Fridge Brilliance - Television Tropes & Idioms

"[T]hey kept on losing me. They would bring out a new album and for a few listenings it would leave me cold and confused. Then, gradually it would begin to unravel itself in my mind. I would realise that the reason I was confused was that I was listening to Something that was simply unlike anything that anybody had done before."

—Douglas Adams on The Beatles, Salmon Of Doubt

You will someday realize the meaning of this sentence.

First impressions are really important, they build opinions and form relationships. If you screw up a first impression, it can be disastrous. You wish you could do it all over again, and once an opinion is set it is very hard to change it.

But every once in a while, it could be years later or the next day, you may gain a new respect for what you used to hate. It could be upon receiving additional information, or just that you have grown up a little.

Fridge Brilliance is this very idea. You watch a movie and something about it just seems off, you don't like it. One night, as you get up for a midnight snack, you open the refrigerator door and the light dawns on you, "This is the real purpose behind this plot!"

Because you had that epiphany, what once was a hated moment has become one of your favorites.

This is a personal moment for the viewer, so every example is signed by the contributor. If you start off with "This Troper", really, you have no excuse. We're going to hit you on the head.

This revelation can come from anywhere, even from this very page.

Also, this page is of a generally positive nature, and a Fridge Brilliance does not have to be Word Of God. In fact, it usually isn't, and the viewer might be putting more thought into it than the creator ever did. This is not a place for personal commentary on another's remark or arguing without adding a Fridge Brilliance comment of your own.

See also Fridge Logic, Wall Banger, Swiss Moment, Midnight On The Firing Line. This will probably overlap with plenty of Gushing About Shows You Like. Run free.

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I first thought the ending of the Good Omens fanfic Its Own Place was a cop-out because it had the Deus Ex Machina of Aziraphale and Crowley's place of punishment turning out to be a renamed Earth. After some thinking, I realized that it's the only fitting ending for them. The original book made it clear that they don't belong to either extreme (Heaven and Hell) and that Earth is the "middle ground" where they can meet. Even after the Apocalypse, this middle ground has to live on in some form because while both sides love to paint everything black and white, real life just doesn't work that way. Making Purgatory Earth may be a tad convenient, but it makes perfect thematic sense. As for my related complaint about it being a Reset Button Ending, I realized that when Aziraphale disagrees with Crowley's lampshading remark, he's pointing out that while their physical location has been reset, their emotional state is where they've actually developed. They now fully know where they belong — on the middle ground and with each other. All this elevated a "good fic that could have been better" to "one of the best fics in this fandom, period". — Solandra.
Empatheia uses this to justify her sublime House/Doctor Who crossover, As the Crow Flies. The story asserts that House is a later incarnation of the Doctor, born after the Doctor died while in human form. This is one of those "yeah, sure, I can roll with that'' things, until the fact of all the impossible things House has done with his brain - he makes impossible leaps of logic on a regular basis, he's communicated directly with his own subconscious, and so on - is brought up. - Maxwel_Edison
After reading most of Peter Chimeara's works as well My immortal, I've come to realize that even horrible fiction can be deep and meaningful upon drunken nights and deep consideration. Repercussions of evil, itself a parody of twist-heavy pretentious faux-deep fiction, has deep insight into the motives and drive of the human race. Don't get me started on analogues to racism. Then there's Batman: Nemesis Fight, which if played straight and filmed, would be BY FAR the best batman movie ever made. Why does Robin leave batman? Because, Batman has broke his own rules after losing everything. Robin loses the will to fight. Regarding My Immortal, Tara Gilesbie creates a fictional world so completely bizarre and surreal that it's hard to call it anything but original. Put simply, gay vampire witch goffs go to a magic school, split on West Side Story style grounds.

