Never My Fault
"Since neither of you are willing to own up to trashing the house, you're both gonna be sleeping outside for the next couple of weeks!"

Gus: In these situations, we must emulate the Prime Minister.
Dave: What, cock it up and then blame someone else?
Drop the Dead Donkey, Pilot episode

It is not easy to admit that we are responsible for our actions and deserve to be blamed—in fact, for some people it's one of, if not the most difficult thing(s) to do—and it is often far more comfortable to play the Blame Game and convince ourselves that it is the fault of another, even though this is the coward's way out. We may blame others even when we know deep down in our hearts that it is our fault. Due to the Rule of Drama, fictional characters will blame themselves for things going south most of the time, but there are some cases where, just like in Real Life, the character who really is to blame will blame everyone else instead. Common variations include:

Sub-Trope of Psychological Projection. This is a frequent component of Comedic Sociopathy and Revenge Myopia. Also tends to involve Moral Dissonance. The diametric opposite of It's All My Fault. A character prone to this will likely try Glad I Thought of It, too. Compare Hypocritical Humor, which can involve a similar blindness to one's own flaws, and Implausible Deniability. See also It's All About Me and Narcissist, which are key reasons why a character would fall into any of the above. If the character doesn't blame others, but isn't sorry for what s/he's done, see The Unapologetic (however, the two tropes can overlap, generally when the character says "I Did What I Had to Do"). This trope is the defining characteristic of The Unfair Sex. Can overlap with Everything Is Racist, when the person blames their failings which are clearly their own fault on societal prejudice and hatred towards people of their race/gender/sexual orientation/taste in music/whatever.

The formal term for this is "self-serving bias", and it is a key personality trait of both The Sociopath and the Narcissist. Related cognitive biases include the defensive attribution hypothesis, as well as the fundamental and ultimate attribution errors.

Compare with Mama Didn't Raise No Criminal, for parents that try to shift blame off of their kids, rather than themselves.

NOTE: Please remember that examples of people blaming others for something that's clearly someone else's (i.e. a third party's) fault is not an example of this trope. This trope is only for when people attempt to shift the blame off of themselves.


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  • Azumanga Daioh: Tomo just can't take a lesson about her Jerkass behavior when she gets bitten by Mayaa. She'll "never trust an animal again" after she was the one treating it aggressively.
  • Bleach: During the Thousand-Year Blood War arc, Yamamoto blames Mayuri for the Vandenreich's attack, stating that if he and his division were more competent, the entire mess could have been avoided. Mayuri quickly turns the tables on Yamamoto, pointing out that he had specifically warned him that a Quincy attack on Soul Society was likely to happen after Uryu's infiltration, but Yamamoto dismissed him as paranoid and thus did nothing to prepare, which is exactly what left them vulnerable to Yhwach's invasion in the first place.
    Yamamoto: "If your Research and Development Department had reported and managed it more promptly, this situation may have been avoidable."
    Mayuri: "That is not true. I foresaw and suggested this situation the moment Uryuu Ishida, the Quincy, infiltrated the Soul Society as a Ryouka. It was you who disregarded that as being absurd. Isn't the principle cause of this situation you, Captain-General?"
  • Code Geass:
    • Suzaku demonstrates the more banal deflection of blame. Whenever the resistance takes lives/breaks the law/etc., they're bad and wrong. Yet the Empire is easily ten times worse in its treatment of Numbers, but everyone has to deal with that because they're in charge. Likewise, whenever his own culpability in such events is brought up, he acts like he doesn't have any choice in the matter, using his past as a shield.
    • Another short-lived example is with Lelouch himself at the beginning. After he badly underestimates an opponent to the point where he would have been beaten if C.C. hadn't saved him, he blames his subordinates for not following his orders (and, while it is true that they didn't, he knew they were a bunch of untrained, undisciplined freedom fighters rather than a professional army, so he should have expected it) and for his forces being so heavily at a disadvantage (again true, but, again, he knew that would be the case before going into battle, but went anyway). C.C. just laughs at him, and points out that a good commander would make sure the battlefield was set to his advantage before starting. To his credit, Lelouch takes this advice very much to heart, and never lets himself get outmaneuvered to that extent again. Later on in the series, he shifts to the opposite side of the self-blame spectrum.
  • The Dirty Pair use this as a catchphrase. And true, every time they blow up a planet or commit an act of genocide (even though it tends to happen a third of the time), it's a complete accident. Right?
  • Dragon Ball:
    • Emperor Pilaf typically blames Shu and Mai for everything that goes wrong, even when it's clearly his fault. In the second episode of the original anime alone, he farts and puts the blame on Shu, going so far as to threaten Shu's life with a chainsaw when he doesn't take the blame.
    • Dr. Gero created the androids and Cell and let them terrorize innocent populations. His reason for doing so? Because Goku, then only a kid, broke his machines over 20 years ago. Machines that he'd knowingly designed for an organization that terrorized innocent populations.
    • During the Shadow Dragon Saga in Dragon Ball GT, after the Shadow Dragons are unleashed, Bulma pins the blame on Goku for starting the cycle of the Z-Fighters finding and using the Dragon Balls, despite the fact that 1) Goku had absolutely no idea what the Dragon Balls were or what they did before Bulma showed up on his doorstep looking for them, and 2) as pointed out by the Supreme Kais themselves, Bulma was the one who created the Dragon Radar, thus completely nullifying the balls' "scatter long enough for the negative energy within to disperse" safety measure, in the first place.
    • Frieza, after his resurrection in Dragon Ball Z: Resurrection ‘F’, blames Goku for ending up in Hell. Goku responds that Frieza chose to come to Earth looking for revenge, and that Trunks was the one who actually killed him in any case, never mind it was his own evil deeds that got him sent to Hell in the first place. In Super, Frieza also blames Goku for everything that happened on Namek, like him failing to gain immortality. This is ignoring the fact that he failed to get his wish because he didn't know the password for the Dragon Balls, he couldn't speak Namekian, and he killed almost everyone he could have told him these things. Even without Goku, Frieza would have never gotten his wish. There is also the underlining fact that Vegeta did overall more damage to Frieza since he's the one who killed all his men.
    • Dragon Ball Super: When Goku Black is confronted by Future Trunks for destroying most of humanity, he claims that Humans Are Bastards and that they need to die to start a utopia. He later blames Trunks for his own rampage, stating that his existence would not have been possible without Trunks going back in time and starting the Stable Time Loop that created him.
    • During the Universal Survival Saga of Super, when it's revealed that Universe 7 is the second weakest universe and all universes who lose the Tournament of Power will be eradicated, Beerus calls out the Supreme Kai for deciding to take a back seat and let the mortals of that universe grow stronger on their own, which is what the Supreme Kais are supposed to do. The Supreme Kai shoots back that it's just as much Beerus' fault since all he does is sleep.
  • Eureka Seven: Dewey blames Holland for the failure of the sacrificial ritual, even though it was his own anger and impulsively trying to carry it out in response to being denied the right that caused it in the first place.
  • Fate/Zero: Lancer is magically cursed so that women automatically fall hopelessly in love with him; he has no control over this. When Saber (who has enough magical resistance to No-Sell the attack) brings it up, he engages in some victim blaming, claiming it's her fault for being born a woman. However, later we see women who it does work on, and he clearly pities them deeply and regrets the curse.
  • Fruits Basket: Akito cannot fathom being to blame for anything. Have sex with Kureno, while most can see that Shigure clearly loves her and then kick said lover off the Sohma estate when they sleep with Ren, Akito's mother as Revenge? It's her Zodiac to do with as she pleases. Lock somebody in isolation when they try to steal a "special" box that Akito knows is clearly empty? It's perfectly justified to put somebody's life in danger and what on earth is Kureno thinking betraying Akito and freeing said person from harm? And then Hatsuharu calls her out for almost killing Isuzu twice because she hates women for no good reason. Akito counters with telling him that it was really his fault that she was put in danger at all because he dated Isuzu anyway knowing that Akito hated her. Surprisingly, Hatsuharu agrees that he is partially to blame for Isuzu's suffering. Justified, since it's difficult for members of the Zodiac to think badly of Akito due to her supernatural influence over them as their "God".
    • A particularly vicious example can also be found when Akito attacks Hatori with what looks like a vase, blinding him in one eye, and immediately starts asking the maimed doctor "Hatori, what's wrong?" before accusing Kana, Hatori's innocent would-be fiancee, of being responsible for Hatori's pain. Kana ends up agreeing, and the whole situation goes downhill from there.
    • To an extent, Kyo also qualifies, externalising all of his (many, many) issues and blaming other for them, finding convenient scapegoats instead of dealing with his own self-hatred. Interestingly, he seems to have picked this up from his biological father, who in turn blames Kyo for everything. Unlike his father, Kyo eventually gets over this and learns to accept responsibility for his actions.
  • Fullmetal Alchemist has one omake strip where Winry customizes Ed's artificial arm with a rocket feature, and immediately causes it to fly off into the horizon after testing it. Cue the Running Gag of Winry violently beating Ed with her wrench any time his arm is damaged or lost, even as he yells at her that it's her fault he lost it this time around.
  • Taken a bit further than normal in Fushigi Boshi No Futago Hime: An episode has Altezza blaming Sophie for losing at a track meet, even though it's Altezza who started the whole thing by knocking over Sophie's basket with a ball. It's taken a bit further because she decides to retaliate in the following episode at a balloon race between their kingdoms. Amusingly, instead of getting all defensive against Altezza's accusation, Sophie brushes off her threat of retaliation with "You don't have to pay me back"... she's that kind of character.
  • Future GPX Cyber Formula: Naoki Shinjo starts blaming his failures in the races on his mechanics during the latter half of the TV series, ignoring the fact that it's his recklessness and deliberately ignoring his boss's advice that caused it. It takes Miki talking some sense into him that makes him realize that his problems are his own doing.
  • InuYasha: More than once, when Naraku is called out on the atrocities he commits, he refuses any blame, resorting to blame his victims for the misfortune he himself causes them:
    • In regards to his manipulation of Inuyasha and Kikyo, he tells them point-blank that what happened to them was their own fault because they didn't trust each other enough to see through his deception.
    • When Inuyasha demands that Naraku admit that he was the one who led the attack on Sango's village for the jewel shards Sango had acquired, Naraku replies that all he did was tell the demons that the village guard happened to be thin that day, and it's the villagers' own fault for not being better prepared.
  • Is This a Zombie?: Haruna refused to accept that the reason Ayumu revealed Maelstrom's gender the way he did was because she impatiently pushed him into the vampire ninja.
  • Magic Knight Rayearth: During his Motive Rant against the Magic Knights, Ascot says he works for Zagato because everyone else always rejects him and his summoned monsters and accuses them of being a nuisance. When Umi asks if they do cause trouble, Ascot responds that they only do so when he explicitly tells them to.
  • Mobile Suit Gundam: Char Aznable is pathologically incapable of accepting any accountability for his own actions. When Lalah, a former child prostitute who he turned into a Super Soldier is killed in action, it's the fault of her killer Amuro Ray. When Haman Khan, a traumatized sixteen year old girl whom he forced into being leader of Neo-Zeon, and then abandoned, becomes a tyrant, it's all on her. When the human race as a whole won't go in the direction he wants them to, they're the ones to blame for the meteor he tries to throw their way. Given Char's own mental instability it's quite likely that accepting responsibility for what he's done would break him.
    • There's also the Principality of Zeon in general, who constantly blame the Federation for their problems and also blame them for the war, despite the fact that it was Zeon who started it. While the Federation is fairly corrupt and keeps a firm grip on the colonies, Zeon gasses billions, drops a colony on Earth (obliterating a huge portion of Australia), and murders civilians wholesale, all in the name of "independence", when what they really want is dominance over all of humanity. Their remnants are also like this, claiming the Federation are warmongering tyrants when they are the ones that keep starting wars against one Zeon remnant group or another.
  • Neon Genesis Evangelion
    • From her first episode onward, Asuka always blames Shinji when missions and training go wrong, whether it's her mistake or completely beyond anyone's control. For variety, she also rips into him for apologizing for something he had no control over.
    • Throughout Rebuild of Evangelion 3.0, Misato is openly hostile towards Shinji for his role in bringing about The End of the World as We Know It, while failing to acknowledge that she was the one who urged him on in the first place.
  • Pandora Hearts: Vincent Nightray. Of course it's not his fault, he does it all for Gil. Besides, he is going to ask the Will of the Abyss to erase his own existence and past deeds.
  • Paranoia Agent: The entire plot revolves around this. Japanese society has become so apathetic and uncaring, that everyone just makes excuses for why they couldn't get anything done, like being late for a delivery due to traffic. This creates an urban legend Eldritch Abomination whose concept quickly spreads memetically as a scapegoat to allow everyone to feel better for not owning up responsibility for their own actions. Said abomination eventually grows and causes catastrophic devastation. The kicker? The first victim created the concept to avoid facing the consequences of a puppy dying by her mistake. And only revived it years later as a way to deal with a deadline she couldn't make at work. Everyone else just picked up on it and it became real. Once she finally admits to her responsibility, the abomination goes away for good.
  • Persona 4: The Animation:
  • In the early Pokémon episode "Challenge of the Samurai", Ash is right on the verge of capturing a Weedle, when he is rudely interrupted by a samurai, who challenges him to a Pokémon match. During said match, the Weedle manages to escape back into its tree and alert the Beedrill, who capture Ash's Metapod. In one of the series' earliest Broken Aesops, Ash is forced to learn a lesson about not making excuses about not finishing what he started, even though it was the fault of the samurai, who berates him for all of this, that Ash wasn't able to finish in the first place, all because he didn't have the courtesy to wait until Ash was done. Even after all is said and done, and Ash rescues Metapod, he's still short one Weedle, which would eventually evolve into a Beedrill.
  • Ranma ˝: Happens all the time. When something bad happens, the characters demand that the fault lies with someone else.
  • Rosario + Vampire: The whole reason Akua is convinced that Humans Are the Real Monsters is because her best friend/surrogate sister Jasmine was brutally murdered by an angry mob just for being a vampire. Of course, her reasoning falls a bit flat when one considers that the only reason said mob was formed to begin with was because Akua exposed herself and Jasmine as vampires by attacking a human boy who tried to befriend them out of paranoia.
  • In the first chapter of Samurai High School, Tsukiko says the reason she's mistaken for a guy is that her brother doesn't act like one.
  • Summer Wars: Wabisuke, creator of the rogue AI Love Machine, shirks responsibility for its rampage through the virtual world of OZ, blaming the American government who released it there as a test-run. Ironically, when he does accept responsibility in the climax, the media puts most of the blame on the American government.
  • Sword Art Online:
    • Asuna's mother, Kyouko, has shades of this, especially when Asuna is disgusted that her mother used a New Year's celebrations as a means to play match maker for yet another potential Arranged Marriage with the son of a banking business family. Asuna ask her if she's forgotten about what happened the last time her parents did that with Sugou. Kyouko claims that the engagement to Sugou was her husband Shouzou's idea in the first place, but her face and reactions to being accused may hint that she's only openly disagreeing in hindsight.
    • Sugou himself gets a moment of this at the end of the Fairy Dance arc. After his arrest and subsequent interrogation, he initially denies everything about experimenting on the SAO survivors, trying to pin the blame on the late Akihiko Kayaba. Once one of his own employees was brought in for questioning, however, Sugou quickly gave in and confessed.
  • Yo-kai Watch:
    • After being arrested so many times, Manjimutt ended up in Alcatraz and states that that it was Nate's fault, as he keeps summoning him for certain problems, as he rather deal his remaining time in jail. While he is partially right, most of the arrests where caused by himself, even if Nate wasn't there.
    • Robonyan calls out to Komasan and Komajiro about his incident with B3-NK1 in episode 23, saying it was all his fault about it. Like with Manjimutt, Robonyan is partially right, though it was also his own actions that he wanted to be penetrated with B3-NK1's sword.
  • Played for Laughs in One Piece, when Luffy, after finding out that the Straw Hats couldn't have paid the White Berets' fine even before Nami rammed into their leader, gets indignant and demands that his crew get better about managing their money. They then point out that most of it goes towards feeding him.
  • 3-gatsu no Lion: Seijirou constantly comes up with stories and lies to explain why his actions were either the unfortunate way things turned out or a result of someone else's wrongdoing, never owning up to anything that's clearly his fault. As Akari tells him, he's become so skilled at explaining away his guilt that he's managed to convince himself as well.

