Firefly from Ace Combat: The Equestrian War. There are times when she acts like an a-hole towards other ponies, especially Fluttershy at the beginning (going as far as to smack her!) as well as Derpy and Medley later on. But deep inside, she's just a troubled mare, trying to readjust herself to the circumstances around her. Thankfully, RainbowDash is there to help her.
Brainbent features a few, which isn't surprising since the majority of the cast are dealing with some emotional problem or other, many of them fairly serious. Karkat is probably their reigning champion. He's a shouty little ball of rage and self-loathing, coated in a complete lack of tact, but he is, at heart, a compassionate person. When he isn't buried over his head in his own issues he's genuinely concerned for the people around him, and for all that he can be painfully inept at dealing with his own emotions, sometimes he gives good advice.
Nick Fury is a grumpy, ruthless man, more than willing to use intimidation and coercion to get his way. He was also once a nice young man who ended up massively disillusioned after going twelve underfunded and undersupported rounds with Lucius Malfoy and lost the closest thing he had to a little sisterLily Potter.
Peter Wisdom a.k.a. Regulus Black, his protégé, is all of this and more, for obvious reasons.
Namor is an unrepentant asshole, and hinted to have tried very hard to kill the First Class of X-Men (whatever he did, Colonel Summers is still holding a grudge most of fifty years later). However, he apparently apologised, considers Steve one of the very few men he ever really respected, paying him a number of back-handed compliments and immediately seeking epic scale vengeance for HYDRA's actions in chapter 74. He was also rather impressed by Rhodey's attempt to hold up the Helicarrier. Despite bitching and moaning the whole time, he can usually be relied upon to do the right thing.
Following the Forever Red arc in the sequel, Harry winds up as this, after a particularly awful Trauma Conga Line leaves him with PTSD, combining with his existing issues. He's snappish, temperamental, and touchy in the extreme, but he's genuinely horrified once it hits him just how much he's been frightening people and how he nearly lashed out at Cedric Diggory for practically nothing, he dedicates himself to helping fix Ruth Aldine's mind, which was damaged after her Psychic Powers manifested in the midst of his and Maddie's massive scale psychic brawl, treating her very gently, and he gently counsels Maddie after she telepathically contacts him in a moment of anxiety and insecurity. Afterwards, he's still somewhat grumpy, and still has issues, but he's generally nicer.
In thisDeath Note fanfic, Matt is easily the most notable example of this trope:
The Differentverse: Limestone Pie comes off as very grouchy, but in the final scene, it turns out she's been subtly supportive of Marble, and is very happy when her youngest sister stands up to her and reveals she has friends now.
Naruto is one of these. He's quite willing to consider the feelings of others, but his experience with the Kyuushingai has made him rather caustic.
Sakura proves to be one, surprisingly enough. She might quarrel with Ino frequently, look down on people of lower social standing than herself, and lord her queen-bee status over everyone else...but when Aoi savagely beats Ino during Sasuke's tournament, Sakura shows a considerable amount of compassion because, as she herself declares, nobody deserves to undergo something like that.
Suigetsu may be a complete and utter prick to Naruto, but he likewise takes Aoi's beat-down of Ino very badly.
Suigetsu: Hey, I might not be the nicest guy around, but even I have some standards.
House gets depicted like this in a lot of fanfics.
Aramus could be argued as in The Legacy Of The Blood Ravens. He's incredibly arrogant, and doesn't hesitate to charge into battle or lead his men into danger, but he'd give his life for the Chapter and in the end, wants what's best for the Blood Ravens as a whole.
Tama in The Lion King Adventures. Despite being the Big Bad of Series Two, she actually saves Simba from dying of a terminal illness in Sick Simba. She changes her ways in Goodbye, Nala, finally becoming an ally.
Mortality: Gregerson may be a jerk, but like Watson, he seems to care about Holmes.
In Mega Man: Defender of the Human Race, even though he's a bad guy until the episode 11 finale and is not fond of most humans, ProtoMan has demonstrated acts of kindness, especially to Nomad, Mega Man and Roll.
Shatterstorm and Roaring Yawn both show their jerkish sides when they first appear in Equestrylvania. However, the moment something traumatic happens, they end up coming to the defense of the ponies they've belittled. In Shatterstorm's case, he's shown to actually be pretty good with kids.
Despite acting like a total jackass most of the time- make that all of the time- Chaos from the Tamers Forever Series still has some moments where he shows that he genuinely respects his other half, and that he can actually be a nice guy when he wants to.
Ryo also fits the bill, or as Takato puts it:
he knew Ryo was just trying to be a friend… a crazy, narcissist, extremely annoying friend, but a friend, after all.
Zao, the Headmaster of the Imperial Naval Academy in The Odyssey. His initial address to the assembled class consists of telling them that they're all going to die horrible deaths in service of the Realm. Despite this, he really does mean well.
