My friend's got a girlfriend and he hates that bitch.The Unwanted Spouse is a character, usually in an Accidental Marriage, Arranged Marriage, or Shotgun Wedding, who is completely unwanted by his/her spouse, so much so that it becomes a plot point. This character can be heroic—unhappily married to a villain, and made so miserable by the marriage that he/she turns around and betrays him/her, joining the heroes—or villains (often the case if she's the woman standing between the story's two main lovers). This character is female more often than male. Note that when an action hero's wife is like this, she usually ends up Dying for the Ship. Not to be confused with The Masochism Tango, which describes a couple who hate each other but ultimately choose to remain married.
He tells me every day.
He says: "Man, I really got to lose my chick
In the worst kind of way."
He tells me every day.
He says: "Man, I really got to lose my chick
In the worst kind of way."
— The Offspring, "Why Don't You Get A Job?''
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Anime & Manga
- Ranma of Ranma Ĺ has no unwanted spouse but a dozen unwanted fiancées, and several storylines revolve around getting rid of the majority of them.
- As far as Shampoo and Cologne are concerned, Shampoo is already married to Ranma per the traditions of her village (he defeated her in a fight), all they need is to have an official ceremony for him to admit it too. Shampoo even outright states that they're married in her home village's newspaper.
- Urusei Yatsura, another series by Rumiko Takahashi, centers on a young man who accidentally marries an alien princess. He wants someone else. Anyone else.
- The Anime Final Approach goes beyond using this for characters — it actually uses it as plots.
- In Rizelmine, the main character is the one with an unwanted wife. He is 100% positive that, no matter what she says, he never got married to anyone.
- In Gankutsuou Eugenie warmed up to the idea of being in an Arranged Marriage with Albert, but her father eventually decided to cancel the engagement and arrange for her to marry Andrea instead, whom Eugenie did not like at all. Not to mention that he's her half-brother.
- Used for laughs in Baka and Test: Summon the Beasts. Shouko repeatedly tells her former Only Friend Yuuji that she wants to marry him, and tries forcing him to sign marriage papers, and threatens to kill/hurt him if he refuses. She often goes into Yandere/Clingy Jealous Girl mode if other girls are around him, or she feels he's getting a little too friendly with male friends.
- Asayo Katsuragi from Sakura Gari is a very tragic case. Not only her husband Tomohiko is obsessed with lead male Souma, but he actually is very abusive to her. And it's hinted that theirs was an Arranged Marriage since her father is the onwer of the hospital he works in.
- King Hodr to Sigyn in Break Blade. Unlike most examples, Sigyn doesn't hate her husband, but married in order to make his best friend, Rygart, the one she actually loves, to do something about it. She tried to love her husband at one point, but failed to. Hodr, despite that he clearly loves her, knows full well she thinks of him as nothing more than a friend, which is what helps him agree to a divorce.
- In Tokyo Ghoul:Re, Matsuri Washuu is unhappily married to a woman that he describes as "dull" and completely uninteresting. It was an Arranged Marriage that he actively tried to avoid, spending a decade living in Germany and only writing to his fiancee when forced to do so. The lack of interest seems to be mutual, since she admits she doesn't really understand what he does for a living and doesn't really care to learn. Their marriage was purely a political matter, solidifying ties between the Washuu Clan and another influential family.
- Ava Lord in Sin City starts off hating her mafia-tied husband and begs Dwight to do something about it. He does but it turns out to be a setup for Ava to inherit her husband's estate.
- In Nexus The entire focal point of Jack and Knock Outís bond was that it was an accident. Jack even tries to figure out a way to break it without killing himself.
- In the Rumpelstiltskin retelling The Dressmaker Queen, the main character Jenny Thompson is forced into an unhappy marriage with the cruel King Gray. He returns to his many mistresses, only wanting Jenny to pump out an heir as quickly as possible. She's trapped in an unhappy marriage, unable to be with anyone else.
