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SamCurt Since: Jan, 2001
#1: Jul 26th 2023 at 9:41:04 PM

The description of Freakiness Shame starts with "[a] character has some fantastical characteristic, such as wings, horns, or a tail, of which they are deeply ashamed[,]" a definition that has been consistently used in the description. This trope was formerly known as "But Your Wings Are Beautiful," referring to the example in Negima! Magister Negi Magi. Yet, I noticed there're a few examples involving relatively abnormal, but still humanly possible, features. Are these examples within scope? Some of these examples are listed below; the features in question are bolded by me.


    Anime & Manga 
  • Black Butler: Madame Red hated her red hair... until Earl Phantomhive (Ciel's father) told her he liked it. That it was beautiful, and really suits her. Unfortunately for her, he still chooses to marry her older sister...
  • Case Closed: It's revealed that one of Dr. Agasa's childhood friends was a half-Japanese girl named Fusae Campbell Kinoshita. She was very self-conscious of her hair color; her fondest memory of her childhood is Dr. Agasa claiming that he liked her hair.
  • Referred to in Penguindrum. Yuri Tokikago was once heavily scarred thanks to the physical abuse that she got from her Mad Artist father, and often was seen covered in bandages. Out of all the people that know about her scars, only Momoka Oginome wasn't either shocked or repulsed and still found Yuri to be beautiful no matter what.
  • Trigun: Meryl and Millie accidentally walk in on Vash with his shirt off, and shockingly learn that his entire body is Covered with Scars due to his Actual Pacifist lifestyle. He laments that it's not the kind of thing he wants girls to see, as he believes it would scare them, but Meryl sheepishly disagrees.

    Comic Books 
  • To a certain extent, this applies to Mina's extensive, horrific scars in The League of Extraordinary Gentlemen, the legacy of being attacked by Dracula. She's deeply ashamed by them and covers them with a scarf. She's convinced Allan is repulsed and only relaxes when he says they're part of what makes her special.

    Films — Live-Action 
  • Ready Player One (2018): Zig-zagged and played with. Samantha believes herself ugly because of a birthmark on her face that is supposed to be disfiguring but really just looks like a port-wine stain covering her right eye. She covers half her face with her long, red hair and acts as if she were actually heavily disfigured. With some encouragement from the male protagonist, she gets over it, wearing her port-wine stain with pride and believing it actually adds to her beauty.
  • In Shallow Hal, Hal's even more shallow and sexist friend reveals he was born with a "tail" (slight extension of the spine) that's he's very embarrassed about. In the end, he finds a woman that considers it adorable. He's capable of wagging it back and forth, which reminds her of a dog, and she loves dogs. They walk off together, with his "tail" wagging happily under his clothes.

    Literature 
  • Anita Blake: Asher, like in the example above, hates his scars. Anita has no problem with them, especially in sexual situations. They're "just another texture to play with" or something along those lines.
  • Another: The first time Mei shows Kouichi what is under her eyepatch, he is already somewhat unnerved and confused, but the second time she shows him, he remarks that the fake eye her mother made is oddly beautiful, and that she should go without the eyepatch more often.
  • Cira of A Brother's Price has an obviously scarred face and is otherwise Covered with Scars. When Jerin first sees her he thinks the scars give her otherwise plain face character. Later she confesses her belief that she's repulsive thanks to said scars. Her lover refused to touch her after she was scarred. Jerin feels differently. Good thing, too, since she turns out to be one of his wives under her real identity, Princess Halley.
  • In Dennis Lehane's Darkness Take My Hand, protagonist/narrator Patrick Kenzie has a scar across his stomach from when his abusive father pressed a hot iron onto him; his girlfriend says she "loves" it because it's a constant reminder that Patrick turned out different from his father.
  • My Next Life as a Villainess: All Routes Lead to Doom!: Sophia was often bullied and said to be cursed due to her being an albino. Catarina finds these very same features to be beautiful (even going so far as to compare her bleach white hair to silk), which quickly endears her to both Sophia and her older brother Nicol.
  • In Warrior Cats, Brightheart feels like this after a dog attack gouges out her eye and leaves half her face bald and scarred. Cloudtail, her mate, insists that she's still beautiful and delivers a Death Glare to anyone who would indicate otherwise. In later books, younger cats who have grown up knowing Brightheart remark that they don't even notice the scars, and are a bit surprised when cats from other Clans point them out. By that point, Brightheart has made peace with her appearance, though she still flinches when one young kitten refers to her as "that ugly cat".
  • Wicked Lovely: Niall thinks that his excessive scarring is unattractive. Leslie (and the fangirls) disagree with him.

