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- In The Mystery of Mamo, Mameaux skips the threats and simply has Frenchy hit the gang's hideout with napalm to show them that he really means business when he sends hitmen after them for giving him a phony Philosopher's Stone.
- Sin City: The district attorney finally gets Marv to confess to the murders actually committed by Kevin and Cardinal Roark (and their murders, which he was guilty of) by turning off the recorder and showing him a picture of his mother in the crosshairs of a sniper rifle. Marv breaks his arm in three places, but signs.
- This is what drives Drake Mallard into retirement in the Darkwing Duck continuation as Negaduck figures out who Darkwing is and attacks his home. Fearful for Gosalyn's safety, he just flat out retires to protect her. When she finds out, she gives him the riot act for his selfish act.
- The Dark Lords of Nerima: In the sequel Ranma opts not to tell the Senshi, who are convinced he's an interdimensional dark lord bent on World Domination, he knows their identities to avoid creating this impression.
- Dirty Sympathy: Kristoph pays the rent for Apollo's apartment, he gives Apollo an unpleasant reminder when he visits that he owns him.
- A Law & Order: UK fanfic that depicted an escaped criminal stalking the team had the criminal in question demonstrate this in chilling fashion by sending Alesha a sympathy card.
- "The Gift (2015)'': Gordo leaves his first gift on the Callums' front door, even though neither of them gave him their address, directly. He overheard it while the Callums' were ordering items to be shipped to their new home.
- In the film Ice Cream Man about a Humanitarian evil ice cream man, the eponymous man uses the exact line: "You little turds are gonna have to realize you can't run from the ice cream man! I know where you live! If you tell anyone, I'll get your mom and dad!"
- In Grosse Pointe Blank, the assassin protagonist tries to convince his psychiatrist to continue seeing him (the psychiatrist freaked out when his patient revealed his profession). The protagonist mentions doctor-patient confidentiality as a reason why their continued visits wouldn't be a problem and then adds, "And besides, I know where you live". Given the protagonist's admitted profession and the fact that he would know the psychiatrist by name, that's not so hard to believe.
- Subtly done in Layer Cake. The protagonist is going to meet his girlfriend at a hotel rendezvous when he gets abducted by a Diabolical Mastermind gangster, and at the end of their "interview", he's casually dropped off at his home, which the other guy wouldn't know unless he'd been keeping close tabs on him.
- Played for Laughs when the protagonist is being threatened by a Serbian gangster; he acts intimidated and agrees to meet him where he lives, "Do you know where that is?" When the Serbian says no, the protagonist hangs up on him.
- In One Hour Photo, after Robin Williams' character gets fired from his job at the One Hour Photo, he shows up one more time to get a roll of film developed. The pictures are all photos of the manager's daughter, in her front yard. Upon seeing these, the manager immediately calls the police.
- Patriot Games: Miller calls Jack Ryan at his home to taunt him over the severe injuries Jack's daughter suffered after Miller's failed attempt to kill Jack's family.
- Fatal Attraction: Alex follows Dan home and clearly continues stalking the family unseen, as proven by her breaking into the house to kill his daughter's pet rabbit, kidnapping said daughter from her school, and breaking into the house again to try and kill his wife.
- The Hobbit: The Desolation of Smaug. Alfrid gives the old "we know where you live" threat to Bard, who calmly responds that it's a small town, so everyone knows where each other lives.
- Best Seller. Detective Meechum has his life saved by a Mysterious Protector, and is not happy when his daughter tells him the same man gave her a lift home, convincing her he was a friend of her father with his intimate knowledge of their family. Later on the Big Bad has two policeman detain the daughter and bring her to him — not as a hostage, but to demonstrate his power and influence if Meechum doesn't cooperate.
- In The Mad Miss Manton, the unknown murderer stabs a knife onto Melsa Manton’s door with her cloak and a threatening letter attached saying, “Next time you’ll be in it.”
