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- Inverted in Mobile Suit Gundam Wing: when future rivals Heero and Zechs meet face-to-face for the first time, Zechs offers his hand. After a pause, Heero accepts the gesture while remarking that he's never shaken hands with anybody before. This could be because Zechs has shown himself to be very honest and honorable, especially for a member of OZ.
- Subverted in Mobile Suit Gundam Seed Destiny, where at the very end Shinn is introduced to Kira, whom he has spent a fair amount of the plot trying very hard to kill. Kira offers his hand, but Shinn is reluctant to accept, prompting Kira to say "I guess not, huh?" But Shinn eventually does take the hand, while crying over the fact that he's being forgiven so easily for what he's done.
- In Mobile Suit Gundam: Iron-Blooded Orphans, this trope is used to demonstrate Kudelia's Character Development from a sheltered rich girl to a wise and experienced young woman. When she first meets Mikazuki she asks to shake his hand, since that's how "the common folk" say hello; he declines and she gets offended until he shows that his palm is covered with grease. Later in the series, after they've been through many hardships together, she asks him again; once again his his hand is dirty, but she says that she doesn't mind and they shake.
- Subverted in Code Geass: upon her introduction, Rakshata Chawla radiates a rather arrogant Insufferable Genius aura and, when Zero offers her a handshake, it looks like she will refuse it for a moment. She decides to accept, however, in a symbolic move of acknowledging a fellow genius in the rebel leader. It is later shown that Rakshata is not actually that arrogant or smug, but she certainly acted the part when joining the rebellion.
- Played logically and slightly humorously in Angel Densetsu when Ikuno's father, a martial artist hired in a teacher's role to discipline/expel the good-natured but thug-faced Kitano offers a handshake in the men's bathroom (intending to actually start his attack once he has a grip on the student's hand, and choosing the bathroom for being semi-private), but Kitano rejects it because he just used the urinal and it would be gross/inappropriate to shake hands without at least washing their hands and drying it off.
- Both Utsutsu and Joe refuse to shake Hajime's hand when they first meet her, as a newly joining member of the Gatchaman team, in Gatchaman Crowds. In both cases, however, Hajime takes the refusal in stride by either hugging Utsutsu anyway, or by happily shaking her own hand.
- In Fate/stay night [Unlimited Blade Works], Shirou, Rin, and Lancer agree to team up. Lancer offers his hand to Shirou, who ignores it and keeps talking (or didn't notice the hand because he was looking at Lancer's face). After a few seconds, Lancer pulls his hand back.
- On Pokémon, Ash's first Indigo League opponent refuses to shake Ash's hand in a manner that establishes him as a Smug Snake. Ash responds with a Curb-Stomp Battle.
- Dragon Ball Super:
- After the intense fight between Goku and Toppo is interrupted, Goku tries to offer a handshake only for the latter to refuse as he sees Goku as an evil being and he will not shake hands with evil.
- When Goku offered Caulifla a handshake, she slapped his hand away and sternly said she's here to compete in the tournament and prove she's the strongest, not to make friends.
- In One-Punch Man, when Saitama meets S-Rank hero Atomic Samurai, he offers his hand. However Samurai refuses, saying that he'll acknowledge Saitama as an equal after he's proven himself. That, and he seems a little put off at Saitama calling him "old guy" despite him being in his 30s.
- Batman likes doing this. A lot. Even as Bruce Wayne.
- One Dilbert etiquette book has Dogbert explain that this is the "right" way to respond if someone tries to shake your hand after you sneeze into it. The "wrong" way is to shake anyway and let them know afterwards, and the "playful" way is to shake and claim that the moisture is because you just washed your hand.
- Tintin: Reclusive Millionaire Lazlo Carreidas refuses to shake hands with the Captain, claiming it's unhygienic.
- Also Professor Calculus to a soldier of a repressive dictatorship. "I refuse to shake the hand that grinds underfoot the inprescriptable rights of the individual!"
- In All-Star Superman, Superman offers a handshake to the Kryptonians Bar-El and Lilo, who ignore it and start lecturing him on falling in with the primitive humans instead of taking over.
- Irredeemable: Qubit does this on his first meeting with the Plutonian, but apologizes and explains that he gets a "burning feeling" from human contact.
- Dogbert's Rules of Etiquette has a page on how to handle handshakes. Dilbert denying a handshake because he just sneezed is labeled "polite"; another character snarking after shaking with a sneezed hand is "rude"; Dogbert lying and saying it's wet because he just washed it is labeled "playful".
