Tender Tears

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"Once, indeed, the Tin Woodman stepped upon a beetle that was crawling along the road, and killed the poor little thing. This made the Tin Woodman very unhappy, for he was always careful not to hurt any living creature; and as he walked along he wept several tears of sorrow and regret."

Sometimes tears are not a sign of weakness. Even when they come easily and often. . . .

Opposite Manly Tears are Tender Tears, where the character weeps more than most people because of the exquisite tenderness of her heart. More frequent for women than for men.

Tender Tears result from someone else's misfortune. If they feel any guilt over the situation — reasonably or unreasonably — Tears of Remorse will also occur.

Seldom a Single Tear, but it's possible.

A favorite trope of the Romantic movement, who regarded it as a mark of exquisite sensibility. Scorning them is a mark of a callous and hard-hearted soul; even those who do not cry themselves can appreciate the Tender Tears. Indeed, the tender character may explain the cause of the tears with such poignancy as to inspire Manly Tears in less tender characters.

Super Trope of He Will Not Cry, So I Cry for Him and Tears of Joy.

Contrast Cry Cute, where crying makes a normally unsympathetic character more likable — Tender Tears is part of a consistent sensitive character. This trope is used a lot on Fragile Flower and Nice Guy characters.


Examples:

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     Anime & Manga 
  • Fullmetal Alchemist
    • Armstrong often. "The trait of tender compassion has been passed down the Armstrong line for generations!"
    • Van Hohenheim sheds tears of sorrow on more than one occasion, as well.
  • The cyborgs of Gunslinger Girl have a habit of crying in their sleep, as noted by the Agency doctors. Especially tragic as the audience knows why they cry, but the girls don't and can't remember their dreams so don't understand why they feel sad on waking up.
    Claes: Have you ever been tremendously sad, but the tears won't come out?
    Jean: Sure... it happens.
    Claes: That's how I feel right now. My heart is overflowing with tears, but they just won't come out of my eyes. At night when I'm asleep, they quietly spill out onto the pillow without my noticing.
  • Misaki from Junjou Romantica. In the first episode he starts crying because his brother Takahiro insensitively announces his engagement to Akihiko who is in love with him (which Takahiro is unaware of). And this after Akihiko molested Misaki when Misaki found out about his feelings for Takahiro, the boy is definitely sensitive.
  • Misaki from K, in the flashback to Totsuka's death. The way he holds him seems to imply they were incredibly close (maybe more than friends), and this flashback comes after several episodes of him vengefully hunting down the killer.
  • In the first ten minutes of Kotoura-san, it shows that Haruka Kotoura had to deal with very dark issues during her childhood like social bullying, constant blame despite doing nothing wrong, being called a monster for simply being Innocently Insensitive with Telepathy note , deliberate Parental Abandonment, and crossing the Despair Event Horizon twice. She is well within her right to cue this trope because she was a Good Victim throughout this entire Trauma Conga Line and still is one in the Present Day. What's more is that this is also an Actor Allusion with Yayoi above since Hisako Kanemoto voiced for these two characters.
  • Johann from Monster can shed the most incredible Tender Tears known to man. They're fake. Probably.
  • Gau from Nabari no Ou cries when he meets Raikou for the first time, when Raikou tells him about his past, when he gets slashed by Raikou, when he intervenes in Raikou and Yukimi's fight, when he calls Yukimi on the cellphone, when Raikou gets stabbed, etc, etc...
  • In One Piece, while several characters open the Ocular Gushers or Manly Tears, Franky easily cries more often than anyone else on the crew, and gets emotional at just about any touching story he hears (which is how he ended up helping the Straw Hats, who used to be enemies in the first place). He never admits it, though.
  • Subverted in Ouran High School Host Club. It was believed that most of the host club members are all able to cry on cue... until Haruhi finds the twins using eye-drops. It's played straight in Tamaki's case, though—he doesn't need eye-drops to get the tears flowing.
  • Madoka Kaname of Puella Magi Madoka Magica sheds these, usually combined with Tears of Remorse. This is especially prominent when she sheds these for Mami and Sayaka's deaths. Given the Crapsack World she lives in, she can't be blamed.
  • Ranma ½:
    • Ryoga is physically Made of Iron, but emotionally... not so much. He's frequently seen bursting into tears, usually over his own plentiful misfortune and loneliness, but he also cries over Ranma after the latter has lost all of his strength and gets soundly defeated in battle. He also later cries when he realizes he can't bring himself to truly attack Ranma in his weakened state, even though it's necessary for Ranma to learn a technique that will help him get his strength back.
    • Almost every character including Ranma himself and even Genma does this when someone else does something noble or selfless.
  • Akio from Revolutionary Girl Utena sheds a few tears when he talks about how much suffering Anthy had to go through just because she wanted to protect him. Given this is from the same man who has raped her multiple times, they're obviously fake.
  • Arguably, Kahlua from Rosario + Vampire fits here. Everytime she cries, it's because the person standing in front of her is about to be killed by her own hands.
  • Smile Pretty Cure!: Yayoi Kise/Cure Peace is easily the kindest and most timid of the Smile Cures. So much so that she is the goddess of the trope!
  • Super Gals: Aya is very prone to this, to the point where Ran assumes that "[Aya's] entire head must be filled with tears...!" in Volume 6.
  • The titular character of Super Sonico cries in Toma's arms when the latter tells her that she's flying overseas.
  • Vash from Trigun. He has a few Manly Tears moments, but he cries quite a bit as a sign of sensitivity and empathy to other people's sufferings. Even when said suffering happens to be a completely made up story.
  • In Tsukigasa, Azuma cries a few. They are somewhat comical considering his stated goal is to become more manly and these are definitely not Manly Tears.
  • In Wild Rock, Yuuen gets these, which reinforce the fact he is just not a manly man like the others.
  • Yutaka from Shounen Note is a highly sensitive boy who is prone to tears, especially when it comes to beautiful music.