In Sonic the Hedgehog fanfiction "Prison Island Break", Shadow shows that under all his Axe-Crazy perverted psychopathy, he's a very deep person. Since they're all in prison, he tries to conceal his softer side. However he privately acknowledges that Sonic is a better leader, and has become incredibly loyal to the team, even willing to risk his life to protect others.
Narration:What Shadow the Hedgehog said, and what he thought, were not exactly always in the same carpool. On the flip side, they changed lanes so often that they'd clipped each other's wing mirrors off. Still, he certainly wasn't a hero. And nobody could make the mistake of calling him a good man. But he was quick-minded, and fastidious, and determined, and clean, which are all becoming of a hero. The sole quality he lacked was virtue, and he knew it. Still, good men who believe their virtue to be satisfactory have already taken a step down the ladder, and bad men who think themselves sinful enough are ready to take a step up.
L becomes this in Story of the Century. Or if he'd always had shades of this it makes itself more apparent by the end of the story before he dies. Deconstructed in that his default "Jerkass" behavior pushes people away and he refuses to let on whatever capacity for kindness that he has.
Arthur's friend Kay from The Student Prince is elitist, sexist and just plain obnoxious, but when he's offered money by a reporter in exchange for details on Arthur's private life, he responds by punching the reporter and smashing his camera.
Kay: I'll stick your bloody camera where the sun don't shine, you scum! Offering me bloody money for dirt on Arthur! You're not worth the mud under his shoes, you leeches, even if he is a bloody poof! He's our bloody poof!
In Kill la Kill AU, we have Nui, being the "asshole sibling" who liked to bully Ryuuko when the two were three and two years old, but, however, at the same time, she does care about her, as can be seen in comic 27 when she makes it clear she doesn't want her to be sent away to a remedial boarding school. Likewise, there is an eight-year old Ryuuko, who is shown to care about her sisters and was distraught when she thought she was going to be sent away.
Arlene Johnson, Annie's boss in the Criminal Minds fanfic To live again. She's a classic Mean Boss and wants to use Annie's connections with the FBI for personal benefits but also knows how to motivate her people and wants the best for the station and it's cops. She's also shown to geniunely care about Annie (especially later on the story).
Pretty much every single member of Eric's crew in Sonic X: Dark Chaos follows this trope. They often fight, make fun of each other, and make cruel jokes, but they're all firmly on Sonic's side and are willing to help others even at great cost. Sonya in particular embodies this trope - she's highly arrogant and willful, but also has a strong sense of justice.
The rewrite makes Tsali of all people into this. Under all his genocidal Axe-Crazy psychopathy, he has quite a few Hidden Depths. He considers his Tsali Endoskeletons as his children and shows remorse that most of them are gone. Likewise, when he hired a group of mercenaries to help him hunt down the Seedrians, he became quite fond of them and was utterly devastated when they betrayed him - it actually causes him to consider whether getting revenge was really worth it in the end. The fact that one of them was his little sister probably didn't help.
In Old West, Rattlesnake Jake is this with a dose of Adaptational Heroism. The Grim Reaper of the Mojave Desert is intimidating, brusque, violent and a remorseless killer. While he's initially indifferent of Grace Glossy and her son Teddy, he slowly comes to care for them while having to keep them safe. He helps Teddy in overcoming his sight problem and devotes himself to Grace when she confesses her feelings toward him.
Cordelia Chase shows her kinder side in Mirror, Mirror when she's in a mirror-verse. According to her, she has to act like a Rich Bitch or her parents give her hell. The same applies to the Cordettes and all of them have to snitch on the others. In the mirror-verse, it's only Xander and whoever he brings with him so she's free to act like a slob, drive like a maniac, and generally be a friendly though rather destructive girl (such as unlocking her own house by kicking down a door then smashing the alarm system).
Gary Oak is a tad egotistical, abrasive, and likes to tease Ash, but at the end of the day, he's not a bad guy. His teaming up with Paul in the Fuchsia Tag Tournament proves that he has many lines he wouldn't cross, and he's not above giving his Pokemon praise for a job well done.
Clair, the Blackthorn Gym Leader is a downplayed example. She never goes easy on her challengers and can be very nasty with people who piss her off (especially those with Small Name, Big Ego attitudes), but she's very nice to those who earn her respect, and she gladly gives praise and encouragement to those who deserve it.
Yuga Senku from Yu-Gi-Oh! Xross fits this description. He acts like a cocky and arrogant asshole to anyone he comes across, but it's due to his lack of confidence in himself and him finding it hard to really connect to people on a personal level and feels lonely because of it. This is due to the fact that his mother disappeared during The Fracture when he was 6, and was bullied mercilessly during the grieving process resulting in an Inferiority Superiority Complex. He values the friends he does manage to make (such as Keishi and Takumi) greatly.