- Played with in The Dark Knight fanfiction Question of Honor where Bruce marries a friend to get her out of her wartorn homeland. They only plan to stay together long enough for her to earn a right to stay in the States then get the marriage annulled. As he's still Batman, he doesn't have much to do with her at first until they do manage to fall in love.
- Ragyou is this to her husband in Kiryuuin Chronicles and he vice versa, for a good reason, considering that A) he's abusive and, B) due to being pregnant (by someone else) with her daughter, Satsuki, she was forced into this marriage by her family and it was either that or be disowned.
- Isabella of France falls (somewhat) into the heroic category in Braveheart when her awful marriage and clear unwanted status leads her into the arms of William Wallace...and into literally bitching Longshanks to death at the end of the film.
- In The Joy Luck Club, we get two unwanted spouses:
- Lindo is put into an Arranged Marriage at the age of 16 to a 12-year-old boy. Neither of them wants the other, and the situation is ultimately resolved quite humorously.
- Ying-Ying, on the other hand, is the abused and unwanted wife of a man she thought she'd be happy with.
- Wyatt Earp's laudanum-addicted wife in Tombstone is another heroic example.
- This was essentially the plot of the Eddie Murphy film Norbit.
- Sita in Deepa Mehta's film Fire. The movie opens with her on the honeymoon of her arranged marriage to Jatin, who remains involved with his girlfriend Julie. The trope also manifests, albeit with a twist, in the character of Radha - her husband loves her but because she's infertile and he's deeply religious, refuses to have sex with her and pretty much keeps her around to test his devotion. He doesn't want to get rid of her, but she's deeply unhappy that he doesn't want her as a wife.
- The Roseanne Barr comedy She Devil is a revenge story from the perspective of the Unwanted Spouse.
- Carry On Henry posits that King Henry VIII (Sid James) had another wife (Joan Sims), a garlic loving wife he alternately wanted and unwanted as the political climate changed around him.
- Abusive, controlling, big baby of a husband Earl in Waitress. The whole movie is about the protagonist trying to get away from him.
- Katharine in the film version of Anne of the Thousand Days. (She is mentioned in the play, but does not appear.)
- In Sullivan's Travels, Sullivan is unhappily married to a shrew whom he married on the advice of his business manager. When it's believed Sullivan is dead his wife immediately marries her lover... that business manager. Which is good news for Sullivan when he turns up alive, as he now has every right to divorce her and settle down with his love interest.
- Jane Parker of The Other Boleyn Girl is the deeply unwanted wife of George Boleyn, and often creates plot-relevant mischief to alleviate her marital boredom and unhappiness.
- Also in The Other Boleyn Girl, Catherine of Aragon is downright martyred as Henry VIII's unwanted spouse that he spends half the book trying to get rid of.
- Interestingly, both are historical trufax (though there was a bit more to Catherine's story then just being unwanted)
- Also in The Other Boleyn Girl, Catherine of Aragon is downright martyred as Henry VIII's unwanted spouse that he spends half the book trying to get rid of.
- Prince Dolph in the Xanth novel Isle of View has two fiancées. He is under an obligation to marry them, but he can't marry both, and the one he wants to marry isn't in love with him. The girl he doesn't love will die if he doesn't marry her. Fortunately Dolph and his fiancées are under-age so there's time to sort the mess out.
- In the Sword of Truth book, Temple of the Winds, Nadine spends most of the story as a Clingy Jealous Girl, only to become an Unwanted Spouse near the end.
- And then there's Du Chaillu, who declares herself to be Richard's wife in the second book (part of a Prophecy), and follows him around in the fifth book.
- In With a Tangled Skein, Niobe has an Arranged Marriage to Cedric, a handsome, strong and highly intelligent man who is a few years younger than she is. Due to his youth, she is not at all happy. Later, she completely changes her mind about him.
- Mr. Rochester's literally insane wife in Jane Eyre.