    Comic Books 
  • Batman:
    • The titular superhero has been known to act like this from time to time, whether because his general paranoia was getting the better of him, or his Manipulative Bastard tendencies were in overdrive, or because he thinks everyone else is failing to see the brilliance or tough but necessary measures of his plans.
    • The Joker himself suffers from this in The Killing Joke. He spends the whole book claiming that society made him what he is by pushing him to have "one bad day" which drove him over the edge and forced him to become the insane Clown Prince of Crime. To prove his twisted theory, he shoots Barbara Gordon (permanently paralyzing her), kidnaps her father, then subjects him to a nightmarish carnival ride in which Gordon is forced to view images of his naked, crippled, bleeding daughter. The Joker then brags that Gordon has been driven mad just as he was, insisting that humanity overall is to blame for making him crazy...trouble is, Gordon is fine, though understandably shaken up. Batman then points out that it's not society's fault that the Joker went nuts, instead claiming that it was his own fault rather than anyone else's: "Maybe it was you all along." The Joker refuses to accept this.
    • Two-Face also tends to use his coin and the random chance it represents to justify his own evil actions and fall into disgrace.
  • Spider-Man:
    • One of the best known examples is Eddie Brock, who blames Spider-Man for destroying his journalistic career in both the 616 and Maguire/Raimi movie continuities, when in both cases all Peter did was expose Brock's lack of ethics. In 616, Brock said he knew who the serial killer was, only for Spider to bring in the real crook while Eddie's guy turned out to be a serial confessor. In the film, Peter busts him for selling photoshopped pictures to the Daily Bugle.
    • Peter Parker's boss J. Jonah Jameson is guilty of this from time to time as well. His irresponsible journalism often puts people's lives at risk, but he always blames Spider-Man for causing the problems. Subverted in Amazing Spider-Man #654 where Alistair Smythe kills Jameson's wife, Marla (who took the hit that was meant for him). He even says that he's not going to blame Spider-Man, instead saying that "It's All My Fault."
    • Also in Ultimate Spider-Man, after Peter gets his powers, he finally stands up to Jerk Jock Flash Thompson. They get in a fight, which Peter calmly tries to talk Flash out of, while the creep keeps throwing punches at him. Finally Peter catches Flash's hand and breaks it by accident. Flash goes crying to his mommy and daddy who sue Aunt May and Uncle Ben for the medical bills.
    • Another example in Ultimate Spider-Man would be Norman Osborn, who blames everyone but himself for his own crimes and the horrible things he's done both to his own body and to his son. In particular, he seems convinced that Nick Fury is behind everything bad that ever happens to him, motivated out of jealousy.
    • It gets taken to ridiculous extremes in Spider-Man. There was a girl who kept being in the wrong place at the wrong time and kept having to deal with an insane crisis with Spider-Man in some manner. This happens for years because Peter just happened to go to the same school as the woman. So because of this, she shut herself in and became an extreme recluse and thought Spider-Man was stalking her. She blamed him for ruining her life. Never mind that he was saving the day, it was his fault that her life was so miserable. She reports this to the Daily Bugle where Peter Parker, of all people, took her picture for her story. Decades later, with Spider-Man long dead, the now elderly woman is still a recluse. When an angry Mary Jane called her out on slandering Spider-Man, she admitted that the real reason she did that was because it made her feel special. Deep down she actually liked the idea of a superhero being interested in her. Without Spider-Man her life is now completely empty.
  • The entire basis of Doctor Doom's vendetta against the Fantastic Four is that he is unable to accept that Reed Richards was actually right when warning him of a critical error in his calculations during an experiment Doom was conducting. Doom dismissed Reed's warnings as jealousy, only for the experiment to blow up in his face. The idea that Richards was correct — and therefore, in Doom's eyes, smarter than him — was so abhorrent to Doom that he concluded that Reed had deliberately sabotaged Doom's experiment, and so has attempted to creatively kill Richards and his family on numerous occasions. Even more jarring is that the retcon shows that Doom really was right and Richards was indeed wrong: the machine worked perfectly. It blew up because Doom used it to take a peek into Hell. With Doom it's more "Always Reed Richards' Fault".
    • FF #5 reveals that the accident was apparently Ben's fault. Issue #9 puts the kibosh on that and reveals that alternate universe/timeline Dooms from the future made sure it would happen, and past Doom went along with it after seeing how powerful he would become in the future. So the accident was all Doom's fault.
    • In the Ultimate Marvel universe, things are slightly tilted — Doctor Victor van Damme, in this continuity, interfered with Reed Richards' prototype teleporter. The resultant energies resulted in the creation of the Ultimate Fantastic Four, and his own transformation into a demonic-looking being of living metal. Doctor Doom insists that the transformation is not his fault, but rather that Reed's calculations were "so bad even [he] couldn't fix them". The fact Reed lays the blame for the transformation squarely on van Damme is supposed to show that they're Not So Different, but it kind of falls flat when we see that, in an Alternate Universe where van Damme kept his grubby fingers to himself, nobody was transformed. Of course, that universe also resulted in humanity being wiped out by the Skrulls when they appeared as benefactors and gave everyone superpowers... with deliberately flawed technology that caused them to all die afterwards... but what's that saying about omelets and eggs?
  • In the Squadron Supreme limited series, Nuke blames Tom Thumb after his parents died. Though it's obvious that Nuke's power killed them, he blames Tom for not finding a cure for cancer in time.
  • Despite Magneto's desire to help his fellow mutants and deliver them from persecution his actions have probably done more to hurt his cause (and harmed more mutants) than he has helped. Naturally, this is always humanity's fault. How far this goes, or if it applies at all, depends a lot on who is writing him. Most of the time he sees that he is culpable for what he did and is ready to do, but he feels he has to do what is necessary, not what is morally right. Chris Claremont brought this out in Uncanny X-Men #275, where he says "My people are in danger [...] and a kinder, gentler Magneto cannot save them", and where there is also this telling exchange with Colonel Semyanov, who betrayed him, Rogue and the forces of S.H.I.E.L.D. to the Big Bad, Zaladane, in order to get revenge on Magneto for killing his son 125 issues earlier:
    Magneto: I am sorry for your son, Colonel. Which is more than I ever heard for the slaughter of those I loved.
    Semyanov: Your daughter, you mean? And that absolves you of any crime?
    Magneto: For who we are and what we have done, comrade colonel, we are both condemned. [kills him]
  • Countless European Scrooge McDuck stories have Scrooge engaging in this. A common story template goes like this: Scrooge starts worrying that he's losing money (or in most cases not making as many billions as he used to). Scrooge whines about it to Donald Duck who either gives him a well-meaning suggestion or simply makes a random remark that gives Scrooge an idea. Scrooge immediately implements said idea spending a ton of money. Said idea fails due to a reason that could have been anticipated with a market test or simple common sense. Scrooge laments the loss of the money... and immediately blames Donald, with the story ending with Scrooge chasing him with the intent of causing bodily harm.
    • Here's a concrete example of the above: in one story, Scrooge notices that his business is slowing down... because Scrooge already produces everything and there are no markets to expand into. Scrooge goes to Donald's house in the middle of the night to whine about it prompting him to snidely remark "You'd even sell dreams if you could, wouldn't you?". This gives Scrooge the idea to do just that. He enlists Gyro Gearloose to create a dream selling business via a machine that accesses your greatest desires and turns them into a dream stored in a tape that you can "replay" while you sleep. The business is a success... then Scrooge finds out that all his other businesses are going under thanks to people gradually replacing their non-essential possessions with dreams (why have anything else when you can relive your innermost desires every night?). Guess who Scrooge blames?
    • In another comic, "Cry Duck!", Scrooge stages several crises, such as a robbery and a fire just to keep employees on their toes. Naturally, nobody believes him when he is genuinely robbed, but instead of acknowledging that he is at fault, he gets angry at Donald for not helping him.
  • Donald Duck himself is not immune to this trope, Depending on the Writer. It's not like he doesn't want to work... it's just that no job is available in a two-meters range from his sofa. Not his fault, really. Daisy is probably cosmically endowed with this trope: if you find her admitting any fault, you get a prize.
  • Superboy Prime kills a multitude of people, but refuses to take responsibility. Coming from a world where he was the only superhero, and being parented by a Golden Age Superman, he thinks the DC universe is full of degenerates. In his mind, it's their fault that he's driven to kill. No one agrees with him.
  • In the gaming comic Knights of the Dinner Table, anything bad that happens to Bob, Dave, and Brian is always somebody else's fault. No exceptions.
    • In their Hackmaster role-playing campaign, the boys' characters, called The Untouchable Trio, have burned villages to the ground, started wars, committed mass murder, devastated entire nations ... Yet, whenever the Untouchable Trio encountered trouble from people knowing them by reputation and hating them, the boys would immediately start whining about how they were always getting "screwed over." When the Untouchable Trio was arrested and taken under imperial guard to stand trial for their crimes, Bob accused B.A. (the group's GM) of having a vendetta against their characters. It never seemed to occur to Bob that being put in prison just might be a logical consequence of killing thousands of innocent people.
    • When Sara tried to run the group through an adventure she had designed (and won an award for), the boys kept wasting time hunting small animals for easy experience, and doing other trivial activities that had nothing to do with the adventure. When the game went sour as a result, Bob blamed Sara, asking her, "You claim this piece of *** took top honors?"
    • In one storyline, B.A. ran the group through the module The Biggest Damn Dungeon Ever, which was rated as being an extremely dangerous adventure. The group kept sending their 1st-level characters into the deadliest part of the dungeon, and when their characters always died, the boys blamed B.A., and insinuated that he was cheating.
  • Pre-Flashpoint, Deathstroke's entire motivation for hating the Teen Titans and trying to kill them was that he blamed them for the loss of his family. In reality, Deathstroke himself was the one who drove them away with his life as an amoral mercenary. Averted in one storyline when he eventually realized he was a terrible father. He enacted a scheme to endear his remaining two children to the Teen Titans so they could have the family he couldn't give them. Brought up in Infinite Crisis. Batman asks Deathstroke why he's abandoned his moral code, and Nightwing says it's because his children left him. Deathstroke rages that that was because of him, and it had always been of because of him. He's promptly knocked out, and told to own up to his own mistakes.
  • This is a major part of Lex Luthor's character. Whenever he does something horribly immoral, he always finds a way to blame Superman or anyone else around him, refusing to believe he could ever make a mistake. He is unshakably convinced that he is always in the right.
  • Supergirl:
    • Worldkiller-1 (essentially an alien, body-surfing abomination) whom Supergirl fought during the storyline Red Daughter of Krypton blames Supergirl for everything he does. He flies in a city, destroys buildings and kills innocent people? It's all Supergirl's fault because she doesn't let him take over her body and erase her mind.
    • In The Supergirl from Krypton, Darkseid appears to disintegrate Supergirl, and blames Superman for it. What did Superman do? Having the gall to rescue his cousin when Darkseid kidnapped her and brainwashed her.
    • In Supergirl: Cosmic Adventures in the 8th Grade, Belinda Zee steals Supergirl's quasi-space communicator -right after hearing she should never get her hands on it-, activates it, overloads it by throwing a tantrum, and gets turned into a sentient crystal statue. All of it was her doing. And she blames Supergirl.
  • The Pink Panther once suffered an accident while skiing and blamed it on a tree.
  • In Avengers vs. X-Men, Captain America first chooses to consult a man who was already in conflict with Cyclops, then ignoring the fact that the Phoenix was almost always under control during Jean Grey's possession, and completely under control with Rachel Summers's possession. He goes to Utopia, a sovereign nation, and he tells their leader to give up his granddaughter and brings an army to the fight. When asked to leave he refuses. He then leads in pushing and poking the Phoenix-empowered X-Men although they were only improving the world, which Reed Richards points out (although whether or not they're improving the world for the right reasons or just wanking off at themselves and their newfound power while basically putting all their oppressors under house arrest is debatable). He refuses to take responsibility for provoking the war and blames Cyclops entirely.
    • Much later... Captain America and Professor Xavier get the X-Men and the Avengers together to gang up on Cyclops and Emma. While the X-Men and the Avengers attack him physically Xavier tries to mindwipe him. Cyclops begs him to stop, but he doesn't, so Cyclops channeling the power of the Phoenix Force, kills Professor Xavier in a fit of rage when Xavier tries to mindwipe him again. Cyclops breaks down crying...and blames Captain America for making him do it.
    • In the end, Cap subverts this by accepting some responsibility for the whole mess. Cap resolves to be more supportive of mutants in general and officially endorses the X-Men, and even goes so far as to make a team that would pair Avengers up with the X-Men and other mutants, while Cyclops is wracked by guilt for killing Xavier.
  • In The Sandman, Lucifer grumbles to the title character that humanity has been using him as a scapegoat throughout history. He might even be sincere.
    Lucifer: "The devil made me do it." I have never forced one of them to do anything... They own themselves: they just hate to admit to it.
  • Green Lantern has the Guardians of the Universe. Ironically, they became the Guardians in the first place to become a species-wide The Atoner example in reaction to Krona, but they became this over time as they tried to protect the universe their own way. It became worse and worse over Geoff Johns' run on the series until it came to a head in Rise of the Third Army, wherein they decide that the problems of the universe are caused by emotion itself, and thus Emotion Suppression and removal of The Evils of Free Will will remove the problems. This is in the face of the fact that the problems of the previous two armies were pretty much entirely their own fault. The Manhunters were created by them (and replaced by the extremely similar and also eventually evil Alpha Lantern Corps), and the Green Lantern Corps were led by misinformation and factors completely beyond their control, with their last "problem" being that one of them managed to kill a rogue Guardian. To lay into this contrast, when a group of Oans who have not been in contact with the majority of the Guardians see them after millennia, they react in horror to what has become of them.
  • Archie Comics' Sonic the Hedgehog has Geoffrey St. John. When he was put on trial for committing treason to put Ixis Naugus on the throne, he blames the Republic of Acorn's problems on the royal familynote  ignoring that fact that his own manipulations screwed things up for the heroes as well. It wasn't until he discovered Naugus' plan to mind control the Council of Acorn that he realized how badly he screwed up.
  • Issue #67 of The Powerpuff Girls (DC run), "Monkey Business", tops off with everybody at Mojo Jojo's restaurant (except Blossom) having chili, which in turn makes everybody in the restaurant break wind. At the conclusion, Bubbles denies she did.
  • In Legends, the Star City police officer who shot another police officer trying to stop him from firing at Black Canary decides to blame her for the death instead of taking responsibility himself, most likely since he was under the mental influence of G. Gordon Godfrey.
  • Captain America and the Avengers' archenemy Baron Zemo has gotten the idea into his head that the only reason he isn't able to help the world by ruling it is because those selfish, mean superheroes just won't give him a chance. He's tried to switch sides before and expects total forgiveness/trust despite a.) acting like a mentally unstable sociopath even on his best days and b.) pretending to be a hero once as part of an Evil Plan. He's been known to wear his costume and continue using his supervillain name during trials for his crimes, and yet when he's found guilty it's the system discriminating against him. This was largely caused by his father beating praise into him through his entire childhood; by the time he was an adult, he was completely convinced of his inherent superiority over others. Thus, in his mind, he can do no wrong. Because of this, Zemo is constantly struggling with his morality.
  • Avengers: The Initiative: Henry Gyrich, all the way. When a student at a super-hero training camp is killed in a training exercise, one he oversaw, Gyrich buries all knowledge of it, has the student dissected in order to work out how he got his superpowers (Which he didn't actually have), and has the kid cloned repeatedly, eventually resulting in one going utterly psychotic, rampaging about the base, killing several people and graphically wounding several others. Gyrich's response? It's not his fault, and he doesn't deserve to be dragged over the coals for it. Iron Man disagrees, and has him fired.
  • Namor the Sub-Mariner. Almost every time he ever appears outside his own comic book and sometimes in it he acts like a completely psychotic Jerk Ass to everybody he meets for reasons that usually amount to Insane Troll Logic and/or Blue and Orange Morality then blames the various heroes that are trying to stop his destructive acts and/or humanity as a whole for the fact that he's doing this and the pain he's going to inflict on them for getting in his way. For instance, he's kidnapped or tried to kidnap Sue Storm multiple times but blames the Fantastic Four for trying to rescue her and bring him in.
  • The Transformers:
    • Nautilator is a bungling nincompoop who somehow manages to have No Sense of Direction and Super Drowning Skills while transforming into a lobster monster. He's a member of an underwater strike team who can't swim worth a damn and isn't even a good limb for the team's combined form. He constantly blames everyone else for his own failings, such as trying to deflect responsibility onto the Seacons for not supporting him more or to Decepticon Command for posting him to an aquatic team without checking for any competence in the area of basic seaworthiness. So far, he's been smart enough to not try to shift blame onto Megatron, which is probably why he hasn't been fusion cannoned for his whining and shirking.
    • Tarn of the Decepticon Justice Division is a far more serious example. He believes in the Decepticon cause and it's noble end goal of galactic peace, but is aware of the evil war crimes the Decepticons have committed, as well as his division's part in them. He desperately tries to reconcile this in his own mind by insisting that he's actually disgusted by his underlings and only helps them because the dirty work needs to happen to make long term peace happen. When a signal that gives people an attack of conscience hits Tarn's army, many of his henchmen are affected but Tarn himself is not; in his mind it's not his fault he does bad things, it's Megatron's or his teammates' or the Autobots'.
  • Wonder Woman: Mona Menise cracked up her car while speeding and says it's the policeman's fault for trying to make her stop.
  • Marshal Law features a Captain Ersatz of The Punisher, named the Persecutor. After years in Vietnam as a brutal Torture Technician, he returned home to his family, only to be attacked by revolutionaries seeking revenge, who shot his family while he jumped out of the way. Rather than realizing that they'd attacked him out of revenge and his family's death was his fault, he concluded that it was because the dirty foreigners and lower classes and hippies were ruining America and trying to hurt him for no reason, and devoted himself to gunning them down. He's explicitly noted to suffer from a persecution complex (hence the name), and seems completely baffled that anyone would do the things to him that he does to other people daily.

    Comic Strips 
  • Bloom County; In 1988, the Meadow Party nominated Bill the Cat - likely the most unelectable candidate in history - for President. Naturally, he lost, and his campaign manager, Milo blamed everyone and everything but the obvious:
    Milo: Our organization was underfinanced! note 
    Opus (Turning to the reader) Two weeks later, and fingers are still pointing.
    Milo: Our volunteers were unmotivated!note  Our ads were late!note  Our literature was weak!note 
    Opus: Our candidate barfed a hairball on Connie Chung.
    Milo: It's the media's fault!
  • At one point in Calvin and Hobbes, Calvin blames Hobbes for breaking the battery case of a beanie, even though Calvin was the one who broke it. Played with in that after Hobbes calls him out on it, saying he had just been sitting there watching Calvin work when it snapped. Calvin then tearfully admits that he knows, and that having Hobbes take the blame will make him feel better.
    • On top of that was Calvin's decision to not take part in elections when he's an adult, with the final reasoning of "It's easier to blame things than fix them."
    • One arc has Calvin accidentally break his father's binoculars, and Calvin outright states to Hobbes that this is his father's fault for trusting him with it.
    • While Calvin acknowledges the seriousness of environmental issues, he doesn't realize how he contributes to them. In a one-shot strip, he complains about global warming and says that it's something his generation will have to live with once his parents' generation is gone, causing his mother to wryly note that he's the kid who "wants to be chauffeured anywhere more than a block away." The Mars arc involves him and Hobbes going to Mars to escape Earth's pollution, but after Calvin litters, they realize that human behavior needs to change.
    • Really, this is a major part of Calvin's character. It's likely not a coincidence that he shares his name with John Calvin, who believed in predestination and thus that free will and responsibility were mere illusions.
  • Dilbert: The Pointy-Haired Boss. In one comic he says that every time he and Dilbert disagree he ends up yelling, which is obviously Dilbert's fault, so he's sending Dilbert to a socialization class. Dilbert responds, "It looks like you've gained weight. Would you like me to start jogging to take care of that?"
  • Lucy from Peanuts is quick to blame others for things that were often her fault in the first place, the worst example of this being "It's Your First Kiss Charlie Brown" (see Western Animation, below).

