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- This trope kicks off the plot of Urusei Yatsura. During a competition to determine the fate of the Earth, Ataru's girlfriend promises to marry him if he wins. After defeating his female alien competitor Lum, he says how glad he is that he can get married. Lum thinks he's talking about marrying her, falls in love with him and accepts his "proposal".
- In Tamako Market, Dera colliding with Tamako's face causes her to sneeze violently; and apparently Dera's culture interprets sneezing at someone as a declaration of courtship towards them. Dera assesses the situation accordingly.
- In Kyo Kara Maoh!, Wolfram badmouths Yuuri's mom, and Yuuri gets mad. Instead of punching Wolfram, Yuuri slaps him across the left cheek (apparently, Wolfram is too much of a Bishounen to punch). What Yuuri doesn't know is that slapping someone across the left cheek is how at least the noble classes propose marriage in Shin Makokou. When he finds out, Yuuri is horrified, but Wolfram (and darn near all the other characters too) takes the engagement very seriously.
- The Rurouni Kenshin anime has a filler episode devoted to this trope, as Kenshin is told by his friends to give his girlfriend Kaoru a ring he found in a fish he caught. Kenshin had never heard of the Western custom of proposing with a ring, but Kaoru had—the poor girl believes this to be an engagement proposal. By the end of the episode, though, all is confessed (and the ring is returned to the original owner, who was this close to killing himself because he threw it away after a fight with his fiance, but now can give it back to her and she wears it proudly) ...and poor Kaoru is so disappointed that she's seen stuffing her face in the Akebeko to try cheering herself up. There's still a sweet scene at the end where Kenshin makes up with her by bringing her flowers, though.
- Ranma ˝ has Shampoo's village of Joketsuzoku; according to the rulebook, not only is she supposed to give a Kiss of Death to any non-Joketsuzoku girl who defeats her, but she's also supposed to marry any non-Joketsuzoku guy who defeats her. Between being a guy who defeated her in front of her whole village (admittedly in the wrong form, thanks to his Gender Bender curse), followed by knocking her out cold again in male form in her first appearance in Japan, Shampoo and her great-grandmother insist that Ranma is engaged to her.
- In Cat's Eye, Hitomi had once slapped an exploding watch on Kamiya's wrist to stop his latest attempt to woo her, only to realize that Mitsuko Asatani had the matchbox with the code to enter to stop the watch from exploding in fifteen minutes. Not wishing to die, Kamiya started running like a possessed, ruined the cover of three of Mitsuko's fellow cops to find her, barged in the cafe where she was, cried out he had searched for her in all of Tokyo, punched away a guy who tried to shoo him away, grabbed the matchbox, entered the code... and suddenly realized Mitsuko was there for her omiai.note With the guy he punched out. Before their friends. And Mitsuko's father. Who was praising him for the 'manliness' he just showed. Mitsuko accepted.
- Axis Powers Hetalia:
- Early in the series, Italy greets Japan with a hug. Japan then insists that Italy take responsibility for his actions.
- A similar situation happened with Pochi (Japan's pet dog) and Netherlands' rabbit after the latter greeted the former by licking him.
- In Nisekoi, Raku and Chitoge are walking together and Chitoge sees a sign advertising a certain charm that a man can give a woman to propose. Just then, Raku gets his hands on one of these charms. Thinking nothing of it, he casually hands it to her. He has no idea why she is freaking out, until he sees the sign and freaks out as well, desperately explaining it was a misunderstanding.
- In an Archie Comic, in one of the Xmas issues, Moose shows Jughead a jewellery store window with a birthstone ring. He then asks Jughead to find out from his girlfriend, Midge, if she'd like that ring for Christmas. So later, Jug casually asks Midge if she would like the ring in the store window. Midge kisses Jughead and runs off in ultimate excitement. Turns out the jeweller had since placed a diamond engagement ring in the birthstone's spot. Since Moose was normally so jealous that he was known to hospitalize other guys for merely talking to Midge, Jughead was now seriously in deep doo-doo.
- After viewing a particularly emotional piece, Vinyl Scratch tells Octavia she'd like to go on a "tour that lasts forever." Literally every other character in the Reading Rainbowverse interprets this as a proposal and starts preparing for her wedding, leading to Vinyl freaking out and locking herself in Fluttershy's bathroom.
