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megaeliz Since: Mar, 2017
#6001: Nov 25th 2018 at 4:10:22 PM

For people that have them here, what is everyone's current Special Interests?

My current ones are Disney Duck Comics, and Disneyland. For me, my special interest tends to be clustered in certain areas (lately, everything Disney), but the actual specific focus of the interests can change.

Edited by megaeliz on Nov 25th 2018 at 7:20:58 AM

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#6002: Nov 25th 2018 at 4:35:28 PM

Define "special interest".

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#6003: Nov 26th 2018 at 12:13:01 PM

I would imagine they mean topics or activities you especially enjoy.

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#6004: Nov 26th 2018 at 12:27:16 PM

Then I guess my "special interest" is, cliched as it somehow is, trains.

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#6005: Nov 26th 2018 at 2:01:34 PM

Some of my special interests would be:

  • Nintendo and their games (though lately more focused on a few series at a time)
  • Rhythm games, especially/mainly Japanese ones
  • Game history (especially stuff about game companies)
...huh, can only think of game-related ones right now.

As for past interests, the first one I remember was mice (from I was... 4-5 and most of my childhood), and later the Pokémon Sneasel from shortly after (or before?) I started playing Pokémon Crystal at 9 years old, and internet memes (just... in general) during my early and mid-teen years

Edited by Zanreo on Nov 26th 2018 at 11:03:05 AM

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#6006: Nov 26th 2018 at 2:03:57 PM

Uh... computers? And PC games? I'm doing a computer related PhD, so it's also because I spend a lot of time on the things for obvious reasons.

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KeironCioran Since: Aug, 2018
#6007: Nov 26th 2018 at 5:49:40 PM

I guess my special interests right now would be:

1. Jacques Derrida

2. Punk

3. Jazz

4. Pedro Almodóvar

5. Semiotics

6. Jojos Bizarre Adventure

7. Islamic art

Edited by KeironCioran on Nov 26th 2018 at 5:52:06 AM

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#6008: Nov 26th 2018 at 6:05:58 PM

I also have music in general, but I'd like that to be a career one day.

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#6009: Nov 26th 2018 at 6:43:41 PM

Mine would be, well. Second Sino-Japanese War, more exactly learning about the motivations of the people and factions involved, especially Imperial Japan. I really want to use a expy of them as the villains of the Science Fantasy story that I'm writing.

Also, The Caligula Effect. Is just a single niche standalone game, but I really like it.

I used to be reading a lot of stuff from TabletopGame.Warhammer 40000 and Star Wars, but I suddenly stopped. Dunno if is good.

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megaeliz Since: Mar, 2017
#6010: Nov 26th 2018 at 6:49:16 PM

[up]. Generally my special interests are intense, but relatively short lived and tend to cycle a lot. Loosing interest in certain topics or subjects, is only really a problem if you loose interest in everything at once, as that could be a sign of depression, but that doesn’t seem to be happening in your case. I wouldn’t worry about it.

Edited by megaeliz on Nov 26th 2018 at 9:54:25 AM

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#6011: Nov 26th 2018 at 9:08:54 PM

People has been my long term one, I’ve loved gaining an understanding of how people react, how people thing and how social interaction works. It’s why I’m good at it despite being autistic, I learnt it all as a speciality, compared to normal people who are just guessing and going on instinct.

Also politics has been a consistent on for years, it’s why I’m on here so much.

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KeironCioran Since: Aug, 2018
#6012: Nov 27th 2018 at 12:16:52 AM

[up][up]For me, Punk Rock and Jazz (a lot of music in general but if you ask me what genre or culture I have the most knowledge of it would those to) have remained consistent interests for me since 2008. My interest in philosophy stemmed from my interests for literature (Samuel Beckett, G. K. Chesterton, Vladimir Nabokov, Marquis de Sade) and film (Quentin Tarantino, Jean Vigo, Luchino Visconti, Pedro Almodóvar) and they have been with me since 2010/2011. I've always appreciated islamic-based art for it's geometric qualities and eerie resemblance to fractals. Also, JoJo's is really cool


I believe what draws me to these things are the recursive themes of transgression, confusion, and encryption.

Edited by KeironCioran on Nov 27th 2018 at 12:18:03 PM

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#6013: Nov 27th 2018 at 2:34:25 PM

My special interests are

  • Numbers and colors (I love color scale conditional formatting and lament the lack of more than 3 color options.)
  • Roleplaying Games (especially, in tabletop, the big recognizable/classic ones)
  • Philosophy
  • Moe-anime (to the point I don't watch them anymore by fear of finishing them - but cute VRchat videos are a good substitute waii)
  • Music (silence makes me nervous to the point I let the radio on (to a whisper) while sleeping)

Edited by acuddle on Nov 27th 2018 at 11:36:31 AM

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#6014: Nov 27th 2018 at 2:46:11 PM

(silence makes me nervous to the point I let the radio on (to a whisper) while sleeping)

Oh, dude, same. It was actually a little worse a few years ago.