- In the novel The Princess Bride (rather than the movie), Prince Humperdinck is marrying Buttercup purely because he's going to be king and he'll "have to." In both the book and the movie, he's looking quite forward to killing her on their wedding night. Give him credit, in the book he intended to marry the princess of Guilder, but she turned out to be bald.
- A Rare Male Example exists in the Harry Potter series, though more implied than actual. Rudolphous Lestrange is so unwanted by his wife, Bellatrix (who, according to Word of God, is actually in love with Voldemort) that he only appears during the trial in Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire, along with his brother, Bellatrix and Barty Crouch Jr. but he's so unimportant that the narration never even tells us which Lestrange man he was, and he has no lines. Judging by the fact that the Blacks are aristocratic pure-blood fanatics it was probably an Arranged Marriage.
- A couple of unwanted marriages are in A Song of Ice and Fire:
- Cersei and Robert, who would have both preferred to marry people who were by that point dead (Rhaegar Targaryen and Lyanna Stark, respectively) but Cersei at least tried to make it work until Robert mistakenly called her Lyanna on their wedding night, to the point that later she conceived her children via her twin brother instead of him and had a hand in his death.
- Later, Sansa and Tyrion. Neither want it, although Tyrion is willing to try and make it work while Sansa just retreats behind her Stepford Smiler mask.
- In the backstory Aerys and Rhaella Targaryen were also this in addition to being brother and sister forced to marry to keep their bloodline pure. They both would have vastly preferred to marry Joanna Lannister (the wife of Aerys' hand Tywin, whom he coveted) and Bonifer Hasty, respectively, and they resented the arrangement since their own father and grandfather had instead been able to Marry for Love. While there was no love lost between them on their wedding day the birth of Rhaegar seems to have improved it somewhat, but then Aerys went insane and pushed it into Domestic Abuse territory, and Jaime Lannister recounts how Aerys would viciously rape her after he had burned someone and poor Rhaella looked like she'd been savaged by an animal afterwards.
- While the relationship was by all accounts far better than his parents', Rhaegar himself is hinted to have felt this way about his wife Elia, since Daenerys thinks it says a lot when Barristan Selmy says Rhaegar was only "fond" of her. If so it might help explain why Rhaegar took such an uncharacteristically reckless action as allegedly kidnapping Lyanna Stark while still married to Elia and in the process kickstarted the civil war that ultimately brought down the dynasty.
- Sarima in Wicked: The Life and Times of the Wicked Witch of the West.
- This one works both ways. They were promised to each other as children without even meeting each other, so she doesn't really want Fiyero either.
- Lillian Rearden in Atlas Shrugged.
- The Bible: How's this for an example? You get a guy named Jacob who is working for his uncle Laban. (You probably see where this is going, don't you?) He notices his daughter Rachel, who is quite beautiful...enough so for Jacob to offer to work seven years for Laban in order to marry Rachel (It Makes Sense in Context). He does the work, gets married and learns (after the fact) that he just got hitched to Rachel's decidedly less attractive sister, Leah. And then he works seven more years to get Rachel.
- Subverted in Dragon Bones, where the man who shares the king's bed is married. One would expect his wife to be an unwanted spouse, in an Arranged Marriage. However, Garranon is quite fond of his wife. King Jakoven, on the other hand, doesn't seem to like his wife at all, but as he can keep a lover on the side, he's not bothered by it.
- In The Emigrants this trope is the reason why Jonas Petter emigrates to America.
- In the Horatio Hornblower series, the main character marries Maria, a girl he considers a bit silly and overly emotional, out of guilt, because he can't bear to hurt her feelings by turning down her largely unwanted affections. He spends as much time at sea avoiding her as possible and sets himself up for misery at home by never once correcting her on any of her habits that annoy him, such as calling him "Horry" or cooking food he doesn't like.
- Faye Weldon's novel, 'The Life and Loves of a She-Devil' (source of the Roseanne Barr movie mentioned, and an English miniseries with that title), tells the sometimes funny, often disturbing, story of the title character's revenge on her husband.