- Six Brides For Two Sisters: It is revealed that Princess Celestia offered to officiate Twilight’s wedding back when Twilight was still a filly under her tutelage. Due to a poor choice of wording on Celestia’s part, Twilight has been living under the assumption that Celestia intends to marry her when Twilight decides she is ready. Celestia herself is quite stunned when she realizes that everyone, including Twilight, thought it was a proposal.
- In the Transformers fanfiction Culture Shock, Megatron beats up Starscream (yet again), then offers the Seeker assistance in standing in an attempt to be condescending... only to learn that in the Seeker's hometown of Vos, such an act is considered an offer for a permanent bond. Starscream accepts the "proposal", and the trine makes it clear that refusing to participate is a bad idea, so he has no choice but to go through with it.
- In An Anthem for Sheltered Bays, Levi makes Eren trade six of his scales for his mantle. Since merfolk only trade scales for marriage proposals, Eren believes that they are engaged. They do actually marry.
- In the Broken Bow series, letting a wood nymph braid your hair is their equivalent of giving you an engagement ring, as Armani finds out too late.
- In Urusei Yatsura: Love to Skate!, the Original Character who replaces Ataru in that fateful game of tag rhetorically asks if he should propose to Lum... only for the last part of the conversation to be picked up via microphone and overheard by Lum.
- In Lum Sum Purple, Shampoo is chosen to be Lum's opponent in the tag game. While she wins, she is angry at having been humiliated twice, and gives Lum the Kiss of Death—unfortunately for Shampoo, the Oni interpret it as the Kiss of Marriage, and declare Lum and Shampoo married.
- In the b-plot to the Meg's Family chapter "Family Goth", after Maddie and Stewie get freed from a finger trap, Cody lies and tells them that in Chinese custom that since their fingers touched they're engaged. They get "married", and when Stewie actually wants to make the relationship work, Cody has a My God, What Have I Done? moment when he realizes that an uncle and niece are acting like they're really married.
- This piece of Gravity Falls fanart. For those too lazy to click on the link, Pacifia accidentally drops her ring, and when Dipper tries to return it to her, she thinks he's asking her to marry him.
- There are so many The Hobbit fanfics about this that it may well be considered its own genre. Fanon has it that dwarves have complicated courting customs and of course it almost never occurs to them that Bilbo might not be familiar with those.
- Chapter 28 from Thirty Tales of a Swordsman make the Strawhats end up on an island where a man has to offer some heirloom item to the girl then ask for her family to come get her for the wedding preparation. Zoro inadvertantly fulfills both conditions when he helps some fruit merchant girl, giving her a dropped necklace - he thought it was hers - and asking if she needs someone to come for her - as, does she need a doctor. The whole village immediately starts the wedding preparation and poor Zoro almost finds himself married. Fortunately - for him - Luffy disagrees as the wedding would mean Zoro wouldn't be able to adventure with the Strawhats anymore.
- In the Miraculous Ladybug fanfic An Indirect Proposal, Adrien says he would marry the person who made the pastry he ate, and ends up accidentally proposing to Marinette.
- Played with in Xander the Maou when Xander gets tired of dealing with Senator Kinsey and pretends slapping someone (which Kinsey just did) is a marriage proposal in his culture. Considering Xander is technically royalty, Kinsey is Reassigned to Antarctica for potentially causing a diplomatic nightmare.
- In this The Legend of Korra fanart, Mako gets Korra a necklace as a 'thank-you' for being a good friend - unbeknownst to Mako, said necklace is a water-tribe betrothal necklace.
- Since Sona Sitri canonically swore she would marry only the man who would beat her at chess, Different DxD throws her in a tizzy when Issei manages it, and she refuses to talk about it for one year. Issei is quite surprised when he learns he's technically betrothed to her, but decides to go through the agreement since Sona made friends with him over the year and they came to fall in love.
- In the snippet Customs of Mandalore, Ezra is disappointed that Sabine didn't even hug him goodbye, only for the others to tell him (between bouts of gut-busting laughter) that he gave her his weapon during a battle, which on Mandalore is considered a marriage proposal as your putting someone else's life ahead of yours. While it only applies to someone close to you, Ezra and Sabine fulfill the requirements and since she accepted his weapon, they're now officially engaged..
Films — Animated
- In Tim Burton's Corpse Bride, Johnny Depp's character is practicing his wedding vows in the forest because he just can't get them right. When he manages to do it correctly, he slips the ring onto what he assumes is a twig sticking up from the ground. Instead, it's Helena Bonham-Carter's character's hand, she is the titular character and believes it to be a proposal. A Back Story tells us that she was murdered before her wedding. This leads directly to an Accidental Marriage.
