Not to be confused with that character in Cat on a Hot Tin Roof. Or with rapper Big Daddy Kane. Or with World Wrestling Entertainment's Big Daddy V - or, for that matter, with their "Big Daddy Cool." Or with those tough drill-arm enemies from BioShock. Or with that huge, 1,000-calorie burger offered by Southern California restaurant chain Cronies. Or the Jack Chick tract on evolution.This 1999 box-office smash starred Adam Sandler, Jon Stewart, and twin child actors Cole and Dylan Sprouse. It tells the story of thirtysomething Manhattan resident Sonny Koufax (Sandler), a Syracuse law graduate who has no plan whatsoever of taking his bar exam. Instead, he lives off a fat settlement from getting his foot run over years ago and works as a toll-booth collector one day per week, spending the rest of his days sleeping and watching cartoons at the apartment he rents with fellow Syracuse alum Kevin Gerrity (Stewart).His life changes forever one day when a young orphan named Julian (Cole and Dylan Sprouse) is literally left at his door. Sonny at first wants nothing to do with the kid, but then realizes that he just might be able to use him to impress his cantankerous father, Lenny - not to mention win back the affection of his disillusioned girlfriend, Vanessa.As time goes on, Sonny and Julian strike up a friendship that eventually becomes so strong that Sonny decides to adopt the boy permanently. Problem is, social services representative Arthur Brooks suspects that Sonny may have resorted to chicanery in order to gain custody of Julian, and decides to investigate....This movie also features Joey Lauren Adams as Layla, a lawyer who helps Sonny; Leslie Mann as Corinne, Layla's sardonic sister; and Rob Schneider as Nazo, a delivery boy who often brings Sonny food. Steve Buscemi turns up in a cameo as a homeless person.
Author Appeal: Sandler, who co-wrote and co-produced this film in addition to starring in it, includes references to some of his favorite things (such as Professional Wrestling, fast food, and the rock band Styx).
Babies Ever After: Sonny and Layla have an infant child of their own by the end of the movie.
Becoming the Mask: Sonny pretends to be Julian's father to fix his relationship with Vanessa but by the end of the movie he feels like he's Julian's father.
Bedmate Reveal: Downplayed. Sonny knew that Vanessa was beside him, but we didn't.
Big Eater: An enormously fat (and suspiciously Mob-looking) man is a regular patron of Sonny's favorite Italian restaurant, and he is always seen with a different girlfriend. (Sonny's theory is that he keeps eating his love interests.)
Big "NO!": Julian when the judge officially awards his custody to his biological father, Kevin.
Big "Shut Up!": Sonny's dad says this to Tommy when he objects to his statement that Sonny is an unfit father.
Upon investigating Vanessa's sudden rejection of him, Sonny discovers that she has dumped him in favor of a senior citizen (and grandfather) whom she defends as obviously preferable as a love interest because "he has a five-year plan." About a year and a half later, it is revealed that Vanessa is now working at Hooters with the older man, whose "five-year plan" apparently included being the restaurant chef.
"Is that the guy with the old balls?"
Bunny-Ears Lawyer: Sonny still thinks that hawking loogies and throwing sticks in front of skaters so they'll trip are funny things to do, but he still boasts an impressive knowledge of Congressional legislation from his days at law school.
Butt Monkey: Nazo exists for comedy at his own expense.
Canada, Eh?: Kevin sings the praises of Canadian beer at the trial.
Chekhov's Gag: Corinne working at Hooters is repeated often and becomes relevant.
Children Raise You: Sonny at the start is a lazy jerkass. Sonny at the end is a mature (if still goofy) lawyer.
Cloudcuckoolander: The crazed homeless man also shows flashes of this behavior: within seconds, he goes from taunting Nazo to giggling stupidly to screaming "STOP YELLING AT ME!" and bursting into tears.
Comedic Sociopathy: Among other escapades, Sonny takes Julian to the park and teaches him to throw sticks in front of in-line skaters to make them trip - all for his own sick amusement.