Real Life

This troper runs an improv group at his school. Last year, one of the improvisors in the group really bugged me. He's loud, obnoxious, there's a language gap, he can't be understood, and he doesn't understand what's going on. Early this year he seemed to lose it when everyone was talking and it wasn't even time to start the improv lesson. Now I realise, the reason he's loud is because he's scared, and the reason he wants to be in control is because he feels he hasn't had an impact on the Drama Department, while the other co-manager might as well be Ben Affleck of stage theatre, fitting in any role, and I'm like the George Lucas of the department, while he has yet to be in a show.
When all the celebrities tweeted support about Brittany Murphy dying, they used lots of txtmsg abbreviations that seemed really vapid, inappropriate, and disrespectful. In Fridge Brilliance hindsight, twitter has a strict 140 character limit, and the celebs were trying to convey their whole message of support by shortening words to fit. This actually probably took a bit of time and thought.
- Or perhaps not.
Admit it. This has happened to everybody at least once. I just realized that my entire childhood was formed around the same personality "flaws" that plague me to this day. Life is crazy. — Slothful
Fridge Brilliance is what eventually made me realize that no one looks like models, not even the models. The whole concept of what beauty is was created by advertisement executives. If they were to decide tomorrow that size 14 was popular, suddenly people would be trying to put on weight and the majority of the sheep out there would change their perspectives. — whomajigi
- Fridge Brilliance is what eventually made me realize that those people who brand the rest of the population as unsavory in some manner or unintelligent are most terrified of being compared to their perception of most people. The most ironic thing about all of this is that either in an effort to separate themselves from the general population, they make ludicrous statements to validate their claims, or gripe about other people messing up in ways that they themselves have done — Athias
You know that big squiggly spirally-thingy at the beginning of the word "Disney"? Yeah... it's a "D." After growing up watching Disney movies every single day and seeing that squiggly unintelligible word all the time... I finally found out it was an actual letter sometime in 9th grade. Wow. — D Mo
- I just noticed something: If you look at the "D" hard enough, it's both capital and and lowercase. — Baron of Barons
  - I used to see it as a backwards G until about the age of 12
- This is the reaction I get from everyone else when they don't get that the Dozerfleet "D"◊ is actually a bulldozer that transmorphs into a letter D. When I explain it to them, they get embarrassed for having not realized it sooner. —Bulldozer Begins
This may work better in Musings, but: nuclear (adj.) of or pertaining to the nucleus, of an atom, etc. and so forth. Usually referenced in terms of 'nuclear power'. Now, historically the 'correct' or 'educated' pronunciation is "New-cle-ar" or "New-clear." However, George W. Bush, Sarah Palin and others pronounce it "Nuke-you-ler." Is this because people with more education about nuclear power more optimistically see it as part of a "new, clear" future of affordable energy - while Cold War phobias affect those who fear change and can only think about how to "nuke you" with missiles?
- Assuming there is something to that thought besides snark and trolling, I'll give a real answer. Some of the many North American English accents just pronounce it that way. Different regional accents pronounce words differently, as in noocleeur/nookyooler (nuclear), pehcahn/peecan (pecan), berry/burry (bury), ad nauseum ad infinitum etc. &c. etc. Just because people talk differently doesn't mean you should judge them for it, and just because you don't like people and/or their views doesn't mean that everything about them is inherently evil. Also, both George W. Bush and Sarah Palin are pro-nuclear-power and thus you are creating a false juxtaposition. —Anonymous
- To wit, there are plenty of words that are colloquially mispronounced: "JOO-luhr-ee" instead of "jewelry", "SUH-priz" instead of "surprise", the second syllable of "sophomore", etc.
Do not think outside the box. Realize that there is no box. — Lisikindt
Applies to a great deal of life. It's nearly universal to look back on one's earlier life and think society/culture/etc then was better, but this is really simply Fridge Brilliance (as it didn't look that way at the time). Maybe an inversion, since it shows that things weren't as good as we like remembering them. But hopeful too, because it teaches us that our perception and attitude is what makes the present good or bad. — Tarsus
- Kinda proves the Red vs Blue PSA line: "Take your current age. Subtract 10 years from it. Were you smart back then? Of course you weren't, you were a goddamn idiot. Fact of the matter is, you're just as big of an idiot today, it's just going to take you 10 more years to realize it." — Ramen King Roshi