Films — Live-Action
- In the Abbott and Costello film Ride 'Em Cowboy, Willoughby (Lou) accidentally shoots an arrow into an Indian maiden's teepee. Tribal custom says this is a proposal of marriage and Lou and Bud spend much of the rest of the film running away from the bride-to-be and her tribe.
- In the The Searchers, Martin Pawley thinks he's buying a blanket from some Indians. Turns out he's married one of them instead, "Look". Ethan Edwards thinks it's hilarious. He is also rather nicer to the unexpected bride than her "husband", despite the fact that she's a Comanche.
- Leap Year: Poor Stanley does this three times in rapid succession on Catalina, gaining three unwanted fiancées. He kind of brings it on himself, like when he tells Molly "what you need is a husband" after Molly has a breakup with her boyfriend.
- Dexter: Dexter and Rita become engaged when Rita sees Dexter holding a ring (...actually belonging to Dexter's sister's boyfriend) and assumes it's a proposal. In a twist, Dexter goes along with it.
- In the seventh Ciaphas Cain novel, Cain does this to the daughter of a noble (who's after a husband so she can stake her claim as the governer of her homeworld) by basically nodding his head and going "uh-huh?" through one conversation too many when she's hinting at it. He wouldn't really mind it since it means a life of ease with an attractive woman, but he can't actually resign his commission. He gets out of it when she dumps him for the leader of a nearby planet.
- Garrett, P.I.: When Garrett and his girlfriend Tinnie encounter a powerful sorceress, he's worried the woman's flirty mannerisms will provoke Tinnie into a faux pas that will get them both blasted. He introduces Tinnie as his fiancee purely to defuse the situation, only to have her hold him to it and demand a ring a few pages later.
- In A Princess of Mars, John Carter becomes engaged to Dejah Thoris after she calls him "my chieftain" and he responds by calling her "my princess", with him not knowing what the exchange of those terms means. It takes him some time to work out why she becomes so upset with him.
- Robert A. Heinlein's The Number of the Beast. While dancing together, Zebadiah Carter and Deety Burroughs enjoy a passionate tango together. Zebadiah says "Whew! After a tango like that the couple ought to get married." Deety takes him completely seriously (not realizing he was just joking) and accepts his proposal.
- In Louisa May Alcott's Jo's Boys, Tommy accidentally proposes to Dora while still thinking himself in love with Nan, who had resolved to become a doctor and so to never marry. He is unable to contradict her on the spot, and the effect of the engagement is to shake him out of Oblivious to Love. (Nan makes up a basket of medical supplies for a wedding present, knowing Dora will need it for his accidents.)
- In P. G. Wodehouse's Jeeves and Wooster stories, Bertie once tried to act as a go-between for Madeline and Gussie. It convinced Madeline that he was speaking for himself. Not only did she consider them engaged, later, after that engagement was broken and she was engaged to another man, she broke it off and declared she would instead marry Bertie and make him happy.
- Amongst many other times. One of the most common plots for the stories is: Woman misinterprets Wooster's actions as a proposal of marriage; Wooster is too much the gentleman to contradict her; Jeeves has to arrange for the woman to break the engagement off, to get Wooster off the hook.
- In The Elenium, Sparhawk uses two near-identical ruby rings in order to save Queen Ehlana's life. One is traditionally worn by his family line, and the other by hers. Later he tries to return the ring to her, only for Ehlana to spot it's actually his family's ring rather than hers. She leaps on the mistake in order to make good on her childhood ambition of marrying him.
- In Diary of a Wimpy Kid: The Ugly Truth, during Uncle Gary's wedding to Sonja, Gary's best man Leonard reveals that Gary was actually planning to break up with Sonja during the baseball game they were attending and start dating her sister instead, but before he could do that a plane flew overhead with a banner saying "Marry Me Sonja?" Thinking it was from Gary, Sonja accepted. Gary would have told her the truth, but he was afraid the guys around his seat would beat him up if he let Sonja down.
- In Much Fall of Blood, Erik offers Bortai 'the protection of his house' when he sees her being pursued by murderous thugs. He used the mongol word Ger (a kind of tent). In her culture this was a proposal of marriage. Nobody took it seriously, but for months the Mongols were sharing an in-joke at the expense of their clueless European guest. Eventually he got wise to the joke, and actually married her.
- Captain Underpants and the Wrath of the Wicked Wedgie Woman: George and Harold write a fake marriage proposal from Principal Krupp in Ms. Ribble's retirement card. The pair are too flummoxed to protest, and the staff arranges a wedding for them.