Films — Animation
- Jim Hawkins does this to Long John Silver in Treasure Planet. At first, it's because he's a cyborg and happens to be offering a collection of knives instead of his hand in hand mode. Then it's just a sign of distrust.
- In Toy Story 3, Woody refused to shake hands with Buzz as he was leaving Sunnyside.
Films — Live-Action
- Ace Ventura: Pet Detective when Ace feigns admitting that he was wrong about Roger's death to Einhorn, and offers his hand to her. Subverted since they BOTH dodge the handshake, and Ace is able to prove he was right all along moments later.
- In the 1998 film Godzilla, Matthew Broderick refuses to shake a nerdy scientist's hand after he just sneezed into it.
- And it happens again in the first episode of Godzilla: The Series.
- Liar Liar: Averted at first, and then played straight. When Mr. Allan offers to make Fletcher partner at his law firm, a stunned Fletcher shakes his hand for a second, but then has a Heel Realization and jerks his hand back.
- In the film Mr. Brooks, Kevin Costner's character does this to Dane Cook's character.
- In Blue Streak, Martin Lawrence's character, while posing as a cop, is introduced to a high ranking police officer who extends his hand to shake. He had previously spied the man applying lotion to his private parts, so instead hugs him.
- Seem to recall this happening to Daniel Jackson in Stargate the movie, kinda a mixture of comedy of Jackson sneezing in his hand and contempt for him being in a military base in the first place.
- In Tombstone, Doc Holliday refuses to shake the hand of the corrupt fop of a sheriff who is in league with the cowboy gangs. Though this is because he's a Lawman, and has nothing to do with his corrupt foppery.
- At the end of the OOO, Den-O, All Riders: Let's Go Kamen Riders, Eiji / OOO and Kotaro / New Den-O shake hands. Momotaros offers Ankh a handshake...DENIED.
- In Howard Stern's Private Parts, his new employer - Moti, refuses to shake Howard's hand.
- Mycroft Holmes in Sherlock Holmes: A Game of Shadows refuses to shake hands with Dr Watson the first time they meet, possibly because he's a Neat Freak and has issues with personal hygiene. Fully used to his brother's eccentricities, Watson isn't insulted.
- In The Spy Who Loved Me, Bond is told before meeting Stromberg that he won't shake hands. Bond holds out his hand to Stromberg anyway and is predictably rebuffed. The reason is that Stromberg has webbed fingers.
- Django Unchained. Just when everything seems to be wrapped up, bloodlessly if not ideally, Schultz's inability to bring himself to shake Candie's hand ruins everything. Candie claims their signed contract will be effectively null and void without one, but more likely he just wants to antagonize him. Schultz shoots him instead.
- In Bicentennial Man, the first indication that Andrew's manufacturer sees him as a machine and nothing more is that he refuses to shake Andrew's hand when offered.
- In The Wizard of Speed and Time, Mike refuses to shake hands with people in the movie, to the point that in one scene he implies that it's people who insist on shaking hands as a sign of respect and trust who are the neurotic ones, not him. This is also a case of Real Life Writes the Plot, as Mike Jittlov, who's essentially playing himself in the film, doesn't like to shake hands in real life.
- Casablanca. When Renault meets Strausser at the airport, an Italian officer is snubbed as part of the Passive-Aggressive Kombat.
- Duck Soup: Rufus T. Firefly imagines Ambassador Tretino won't shake his hand, and builds up resentment towards him so much that as soon as Tretino enters Firefly Glove Slaps him for the refusal which hadn't actually happened.
I'd be only too happy to meet with Ambassador Trentino, and offer him on behalf of my country the right hand of good fellowship. And I feel sure he will accept this gesture in the spirit of which it is offered. But suppose he doesn't. A fine thing that'll be. I hold out my hand and he refuses to accept. That'll add a lot to my prestige, won't it? Me, the head of a country, snubbed by a foreign ambassador. Who does he think he is, that he can come here, and make a sap of me in front of all my people? Think of it - I hold out my hand and that hyena refuses to accept. Why, the cheap four-flushing swine, he'll never get away with it I tell you, he'll never get away with it. Trentino enters So, you refuse to shake hands with me, eh?
