"Once, indeed, the Tin Woodman stepped upon a beetle that was crawling along the road, and killed the poor little thing. This made the Tin Woodman very unhappy, for he was always careful not to hurt any living creature; and as he walked along he wept several tears of sorrow and regret."Sometimes tears are not a sign of weakness. Even when they flow easily and often. . . . Opposite Manly Tears are Tender Tears, where the character weeps more than most people because of the exquisite tenderness of her heart. More frequent for women than for men. Tender Tears result from someone else's misfortune. If they feel any guilt over the situation — reasonably or unreasonably — Tears of Remorse will also occur. Seldom a Single Tear, but it's possible. A favorite trope of the Romantic movement, who regarded it as a mark of exquisite sensibility. Scorning them is a mark of a callous and hard-hearted soul; even those who do not cry themselves can appreciate the Tender Tears. Indeed, the tender character may explain the cause of the tears with such poignancy as to inspire Manly Tears in less tender characters. Super Trope of He Will Not Cry, So I Cry for Him and Tears of Joy. Contrast Cry Cute, where crying makes a normally unsympathetic character more likable — Tender Tears is part of a consistent sensitive character. This trope is used a lot on Fragile Flower and Nice Guy characters.
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- While it's usually most associated with Manly Tears, Fist of the North Star is FULL of characters who shed these to show the sensitivity and kindness of their hearts; the most prominent being Kenshiro and Raoh. The latter case denotes Raoh as a Noble Demon.
- The trait of tender compassion has been passed down the Armstrong line for generations!
- Van Hohenheim sheds tears of sorrow on more than one occasion, as well.
- Tohru from Fruits Basket.
- Vash from Trigun. He has a few Manly Tears moments, but he cries quite a bit as a sign of sensitivity and empathy to other people's sufferings.
- Even when said suffering happens to be a completely made up story.
- Ryoga from Ranma ½ is physically Made of Iron, but emotionally... not so much. He's frequently seen bursting into tears, usually over his own plentiful misfortune and loneliness, but he also cries over Ranma after the latter has lost all of his strength and gets soundly defeated in battle. He also later cries when he realizes he can't bring himself to truly attack Ranma in his weakened state, even though it's necessary for Ranma to learn a technique that will help him get his strength back.
- Almost every character in Ranma ½ (including Ranma himself and even Genma) does this when someone else does something noble or selfless.
- Kuma from Afro Samurai can't stop crying, even though he is still a Bad Ass samurai.
- Johann from Monster can shed the most incredible Tender Tears known to man. They're fake. Probably.
- Akio from Revolutionary Girl Utena sheds a few tears when he talks about how much suffering Anthy had to go through just because she wanted to protect him. Given this is from the same man who has raped her multiple times, they're obviously fake.
- Misaki from Junjou Romantica. In the first episode he starts crying because his brother Takahiro insensitively announces his engagement to Akihiko who is in love with him (which Takahiro is unaware of). And this after Akihiko molested Misaki when he found out about his feelings for his brother, the boy is definitely sensitive.
- Subverted in Ouran High School Host Club. It was believed that most of the host club members are all able to cry on cue... until Haruhi finds the twins using eye-drops. It's played straight in Tamaki's case, though—he doesn't need eye-drops to get the tears flowing.
- From A Certain Scientific Railgun, Kiyama-sensei gets these going after the Child Errors she spent most of her screen time trying to help finally wake up. It is quite a sight.
- Allen Walker of D.Gray-Man. Also Lenalee Lee, whenever any of her True Companions die. D.Gray-man being the series it is, however, it's hard to say if the same would still be true in less traumatic circumstances.
- Gau from Nabari No Ou cries when he meets Raikou for the first time, when Raikou tells him about his past, when he gets slashed by Raikou, when he intervenes in Raikou and Yukimi's fight, when he calls Yukimi on the cellphone, when Raikou gets stabbed, etc, etc...
- The tears flow quickly and strongly in Battle Royale from beginning to end. Usually they're tender tears. Occasionally Manly Tears, as well.
- The cyborgs of Gunslinger Girl have a habit of crying in their sleep, as noted by the Agency doctors. Especially tragic as the audience knows why they cry, but the girls don't and can't remember their dreams so don't understand why they feel sad on waking up.