Live Action TV
- In The Vicar of Dibley, the vicar (a woman) is asked by her love interest "will you be the one to marry me?", by which he means to join him and his partner in Holy Matrimony, rather than to become his wife. She misinterprets this and, when he introduces the other woman as his fiancee, yells whilst laughing "I don't think so!" then realises and apologises, pretending it was a joke.
- How I Met Your Mother
- Ted accidentally takes the best man's jacket before a wedding. When he goes to break it off with a girl, he accidentally drops the ring he didn't know was in the jacket. As he picks it up, the girl answers the door to see Ted, kneeling in a tuxedo, holding a ring.
- A sparkling wine flute containing a ring was delivered to Ted and Robin's table while they were on the first anniversary date, rather than the table next to theirs. When Robin sees it she yells "Noo, no no no no no no no, No! No, no no no, no, no, No!"
- And it's Played With when Barney "proposes" to Abby, who was in on the plan, to show Ted how annoying he can be with girls. Abby isn't the sharpest nail in the box and thinks it's a real proposal, telling her dad "It finally happened, daddy!", Barney believing her to be 'doing a bit'.
- Friends: Shortly after Rachel gives birth to Emma, Joey finds Ross's engagement ring, which Ross was going to present to Rachel and ask her to marry him. Joey turns around while happening to be on one knee, still holding the ring. Rachel says yes to Joey. A delightful series of miscommunications ensues.
- In a sketch on Monty Python's Flying Circus a man goes to a male marriage registrar and asks the registrar to marry him to his fiance, but the registrar misunderstands and thinks the man is asking him to marry him. He accepts, although he does have a wife already, but he amiably decides to get a divorce. Another man comes in and asks the registrar to marry him and the registrar says he'd already accepted the other man's proposal. In the end it turns out they're all Straight Gay (including the first man's fiance and the registrar's "wife"); they all get married and live together happily ever after.
- In Chuck episode "Chuck vs the Cubic Z", Big Mike plans on proposing to Morgan's mother with a cubic zirconium. He entrusts Morgan to guard it, who ends up losing the ring. At the end of the episode, the ring falls into the airvent and lands in Castle. Chuck finds it and kneels on one knee to pick it up while looking at Sarah. Cue to extreme awkwardness between Chuck and Sarah.
- In the Doctor Who story "The Aztecs", the Doctor accidentally gets engaged to Cameca by making her an offer that in her culture is a euphemistic marriage proposal. He apparently feels so badly about disappointing and leaving her that his libido goes AWOL for the next five or six centuries.
- And then he proposes to Queen Elizabeth I believing her to be a Zygon. She wasn't, and she accepts. He ends up marrying her, promising to be right back... and running off. That's why she wants his head on a pike.
- And then he kinda-sorta proposes to River, twice. The first time he was asking whether she was married, which she is, to him, and she just ran with it to mess up with him. The second time, she had been shot and he didn't know it was her. He tells her "survive, and I'll marry you". She regenerates.
- Shake It Up!: In the episode "Review It Up", Cece and Rocky are trying to impress a reviewer who is trash-talking Shake It Up, Chicago! on his blog. They invite him and his girlfriend to Krusty's Pizza and perform a flash mob. The reviewer's girlfriend finds in her pizza the ring Deuce meant to give to Dina on their anniversary and excitedly says yes.
- In Community, After Jeff and Britta "profess their love for each other", Abed hands Jeff a ring and tells him to propose. However, Britta proposes instead, and a wedding ceremony begins in mere seconds afterwards. Of course it's all stopped after Annie slaps Jeff (because she was getting a crush on Jeff, and was insulted by his advances towards Britta. Although the advances themselves were just an act so people would stop shaming Jeff after what happened in the Season 1 finale) and tells the truth.
- Jessie: In the episode "Trouble With Tessie", Jessie fears that Tony is planning on proposing to her when he invites her to meet his parents at his family's restaurant. It gets even worse for her when she finds out that the family has a tradition of proposing at the restaurant. She finds a ring in her soup and starts panicking and saying no, but then Stuart clarifies that the ring is actually his which he gives to Zuri.
- Mr. Humphries and Mrs. Slocombe on Are You Being Served?: he was going to suggest something else to her, but she thought he was about to propose marriage, and when he started with, "I propose," she interrupted with, "And I accept!"