    Fan Works 
  • A Crown of Stars: Jinnai expected to be betrayed. But the thought that he would be betrayed because he is a Manipulative Bastard, a psychotic jerkass, a Bad Boss and a borderline rapist never ever crosses his mind. The notion that Shinji and Asuka could turn against him because he turned them into their tools and he virtually raped Asuka hundreds of times for two years never occurs to him. No, no, it has to be because Asuka is a traitorous slut and Shinji his plaything. There cannot be another reason.
  • Advice and Trust: Gendo blamed Shinji, Asuka and Rei for disobeying his orders when they fought Bardiel. Never mind his strategy was dumb and nearly got them killed. Never mind they HAD to disobey his commands in order to adapt and survive the enemy attack. Never mind they won, destroying Bardiel, rescuing the pilot and recovering the Unit hijacked by the enemy by ignoring his interfering commands. He blamed them for "insubordination" and "endangering the humanity", he punished Shinji and Asuka with unemployment and threatened Rei with death.
  • Evangelion 303: Asuka suffered a minor case of this in third chapter when she complained that she was being blamed for hitting Shinji even though he had got her nearly killed (forgetting that Misato clearly told her that getting angry and shouting at him was reasonable but hitting a fellow pilot was utterly unacceptable and THAT was what she was being scolded for) and for botching the latest mission (which was completely her fault). In her favor, she was under much distress at the moment and not thinking clearly, and she got over that attitude straight after.
  • In The Lion King Adventures, Simba tries to pin the blame on others a couple of times.
    • He does this jokingly to Nala in Who Are You?
      Simba: I've never stopped worrying. And really, if you think about it, it's kinda your fault.
      Nala: Huh? What makes it my fault?
    • A more serious example occurs in The Curse of Death, where Simba blames the Hermit of Hekima for causing him trouble, despite it being all his fault.
  • In Superman fanfic Superman of 2499: The Great Confrontation, Sybilla always blames Katherine for everything, no matter what. She picks a fight with Kath, puts her in medical care and is disciplined because of it... and she blames Kath.
  • Assumptions: Rainbow Dash's huge ego makes it downright impossible apologize to Caramel, who has been nothing but kind to her, after he find out she nearly killed him with a botched aerial trick. Rainbow chooses to fly away in shame rather than admit she wronged him, but later halfway-apologizes, which Caramel accepts.
  • Harry Potter
    • There have been quite a few fanfics written from the point of view of the Slytherin students. Very often in these stories, the Slytherins view themselves as the victims of injustice, of rampant "anti-Slytherin prejudice." The fact that people dislike or distrust the Slytherins never seems to be the Slytherins' fault for being bigots, bullies, or otherwise openly cruel and hostile to other students, particularly Muggle-borns. The real kicker is that the writers of these stories (and their supporters) actually seem to believe that the Slytherins are right. No matter how horribly the Slytherins behave, the writers always seem to attribute any display of animosity toward them to "anti-Slytherin prejudice."
    • In this Fic, Sirius blames Dumbledore for getting the Potters killed because he didn't warn them about Voldemort until a week before he showed up, seemingly forgetting that he had a much bigger role in causing their deaths: he suggested they make Peter Pettigrew the Potter's secret keeper, and Pettigrew subsequently betrayed them to Voldemort. Bizarrely, the author didn't think that Sirius would admit his responsibility for this, even though he does exactly that in the third book.
  • In The Blue Blur of Termina, Tatl stops Sonic from going after the Skull Kid and, as a result, gets left behind and accidentally injured by the imp. She immediately blames Sonic who, in turn, immediately calls her out on it:
    Sonic: If it weren't for you and your friend, you wouldn't even be in this mess!
  • Elly Patterson loves doing this in The New Retcons though the rest of her family isn't exactly innocent either. One example is blaming April for letting Farley and Sera get together while Sera was in heat when neither Elly nor Sera's owner Connie had bothered to spay/neuter their dogs. (And remember, April was four at the time.)
  • Death Note Equestria: Twilight admits that she's had to kill a lot of innocent ponies in order to protect her identity, but says it's all L's fault — if she wasn't hunting Twilight, Twilight could have just focused on criminals.
  • Equestria: A History Revealed:
    • For an In-Universe example, the Lemony Narrator often does this when explaining the clear holes in her conspiracy theories, choosing to blame either the reader or traditionalist historians, even when the fault clearly lies in the Insane Troll Logic she used to get these theories.
    • One of the chapters starts out with a lawsuit to a publishing company of a book she had previously used, stating that the love potion she made following its instructions was faulty, even though it was clear earlier on that she had completely botched the recipe. It is also Hilarious in Hindsight knowing that even the Cutie Mark Crusaders in the show somehow did a better job than her in following the recipe. It becomes even worse when she says that she was aware of the "Do Not Try at Home" section prefacing the book, but states that she "chose not to read that part, so she can't possibly be held accountable for that."
  • In the Vocaloid fanfic, From Concert to Chaos, Miku Zatsune and Rin Arakawa use this excuse to justify their attack on Miku and Rin during a concert AND in front of over 16,000 fans. They genuinely believed that their boyfriends, Mikuo and Len, broke up with them because of Miku and Rin interfering, even though Miku and Rin were completely and utterly innocent.
  • In Mega Man NT Warrior fanfic, Maylu's Revenge, has Maylu pinning the blame of Roll turning against her in "Evil Empress Roll" on Roll all because she said she's ready for the "Super Great White Angel" when in fact, it was Maylu who suggested this strategy.
  • Contract Labor: After attacking Keitaro over a misunderstanding, Motoko adamantly refuses to take responsibility for her own actions and instead blames Keitaro, the victim in the whole situation, for everything, electing to challenge him to an honor duel... which ends badly for her.
  • Tenten and Neji in The Darkest Light have this regarding Naruto/Naruichi.
    • Tenten badmouthed Naruto, who's considered a favorite grandson by the local quadrant boss, and said quadrant boss right in front of both. She's flat-out told the sole reason she wasn't killed is because Naruto knocked her out and asked for mercy. But all Tenten cares about is that he beat her effortlessly at swordsmanship (Naruto gave her a sword then used a stick to beat her for an hour). As a result she wants him dead for humiliating her.
    • Neji tried to humiliate (and possibly traumatize) Hinata by having her "manhandled by a commoner" and having her father find out when he hired Naruichi to give her a massage. Unfortunately for him, Hiashi not only found out immediately, Naruichi also had a receipt showing exactly who hired him. While Hiashi was "training" Neji in the dojo, Naruichi fixed a problem with Hinata's spine, leading her to be both more skilled and more confidant. Like Tenten, Neji has had it explained to him that what happened (particularly Hinata activating his seal while thanking him) is his own fault but instead only cares about making Naruichi pay.
  • The Immortal Game: Titan blames the ponykind for the deaths of his wife and sons, although it was Discord who was responsible for First Empyrean's death, and Titan himself was responsible for the deaths of his first wife, Harmony and Empyrean II.
  • Most of the girls at the Hinata Inn suffer from this in An Alternate Keitaro Urashima. Naru, Motoko, Haruka and Granny Hina are all especially bad about this.
  • Naru and Motoko also suffer from this to an extreme in For His Own Sake. No matter how badly they screw up, they both adamantly refuse to take responsibility for their own actions and will always pin the blame on somebody else, typically Keitaro. This tendency has caused them all manner of grief, but they still refuse to learn their lessons. However, as of chapter 24, Motoko has finally begun to avert this and realize that all of her misery was her own damn fault.
  • In Mega Man: Defender of the Human Race, Wily has this problem big-time, blaming everyone for failures except himself.
    • He finally (and rightfully) blames himself for ProtoMan leaving in the episode 11 epilogue.
  • A Shadow of the Titans: HIVE Academy has a class named "Irrational Blame Assignment". According to Mammoth, "you can get a pass even if you fail by just making a good argument on why your lousy grade somehow wasn't your fault".
  • In the My Little Pony Friendship Is Magic fic Running From Myself, two former classmates of Twilight's blame her for getting them suspended. The entire reason for their suspensions were because they were bullying Twilight to the point where she suffered problems well into adulthood. When they try to get sympathy from Rarity, she calls them out on this. Not that they listen.
  • Rosario Vampire: Brightest Darkness Act VI:
    • In chapter 27, Arial, Dark's guardian angel and now mother figure, insists that Mizore is not good enough for Dark in part because Mizore doesn't respect her. As pointed out by the others, Mizore has good reason not to respect her, especially considering the fact that Arial nearly killed Mizore in a jealous rage less than twenty-four hours ago.
    • In chapter 44, after Kokoa and Sun's conflict over Gin spiral out of control to the point where Kokoa attacks Sun and beats her so brutally that Sun is left brain dead, Kurumu joins in with the others in lambasting Kokoa; while Kokoa did indeed go too far, it was Kurumu's own teasing over seeing Kokoa have sex with Werewolf!Gin, which Sun was spying on, that set Kokoa off in the first place.
  • Shadow of the Dragon: In her Establishing Character Moment, Satome's mother shatters a plate of food while yelling at her son, and then blames him for it before beating the crap out of him.
  • In Sun & Moon: Ascending Star, Aqua notes this tendency in Celestia during their training and endeavors to stamp it out.
  • Ultra Fast Pony:
    • Twilight Sparkle blames others (specifically Spike) for her mistakes occasionally. In "The Canon Has Misfired", she lets her mission to prevent the apocalypse get completely derailed. When the apocalypse comes, she says, "Dammit, I knew I forgot something! Why didn't Spike remind me?!" (completely ignoring the fact that Spike did try to remind her). In "Ponynet Fight!" she insists that her magic isn't working because Spike isn't concentrated hard enough (and she pointedly refuses to explain why her magic needs Spike's concentration).
    • And "Pirate Shipping" has this gem:
    Sweetie Belle: Just because something is my fault doesn't mean I'm not allowed to blame anyone else.
  • In Birds of a Feather, the MBI adjuster who ran a botched procedure that left Akitsu a Scrapped Number insists it's her fault the process failed and he was fired. Everything was clearly perfect because he ran the numbers himself so clearly she was destined to be Scrapped. He dies almost immediately after when he tries to attack her with a broken bottle.
  • In The Black Cauldron fic Hope for the Heartless, Avalina is kidnapped from the Horned King's (her captor's) lands by a man belonging to a bandit group (that happens to compose of the Horned king's still living former henchmen) with the intention of selling her illegally into slavery. Soon the Horned King arrives with Creeper and Addie the gwythaint, frees her and kills all the bandits. Before dying, Avalina's captor tries to kill her (again), blaming her of leading the Horned King back to them. In reality, the lich came after them solely because Avalina was captured by that man.
  • In The Changelings Have a King, the eponymous king Carapace blames Rarity for ruining his status at the Grand Galloping Gala (i.e. vehemently objecting to his poor manners, back when he was Blueblood) and incubates his new changeling army in Ponyville to cause her pain. Before finally attempting to kill her, he gloats that all of the recent death and destruction is her fault.
  • Discord's fatal flaw in Bride Of Discord is this, as he blames Celestia and the ponies for the events that led up to his imprisonment, because they got mad at him for his reckless use of magic, instead of considering that maybe he it was his own fault and he shouldn't have let his anger get the best of him. This is taken to new extremes and played with later on, when he has a never your fault moment after Fluttershy seemingly says she doesn't love him and he takes it out on literally everyone in the immediate are except her.
  • Samurai in Challenger yells at Ash because Ash's Sandile broke his katana, conveniently ignoring that he woke up Ash by pointing said katana at his neck.
  • Almost none of the Soul Reapers in The Defeated are willing to admit anything could possibly be their fault and instead blame Ichigo and his friends. Besides condemning Ichigo and Orhime for joining Aizen after their friends were killed by Soul Society and they were tortured (and raped in Ichigo's case) by Soul Reapers, Soifon blames them for Yoruichi's death and Byakuya blames Ichigo for Rukia's. Soifon blames Ichigo because Yoruichi was helping him, ignoring that she helped kill her. And Byakuya blames Ichigo because her sister was wrongfully executed for helping him, ignoring that Byakuya herself not only did nothing to prevent said execution but actively worked to stop anyone trying to prevent it.
  • Aftermath of the Games: Despite being the one who pushed Sci-Twi into unleashing the magic, Cinch tries to put all the blame for Midnight Sparkle on Sci-Twi and calls her a monster. She also puts the blame on Canterlot High School and tries to get them to quit the games. Sunset explains to Sci-Twi that this was the reason why Cinch deserved to be fired and blacklisted, when the latter feels like she doesn't deserve forgiveness.
  • Persona EG: Several characters have blamed their problems or the actions they have done on others, ignoring that they themselves have still done bad deeds and are not completely blameless for their own misfortunes. This usually results in others calling them out on their attitude and pointing out they brought their problems on themselves.
    • Fluttershy was bullied when she first came to CHS, so she used her knowledge of computers to become a cyber-bully and ruin anyone who ever messed with her, and this was before she discovered Zodiac. After her identity as Eris is discovered by ZIT she lists all the bad things that have happened to her, including Sunset's blackmail on her, Rainbow rape checking her, and Flash grabbing her breast, ignoring that she tried to kill ZIT multiple times even though they have done nothing but try to be her friends.
    • Sunset has this attitude when she moves into the dorm. She expects everyone to just forgive her right away when she doesn't want to fight them anymore because they forgave Fluttershy, but she continues to mess with them just to get reactions from them. She is finally called out on this when Twilight and Flash confront her for sleeping with Shining Armor.
    • Twilight breaks up with Flash after finding out he had sex with Trixie because she feels she can no longer trust him and spends the next couple of days depressed in her room. While what Flash did was wrong, he had already shown countless times that he loved Twilight and was faithful to her, yet she got on his case for only having female friends and his pervert nature. This lack of trust from Twilight is what caused Flash to cheat on her to get back at her, and he regretted it immediately afterward. Pinkie and Sonata call her out on her attitude and point out she hurt Flash just as much as he hurt her.
  • In Pony POV Series:
    • Discord has a major problem with this, as despite literally everything bad that's happened to him since he came to Equus being his own fault for choosing his sadistic games over the loved ones he made as Dissy, he blames everyone but himself from his parents to Fate.
    • Nightmare Eclipse, the true Big Bad of the Dark World Arc, blames literally everything on Discord. While it is true at first he was to blame for everything, by the present the only reason he's evil anymore is because she's literally forcing him to be an evil overlord so she can punish him for it.
    • This is one of the main themes with Hell/Tartarus in this series: the condemned are largely there because they refuse to accept their actions were wrong and evil, even when the Gods show them the damage they've caused. This is the only thing keeping them there, as if they accept it and genuinely repent then they'll be set free.
  • In Vengeance of Dawn, Breaking Dawn is Princess Celestia's former personal student who grew entitled and spoiled because of the privileges that her status allowed her. When Celestia replaced her with a young Twilight but allowed Dawn to stay at the school, Dawn physically attacked Twilight in a fit of rage, forcing Celestia to permanently expel her from the school. Years later, Twilight has become an alicorn princess as a result of her studies and hard work, while Dawn is scraping by in Canterlot, unable to hold down even a job at a clothing store because she believes herself too important for blue-collar work. Rather than admit that it was her own fault that she lost her position as Celestia's student, Dawn chooses to believe that Twilight deliberately stole everything from her—Celestia's love, her status as a royal student, her supposed great destiny, the Element of Magic, and the princesshood that she would have had—and plots an elaborate revenge against her.
  • Aoshima in The Vain Rose's Garden refuses to acknowledge that his ruined reputation is his own fault. When he tried to extort Belldandy into sleeping with him, she responded by throwing him into a dumpster. Because several people got pictures of both the event and Aoshima having to climb out afterwards, his reputation was destroyed so he decides to blackmail Belldandy for it.
  • Old West: Benjamin Hares, the estranged husband of Grace Glossy, is a conman prone to blameshifting and running away from his own troubles. He used to guilt-trip his devoted wife whenever they argued before he skipped town because of his debts, leaving Grace behind penniless and pregnant. When he reappears ten years later, he proves that he hasn't grown out of this vice. When Grace refuses to let him sell her out to Dufayel, he dares to claim that the problem is Grace's stubbornness instead of him and that he left because she didn't love him enough. When she's had enough and tries to throw him out, Benjamin assaults her, shamelessly saying that she should have obeyed him.