Claes: Have you ever been tremendously sad, but the tears won't come out?
Jean: Sure... it happens.
Claes: That's how I feel right now. My heart is overflowing with tears, but they just won't come out of my eyes. At night when I'm asleep, they quietly spill out onto the pillow without my noticing.
- In Wild Rock, Yuuen gets these, which reinforce the fact he is just not a manly man like the others.
- Berserk being...Berserk manages to take tender tears and twist them in a disturbing manner when Slan of the Godhand weeps them while Griffith/Femto rapes Casca. She apparently thought the scene was very beautiful.
- In Tsukigasa, Azuma cries a few. They are somewhat comical considering his stated goal is to become more manly and these are definitely not Manly Tears.
- In One Piece, while several characters open the Ocular Gushers or Manly Tears, Franky easily cries more often than anyone else on the crew, and gets emotional at just about any touching story he hears (which is how he ended up helping the Straw Hats, who used to be enemies in the first place). He never admits it, though.
- Smile Pretty Cure!: Yayoi Kise/Cure Peace is easily the kindest and most timid of the Smile Cures. So much so that she is the goddess of the trope!
- Arguably, Kahlua from Rosario + Vampire fits here. Everytime she cries, it's because the person standing in front of her is about to be killed by her own hands.
- Madoka Kaname of Puella Magi Madoka Magica sheds these, usually combined with Tears of Remorse. This is especially prominent when she sheds these for Mami and Sayaka's deaths. Given the Crapsack World she lives in, she can't be blamed.
- Enju Aihara from Black Bullet is prone to cry a lot, mainly due to the suffering she has endured as a cursed child, and the emotional fragility of her character.
- In the first ten minutes of Kotoura-san, it shows that Haruka Kotoura had to deal with very dark issues during her childhood like social bullying, constant blame despite doing nothing wrong, being called a monster for simply being Innocently Insensitive with Telepathy note , deliberate Parental Abandonment, and crossing the Despair Event Horizon twice. She is well within her right to cue this trope because she was a Good Victim throughout this entire Trauma Conga Line and still is one in the Present Day. What's more is that this is also an Actor Allusion with Yayoi above since Hisako Kanemoto voiced for these two characters.
- Ran Mouri from Detective Conan sheds these as a trait of her kindheartedness and one of the manga chapters is even named "Ran's Tears". Both Shinichi Kudo and Shuuichi Akai lampshades this, especially when Ran and Akai have a conversation on the phone booth in one of the cases:
Akai: You are crying again... You are always crying.Ran: Is it wrong?Akai: No... I was just remembering. You remind me of a woman... One who was always crying in the dark trying to sound casual, a stupid woman.
- The titular character of Super Sonico cries in Toma's arms when the latter tells her that she's flying overseas.
- Invoked by Colonel Moran in Every Good Fairytale. Young Beth Lestrade is dead, and Sherlock Holmes is being tortured within an inch of his life, repeatedly. Moran suggests that Beth's ghost (he's being metaphorical) will weep over Holmes's devastated state. Holmes says that he would not expect that honor from her, and Moran points out that she would have given it, anyway. Not much later, she does, in fact. Beth is portrayed in the 'verse as being very compassionate beneath a paper-thin exterior of snark, toughness, and the occasional Stepford Smiler act.
- Evangelion 303: Both Shinji and Asuka shed them in moments of great emotional intensity, like when he proposed her.
- Erin Blogger in Story Of The Century and its sequel. Despite her Tsundere-ish tendencies and the fact that she doesn't like that she cries so easily, she is still very sensitive and compassionate about others, even the bad guys. She even sheds these when it's found out that Higuchi died before he could be arrested. Later, Rem kills Watari and L (or at least she tries to with the latter) for Misa's sake and because Erin had figured out what Light was planning for her beforehand and had in fact tried to stop it from happening (only to be deliberately foiled by L), she sheds these upon finding Rem's remains and gives her a burial later.
Films - Animated
- At the conclusion of Wreck-It Ralph, Vanellope's eyes well up with tears as she wistfully tells Ralph he can stay in Sugar Rush if he wants, where he'd be appreciated in the way he wasn't in his game, Fix-It Felix Jr.