- In Thorn In My Heart, based off the first part of the biblical story of Jacob, Jamie McKie's uncle Logan pulls a Bride and Switch on him, getting the Church Council to declare Jamie legally married to Logan's elder daughter Leona rather than her sister Rose. Jamie's initial reaction is to ignore Leona completely, even after she discovers that she is pregnant with his child. Jamie eventually moves past his anger and learns to love Leona. However, at the end of the book, Rose's machinations cause the Church Council to reverse their decision and declare Jamie married to Rose and not to Leona. The second book, Fair Is The Rose, opens with Jamie treating Rose with just as much coldness and anger as he had initially treated Leona with.
- I, Claudius presents Claudius' marriage to his first wife Urgulanilla as this, with neither being thrilled when they're paired off as a favor to Urgulanilla's grandmother, who's a friend of Claudius' grandmother Livia, and the two women mock them both for their unusual appearances (Claudius is crippled while Urgulanilla is a notably mannish looking woman). They stay together just long enough to have a child and then pretty much go on to live separate lives. Claudius actually says that there's so little emotion between them that he can't even say they were unhappy, and when he divorces her out of suspicion she was part of a murder plot and because she had a child with a slave she doesn't contest the charge. Claudius in turn goes out of his way to spare the baby by swapping it out with a stillborn child instead of exposing it as is his right as a cuckolded husband, showing he doesn't feel any ill will towards her either. Ironically of all of Claudius' wives she's the only one who's never openly cruel or manipulative to him, and writes in her will after they're divorced that she knows he's not the idiot everyone thinks he is.
- A Brother's Price has Jerin as the sort-of unwanted husband to Trini. She only agreed to marry him to prevent him from getting married into a family she is convinced is evil. His sweet personality eventually convinces her that he was a good choice for a husband, after all.
- Cyber Joly Drim starts with the protagonist avoiding sex with her husband. Odd in that they married for love - she simply never expected him to become such a bore afterwards.
- Seems to be almost SOP among High Lords in Alera. Plot significant examples are Gaius Caria, the ignored and unwanted wife of the First Lord; and Antillus Dorotea the downright despised wife of High Lord Antillus. Rejection turns both women into scheming, murdering bi—es.
- Wu Fengmo accedes willingly to an arranged marriage with Kang Linyi only to find they have nothing in common. He goes to America to study and falls seriously in love with an American girl but chooses to return to China - and Linyi. Luckily for this unwanted spouse her husband feels strongly obligated to her - having after all chosen to marry her - and works hard to make her feel needed and happy.
Live Action TV
- In The A-Team episode "Till Death Do Us Part", to keep an heiress' crooked fiance from getting his hands on her money (the reason he wanted to marry her), Hannibal has Face marry her instead. Face drags his feet the whole way. However, it's not so much objection to Jackie in particular (he does give hints of wanting to date her) as it is the fact that he has major commitment issues.
- In Everybody Loves Raymond, Frank and Marie make you wonder if they ever even LIKED each other. The funny thing is, they still do. They just "made room" for hate in their relationship and, in fact, were separated for a time.
- Basil and Sybil of Fawlty Towers raise similar questions.
- Saffron of Firefly is one of the rare women unwanted by a protagonist, due to the protagonist not knowing about the wedding customs of the planet they were on and her stowing away on the ship. Mal Reynolds spends most of the episode desperately trying to unload her (Justified, however, when she turns out to be a villainous con artist that married him in order to steal his ship.).
- Lauren Reed of Alias.
- Tess on Roswell.
- Dr Robert Kelso's marriage to his (unseen) wife in Scrubs.
- Bob Kelso even seems to do the same thing with his mistresses, or maybe that's a subversion.
- Though to be fair, it appears he did love her at first, even writing a song about her when he was younger.
- This was the basis of most of the comedy in Married... with Children, what with Al's dislike of his oversexed wife, Peg.
- Maris on Frasier eventually turned into this before the divorce storyline.
- Not sure if this counts, since she was supposed to be pure evil.