    Films — Animation 
  • Played for very dark laughs in Alice in Wonderland; when the Queen of Hearts confronts a trio of cards for painting her roses red (after they accidentally planted white ones), the three of them start placing the blame on each other in a desperate attempt to keep their heads. By the end of their blame game, however, the Queen has had enough and cuts the knot by demanding that all of them get executed for it.
  • Belle, from Beauty and the Beast, while healing Beast after he saved her from the wolves, got into an argument with him over who was to blame for the wolves attacking. Beast retorts that Belle should have never entered the forbidden room and she retorts that he should control his temper... which is not exactly an excuse. True, it was partially Beast's fault Belle ran away due to him screaming at her and not explaining himself better; but for all his bad temper, Beast HAD told her to not enter that room, and had excellent reasons to forbid her from doing so. Despite being more calmed afterwards, she disobeyed, and her entering the room and almost touching the rose could have made Beast be stuck in that shape forever, so he kind of had a reason to scream at her.
  • This is the firm stance of Kenai from Brother Bear after his brother dies and Kenai himself is transformed into an ursine. Growing out of this immaturity and learning that he did do a lot of damage to his friends and family is an important part of his Character Development and leads to him becoming The Atoner.
  • Brave:
    • Merida spends most of the film refusing to acknowledge her own role in the political disaster and her mother being turned into a bear. Actually admitting her fault is an essential bit of Character Development for her.
    • Her mother, Queen Elinor, fits this trope as well. Elinor never seems to realize that most people, her daughter included, would react badly to being forced into marriage, and Elinor behaves as though she cannot understand why Merida would object. She does eventually have a My God, What Have I Done? moment... over a completely different misdeed, that of almost killing her daughter while in bear form.
    • She does eventually give a speech (through Merida, as Elinor is still a bear at this point) about how young people should be allowed to choose for themselves who they will marry.
  • Frozen:
    • An early Cut Song called "Cool With Me" had Elsa have this type of view on relationship with her sister. Anna and Elsa were extremely close as children but have drifted apart over the years. Elsa completely blames Anna for everything while acting cocky about her own self.
    We've been falling out for way too long.
    So let's forget I'm right and forget you're wrong.
    Okay! Let's try forgivin', maybe we could live in harmony.
    • The Duke of Weselton quickly outed Elsa as a monster when her magic is revealed, stating it's because she nearly killed him with her powers. Surprisingly, Hans is the only one to call him out by pointing all that happened was he slipped on ice.
  • Done by Goofy of all characters in A Goofy Movie. When their car starts rolling down the mountain he blames Max for both the car running away, (Goofy should have put the brakes on) and the door being locked. Max retorts that the locked door was on Goofy's side. Goofy then blames Max for distracting him and tells Max he should have put the brakes on himself, then he accidentally breaks it. Max use that to show that Goofy "ruins everything". Then Goofy blames Max for "ruining the vacation". Then Max told him he never even wanted to come and should have just let him stay home. The argument ends with Goofy saying all he wanted was to spend time with him and doesn't want them to become any more distant.
  • Played very darkly in the Disney animated movie The Hunchback of Notre Dame. Combine this with Sex Is Evil and I Am Horny, and you have Judge Claude Frollo.
    • Frollo, a pious, merciless man, develops an obsession with the gypsy Esmeralda, rationalizing his lust by claiming she seduced him. All she did was flirt with him a little during her dance.
      Frollo: It's not my fault! / I'm not to blame! / It is the gypsy girl, the witch who sent this flame!
    • He then goes on to blame GOD.
      Frollo: It's not my fault, / If in God's plan / He made the devil so much stronger than a man!
    • Of course, the Ominous Latin Choir in the background doesn't seem to agree, singing the Act of Contrition during his song.
      Choir: Mea Culpa/ Mea Culpa/ Mea Maxima Culpa (My fault / My fault / My most grievous fault)
    • This accompanies Frollo's "It's not my fault!/ I'm not to blame!/ It is the gypsy girl, the witch who sent this flame!"
    • Frollo also chases a woman through the city on his horse because he thinks the bundle she's carrying is stolen property, only to unintentionally kill her in front of Notre Dame; his excuse to the Archdeacon is that wouldn't have happened if she hadn't run from him in the first place. He also orders his men to burn down a home, with an innocent family still inside, with the excuse that they were harboring gypsies (despite the only "proof" being that someone had found a gypsy emblem on their property).
  • In The Incredibles, Syndrome's Freudian Excuse falls kind of flat when you realize that even though Mr. Incredible told him he worked alone, Buddy had distracted him repeatedly, let Bomb Voyage escape, and had nearly gotten himself killed because he repeatedly tried to "help". In Syndrome's self-serving flashback to the scene, Bomb Voyage is no longer present at all.
  • The Jungle Book 2: Shere Khan believes that Kaa knows where Mowgli is (after hearing the snake grumble "man-cub"). But truthfully, Kaa has no idea where Mowgli is, but Shere Khan won't believe him and continues to threaten the python. So to save his skin, Kaa fearfully lies to the tiger that Mowgli's at the swamp, allowing him to flee. When Shere Khan arrives at the swamp with Mowgli nowhere to be found, he angrily growls "That snake lied to me!", but he's the one at fault for not believing Kaa when he told him the truth: "I don't know where Mowgli is".
  • Meet the Robinsons: Bowler Hat Guy blames Lewis for his Freudian Excuse that caused his Start of Darkness in the first place, despite Lewis pointing out that BHG himself let it go this far.
  • Kung Fu Panda 2: One of Lord Shen's main flaws. He refuses to take responsibility for his own evil actions, instead blaming his parents for not supporting him and the rest of the world for standing in his way.
  • The Lion King: Scar tries to shift the blame for the lack of food to the lionesses who won't hunt, instead of admitting that letting the hyenas eat the lions' game was what caused their food shortage. When Simba has Scar at his mercy, Scar tries to shift blame onto the hyenas. They overhear, and become extremely angry. Anger is a hell of an appetite stimulant.
  • The Lion King II: Simba's Pride: Zira blames Kovu for Nuka getting himself killed trying to get the attention and praise she never gave him. She even weeps for her elder son briefly before turning her sorrow into anger at her youngest.
  • Madagascar:
    • In the first film, Alex chews out Marty for getting them transferred from New York to Africa, which Marty responds by saying that he didn't intend for them to get transferred in the first place. But near the end of the movie, after Alex turns feral and runs away, Marty realizes that his wish to be in the wild cost them their friend.
    • It's averted near the end of Europe's Most Wanted, where Marty admits that them going to Madagascar was his fault in the first place. The others, however, tell him that him leaving the zoo was the best thing to ever happen to them.
  • In Maya the Bee Movie, this is combined with Implausible Deniability. Maya insists that Buzzlina is hiding the royal jelly under her crown, but nobody believes her. Then, Buzzlina's crown gets knocked off, with the vial of jelly inside it, and when it lands on the ground, one of the bees goes to pick it up, which reveals the jelly to the shocked crowd. Willy flies down and grabs the jelly to protect it from Buzzlina, at which point she yells, "Thief! Arrest him!"
  • Monsters University: Sulley initially blames Mike for getting him kicked out of the Scare program, even though it was really his fault for neglecting his studies.
  • Pocahontas: Governor Ratcliffe blames the Native Americans for not finding any gold, John Smith for Taking the Bullet, and his own men for treason when they have him arrested.
  • Strange Magic: Roland immediately blames Sunny for drawing the ire of the Bog King by making a love potion, even though he was the one who convinced him to do it.
  • Toy Story 3: Jessie admits to Woody that the toys were wrong not to believe him. When she says that she was wrong specifically, Mr. Potato Head adds, "Jessie's right, Woody. She was wrong!"

    Films — Live-Action 
  • Ace Ventura: Ray Finkle blames Dan Marino for the missed field goal that cost the Dolphins the Super Bowl, saying that if Marino had held the ball "laces out" like he was supposed to, Finkle would never have missed that kick. Though Finkle's life was certainly no bed of roses after missing the kick — every Dolphins fan blamed him, and he ended up going to a mental hospital — Finkle resorts to killing a woman, assuming her identity, killing someone else when he found out what Finkle had done, kidnapping Marino, and stealing the Dolphins' animal mascot Snowflake for revenge, all instead of admitting that any of the fault for missing the kick lies with himself.
  • Annie from Bridesmaids heaps a great deal of blame on her best friend's newer, richer, prettier friend, but not all the disaster that befalls Annie in the film—losing her job because she called a customer a C-word, wrecking her car because her taillights were broken, chewing out a potential love interest who was only trying to help her find her feet—is the fault of the new woman. Said love interest eventually calls her out on this, apparently regarding the car accident but subtextually over the latter.
  • Caddyshack: Rodney Dangerfield drops his anchor into another boat. The other boat sinks, yet all Rodney says is "You scratched my anchor!" It's "okay" because the other guy is a gigantic dick, and though Dangerfield is even more of a dick than that to him, he's a charming, amicable schmoozer to everyone else.
  • A decidedly non-comedic version in Chinatown, where Big Bad Noah Cross absolves himself of blame for driving his daughter Evelyn away (by which we mean, he raped and impregnated her when she was fifteen), claiming that "in the right time and the right place, [most people] are capable of anything."
  • In Cliffhanger... well, let's just repeat what's on the film's page: "Oh sure, Hal, it was Gabe's fault you brought your girlfriend, who had no experience in climbing whatsoever, on a climbing trip. Or never bothered to check her harness, and assured her it was safe to go across a cliff. Oh, but I'm sure you could've saved her when the harness failed when she was halfway across with little to no chance of reaching her or being able to pull her up. But hey, Gabe at least bothering to try was certainly something to blame him for. Yeah, great reasoning pal."
  • Downfall: As it becomes more and more obvious Germany is about to lose the war, Hitler blames just about everyone for it: first his generals, then the SS, then his inner circle, until finally he declares the entire German people lost because they were weak and deserved it. He never, ever, once blames himself.
  • In the original Ghostbusters film, Walter Peck gets the Ghostbusters arrested for causing an explosion he himself had caused, in spite of their explicit warnings. Egon's response? "Your mother!"
  • How the Grinch Stole Christmas!: After the Grinch steals their Christmas, Augustus blames Cindy Lou for inviting the Grinch to their Whobilation, when it was his own taunts that drove the Grinch to do so in the first place.
  • Juice: Bishop blames Raheem, for trying to take the gun away from him, resulting in the latter being killed by Bishop with it.
  • Used rather darkly in The Last King of Scotland, after Idi Amin has realized that exiling the Asian population of Uganda was a serious political mistake.
    Amin: You should have told me not to throw out the Asians in the first place.
    Nicholas: I did!
    Amin: But you did not persuade me!
  • Epitomized by the comic duo Laurel and Hardy. Whenever things went wrong, Hardy would blame Laurel (regardless of what part of the blame he truly carried) with a reproachful "Here's another nice mess you've gotten me into!"
    • This schtick is borrowed by Illuminatus!! where various different figures appear dressed as Laurel and Hardy, e.g. The Flood, everyone except Noah and Co have been drowned for their sins by a vengeful God. Jehovah (as Ollie) turns to Lucifer (as Stan) and says, "Now look what you made me do!" Lucifer cries. Hiroshima, a mushroom cloud rises above the city. Tens of thousands have been killed in a split second. President Truman (as Ollie) turns to Albert Einstein (as Stan) and says, "Now look what you made me do!" Einstein cries. etc.
  • Looney Tunes: Back in Action:
    • Mr. Chairman insists that the ACME equipment functions perfectly and that Wil.E.Coyote must not be using it properly.
    • After Bugs' first scene without Daffy, the Warner Brothers threaten to fire Kate if they don't get Daffy back even though firing him was their own decision in the first place.
  • Mary Poppins: The bankers pressure eight-year-old Michael hard to open a savings account with his tuppence instead of using it to feed the birds like he wants to. When he opens his hand a bit, the elder Dawes snatches the money without waiting to be given it. In a shocking turn of events, Michael flips out and yells for Dawes to give it back. Customers overhear and, assuming there is something wrong, start demanding their money back, and there is a run on the bank. The bankers in no way acknowledge their own culpability, and instead blame Michael's father, firing him.
  • Major Frank Burns in the movie, M*A*S*H, was a terrible doctor and would often have patients die on him, causing him to claim it was God's will, or someone else's fault. In the case we see in the movie, he placed the blame on Private Boone for bringing the wrong instrument (in actuality, the patient died before Boone even got back). Even so, poor Boone was reduced to tears thinking he killed him, leaving Trapper, who saw what happened, to give Major Burns a well-deserved punch.
  • The real reason for all the events in Now You See Me is a case of Disproportionate Retribution by the son of a magician who died trying the ultimate escape trick. He blames everyone but his father for his father's death, including Thaddeus Bradley (for exposing his father's tricks and "forcing" him to undertake the risky endeavor), Arthur Tressler (for owning the insurance company that refused to pay out on his father's policy citing suicide), and the company that made the safe his father died in (apparently, he expects safes not to deform when dropped into a river). Naturally, we're expected to side with him. Naturally, the sequel will involve a Cycle of Revenge, in which the son of Arthur Tressler seeks to avenge what was done to his father.
  • The Rapture: Sharon comes off this way after murdering her daughter, blaming it all on God.
  • A non-comedic example can be seen in Repo! The Genetic Opera where Rotti and his kids use a constant (and catchy) chorus of this to convince Nathan that It's All My Fault.
  • The Richest Cat in the World: Oscar Kohlmeyer left the bulk of his estate (five million dollars) to his cat while his nephew got only twenty-five thousand dollars and only if he didn't contest the will. The nephew's greedy wife forced her Henpecked Husband to contest and, after they lost the case, she blamed him for losing the twenty-five thousand dollars.
  • RoboCop 2 has a twisted example as OCP seeks to shift the blame for the RoboCop 2 debacle to to Dr. Juliette Faxx for picking drug lord Cain's brain. The twisted part comes in as, outside of the CEO looking the other way, the whole thing was indeed Faxx's fault and the one who suggested pinning it on her, Johnson, opposed her insane ideas along the way and is the only one who isn't to blame.
  • The Santa Clause 3: The Escape Clause.
    Jack Frost: (examines a sign he's "supervised" the elves putting up) Very nice! I've done it!
    (the sign falls down and shatters, and he glares at the elves)
    Jack Frost: Look what you've done!
  • Saw: Despite Jigsaw's claims that he is trying to help his victims, it rarely, if ever, seems to work, as most of his victims are killed while the few that survive their game are severely traumatized. And of course, he claims the people that died were missing an essential part of themselves, the 'survival instinct,' so to speak. Apparently, if you aren't willing to do absolutely anything (up to and including committing murder) to survive, you simply don't value your life enough. He also never admits to being responsible for the deaths he causes, even in the tests where someone deliberately has to die for another to live. They're making the choice, not him, never mind that he is responsible for putting them in a life-or-death scenario in the first place.
  • Sean from The Social Network particularly has this problem. He blamed the Winklevii and/or Manningham for "planting" the coke and calling the cops for catching him with underage interns. He also doesn't seem to get how record companies would be pissed to see you take money away from them, chalking it up to the companies not having a sense of humor.
  • Spider-Man Trilogy:
    • Harry blaming Peter for his father's death, even after finding out that his father was the Green Goblin. And in the third movie he at first refuses to help Peter save MJ at the end, blaming Peter for disfiguring his face. It was Harry's own stupid fault for throwing a grenade at Peter in the first place!
    • Also Doctor Octopus in both the novelization and the videogame of the second movie blames Spider-Man for his wife's death, when it was the Doctor's own experiment that led to Rosie's death. The videogame adaptation has him snap out of his evil personality and admit that it was his own vanity that killed her. Ironically, his film incarnation avoids this completely by having Doctor Octopus completely uninterested in Spider-Man up until he's paid to kidnap him. And it's more the arms that are giving him this mindset.
    • Eddie Brock hates Peter for costing him the staff job at the Bugle. Yeah, Peter may have been under the control of a symbiote that was making him act a bit differently, but there are consequences to framing a man for robbery and falsifying journalistic documents, Eddie. Photoshop aside, why you thought it was a good idea to plagiarize the only other man in the city who takes pictures of Spider-Man is anybody's guess (dollars to doughnuts he'd recognize his own freaking work). This is actually Truth in Television: people who plagiarize rarely admit that what they're doing is wrong, and/or tell themselves they're a special case.
  • Star Wars:
    • C-3PO is famous for this, especially in A New Hope when he decides to go a different direction than R2-D2 in the Tatooine desert.
      R2-D2: [beckoning whistle]
      C-3PO: Where do you think you're going?
      R2-D2: [squawk]
      C-3PO: Well, I'm not going that way. It's much too rocky. This way is much easier.
      R2-D2: [beep]
      C-3PO: What makes you think there are settlements over there?
      R2-D2: [beeping and whistling]
      C-3PO: Don't get technical with me.
      R2-D2: [angry squawks]
      C-3PO: What mission? What are you talking about?
      R2-D2: [beeping and whistling]
      C-3PO: I've just about had enough of you. Go that way. You'll be malfunctioning within a day, you nearsighted scrap pile. [kicks R2]
      R2-D2: [startled beep]
      C-3PO: [walks off] And don't let me catch you following me begging for help, because you won't get it.
      R2-D2: [sad whistling leading into a loud yelp]
      C-3PO: [turns around] No more adventures! I'm not going that way.
      R2-D2: [angry honk and some muttering]
      [next scene]
      C-3PO: That malfunctioning little twerp. This is all his fault. He tricked me into going this way. But he'll do no better.
    • In Revenge of the Sith, Anakin Skywalker blames Obi-Wan Kenobi for turning Padmé Amidala against him. It couldn't have been your sharp descent into violent murder and villainy, no...
  • Likewise, Moe of The Three Stooges was quick to pin blame and administer physical punishment against Larry and Curly (or Shemp), even when whatever hilarious accident that had happened to Moe was his own fault.
  • Willy Wonka & the Chocolate Factory: When Mr. Wonka denies Charlie the lifetime supply of chocolate because of the Fizzy Lifting Drinks incident, Grandpa Joe is positively livid, gives Mr. Wonka a What the Hell, Hero? speech accusing him of being an "inhuman monster" who cruelly strung Charlie along, and vows to get back at Wonka by selling the Everlasting Gobstopper to Slugworth. Of course, Grandpa Joe doesn't take into consideration that not only did he push Charlie into signing Wonka's contract without bothering to read it, but it was his idea to take the Fizzy Lifting Drinks in the first place.
  • One of Gary King's traits in The World's End:
    Andy: You're late.
    Gary: No, I'm not.
    Andy: Yes you are. You said 3:00. It's almost 4:00.
    Gary: Yeah, 3 fore 4:00.
    Andy: You know your problem, Gary? You're never wrong.
    Gary: How's that a problem?
  • Near the end of X-Men: First Class, after Erik Lensherr deflects a bullet that hits Charles Xavier, Erik immediately blames the wound on Moira for shooting at him in the first place. Xavier immediately calls Erik out on who is really to blame.

  • During his last day in office, a president sits down at his desk and writes two letters, putting them in envelopes marked 1 and 2. As he welcomes the new president, he tells him that in case he runs out of options in a major crisis, he needs to open the first envelope. Some time later, a crisis looms, and the new president opens the first letter, reading "Blame me for everything." The new president does so, and everything works out fine. Some time later, another crisis comes along, and the president opens the second envelope. It begins "Sit down at your desk and write two letters..."