Fridge Brilliance helped me get over being an Emo Teen to one who finds happiness in even small things. Our world probably not all that great with all the terrible things people do to each other and whatnot. What's the point in living life to the fullest when life has so many ways to turn so very wrong? What's the point in commending the few decent folks when most people seem to be such selfish assholes? Why bother focusing on the nice stuff people are capable of when they're capable of doing such horrible stuff too? Then I realized that that's what makes those things so special. Being nice and happy where everything is all great and dandy? Okay. Finding the strength to be nice and happy despite all the surrounding horribleness? Simply amazing. I'm just sorry I can't find a more eloquent way to express just how much that little realization brightened up my entire outlook. — Malchus
- The reason why you can't put it in a more eloquent way is because nobody else can either, and nobody needs to. — Zander Schubert
- I'm sure that I've heard something similar before.
A major wave of ego-crushing Fridge Brilliance engulfed me the first time I saw the Pale Blue Dot image, taken by the spacecraft Voyager, billions of miles from Earth, and reading the late Carl Sagan's speech accompanying it. Watching a video of it was even more effective. It just dawns on you how pointless everything we do is, and no matter how great somebody is or how major and event is, it's all pointless on the grand scale of things. The cosmos, more vast than what the human imagination can percieve, really puts one in his/her right place. I cannot put it any better than Sagan's speech, so I shall speak no further, and direct you to the original words. — Skrim:
- I attended a college forum where a respected astrophysicist gave a lecture on what he called "The Ten Most Important Things to Know About the Universe." He even said many things that have been already said above about how immense the universe is and how much we should be humbled by how small we really are. These are all things that I have heard before, and of course wondered about the idea that the Earth could explode and it would mean nothing important. The lecturer went down his list. Number Three was the knowledge that the elements that created life on Earth are the most abundant elements in the universe. Number Two was the idea of a shared universe. An asteroid can collide with a planet and send chunks of that planet into space at escape velocity, and those chunks can collide with other planets, etc. Before he gave Number One he said "All of this can weigh down and make you feel very small. Well... I for one feel large. It is believed that the elements that created life were forged in the creation of stars. Those elements then mingled with other celestial bodies and possibly traveled millions of lightyears to arrive on this planet. Those elements are in our bodies right now. We are not insignificant in the universe because we are a part of it." Number One... 'We Are Stardust!' — KJMackley
- You know, the first time I saw the little blue dot, it did crush what semblance of an ego I have. But then, I got to thinking. We're all so insignificant, we're all gonna die, nothing anyone will do will matter much in 10,000 years... so why worry about anything? It is a lack of meaning that makes life so meaningful. Why waste your life trying to please a god/gods/other deities who might not exist when you have to sacrifice happiness? Life is short. It's all we might have. We have each other. We have to make the most out of every day, and live without regrets. Make the ones we love happy. Learn to tolerate the ones we hate. Because, in 10,000 years, no one is gonna remember you. So there will be no shame in time. And, if there is a god and an afterlife, we cross that bridge when we come to it. Of course this is all coming from a major Cloudcuckoolander, but still. — Dinru
  - Do it for teh lulz
- The fact that nothing will have mattered several billion years from now is actually a source of comfort for me. — Ellytoad
  - That's sad. Because you don't live several billion years from now, you live right now!
  - I think what the above troper was getting at was that, although the essential transience of it all might trivialize the good in life, it equally trivializes everything else - no matter how we might screw things up, as individuals or collectively, it will also, in time, be completely forgotten.
  - I must be different here, because I thought it was amazing that we had advanced so far as to actually be able to take a picture of our planet from so far away. Then, later, it hit me even further that all the vastness of space? With the exception of planets and stars and all that jazz, there's not much out there except dark and nothing. It's like standing in an enormous warehouse with boxes scattered around and being jealous of the unused space. Sure, it's huge and we're comparatively insignificant, but anything compared to the universe is going to be tiny, regardless of big it is to us. — Superlagg.
