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"I remember her. She bumped into the Titanic once and sank it!"

Not to be confused with removing an ice superpower from someone who already has one.

"Defrosting the Ice Queen" has been a common goal of many a romance hero since the dawn of time. Basically you have a woman (it's almost always a woman) who has a cold demeanor, usually to everyone, sometimes just to the hero.

Cold demeanor can mean anything from Rich Bitch, to haughty and proud, to Emotionless Girl, to being a Jerk Ass. Often she's a Broken Bird or has a Freudian Excuse. Occasionally, she has —legitimately or illegitimately — misunderstood the hero. Over the story, the hero successfully melts the Ice Queen's cold cold heart, giving her character development into a nicer character. (Jerk Ass to Jerk With A Heart Of Gold, Rich Bitch to The Ojou, etc.)

Usually it's a romance story that is wish fulfillment for both men (that girl doesn't hate me, she's just waiting for me to prove my love is true) and women (I'm not really a bitch, I'm just misunderstood). Occasionally it's not romantic, instead being a buddy tale of the Power Of Friendship. Either way it can be a morality tale,

Sometimes it's subverted by having the defroster be a faker, who of course now breaks the former Ice Queen's heart, sending her back into her shell. Though usually that's played as a Double Subversion with the hero Becoming The Mask, and deciding he really does like the Ice Queen after all. Seen It A Million Times. (Am I really the only person who remembers all those bad highschool romance movies with the Jerk Jock taking a bet that he could "defrost the Ice Queen" only for him to then decide he really liked her after all and he wanted a real romance instead of the fake one?)

Sister trope to Tsundere since Tsundere actually used to mean this, but over time, that term has mutated to mean a character with both a sweet side and a temper.

Very common in movies. Reversal of gender roles in this trope is also extremely common; see All Girls Want Bad Boys and Cleolinda Jones' theory about the ultimate female fantasy.

Compare: Tsundere, Kuudere, Jerk With A Heart Of Gold, Jerkass Woobie, Broken Bird, Lady Of War and The Woman Wearing The Queenly Mask. Overlaps with Morality Pet. Dont You Dare Pity Me may come into play in the early stages.


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