  • Diary of a Wimpy Kid: Rodrick Rules has the distinction of having it happen twice on one page. When Mom dances during the recording of Rodrick's band session at the talent show, thus depriving him of his chance to show his performance to record companies, Rodrick calls her out. She just responds that he shouldn't play music if he doesn't want people to dance. Rodrick then blames the recording fiasco on Greg for not taping the show for him, only for Greg to reply that he would have done it if Rodrick wasn't such a Jerk Ass.
  • Jurassic Park:
  • In The Magicians, Emily Greenstreet disfigures herself while trying to alter her face with magic; when her boyfriend (who she'd dumped for one of the professors, by the way) tries to help, he loses control of a spell due to being too upset to concentrate and dies in the Magic Misfire. When Quentin meets Emily late in the novel, she blames magic for the disaster, claims magic is the source of all the sorrows in her life and Quentin's life, and accuses all of her fellow magicians of being nuclear bombs waiting to go off. For added hypocrisy, her day job requires magic performed by said nuclear bombs to disguise the fact that she does absolutely nothing. Averted in the series, where she abandoned magic out of guilt after what she had done.
  • In John C. Wright's The Golden Age, the basic stance of the cacophiles. Particularly, they blame their parents for not dying and thus shutting them out of an inheritance.
  • A good few of the damned have this problem in The Great Divorce.
    • The Napoleon character (mentioned in conversation) has a rather blatant form of this. He's quoted as having been pacing around his house, repeating "It was Soult's fault. It was Ney's fault. It was Josephine's fault. It was the fault of the English. It was the fault of the Russians." Which captures in a nutshell the way Napoleon blamed all his defeats and failures on his subordinates in the memoirs he dictated to his companions Las Cases, Montholon and Gourgaud on St. Helena. Even those of his admirers who take that at face value have to point out that it generally was Napoleon himself who appointed those subordinates and put them in the position where they allegedly did so much damage.
    • Pamela, the possessive mother, also has a bad case of this. She believes that her husband and daughter abandoned her when she was grieving for her dead son because they didn't care about her or understand what it meant to be a mother. Her guide gently reminds her that they actually left because she was neglecting them in favor of her son (and when he died, her refusal to move on).
  • Very common in the The Railway Series. Because the Rev Awdry didn't want to make railwaymen look foolish, the locomotive characters are usually blamed for whatever goes wrong on the railway. Unfortunately, by doing this, the railwaymen look not only foolish, but get off scot-free with endangering lives.
    • In Percy and the Trousers, Percy crashes into some luggage, but the porters were just as much to blame for not keeping an eye on the track.
    • In Paint Pots & Queens, the painter loses his footing, spilling his paint, and he blames Henry.
    • In The Twin Engines, The Fat Controller rips into the twins for accidents that aren't even their fault (for Donald, crashing to a signalbox and for Douglas, being late due to The Spiteful Brake Van putting on his brakes).
    • In Thomas Comes To Breakfast, The Fat Controller blames Thomas for crashing a stationmaster's house, even if it was the cleaner fiddling with his controls.
    • Also in Percy's Predicament, The trucks cause Percy to crash to a brake van, his driver and Fireman can't stop him in time and the Fat Controller still blames Percy.
    • In Wrong Road, The Fat Controller blames Gordon for the mix up, even though it was the fireman's fault for starting the train before everything was ready.
    • In Buffer Bashing, Donald crashes into some buffers, but the Fat Controller knew it wasn't his fault since he couldn't stop in time. But when Douglas does the same, The Fat Controller scolds him.
  • In Spock's World, the Big Bad, Spock's former fiancee, seems to have this problem. "My mate took a suicidal risk because my mate thought that my constant brooding about my last encounter with you was romantic? Obviously, it's all your fault."
  • Aliens Ate My Homework: A bully tries to beat up Rod, but aliens super-accelerate the intended victim so he dodges. The bully breaks his hand on the hard surface behind Rod, and later gets his father to sue Rod's family for damages. Later, fortunately, when the bullies' ringleader, a disguised evil alien, is brought to justice, the alien's "father" confronts the bully and his father with the true story.
  • The Mass Effect EU book Ascension had an exiled quarian cooperate with Cerberus as revenge for (as he thought) his people banishing him from the Flotilla for no reason. This same quarian had tried to sell his people to the Collectors.
  • The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde: Even when writing his final letter, Jekyll refers to Hyde (mostly) in the third person, insisting Hyde's actions were not his actions. "[E]ven now I can scarce grant that I committed [them]."
  • Oblomov is completely unable to change his life by himself; when he gets unhappy he decides to blame Sachar instead. Now Sachar is a Jerk Ass and whatnot, but still Mis-blamed.
  • In Death series: A number of the villains will always blame everyone but themselves when something goes wrong. Divided In Death had Dr. Mira explicitly telling Eve that Blair Bissel refuses to blame himself and that he has to blame someone else for everything going wrong for him.
  • Lolita: Humbert certainly qualifies. The entire book is basically his attempt to convince a jury that he is not responsible for the events of the book.
  • Sisterhood Series by Fern Michaels: A number of villains essentially go around with this attitude. Senator Webster in Payback stands out with refusing to accept the blame for having multiple affairs, and then feebly trying to blame his wife Julia Webster for giving him AIDS. She had to shove the evidence in his face and spell out that recklessly having sex with women caused him to get AIDS, and he passed it on to her, plain and simple! Owen Orzell AKA Jody Jumper in Home Free actually averts or defies the trope by coming out and admitting that he is responsible for what he has done and nobody else.
  • In Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand, this trope is played straight by every single villain.
  • Jaime Lannister from A Song of Ice and Fire, likable though he is, has a pretty bad case of this. It gets a bit better with time.
    • Cersei also has this problem. And unlike Jaime she gets worse. After Joffrey's death, she becomes insanely paranoid and thinks that everything bad happening in Westeros is a conspiracy against her masterminded by her hated brother Tyrion. Even when she confesses her sins in A Dance with Dragons she blames other people for "driving" her into sin.
    • Cersei sees herself as an unappreciated political genius on par with her father. After Joffrey and Tywin's deaths, she finds herself in a position to make all the important decisions. She then stacks the Small Council and the Kingsguard with men of questionable competence with their only qualification that she could manipulate them or they kissed her ass a lot. When she is arrested by the Faith they all prove to be obvious failures at their jobs or run for the hills. She then spends quite a bi of time inner-monologuing and honestly wondering to herself how they could do this to her.
  • Ring Lardner's novel "You Know Me Al" is a collection of letters from a young pitcher trying to break into the big leagues. Whenever he writes about one of his poor pitching performances, he starts by saying that he always takes responsibility for his failings (usually with a Title Drop), and then immediately blames everyone else on the team for his loss.
  • The bully ringleader in Let the Right One In, Johnny, feels this way towards the protagonist, Oskar, smashing him in the head with a piece of wood... while he and a lackey were throwing him into a frozen lake. He retaliates by holding Oskar's head in the path of an oncoming train. Oskar in turn retaliates by burning the bullies' school desks. Unfortunately, the scrapbook with Johnny and his older brother Jimmy's only photos of their father is in his desk. They respond by nearly drowning him, then preparing to cut out his eye. Never once does Johnny acknowledge his horrible treatment of Oskar which drove him to this.
  • The Onion's Jean Teasdale is an odd example since she does this not out of egotism but out of her complete lack of understanding about how the real world works, even when the evidence is right in front of her face. She got fired for browsing eBay instead of working, but she insists it's because the boss just didn't like her. In a more extreme example, another article has her talk about how a local magazine called her the worst columnist ever, and she proceeds to completely ignore the reasons they give (which she demonstrates perfectly in that very article) and conclude that they can't handle her sassy, in-your-face style.
  • In the book of Genesis after Adam and Eve eat from the tree, God finds them hiding under a bush, and he asks what happened. Instead of fessing up, Adam blames Eve for their sin, and Eve blames the serpent. Good thing God couldn't see through that one...
    • It's actually worse than that; Adam does blame Eve, but does so in a way that implies that God should ultimately take the responsibility: "The woman you put here with me — she gave me the fruit, and I ate it."
  • In Artemis Fowl: The Last Guardian, Opal Koboi has found a way to blame her arch-rival Foaly for her decision to implant a human pituitary gland in her skull in an attempt to make her body generate more growth hormone, which had the side effect of sapping her magic. The logic involved in her conclusion isn't shown, but is probably of the insane troll variety.
  • The title character of Tom Gleisner's Warwick Todd books is an Australian cricketer who writes memoirs of his tours with a fictionalised version of the real Australian cricket team. He blames the team's and his own failures on anyone but himself. One subversion involved Todd not joining in on an appeal for a caught behind. "My fault, no question. When Heals goes up, everyone goes up". If you're not from a cricketing nation, you have no idea what you just read.
  • The title character of The Picture of Dorian Gray is never able to hold himself accountable for his sinful actions. When Sibyl commits suicide, Dorian Gray views her death as a tragic drama in order to avoid responsibility. He even blames Basil for what he has become, and kills him. From Dorian's perspective, it was the knife that killed Basil, leaving Dorian himself blameless. He is always surprised when the eponymous painting proves otherwise. The implication is that he never takes the blame for his crimes because it is the painting, not he, that carries evidence of his guilt (Victorian culture believed that Beauty Equals Goodness was literally true).
  • The unnamed student in Decision Of Fate blames his professor for his drug use. His reason? The professor gave an assignment that said the student was supposed to do something he had never done before. Somehow, it completely escapes him that not a single word was said about trying drugs.
  • Harry Potter
    • In Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban Lucius Malfoy helps Draco lobby to get Buckbeak executed after the Hippogriff slashes Draco's arm. However, the only reason he did that was because Draco ignored Hagrid's instructions about never insulting a Hippogriff and proceeded to call him a "great ugly brute".
    • Draco threatening Harry at the end of Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, because his father is in jail, which was Lucius' own fault for not being able to handle a group of children at the Ministry of Magic.
    • Once Harry and Dumbledore's claim that Voldemort has returned is confirmed beyond all question, The Daily Prophet writes an article about how brave Harry was for sticking to his story while having to "bear ridicule and slander". As Hermione notes, they were the ones who did all of the ridiculing and slandering in the first place.
  • The protagonist of Klaus Mann's Mephisto, Hendrik Hoefgen, is a German theater actor who uses Nazi connections to advance his career. Though he uses this influence to imprison his ex-girlfriend and murder his primary rival, Hoefgen is dumbfounded when his friends, wife and colleagues disgustedly desert him. The book's concluding line has Hoefgen wondering "What do they expect of me? After all, I am just an actor."
  • The Dresden Files:
    • Bianca has this pretty hard. In Storm Front, the title character comes to talk to her, and she attacks him. After he defends himself and leaves, she's emotionally out of control to the point that she kills her lover/slave. And that's entirely Dresden's fault because he dared to defend himself. In Grave Peril she has the Red Court trick Dresden into an outright war in "revenge" for his "crime."
    • The changeling Ace. By the end of Summer Knight, one of his best friends is dead and the others have turned their backs to him, since his choices led indirectly to said death. Who does he blame? Harry Dresden, whom he had earlier betrayed to the Red Court even though he was trying to help the changelings.
  • The Bosses in Clocks that Don't Tick refuse to accept any responsibility for the state of the world despite, well, everything.
  • Several instances in some of Stephen King's more recent works:
    • The main villain in Mr. Mercedes is this. A hateful psychopath with a very disturbing relationship with his alcoholic mother, Brady Hartsfield opens the book by driving the titular Mercedes through a crowd in a spree killing, then attempts to further get his jollies by driving people close to the case to suicide through manipulation. Unfortunately, he greatly underestimates Detective Hodges, the book's main character and the now-retired detective who was on said case until he retired. Instead of pushing him over the edge, Hodges is reinvigorated and begins investigating the case on his own, turning the manipulation game around and driving Brady into a mad rage. Brady decided to try and regain the advantage by surreptitiously poisoning the dog that belongs to the family of Jerome, a young man who helps Detective Hodges, which he figures Hodges will grasp as being done by him. Unfortunately, his drunken mother gets into the poisoned hamburger and makes herself a fatal meal. Whose fault is this? Detective Hodges, of course.
    • In the follow-up to the above, Finders Keepers has Morris, who blames his mother for his first stint in jail, and his friend Andrew for his second.
    • Under the Dome: when Junior kills Angie. He keeps thinking about how she made him do it. He's none too rational due to a brain tumor, but still....
  • Honor Harrington:
    • Captain Lord Pavel Young is a poster child for the Aristocrats Are Evil trope and assumes that everything bad that happens to him is the fault of other people because, for him, It's All About Me. Usually, the target of his blame is Honor herself (whom he never calls by name, always "that bitch"). It starts with his receiving a No-Holds-Barred Beatdown from Honor in their academy days when he tried to rape her. Years later, he leaves Honor horribly understaffed at Basilisk Station but blames her when she proves far more effective than he himself ever so much as tried to be.
    • This is a large part of the reason the situation with the Solarian League escalates as far as it does in the later books. The League's governing bureaucracy fears that openly admitting it was in the wrong with regards to incidents where Solarian naval officers attacked Manticoran ships would be seen as a sign of weakness the systems they oppress in the Verge would capitalize on. This leaves them compelled to fight what is, in many ways, a hopeless war against the far more technologically advanced Manticore, and forces Manticore to have to fight an enemy that won't even consider a peaceful resolution.
    • On a personal level, the Solarian Battle Fleet Admiral who started this conflict, Josef Byng, is shown in his own thoughts trying to justify to himself his panicked destruction of three Manticoran ships that were no threat to him while also trying to figure out how to pin the blame elsewhere.
  • Discussed in the Germany section of World War Z, when a solder from Western Germany argues that this phenomenon is the reason that most skinheads and Neo-Nazis are from the East. Growing up in West Germany at the tail-end of the Cold War, he recalls that personal responsibility was drilled into all West Germans from an early age, as they were taught that they had a duty to atone for the sins of their grandparents' generation by always obeying their conscience. Under the government of East Germany, on the other hand, children never learned the importance of responsibility because they were taught that good Communists just do what they're told.
  • Carcer Dun from Discworld novel Night Watch. Despite killing several people, including an off-duty watchman, and attempting to kill Vimes, he claims to the end that he is innocent. He's also insane, so that has to be taken into account.
  • Star Wars Legends:
    • In the Revenge of the Sith novelization, Anakin, waking on the slab, initially has this reaction to being told that he had killed Padmé. He thinks that he loves her, always will, could never will her death—but he remembers the cold terror he felt when thinking of her death (said terror is called "the dragon" in the text. It Makes Sense in Context) that made him create Darth Vader, and he remembers Vader's fury and hatred...
      And there is one blazing moment in which you finally understand that there was no dragon. That there was no Vader. That there was only you. Only Anakin Skywalker.
      That it was all you. Is you.
      Only you.
      You did it.
    • In Star Wars: Kenobi, distraught at the loss of her son, A'Yark blames Annileen—whom she believes to have Ben Kenobi's powers—for "compelling" her to lead her people into a massacre at the hands of the settlers. A'Yark planned and led the raid to kill Annileen before she could use her hypothetical powers against the Sand People.
  • In Wolf Hall, Henry VIII exiles Cardinal Wolsey and then accuses him of treason, and Wolsey takes ill and dies on the trip back to his probable execution in London. Years later, Henry acquires the habit of referring fondly to the Cardinal, as though—Cromwell privately notes—it was some other monarch who hounded him to death. (This was historically something of a pattern with Henry; it only took a few months after he executed Cromwell to start regretting it and blamed everyone else for the fact that he killed his most competent servant.)
  • The Stormlight Archive: Normally Kaladin is too good at taking fault, but at his worst moments he starts blaming the lighteyes for absolutely everything wrong in his life. This is most clear in the second book when he is in the chasms with Shallan, which is the lowest point is his character development. He tells Shallan that all lighteyes are equally to blame for exploiting darkeyes, but refuses to accept responsibility for being an angry cynic, only saying "I am what the lighteyes made me." Thankfully, it doesn't take him too long to start improving again.
    • Odium doesn't do this, but he does encourage mortals to have this attitude, including his own minions. He does this because he's the god of uncontrolled emotion and if someone blames him for all their bad decisions, they implicitly surrender their agency to him, giving him more underlings. It's pretty much an inversion of God Needs Prayer Badly.
  • In Variable Star, one character talks about how if a child hits himself on the thumb with a hammer, he will blame everyone else in the room. If he's alone in the room, he will yell at the hammer "Look at what you made me do!" He uses it as a metaphor to explain that now is not the time to look for someone to blame, but to try and do something proactive.
  • Martín Fierro: When Fierro reflects that The Judge punished him because Fierro did’nt want to vote in his election, Fierro invokes Dumb Is Good and blames Persecuted Intellectuals instead.
  • Captain Underpants
    • In book 2, Mr. Krupp (rightfully) bans George & Harold for participating in the Invention Convention due to a prank the duo pulled on all the staff and students when the participated in the previous Invention Convention. Rather than admitting they were wrong for pulling such a stunt, the boys just play the victim, get angry, and sabotage the other kids’ inventions out of spite.
    • While it was immature & wrong for George & Harold to trick Ms. Ribble & Mr. Krupp into (almost) getting married, both Mr. Krupp & Ms. Ribble decide to put the whole blame on the boys for them almost getting married. Ms. Ribble even goes as far as to deliberately changing George & Harold's grades to failing grades to get them to flunk the fourth grade. She and Mr. Krupp ignore the fact that both of them had a whole week to simply tell the other staff members that neither of them wanted to get married to each other and that they were a victim of a prank. It doesn't help the prank that George & Harold did was intended to be a small prank that people will just laugh at & then move on.
  • The Swampling King: Duke Lenoden is very good at blaming everyone else for anything that goes wrong. He makes a very strong case that he wanted peace and it's Josen's fault they're going to war... even though he's the one who set up the situation so that there would be war if he didn't get what he wants.