Films - Live Action
- A huge part of Charles's character development in X-Men: Days of Future Past is centered around his huge capacity for empathy, and how he needs to learn to move past his own pain for the benefit of others, so he spends a good percentage of the film either on the verge of tears or outright crying.
- The Tin Man from The Wonderful Wizard of Oz. He believes that because he has no heart, he has no feelings, so he consciously strives to be kind and loving to all. Dorothy is careful to keep a filled oil squirter in her basket, as he cries rather often, causing him to rust.
- In The Last Battle, Lucy cries over the end of Narnia while all the rest are gladly following Aslan. Tirian backs her up, and asserts that crying over it is not unmanly.
- In James Swallow's Warhammer 40,000 Horus Heresy novel The Flight of the Eisenstein, Keeler cries over the news they brought Dorn; they have broken a brother's heart.
- In another of his 40K novels, Faith & Fire, Verity stops counting how many times she administered last rites when she realized the number would make her cry.
- Dante (the character) does this often in Dante Alighieri's Divine Comedy. He laments at the misfortune of those condemned to the various circles of hell.
- Lucie Manette sheds these all the time in A Tale of Two Cities. Meant to show off her great compassion and sensitivity - and to her credit, these tears are rarely for herself.
- The Prioress weeps most piteously for her little dogs in The Canterbury Tales if any are hurt - though she doesn't seem to care so much about the poor.
- In both Angela's Ashes and Tis, Frank McCourt's family tells him "his bladder must be near to his eye" because of how easily he tears up.
- Fitz, from the Eighth Doctor Adventures, doesn't cry terribly often, but if his mum is Brainwashed and Crazy and trying to kill him, he knows or strongly suspects one of his friends is dead, etc., he is going to cry about it. Two of the Doctor's female companions have stood by and kept a stiff upper lip about the matter while Fitz wept over the fact the Doctor seemed to be dead. He's generally surprisingly sensitive for a grown man — the thought of worms getting acid-rained on upsets him a little.
- Everybody in The Tale of Genji.
- King Arthur and his knights in various media, especially the old stuff. Even more Tears of Remorse and a lot of Tears of Joy. And Malory has Gawain and Arthur do two rounds of synchronized swooning out of pure sorrow after Lancelot kills Gaheris and Gawain, who were on his side, while rescuing Guinevere.
- In Adrian Tchaikovsky's Dragonfly Falling, Che over Totho.
- In The Bible Jesus goes to the grave of his dear friend Lazarus and meets with his sister Martha who is in mourning and asking Jesus why he didn't come to help her brother sooner. Martha proclaims that had Jesus arrived days earlier then he could have healed him and saved his life with his miracles, and Jesus seeing this is deeply moved by Martha's plight and the shortest sentence of the entire Bible states simply, "Jesus wept." Jesus loved Lazarus and he is deeply saddened that death has such tyranny over Mankind, but he then proclaims to Martha that since he is the Son of the Living God and the Messiah anyone who believes in him yet shall he die he shall still live. Then in one of the greatest miracles in the Bible Jesus calls forth to Lazarus to rise and he comes back to life. In his humanity Jesus wept for Lazarus and in his divinity he raised him from the dead.
- It really depends on the author, but there are still a number of times in the Star Wars Expanded Universe that Luke Skywalker cries openly. Maybe the most notable examples are the times in the Return of the Jedi novelization. There's also a line in the Rebel Force series that implies he cries when some Imperials die horribly.
- In The Hunger Games, Prim. She would cry whenever Katniss did without even knowing why, and get teary and hope to save any animal Katniss shot.
- In the world of A Brother's Price, men are rare and kept secluded, and considered to be in need of protection. They're also considered softer and more emotional. Jerin, who's one of the most attractive men on the market, weeps several times over the course of the book.
- In Alethea Kontis's Enchanted, when the frog tells Sunday how much her stories mean to him, she cries.
- Hermione from Harry Potter, especially in the last book when she and everything/everyone around her are in emotional turmoil, and it is described at least once during each chapter how tears have appeared in her eyes.