- In Now You See Me, when Merritt meets Daniel and Henley for the first time. Daniel offers his hand to Merritt, who starts to accept then suddenly flips him a middle finger instead.
- In Avatar, Jake offers his hand to Grace who rudely rebuffs him. Later, he offers his hand to Neytiri's father, but her people are unfamiliar with the gesture and the guards point their weapons at Jake in response.
- In the third installment of The Mighty Ducks, Dwayne offers to shake hands when meeting the varsity team—and gets a handful of chewing gum instead.
- Subverted at the end of Wild Cats. After coach Goldie Hawn's high school football team wins the city championship, the opposing coach — enraged at losing to a woman — refuses to shake her hand. But one of her players will have none of it; he picks him up, holds him kicking and screaming over his head, and forces him to shake.
- In Sense and Sensibility, Marianne tries to shake hands with Willoughby when she sees him at a London party, after his abrupt departure from the country and several weeks of total silence in spite of their enthusiastic romance. He stands there in shock, bows awkwardly, and hurries off to join his party—that of his new fiancee, Miss Grey. Marianne is left shocked and horrified on the dance floor.note
- In Resident Evil: Afterlife, when the Los Angeles survivors meet Alice and Claire, Luther greets them and offers the two handshakes. Claire scowls and walks past him, though Alice accepts.
- Max Manus. After the war is over, Max Manus finally meets face-to-face with the Gestapo officer who's been hunting him the entire movie. At first Max refuses to shake his hand, but when it's offered again at the end of their conversation, Max removes the cigarette from his hand to accept his handshake.
- Back to School. Snooty professor Dr. Barbay looks down at Thornton Melon's outstretched hand for a moment, then turns to chew out the Dean for allowing Melon to enroll at the college. Thorn spends the rest of movie finding new ways to both deliberately and unintentionally break the professor's balls. Earlier in the film, a snooty guest at his wife's party declines a handshake from Thorn, but mainly because he'd made a show of removing a mouthful of food with that hand before greeting her.
- In Robert Asprin's Another Fine Myth, Aahz offers to take protagonist Skeeve on as his apprentice, since Skeeve's teacher has just been murdered. Pleased, Skeeve offers his hand to seal the deal...and Aahz refuses, because he doesn't shake hands with apprentices. Skeeve wonders if he should have thought this arrangement through a little more.
- Much later, while searching for a missing Aahz in his home dimension, Skeeve flinches at shaking hands with an apprentice. When he explains where he picked up the habit, Aahz's old magic teacher remembers him ("It was one of his less objectionable traits") and is able to help Skeeve look for him.
- In Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone, Harry refuses Malfoy's handshake when they first meet on the Hogwarts Express, rejecting him in favor of his future best friend Ron.
- Animorphs: at the end of the episode where Tom and Jake are taken to the country for their grandfather's funeral longer than the Yeerk can survive, the Animorphs save the day by breaking Tom's leg so he gets sent back into town. Marco, who came up with the idea, offers his hand to Jake as a sign of all being forgiven (Jake had been dealing with the possibility that his brother might be finally freed), but Jake just lets it sit there.
- 20,000 Leagues Under the Sea: The Professor Aronnax gets this treatment with Captain Nemo. Nemo doesn't distrust Wide-Eyed Idealist Aronnax, is just one of the first of many signs to show how far Nemo has been Madden Into Misanthropy:
I thought the commander would offer me his hand, to seal our agreement. He did nothing of the sort. I regretted that.
- In Settling Accounts: In at the Death, the last book of the Timeline-191 series, Irving Morrell refuses to shake the hand of the surrendering CSA president. He has explicit orders not to shake the man's hand.
- In the Sherlock Holmes story "A Scandal in Bohemia", Holmes disregards the King of Bohemia's offered hand, deeming the latter's conduct in the case to have been dishonorable.
- In the fifth book of The Dresden Files, "Death Masks", Martin does this to Harry in his first appearance.
Martin: I don't shake hands.
- In the X-Wing Series novel Iron Fist, Wraith agent Shalla Nelprin is introduced in disguise to Captain Netbers, the villain's hand-to-hand expert (who she has been told is going to "evaluate her skills"). Rather than shake his hand, she instantly attacks him — because she could see from his stance that he intended to use the handshake to grab and throw her. (He admits later that she was absolutely correct.)
- Sub-commander T'pol does this to Trip Tucker in the pilot episode of Star Trek: Enterprise. Justified in that T'pol is a Vulcan, Vulcans being touch telepathic aliens who don't like touching members of their own species, let alone emotional humans. It pretty obviously doubled as a snub, however.