    Live-Action TV 
  • Game of Thrones: Just like the books, rare is the moment where Cersei ever considers her own fault in any situation and even then it's fleeting. A shining example is the premiere of season 7, where she declares that everyone currently rebelling against her rule is a traitor. She seemingly cannot connect her murder of Olenna's children and grandchildren at the Great Sept to Olenna joining Daenerys, thinks she can threaten Jon Snow into bending the knee after everything her family has done to his, and even considers Tommen's suicide a betrayal of her rather than a result of her actions. Later she even blames Tyrion for Myrcella and Tommen's deaths, despite the fact that she was the one who had Tyrion arrested (starting the Trial by Combat that eventually led to Myrcella's death) and murdered Tommen's wife in the first place.
  • Only Fools and Horses: The Trotters have a nasty habit of blaming each other when things go pear-shaped. However, the person being blamed always calls the accuser out on it. One example, in one of the TV specials, quite similar to the Scrooge McDuck example above: after Cassandra kicks Rodney out for seemingly taking another woman out to the pictures, Rodney worries that Cassandra's father is going to fire him, as he's left a message saying that there's something important they need to talk about. Uncle Albert tells one of his war stories about an officer who was facing a court-martial and handed in his resignation. In those days, only commissioned officers were allowed to control the radio room. Because he was the only commissioned communications officer on the ship the ship, they couldn't sail without him. So, they had to refuse his resignation and cancel his court-martial. Rodney follows suit, thinking that Cassandra's father will turn down the resignation, since it's so close to Christmas and more orders are coming in. When Rodney meets him, it turns out he just wanted to talk about the extra workload. Then he finds Rodney's resignation and accepts it. Rodney blames Albert.
  • Drop the Dead Donkey:
    • The first season had Gus bring in a therapist to control the stress levels, and only succeeds in getting everyone more stressed out in the first place (oddly enough, even though it's Gus who's getting them all wound up, they dress the punching bag up like George, the only decent person in the cast). Gus later orders a group session in which he wants two people to describe what they think about each other. Gus decides on Dave and Henry, who had only just had a blazing row over a race horse that Dave talked Henry into buying. Naturally, a punch up takes place. Gus later announces that he blames George for it. Gus then gets extra Jerkass points for throwing a temper tantrum when George points out that he tried to warn him several times about making Dave and Henry do the exercise.
    • In another episode, Alex has a cassette tape relating to a potential arms deal story she wants to run (even though running it has a chance of landing George and Gus in prison). She hides it from the police in Dave's desk, unlabeled, and doesn't tell Dave about it. Dave tapes over it, believing it to be a blank that Henry said he was going to leave for him, to make another copy of Sally's recorded office sex. Alex dumps all the blame on Dave, despite the fact that if she'd told him it was her tape, Dave wouldn't have taped over it.
  • Jessie:
    • When Luke and Zuri accidentally crash the B.A.T into the mess hall in "G.I Jessie", they blame Ravi for it just because he didn't try to stop them.
    • Shown in "Help Not Wanted". Luke, Ravi, and Zuri blame Jessie for them not being able to spend their allowance even after Jessie calls them out on wasting their bills.
  • Star Trek: Deep Space Nine: Quark to Rom: "Everything that goes wrong around here is your fault, it says so in your contract!"
    • Cardassians in general and Gul Dukat in particular have this attitude about the Bajoran Occupation. When called out on their atrocities and brutality during that period, most Cardassian characters insist it was the Bajorans' fault for resisting their efforts to 'civilize' their planet, and for not obediently allowing themselves to be worked to death in labor camps while their planet was strip-mined and their women and children abused and exploited. In "Duet", one Cardassian who was a file clerk at one of the camps tries to get himself tried and executed publicly as a war criminal by impersonating his evil long-dead superior due to guilt over not speaking out against the atrocities of the camp and because he believes Cardassia will never be able to move forward if it does not answer for its crimes against Bajor.
  • The characters in Frasier tend to like blaming others for their problems, and Frasier often tends to get it in the neck regardless of how fair it is to blame him.
    • Niles does this quite frequently. Such examples include sending Frasier a repair bill for a crash Niles got in, when listening to Frasier and Kate's office sex on his car radio.
    • There are a lot of problems that arise for the characters where there's faults on all sides, but Frasier will usually get all of the blame, such as when Roz blamed him for people finding out she was pregnant after a series of events that were set in motion when Roz told Daphne that she'd had "a little accident". It could have been avoided if she hadn't said anything at all.
    • Also, when Niles and Daphne finally got together after Daphne ditching her groom at the altar, which leads to him suing them, she blames Frasier for telling both her and Niles how each other felt, even though they ditched their previous partners by their own choice. Not too mention that when Frasier told Daphne, he was doped up on painkillers and not thinking straight. Daphne and Niles later acknowledge that they weren't being fair to blame Frasier for everything.
    • Similar to the above, when Frasier advises everyone to do something they otherwise normally wouldn't do on a Leap Year day, only for disaster to result for everyone involved. While it was as a result of Frasier's advice that things went wrong, his advice was still well-meant and he was hardly directly responsible for everyone's misfortune; but from the way in which everyone delighted in placing all the blame on him you'd think he deliberately stage-managed everything that went wrong out of spite.
    • There was also a really big example when Maris first filed for divorce because Niles actually called her out on her selfish behavior, she said that Niles could come back if he said that it was all his fault.
    • Frasier himself isn't immune to this; in one episode he goes berserk at Martin for spilling some oil on the carpet claiming that "there are no accidents" and subconsciously he did it out of spite. Later in the same episode he knocked Martin's favorite chair of the balcony. When Martin confronts him on this he claims it was an accident.
  • Teen Wolf: Pop quiz, a child nearly drowns because you were too busy feeding your underage swim team booze to keep him away from the pool. Is it a) your fault for being irresponsible on twenty different levels or b) the child's fault for not knowing how to swim? Nice job, Mr. Lahey; no one will mourn you, especially not Matt.
  • In season one of The Cosby Show Claire tries to cheer Rudy up by baking gingerbread. Claire then announces that it'll be a family project, even though Vanessa's mad at Rudy for bothering her when she was trying to do her homework, and Denise has better things to do. Rudy pours flour all over the floor. An argument erupts ending in Rudy running out of the house claiming that she's not a baby. Claire gets mad at the older girls and says that she hopes they're proud of themselves. She apparently forgot whose bright idea it was to force the gingerbread project on everyone in the first place.
  • Mystery Science Theater 3000: During Mike Nelson's tenure as the leading man, the bots frequently pulled this on Mike. Most notably when they persuade him (against his better judgment) destroy his eyelash mites with the nanites, then treat him as a glory-hungry General Ripper leading a Vietnam-like conflict when things go wrong, 'then berate him for how filthy his eyelashes get afterwards and ask why he wanted to get rid of the mites anyway. Plus the times the moments ended with Nelson blowing up planets.
  • Lois & Clark: Humorously played with in the pilot episode, which sees Lois and Clark captured and tied up by the bad guys after Lois has pressured Clark into breaking into a suspicious warehouse. Lois angrily blames Clark for their current situation. Clark angrily points out that he's not the one who wanted to break into the warehouse in the first place. After a moment's pause, Lois realizes that he's right — and this triggers an outburst of self-pity about how her recklessness and competitiveness all stems from her upbringing, how her father never paid any attention to her and how she competes with everyone and sleeps with guys from work to compensate for her hidden insecurities, thus leading Clark to save their lives out of frustration with her wangsting as much as anything else.
  • In the Shake It Up! episode "Merry Merry It Up", CeCe selfishly causes her mother and Jeremy to break up by yelling at the latter for his Christmas decorations. She is beyond excited about the breakup and refuses to believe she is responsible, repeatedly insisting that "SHE BROKE UP WITH HIM". It wasn't until she has a Yet Another Christmas Carol that she finally realizes her mistake and gets them back together.
  • In the Zoey 101 episode "Zoey's Balloon", Chase's ex-girlfriend Rebecca blackmails Zoey into doing humiliating stunts in front of the PCA student body because she blames her for "making Chase break up with her", forgetting that the reason Chase dumped her in the first place was because of her jealousy towards Zoey and controlling behavior.
  • A running gag on Top Gear is that Jeremy Clarkson denies all responsibility for things that go wrong, blaming the others or claiming it was unintentional (e.g. "I may have accidentally put a cow on the roof of my car.")
  • A subplot in an episode of The West Wing revolves around someone suing the President for making a remark about the safety of American cars, following which his wife was killed in an accident when she didn't wear a seatbelt. This inspires Sam to work on proposals for increased safety regulations for the auto industry, only for the President himself to shoot him down, pointing out that as much as he sympathizes with the husband's loss and his need to find someone to blame, he can hardly be held responsible if someone chooses to use an off-the-cuff remark he made as an excuse to ignore common sense safety guidelines.
  • Malcolm in the Middle:
    • Lois is like this often. In one point she gets into an argument with a cop over whether she cut off another car or not and is given video proof that she did, yet still insists that the video is inaccurate. It was, but she didn't need to know that.
    • Francis blames most, if not all, of his problems on his mother. When Commandant Spangler asked Francis if there was anything wrong with his life that he didn't blame on Lois, he was stumped. Francis commits unethical behavior repeatedly, including abusing his brothers when they were young and being partially responsible for making them turn out the way they did. His brothers would be much more justified in blaming their problems on him rather than him blaming his problems on a mother who tried to stop him from spiking her coffee with washing up liquid.
    • However, to illustrate that Lois is in no way blameless, just take a look at the Series Finale. Lois deliberately screws Malcolm out of a cushy, well-paying job that had fallen into his lap, and proceeds to inform him that she had planned out his entire life for him, intending him to start at nearly the bottom rung of society, and working his way up to becoming President of the United States. All because she blames the family's problems on society taking advantage of them because they're poor, even though the whole reason they're poor is because they're selfish and irresponsible people.
  • Friends:
    • Rachel tries to make Ross take full responsibility for their break-up, even though, as Ross puts it, "It took two people to break up this relationship." In response to that, Rachel said, "Yeah, you and that girl from the copy place." She was claiming that Ross's cheating on her (which Ross vociferously insisted wasn't really cheating because they were "on a break") was the sole reason for their breakup, even though there were numerous problems in their relationship well before that. Or that she had the guy Ross was jealous of come over to comfort her not an hour after their big fight (and he answers the phone when Ross calls to try and patch things up). Other occasions have her claiming Ross begged her for sex even though she came onto him.
    • Ross has shades of this himself, like when he smoked weed and blamed it on Chandler (and when his parents found out claimed he was 'tricked into it'). A major reason their relationship kept failing was they both refused to take responsibility for anything and blamed the other—his very insistence about them being "on a break", essentially tries to absolve himself of any role in the break-up, even though he'd been acting like a jerk for weeks beforehand and did something that while perhaps not outright infidelity, was certainly not something to expect Rachel to instantly get over. Chandler points out that even if Ross did think Rachel broke up with him, he still slept with the copy girl mere hours after the fact. Rachel, regardless of which side one takes in this debate, raises a valid point that Ross wouldn't have been quick to forgive her if the situation had been reversed. This probably stems from the fact that they were both extremely spoiled as children. In the series finale, they both sort of acknowledge this and resolve to stop being stupid.
  • On Gossip Girl Blair seems to think she's entirely innocent in her and Serena's friendship falling apart in season five. Even though this happened because Blair began to date the love of Serena's life (moments after encouraging Serena to go after him) even though she doesn't have feelings for him. During the course of her relationship with Dan she makes out with him right in front of Serena at the hospital just when Serena's grandmother had died, whines to Serena about the things that aren't working in the relationship, makes Serena pretend to be Blair for a couple's interview and generally rubs the relationship in Serena's face more or less all the time. Serena is not innocent in this whole mess either but Blair's offenses are worse since they happen repeatedly and with no consideration whatsoever for Serena's feelings. And, Serena at least owns up to what she does, unlike Blair.
    • Worst offender though is Dan Humphrey. According to him it is not in any way his fault that his lifelong friendship with Vanessa, or his romantic relationship with her, ended. Though he was the one who insisted that they should date, he was the one who tried to sabotage her when she got accepted to Tisch, he was the one who cheated on her and he was the one who strung her along and let her take care of his baby by Georgina while he ran after Serena. Vanessa's offense? Applying to Tisch and going to Haiti to work over the summer (partly because Dan cheated). According to Dan it is also not his fault that he and Blair did not work out, even though he practically forced her to date him even though he knew she loved Chuck (he flat out told her that if she didn't start to date him he would no longer be her friend... this was weeks after her wedding). And apparently Blair is a really evil person for choosing to wait and see if she and Chuck can make things work while Dan is pure as can be even though he slept with her best friend while they were still dating. But that was not Dan's fault either. It was all Serena's fault, even though Dan was a very active participant and you'd think it is his responsibility to make sure his relationship with Blair is over before he sleeps with anybody else (instead of assuming it is based on a Gossip Girl blast). And to cap it all off, he's Gossip Girl - which would justify everyone else beating the shit out of him for all the stuff he pulled over six seasons!
  • In Red Dwarf, Rimmer's fundamental character is based around blaming everyone else for his own shortcomings, failures and inability to make anything of his life; while he didn't exactly have an easy upbringing to begin with, it's clear to everyone around him that he just uses this as an excuse not to have to face up to the fact that most of the time it's his own fault he's such a loser. For example:
    • In the episode "Me^2", where Rimmer is moving out of the sleeping quarters, and states his belief that without Lister holding him back he should finally be able to succeed. Lister lampshades this trope by calling Rimmer out on always pinning the blame for his lack of success on everything but himself. In the same episode, it's also revealed that he blames his lack of career mobility on an embarrassing faux pas he once made when he was invited to join the captain's table, where he sent back a bowl of gazpacho soup to be heated up because he didn't realize it was supposed to be served cold. It should be noted, he made this faux pas fourteen years into a fifteen-year career.
    • Rimmer would probably be more justified than most in blaming many of his issues on his family, particularly his father. However, whenever he recounts his father's bizarre actions (like stretching him as a child so that he'd grow up to be tall), he apparently regards them as perfectly natural and even praiseworthy, which is messed up in a different way.
    • One instance that makes a sick sort of sense is the Drive Plate Disaster that killed everyone on Red Dwarf. He claims that had Lister been there to help him, Rimmer wouldn't have screwed up fixing the drive plate. Given that over the course of the series, Lister has proven to be quite technically savvy and Rimmer is completely incompetent (a resurrected Rimmer says to the resurrected captain that anyone capable of screwing up fixing the plate would have the brain the size of a newt's testicle), he might actually be right. However—as Kryten argues when Rimmer ends up being tried by an automated justice system—the real blame should lie with the smeghead who gave Rimmer the job of fixing a critical drive plate when he's a barely qualified vending machine repairman. Hell, in The Captain's own notes on Rimmer, it says "There's a saying among the officers; if a job's worth doing, it's worth doing well. If it's not worth doing, give it to Rimmer."
    • This idea that Rimmer's only shortcoming is his inability to accept responsibility is reinforced by the existence of his successful counterpart, Ace Rimmer; when Rimmer was eight years old, he faced the prospect of being kept down a year at school, with the Rimmer we are familiar with avoiding that fate while Ace was kept back. As a result, Rimmer spent the rest of his life making excuses, while Ace recognised that he had to rely on himself and stepped up to try harder.
  • In an episode of Lizzie McGuire, Matt and Lenny get left behind on a field trip. They flip a coin to decide whether to go back to school or spend a day on the town. When his parents confront him about not trying to get back to school, Matt claims that "I wanted to do the responsible thing. And I did, I did! Is it my fault that the penny told me to take the rest of the day off?"
  • Power Rangers tends to have Big Bad villains blame their minions for their own occasional screw ups.
    • Lord Zedd pulls this off as early as his first appearance in Mighty Morphin' Power Rangers. When Goldar apologizes for his loss (as the Rangers finally defeated the Piranhtishead Monster), Zedd snaps and blames Goldar, Squatt, and Baboo (the latter two had nothing to do with the episode) for the loss. He even blames Rita when their honeymoon goes sour when the Rangers are victorious.
    • Power Rangers Megaforce: Prince Vekar is a spoiled prince who prefers giving orders than doing his own dirty work, and then lash out when they make a mistake cause by his own negligence or laziness. Second episode, he asks who would actually set the missiles to be launched hours later. When told it was him, he responded to only listen to his ideas when they're good ones; he then says they all are, except this one. Then the Rangers ruin his plans and he blames everyone else for his obvious screw up.
  • Believe it or not, The Doctor started off this way. He was the first to point fingers when things went kablooey, both when it was his fault and when no one was to blame. Notable examples include shouting at and insulting his own granddaughter when Barbara and Ian stumbled into the TARDIS and accusing the aforementioned humans of sabotaging the TARDIS. Yeah, he was kind of a Jerkass.
  • Ricky in Trailer Park Boys is always saying this about the harm he's caused. Except for one time when it actually isn't his fault.
  • Smallville
    • Nothing is ever Lex Luthor's fault. He'll blame his dad, Clark, Lana, and anyone else he can before accepting that his slide into villainy is by his own choice. This is actually a fairly major part of his characterization, and something that Clark calls him out on in the Season 7 finale. Major Zod exhibits similar traits; after throttling his lover to death and thus killing his unborn son, he blames Clark, claiming that he made Faora betray him.
    • Pete Ross blames Clark for making him feel like he's living in Clark's shadow. According to Pete, Clark is the reason nothing could ever happen between him and Chloe. When Pete gets into street-racing to have something in his life separate from Clark, and Clark tries to warn Pete that it's dangerous and his new friends are criminals, Pete accuses Clark of being unsupportive because he can't handle Pete being the one everyone thinks is special. Of course, when Clark is proven right and Pete's new friends turn on him, the first thing he does is ask Clark to use his powers to bail him out.
    • Lex's clone Alexander tries this trope in "Beacon", but he's snapped out of it before he ends up like his source material.
      Tess: You keep blaming everybody, but look who has the gun in their hand.
    • First season Monster of the Week Harry Bollston blames everyone else for having spent his entire life in prison, rather than being the celebrated concert pianist he thinks he ought to have been, when it's really his own damn fault for committing murder out of Disproportionate Retribution (which was also an example of blaming others for his own failings).
  • In Black Books this is Bernard's default attitude. One episode involves around a quarrel between Bernard and Manny that isn't resolved until one of them has the strength to apologize:
    Manny: Bernard I'm sorry! It was my fault you toasted my hand!
  • In an episode of Scrubs, Dr. Kelso wants Dr. Cox to give him a physical examination for health insurance purposes. Cox is reluctant, but J.D convinces him to do it. It turns out Kelso has high blood pressure which will cost him an extra six grand in insurance premiums. He angrily punishes Cox for finding it, who, in turn, blames J.D for putting him up to it in the first place.
  • Uther Pendragon in Merlin had Nimueh use her magic to conceive Arthur. Nimueh warned him that a birth would require a death, but since he was desperate for an heir, he ignored her. The death wound up being Ygraine, his wife. Instead of pulling a My God, What Have I Done? upon realizing that his actions have killed his wife, he decides that magic is evil and genocides every single magic user he can find. Yes, even children. It isn't until his daughter Morgana has a Face–Heel Turn and says to his face. "I'm not evil because of magic, I'm evil because you made me that way." that he realizes what he's done, and as a result spends his last year as a broken shell of a man.
  • Buffy the Vampire Slayer:
    • In one episode, Cordelia insists that Buffy go to a party with her, over Buffy's repeated objections. The party turns out to be a trap, and Buffy and Cordelia are captured by demons. Cordelia angrily tells Buffy, "I can't believe I let you talk me into coming here!" Buffy does nothing but stare at Cordelia incredulously.
    • In "Dead Man's Party," Joyce all but openly dismisses the fact that her ultimatum to Buffy in the second season finale was instrumental in Buffy's decision to run away. However, unlike most other examples, she admits that she reacted badly, but still states that didn't give Buffy the excuse to run.
    • In "Blood Ties," Buffy's immediate reaction upon finding out that Spike helped Dawn break into the Magic Box is to storm off to his crypt and start to beat the crap out of him, blaming him for Dawn finding out about being the Key in the worst possible way. However, Spike quickly turns the tables on her, pointing out that not only did he not know that Dawn was the Key before then, but Buffy was the one who kept it from her in the first place. When Dawn later runs away, Buffy admits that he was right and the whole mess is her fault.
  • Supernatural:
    • Lucifer sees himself as a Woobie, Destroyer of Worlds, and for the longest time in the show you believe him. He's constantly saying how wrong it is that he was a faithful servant of his father, and his only crime was to not bow down before humans, and with how imperfect they are, you can hardly blame him. Then in "Hammer of the Gods", his younger brother Gabriel reveals the truth: he wasn't forced to bow down before them, it was the fact that God loved him most of all before transferring his affections to humans. In retaliation, Lucifer twisted a human soul into a demon, trying to get his father to admit they were horrible creations and destroy them, thus getting to be front and center again. Death even refers to him as a bratty child having a temper-tantrum. He gets called out on it again in the season 5 finale, when Lucifer is about to have his climatic showdown with his older brother Michael. He tries to talk Michael out of it by saying that God controls everything, and thus he forced Lucifer to be the devil, so it's not his fault. Michael promptly says that he hasn't changed a bit and he's still blaming everyone but himself for what he did.
    • Every main character on the show can be accused of this. Often understandable though, seeing as how they live in a Crapsack World.
  • The three part "Trilogy" episode of Quantum Leap sees Sam leaping through various identities throughout the decades in order to protect a young woman named Abigail as both a child and an adult who is consistently being targeted by an Ax-Crazy woman named Leta Aider who blames Abigail for the deaths of her husband and daughter and sees her as a cursed hellspawn. During the first part, Sam leaps into Abigail's father and rushes to save her from Leta who has chased her to an abandoned house trying to kill her, and winds up setting it on fire. Sam manages to save Abigail, but his host is killed (Sam barely leaps out of him in time). In part two when Sam confronts Leta over her actions killing Abigail's father in his host, Leta repeatedly insists that she isn't the one to blame for starting the fire. And the deaths of her family, the entire reason Leta persecuted the poor girl for over twenty years? Turns out it was Leta's fault. She killed them for the insurance money, and it was her deep-seated guilt that drove her over the edge and led her to blame a ten-year-old for something she had nothing to do with.
  • Being Human: Mitchell takes this position over the Box Tunnel Massacre when he is confronted with his victims. First he blames Lucy for betraying him, then Daisy for egging him on. When Lia pushes him far enough, he finally takes responsibility and admits that he doesn't deserve forgiveness.
  • Jimmy McNulty from The Wire is a Cowboy Cop with Chronic Backstabbing Disorder; nonetheless, the line "What the fuck did I do?" usually with an air of injured innocence, is practically his Catch Phrase.
  • On The Tudors, this is one of Henry VIII's defining character traits. If he no longer loves his wife, it's her fault (and she probably tricked him into marrying her in the first place). If he can't get a divorce from his wife, it's Cardinal Wolsey's fault. If his unborn son was deformed, it was his wife's fault. If he doesn't like Anne of Cleves, it's Cromwell's fault. If he married a woman who wasn't a virgin before she met him (even though she was introduced to him as his mistress), it's the other man's fault. If he comes to regret banishing Wolsey and executing Cromwell, it's the Privy Council's fault. And so on and so forth.
  • ER's Kerry Weaver, rarely, if ever, took any responsibility for the contentious relationship that she had with the rest of the staff, despite the strict, patronizing way she tended to treat nearly everyone. The worst example might be when she not only allowed, but actively schemed to make two doctors take the full blame for the death of a patient, knowing full well that as their supervisor, she should have been present to correct their mistakes. When one of the doctors finally calls her on this, not only does she display no remorse for her actions, she seems to think she was completely justified in what she did because of the others errors.
  • Amy Duncan from Good Luck Charlie exemplifies this trope in "Amy Needs A Shower," when she arranges her own baby shower, badmouths the people she invited within earshot of Charlie who then repeats what she said about them to their faces, and when this fails to end well blithely says "It's nobody's fault." Twice. Er, actually it's your fault, Amy.
  • On Moesha, her stepmother signed her up for modeling classes without telling her. Her father asked Moesha as a personal favor to go along with it to keep the peace. She has fun at first, but finds both her discipline and her patience with the stepmom trying to live a modeling career through her running out. When she angrily backs out of going along with this any further, the stepmother asks why Moesha ever asked her to sign her up. Flabbergasted, Moesha reminds her she *never* asked for any of this, to which the stepmom sarcastically treats her as being ungrateful. Now, could this have been avoided if Dad had just cut it off to start? Maybe. But now he steps in and plays peacemaker, looking good for doing so. Combines this trope with Karma Houdini, to say the least.
  • In Fresh Meat, Josie has shades of this, particularly in the episode where she breaks another girl's arm in a fit of jealousy:
    Josie: We had to take her to the hospital because her arm got broken.
    Kingsley: How did her arm get broken?
    Sabine: Josie broke her arm.
    Kingsley: Why did you break her arm?
    Josie: I didn't break her arm! I used her own weight against her, so in a way, she broke her own arm.
    Kingsley: She broke her own arm?
    Vod: No, Josie broke her arm.
    Josie: No, I was doing self-defense on her. Sabine showed me, so Sabine must have shown me wrong.
    Sabine: You were aggressive. I told you not to be aggressive.
    Josie: Anyway, Heather attacked me, I defended myself, and her arm got broken.
    Vod: Defense is the best form of attack.
    Josie: I didn't attack. I did defense. Because defense is the best form of defense.
    Kingsley: How bad is it?
    Vod: Oh, it's really bad. Monster mash, mate.
    Josie: Yes, but, you know what they say: Broken bones may break my bones, but they will never hurt me!
    Sabine: They don't say that because it's not true. And doesn't make sense.
  • In Roseanne, when Roseanne confronts her mother Bev over the latter's alcoholism, Bev goes on a rant, blaming everyone around her for her problems. Roseanne shoots back "Well, that's good, Mom. The first step is admitting that everyone else has a problem." Not that Roseanne is exactly immune from this trope herself...
  • In Babylon 5:
    • Centauri ambassador Londo Mollari has problems apologizing, stemming in part from the fact that he indirectly caused the deaths of millions as a result of his political maneuverings. However, because the dead were Narns, and to most of Londo's people Narns are seen as vile, aggressive, uncivilized animals, he compensates for his private shame by being more aggressively anti-Narn in public. Even after his conscience catches up with him and he uses his influence to free Narn, he makes up excuses that it was for the good of the Centauri, and had nothing to do with feeling sorry for the Narns. After that, it takes him a year before he can apologize to anyone about what he did. When he finally does, he admits, "I've never apologized for anything in my life." He was just too prideful and ashamed to admit that he was sorry, even to himself.
    • Many Narns have the same problem. Certainly G'Kar did early in the show's run; he would often blame the Centauri for problems on his own homeworld. While there may be some truth to his claim, it's certainly not the only factor; as Londo points out, at least some of the problems on the Narn homeworld are caused by the Narn aggressively building their war machine for "self-protection". G'Kar got over it as the series went along.
    • In an early scene that neatly sums up their relationship at that point, Londo and G'kar are waiting for an elevator when they get into an argument about the Narn/Centauri war. Their discussion becomes so heated that both of them miss the arrival and departure of the elevator. Upon realising, they simultaneously yell at each other "Look at what you made me do!".
  • JAG: Lt. Williams in "Desert Son" is incapable of taking responsibility for his own actions. His dying words are "Why me?", unable to accept that everything that has happened to him has been his own doing.
  • In episode 8 of The Musketeers, the Red Guard were quick to pin the blame of their captain's death on the Musketeers for not helping them, despite the Musketeers warning them that the prisoner Labarge wasn't to be taken lightly and it was the resulting fight between Labarge and the Red Guard that led to a Guard accidentally killing the captain.
  • Piper on Orange Is the New Black. She thinks that she's an Only Sane Man but in reality she's a whiny, self-absorbed, and pampered idiot who often causes her own problems. For example, she belittles and insults the Ax-Crazy Pennsatucky's beliefs, then seems surprised when Pennsatucky attempts to retaliate. She initially claims that prison is causing her to act like this, but later in the show it's increasingly suggested that Piper was always a selfish idiot/jerk; she was just better at hiding it outside of prison.
  • Liv and Maddie: Maddie says she can't get a driver's license because the driving school discriminates against people who can't turn left.
  • Liz in 30 Rock has a minor tendency to blame the "sexist standards" of society for her own incompetence and personal failings. Jack calls her out on it in season 4 when she tries to pull the sexism card to excuse away her inability to get a steady relationship, pointing out that the only thing keeping her from settling down is her obnoxious flaws and childish bitterness.
  • Family Matters:
    • One of Urkel's Catchphrases, always delivered right after a set of slapstick hijinks had played themselves out, was "Look what you did." And yes, Urkel was usually the one ultimately to blame for the mess.
    • Eddie also had a tendency to do this, as evidenced in the episode "Odd Man In." Finding that he's been asked to judge a bikini contest on the same day he has to work, who does he ask to cover his shift? Steve Urkel, the man who, according to Laura, once stabbed himself eating peas. When Urkel predictably screws up and gets Eddie fired, Eddie rages at him until Laura calls him for it. Pointing out that he always pushes his responsibilities on other people and blames them when things go wrong.
      Laura: You know, Eddie, you always do this. You shirk, and then you blame. Shirk, blame, shirk, blame.
      Eddie: I had something else to do!
      Laura: Shirk...
      Eddie: Well, he screwed up!
      Laura: ...blame.
  • Grant Ward in season two of Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D. is very quick to blame all of his actions on his messed up family or Garrett. Bobbi finally calls him on this.
  • This was Wheels' M.O. in Degrassi High. In the conclusion movie, School's Out!, after Wheels gets drunk, drives with Lucy behind the wheel with him, critically injures her and kills a three-year-old boy, upon being in jail, he still tells Joey this: "It's not my fault that kid wasn't wearing a seatbelt, or that Lucy wanted chips!" By the time of Degrassi: The Next Generation, however, he does accept full responsibility for what happens, though.
  • A flashback on Suits reveals that this is why Mike never got into law school. Apparently, after Trevor convinced him to memorize test answers, so Trevor could sell them, the latter got caught selling them to none other than the dean's daughter. Trevor chooses to take the fall, not naming Mike as his accomplice, but Mike confesses to the dean. The dean, angry that his daughter is now blacklisted as a cheater, and that his own career is threatened as a result, blames Mike for everything, even though there is plenty of blame to go around (not the least being the fact that his daughter chose to cheat), and uses his contacts to blacklist Mike from every law school.
  • Jessica Jones:
    • Kilgrave is so terrifying because he can verbally command people to do anything, even commit suicide or horribly mutilate themselves. Which means he never has to physically force anyone to do anything. He reasons that because he doesn't physically force someone to do something (steal something, sleep with him, murder someone), it was their fault for doing it. Kilgrave is what happens when you combine superpowers with all the behaviors of typical abusers - impulsiveness, short temper, blaming others for his actions, his total lack of understanding of consent or others' feelings, etc.
    • Part of the problem Kilgrave's victims have with getting people to believe in the existence of his mind control abilities is the fact that they come off as people trying to deflect responsibility off themselves (which itself is a metaphor for various fears and worries about false rape accusations making it harder for real rape victims to take action against their attackers, or Victim Blaming in general).
    • Trish's interview of Hope on Trish Talk turns Kilgrave into the most popular alibi in the city. To the point that when Jeri Hogarth and Jessica make a public request for people who've been controlled by Kilgrave to set up an appointment with HC&B, they're flooded with so many accusers that they have to work through each and every one of them to determine which ones are comically obvious frauds and which ones are legitimate. The frauds include a stoner that claims Kilgrave was this Yellow Peril guy who made him rob a 7-Eleven at gunpoint, a junkie who claims Kilgrave made him shove a purple staff up his ass, and a conservative mother trying to claim that Kilgrave was this perpetually shirtless gardener who managed to charm her daughter and every girl on their block into sleeping with him.
    • A non-Kilgrave case is Trish Walker's abusive mom Dorothy. The only times Dorothy does accepts blame for something is when she thinks it will benefit her, such as admitting to a drinking problem or being a terrible mother to guilt-trip her daughters. Everyone can see through it, though:
      Dorothy Walker: So! To what do I owe the pleasure?
      Jessica Jones: It's about Trish.
      Dorothy Walker: Why? What's happened? Is she on drugs again?
      Jessica Jones: She hasn't touched drugs since I dragged her away from you.
      Dorothy Walker: I had no idea that doctor was over-prescribing.
      Jessica Jones: Still no responsibility or remorse. I wish I could be like that.
      Dorothy Walker: “No responsibility,” hmm? I took you in. You were an orphan. That's gotta count for something.
      Jessica Jones: You don't get credit for doing the right thing for the wrong reasons.
      Dorothy Walker: I cared about-
      Jessica Jones: About publicity. I was a strategic play to further the Patsy Walker brand. Trish is fine. She has security like Fort Knox and she's savvy enough not to let anyone sneak up on her, except you. She has no defenses against you.
      Dorothy Walker: She doesn't need defenses. I'm her mother.
      Jessica Jones: You're her pimp!
      Dorothy Walker: I haven't seen her in three years.
      Jessica Jones: Except for when you "accidentally" ran into her?
      Dorothy Walker: It's a small city.
      Jessica Jones: And leave long, drunken messages for her?
      Dorothy Walker: What is it you want from me?
      Jessica Jones: I want you to stick to the agreement. Because no matter where I am, even if I'm behind bars, if you try anything, I will find out. I will come for you, and it will hurt.
      Dorothy Walker: People can change, Jessie.
      Jessica Jones: It doesn't make the bad shit you did go away.
      Dorothy Walker: I just... had a problem. I got help.
      Jessica Jones: And royalty checks.
      Dorothy Walker: I earned those!
      Jessica Jones: If you want them to keep coming, you'll respect Trish's wishes... which I will enforce.
      Dorothy Walker: "And it will hurt.” You need a better tagline.
      Jessica Jones: Five hundred feet. Just like a real restraining order. Five hundred feet away from her. Do you understand?
      Dorothy Walker: Yes. Taking you in was the worst decision of my life.
      Jessica Jones: Thanks, Mom.
    • Jessica also sometimes blames her less endearing qualities on being traumatized by Kilgrave. While her experience was traumatic, flashbacks show that her prickly personality, excessive drinking and resulting employment problems all came before Kilgrave.
  • Law & Order: SVU:
    • In "Obscene" a woman was on a crusade to censor offensive content in the media. Her son was a huge fan of a shock jock she was crusading against, whose show was apparently very offensive, and raped an actress on a show his mother was also campaigning against to impress the shock jock. The woman did not blame herself for spending so much time on her crusade that she spent almost none with her kids, or the fact that she dehumanized the victim with her Slut-Shaming campaign. She didn't even blame her son for committing the rape. She only blamed the shock jock and thought that she could shoot him and the jury would sympathize with her and acquit her. Unfortunately, she was right about the jury.
    • In "Quickie" an HIV positive man was giving HIV to as many women as possible. One of the women he infected felt entitled to throw acid in his face, despite the fact that the sex, and the non-use of protection were consensual, and the man was already facing criminal charges for criminal distribution of HIV. Like the above example, she assumed the jury would sympathize with her and acquit. This time the charges against her were dismissed so there is no way to know what the jury would have done.
  • The Homicide: Life on the Street episode "The Gas Man" is a Villain Protagonist episode revolving around Victor, a gas man who was arrested by Frank Pembleton and sent to prison for negligent homicide when a gas heater he installed killed a family, stalking Pembleton to gain revenge. Although he blames Pembleton for his life going wrong, it quickly becomes apparent that Victor just can't take responsibility for his own actions, as his co-conspirator Danny points out when he eventually comes to respect Pembleton:
    Danny: We've been following Frank Pembleton. And what do we see? Frank slaving away at the office. Frank at the morgue. Frank interviewing the gypsy's neighbors. Frank buying flowers for his wife. Frank humiliating himself so that they can have babies. Frank Pembleton takes responsibility for himself, for his family. Hell, he even takes responsibility for dead people. It's about time I started taking responsibility for my own life. I'm not going with you, Victor.
  • Laurel Lance in Season 2 of Arrow. She blames everything wrong in her life — her drug addiction, her alcoholism, her abusing her authority at her job, her poor performance at the same and her only being spared arrest on charges of stealing her cop father's pain medication and DUI due to his influence (though she is still fired after trying to use her position to get out of said DUI) — on her ex-boyfriend Oliver Queen and sister Sara Lance. She gets better about this later, however.
  • The Flash (2014): Much like the Joker, Zoom maintains that his personal tragedies made him what he is and that if Barry experiences the same, it will turn him into a psychotic murderer as well.
  • RoboCop: The Series:
    • The show's archenemy, William Ray "Pudface" Morgan, was disfigured in an accident he caused. However, the minute he sees RoboCop, it's clear he blames Murphy for it and not himself.
    • A Corrupt Corporate Executive and Straw Feminist named Rochelle Carney who was fired in the episode "Inside Crime" after being in league in the aforementioned Pudface as part of a ratings stunt for the episode's titular Show Within a Show. However, while her boss was indeed hitting on her, she chose to blame his behavior and her being a woman for the reason she was fired rather than what actually got her fired, which was being in league with a well-known criminal.
  • Daredevil:
    • Flashbacks establish that Wilson Fisk's father was one of these kinds of people. Bill's idea of "making a man" out of Wilson involved demeaning him, teaching him to blame others for his problems (including blaming Wilson himself for his own problems) and playing cruel jokes on him. When he lost the city council election, he believed that the reason he lost was because his wife and son didn't show him enough respect at home, not because he was a vile, vicious, petty loser. This led to him beating his wife with a belt, and caused Wilson to snap and kill him with a hammer.
    • In the present day, Fisk tends to operate on the principle that he should do the opposite of what his father would do in a situation. As such he owns up to his mistakes and then moves on, eventually. With one exception: In the season 1 finale, after Matt Murdock foils Fisk's attempt to escape from police custody, Fisk goes on a villainous rant, clearly blaming Matt for the downfall of his operation. While it is true that Matt was the driving force, both in his civilian and vigilante lives, behind Fisk getting arrested, this is ignoring that the major factors that led to his descent were due to his own temper tantrums for minor slights (to elaborate, a string of events that began with Fisk brutally murdering Anatoly Ranskahov for simply crashing Fisk's date with Vanessa, which led to Fisk bombing the Russian mafia's hideouts, then sending in corrupt cops to finish off the survivors, then ordering the shooting of Detective Blake for accidentally leaking info to Matt, having Blake be killed in the hospital by his own partner Hoffman when this fails, Hoffman being stashed away by Leland Owlsley, then Hoffman selling Fisk out to the FBI after Fisk kills Leland in another tantrum). Not to mention the fact that he's, y'know, a criminal, and thus deserves to get arrested.
    • Nobu has an example of this in "Shadows in the Glass," after his Black Sky is killed by Stick, when he angrily confronts Fisk about not providing the Black Sky more protection. Fisk points out that Nobu only asked for the docks to be cleared of police interference and he held up that end of the deal, and it was Nobu's responsibility to inform Fisk of the importance of the incoming cargo.
  • House of Cards (US)
    • An early episode has Frank Underwood dealing with a local political hot potato in his hometown of Gaffney, South Carolina, known as the Peachoid (a real life water tower). Ostensibly, county administrator Oren Chase is trying to have Frank blamed for the death of a teenage girl who crashed her car while texting about what the Peachoid looked like. Apparently, they think that since Frank fought so hard for the creation of the Peachoid, and because the 16-year-old girl crashed her car while texting a joke about what the tower looked like, he's responsible for her death, instead of the obvious - it's her own fault that she's dead because she decided to engage in distracted driving.
    • Frank takes up this sort of attitude in season 3 when he's barely holding things together as President. This culminates in most of his inner circle turning against him.
  • Beyond Belief: Fact or Fiction: Sonny Rhodes of the segment "Used Car Salesman" made a living off ripping off customers and making the honest salesman of the dealership look bad. When selling a van with damaged brakes to a small man group that was in a hurry to make it to Vegas, he decides to sell it without having it inspected. They die on the road due to the faulty brakes. When his co-workers confront him on this, he coldly rejects any responsibility, saying that the buyer was in a hurry and that their time was up. Unshockingly, he ends up an Asshole Victim by possessed cars.
  • Walter White from Breaking Bad has a serious, nearly life-long habit of this. Whether it's the company he founded with his Elliot and Gretchen in college, (a company he walked out on after a tiff, which later became worth billions) his feud with Gus, the dissolution of his family, the destruction of his relationship with Jesse, or any number of other examples, Walt has a tendency to take actions out of sheer pride and ego, then point the finger at others when it goes badly. Only in the very final episode of the series does come clean about one of these, when he finally admits that the reason he got into manufacturing and distributing meth never had anything to do with providing for his family, but because he enjoyed it and it made him feel alive in a way that he hadn't in years, perhaps decades.
  • Beyond: Frost blames Willa for Celeste's death, but it was actually his experimental attempt to revive her from a coma (which giving birth left her in, though that's not Willa's fault either) which killed her.
  • The Handmaid's Tale:
    • Women receive blame for the fall in birthrates due to their wickedness, promiscuity, and subsequent lack of fertility; however, when Offred goes to see a doctor for a checkup, he claims that most (if not all) of the Commanders are also sterile.
    • Later, Fred refuses to take responsibility for his affair with Offred, blaming Serena for bringing her in as a temptation.
  • Nicky, Ricky, Dicky, and Dawn: Dawn (being the egomaniac she is) never accepts the blame for her own doings, and would rather blame her brothers.
  • The comedic appeal of Fawlty Towers revolves around snobbish hotel owner Basil Fawlty's inability to take responsibility for anything, or, for that matter, tell the truth at all.
    Basil Fawlty: *practicing* I'm so sorry I made a mistake, I'm so sorry I made a mistake...
    *opens door to guest's room*
    Basil Fawlty: I'm so sorry, my wife made a mistake!
  • In The Big Bang Theory, Sheldon Cooper insists that because he is smarter than everyone he is automatically right about everything, no matter how he might word it. If he causes trouble for others it is their own fault for being too dumb not to understand his advice or not being able to control their anger. Most of his own problems he could fix just by swallowing his pride and apologizing or admitting he was wrong, but he usually just tries to work around the problem to avoid doing this or gives a Backhanded Apology to avoid taking complete blame. Once, when Leonard finally had enough of his shit when he spoils a Harry Potter book Leonard was reading and instead of apologizing, even when Leonard points out Sheldon would be mad if he were in the same position, says Leonard is just nagging him and being annoying again, Leonard decided to move out and move in with Penny. Once Amy decided to move in with Sheldon and he couldn't find a reason to say no, he tried to get Leonard to come back by saying that their argument was all over nothing and he forgives Leonard. Leonard slams the door in his face. Sheldon eventually told Amy she couldn't move in with him because Penny didn't want Leonard to move in with her, neither of the girls were happy that he was once again avoiding blame.
    • There was one rare time where he realized that it was all his fault Howard didn't get security clearance for his new project, because while he was complaining to the FBI agent about Howard he accidentally lets slip that Howard once crashed the Mars rover. Leonard and Raj take the blame at first because they embarrassed themselves in front of the agent, but Sheldon eventually comes clean that it was his fault. But, he expects Howard to simply accept "I'm sorry" as an appropriate apology for setting his work back two years and doesn't understand why he won't forgive him. Though in this case, Howard is even more guilty of this trope because he puts all the blame on Sheldon for telling the FBI, and not on himself for actually crashing the Mars rover in the first place.