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     Fairy Tales  

     Fan Works  
  • Invoked by Colonel Moran in Every Good Fairytale. Young Beth Lestrade is dead, and Sherlock Holmes is being tortured within an inch of his life, repeatedly. Moran suggests that Beth's ghost (he's being metaphorical) will weep over Holmes's devastated state. Holmes says that he would not expect that honor from her, and Moran points out that she would have given it, anyway. Not much later, she does, in fact. Beth is portrayed in the 'verse as being very compassionate beneath a paper-thin exterior of snark, toughness, and the occasional Stepford Smiler act.
  • The Child of Love: In chapter 4 Asuka cries when she finds Shinji’s birthday gift: an engagement ring.
  • In chapter 7 of Children of an Elder God, Asuka cries after realizing what Kaji will never love her.
    And with those well-chosen words, Asuka finally snapped, tears flowing from her eyes. "I don't WANT anyone else! I want KAJI!"
    "I... I'm sorry."
    He gave her shoulder a gentle squeeze.
    What happened next took him entirely by surprise.
    She suddenly turned around and cried on his shoulder, holding him tight as she sobbed. He didn't know how long she cried on his shoulder, and it didn't seem to matter. She was someone in need, and all he could do was be there for her.
  • Evangelion 303: Both Shinji and Asuka shed them in moments of great emotional intensity, like when he proposed her.
  • HERZ: Shed by Shinji when his father died in his arms, by Shinji and Asuka when they met and hugged each other after the Final Battle and by Shinji again when Rei said goodbye.
  • Several examples in Neon Genesis Evangelion: Genocide:
    • Asuka sobbed in Shinji's shoulder after he promised never leaving her.
      Softly, Asuka wrapped her arms around him. Shinji followed her lead, and gently touched her cheek. His hand trembled, but his had lost control and allowed a natural instinct to take over. Their tear streaked faces were only inches away. He could feel her breathing, just as she could feel his.
      He pulled her to him, feeling her warm, tear-stained cheek lightly brush against his, as she laid her head on his shoulders and quietly sobbed.
    • Later on, Asuka sheds tears when Shinji tells that he wants to be with her forever despite everything.
      Asuka blinked and for a stunned moment looked at him as though he had lost his mind, then, her eyes bristling with tears, she moved back. Even though a long, awkward silence followed, his last statement seemed to have a strange hardening effect on her. She did not cry. The tears remained unshed, clouding her eyes but doing nothing more. And she seemed braver somehow.
  • Erin Blogger in Story of the Century and its sequel. Despite her Tsundere-ish tendencies and the fact that she doesn't like that she cries so easily, she is still very sensitive and compassionate about others, even the bad guys. She even sheds these when it's found out that Higuchi died before he could be arrested. Later, Rem kills Watari and L (or at least she tries to with the latter) for Misa's sake and because Erin had figured out what Light was planning for her beforehand and had in fact tried to stop it from happening (only to be deliberately foiled by L), she sheds these upon finding Rem's remains and gives her a burial later.

     Films — Animated  
  • At the conclusion of Wreck-It Ralph, Vanellope's eyes well up with tears as she wistfully tells Ralph he can stay in Sugar Rush if he wants, where he'd be appreciated in the way he wasn't in his game, Fix-It Felix Jr.