- In After the Sunset, local gangster Moret tries to recruit legendary jewel thief Max into doing a job for him. When Max refuses, claiming that he's retired from that life, Moret seems to accept this, but then casually mentions, "I love the view of the water from your house." Max corrects him, saying, "You mean the view of my house from the water". (although this isn't much better, as it still indicates this trope). Moret assures him that the first statement was correct, effectively warning Max not to cross him.
- Jack Rippner from Red Eye gets Lisa to help him assassinate the Secretary for Homeland Security by showing him her father's wallet which he stole from her father's house. If she doesn't help him kill the Secretary by moving him out of one hotel room into the other than her father will be murdered.
- Subverted in Kick-Ass. Right after mob boss Frank D'Amico orders his goons to bring him Kick Ass, our hero is woken in his bedroom by... fellow costumed vigilantes Hit Girl and Big Daddy, who've come to reiterate their request that he not tell anyone about them. "We like you, we just don't trust you." They also point out how ridiculously easy it was to determine his Secret Identity for someone who's likely to draw the hostile attention of both police and criminals.
- Triple 9 (2016). Criminals wordlessly show a bank manager a photograph of his house, then his wife and daughter, to get his cooperation in opening a safety deposit box.
- The Mechanic (2011). Arthur Bishop stops Steve McKenna from killing a carjacker. However before letting the carjacker go, he takes the driver's license from the man's wallet and informs "Raymond" that if there's any comeback on this, he's going to look him up now that he knows his address.
- At the end of Billy Bathgate, gangster Lucky Luciano contemplates killing the protagonist, but points out to Billy that it's hardly necessary, as he knows where not only Billy but all his relatives live.
- Early in Aunt Dimity and the Deep Blue Sea, Bill shows Lori a printout of a threatening email he received earlier that morning, the latest in a series. The note came with recent photos of the cottage, Lori, their nanny Annelise and the twins on their ponies. The text reads:
You came like a thief in the night to cast me into the abyss. You chained me in darkness, but no earthly chains can hold me anymore. I have risen.
Behold, I am coming soon to repay you for what you have done. All that you love will perish. I will strike your children dead and give your wife a like measure of torment and mourning. I have the keys to Death and Hades, and I will blot your name from the book of life forever.
Your nightmare has begun. There is no waking.
- Villains in Discworld tend to try this on Sam Vimes. Always a terrible idea, since he's a Papa Wolf and that acts as a Berserk Button for him.
- In Night Watch Carcer tells Vimes: "I can see your house from here."
- Happens several times in Thud!:
- The dwarves send a suicide squad to assassinate his family... causing him to pursue their sorry asses all the way into Koom Valley, and filling him with so much primal vengeful rage, he almost murders them.
- Two troll enforcers for The Breccia attempt to intimidate Vimes by saying this... right in the middle of the Watch house while surrounded by officers. With the Breccia's boss having explicited such threats were not to happen. Chrysophrase, the aforementioned boss, later apologizes, assuring Vimes the enforcers have been dealt with appropriately, complete with a new rock garden for his troubles (held in a box that couldn't possibly contain an entire troll).
- The Low King of the Dwarves almost pulls this on Vimes in a moment of anger before catching himself and mentioning diplomatically how nice it would be to meet his family. Vimes isn't fooled, but lets it slide.
- In Guards! Guards! it's implied that Lord Vetinari got the Thieves' Guild leaders to agree to his plan to lower the crime rate by legitimizing them, by quietly suggesting that he knew where their loved ones lived. Especially since legitimization meant they now had a fixed abode.
- Late in Lynn Shepherd's 2012 novel The Solitary House, protagonist and investigator Charles Maddox finds his housemaid vomiting in the kitchen, and he learns from another servant that she had been accosted while buying provisions at the markets and a package was added to her basket. The package proves to contain the little finger from Charles' right hand, which had been forcibly amputated in an attack on him several days previously. Charles recognizes the contents ("A second, closer look eradicates all doubt."), and the threat:
The package left in Molly's basket carried more than one message, and the loudest and clearest of them all is that his unseen adversary is closing in. Closing in on Charles, and closing in, now, on all those around him. He could have killed Molly today, if he chose, just as he could have killed Charles on the City Road.
