Never My Fault
"Since neither of you are willing to own up to trashing the house, you're both gonna be sleeping outside
for the next couple of weeks!"
In these situations, we must emulate the Prime Minister. Dave:
What, cock it up and then blame someone else?
It is not easy to admit that we are responsible for our actions and deserve to be blamed—in fact, for some people it's one of, if not the
most difficult thing(s) to do—and it is often far more comfortable to play the Blame Game
and convince ourselves that it is the fault of another, even though this is the coward's way out. We may blame others even when we know deep down in our hearts that it is our fault. Due to the Rule of Drama
, fictional characters will blame themselves
for things going south most of the time, but there are some cases where, just like in Real Life
, the character who really
is to blame will blame everyone else instead. Common variations include:
of Psychological Projection
. This is a frequent component of Comedic Sociopathy
and Revenge Myopia
. Also tends to involve Moral Dissonance
. The diametric opposite
of It's All My Fault
. A character prone to this will likely try Glad I Thought of It
, too. Compare Hypocritical Humor
, which can involve a similar blindness to one's own flaws, and Implausible Deniability
. See also It's All About Me
, which are key reasons why a character would fall into any of the above. If the character doesn't blame others, but isn't sorry for what s/he's done, see The Unapologetic
(however, the two tropes can overlap, generally when the character says "I Did What I Had to Do
"). This trope is the defining characteristic of The Unfair Sex
. Can overlap with Everything Is Racist
, when the person blames their failings which are clearly their own fault on societal prejudice and hatred towards people of their race/gender/sexual orientation/taste in music/whatever.
The formal term for this is "self-serving bias"
, and it is a key personality trait of both The Sociopath
and the Narcissist
. Related cognitive biases include the defensive attribution hypothesis
, as well as the fundamental and ultimate attribution errors
Compare with Mama Didn't Raise No Criminal
, for parents that try to shift blame off of their kids, rather than themselves.
NOTE: Please remember that examples of people blaming others for something that's clearly
someone else's (i.e. a third party's) fault is not an example of this trope. This trope is only for when people attempt to shift the blame off of themselves.