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#6015: Nov 27th 2018 at 6:58:40 PM

This summer, a study found that autistic adults who “camouflage,” or attempt to appear as neurotypical as possible, have a higher risk for suicide.

Although Joelle Marie Nourse was happy the study brought some attention to suicide in the autism community, the findings made her say, “Well, no shit.”

“A. Yeah, we want to kill ourselves. and B. It’s because you make us do things that go against ourselves,” she said. “You make our goal of our life to pretend to be like other people, and you literally punish us in every way possible if we don’t want to do that, or if we don’t aspire to be so.”

Nourse is autistic, bipolar and has obsessive-compulsive disorder. She says for most autistic people she knows, the suicidal thoughts started when they were young. Even if the language was vaguer (like, “I want to disappear”), autistic children sometimes learn from a young age they must change themselves to “fit in” with the world around them. Not only does this pressure start early, Nourse said, but it’s also nearly constant.

“This is literally every minute of the day. Like this is supposed to be our goal. Walk normal, and talk normal, and make normal facial expressions… You don’t get a break unless you sit in the closet, but then that’s not normal. It’s really messed up. You just end up hating yourself.”

This is from a different article. Although not in a mainstream publication, this is how these things start out anyway.

Like I said, the narrative is starting to shift from "autistics need to fake being just like everyone else" to "autistics can't fake being like everyone else because sooner or later the cracks show and they look abnormal anyway" to "autistics shouldn't have to fake being like everyone else because it's literally killing them."

This is what progress looks like.

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#6016: Nov 27th 2018 at 8:58:55 PM

There is also a movement, Take The Mask Off.

In the autism community, masking becomes the “constant suppression of one’s autistic self,” Rose told The Mighty. This may include holding in stims or forcing yourself to make eye contact. People on the spectrum might run through “scripts” in their heads for every possible route a social situation may take, analyzing the interaction more intensely to prevent standing out.

An autistic person may act like the sensory environment is not bothering them even if they are in pain or discomfort, Holmans told The Mighty. “They may suppress stims and other self-soothing and regulatory behaviors, or engage in behaviors that make the person uncomfortable, such as forced eye-contact,” she said.

Changing behaviors to help build social skills is a major part of behavioral therapies for people on the spectrum, such as applied behavioral analysis. ABA therapy is highly controversial as many autistic advocates say it makes people on the spectrum into “robots” by training them to react a certain way.

“I want parents who put their children through behavioral therapies to see what they are doing to their children,” Rose said. “Behavioral therapies force masking. It’s hard to say and probably harder to read, but people that put their autistic children through this, are potentially creating a legacy of harm for them. If the outcome of masking is burnout and potentially suicide, what is the outcome of forced masking going to be?”

In the comments section, there are understandably people upset at the lack of alternatives in a world that rejects people who look a little off:

So what is suggested to help a 4 year old with high functioning autism learn to better participate in a neurotypical world, if not behavioural therapy? This is an excellent article that has made me think more about the longer term effects of masking on my child’s mental health.

I don't know why I would want to take my mask off. I would freak out all my work colleagues haha. Probably lose my job. I guess the students I teach would find it funny

Fortunately, I expend not too much effort on normalcy. I cannot walk completely normally. I cannot look normally. Faking the facial expressions... not good enough to fake it well, so I didn't bother. I do try to make sure I avoid saying the wrong things, but I don't go through social scripts like the "how are you today?" "I'm fine, how are you?" bullcrap and stuff like that. But social interaction when I want to get a real social bond with the person, is a bitch to navigate.

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#6017: Nov 28th 2018 at 3:30:25 AM

Don't hesitate to make a "Troper Wall" page for you Keiron smile

Nobody can vandalize "Tropers"-type pages anymore.

It tropes walls 😋

Edited by acuddle on Nov 28th 2018 at 12:30:40 PM

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#6019: Nov 28th 2018 at 4:56:27 PM

My online friend was watching a video given to her class about how sexual assault. It was bringing up things like how sexual assault occurs in relation to alcohol use and big parties - two things which are a turnoff for her, and which she has zero desire to be part of anyway.

She then said, "How about coming up with a list of things that are popular with allistics that are totally foreign to us autistics?"

