Are You Sure You Want to Do That?

A phrase said by one character as a subtle warning to another character that their next proposed action is likely to be a big mistake. Trope Codifier is Atticus Finch of To Kill a Mockingbird.

It doesn't have to be those exact words. Any question of this type that is a neutral call for confirmation on the surface, but is loaded with implied danger if the speaker gets the answer wrong, falls under this trope. The speaker is giving whoever is about to make the error a chance to back away from the edge of a precipice before they plummet over into the abyss.

Being asked this is a red flag that you are dealing with The Trickster. If you're being asked it while under said trickster's wing, that makes the character a Trickster Mentor as well, the kind of mentor who prefers to let his or her students make their own mistakes and naturally smooth out the rough edges before teaching them the final touches... but they can't help themselves from issuing a subtle warning that they know the bold or chronically indecisive are ultimately going to ignore. (Its fun to watch them fluster over the choice before getting it wrong anyway after all, and a mentor has to have fun, right?) It's also the favorite disclaimer of the Literal Genie.

Of course, this may be used in a serious context later on when used on a villain who is about to make his own grave, ruin his own plan, or otherwise screw things up for team evil. This may also be used as a Call Back to the original question to the hero under tuition; all the more appropriate if the question comes from the student themselves. After once being played straight, it is sometimes used as a bluff to unnerve an opponent from making a good move. However, it's rarely, if ever, a bluff the first time, and it's likewise unheard of for someone to take the hint when it's not a bluff.

Examples

Comic Books
  • In the Lucifer one-shot ''Nirvana," the title character visits the demon Beruchapalimon for leads about the Silk Man's recent attack on himself. The demon assumes Lucifer intends to read his entrails for clues and so has his Mooks attempt to restrain him while he prepares a magical assault. Lucifer says, "A threat display, demon? Have you thought this through?" Beruchapalimon doesn't take the hint, and proceeds to cast knives at him out of thin air, only for Lucifer effortlessly to turn the knives on the mooks. "I really was just looking for information," he tells the demon, holding a knife to his throat.

Film
  • From The Dark Knight:
    Lucius Fox: "Let Me Get This Straight. You think that your client - one of the wealthiest, most influential men in the world - is secretly a vigilante, who spends his nights beating criminals to a pulp with his bare hands... and your plan is to blackmail this person? Good luck."
  • In Hot Fuzz, By-the-Book Cop Nicholas asks the Psychopathic Manchild the villains are using as Dumb Muscle whether murdering people is what he "really, really wants". After confirming it, he quips "Suit yourself" and kicks his ass.
  • In the first Pirates of the Caribbean movie, when Barbossa is about to slit Will's throat and undo the curse:
    Jack Sparrow: You don't want to be doing that.
    Barbossa: ...no, I really think I do.
    Jack Sparrow: *shrugs* Your funeral.
    *Beat*
    Barbossa: *extremely annoyed* Why don't I want to be doing that?
  • In WarGames, David Lightman logs on to the computer Joshua as Stephen Falken, who in his past liked to research war games. Joshua asks "Falken" if he would like to play a game, and David types in: "Love to. How about Global Thermonuclear War?" Joshua replies, "Wouldn't you prefer a nice game of chess?" As we learn later, the real Falken would prefer chess, but David insists on playing Global Thermonuclear War.
  • The protagonist of Mulholland Dr. is asked this by the hitman she hires to kill her ex. The guilt of it then drives her to suicide.
  • In Open Graves the protagonist wins a Jumanji-like boardgame that grants you a wish if you complete it. As most of his friends died while playing it, he tells the wish granter that he wishes it were last week, before any of this happened. She tells him that it seems a waste as it'll put him right back where he started and he, being an idiot, insists on going ahead instead of taking a moment to consider this statement. So it's last week. And he, lacking Ripple-Effect-Proof Memory, proceeds to let the exact same sequence of events happen over again.
  • In Mortal Kombat Johnny Cage challenges Goro to protect his friends.
    Shang Tsung: Challenging Goro, eh? You weren't supposed to fight him now. Are you that eager to die?

Literature
  • Trope Codifier is Atticus Finch of To Kill a Mockingbird, as mentioned above. He uses it several times in Scout's earlier years before the story as a warning during chess matches that she was about to make a mistake: Scout never took the warning and always got trounced when she ignored it. The second time uses it for drama in a climactic moment that displays Atticus's bravery as he faces down a lynch mob, and, after asking them what they are here for, asks the titular question. It is not this that disperses the crowd, however, but Scout's famous Shaming the Mob speech that follows.
  • Near the end of Solo Command, Dr. Edda Gast is offered a new identity and a half million credits in exchange for information regarding certain brainwashing projects that Warlord Zsinj is undertaking. After accepting the deal, she is asked by her liaison (Nawara Ven) whether she wants New Republic credits or Imperial credits. She chooses Imperial credits. After a bit more discussion, Ven gives her one last chance to change her mind, and to work directly for the New Republic. She blows it off...and soon after, is arrested on Coruscant for carrying half a million Imperial credits, which, according to law, is such a large amount that it can only be for purposes of sedition. She is promptly arrested, and presumably convicted for the crimes she was set up for. Given what Gast had done, she deserved it.