- On Day 5, Jack Bauer reacts this way to his daughter's new boyfriend.
- On Day 6, Bill Buchanan does this to Hamri Al-Assad. Assad is a new ally for America, but he's also a former terrorist who lead a decades long campaign against the U.S. so it's no surprise Buchanan, a counter-terrorist agent, doesn't exactly like or respect him.
- Also on Day 6, Aaron Pierce refuses to shake hands with disgraced ex-President Charles Logan. Considering Logan had Pierce tortured and was going to have a corrupt Secret Service agent kill him, it's no wonder.
- Monk is a germophobe and refuses to shake hands with just about anyone. If he's forced to, he will immediately turn to his assistant for a wipe.
- In one episode he voluntarily shook hands as a sign of friendship with an ex-colleague of his, who was accused (even by Monk) of being in the drug-business (which he wasn't, which was proven of course.)
- In another episode he shook hands with a succession of people, after the last one he immediately turned to his assistant for a wipe. The problem being, the last handshakee was black, leading to much accusations of racism.
- In a Seinfeld episode, Elaine's boss has a cold. Having left his handkerchief in Elaine's office, he sneezes into his hand and is unable to shake the hand of a Japanese businessman when he sneezes, explaining that he can't because of the germs. The Japanese men assume he is implying that they might be diseased and cancel their business dealings.
- The Mayor from Buffy the Vampire Slayer is portrayed as a neat-freak, and refuses to shake anyone's hand.
- When Giles is replaced as Watcher by Wesley, Buffy refuses to shake his hand and pointedly sits down next to Giles.
- Victor Kennedy in the Doctor Who episode "Love and Monsters", allegedly because of his "eczeema"; it turns out he's an "absorbaloff" (or at least, likes the title) and bodily absorbs anyone he touches.
- Additionally, near the end of the second series, the Doctor is distracted by the presence of the Void Ship and fails to shake hands with the technician when offered.
- Vince MacMahon on at least one occasion said "I don't shake hands with lawyers" on WWE.
- On Angel, Cordelia introduces herself to the friendly but corrupt lawyer Eve. When Eve begins to introduce herself in turn, Cordelia interrupts her, saying, "I didn't ask."
- Mad Men
- Don does this to Pete Campbell in the pilot of ; it's fairly awesome.
- Pete gets the same treatment from Joan after years of their working together. Rather justified by the fact that he's just suggested that she sleep with a Jaguar distributor to help land the account.
- House is not fond of physical contact and often will refuse handshakes, regardless of who they're from.
- There was an episode of M*A*S*H whose B-plot involved Winchester's dental woes coupled with his fear of dentists. In the end of the episode, Winchester is about to shake the hand of the man who Hawkeye and BJ brought on to handle the episode's A-plot only for them to reveal he's a dentist; Winchester immediately retracts his hand. To be fair, this was more due to his fear of dentists than any attempt at being insulting.
- In the original Ellen Degeneres sitcom Ellen, one episode involved the filming of a talkshow, which ended with the host shaking hands with the guests - onc the cameras and music stopped, so did he.
- In a very very old episode of Baywatch a returning lifeguard refuses Mitch (David Hasselhoff's) handshake. However rather than being rude it's the first clue that an eye-disease is destroying his periphial vision.
- In the Babylon 5 episode "Passing Through Gethsemane", Sheridan hesitates to shake the hand of a recent murderer who had since been "mindwiped" (had his personality and memories removed and replaced as punishment for the capital crime) and joined Brother Theo's monastic order, until Brother Theo reminds him of the value of forgiveness.
- In an episode of Frasier, the artist Frasier invites over always wears a smock so she doesn't have to shake hands.
- This was done in an episode of Coach set in a sperm bank. Hayden Fox ran into one of his fans coming out of one of the private rooms, who promptly recognized him and held out his hand for a shake.
- Agent Nikki Jardine was temporarily assigned to Gibbs' team, but didn't shake hands with anyone. As with Monk (mentioned above), she's a germophobe.
- In another episode, a superhero wannabe helps take down one of the bad guys. Gibbs goes to shake his hand—and the guy instead performs a martial arts-style bow, which Gibbs returns.
- Gibbs himself refuses a handshake from the attorney of his second ex-wife...who is also her fiancé...who is also the man that she cheated on Gibbs with.