     Films — Live-Action  
  • X-Men:
    • X-Men: Days of Future Past: A huge part of 1973 Charles' character development is centered around his huge capacity for empathy, and how he needs to learn to move past his own pain for the benefit of others, so he spends a good percentage of the film either on the verge of tears or outright crying.
    • X-Men: Apocalypse: There's a lot of focus in this story on Xavier's sensitivity, and he's either close to tears, shedding a few of them, or openly weeping when someone he cares about is in pain.
  • In What's Eating Gilbert Grape, the titular character's little brother Arnie is completely inconsolable because he killed the cricket he was playing with. He snapped its head of with the lid of the mailbox and was left bewildered and wondering where the head was. Bit of a Tear Jerker when you consider that he has Down's Syndrome and even seems to think he's reached a new low.

     Literature  
  • The Tin Man from The Wonderful Wizard of Oz. He believes that because he has no heart, he has no feelings, so he consciously strives to be kind and loving to all. Dorothy is careful to keep a filled oil squirter in her basket, as he cries rather often, causing him to rust.
  • In The Last Battle, Lucy cries over the end of Narnia while all the rest are gladly following Aslan. Tirian backs her up, and asserts that crying over it is not unmanly.
  • In James Swallow's Warhammer 40,000 Horus Heresy novel The Flight of the Eisenstein, Keeler cries over the news they brought Dorn; they have broken a brother's heart.
    • In another of his 40K novels, Faith & Fire, Verity stops counting how many times she administered last rites when she realized the number would make her cry.
  • Dante (the character) does this often in Dante Alighieri's The Divine Comedy. He laments at the misfortune of those condemned to the various circles of hell.
  • Lucie Manette sheds these all the time in A Tale of Two Cities. Meant to show off her great compassion and sensitivity - and to her credit, these tears are rarely for herself.
  • The Prioress weeps most piteously for her little dogs in The Canterbury Tales if any are hurt - though she doesn't seem to care so much about the poor.
  • In both Angela's Ashes and Tis, Frank McCourt's family tells him "his bladder must be near to his eye" because of how easily he tears up.
  • Fitz, from the Eighth Doctor Adventures, doesn't cry terribly often, but if his mum is Brainwashed and Crazy and trying to kill him, he knows or strongly suspects one of his friends is dead, etc., he is going to cry about it. Two of the Doctor's female companions have stood by and kept a stiff upper lip about the matter while Fitz wept over the fact the Doctor seemed to be dead. He's generally surprisingly sensitive for a grown man — the thought of worms getting acid-rained on upsets him a little.
  • Everybody in The Tale of Genji.
  • King Arthur and his knights in various media, especially the old stuff. Even more Tears of Remorse and a lot of Tears of Joy. And Malory has Gawain and Arthur do two rounds of synchronized swooning out of pure sorrow after Lancelot kills Gaheris and Gawain, who were on his side, while rescuing Guinevere.
  • In Adrian Tchaikovsky's Dragonfly Falling, Che over Totho.
  • In The Bible Jesus goes to the grave of his dear friend Lazarus and meets with his sister Martha who is in mourning and asking Jesus why he didn't come to help her brother sooner. Martha proclaims that had Jesus arrived days earlier then he could have healed him and saved his life with his miracles, and Jesus seeing this is deeply moved by Martha's plight and the shortest sentence of the entire Bible states simply, "Jesus wept." Jesus loved Lazarus and he is deeply saddened that death has such tyranny over Mankind, but he then proclaims to Martha that since he is the Son of the Living God and the Messiah anyone who believes in him yet shall he die he shall still live. Then in one of the greatest miracles in the Bible Jesus calls forth to Lazarus to rise and he comes back to life. In his humanity Jesus wept for Lazarus and in his divinity he raised him from the dead.
  • It really depends on the author, but there are still a number of times in the Star Wars Expanded Universe that Luke Skywalker cries openly. Maybe the most notable examples are the times in the Return of the Jedi novelization. There's also a line in the Rebel Force series that implies he cries when some Imperials die horribly.
  • In The Hunger Games, Prim. She would cry whenever Katniss did without even knowing why, and get teary and hope to save any animal Katniss shot.
  • In the world of A Brother's Price, men are rare and kept secluded, and considered to be in need of protection. They're also considered softer and more emotional. Jerin, who's one of the most attractive men on the market, weeps several times over the course of the book.
  • In Alethea Kontis's Enchanted, when the frog tells Sunday how much her stories mean to him, she cries.
  • Hermione from Harry Potter, especially in the last book when she and everything/everyone around her are in emotional turmoil, and it is described at least once during each chapter how tears have appeared in her eyes.
    • Being the Gentle Giant that he is, Hagrid does this a lot as well. When he sends the trio letters, informing them of Buckbeak's execution and later the death of Aragog, both letters are stained with tears.
  • In "The Moonbirds" by Jenny Jackson, Ellie breaks down into hysterical sobs (possibly leaning more toward Inelegant Blubbering) after she discovers an orphaned baby possum after its mum had been shot.
  • In the Rainbow Magic series, Juliet the Valentine Fairy cries a lot in her book because of the havoc the misplaced objects are wreaking on love.
  • Margery Kempe of The Book of Margery Kempe is driven to such tears on many occasions, to other's confusion.