Live-Action TV
  • Star Trek, "The Trouble with Tribbles:"
    Korax: That saggy old rust bucket is designed like a garbage scow. Half the quadrant knows it. That's why they're learning to speak Klingonese.
    Scotty: Laddie, don't you think you should rephrase that?
    Korax: (With Scottish accent) You're right. I should. (Drops accent) I didn't mean to say that the Enterprise should be hauling garbage. I meant to say that it should be hauled away as garbage!
  • Bob Barker did this occasionally on The Price Is Right, if someone made a really bad bid, such as $250 000 on a daytime showcase.
  • Happened on Whose Line Is It Anyway? during a game of Greatest Hits. Drew asked the audience for a European city you would go to to have a good time, and got back Paris and Amsterdam and had to make a decision.
    Drew: "Paris...Amsterdam...umm...let's do uhh...P...Am...Amsterdam..."
    (Ryan, Colin, and Wayne all give Drew bemused, questioning looks)
    Ryan: "Ooookaay!"
    Drew: "...Let's do Paris."
  • Invoked by Regis Philbin's famous "Is that your final answer?" on Who Wants to Be a Millionaire?, although he was required to ask the question if the contestant did not specify that it was. This ensured that the contestant would accept the result of The Reveal and not claim that (s)he wasn't really ready.

Tabletop RPG
  • Classic Traveller supplement The Traveller Adventure. If the PCs decide to get rid of the anolas, the game master is advised to ask them if they really want to do that. This represents the slight but growing hold the anolas have on the PCs' minds.
  • GURPS allows players to buy the "Common Sense" advantage for their characters, which basically obligates the game master to ask this very question when they're about to do something that would blatantly violate it. (Though this arguably falls under Useless Useful Non-Combat Abilities since sufficient player savviness — or a kind GM — will provide the exact same benefits for free rather than charge character points for them.)
  • The 2004 edition of Paranoia recommended that new players be allowed the "newbie net" for their first few clones — the GM should ask for confirmation when those players were about to do something stupid.
  • The disclaimer in Dungeons & Dragons 5th edition Player's Handbook:
    Wizards of the Coast is not responsible for consequences of splitting up the party, sticking appendages in the mouth of a leering green devil face, accepting a dinner invitation from bugbears, storming the feast hall of a hill giant steading, angering a dragon of any variety, or saying yes when the DM asks, "Are you really sure?"

Video Games
  • In Apollo Justice, Gavin asks Phoenix Wright if he really wants to embarrass himself with the falsified evidence he is about to present. It seems at the time to be simply arrogant taunting, and Phoenix does it anyway.
  • In Fallout: New Vegas this occurs upon first meeting Benny where a female character with the Black Widow perk can sleep with Benny, but only if the player is willing to confirm the action through around a dozen utterances of this trope by Benny. Some of the dialog gets a bit creepy.
  • In Nier, Nier can save save Kaine from the Black Scrawl by choosing to not just die but completely erase even the memory of his existence from everyone's minds. This includes all your saved games. The game spells out the consequences and repeatedly asks you to confirm your choice.
  • Used for humorous effect in Borderlands: The Pre-Sequel!. Selecting Claptrap at character creation requires you to go through three confirmation screens (as opposed to one), each asking you if you're absolutely sure you want to play as him.
  • Alpha Centauri displays this sort of warning if you order one of your army units to attack an enemy unit which happens to be far more powerful.

Web Animation
  • Red vs. Blue's Simmons tries to keep it as non-objective as possible: "Sir, wouldn't it be better if we didn't do that, instead of doing it?" As usually, he is ignored.
  • Not a Normal Genie: A kid ignores the warnings of a genie on his loophole wish and it backfires on him.

Web Comics

Real Life
  • If your Game Master says this in a Tabletop RPG, then you really might want to reconsider your chosen action.
  • A well designed (modern) computer program will do this before a action that is hard/impossible to reverse, or just plain dangerous/destructive, as a way to make sure you don't accidentally perform said action. Given that computers are the embodiment of a Literal Genie, this is a good thing.
    • Depending on how often this is encountered, people would get annoyed by this to the point of disabling it. Even if it meant your computer was now open to being destroyed by users being stupid.
  • A rather grim example: Israeli PM Yitskhak Rabin refused to wear a bullet-proof vest for the pro-Oslo treaties rally on Nov. 4th, 1995. It cost him his life.


Alternative Title(s):

Ominous Warning Prompt