I could use your advice
Put my troubled mind at ease
But your dust don't speak
To me anymore"
The mundane equivalent to Dead Person Conversation
, a Sub-Trope
of Surrogate Soliloquy
. A character addresses a dead person, not expecting a response, not getting one — at least, not an unequivocal one
. Can be spoken to the corpse, the coffin, the grave — or to thin air. (If the body is present, often Peaceful in Death
is in play.)
Ubiquitous in Japanese media; it is believed in Japan that unless the living keep the memories of their near and dear ones alive by talking to them, their spirits will disappear into oblivion. Thus a manga or anime character chatting about everyday things with a picture of their dead parents or sibling is not a sign of losing it.
Libation for the Dead
may involve this. For some reason, I Gave My Word
is actually particularly binding in this situation (generally for Best Served Cold
Does not, of course, preclude the dead person's not actually being dead, but does require that the character believe the person to be dead. (Please Wake Up
does not fall under this.)
Symbolic or ambiguous
apparent messages from the dead start to edge this into Dead Person Conversation
Compare Converse with the Unconscious
. Motives may be similar.
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Anime and Manga
- After Superman's death, Lex Luthor asks for a moment alone with the corpse, and proceeds to gloat over how he is home-free.
- Bruce Wayne frequently visits the dual grave of his parents, usually to tell them about his feelings, doubts, and resolve regarding his mission.
- The Joker does this in "The Killing Joke" when "purchasing" the amusement park. He keeps talking to him after killing him.
- "It wasn't worth it."
- Ralph Dibny does this at the end of Identity Crisis. While getting ready for bed, he talks to his deceased wife Sue on the suggestion of Green Arrow, who had told him earlier "she can hear you." (And GA would know...)
- In Left, Frodo tells Sam that he is "so sorry" after he kills him in a fit of Ring-jealousy. Luckily, it's All Just a Dream.
- Tangled Up In Blues: Throughout the two final chapters, the protagonist/narrator is addressing his dead mentor directly to tell him about how life is going and how thankful he is for everything the mentor's done for him.
- XCOM Second Contact: Shepard and Jenny.
- Mass Effect Human Revolution: Hein and Shepard at the end of chapter 28.
- Under The Northern Lights: The does of Hrimfaxi's temple are able to do this, as long as they have part of the deceased; fortunately, reindeer leave their antlers with them before death. They try this on a figure from ancient deer lore, Wiglek the Wicked. It fails. Wiglek isn't dead ...
Films — Animated
- Carl in the movie Up does this occasionally. To his house, but meaning his wife, Ellie. Russell thinks his house is named Ellie.
- Compare with Monster House, which is kind of the opposite.
- Batman: Mask of the Phantasm, Bruce meets Andrea Beaumont when he visits his parents' graves and overhears her casually talking to her dead mother. This prompts him to do the same thing - including in costume years later, which is how she figures out who he is.
Andrea: So, tell me - with all that money and power, how come you always look like you want to jump off a cliff?
Bruce: Why should you care?
Andrea: I don't. Mother was asking.
- In the Director's Cut of Batman Beyond: Return of the Joker, Mr. J kills one of his henchmen (Bonk), then demands the others re-pledge their loyalty:
Chucko and Ghoul: We're with you!
Joker: Dee Dee?
Dee Dee: We're with you!
cut to Bonk's grinning, twitching corpse
- In The Lion King, both the movie and the musical have Simba talking to Mufasa. And trust me,he knows.
Films — Live-Action
- When Tuco catches up with Blondie in The Good, the Bad and the Ugly, he finds Blondie running the same bounty racket with another bandit. Blondie is forced to watch his new partner die, to which he mutters "Sorry, Shorty."
- The main character of Balls of Fury went to talk to his dead father - and got splashed by the water ride that the cemetery sold the airspace to.
- Maverick in Top Gun says "Talk to me, Goose" (referencing his deceased former backseater) during the final air battle
- Hinted at in the first Leave It to Beaver Made-for-TV Movie, when Barbara Billingsly is seen in front of a gravestone uttering her famous line, "Ward, I'm worried about the Beaver."