  - I agree with superlagg, I think it's amazing that we did that. But I looked at that picture, saw our pixel and said "Okay, we're on that pixel next to twelve million other pixels that are stars and planets. K." Honestly I understand that, I can understand all sorts of theories about space and the like, but I felt unmoved by that. Maybe it's because sure, we're micropixels and all, but it still matters what we do. What we do affects us, others, our world, the present, the futire. You can be nihlistic if you want, but hell if I will.- Blue
For some time during RPs, I haven't used my OC during the non-RP parts where me and my partner usually MST the RP we're doing, which I thought was just laziness on my part. It hit me just recently when I thought about his backstory, that it makes perefect sense! He grew up isolated from the rest of his world with only his Jerk Ass father pushing him to train every day! He doesn't understand social norms and feels safer alone! — Trope Kira
I used to be part of the group of Fan Fiction writers too scared to post their stuff to anywhere public because they were afraid of their characters being labelled Mary Sues until the time came when someone asked me for advice on how not to make their character one. Without even thinking, I launched into a discussion of how even a character who tries not to be one can still be an Anti Sue and then it finally hit me to follow my own advice! Relax. Making characters not Sues is easier than people think. — Hourai Rabbit
Applying this trope to one's parents/teachers/[insert authority figure here] is pretty much the definition of "Growing up." — Yun
Just today I realised that merely by adding the (in English language) unnecessarily flowery "u" to the satisfactorily descriptive "poser", the word "poseur" is itself a Take That to the kind of pretentious people it describes. — Doctor Nemesis
From the forums, about Freud:
Tzetze:I think that he's a good lesson in projection of your own thoughts in ~~science~~ pseudoscience, really. He was raised by a nanny and didn't see his mom much, so the Westermarck effect didn't really show up. He related being turned on by his mom undressing once, and didn't consider that just maybe it was him, and not everyone else.
C Trombley: @Tzetze: And this was normal at the time.
—posted by Black Humor
One of my best friends used to bother me a lot. For some reason, I never wanted to hang out with her as much as I did my other best friend (because having two best buddies is awesome) and I could never figure why. After I and my other friend finally broke off the friendship after a few skirmishes and a long phone conversation (in which I sadly had no part), I had an overwhelming epiphany as to why I never liked her in the first place. She was spoiled, unbearably rude, egotistical, whiny about her "poor life" and yet insensitive, hypocritical . . . The list goes on, really. It was a good bout of Fridge Brilliance for me. Now I just feel stupid because all the friends I'm starting to get back in touch with say they noticed that behavior approximately two years ago. Ahaha. -Syldoran
- Contempt for what we see in others is merely the contempt for what we see in ourselves. - Yohimani
I've found that all the crappiness in the world makes perfect sense without the need for any Illuminati/Freemason/Knightstemplar etc... when you realize that all the people in the world from plumbers to presidents are human and that a human's first reaction to a stressful situation is to go, "What would Ogg the Caveman do?" - Les
- My mind has just been blown. - mikekearn
I didn't know what AWOL (Absent Without Leave) stood for until I read about it.
I have one of these every time I realize a naming pun of any sort. I tend to be slow on them (for instance, it took me a couple years for 'Bibbidy, Babbidy, Buu' of DBZ to click). The sad part is I tend to think for some reason that I'm really clever for figuring it out...and it turns out it was the most obvious thing on the planet. — Alison
After watching the second episode of Samurai Champloo, I finally figured out why traditional Japanese doors have no locks and are so flimsy. They're not meant to protect you, they're meant to be easily replaced after you slice through them and the attacking samurai behind! — Esmenet Tinkerbell.-Aoirann
I realized that being born in an awesome fantasy world would feel exactly as mundane as living in this one, because we'd end up being too used to it to appreciate the novelty that we see when admiring it from afar. — Ellytoad
- Thats the reason why this world seems mundane, because few if anybody bother to recognize and appreciate the parts that really are amazing. — Fausto
  - Didn't you realize you WERE born into an awesome fantasy world? Also, sufficiently advanced science is indistinguishable from magic. — Zhavier