- Londo Mollari of Babylon 5 is married to 3 women (via Arranged Marriage). Londo makes jokes about how his work on Babylon 5 keeps him away from his wives is a good thing. He is granted a divorce by the Emperor—two divorces, actually—and two constantly fawn on him to ensure that they won't get the metaphorical axe. They also plot to kill him. His first wife, Timov, doesn't participate in the scheming and is openly hostile—and in the end, Londo chooses to keep her, as he prefers her open hostility to their cloying faked affection. Also, she didn't try to kill him (in fact, she saved his life, but she never tells him that).
- Jack Shepherd of Lost started off being wanted, but his lack of focus, constantly needing to "fix something" resulted in his wife leaving him for another man that sent him spiraling out of control, to the point he accused his own father of being the "other man".
- Sam of Australian serial Neighbours was this to estranged husband Dan. Seemingly brought in for no other reason than to complicate his relationship with Libby, she hung around, trying to persuade him that they could give it another shot. Dan being the honorable man he is, agreed to try, but it was clear that, though he by no means hated her or wanted her to leave, he would have much preferred it if she had not come back. This is much clearer the second time it happens; after giving up and leaving for a while, Sam reappears heavily pregnant just in time to spoil Dan and Libby's upcoming wedding.
- Another Rare Male Example is from Robin Hood: Isabella's abusive husband Thornton is creepily obsessed with his wife. She flees from him, and when he tracks her down she stabs him to death.
- Charlie is this to Stella in The League of Gentlemen. Although he has grown to despise her too, the extent of her hatred (and verbal abuse) is much greater. While he still tries to make peace with her (especially in the Christmas special) she sees him as little more than a burden and never misses an opportunity to say so.
- Poor Anne of Cleves on The Tudors. It's still not entirely clear what she did wrong that Henry took such a dislike to her, although most explanations hold that it was a portrait that Henry agreed to marry, and the real thing turned out to be uglier than the portrait.
- In Real Life, while Henry may not have liked the look of her and did divorce her, she was arguably the best off of all his wives; he called her his beloved sister, loved her truly (brotherly love, not romantic), invited her regularly to the palace, and swapped cooks with her. They were dear friends for life. Considering the fates of Henry's other wives, Anne arguably got the best deal.
- In the Star Trek: The Original Series episode "Amok Time", Spock and T'Pring are essentially this for each other, due to an Arranged Marriage. Spock is only going through with the marriage because he'll die if he doesn't, and T'Pring is involved with another man and would much rather marry him instead. Her efforts to avoid marrying Spock very nearly lead to Kirk's death.
- In The Caesars, Emperor Caligula makes his lame, stammering, unattractive uncle Claudius the unwanted husband of his attractive cousin Messalina. Claudius is thrilled at the prospect; Messalina, decidedly less so.
- In Princess Returning Pearl, in order to save the life of the brother of his One True Love Xiao Yan Zi, Yong Qi is forced to agree to an Arranged Marriage to Zhi Hua.
- On Revenge, Daniel ultimately only married Emily because he thought she was pregnant. When he learned she wasn't, he shot her. She survived that and was able to use that to blackmail him to stay in the marriage until she decided she wanted it to end; she had only married him so she could frame his mother for her murder.
- Once Upon a Time:
- Regina married Leopold because her mother basically forced her to. After the marriage, it wasn't long before Regina manipulated someone into killing him.
- The Dark Curse brought Charming and Abigail, who had previously called off an engagement because both loved other people, together as David and Kathryn Nolan. When the Curse started breaking, David found himself drawn to his real wife, and Kathryn eventually realized she wasn't happy in the marriage either; after the Curse completely broke, their marriage was never brought up again.
- Played for laughs during a series of skits on In Living Color!, where an elderly couple pretend to be the standard for lasting marriage, but behind close doors throw insults and try to kill each other. The skit ends with someone walking in on them and mistaking what they see as an elderly couple nearly having sex, instead of witnessing attempted murder.