Granted, there is nothing that is alien to 100% of autistics, as some autistics actually enjoy things like loud parties.

But still, how about a list of things that are totally alien to most autistics, but are a big part of allistic culture?

I'll start it off:

  • Loud parties
  • Rooting for sports teams
  • Getting angry at people who are fans of an opposing sports team just because they're fans of an opposing sports team
  • Automatic greetings and responses that are meant to increase social bonding but are never to be taken literally. "How are you?" "I'm fine, how are you?"

Any other ideas?

Edited by BonsaiForest on Nov 28th 2018 at 8:02:23 AM

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#6020: Nov 28th 2018 at 4:59:38 PM

I'm probably not any use here, I like the first two. The third one's just basic tribalism and would require me to identify more with any particular sports team on a personal level. [lol]

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#6021: Nov 28th 2018 at 5:03:10 PM

Autistics have a wide variety of personalities and symptom severity. Someone who doesn't have a very sensitive sense of hearing like most autistics do would have far greater tolerance for loud parties, or blaring music loudly in the car, for instance.

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#6022: Nov 28th 2018 at 7:35:28 PM

I actually do the small social greeting thing, but I’m honest with my answer. I’m still aware enough to keep it short and not give a long response, but my answer is always honest, be it “I’m good”, “could be better”, “just having one of those days”, “been worse”, or other stock responses, I always use one that is true

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#6023: Nov 28th 2018 at 7:54:49 PM

I think it comes down to activities the enjoyment of which depend primarily upon a shared group emotional response. There are certain things neurotypicals enjoy principally because others enjoy them, and what with their intuitive level of picking up on each other's emotional signals, a kind of mass empathy takes place. Sporting events and parties are perfect examples.

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#6024: Nov 28th 2018 at 8:43:38 PM

Me doing the last one depends on how willing I am to take my headphones off to even hear what the other person is saying.

Also I'm not really into sports or sport culture, but people who are actively angry at sports for even existing are ridiculously annoying to me.

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SebastianGray Since: Apr, 2011
#6025: Dec 3rd 2018 at 10:58:38 AM

I thought people here would be interested in this BBC article about my local comic book store that is run by a pair of autistic brothers.

    Two brothers on the autistic spectrum were looking for work when one had the idea of opening a comic shop. It turned out to be an inspired choice 
When Adam Makey told his mother that he wanted to open a comic shop, she laughed out loud.

The idea seemed "ridiculous", Angela Makey says. She knew he'd been obsessed with comics since childhood. But how would he deal with customers and suppliers and all the other jobs that running a business entails? His Asperger syndrome would be a big hindrance, she thought.

On the other hand, it wasn't clear what else Adam would do for a living.

He had a degree in philosophy and had learned to live independently, but there didn't seem to be any suitable jobs going.

The family had hoped he and his younger brother Guy, also on the autistic spectrum, could find work that matched their strengths: reliability, punctuality and attention to detail. But all available opportunities seemed to involve occasional shift work - and they needed a regular routine.

Angela had seen statistics from the National Autistic Society, which said that only about one in six people with autism were in full-time employment. Fewer still had found jobs that matched their abilities.

"We knew the cards were stacked against them," she says.

So the "laughable" comic shop idea began to grow on her.

Eventually she used her savings to buy a quaint Tudor shop in Huntingdon in Cambridgeshire, and seven years ago Niche Comics was born.

Like many people with autism, Adam and Guy love comics for their world of rich detail and visual expression. For some it helps that the characters' emotions are so clearly signposted.

There is also something appealing about the stories they tell.

"Comics became very important to me when my parents told me about my Asperger syndrome diagnosis," explains Adam Makey.

"They are a reminder that it's OK to not be like everyone else."

Adam was seven at the time, and just graduating from an interest in Beano and Dandy to Marvel comic heroes on TV. He's now 30, and comics and their heroes have been part of his life all that time.

There's also the escapist fantasy element, says Guy. He pauses to consider something else. The larger-than-life superheroes with a moral mission are appealing. "Their motivations are easier to understand, their aims and goals are easier to decipher than, say, someone you've met in the street."

Adam says he was drawn particularly to Spiderman. "It's because of the whole, 'with power comes great responsibility' theme," he says. "He was just a regular person who had powers and wanted to help people."

According to Angela another big factor is that comics are "not seen as judgmental, there is no age-limit, there isn't any measure of ability". An adult is just as welcome in the world of comics as a child.

Comic fans can also relish building up encyclopaedic knowledge of characters, editions, publishers, authors, illustrators, one-off collaborations - and this is something the brothers are adept at.