Mystery Otaku - It turns out that I am much more of a 1860s-1920s nerd than I have previously thought. You may have to do some research to how some of these are Fridge Brilliance, but once you realize it, I'm a nerd for knowing the significance of these things:
For a while I was battling depression and going through something of an emo phase. When I told a buddy how hard it was for me to face the day sometimes he pointed to my interest in Super Sentai and Kamen Rider, shows about people willing to sacrifice everything to fight against evil and hopelessness. He reminded me that writers always inject some of themselves into their characters, and so I wouldn't respect the nobility of characters like that, let alone write my own Sentai, if I didn't believe courage like that really existed and have a measure of it myself. I felt like such a fool for not seeing that prior to that conversation. —starofjustice
Mine is based around a word-play of my native tongue, German. There's this word, "Puff", which can mean either "poof" or "cheap brothel". I was around 12 or 14 years old back then and playing the Pen&Paper game 7th sea with a party where everyone was at least twice as old and we were on this pirate island... and one said "Ich verschwinde in einem Puff", which I, innocent as I was, misunderstood as "I disappear with a poof" instead of "I go into a brothel". Took me a bit... - Sul Zala
I spent most of my adolescent years being a complete chameleon, having essentially different Personae for every group of friends, social situation, etc. However, I always felt like I had no identity because of it, and I felt like a phony. Fittingly enough, the thing I hated most in my life was insincerity. However, I've come to realize that Humanity is reactionary by nature, and that NO ONE is exactly the same in any given situation. Reactions shape your current representation of self, and that self is fluid, not static. Ironically enough, this realization helped solidify my sense of self and identity, as while fluid, the self is still the self, and is always unique to every individual. -Dudeus
One more recent moment of this trope for me occurred during my second year away at college. Not being a very sociable person, I had managed to find one really good friend that I felt comfortable around - a rarity for me - and trusted completely. When she ended up backstabbing me and hiding behind her boyfriend to do it (long story), it took a few months and some group therapy before I had my epiphany: while I normally would've taken the blame for what I did and left it at that, I accepted that she was as fallible as me and had handled the situation poorly, so while I had made mistakes with the relationship, I didn't have to bear all or even most of the blame. Oddly enough, despite being one of the more painful things I've experienced (or perhaps because of it), I was better able to make and accept friends who weren't perfect but still generally good, I became more self-confident knowing that I wasn't necessarily to blame for everything bad that happened to me, and became more comfortable around people in general. -vfaulkon
Well, Real Life / Web Original, but still... Recent events had forced this troper to reevaluate his place in the Furry Fandom, to the point where he suffered a Heroic BSOD (or, from a more cynical point of view, a Villainous Breakdown); he never got all the hypocrisy, all of the drama associated with the community, especially the irreverent attitude towards the contributing artists in the fandom and the overemphasis of doggedly defending the "lifestyle" from the media. It wasn't until he had a chance to calm down and think about it, and another fur posted up his thoughts on the hoopla stirred up over people leaving the fandom, that it hit him: the fandom is trying to turn back the clock. The big push for denying all the negative publicity against them? A smokescreen; the fandom knows its perversion is bigger than they'll publicly admit, and they don't want to change, but thanks to their high profile, they can't continue that in peace, and are hoping they could dissuade any future media probing in order to return them to the comfortable obscurity the fandom enjoyed at its beginning. The Wangst about art theft? Simply a Turf War between the artists who are taking advantage of the high profile and the potential for expansion into a self-contained enterprise said profile brings, and the art fans who grew up when peer to peer trading was the only way of sharing artistic works between fandom members, and are pissed that advances in licensing and production/distribution is making such activities obsolete. In other words, the majority of the drama is caused by purists who want things to go back to how they were, back in the late 90s. While this makes the current state of the fandom even more pathetic, in this troper's eyes, it also makes him realize just how great they have it, currently, and how much better it could be if they would just let it happen instead of fighting it. -SynjoDeonecros