- In the first Tim Burton Batman movie, The Joker has a conversation with a mob boss named Antoine Rotellei who he just killed with an electrified joy buzzer. It is during this conversation that The Joker decides to kill the whole lot of the mob summit immediately, allegedly under Rotellei's "suggestion."
- In a particularly heartwrenching version, the movie Grace Is Gone features John Cusack repeatedly calling his (dead) wife's answering machine to ask her advice on how to relate to their two daughters.
- Mikey in The Goonies has a heart-to-ribcage chat with the skeletal remains of One-Eyed Willie.
- Lampooned in the disaster movie parody The Big Bus with so many people talking in the graveyard the protagonist has to shout in order to be heard above the din.
- Johnny in Red Roses and Petrol has an emotional goodbye by speaking to his dead father's video diary.
- Dolly Levi, as played both by Shirley Booth in The Matchmaker and Barbra Streisand in Hello, Dolly!!, sometimes talks to her dead husband Ephraim Levi.
- In the Sixth Sense, Anna talks to Malcolm, not knowing he can hear her.
- John Preston (Christian Bale) tearfully apologises to Sean Bean's Corpse in Equilibrium. Preston was the one who executed him for feeling emotions, a crime punishable by death. Preston was now committing that same crime.
- In Nell, the titular character talks to (and plays with) the memory of her dead sister. It's a lot less creepy than it sounds.
- In Sleepless In Seattle, Sam (Tom Hanks) talks to his wife about stuff that is happening in his life.
- In the closing scene of Tommy Boy the titular character has a heart to heart with his dearly departed dad, whilst stuck on a lake in a sailboat.
- In Shenandoah, Charlie Anderson talks to the grave of his late wife Martha.
- In Hot Fuzz, Nicholas Angel has a few words at a grave that appears to belong to his partner, Danny Butterman, after the latter took a blunderbuss shot to save his life. It ends up being a Subverted Trope, as the grave actually belongs to Danny's mother, and the words are actually directed at the very much alive Danny.
- In Cas And Dylan, Dylan roots through Cas' cell phone and finds a frequently-dialed entry for "Denise." Thinking it's a friend, she calls the number repeatedly, but the calls go straight to voice mail. Eventually, Cas reveals that "Denise" is his long-dead wife, and he has kept her account active all these years just so he can occasionally hear her voice one last time.
- In Dan Abnett's Gaunt's Ghosts novel Only in Death, Rawne addresses Gaunt's sword, which was recovered, telling him he's angry about being stuck with this.
- In James Swallow's Warhammer 40,000 Horus Heresy novel The Flight of the Eisenstein, Garro finds his armor, carefully readied for him by his now-dead housecarl Kaleb. Garro addresses the air, telling Kaleb that he was an honor to the Legion.
- In the sci-fi story Enemy Mine, humans and aliens are at war. After becoming stranded, the human William Davidge becomes friends with the alien Jeriba Shigan. After Jeriba dies while giving birth, Davidge talks to Jeriba's memory about his concerns. At one point he does bluntly say "You can't answer, Drac, you're dead," quoting the Drac's holy book (which he learned to read), then goes back to talking to Jeriba's memory.
- In James Swallow's Warhammer 40,000 Deus Encarmine, Rafen, deeply troubled by Koris's dying words, goes to see the corpse and implores him to show him the path, one last time. Koris's not-yet-deactivated vox, which has command codes, falls to his hand, and he uses it to get out word.
- Later, when Sachiel hears that Rafen was caught in an exploding factory (No One Could Survive That), he gloats, actually saying, "Rafen, you are dead."
- In Brian Jacques's Redwall, Matthias addresses a tapestry showing Martin the Warrior about his weakness. When Cornflower appears to reassure him and say that his tears are not Water Works, he interprets this as message from Martin.
- Heck, just about every Redwall book has one of the characters talking to the tapestry of Martin the Warrior. Given that many of them actually receive a response of some sort (especially if they're the main character of the book), this usually falls within the realm of Dead Person Conversation, but not always.