Could Have Avoided This Plot: Had Julian said he was from "Toronto" and not "Buffalo", he would've saved everyone a lot of trouble. Kevin doesn't remember Buffalo (he's never been there) but when Julian mentions Toronto in court, he suddenly remembers the Hooters waitress he slept with in Toronto after the 1993 World Series.
However, Sonny asked Julian where he's from, and later Layla asked him where's he born. So they're technically two different questions.
Kevin Gerrity to Sonny Koufax. The two men look remarkably alike (except for Kevin having a more professional-looking haircut), but Kevin is there mainly to show the kind of man that Sonny could become (financially successful and happily married) if he just acted a little more responsibly. This doppelganger theme is even played up by the movie's main plot, which sees Sonny pretending to be Kevin (though, ironically, in doing this he is being irresponsible and not at all Kevin-like).
Gilligan Fade: Sonny's father makes him promise not to spend the money from his court settlement on "worthless crap." Sonny agrees - and then, the camera briefly fades out and then fades back in to show Sonny buying a surfboard.
When the homeless guy (who, being played by Steve Buscemi, is presumably Italian-American) thinks that the national dish of Nazo's homeland is not truly American - but that spaghetti and meatballs are perfectly American!
Ted Castellucci (the prosecuting attorney): Objection, Your Honor! The court is interested in the truth, not the opinion of the defendant's father.
Ted Castellucci: I withdraw my objection. Please proceed!
Irishman And A Jew: Kevin Gerrity and Sonny Koufax. The stereotypes are inverted in that Kevin is the serious one and Sonny is the more outgoing and rambunctious. (Ironically, the actor who plays Kevin is himself Jewish.)
Ironic Echo: "Did you waste the good surprise on me again?"
Sonny makes Hooters jokes to offend Corinne, trips skaters for fun, and yet he is a good friend.
Mr. Herlihy, the drunken old man down at the sports bar who tries to pick fights with Sonny but shows up at his trail and calls him a 'good egg'. (Although there's more "jerk" than "gold" with him)
Kids Prefer Boxes: In the Cracked parody Big Duddy, "Sony" finds the kid left in a cardboard box at his back door. He promptly dumps the kid out and takes the now-empty box inside to "spend some quality time" with it.
The Man Is Sticking It to the Man: Most Sandler movies try to cast the protagonist (usually played by Sandler himself, of course) as an underdog hero. That's what they want us to believe Sonny is, what with his martinet father, the bitchy Corinne, the cold-hearted Vanessa, and various others supposedly persecuting him. And Arthur Brooks, the Scrooge-like bureaucrat, is meant to be the worst of them all, what with his attempts to cruelly break up Sonny's little makeshift family. The truth is, however, that Sonny has no excuses for any (well, maybe for some) of his misfortunes other than his own indifference and laziness. He is not being unjustly treated when he is hauled into court, so the ending, in which he is forced to relinquish custody of Julian, isn't really all that tragic in that it's the last wake-up call he needs to get his life in order - which he does.
Deliberately invoked in the movie. Once one sees past the emotional aspect of the movie, it's not hard to understand what the movie is really trying to portray Sonny Koufax as. And that some changes in his life were necessary; as when he gained Julian he started being responsible with him (teaching him to bathe, and helping with schoolwork. Then, when he lost him, he started to re-read law books and reacted like any father would after losing his child.
Moment Killer: Kevin was giving a speech, and tried to tell his girlfriend Corrine something...
Sonny: You're not proposing, are you? Kevin: Yeah Sonny, I am. Sonny: Well, think about it, you know. Corrine: God Sonny, shut up!
Never Trust a Trailer: The trailer for Big Daddy prominently features The New Radicals' "You Get What You Give" as one of the movie's big pop songs. In fact, "You Get What You Give" isn't in the actual movie at all!
Kevin's time in Toronto. He got wasted and slept with a girl named Jane who gave birth to Julian. He's forgotten all about it, but Jane didn't.
"Is there really a kid, or is this like the time you told me my parents were dead?"
Not Even Bothering with the Accent: Even though Julian was born in Toronto and is genetically half-Canadian, the Sprouse twins don't attempt a Canadian accent while portraying him.