- In Stargate Atlantis, Todd the Wraith offers a handshake... with the feeding hand his people use to drain the lifeforce from humans. Every Marine draw a gun on him. Todd thinks it is funny as hell.
- On The West Wing President Bartlet refused to shake the hand of a foreign minister that he recently learned was a terrorist (and who he was planning to have assassinated). He told the translator to say he had a rash to keep the minister from suspecting anything wrong.
- On How I Met Your Mother, Barney offers a fist bump for a lewd joke, but Ted and Marshall refuse. Barney then vows not to lower his hand until the fist bump is reciprocated, a vow that he soon regrets as his arm starts to tire.
Barney: I request the highest of fives.
- Also happens when Barney announces his 200th sexual conquest.
Ted: Not even if I was wearing a hazmat suit.
- The Escape Artist: Will refuses to shake Foyle's hand when he gets him released. This inspires Foyle to stalk and eventually murder Will's wife, Kate. Later on, Maggie does shake his hand, but it doesn't help her with him.
- In the iCarly episode "iDon't Want To Fight", Sam trades a shirt Carly made for her in honor of their friendship anniversary for tickets to a concert she wants to see. She holds her hand out for a fist-bump, but Carly coldly rejects it.
- In Ring of Honor's early days, the Code of Honor included handshakes before and after the match, and some major feuds started with one wrestler refusing to shake another's hand.
- Referenced in CM Punk's Wrestlerave promo about Raven: "I'd shake your hand like a normal man, but the truth is I don't respect you!"
- Claudio Castagnoli and Delirious had a lot of fun not shaking Jason Strife's hand during their Tag Team match on the under card of IWA Mid-South Volcano Girls 2.
- Naruki Doi and Masato Yoshino continually refused post match handshakes with Dragon Kid in Dragon Gate USA and dedicated much of their time to mocking him over it.
- Refusing a handshake is a common feature of a Face–Heel Turn, especially favoured in the tag team break up angle.
- A guest-starring Machine Gun Kelly offered Kevin Owens a handshake. Owens attacked him and powerbombed him off the stage.
- Dramatic Dream Team: HARASHIMA refused to shake Kota Ibushi's hand after losing the Open Weight title to him, leading to Ibushi following HARASHIMA trying to get a hand shake and HARASHIMA punching Ibushi's palm.
- At Wrestlemania 30, Triple H offered Daniel Bryan a pre-match handshake, only for Bryan to kick him.
- On World Wonder Ring STARDOM's first USA tour, Nicole Savoy offered her hand to Act Yasukawa, who spat in and kicked her face in response. She was also attacked for offering Kimber Lee the same on SHIMMER Volume 80, which in turn lead to her refusing the offer from both Heidi Lovelace and Candice LeRae who teamed up to force Savoy to shake Lovelace's hand.
- At Royal Rumble 2018, Ronda Rousey congratulated Asuka on her victory and offered her a handshake. Asuka slapped her hand away.
- Eugene often offers his opponents a pre-match handshake. His opponents often just attack him.
- At the beginning of Nouvelle Experience (a Cirque du Soleil show), The Everyman tries to offer a handshake to the strangers he's suddenly surrounded by. But he's in a Cloudcuckooland, and they are confused and even frightened by the gesture whenever he attempts it. A few acts later, having come to understand that he is friendly, one of them returns his handshake.
- In Metal Gear Solid 2: Sons of Liberty, Peter Stillman reacts this way upon being introduced to Iroquois Pliskin, who is actually Solid Snake.
- At the end of Metal Gear Solid 3: Snake Eater, the U.S. President awards the Distinguished Service Cross to Naked Snake. Snake shakes President Lyndon B. Johnson's hand, but refuses to shake hands with the Director of the CIA, because the director had him kill his mentor to both prevent an international incident and recover a massive sum of money from the Big Bad.
- Parodied in the Secret Theater skit, "Payback", where the Director of the CIA tracks down Naked Snake and bests him in a fight just to get that handshake.
- In Final Fantasy VIII, Squall does this quite a bit, most notably to Zell and to the leader of La Résistance.
- Everyone does this to Zell. It's one of the game's Running Gags
- In the Mass Effect 2 DLC, Stolen Memories, you can offer to shake the hand of mercenary group owner Donovan Hock. He will refuse, because he's an all-around asshole.
