It doesn't really bother me that much. Tedd:
did you try to weasel out of the party? Elliot:
Because it sounds like one big awkward moment.
A big trend in modern TV comedy: shows where the humour mostly comes from placing characters in the most embarrassing situations possible, or having them say the most awkward or offensive thing possible at all times. Often uses documentary feel to heighten the naturalism and increase the cringe, or has actors in character interacting with an unsuspecting public. Comedy that gives you second-hand shame. Comedy you have to watch through the gaps between your fingers.
Often this is mollified by the characters being oblivious to the embarrassment
they should be feeling. Sometimes though, all the characters are acutely aware of their humiliation, which can make it so much worse. Or worse yet, there's a single audience surrogate
character who realizes how humiliated everyone should be feeling, while everyone else remains oblivious.
Some shows specialize in this sort of humor. Others include a scene of it here or there, largely avoiding it. Still others make this sort of thing a sort of Running Gag
, as with taking a character who can't act and requiring them to play a part for the good of the team — repeatedly.
German, the language
that brought you "Schadenfreude"
, has developed the term "Fremdschämen" ("vicarious shame/embarrassment") to cover this phenomenon.
See also Crosses the Line Twice
, where the same basic material is used, but more to make people laugh than to make them uncomfortable.
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- Ben Stiller; look at every role he's played dating back to his own show, both as host and in every one of his skits.
- In the late '60s and the '70s, German comedian Loriot basically created his entire career completely on sketches about uptight middle class people who get into awkward situations and make everything worse by being completely oblivious about it. It becomes much more bearable by the fact, that usually nobody seems to be aware that the situations should be awkward and everyone continues as if everything would be fine. As a parody of how people of those decades refused to allow any loss of face to the point where it got painful, his show got massively popular. As an example, "German for Foreigners", or known to most people as "This is my briefcase", or "People on a plane".
- Louis C.K.; Don't even try to watch any of his shows if you are even slightly sensitive to this kind of thing.
- The My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic fic "Naked Singularity". It's about Twilight writing a pornographic story involving expys of her and a few of her friends. A lot of the humor comes from the science allusions and technobabble that makes the story indecipherable. Then she reads it to a coffee shop with Celestia, Twilight's parents, a class of schoolchildren...
- Bridesmaids: when the main character is getting the attention of a cop who doesn't want to acknowledge her, among numerous other examples.
- Meet the Parents; the entire movie and most of the sequels.
- Death at a Funeral. Alan Tudyk at a funeral + acid - clothing = cringe comedy gold.
- Frances Ha is fairly low-key Cringe Comedy, but much of the film's humour nevertheless consists of this. The main character enacts her eccentricities in inappropriate situations, e.g. by trying to inaugurate someone as a new BFF by one-sidedly play-fighting with her. In general, Frances' failure to fit in with the adult world is a source of much of the film's comedy.
- Any Sacha Baron Cohen film lives on this trope. They have the added bonus that most of the "characters" are real people who don't know they're dealing with an actor, and are therefore cringing even more than we are. First made famous by Borat, where the titular character does things like ask a car dealer whether a car is good for running over Jews, sings the lyrics to his national anthem to the tune of the Star Spangled Banner (at a rodeo!), and defecates in the river in public view.
- Ron Burgundy in the Anchorman series. He cannot shut up to save his life, no matter how awkward the atmosphere gets while he's talking.
- Charlie Runkle's role on Californication. Examples include his masturbation at work habit becoming known through a viral video and was taken to a new low (or high perhaps) with his season 6 plot about pretending to be gay to sign a client.
- The IT Crowd: One episode has Roy go underneath a woman's desk to plug in her computer. She comes back to sit at her desk and he ends up trapped since he couldn't possibly get out without looking like a pervert.
- Malcolm in the Middle. One famous example is Malcolm flipping out in front of a bunch of his friends and the girl he likes at his mother who was the 'chaperone' for them at a bowling alley, because he sucks at the game. He walks down the lane to the pins, throws it and still misses.
- A episode of House had Chase making a Your Mom joke to Foreman as a witty comeback. Some fans couldn't even watch the ensuing train wreck.
- The Stargate Atlantis episode "Duet" has Rodney McKay on a dinner date. Doesn't sound so bad, except: a) Rodney is naturally awkward in social situations, especially when there is a woman involved; and b) Rodney has a female consciousness in his head at this point, giving him dating advice in a voice only he can hear.
- The Tom Green Show; Blending Black Comedy and Surreal Humor, Tom would go out of his way to create the most embarrassing, and often disturbing, situations possible for his sidekick Glenn Humplik, random people on the street, audience members, and even his own parents. Examples including airbrushing two very Not Safe for Work lesbians on the hood of his dad's car, and hiding an elaborate contraption under his lab coat while claiming that he was converting grape juice to pee...on a public bench.