- Being the Gentle Giant that he is, Hagrid does this a lot as well.
- In "The Moonbirds" by Jenny Jackson, Ellie breaks down into hysterical sobs (possibly leaning more toward Inelegant Blubbering) after she discovers an orphaned baby possum after its mum had been shot.
- In the Rainbow Magic series, Juliet the Valentine Fairy cries a lot in her book because of the havoc the misplaced objects are wreaking on love.
- Margery Kempe of The Book of Margery Kempe is driven to such tears on many occasions, to other's confusion.
Live Action TV
- As a contrast to the stoic Arthur, Merlin tends to cry every time something bad happens. And fangirls love him for it.
- Troy Barnes from Community- an ex-jock- cries incredibly easily, and is, to quote Abed, "deeply ashamed of the fact." A gif of him panicking after knocking out a man with chloroform, arms flailing as he screams "I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO MY WHOLE BRAIN IS CRYING" sums it up pretty nicely.
Troy: I told Peirce I only wanted a picture! You can't disappoint a picture! AAAAAHHH!
- In William Shakespeare's Pericles, Prince of Tyre, Marina on her own harmlessness:
I never kill'd a mouse, nor hurt a fly:
I trod upon a worm against my will,
But I wept for it.
Tears in his eyes, distraction in's aspect,
- And in Hamlet the player weeping for Hecuba appears to Hamlet as his foil while he dillydallys about his own father's death.
A broken voice, and his whole function suiting
With forms to his conceit? and all for nothing!
What's Hecuba to him, or he to Hecuba,
That he should weep for her? What would he do,
Had he the motive and the cue for passion
That I have? He would drown the stage with tears
And cleave the general ear with horrid speech,
Wipe thou thine eyes; have comfort.
- Miranda in The Tempest, after the shipwreck. Prospero assures her:
The direful spectacle of the wreck, which touch'd
The very virtue of compassion in thee,
I have with such provision in mine art
So safely ordered that there is no soul—
No, not so much perdition as an hair
Betid to any creature in the vessel
- In The Moon Is Blue, Patty says she wants to cry out of sympathy for all the "poor, drab, little people" in Brooklyn. Don tells her not to talk like a play by William Saroyan (whose plays she adores).
- If you look closely, Jack is crying throughout the Paragon romance scene right before the suicide mission in Mass Effect 2.
- Neimi from Fire Emblem: The Sacred Stones.
- Mallow from Super Mario RPG is described by some (including himself) as a crybaby. Also, he causes rain to fall whenever he starts crying.
- Marona from Phantom Brave. She's prone to crying whenever she's sad or happy. You really can't blame her.
- MegaTokyo: I always tear up when I do sad scenes.
- Wapsi Square: Why can't he just tell her he loves her?
- Pibgorn, Hippolyta, in the retelling of A Midsummer Night's Dream.
Beshrew my heart, but I pity the man.'
- In Sequential Art, a tearjerker.
- In Sinfest, Lil' E cries over the shooting of an angel.
- In Erstwhile, the little boy's ghost starts to cry when he sees his mother is crying.
- In No Rest for the Wicked, Anna cries over the freed Klaus.
- Jack from Zoophobia. Although he hasn't cried yet in the comic, crying is listed as one of his hobbies.
- Appears in an episode of She-Ra: Princess of Power, where Tender Tears are the only thing that will cure Hordak of a magical poison.
- Spongebob in Spongebob Squarepants is a male example that's not always played for laughs.
- Male version: Dukey from Johnny Test is kind of prone to this seeing as how he cried for nearly an entire episode because Johnny forgot his birthday.
- Male version: Shifty Dingo from Blinky Bill. Dear lord, Shifty Dingo.
- Male version: Max from Capitol Critters cries fairly easily.
- Beetlejuice: In "Doomie's Romance," Lydia cries quietly when the effort to bring the Mayor's former car alive fails. When Doomie's tears bring the car to life, Lydia and B.J. cry Tears of Joy (although B.J. claims it was something in his eyes).
- Steven Universe: Steven is very prone to this, though at one point he claims that he's "too tough to cry".
Pearl: Just today you were crying about snakes!Steven: *wells up a little* They don't have any arms!