Archer: Dr Gavin Archer. We...met...on Project Overlord.Shepard: (not taking his hand) That's one way of putting it.
- Happens a few times in Mass Effect 3. Lieutenant Tolan (a dead Kirrahe's jerkass stand-in) does this to Shepard on Sur'Kesh. In "From Ashes", Shepard offers Last of His Kind Javik a handshake during their first scene together, but he turns it down. In your last scene together before the final battle, he holds out his hand, and you can either take the Paragon Interrupt or turn him down. Then there's Dr Archer from 2's Overlord DLC...
- In Mega Man Zero 2, Elpizo introduces himself to Zero as the new commander of the resistance and offers his hand after announcing his plans to destroy Neo Arcadia. Zero refuses both the plans and the handshake.
- In Epic Mickey, Oswald suggest that him and Mickey shake and start over. But Mickey holds back and confesses to causing the Thinner Disaster.
- In L.A. Noire, during the first investigation with the Arson desk, a patrolman shows a reluctance to shake Cole's hand since Cole was recently involved in a scandal after having an affair with a nightclub singer. Cole's partner Herschel rebukes him, telling him 'Cole's name might be dogshit, but his hand isn't covered in it.
- Assassin's Creed III:
- Haytham refuses to shake the hand of Louie Mills the first time they meet. No explanation is given, but it's impled to be a class issue; Haytham is a British aristocrat and Mills is a working class sailor, so Haytham probably regards a handshake as beneath him.
- Connor is a more justified example; he was raised among native americans, who consider it taboo to touch someone you don't know, so he Hates Being Touched. He turns down an offer of a handshake with John Adams, though he does grow to accept a handshake as an acceptable greeting once he's spent some time living amongst the colonists.
- You have the option of doing this in Shin Megami Tensei: Strange Journey, making Commander Gore comment on the oddity and moving your karma meter slightly towards chaos (accepting it will move it to Law instead). Later, if you offer a handshake to resident Jerk Ass Jimenez, he will refuse, citing he prefers not to relate to anyone, feeling it ain't worth developing a friendship during a war if all the sap is gonna do is get himself killed. (Conversely, he will react more positively if you don't offer a handshake in the first place. Functions as a minor Establishing Character Moment for everyone in the room.)
- Frank West does this to Brad Garrison in Dead Rising being a rather aloof reporter and all.
- Questionable Content: On being introduced to Dave, Steve refuses to shake his hand because immediately preceding the introduction, he heard Dave watching porn. Yeaaah.
- Eugene declines to shake hands when sealing a deal with Lord Shojo in The Order of the Stick. It's not rudeness, however; as a ghost, he is incapable of holding anything corporeal.
- Clockwork: Arcadia's ambassador Alexander de Leveque, of all people, wordlessly refuses the Mercian Emperor's offered handshake. The Emperor laughs it off, apparently used to it from him, but his son Boris looks far less pleased that Alexander thinks he's too good to touch them. As it turns out, Alexander has refused to touch anyone for the past nine years, as a result of the life-threatening curse he's been afflicted with since then.
- Stand Still, Stay Silent: Lalli, being one of the No Social Skills characters, just plain ignores handshakes offered by two of his new crewates upon meeting them. While one quickly got his hand grabbed by his much more social cousin, the other gently forced Lalli into the handshake. Emil later tried to offer Lalli a fist bump, which was ignored as well.
- SpongeBob SquarePants, "Pressure": SpongeBob offers Squidward a high-five. Squidward's response: "Not on your life, sport."
- The Adventures of Jimmy Neutron: Boy Genius: In "The Eggpire Strikes Back'' Jimmy refused to shake hands with King Goobot after he disapproves of a picnic he's hosting.
- A variant occurs in American Dad! episode "Tears Of A Clooney", after Stan befriends George Clooney, he later refuses to fistbump him because has to inform George he is "leaving" him to move back to his old home.
- In the Regular Show episode "Family BBQ", Mordecai learns that Margaret's dad never shakes hands with any of her boyfriends, and becomes obsessed with getting that handshake, even taking part in a cannonball contest that, typical of the show, gets dangerously out of hand.
- My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic:
- In the episode "Wonderbolts Academy", Rainbow Dash is offered a hoof-bump from Lightning Dust, a fellow Wonderbolt cadet, in celebration of the "awesome" tornado they created that almost killed Rainbow's friends. Her response: "A hoof-bump? Seriously?"
