"Oh, Arnold, how I love you. And yet I hate you! And yet I love you. And yet I hate you! And yet I LOVE you."
The Japanese term tsundere
refers to a character who "runs hot and cold", alternating between two distinct moods: tsuntsun
) and deredere
The term was originally used to describe characters who began with a harsh outgoing personality, but slowly revealed
a soft and vulnerable interior over time. Over the years the character archetype has become flanderized
, and is now generically associated
with a character who flips between the two emotional states at the slightest provocation, and usually at a specific person rather than a general sociability problem.
The tsuntsun can range from the "silent treatment" to "lovestruck kindergartener who pushes you into the sandbox." The reasons behind a Tsundere's behavior vary widely, but usually boil down to the conflict between their feelings of affection towards a love interest, and their reaction to having those feelings.
The Tsundere stock characterization
is very popular with writers of Romantic Comedy
because the conflicts between the two personality facets can be easily utilized to generate both drama and comedy. It also acts as a source of Wish Fulfillment
: specifically, the idea that every independent, hardened and just plain jerkish
love interest (male or female) has a squishy emotional centre that will embrace you after you crack the outer shell.
Tsundere can be divided into two main categories, depending on their default mood:
- Harsh (or Tsun): These Tsundere have tsuntsun as their default mood. It takes someone special to trigger their deredere side. The intensity of the tsuntsun can range from "I must glare and fight my way through life" (Louise of The Familiar of Zero) to grumpy pessimism (Kagami of Lucky Star). It's about which part of the tsundere personality is the public face and which the hidden. If the Tsundere is The Rival, she is more likely to be Harsh. Helping a rival out is usually accompanied by a line like "Don't get me wrong, I'm not doing this for you."
Harsh types can overlap with a Jerk with a Heart of Gold, but usually not. The moods of a Tsundere tend to switch in reaction to the actions of select people or adverse scenarios; the deredere side usually only comes out when someone has acted in a way to trigger it. A Jerk with a Heart of Gold is jerkish in general regardless of whether the other person is mean or nice, and shows their Hidden Heart of Gold only when the situation warrants, regardless of how the other person had been acting. Male characters in particular should be considered for Jerk with a Heart of Gold status, as arguably because of Double Standards, men are generally that instead of tsundere, although the kuudere subtype is more equally split in gender. Oranyan is sometimes used to refer to a male tsundere character - incorrectly since it means the complete opposite.
- Sweet (or Dere): These Tsundere have deredere as their default mood. They are sweet, kind and generous, but just happen to have a hidden violent side as well. In this case, temper is almost always triggered by someone or something else, usually a Love Interest. Either they have Belligerent Sexual Tension, are an Accidental Pervert, or just have no idea how to handle feelings of love and attraction. May also overlap with Violently Protective Girlfriend if her Love Interest is threatened or in danger.
Sweet types should not be confused with a Yandere. If a Sweet Tsundere were really convinced that their Love Interest didn't want them, they would revert back to the deredere side and probably enter an I Want My Beloved to Be Happy phase, while Yanderes are Not Good with Rejection at all and have been known to get downright murderous under such circumstances.
See also the Analysis page
for more detailed information on common "strategies" employed by Tsundere
characters, and other, related topics. this site
has an explanation on the appeal of the tsundere character.
A common way of showing that a Tsundere has mellowed or has had her heart won over
by the Love Interest
is to have her shift from Harsh to Sweet. If her motivations are inquired, she will often engage in a Suspiciously Specific Denial
, complete with a Luminescent Blush
and total evasion of eye contact (cue the squeaks of Moe
When paired with a Jerk with a Heart of Gold
, together they produce Belligerent Sexual Tension
. If done poorly, the result is an Unintentionally Unsympathetic Jerk Sue
. Compare with Well, Excuse Me, Princess!
, Jerk Ass
, and Jerk with a Heart of Gold
. Contrast with Sour Outside, Sad Inside
, which shares the spiky exterior but has depression and self-doubt rather than kindness hiding underneath. When Flanderized
tends to overlap with Mood-Swinger
. Also see Don't You Dare Pity Me!
and Anger Born of Worry
; both of them likely actions with this character type. Aloof Ally
may show the same hot-and-cold behavior but for differing reasons. Shana Clone
is a specific subtrope with a particular set of characteristics. Because of their low tolerance for stupidity, they are always Enraged By Idiocy
Please do not confuse this trope with a Mood-Swinger
, who flips between all
the emotional states (not just tsuntsun and deredere) and is more of an inherent mental problem encompassing more than just their romantic life. Also don't confuse with Playing Hard to Get
, where a love interest deliberately
chooses not to reciprocate her pursuer's interest until she's sure he's hooked.
Psychologically, tsundere-like behavior could be an example of "splitting," a maladaptive coping mechanism wherein a person alternately idealizes and undervalues others
, including potential romantic partners.
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