- In the almost legendary Czech TV series Arabela, princess Xenia is this for prince Vilibald. Although in love with Sleeping Beauty, the prince was pressured by Xenia into marrying her because she is the king's daughter, and appears to have genuinely tried to get along with her, but her personality and behavior made that impossible. They end up hating and despising each other.
- An unmarried variant in Life in Pieces. Colleen and her ex-fiance bought a house together but the relationship fell apart and neither of them can afford to buy the other out so they're stuck living together until they can figure out a solution.
- Meat Loaf's song "Paradise by the Dashboard Light". Long story short, he swears to a girl that he'll love her till the end of time so he can get some. Fast forward, and now he's praying for the end of time to hurry up and get here, because he can't stand her but he won't break his word.
- And the girl apparently can't stand him either, so it's played straight on both sides.
- There's also a Newfoundland song called "The Scolding Wife", covered by Great Big Sea, whose refrain goes:
And if the Devil would take her, I'd thank him for his pain,I swear to God I'll hang meself if I get married again!
- The 50% of Country Music that isn't composed of "She left me" songs seems to consist almost entirely of these. Example title: "How can I miss you if you won't ever leave" by the Shirtless Biddles.
- "Why Don't You Get a Job" by The Offspring, quoted at the top of the page. The final verse tells about another, female, friend who has the same problem with her boyfriend.
My friend's got a boyfriend and she hates that dick
She tells me every day
He wants more dinero just to stay at home
Well, my friend, you gotta say...
Mythology & Religion
- Hephaestus was this to Aphrodite since the other Gods were fighting over her so much that Zeus feared it would lead to disaster and more or less gave her to him. She was less than pleased with this, especially since Hephaestus was deformed, and serially cheated on him, especially with Ares.
- In Margin for Error, Sophie despises her husband and is desperate for him to grant her a divorce. Her husband's threats to turn her and her father over to Nazi authorities for execution are what keeps her from running away from him with her lover, Denny.
- Hunding in Wagner's Ring cycle (Die Walküre), whom Sieglinde had to marry against her will. She drugs him to facilitate her incestuous love for her brother Siegmund.
- In samurai RPG Legend of the Five Rings, this is a disadvantage that characters can take. Considering that wives are in charge of the man's finances, this can be especially painful for male PCs, while the male domination of most marriages makes it physically painful for many wives. It's not a nice setting sometimes.
- From Magic: The Gathering there's Kayla who became Urza's wife after he won her hand in marriage by winning a contest of strength with an automaton he built. He was more interested in the relics in her father's vault than her.
- On the unwanted fiancée side, Ruto from The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time.
- She's not so much unwanted as, when she forked over the Sapphire and said her mom told her to give it to the man she intended to marry, you were too young to really grasp what she was talking about. When she confronts you about it seven years later, you're not so much disinterested in marrying her as surprised she's in the Temple at all.
- In Fallout 2, you can get a shotgun wedding. Your spouse is useless except as a very frail meat shield.
- In a Nonstandard Game Over of King's Quest IV: The Perils Of Rosella, Rosella ends up marrying the hunchbacked son of the game's antagonist.
- Subverted later Edgar was transmogrified into a hunchback, and had been kidnapped by Lolotte as a baby. Genesta transforms him into his true form, a handsome Fae Prince. In the seventh game, he's kidnapped and transmogrified again. After Rosella saves him, the pair wisely agree to a proper courtship before rushing into anything.
- In Dragon Age II, a major plot arc begins from a dissolute husband seeking his runaway libertine wife. It's quickly apparent that they mutually unwant each other.
- Henpecked Hou of Jade Empire only stays married to his wife because he's terrified of her. She's pretty much ruined his life. The Open Palm ending reveals that he manages to take a job as a deliveryman in a faraway city and leave her.
- The Badass Preacher hires you to prevent this from happening in The Saboteur. To kill the Nazi General that was forcing a young French woman to wed him.