- In "Gauntlet of Fire", when Spike and Ember agree to help each other, Spike says they have a deal and thrusts his claw for her to shake. Ember is visibly uncomfortable with the gesture, which is likely unknown among dragons, so she just grabs a finger between her index and thumb and wiggles it.
- To Where And Back Again has the now ex-Queen Chrysalis do this in retaliation for Starlight leading to her dethroning. Even better is that Starlight offered Chrysalis to be a good queen, but she refused.
- In Road Rovers, Hunter offers a fist bump to a young boy, only to discover the boy is blind.
- In Samurai Jack, Extor offers Jack a high-five, but since Jack is from Ancient Japan, he says he doesn't understand what he is doing and Extor slinks away. At the end of the episode, Jack finally returns his high-five.
- In Code Lyoko, Herve refuses to shake hands with Jeremie after losing to him in a robot contest.
- Specifically banned in fencing. Refusing to shake hands with your opponent after a bout can result in disqualification.
- Former French president Nicolas Sarkozy was famously at the wrong end of such a refusal at the Salon de l'Agriculture, but his reaction to it was even more (in)famous: he answered the offender "Casse-toi alors, pauvre con!" ("Get lost then, dumbass!"). Such a direct insult to a citizen was deemed unbecoming of the President, and veered into sheer hypocrisy when someone was later arrested for "insult to the president" for holding a sign with that very sentence during an anti-Sarkozy protest.
- Chess Grandmaster Ivan Cheparinov once refused a game-starting handshake with fellow GM Nigel Short.
- At the conclusion of a playoff series in the Stanley Cup Playoffs it is tradition for the players to line up at center ice to shake hands with each other, whatever bad blood may exist between them. In a competition steeped in tradition a refusal to do so is especially notable.note
- Downplayed example in the 1996 Western Conference Finals between the Colorado Avalanche and the Detroit Red Wings. In the first period of Game 6 with the Avalanche up 3 games to 2, Avs forward Claude Lemieux checked Red Wings forward Kris Draper from behind and into the boards - Draper had to go to the hospital with a broken jaw and a shattered cheek and orbital bone, requiring surgery and stitches. Lemieux got a five-minute major penalty plus a game misconduct (meaning he got ejected from the game entirely) but the Avalanche won the game 4-1 to clinch the series. While the teams did shake hands after the game Red Wings forward Dino Ciccarelli was quoted in the press saying, "I can't believe I shook this guy's friggin' hand after the game. That pisses me right off." The hit was the biggest catalyst for the brutal, bloody, and vicious rivalry between the two teams in the late 90's, including an (in)famous slugfest of a meeting on March 27 of the following year that totaled 144 penalty minutes.
- Straightforward example in 2008 in the Eastern Conference Quarterfinals between the New Jersey Devils and New York Rangers. During a five-on-three power play for the Rangers in Game 3, Sean Avery of the Rangers turned to face Devils goaltender Martin Brodeur and did pretty much everything short of physical contact to block Brodeur's view including waving his stick around in the air (screening the goaltender is a fairly standard tactic for the offense, but those players usually have their back to the goalie so that they're at least trying to look like they're looking at where the puck is); no penalty was called, though, as nothing Avery did was expressly prohibited in the rules, and Avery ended up scoring the goal.note When the Rangers eventually won the best-of-7 series in five games a few days later, Brodeur explicitly refused to shake hands with Avery.
- Happens at certain boxing or UFC/MMA events when one or both fighters (think Liddel vs Ortiz or Rousy vs Corria) if there is particularly bad blood between them. Addressed in the UFC games, when the ref gets them to touch gloves one or both fighters may refuse to do so.
- Olivia de Havilland and Joan Fontaine had the most famous Sibling Rivalry in Hollywood history, caused in part by Joan beating Olivia head-to-head for the Oscar for Best Actress of 1941 (Fontaine winning for Suspicion over de Havilland for Hold Back the Dawn). When de Havilland finally won her Oscar five years later for To Each His Own, Fontaine tried to greet her backstage, only for this◊ to happen.
- In the Rio Olimpics, 2016, Egyptian judoka Islam el-Shehaby lost to and refuse to shake hands of Israeli bronze medal winner Or Sasson.
- The US and German media had a ball when, in March of 2017, chancellor Angela Merkel offered president Donald Trump a handshake, only for the president to completely ignore her with an awkward silence.