    Live-Action TV 
  • In an episode of Andy Richter Controls the Universe, Keith is ashamed to tell Wendy about his small feet. She only convinces him that it can be a good thing when it enables him to go out on a window ledge and rescue a cat.
  • On Being Human, George and Nina bond over their shared self-image problems - Nina has horrible burns on her abdomen from an unexplained incident in her past, and George... is a werewolf. Neither quite goes to the extreme of calling each other's scars beautiful, but their revealing and accepting them is a heartwarming moment.
  • On Law & Order: SVU a guy finds women with one missing leg very attractive (his secretary is missing a leg due to cancer and he paid a few prostitutes so that he could cut one of theirs off; unfortunately for the last one he's a dentist, not a surgeon; sadly the person who caused this attraction his mother, who when he was a teen was disabled in a car accident that also killed his father didn't feel the same way.
  • In a sketch on Saturday Night Live guest host Woody Harrelson and the guys are at the beach. He encourages the others to take their shirts off to enjoy the sun, but they all have freakishnesses to be ashamed of: weight, hairiness, outie belly button, Man Boobs, external baboon heart. He talks each of them into taking their shirts off and being proud of who they are, but everyone else on the beach is squicked out by them.

I think I'd end with this media category. There should be enough examples—not to mention the trope page even has a Real Life folder!

Edited by SamCurt on Jul 26th 2023 at 9:46:06 AM

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MorganWick (Elder Troper)
#2: Jul 26th 2023 at 11:30:39 PM

Notably, there was some question as to whether or not mundane freakiness counted even in the original YKTTW, before it obtained its current name (which appears to have been a Fast Eddie fiat).

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#3: Jul 27th 2023 at 1:55:56 PM

According to the description, part of the trope is "Later, some other character (commonly, her love interest) catches a glimpse of these and assures the character that their wings, or horns, or tail, or whatever, are not in fact ugly but very attractive." The original trope name, But Your Wings Are Beautiful, reflects this. "Freakiness Shame" implies a much broader definition.

BlackMage43 Since: Jun, 2014 Relationship Status: Armed with the Power of Love
#4: Jul 27th 2023 at 5:23:35 PM

Given we have Appearance Angst, I think it makes sense to keep Freakiness Shame limited to fantastical.

A lot of those examples are based on scars and likely fit under Scars Are Ugly.

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#5: Jul 27th 2023 at 5:29:04 PM

But Your Wings Are Beautiful predates Appearance Angst and is more specific so I don't think we have to limit to fantastic examples but if it's less confusing that way we can. I think mundane features can count if they look "freakish" in some way to others.

The focal point of the trope is that the character has a physical feature they think is ugly but someone else finds it beautiful.

Edited by MacronNotes on Jul 27th 2023 at 9:26:31 AM

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BlackMage43 Since: Jun, 2014 Relationship Status: Armed with the Power of Love
#6: Jul 27th 2023 at 6:25:29 PM

The focal point of the trope is that the character has a physical feature they think is ugly but someone else find it beautiful.

True, the third paragraph and the name focused so much on the freakiness aspect that it threw me off. If that's the focal point, then I agree with not just limiting it to fantastical. But it'd probably be better if we could rewrite it a bit to make that clear.

(I also think Twiddler's right that the original name illustrated the trope better.)

SamCurt Since: Jan, 2001
#7: Jul 27th 2023 at 8:02:19 PM

The focal point of the trope is that the character has a physical feature they think is ugly but someone else finds it beautiful.
If the most important point is "someone else finds it beautiful", then the fantastical requirement might be overly artificial—the mundane/fantastic distinction is important in some cases, but under this interpretation, it's just a feature the character considers ugly or freakish.

But then, changing the definition needs TRS... but under what reason? It can be counted as "heavy misuse," but for that situation "expand to misuse" and "split tropes" are both possible solutions.

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#8: Jul 27th 2023 at 8:07:36 PM

"Reversing Eddie fiat" is IMO a justification in and of itself, TBH, if it's true that's what actually happened - I remember the original name (and agree that it was probably more clearly distinguished from other tropes) but not how the rename occurred.

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#9: Jul 27th 2023 at 8:13:24 PM

...Eddie's fiat crops up in the weirdest places sometimes, don't it?

Yeah, this trope name is not that indicative.

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#10: Jul 27th 2023 at 8:45:08 PM

The old name wasn't that great either (and I think it was changed because it sounded like dialogue) but it did indicate what the trope was about more than the current name does.

A wick check to see how this trope is used on the wiki might be warranted..

Edited by MacronNotes on Jul 27th 2023 at 1:15:31 PM

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MorganWick (Elder Troper)
#12: Jul 27th 2023 at 11:03:20 PM

I got the sense that the new name was an Eddie fiat from the discussion page which has a lengthy discussion of the name change from after the fact; Septimus Heap defended the change then as getting away from dialogue titles. I don't think any intentional redefinition happened at the time.

SamCurt Since: Jan, 2001
#13: Jul 29th 2023 at 10:51:22 AM

An update on the wick check: After checking 16 wicks (out of 52), I can say there might be a case to change the title—a lot of the sample examples in the Characters/ namespace is just "Alice feels ashamed of her [fantastical feature]."

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#14: Jul 29th 2023 at 11:24:18 AM

[up] Once you're done with the wick check, and assuming the pattern stays, you can add it to the TRS Queue arguing for that.

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SamCurt Since: Jan, 2001
#15: Aug 6th 2023 at 12:31:08 AM

Wick check finished, and the "no attractiveness statement" misuse turns out to be very high, at 43%, more than twice of the correct use (20.75%). I have filed this for TRS Queue.

In the meantime, please check Sandbox.Freakiness Wick Check for the complete wick check report.

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