Interested in comics about Vampires in the horror genre?

Adam would humbly suggest American Vampire by Vertigo Comics.

"Originally it was a collaboration between Scott Snyder who does some of the current Batman stuff for DC and Stephen King the famous horror writer," he points out.

He continues without pausing: "Vertigo was the home of Hellblazer, which is the home of John Constantine, which is a very popular character, to the point where he got his own TV show for a while and he is still a character on Legends of Tomorrow, the DC TV show. And also they did the Keanu Reeves film, which is very different from the comic. And they do Sandman as well, which is Neil Gaiman's big-name comic."

The brothers relish acting as guides in this universe, introducing customers to new comics.

"The beauty of it is you can hand-pick the comics in your own shop. It's an embarrassment of riches," says Guy, 26.

"We have a system of organised chaos."

But the brothers can pinpoint where every comic is and lead customers straight to them.

There is some friendly rivalry when it comes to generating sales, and converting newcomers to their favourite genres: for Guy, the classics from the 40s and 50s, featuring Superman and Captain America, for example; for Adam, newer comics like Black Panther and Sandman.

In the early days, problems with numeracy and communication - with customers and suppliers - threatened the very existence of the shop.

Typically with autism you don't find uniform levels of ability across subject areas, explains Angela, but peaks in some and troughs in others.

"Adam and Guy are both very visual, incredibly interested in literature and plays," she says. "However one of their troughs is mathematics. Letting loose two young adults with autism was quite a risky business."

Customer payments were a big problem. The brothers struggled to enter prices into the till, and then to enter the same total on the card-reader machine. "Numbers went the wrong way round, or there was a zero missing," recalls Angela.

To get round this, the shop invested in a till where barcodes, prices and the card-reader machine are all integrated and no numbers are inputted at the point of sale.

There were also problems dealing with the companies that provide stock. People with autism need very clear, literal instructions and don't like uncertainty, Angela says. Important information needs to be well sign-posted whereas in everyday conversation, sentences are often left incomplete and thoughts unfinished.

A joint email inbox became necessary so Angela could intervene if she saw any confusion creeping in.

These days Angela describes her main role in the shop as "interferer".

Working full-time with an IT Services company outside Huntingdon, she can only devote so much time to her sons' business. She looks after accounts, tax returns and online sales, but they take care of the day-to-day running of the shop.

Financially it has always remained in the black, though the brothers only draw a small wage.

Of course, the majority of customers who come to the shop are not on the autistic spectrum. But the brothers do get a steady stream of customers who are, both male and female, from young children to pensioners. These people may deliberately seek out the shop because of its reputation for offering a welcoming experience.

"Being on the autistic spectrum ourselves is a big help dealing with neurodiverse people," Adam says.

Not every customer with autism wants to discuss their condition, but the brothers are good at spotting the signs.

"It's an instinctual thing," says Adam.

"Maybe it's the tone of the voice, the motion of a hand," says Guy. "Small details that most people won't pick up on that I might have insight into; rubbing of the fingers, fidgeting, or just a sense of distraction."

The shop has been laid out with these customers in mind. People with autism feel textures, sounds and light very keenly, to the point where they can become overwhelming.

"We make sure there aren't too many distractions and we are aware that people with autism might have very specific interests," Adam says.

One of the reasons the shop is called Niche is that it has nooks and crannies where customers can retire to read in peace and quiet, away from undesired sensory stimulation.

Once the shop had established itself, the brothers also began reaching out to people with autism beyond the shop.

Three years ago Adam started giving talks to young people who are learning-disabled. As a result, some teachers realised that graphic novels were a great way to reach out to people on the spectrum.

Building on those links, the brothers began to take regular "referrals" for work experience from schools and colleges.

The idea is people with disabilities can practise for working life in a safe space.

This is one way the shop can serve the community, says Angela, providing opportunities that less sympathetic employers would not.

"The hidden disabilities of communication and autism are forgotten or overlooked by many people," she says.

"Individuals on the spectrum can be articulate, opinionated, excellent problem solvers, but also incredibly reliable."

In short, excellent employees, if given the right support.

Young people on work experience are first set a task in isolation, often sorting out comics at the rear of the shop, which is repetitive and methodical. Eventually they will graduate to working behind the till.

"After a few days," says Angela, "people who were perhaps not communicating at all come outside themselves and start engaging.

"That's the joy, to see the change."

Seven years on, Angela is glad she took the risk of helping her sons create their dream shop.

"It's been an emotional journey and if I'd known what I know now, I would have had to dig deep to go ahead with it," she says.

"But it was the right decision. This shop has a soul."

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