Oh so romantic but completely out of style.
An Always Male
character devoted to enforcing the standards and principles regarding how "real men" act and behave, whether it's around women or otherwise. One of his top priorities is maintaining the comfort, safety, and reputation of ladies, thinking that the idea of a woman being One of the Boys
is plain old wrong. His ideals go beyond common courtesy. This can lead
to serious problems
if a woman
is willing to take advantage of his beliefs
Any attempts to resist or otherwise convince said character that his principles are archaic rarely come up or fall flat on their faces. A rare success will result in a wake up call to the man that he might be trapped in the wrong era
or the wrong culture
If he practices what he preaches, especially if it's in terms of romance, then he will probably win over the other characters like a natural Prince Charming
. If one of these characters is female, then you have Single Woman Seeks Good Man
. If his ladylove is similarly old-fashioned
, they become a Lady and Knight
couple. Some hand-kissing
may be in order and no puddle shall go un-coated
If he's not just a gentleman but an Officer and a Gentleman
, he probably belongs to an order of knighthood and follows the more classic code of chivalry. In that case see Knight in Shining Armor
. He might also be a Sharp-Dressed Man
Contrast Stay in the Kitchen
, where the male character may hold such old-fashioned ideals with less than noble intentions, and Would Hit a Girl
, where the male character abandons all thought of preferential treatment. Compare Prince Charming Wannabe
Anime and Manga
- Rurouni Kenshin: A female ninja is escorting a Dutch visitor about and is disconcerted when he wants her to walk through a door ahead of him. When he explains chivalry dictates it as a way of showing respect for women, she just laughs it off.
- Kate and Leopold: Hugh Jackman's character is a nobleman from 1876. He is accustomed to stand when a lady leaves the table, is often mocked for things like his idea of the culinary arts. He becomes more modern and learns that obligation will trump integrity. He also woos Kate with a moonlight dinner and dancing on the roof, breakfast the next morning, etc.
- Princess of Thieves
Gwyn: Now you let me steal your horse?
Prince Philip: I give it to you freely madam. A woman should not have to walk.
Gwyn: Has not a woman legs? Do we not walk and run just as you do?
- The Mask of Zorro
Alejandro: All that shooting guns, racing around on horses - gives me a frightful headache. Itís hardly the work of a gentleman.
Elena: What is? Climbing in and out of carriages?
: No, but increasing one's holdings so as to provide comfort to ladies. Such as yourself.
- In Aussie cinema, truckers are often romanticised as modern day cowboys who stand up for the underdog and are always polite to women. Examples include Stacy Keach in Road Games, and Mory in Savages Crossing.
- Dracula: Van Helsing and the rest of the heroes decide it's best if Mina Harker stays safe at home while they go out each night vampire-hunting. They do it because they think it's for her own good, in her best interest, the right/gentlemanly thing to do and they'd be cruel and reckless if they included her. It backfires and they learn their lesson.
- Journey to Chaos: Nolien's manners and value system are classic gentleman and because of this he fits in better with traditional nobles than the modern mercenaries he works with. Tiza, the usual target of his courtesy, finds it stiffling.
- Looney Tunes: The witch doctor Dr. I.C. Spots from the short "Which is Witch" takes off his hat and steps aside, when three lady natives - and Bugs, disguised as one - walk by. (Unfortunately for Bugs, his disguise slips.)