  • An early Straylight Run demo includes a track called "It's Everyone's Fault But Mine". Which, given its subject matter (the singer's estrangement from his old band, Taking Back Sunday), might be a fairly accurate title.
  • This is a common criticism of female pop singers known for breakup songs, where they'll release a dozen singles about kicking a no-good man to the curb, but never one about their own regrets or wrongdoings in a relationship. These songs do exist, but they're never released as singles ("Back to December" by Taylor Swift comes to mind), since women showing emotional weakness has become something of a taboo in pop music.
  • The song "Gangsta Rap Made Me Do It" by Ice Cube addresses this in its subject matter, which is about people blaming the bad things they do in life on rap music rather than out of personal choice.
  • The Eagles' song "Get Over It" begins with this:
    I turn on the tube, and what do I see?
    A whole lot of people crying "don't blame me."
    They point their crooked fingers at everybody else,
    Spend all their time feeling sorry for themselves.
  • Melanie Martinez's song "Crybaby" features the lyrics:
    You're all on your own and you lost all your friends
    You told yourself that it's not you, it's them.
  • The Brothers Osborne song "Ain't My Fault" plays it straight with a heavy dose of Circular Reasoning
    Blame the heart for the hurtin'
    Blame the hurtin' on the heart
    Blame the dark on the devil
    Blame the devil on the dark
    Blame the ex for the drinkin'
    Blame the drinkin' for the ex
    Blame the two-for-one tequilas for whatever happens next
    But it ain't my fault
  • This is the entire point of "Never Wrong" by Disturbed. Calling out people who are unable to accept being wrong.
    I'm not willing to deal with someone, who insists that they can never be wrong. So just keep on walking to the wall because I'm walking away!

