A situation where a man (and it almost always is a man) is dragged off or restrained by his necktie, which serves as a sort of "leash" for whoever's holding it. The one holding it is almost always a woman, and this trope can be seen as the visual equivalent of "pussy whipped", possibly serving as a visual cue for a Henpecked Husband
. It's also a way of suggesting that some major league smooching (or beyond) is going to occur later off screen.
Obviously, a tie serves as a handy holding strap for anyone to grab—but of course, Freudian psychologists
are prompt to note that a full cravat is a phallic symbol
—hence women using them to lead their men around.
This trope is usually used to indicate who has the control in a relationship and is almost always Played for Laughs
, though very rarely you'll ever see it happen
with a man holding a woman like this and have it be seen as funny. Also, women don't wear neckties as much
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- In the first chronological episode of Haruhi Suzumiya, Kyon is dragged off in this fashion by Haruhi, quickly establishing who's in charge of their strange friendship.
- Again, midway through the second OP, with a bold tug.
- In the novels she usually pulls him along arm in arm instead.
- A male-on-male example occurs in Genshiken, when Ogiue draws a hardcore Yaoi doujinshi inspired by an incident with Madarame, who had been out searching for jobs, in preparation for his upcoming graduation, and was wearing a full suit and tie. Sasahara comes by the club room while Madarame is taking a break, and it's just the two of them. They have a conversation about job-hunting, and Madarame mentions that he bought the tie off the bargain rack. Sasahara takes the end of the tie and bends in for a closer look—and at that exact moment, Ogiue walks in. It's a completely innocent situation, but just for a moment, it looks like something out of a yaoi manga, and Ogiue's imagination immediately begins running wild.
- A non-romantic and non-funny example occurs in Noir, when Kirika breaks a man's neck by flipping him over a beam while holding his tie. It's not pretty. But it's unbelievably AWESOME
- Ryoko torments her subordinate this way in The Case Files of Yakushiji Ryoko, showing that he is basically her slave-boy. Monami, Ryoko's clone loves doing this to him as well, to the point that he once had to sleep in her bed because she fell asleep still holding it.
- In the first episode of Gunslinger Girl, a thug gets the bright idea to grab Giuseppe by the tie and threaten him. Henrietta is standing right there and is not happy with this arrangement. Long story short, all the thugs end up dead.
- In the third volume of the yaoi manga Under Grand Hotel Swordfish does this to Sen.
- In Chapter 37 of Kaichou Wa Maid-sama!, Usui proposes a round of the Pocky Game when Misaki asks him for something. Eventually, she complies, and ends up pulling him in for a kiss by his tie.
- Another example from the same series was when Misaki grabbed Kuuga to threaten him into stopping flirting with her and leading Sakura on.
- Another male-on-male version: in an Axis Powers Hetalia strip, Norway strangles Denmark with his own tie.
- In Bakuman。, after Takagi says that he's confident Yakusa North High will be begging for him to attend in spite of his being suspended for punching Ishizawa, his girlfriend Miyoshi does this to Mashiro, who's walking alongside her, and tells him that she likes him because he says things like that.
- In the manga for Magical Girl Lyrical Nanoha StrikerS, Subaru, in response to people still judging her and Teana as the "airheaded pair," says that if they continue to do well, people will change their minds. Teana, irritated, grabs Subaru's necktie, pulls her in and reminds her that it's her fault they got that reputation.
- Done to Sanji of One Piece in a pre-violent way. After admitting that he can't beat Kalifa because he Wouldn't Hit a Girl, the CP 9 agent does this before kicking him off the balcony of her room.
- Tsuboi-sensei of Imouto Wa Shishunki gets help tying his tie from the wrong teacher and winds up with an actual leash
- In episode 7 of Say I Love You, Mei uses this to kiss Yamato.
- In Gekkan Shoujo Nozaki-kun, the usual roles are gender-flipped with Hori frequently depicted as dragging around Kashima by her necktie. The fourth volume cover also features a more traditional version, with Seo doing so with Waka.
- In Kyon Big Damn Hero, Haruhi does this regularly, so much so that Kyon once counters by pulling her out of class by her neckerchief.
- In The Rebel and the Chosen, Tonks uses this technique to pull Harry into a Stock Kiss
Live Action TV
- In Silicon Wolfpack, Mark and Epsilon each try this during the course of their fight. They are both wearing clip-ons.
- In The Long Dark Teatime Of The Soul, Kate uses this trope on Dirk when she's chewing him out for following her and running into her car. He eventually gets tired of this, and defies it by taking off his tie and handing it to her.
- Britney Spears does this to a middle-aged man in her 'Toxic' video.
- The main male character in ZZ Top's 'Sharp Dressed Man' video gets this.
- Has happened more than once to I.R.S.
- In the highly Narmtastic Superman musical It's a Bird, It's a Plane, It's Superman, Sassy Secretary Sydney does this to Clark Kent in the song "You've Got Possibilities".
- Invoked in Super Smash Brothers where some characters look like they are doing this to Donkey Kong when they grab him, through careful placing of their models.
- In Trauma Team, this seems to be Naomi's favorite way of getting Little Guy's attention.
- Huntress does this to The Question in the Justice League Unlimited episode "Double Date", when it's heavily implied that they have sex offscreen.
- This Victor Borge comedy routine, involving a rather...interesting signal to turn the page of Borge's sheet music.
- Part of The Angry Video Game Nerd vs. The Nostalgia Critic Final Battle involved the Nerd grabbing the Critic's tie in order to beat him up (about 15 seconds in here).
- And according to Spoony, it's always good to have something to hold onto when you ride the pony.
- And in fic, the amount of times that tie has been grabbed, pulled or been used as some kind of bondage has got to be far in the double-digits by now.
- Once again involving Spoony, during Kickassia episode 3 he briefly grabs Chris Larios' tie, but doesn't hold on for long or really pull.
- Obscurus Lupa joins in on the fun in Suburban Knights. She's done it twice so far.
- It also got pulled quite a bit when he was a tied to a chair hostage in a Game Heroes kidnapping promo. Considering they had a gun at his head and he was already scared out of his mind, it's safe to say they were just doing it for the dominance factor.
- This piece of Culture Shock fanart.
- Police uniforms never include "real" ties (clip-on, if any) in order to prevent this or worse. (The same goes for many jobs that involve a risk of dealing with "difficult" people, i.e. angry drunks)
- This is also true for ties and id-cards worn by people in security firms.
- Que the often heard heard: "Stop removing my tie!" From the Beefeaters infront of the Royal palace.
- Same goes for people in places where they operate heavy machinery (admittedly, these guys don't usually wear ties, but there is always some manager that decides to visit wearing a three piece suit.)