Nothing Is the Same Anymore: Sonny missed the old days when he and his friends had lots of fun, but they're too busy with their own lives and careers. Sonny's life has changed as well since meeting Julian.
Sonny: A kid walked into my life. You think I had that planned? But I fell in love with that kid. So my plans have changed.
Vanessa: Sonny, you surprised me with a kid while I was away, isn't exactly what I had in mind! Sonny: But I did this for you! You wanted me to be more responsible!
Product Placement: Just one example is the prominent scene at McDonald's that talks about sausage McMuffins, and later on Sonny discreetly bribing someone in a court room with a bag of the stuff.
Punch Clock Villain: Arthur Brooks, albeit in the context of Sonny's life. He's trying to separate Sonny from Julian but only because it's his job and Sonny technically kidnapped the kid. He gets some Pet the Dog moments along the way, as well as in the climactic courtroom scene.
Reality Ensues: Zigzagged. Sonny calls himself to the witness stand at the trial and has his father cross-examine him in the hope that he can win the court over with an emotional appeal. Miraculously, he persuades Lenny that he has learned his lesson and is now prepared to be a responsible adult. Lenny vouches for his son and everyone in the courtroom applauds - but the judge will not let herself forget that Sonny broke the law and, no matter how contrite he may be now, still deserves to go to jail. Then Kevin Gerrity, as Julian's biological father, refuses to press charges against his roommate, so Sonny walks out of court a free man. However, since he has proven himself to be erratic and untrustworthy, Sonny is refused custody of Julian, who is instead reunited with Kevin. In the end Sonny does get a consolation prize in form of being appointed a mentor and uncle to Julian, and he and Layla have had a baby of their own by the time the epilogue rolls around.
Reality Subtext: The cute waitress who serves Julian a root beer at the sports bar? It's Jackie Titone, who became Mrs. Adam Sandler just a few years later.
Shoo Out the Clowns: When Sonny's lie is exposed by Arthur Brooks, the usually comical Nazo becomes a lot more serious, taking Sonny aside and telling them that he'd like to help, but "my status in this country is not exactly legal."
Sink or Swim Fatherhood: Although Sonny has a bit more help than most thanks to Nazo (who, admittedly, is an even worse father figure), Phil and Tommy, and eventually Kevin when he returns from China.
Sir Not-Appearing-in-This-Trailer: Jon Stewart. Even though he's the one who indirectly sets the main part of the plot in motion, as well as the one who resolves it in the end.
Kristy Swanson. She is on screen for only about 10 minutes, but hers is one of the very first characters we see, as well as being the person responsible for Sonny adopting Julian in the first place. She's in the final scene, too!
Jon Stewart. Kevin Gerrity is conspicuously missing for most of the film (being on a business trip in China). Unlike Swanson, Stewart didn't even make it into the trailer, as described above. Yet the whole plot hinges on Sonny impersonating Kevin, and he's the one who saves Sonny from jail time at the climax.
Spiritual Successor: To Charlie Chaplin's 1921 silent classic The Kid, which is also about a derelict adopting a boy after his mother abandons him and then battling social services when they try to take the child from him.
Technically a Smile: The closest Vanessa comes to smiling in any of her three scenes in the movie is a tight, clenched-toothed, nervous grin when Sonny and Julian visit her apartment (little suspecting that Vanessa's new boyfriend, Sid, is in the bathroom at that very moment).
Totally Radical: The judge (a visibly middle-aged woman) says "Awesome!" at the trial. Justified as she was being sarcastic.
Sonny mentions to Julian that McDonald's did not have breakfast items when he was Julian's age, and that he remembers the day that Egg McMuffins were first introduced. (That was in 1973, when Sonny would have been about two years older than Julian.)
In the penultimate scene, Nazo invites Sonny to his place, where "I've got Spice Channel." That adult pay-per-view network has now been renamed the "Fresh" Channel.
Your Princess Is in Another Castle: Just after Sonny wins his father over to his side in the courtroom, the judge bangs her gavel and it becomes clear that Sonny will go to jail. Then it's time for Kevin to set the stage for the movie's actual climax by confessing that he is Julian's biological father.