- The Dresden Files novella "The Warrior" features an antagonist who sends Harry photographs of the Carpenter family and their house: not so much "I know where you live" as "I know where your friends live". The characters discuss whether this means the Carpenters are really in danger, or whether they're being threatened to distract Harry from something else.
- In The Client, a young witness is cornered in a hospital elevator by a hit man. After warning him to keep his mouth shut about what he knows, the man drives his point home by showing the boy a family picture which he recognizes as the one his mother keeps on her nightstand.
- Similarly, in the novel Coma, after threatening Susan, the hit man drives home his point by showing her a picture of her little brother and warning her that if she doesn't back off, "I'll have to pay him a visit too."
- In Pact, Blake Thorburn pays a visit to the fiancee of police officer Duncan Behaim, helps her car out of a snowdrift, and gets invited in for food. Duncan immediately comes running, but cannot attack Blake because of Sacred Hospitality, as his wife had offered Blake shelter and food.
- The prologue of Halting State is a transcript of a vaguely threatening job offer, which knows an awful lot about the "applicant" considering he's never contacted them. The prologue title is "We Know Where You Live, We Know Where Your Dog Goes To School".
- In The Girl From The Miracles District, after Nikita goes through multiple hoops and secret passages to reach her hideout, she doesn't even finish bathing before the Big Bad drops an Implied Death Threat on her doorstep.
- Averted in Strega. Burke, an unlicensed private investigator who goes to elaborate steps to hide his identity, is pressured by a would-be client who threatens to turn up at the hotel where he's a permanent resident. This gives Burke pause as only a few people know he lives at that hotel. "Of course, those people are all wrong."
Live Action TV
- A subtle one in the Remington Steele episode "Elegy in Steele": Major Descoine comes to the agency's office, promises Laura and Steele he'll kill them both by noon that day, and leads them on a chase around the city. One surreal stop is a richly-furnished Victorian-looking apartment in an otherwise abandoned building. On looking around, the detectives notice that the framed photographs scattered about the living room show them at work on recent cases (in clearly recognizable stills from previous episodes), and the penny drops:
Steele: He's been following us! The bloody bugger's been spying on us!
Laura: It gives me the creeps.
The Minor: (Enters carrying a loaded tea tray) Oh, "cream," did you say? (Stops as Steele and Laura turn on her, Steel pointing his gun at her) It's right here on the tray.
- Buffy the Vampire Slayer:
- One of the first things Angel does when he turns evil is to go into Buffy's room while she's sleeping, draw a detailed picture of her, and leave it for her to find in the morning.
- And let's not forget Glory, who threatened to kill Buffy's loved ones and make her watch while confronting her in her own living room.
- On the Wolfram & Hart website, if you go to the page to fill out a job application, it simply reads "We know where to contact you. Expect a visit from our recruiters soon."
- Law & Order: UK: James Steele's nemesis practically recites the address of his son's home—"Bradley Street, Edinburgh" in order to intimidate him.
- All versions of Law & Order. A particularly repugnant SVU criminal very casually asks Stabler, "How are Kathy and the kids?" after spending weeks stalking Olivia, knowing not only where she lives, but where she shops/works out/does her laundry, etc., and terrorizing yet another potential victim the same way. Meanwhile on the original program, a defendant admits to killing the victim after the man threatened his wife by greeting her as she returned home from running errands—"Tell him I was this close.", and years later, a thug threatens ADA Alexandra Borgia with the identical statement (eerily Foreshadowing her fate).