- Lois McMaster Bujold's Miles Vorkosigan has a tendency to talk to dead people during crises of motivation, most particularly his Grandfather and a baby girl named Raina who was killed for having a birth defect. In Memory he tells his driver that he wants to go talk to the latter of these two, causing the driver to doubt his sanity.
- In Robert E. Howard's Conan the Barbarian story "A Witch Shall Be Born" Valerius tells Krallides's head that his death was not in vain — now Valerius knows that the true queen is alive and a prisoner.
- In Scaramouche, Andre-Louis Moreau prays to the spirit of his dead friend, Phillipe, before going to a duel.
- Shaun from the Newsflesh trilogy ends up talking to Georgia after she dies. He's fully aware that the fact he hears her answer back means that he's insane, but doesn't care.
- In Poul Anderson's "The Sharing of Flesh", Evalyth talks to both Donli and their yet-to-be-born baby, bewildering herself.
- In the Horus Heresy short story "Warmaster," Horus talks to the skull of Ferrus Manus about what that title means to him.
Live Action TV
- Played for bleak laughs in Candorville. Lemont's lawyer spends several strips shackled to a wall next to a skeleton, which turns out to be one of his process servers who'd gone missing. He blames himself for the process server's death, and asks him "Can you forgive me? Then, since he's a lawyer, he takes the skeleton's silence to mean "yes."
- In Greater Tuna, several characters, including Aunt Pearl and Stanley Beaumiller, address the town's recently-deceased Hanging Judge, who was found dead of a stroke dressed in a bra and panties. Stanley complains to his corpse how hard it was to dress him in his wife's lingerie after killing him by injecting air into his veins.
- In The Most Happy Fella, Tony turns his eyes to a certain part of the sky and talks (and sings) to his "Mamma up in Heaven."
- In Oscar Wilde's play Salome (and its operatic adaptation by Richard Strauss), Salome talks erotically to the severed head of John the Baptist.
- In Fire Emblem, after Leila is killed, Matthew occasionally talks to her. He even goes so far as to imagine that Leila told him to give up on trying to enact revenge on Jaffar, who was responsible, because he wasn't really in control of himself at the time, and Matthew obediently lets him go and backs down.
- Towards the end of Iji, when (barring an Easter Egg) Dan gets killed by Assassin Asha, Iji has a Heroic BSOD and continues to act like he's her Mission Control, even tucking him into bed so he can 'rest'.
- In the beginning of Tales of Symphonia, Lloyd talks to Anna's grave at Dirk's house. He does it again at the end, asking her if it's OK that he let his dad go.
- Played for Laughs in Sonic Colors, with Sonic's Badass Boast towards the giant boss robot he just destroyed. Tails even lampshades it.
- During Hatoful Boyfriend's BBL route a badly shaken Sakuya asks his seemingly-dead brother "What should I do?"
- Chapter 21.2 of Worm has Taylor, the protagonist, visit her mother's grave to talk to her about what she's done in costume as Skitter.
- Static Shock: Virgil often went to talk to his mom during the first bit of the series.
- Batman: The Animated Series, Mr. Freeze in the episode "Heart of Ice", talking to a snowglobe that represents his wife, Nora. He talks to her again at the end of the episode, begging for her forgiveness. It's heartwrenching.
Mr. Freeze: This is how I'll always remember you: surrounded by winter, forever young, forever beautiful... Rest well, my love! The monster who took you from me will soon learn that revenge is a dish best served cold.
- Subverted in The Venture Bros.. Henchman 21 talks to the skull of Henchman 24 several times during the first half of Season 4, but we only hear him talk. It isn't until the mid-season finale that we learn 24 responds to him...
- Serial Killer Dennis Neilsen used to do this; in fact it was his main motivation (well, that and sex). He didn't like being lonely, so he killed his boyfriends after sleeping with them so they wouldn't leave him.
- Anytime somebody writes a letter to the dead and leaves it on the grave could be considered this. The practice goes all the way back to Ancient Egypt.
- And the ancestor shrines of Asian religions.
- Richard Nixon has been laughed at for talking to the picture of Lincoln in the White House, but it's reasonable to assume most presidents might seek insight this way. Like, "Vietnam's a mess. What would you do, Abe?"