- Done by James in Big Time Rush. Apparently giving a rose to a princess is a marriage proposal in some foreign countries.
- On Magnum, P.I. Higgins breaks the news of his impending marriage to another women to his Gal Pal Agatha and does it so awkwardly she thinks he's proposing and accepts! Higgins then has the fun of disillusioning her, and later of confessing that he doesn't want to marry the first woman at all and asking Agatha's advice. Somehow their friendship survives.
- Stand-up comedian Henry Cho talks about this in What's That Clickin' Noise?. While at a baseball game, the screen said "Marry Me Cindy" while he was on a date with someone named Cindy. He and all the guys with dates by that name ended up engaged.
- There's an Urban Legend surrounding a Coca-Cola ad. In the ad a man proposes to his gal by having a skywriter write "Marry Me Sue" in the air. According to the UL a woman named Sue in the area where the filming took place had a boyfriend who said that he wasn't going to propose to her; but if he did, he'd do it in a spectacular fashion such as hiring a skywriter.
- The Legend of Zelda:
- In a sidequest in The Legend of Zelda: The Wind Waker, Maggie thinks Moe the moblin's letter to her is a marriage proposal. In reality, it only says "I want to eat you for dinner."
- Inverted in Ocarina of Time: When Ruto gave the Zora Sapphire to Link, in Zora culture, his acceptance of it would mean that Link accepts her proposal. However, Link only needs the sapphire to open the inner chamber of the Temple of Time. So Ruto proposed to Link, but he interpreted it in a different way.
- In episode 3 of Wallace & Gromit's Grand Adventures, Wallace accidentally proposes to Miss Flitt while picking up a lugnut that she mistakes for a wedding ring. Sorting this out takes up a good part of the plot of episode 4.
- In Bravely Second, when Yew Geneolgia first meets Magnolia Arch, she's unconscious in the wreckage of her spaceship, and Yew uses a flower from a nearby magnolia tree to wake her up. When Magnolia wakes up, she accepts the flower he used as a gift. It later is revealed that, on the moon (where Magnolia is from), flowers are considered rare and valuable, and offering one as a gift is equivalent to a marriage proposal. As such, Magnolia spends a fair amount of time thinking that Yew had pledged to marry her.
- Use Sword on Monster: Humphrey thought he was just helping a captive stand up, and then Maga nailed him with a magical betrothal-binding. (Deliberate on her part, because the binding means she and Humphrey now share each others' pain... and she's expecting the DHSS to try torturing information out of her.)
- In the CatDog movie in which the eponymous characters look for their parents, they wind up in a place where cats and dogs cohabitate peacefully, although they are all hillbillies. After drinking some root beer, Cat burps in the face of a female dog, who tells her dad and a wedding is arranged.
- The Looney Tunes Show: In "Members Only", Bugs is planning to break up with Lola. As he approaches the table, he trips and drops a mint under chair. As he kneels down to pick it up, Lola assumes he is proposing and immediately accepts.
- "Is It College Yet?", the Series Finale of Daria, features a subplot where Ms. Barch mistakes Mr. O'Neill's attempts at sympathy regarding her ex-husband as a marriage proposal.
- The Simpsons: In "Apocalypse Cow", Bart accidentally becomes engaged to Cletus' daughter Mary when he gives her a stolen cow to look after (It Makes Sense in Context).
- In Ben 10: Omniverse, Ben challenges the Tetramand princess Looma Red Wind to a battle to prevent her marriage to Kevin. He doesn't find out until after defeating her that in her culture, females are betrothed to whoever defeats them in combat. Kevin and Looma's wedding is called off and Ben unwittingly ends up engaged to her in Kevin's place.
- In Popeye and Son, this is how Bluto ended up married to his wife Lizzie - during one of his attempts to sabotage Popeye and Olive's wedding, he stole the wedding ring, and due to a convoluted series of events, ended up at the site of the wedding ceremony. Lizzie saw the ring, which he was holding, and believed he was proposing to her - having always thought of him as a "dreamboat", she accepted, and had the ceremony started immediately.
- Harry Truman always maintained that he married his wife, Bess, because of something like this. When the US entered World War I, Truman decided he would sign up with the army, and went to see Bess (whom he had been courting informally) to let her know his decision. During their conversation, Bess apparently joked, with no actual intent behind it, that "if this were a novel, I suppose you'd be proposing to me about now." After a few moment's thought, he replied, "Well, Bess, I think that's a right fine idea, but given the war and all maybe we should wait until I'm back from Europe." And they did.