- On ER, Luka' s vengeful former patient (he was left permanently disabled due to an error Luka made, kicking off a chain of disastrous events—failed business, failed marriage, etc) encounters his wife in the park while she's playing with their son. He's not threatening at all, instead being very friendly and polite while never revealing who he is. But he does steal the kid's stuffed animal. When he returns it in a supposedly friendly gesture, Luka is frightened at the realization both of this trope and the fact that the man could have easily harmed his wife and son had he wanted to. It doesn't help that a few episodes later, as Luka looks out the window of his apartment, he sees the man standing across the street. And a few episodes after that, his wife returns home only to find the man sitting on the couch as comfortably as if he belongs there.
- On One Life to Live, after Max Holden runs afoul of a Loan Shark. As he scrambles to come up with the money to pay him back, the guy drops by his home for a "friendly" chat with the man's wife. Later, when she mentions, "a friend of yours stopped by", Max panics as he realizes that the man was not-so-subtly threatening to harm his family if he didn't reimburse him.
- Strong Medicine. Incensed when Dylan fails to save their leader, several gang members begin threatening him. He doesn't take it seriously—until a picture of his daughter wearing her hospital volunteer uniform is sent to him. To drive the point home, a bulls-eye is drawn across her head.
- Person of Interest.
The Machine: [via Root] I don't belong to anyone anymore. You, however, are mine. I protect you. The only thing you love lives at 254 Wendell Street, Cambridge, Massachusetts. I guard it, same as I guard you. Do not question my judgment. Do not pursue me or my agents. Trust in me. I am always watching.
- Combined with Even Evil Has Loved Ones in "Aletheia", when the Machine makes it clear it's not going to tolerate the government trying to take control of it.
Finch: The catch, Albert, is that you leave this very second, disappear, and don't show your face for at least a year. Especially not at your mom's house in Queens, where you presently reside.
- In "Prisoners Dilemma", four mercenaries plus John Reese have been captured by the FBI. One of them decides to talk and finger Reese as the Man in the Suit. Harold Finch calls the mercenary with his true name, the address of his family, his mortgage details...and the fact that Finch has just transferred all the money in his offshore account and won't get it back unless he fingers one of his colleagues as the Man in the Suit instead.
- And in "C.O.D.", Finch is dealing with an online black marketeer only known as d3mon8. Or so he believes until...
- In "Pretenders", a Heroic Wannabe is pretending to be a Hard Boiled Detective called Jack Forge. He gets a call from the villains on a stolen phone he's found, demanding to speak to Detective Forge. After hanging up in a panic, he immediately gets a call from the same villains on his workplace phone, asking for him by his real name.
- Murdoch Mysteries:
- Late in "Unfinished Business" (Season 7, Episode 12), Julia gets a photo of her and Murdoch kissing in an alley (which she and viewers recognize happened after they attended a recent opera performance), together with a letter apparently from James Gillies. The letter threatens that if she marries Murdoch, he'll die, and if she tells him about the letter (and the threat), they'll both die. This starts a subplot over the next several episodes in which she tries to resolve the problem herself to keep Murdoch safe. She applies Murdoch's methods and finds the room where the photo was taken. In that room, she also finds a second photo of Murdoch taken inside his office with a second note threatening death if she continues her investigation. It later turns out the photos and threats came from her murdered husband's younger brother Leslie Garland.
- In the two-parter "On the Waterfront", Brackenreid recalls in Flashback a day when his wife Margaret gave directions to two men driving a wagon. The inspector called sharply to his wife from his wheelchair on the front porch, and Margaret didn't seem to understand what he was fussing about. The men were the O'Shea brothers, who had beaten Brackenreid nearly to death (hence his presence at home in the wheelchair). They don't speak to Brackenreid directly, but one of them does tip his hat to the inspector.
- In Day Break, Detweiler leaves no doubt about this when showing Hopper the footage of Rita being shot and then adding images of his sister's family.