- Matt Horner of Starcraft II accidentally got married to Mira Han after winning a poker game (he didn't know she was the stake). When Raynor meets her via videoscreen, Matt hides out of sight making very energetic "I'm not here!" gestures.
- For her part, Mira seems very fond of Matt; of course, it's not entirely clear if this is genuine affection or if she just enjoys screwing with him.
- In Final Fantasy X, Seymour asks Yuna to marry him. She agrees to it, but only to get close enough to confront him about murdering his father. Later in the game, he forces her to marry him while the rest of the party are held at gun point watching. Even stranger and squickier is the fact that said wedding and Seymour's planting of a Forceful Kiss takes place while he is technically dead; Yuna's reaction is to angrily wiping her mouth with her sleeve.
- Happens in The Simpsons when both Homer and Flanders drunkenly marry two cocktail waitresses in Vegas and a waitress shows up in a later episode as an unwanted spouse.
- The Powerpuff Girls has the Mayor's wife. Rarely mentioned and almost never seen, but on the few occasions she does come up it's made abundantly clear that the Mayor doesn't care for her much. He was willing to give her up to a bunch of thugs for them to spare Miss Bellum.
- In The Critic, Jay was an unwanted spouse of his ex-wife Ardeth. She even admitted to his face about regretting marrying him during their wedding day.
- In Moral Orel, Clay and Bloberta Puppington are in a completely loveless marriage that is explored in the third season. In the episode that explains the circumstances of them getting married, it's shown that Bloberta was desperate to be with someone and ended up with Clay after driving him to alcoholism by justifying to herself that he would need someone to help him. They cannot get divorced due to the hyper-Conservative environment of their town and in the epilogue it's hinted that they grow old and miserable together.
- It is revealed in the comic tie-in The Search for Avatar: The Last Airbender that Ursa was pretty much kidnapped to be Ozai's wife.
- This is also Truth in Television: plenty of royal marriages were like this, the most recent example being Charles and Diana Windsor aka the Princes of Wales. He couldn't marry his long-time lover Camilla Parker-Bowles because she was a married woman and wasn't a virgin beforehand, she was a viscount's naive daughter who thought she'd become a full-blooded princess by marrying him, they got hitched and things progressively went From Bad to Worse.
- Isabelle of France, mentioned above under Braveheart, was not averse to becoming queen of England, but with another king. Edward II basically ignored and humiliated her during their marriage, and he possibly/allegedly cheated on her with his squires and other (male) "friends". There are various theories that she may have murdered him, possibly in retaliation for this, though the popular story that the method of assassination was being buggered to death with a red hot poker has no basis in contemporary accounts.
- Another example, though quite humorous, is the marriage of Louis XIV's brother Philippe d'Orleans and Liselotte of the Palatinate (Charlotte de Bavière or "la Palatine" in French). He was, let's say, rather effeminate (if an extremely effective solder and general), she was a very strong, loud and quite manly woman, and each was horrified at the prospect of marrying the other. They got over it enough to sire the requisite heir and spares and had little to do with each other after. What wasn't humorous was that Louis XIV used the marriage as a pretext for starting a war of succession over the Palatinate that systematically laid waste to Liselotte's native country.
- And of course we have Henry VIII of England, who is infamous for the extremes he would go to in order to dispose of one unwanted spouse after another — so far as splitting with the Roman Catholic Church for refusing to grant a divorce and starting his own denomination in one case, and having the unlucky woman executed in two others.
- Ironically enough, the only wife who was unwanted from the beginning, Anne of Cleeves, was the only one who didn't suffer much under his disposal of her - she agreed to a divorce/annulment of the marriage and had, allegedly, a quite cozy life in his household after that and remained friendly with him, even swapping their cooks at one point.
- Catherine the Great and her husband Peter III of Russia were this to each other, and Catherine eventually had him arrested and forced him to abdicate before he conveniently died in prison (and there's evidence he was actually murdered, possibly on her orders), leaving her in charge of the country, a position she held until her own death of old age.