- My own "Fridge logic" moment of being a fur for myself was when I realized "Dispite everything we're still human." Truthfully, the difference between the furs and mundanes is a slim one at best. - Biff Biffley
My moment of Fridge Brilliance is relatively minor, but it counts. My friend had a character named Evan A. Surrogate. I didn't realize until years later that the 'A' could have stood for his last name, as well as 'author', which would make his character's full name either Evan (Friend's surname) Surrogate, or Evan Author Surrogate. Said character is quite obviously his self-insert. -Belle-Mage
- It also makes the phrase "Even a surrogate", which is of itself indicating the link...
While watching The Nostalgia Critic's top eleven runners-up Christmas movies, I realized to my horror that the scenes from Joyeux Noël seemed familiar. Friends up against each other, opposing sides of the field, most of the dead are in the middle... my God, Capture the Flag is a war game in disguise! I... I think I'm going to cry myself to sleep now. — Pirate Pikachu Z
One of my newest friends took his time to ask (interrogate) me about my life, and came to the conclusion that I am one of the nerdiest people he knows. That made me realisde how incredibly nerdy I actually am, and how much I like it.
I have always wondered why I am so insecure, so terrified at the thought of people not liking me, paranoid that people are saying bad things about me behind my back and so certain that I will never be good enough. One day it hit me that maybe it has something to do with my stepmother, who was really mean to me when I was a kid, always telling me how much of a nuisance I was. Huh. Only took me about fifteen years. And I didn't even have to pay for therapy.
There is this kid that I hang out with at lunch. We are sort of friends, but in his stories he imagines (and says loudly) he is always a Mary Sue with rediculous powers, preferring Blowinh Stuff Up to actual stratgy. My characters are more quiet. He says that he would act differently in a real situation. Then I just realized: when I play Yu-Gi-Oh, I always play Aggro, to the point where a few weeks ago I lost because I couldn't get over a Marshmallon. That's when I realized we're more alike than I though.
During the summer before This Troper headed into high school, she climbed Mount Washington with her father. It was long, arduous, and she really wanted to quit and turn around many times. But she made it up there even if she took a harder route than her two older siblings. It was thought of as just a cool achievement until one night when she was talking to a friend about high school. The brilliance of the climb hit her — it was the reason that she was true to herself in high school (and now as well). That climb tested her willpower and her character to the most extreme and she still made it through. Because of that, she never succumbed to peer pressure and she never conformed to fit in. It was like her dad's way of saying "If you can climb a mountain, then all that high school mess is a cakewalk in comparison". Of course YMMV since she's not sure if her siblings got the same effect.
This has happened with many people who don't immediately realize some subliminal messages in certain advertising logos, like the "31" in Baskin Robbins' new logo (of course for their 31 flavors), and the arrow in the FedEx logo (implying they're "speedy" or something).
- Hell, I work at a Baskin Robins and it took me months after the change had been affected on our store to realize there was a 31 in the new logo! So much for clever marketing, or my observation skills...
- Similar moment - This Troper didn't notice that the L in "STAPLES" is an unbent staple until today. Mind was blown. Of course, when he shared it with his father, the response was "You really never noticed that? Really?"
- Look at the logo of Amazon.com. They have everything "a" to "z".
You know that old saying, "Time is an illusion"? This troper never got what that meant...until watching a 1970's George Carlin comedy show where he explained it. It also opened his eyes to the illusion of the economy.
In this troper's humanities class, citing .com sources is forbidden. This troper spent half of the year struggling to find sources before realizing that both The Other Wiki AND Tvtropes are .org sites. Last week, my teacher asked this troper "What is this Tvtropes place you keep using?"
I was pondering the "Man-size" kleenex tissues recently. I could never work out why they weren't "King size" or something less blatantly sexist. It just took me a while to then ponder the functions of the tissues, and that the Man size refers to what men would be cleaning up with it. And what would a man possibly need a larger tissue for that a woman wouldn't... If You Know What I Mean... - Finlay

OMG! The TV Tropes logo has a lampshade on it! they hung a lampshade on TV Tropes! I just realized that.
- I honest-to-God came to this page just so I could say that.
- I... I think I love you right now.
- MY MIND JUST EXPLODED
- Oh Snap! I would have never noticed that!