- The Sopranos: When Uncle Junior is on trial, some of June's associates find one of the jurors (buying candy for his son, no less) and casually mention details of the trial and of the juror's family, and how glad they are that the juror is doing his civic duty. In the next episode, the jury is hung with a single holdout, leading to a mistrial—and that poor juror is hated by all the others.
- Cracker. In "Men Should Weep", a rapist is assaulting the wives of people he has a grudge against. He threatens a government bureaucrat with this trope, later raping and murdering his wife. When a detective calls in the address to headquarters in the grieving man's presence, he suddenly remembers the threat.
Detective: You must be threatened a lot in this job.Bureaucrat: This one was different.Detective: How?Bureaucrat: He meant it.
- The Professionals. A criminal does this when jury tampering in "A Not Very Civil Civil Servant" (he's also smart enough to include subtle blackmail and bribery as well).
"You've got four kids. I know the roads they cross on their way to school and I know what they look like. And I can be a very dangerous driver. I know the supermarket your wife shops at. So, what I do is, I put a few things in her bag, I call the detective and she's down the road for shop-lifting. You think about it."
- NCIS As Ellie Bishop interrogates a terrorist who she's had dealings in the past:
Terrorist: "I missed you, Ellie."Ellie: "You should have stopped by the office."Terrorist: "I prefer your apartment in the city. How is your husband, Jake? He should really learn to watch his surroundings."
- Happens near the end of Batman: Arkham Origins.
Bane: I'm in your house, Bruce.
- EarthBound: With the two main antagonists. What makes this trope more interesting is the threatening note given to Ness during the epilogue by his neighbor's brother.
- Defense of the Ancients: All-Stars: Played for laughs.
Morphling (killing Tidehunter): "I know where you live, Tidehunter!"
- In Dead Winter, after Monday's rebellion, the mob boss sends hitmen to his parents. His mother poisons them.
- In S.S.D.D "Chris Reed" calls up crime boss Mr. Sweetwater about a certain item his men stole then gives an address, his mother's. Then responds to attempted threats by telling "Sweetwater" he knows everything about him, including his real name.
- In Crimson Dark the pirate Abraham Mengsk responds to Vaegyr Ward disabling his ship by ranting about how he knows where to find his and his wife's families. It turns out to be the wrong move.
- In The Powerpuff Girls episode "Meet The Beat-Alls," Mojo Jojo, Him, Princess Morbucks and Fuzzy Lumpkins all converge at the Powerpuffs' home and argue over who is going to destroy them.
- During her 1975 trial for attempting to kill US President Gerald Ford, Manson Family member Lynette "Squeaky" Fromme threatened the judge, mentioning the piano in the front room of his house. As noted on the April, 25, 2014 edition of The Rachel Maddow Show, the judge's security detail was increased after that. The incident was also mentioned in a panel discussion among some of the trial's participants (at about the 50-minute mark).
- The September 17, 2014 edition of The Rachel Maddow Show opened with a story on an otherwise-slickly produced ISIS video that included some jerky cell phone video of the White House. Maddow hangs the lampshade:
''But they`re good at trying to scare us, right? They don`t just showstock footage of the White House or some post card picture of the WhiteHouse. They instead choose footage of the White House that maybe you mighttake yourself on your cell phone if you were driving past the White House,which then makes it extra scary when it comes from ISIS.''This is the footage they show of the White House. It`s like drive-by,not very professional footage. It makes you wonder, hmm, how did theyshoot this? Is ISIS casing the White House? Are they here?''That`s the feeling they`re trying to create, right? They`re here,they`re coming for us. This is a war between the United States of Americaand ISIS.''
- As detailed in Gerald Posner's 2015 book God's Bankers, Italian businessman Licio Gelli was head of the underground Masonic lodge Propaganda Due. Among the documents and photographs found in the 1981 police search of his office was a photograph of a naked Pope John Paul II sunning himself by a swimming pool. It was later learned that Gelli had shown the photo to others, drawing attention to the lax papal security: "If it's possible to take these pictures of the Pope, imagine how easy it is to shoot him."