     Live Action TV  
  • As a contrast to the stoic Arthur, Merlin tends to cry every time something bad happens. And fangirls love him for it.
  • Troy Barnes from Community- an ex-jock- cries incredibly easily, and is, to quote Abed, "deeply ashamed of the fact." A gif of him panicking after knocking out a man with chloroform, arms flailing as he screams "I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY WHOLE BRAIN IS CRYING" sums it up pretty nicely.
    Troy: I told Peirce I only wanted a picture! You can't disappoint a picture! AAAAAHHH!

     Music 
  • In "Nakimushi Kareshi" (Crybaby Boyfriend) by HoneyWorks, Len is described as the sensitive one of the pair, because he cries so easily. Miku fondly the times they cried and laughed together, as she broke up with him.
  • "Crybaby" by Melanie Martinez is about the protagonist sympathizing with an emotional person. She then states she has similar issues, has been teased about it, but has learned to stop caring about the insults.
    You've seemed to replace your brain with your heart.
    You take things so hard, and then you fall apart.
    You try to explain but before you can start, those crybaby tears come out of the dark.

     Theatre  
  • In William Shakespeare's Pericles, Prince of Tyre, Marina on her own harmlessness:
    I never kill'd a mouse, nor hurt a fly:
    I trod upon a worm against my will,
    But I wept for it.
    • And in Hamlet the player weeping for Hecuba appears to Hamlet as his foil while he dillydallys about his own father's death.
    Tears in his eyes, distraction in's aspect,
    A broken voice, and his whole function suiting
    With forms to his conceit? and all for nothing!
    For Hecuba!
    What's Hecuba to him, or he to Hecuba,
    That he should weep for her? What would he do,
    Had he the motive and the cue for passion
    That I have? He would drown the stage with tears
    And cleave the general ear with horrid speech,
    • Miranda in The Tempest, after the shipwreck. Prospero assures her:
    Wipe thou thine eyes; have comfort.
    The direful spectacle of the wreck, which touch'd
    The very virtue of compassion in thee,
    I have with such provision in mine art
    So safely ordered that there is no soul—
    No, not so much perdition as an hair
    Betid to any creature in the vessel
  • In The Moon Is Blue, Patty says she wants to cry out of sympathy for all the "poor, drab, little people" in Brooklyn. Don tells her not to talk like a play by William Saroyan (whose plays she adores).

     Video Games  

     Web Comics  

     Web Original  
  • Orn "Dutchy" Ayers of ''Survival of the Fittest" frequently cries when he reads about the plight of the less-fortunate countries.
  • Male version (it's a gay couple): anyone notices how many comments on this picture are in the lines of "Awwww..."?
  • In RWBY Volume 3, Yang does this twice. The first time is when she's framed for assault on live television, left a Hero with Bad Publicity, disqualified from the tournament by Ironwood, and is then hit with the bombshell that her team-mate Blake doesn't believe her pleas of innocence. The second time is in the epilogue, when she's bedridden and recovering from an amputation, she breaks into tears the moment Ruby walks in. Yang is seconds away from bursting into tears again when she mentions what happened to Blake. After Ruby leaves, Yang is seen wiping her eyes.

     Western Animation  
  • Appears in an episode of She-Ra: Princess of Power, where Tender Tears are the only thing that will cure Hordak of a magical poison.
  • Spongebob in Spongebob Squarepants is a male example that's not always played for laughs.
  • Male version: Dukey from Johnny Test is kind of prone to this seeing as how he cried for nearly an entire episode because Johnny forgot his birthday.
  • Male version: Shifty Dingo from Blinky Bill. Dear lord, Shifty Dingo.
  • Male version: Max from Capitol Critters cries fairly easily.
  • Beetlejuice: In "Doomie's Romance," Lydia cries quietly when the effort to bring the Mayor's former car alive fails. When Doomie's tears bring the car to life, Lydia and B.J. cry Tears of Joy (although B.J. claims it was something in his eyes).
  • Steven Universe: Steven is very prone to this, though at one point he claims that he's "too tough to cry".
    Pearl: Just today you were crying about snakes!
    Steven: *wells up a little* They don't have any arms!

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