- A lot of the humor in It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia comes from seeing the gang's plans fall flat, notably in "The Gang Wrestles for the Troops"
- Saturday Night Live, especially from the 1990s to now (the '70s and '80s episodes often drift in and out of cringe comedy). Some examples include: the "Canteen Boy Gets Molested" sketch, a lot of the sketches based on real world awkward situations, and, of course, this.
- Impractical Jokers has a lot of this. Half of the show is the guys laughing at what they've come up with, and their victim's reaction to what he has to do, which are mostly funny. When they are actually going through with it, however, awkwardness galore.
- For a supposedly serious show, Smallville indulges in this. For whatever reason, about half of them are Clark's painfully awkward interactions with women, and half of those are with Chloe.
- Most iterations of The Office feature this type of humor. Examples from the most famous versions of the series include:
- Curb Your Enthusiasm uses this as the primary source of humor. One of the milder examples is when main character Larry David attempts to get out of jury duty.
- The Michael J Fox Show, though possibly unintentionally. One notable example is Mike's neighbor saying that he "doesn't know what it's like to struggle" as Mike is in the background, struggling to open a jar that his 10 year old opens with ease.
- Girls has never been a series to shy away from cringe humor, but Marnie's cover of Kanye West's "Stronger" is one of the most uncomfortable points of comedy in the series. All the more so due to the fact that she's completely unaware of what a complete ass she's made of herself.
- Most episodes of Frasier run on this trope, often due to the Snowball Lie or Mistaken for Index exploding out of proportion, and the characters continuously digging themselves deeper.
- The Inbetweeners makes you cringe very often. Even in the first episode, where Will doesn't have ID in a pub surrounded by nearly his whole school year. He goes on a rant about how everyone in the pub is under-aged, and gets them all kicked out.
- Parks and Recreation is usually upbeat, but the moment where Leslie (along with several members of her team) walks out onto an ice skating rink, only to find her red carpet isn't long enough is this. It also involves a three legged dog that starts to pee on Ron, everyone slipping and falling, and then when she gets to the stage, it has no stairs. As this happens, the song "Get on your feet" by Gloria Estefan starts and repeats several times.
- Extras is particularly brutal with this. When one woman on the set brings her sister (who has Cerebal Palsy) to the set, Andy makes a joke that she looks drunk and "mental", right in front of her sister. He manages to save this one, though. There are other scenes that are much, much worse.
- Friends dabbled in this from time to time, usually at Ross's expense.
- Much of the humor of The Comeback is this.
- The Opie & Anthony Show: Everything from stomping on a homeless man's cake to playing laugh tracks behind a caller mentioning the death of a relative. They even embraced the term "Cringe Radio" for their type of show.
- While That Guy with the Glasses doesn't usually have this, The Nostalgia Chick's first "Thanks For The Feedback" — where she goes on a date with the Critic — is horrifying in awkwardness.
- Daxflame's videos tend to evoke cringing in viewers through his recounts of awkward social interactions and his total obliviousness to his own social insensitivities.
- Cringe Channel, to be found here, aggregates unintentional cringe comedy from all corners of the internet. Even though this is a definite case of laughing at the given subject in almost all instances, certain postings and many commentators take a more aggressive and transparently mean-spirited approach towards their subjects.
- The /r/cringe subreddit is almost identical, right down to the accusations of bullying.
- Know Your Meme has a meme and image gallery called "Cringeworthy" that collected various instances of embarrassing and stupid things, but the addition of new images was locked after people started using it for Complaining About Shows You Don't Like (by adding images that were only the logo of things they disliked) and spamming the gallery with several parodies of other images (of note are the many, many parodies of a poor drawing of The Rake saying "Time to killed people!" and of some Sonic Original Characters called Jake and Maribelle. While the original images were cringeworthy, the parodies were not)
- Game Grumps can tend delve into this when talking about Dan's past, especially dating.
- Any of Vat19's videos involving Confection Perfection are examples of this.
- Asperchu becomes this once you realize that CWC becomes a rampaging self-parody when he's turned into a fictional drawing, with literally no exaggeration whatsoever.
- El Goonish Shive, despite providing the page quote, averts this in the end. The party discussed turns out to be one big Heartwarming Moment in the end.
- Much of the humor in Whomp! is centered around the main character Ronnie and his debilitating social awkwardness, as indicated here.
- Pathetic Geek Stories runs on it, as it's based on real life embarrassing stories sent in by readers.
- This story from Hyperbole and a Half becomes this trope the closer to the end you get, until it becomes full blown embarassing.
- Older South Park episodes, and some newer ones rely on this heavily. Lampshaded in "Funnybot", where the title character even uses "Awkward!" as his catchphrase. The boys have to stop him from telling the "Last Joke Ever," in which he destroys the entire human race becaues it's the most awkward thing possible. Appropriately enough, Funnybot was designed by the gallows-humor-obsessed Germans.
- The main point of all those "Tell Your Most Embarrassing Moment" sections in every teenage girl's magazine ever.
- Referenced in relation to Sarah Palin 's Katie Couric interview in the book Going Rogue.