If Harry criticized and called her out for her machinations, while holding a gun to her head with people present, she would have killed him without hesitation. In private, she will accept Harry's suggestions and arguments, but if they delve into any moral judgement, she will smack him hard enough to dent an elevator's wall.
- In American Horror Story: Coven, Madison was criticized by her director for her performance of a music video, which resulted in her killing the director.
- The Big Bang Theory: This is often Played for Laughs. A lot of the cast have moments of this to some degree, but Sheldon Cooper absolutely cannot abide it. When Stephen Hawking corrects his work, it's like a Logic Bomb: as he can't accept that he made an elementary mistake, but he can't contradict the great Stephen Hawking... so he faints.
Stephen Hawking: "Great... another fainter!"
- Breaking Bad: In "Say My Name", Mike Ehrmantraut massively chews out Walter White for his Pride and ego getting in the way of the meth business. Walt's response? He gets pissed off and shoots the hitman inside the latter's car.
- Kitchen Nightmares:
- The series have owners in this trope frequently when Ramsey tries to tell them their faults.
- The final episode of the US version sixth series has Gordon Ramsey actually give up on the owners of Amy's Baking Company, because they were unwilling to listen. This is notable because this is the first episode he has ever done this. Their craziness went viral.
- The Mighty Boosh: Howard Moon is so bad at handling criticism that he punches Mrs. Gideon when she begins criticising his book. He can only be calmed down with a photo of some kittens in a barrel.
- Revolution: General Monroe (episode 12, episode 16, and episode 17) and Tom Neville (episode 2, episode 5, episode 11, episode 13, and episode 16) have shown more than once that they respond very poorly to criticism. The sort of response that involves death threats, attacking or killing the critic.
- Akashia, Shannel, and Sharon Needles of RuPaul's Drag Race:
- Akashia would always argue with the judges when they said anything negative about her. However, she matured a bit between her elimination and the reunion episode, where she surprisingly became the voice of reason when the other queens were taking the judges to task for criticizing them, reminding the girls that it's a competition and critiques are bound to happen.
- Shannel didn't like criticism so much that she decided to leave the competition for it.
- While she was performing, Sharon argued with producer Max Mutchnick and professional dancer Candis Cayne, much to the horror of the other queens.
- In Supernatural, Lucifer didn't like it when Gabriel, his brother, tells him that he was acting like a whiny, spoiled child and that he needed to grow up. In response, Lucifer kills him.
- Big Brother 16 has a variant with Zach. He spent much of the season insulting people and zinging them (Including calling Nicole a "Fruit Loop Dingus") When Kathy Griffin entered and gave him a zing, what was his response? Sit down, put his hands over his head, and talk about how that hurt him in the diary room.
- America Unearthed has Scott Wolter who fits this trope in spades and demonizes anyone that does criticize him.
- BioShock: In the middle of the Fort Frolic mission, Sander Cohen decides that you are a doubter. Keep in mind you literally said nothing to him, and launches a four wave splicer assault on you set to a Waltz of the Flowers by Tchaikovsky.
- The Walking Dead: Kenny gets pissed at criticism of his plan to find a boat, even when they find there's not a single boat in the entire Savannah Dock, and expects anyone who agrees with him to continue agreeing with him, no matter how bad the idea was.
- Kid Icarus: Uprising: In Chapter 22: Scorched Feathers, Dark Pit blatantly tells Palutena and Viridi that they and their "stupid wars" are just as responsible for throwing the world off balance as Hades is; Viridi is just pissed that a "little nothing" like him would dare speak to her like that, whereas Palutena actually has the guts to admit that Dark Pit isn't entirely wrong.
- Gabe from Penny Arcade doesn't handle criticism in the most graceful manner. During one playtest of his game Thornwatch, one person admitted that he didn't fully understand how initiative works. Gabe pounces on him and accuses him of being illiterate.
- In Wisenheimers, Max can be extremely touchy and self-conscious when it comes to his work in animation or his physical appearance. At one point he officially forbid people to draw fanart of him because people were drawing him ugly on purpose or just got his physique completely wrong.
Yotam: You have to understand that a lot of people are gonna like your stuff but it's never gonna be everybody!*beat*Max: This is the last show...
- DeviantArt has sadly gathered a rather nasty reputation of being full of people, artisticly talented or not, who are unwilling to take negative reception in a mature manner. Which doesn't necessarily mean that it's being given in a mature or constructive manner. Sometimes the last criticism is just the straw that broke the camel's back.
- Jim Sterling has this to say about the notion of not taking criticism:
“When they (critics) insult you, and they become the straw that broke the camels back and you snap at them or just defend yourself, the first thing they’ll say is “I thought you had a thick skin, you should learn to take criticism,” after they insulted you and your family. And they don’t realize they are comment number 1,000 out of a 1,000 comments that week. A thick skin is just that: Thick. It’s not impervious. It’s not invulnerable. And it’s not infinite. It gets ground down, worn away, and eroded. It needs to heal to grow back in time, and if you’re getting a constant stream of abuse you’re gonna snap, you’re gonna be sensitive, and you’re gonna get raw.”
- An episode of American Dad! revolves around Stan deporting his entire neighborhood (including his own family) because he heard them criticizing him.
- Another had Roger trying to kill the Smiths for roasting him, something which he wanted them to do.
- Though he was unaware what a 'roast' actually meant and when he tried to get the family to insult one another, he was surprised they were okay with it. Turns out they know that as a family, they know it's not really meant to be hurtful.
- Another had Roger trying to kill the Smiths for roasting him, something which he wanted them to do.
- In one episode of Ben 10: Alien Force, Cash wants to humiliate Ben by beating the crap out of him for it. How? By stealing an adaptable suit of armor and going crazy with power. This is all because Ben calls him and JT out acting so immaturely after all these years and telling them to grow up.
- The reason the main character was put in charge of the company's new project in the Dilbert Animated Adaptation is because he dared to suggest the Pointy-Haired Boss got the steps to making it mixed up on the slideshow (whether or not he did is undetermined, but either way he is vehement the name is the first and most important part of the project).
- Rose from Hip-Hip and Hurra is usually the most calm character on the show, but she gets hysterical (if not paranoid) by the mere thought of the art critic (the Peacock) not liking her art, to the point of having nightmares about it.
- Painter Smurf in The Smurfs is this way, particularly from Brainy when it comes to his work. In one episode, Painter can't take that Brainy won't make any criticisms concerning his work when Brainy's essence has been sapped away.
- In the SpongeBob SquarePants episode "The Algae's Always Greener", Plankton switches lives with Mr. Krabs, and at one point, SpongeBob reminds him to give constructive criticism in his work. Plankton reluctantly complies and says that SpongeBob may be using too much sauce on the Krabby Patties. SpongeBob doesn't take it well, until Plankton suggests to promote him to co-cashier.
- King of the Hill: Criticism to Peggy Hill is something she never considers or contemplates in later seasons, being too much of a Know-Nothing Know-It-All to even consider her faults. If anything it just make her more determined to prove her arguments are right.
- Pearl from Steven Universe likes being the Smart Guy of the team and is normally right, but her tendency to ignore advice and raise hell if she's ever actually accused of being wrong has got her in hot water on numerous occasions.
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