  • In one episode of I'm Sorry I Haven't a Clue, Jeremy Hardy makes a joke which could be seen as offensive. Tim Brooke-Taylor immediately follows it with the comment "That was Jeremy Hardy who said that..." Moments later, Tim makes a joke which is groaned by the audience and follows it, again, with "That was Jeremy Hardy who said that..." And in another episode, Tim makes a joke which gets a mixed reaction, before saying "Oh, you shouldn't say that. Shush, Jeremy." note 
  • In Old Harry's Game:
    • This trope is one of the main reasons why Satan hates humanity. However, he's not immune to this behaviour himself, continually evading any responsibility for rebelling against Heaven.
    • Thomas also fits this. In life, when he was married to Edith's niece, he literally tortured her and slept with other women in her bed while she was in it. He eventually accepts that he might bear 3% of the responsibility for the divorce. Scumspawn then notes that it's 3% up from last time. In another episode, he complains to God that it isn't fair to place him in Hell when his actions were predetermined by God. God then informs him that he didn't predestine anything and Thomas' actions were of his own free will. Thomas insists that it's still God's fault for being stupid enough to give people like him free will.
    • Adolf Hitler apparently still insists that the Holocaust was merely an overreaction to being filmed in the shower. Also, he blames his failed campaign in Russia on Jesse Owens.
  • When something goes wrong in The Men from the Ministry, One will sometimes blame Two for what has happened, even when he is just as (or even solely) responsible.

  • Orthodox Christianity states that this trope is the reason why Adam and Eve were banished from the Paradise by God, as they rejected repentance and blamed other beings: the serpent, Eve, and God himself. Orthodox Church states that if they had repented, the sin would have been forgiven.
  • Satan and arguably the entire God of Evil concept; the idea that if someone commits a crime or indulges in a vice, it's easier to say "The Devil made me do it!" than admit to their own shortcomings.

    Tabletop Games 
  • In Paranoia, the mission debriefing tends to devolve into everyone doing this at once.
    • More than "tends," it's totally expected and even encouraged. The official Mission Report form (included in the rulebook) has a series of yes/no checkboxes. One of them is "Did you accuse a fellow team member of being a traitor? If no, explain:_______."
  • Part of the history of Wilson's Hussars in BattleTech. Their second commander is panicky, selfish, cowardly, and horribly incompetent; in other words, everything that a mercenary 'Mech commander shouldn't be. When he panicked in the middle of a bad situation and called for their Drop Ship to pull him out, it was shot down and crashed on his lance's position. Miraculously he survived, blaming everyone but himself for the string of bad choices that led to the losses. It earns him a double PPC shot in the back from the man who would be the unit's much more reasonable and much better liked but long-suffering third commander.
    • When Clan Steel Viper joins the invasion of the Inner Sphere they try to "enlighten" the people of the IS of their Clan ways, initially no one buys it. They mostly blame Clan Jade Falcon on why the IS don't like them, but in truth its because of the Steel Vipers low view of freebirths.
    • This is one of Caleb Davion's many failings as a human being. He simply can't take responsibility for his own problems and mistakes. It's such an issue that he ends up a paranoid schizophrenic with an invisible friend who serves as both a split personality and an outlet for his amoral impulses.
  • The one thing that the darklords of Ravenloft have in common. All of them committed terrible deeds (the Acts of Ultimate Darkness) and refuse to acknowledge that they did anything wrong. Acknowledging their crimes and their responsibility for their own misfortune is actually the first step towards escaping their realms. Then again, anyone who had the strength of character to do this would never have become a darklord in the first place.
  • Excessively Righteous Blossom in Exalted has a fairly simple flowchart. Did something he was involved with go well? Clearly it was due to his brilliance at everything. Did it go poorly? It was clearly all the fault of his underlings, or jealous rivals, or something.
  • Mark Rosewater, lead designer of Magic: The Gathering, is on record as saying that building a "Never My Fault" safety valve into games is a smart idea. (In the case of Magic, it's how the Random Number God controls what you draw — specifically, whether you have enough Lands to give you the Mana you need for your spells.) Why? Because, if it's not your fault you lost, then you feel more enthusiastic about ignoring your loss and playing again. And that's a good quality to have in a high-skill-emphasis game where new players are probably going to lose most of the time. Established players have argued fiercely against this philosophy, but the success of Magic itself — not to mention of other games that have this safety valve, like Multiplayer Online Battle Arenas and their random matchmaking — seems to lend credence to Rosewater's case.

  • Into the Woods has a song named "Your Fault", which involves all the 'heroes' placing the blame for the Darker and Edgier second act on each other. (See here). The witch proceeds to call all of them out on their behavior in a Crowning Moment of Awesome The Reason You Suck Song, particularly after they all settle on blaming her for everything.
  • In Notre Dame De Paris, Phoebus's song Je Reviens Vers Toi (To get back to you) is this song in trope form, he tells his fiance, that the gypsy bewitched him into cheating on her, that she only wanted his money and that he's a changed man, as he flirts with temptation.
  • Joe Keller of All My Sons. Yeah, people might have been shopping faulty parts to the military in World War II for the contract money, but Joe not only did it knowingly, he then pinned the crime on Steve Deever, his best friend and business partner, by pretending he had been sick the day the parts were shipped out when his greed gets 21 pilots killed. Said friend gets life in prison and Joe gets off, retaining the parts business for himself. Not only this but it also causes Steve's own family to turn against him, and Joe has no problem with letting everyone believe he was both a hero who uncovered Steve's incompetence and an innocent victim who had conveniently been sick at home when he wasn't. And he allows this to go on for years. When the truth comes out, he's not very remorseful about it and tries to justify his actions and get out of it as being "for the family" and that lots of others were doing it at the time, so if his son Chris was going to turn him to the police he might as well turn over everyone else who did it. Finally, when Chris confronts him with the suicide note Larry, his other son, wrote because he couldn't have the shame of what his father did, he goes into the house as if to get his coat so he can be taken into the police to atone for what he did... where he promptly shoots himself in the head just so he wouldn't have to go to jail and be exposed for what he did, or have to deal with the fact his son's death was his fault

    Video Games 
  • Zachary Hale Comstock, the Big Bad of Bioshock Infinite has severe trouble facing his own guilt, to the point that this is arguably his most defining trait. He only exists because he's a version of the main character that accepted baptism and created a new identity to bury his guilt over war crimes committed at Wounded Knee. Driving the point home further, Burial at Sea features an alternate Comstock who accidentally killed Elizabeth when he tried to take her from her own world, and then had the Luteces move him to another world so that he could escape his guilt over that, too.
    Rosalind Lutece: Comstock was never one to own up to his errors, was he, brother?
    Robert Lutece: Never comfortable with the choices he made.
    Rosalind: Always seeking someone else's life to claim as his own.
  • From the first Bioshock, we have Andrew Ryan who utterly, utterly refuses to believe his polices have led Rapture to ruin, blaming it all on the citizens for not working hard enough when it's his own rules that keep them from getting ahead. When people do try to point it out to him, he never takes it into consideration since it means he has to admit he was wrong. By the middle of the game, he's deluded himself into thinking Rapture will regain prominence once he kills the Player Character.
  • Stross from Dead Space 2. He was unintentionally responsible for the death of his wife, Alexis, and their son. Unable to accept it, the Marker slowly drives Stross more and more insane as time goes on, eventually becoming actively antagonistic and trying to kill Isaac and Ellie. It's not that Stross wants to hurt them, it's just that Stross wants someone, anyone, to validate what he's seeing and tell him his family's deaths wasn't his fault, which is why he listens to what the symbols from the Marker are telling him.
  • Dynasty Warriors 4. Dong Zhuo's campaign. If Lu Bu defeats Diao Chan in the final act of the campaign. "Why did you take Diao Chan into battle. You are the one that killed Diao Chan!"
  • Part of Siegfried's backstory in Soul Calibur: He and his gang attacked a band of knights, returning from a campaign, with the intention of robbing them. Siegfried beheaded the Knight's commander and held his severed head up to gloat. It turned out to be his own father. His mind became so warped that he psychologically convinced himself that someone else killed him. Some of his endings in the games show him taking responsibility for this.
  • In Scarface: The World Is Yours, some of the truly hilarious insults Tony can scream at pedestrians as he runs them over include "You fucked up my grill, you stupid fuck!", "Hey! You cracked my fucking windshield, man!", and "Next time maybe you look both ways, you fuck!"
  • Done twice in Episode 3 of Phantasy Star Universe. First the Parum refugees hate the GUARDIANS because of the GUARDIANS Colony crash-landing on Parum, which killed thousands and left the survivors homeless with hardly any means to survive. Then the New Rogues leader, Tylor refuses to work with the GUARDIANS because they did nothing while the SEED-Virus was unleashed on Beasts. Turning them into SEED-forms which lead them to be purified. Both events were beyond the control of the GUARDIANS.
  • Paper Mario: The Thousand-Year Door: Beldam twice blames Vivian for losing something that she'd earlier insisted on hanging onto herself because Vivian "couldn't be trusted with something so important". After the second time, Vivian gets fed up with Beldam's mistreatment and joins forces with Mario.
  • God of War Series has this going on on both sides. Kratos relentlessly rages against everyone and their grandmother for tricking him into brutally murdering everything in sight at the drop of a hat. The gods, who successfully tricked him thusly, refuse to admit their culpability, not to mention deceiving him about the rewards for following their orders and generally being the jerkasses they've always been, resulting in most them having the crap murdered out of them. On the other side, Kratos refuses to accept that everything that's happened to him is because he made a deal with Ares, instead blaming every single that happens on the Gods even if it's something they didn't actually cause.
  • In both Persona 3 and Persona 4, each bad guy before the final Cosmic Horror/Knight Templar-goddess boss says something to the effect of "If this all happened because the world is a crappy place, then it's all your fault for making it this way, isn't it?", completely ignoring the fact that 1) Nyx was prematurely summoned because the Kirijo Group screwed with the Arcana Shadows, namely Death and 2) Adachi's murder spree helped convince Izanami that her Assimilation Plot was the right idea. Takaya truly believes this is the reason and doesn't care either way; Adachi is blaming you because you have him cornered, and he's been partially possessed by Izanami's right-hand man at the time.
    • Persona 4 also has Eri Minami, who recently married and is having a hard time bonding with her stepson Yuuta. While she admits that she rushed into marriage despite not knowing that her husband has a son, she also tends to blame Yuuta for their inability to connect, which is only half-right, as Eri is also somewhat awkward around him. Ultimately, when Eri complains about how Yuuta's behavioral problems have resulted in his teacher and the other mothers disliking her, Yuuta assumes the player character made her cry and punches him in response, forcing Eri to realize that Yuuta is actually a good kid and to open up to him.
    • Persona 5 takes the cake. The citizens of Tokyo, faced with uncertainty and despair in a corrupt society, lose hope in the possibility of change, blaming others for their woes and accepting enslavement in all but name to pass the responsibilities to those that can handle them (and won't). It gets so bad that Yabaldoth transforms the city into a Womb Level, and 99.9% of the population ignores it because they can't understand what they've done.
  • Tales of the Abyss:
    • The main issue the party has with Luke unwittingly destroying Akzeriuth is his refusal to accept responsibility for it. Once he realizes that he is responsible and vows to change himself and make amends, the party begins to forgive him, some more quickly than others. Additionally, after they've had time to cool down and think things over, the team admits that they could have stopped Luke, being more aware of the situation than a kid who has spent the most important years of his life locked in his parents' mansion. That's why they decide to give him a second chance. By the time the team is all together again, the only person who's blaming him for "the incident" is Luke himself.
    • There is also a sidequest involving a character named Casim, who tries to use a forbidden fonic art. Jade and Tear manage to stop him from causing an explosion, but as a side affect, Casim loses his eyesight. Casim blames Jade for not stopping him in the first place. Thankfully, Luke sets him straight with punch in the face.
    • Another example that's played entirely for laughs: one skit that's activated by sleeping at the inn in Daath has Jade say that Anise is pretty thin, flat, Luke adds. Anise says "Oh, just...just shut up! It's not all about size, you know! Big blobs of fat like that'll just droop down and look ugly before you even hit thirty!", just as Tear walks in. She leaves in a huff. Jade and Anise scold Luke for hurting Tear's feelings to which Luke bellows "There is no way in hell that this is my fault!"
  • In The Legend of Zelda: Majora's Mask, Tatl stops you from following the Skull Kid in the beginning, and as a result gets left behind by him. She immediately blames Link for it.
  • Maribel from Dragon Quest VII is known to berate the hero for getting her stuck in trouble with him, even though she forced her way along in the first place!
  • Resident Evil: Revelations 2: Prior to the game, Barry forgot to lock his guns up one day, and his daughters got into them and started playing with them, until Moira accidentally shot Polly. Barry placed the blame on Moira rather than accepting that it was his own fault for not putting his guns away. It isn't until Moira is presumed dead over the course of the game that Barry accepts that it was his fault.
  • James Tobin is just made up of this trope In the 1st Degree. He is charged with murder and grand theft. If you ask the right questions, then Tobin and his lawyer Charleston will try to make a story in which Tobin admits a number of things Yvonne, Simon, and Ruby said and tries to spin it so it was all the murder victim Zack's idea, and Tobin was just the poor guy who was dragged into it against his will. Even at that point, he still obeys this trope. Fortunately, you, as the prosecutor Granger, get to pick apart the details of his new story and have him lose his cool at a couple points. If you do it right, you then get to watch Tobin have a total meltdown right there in the courtroom and reveal a little too much information. If that happens, then you have won the game.
  • G0-T0 of Knights of the Old Republic II: The Sith Lords gives the PC several repeated What the Hell, Hero? speeches over the destruction of Peragus mining facility (as well as, well, Peragus) — even though the PCs' presence on Peragus was entirely the result of being abducted by G0-T0's bounty hunter, who also gratuitously slaughtered all of the facility's personnel before the PC even came to. And said slaughter, along with keeping the PC drugged, delays the escape long enough for the Sith to catch up, and destroy Peragus in the confrontation.
    • The entire Jedi Council is also guilty of this. Initially refusing to act during the Mandalorian wars, they eventually use the Exile as a scapegoat once they finally do start to feel the effects of the war. While a few admit they were wrong when the Exile meets them, when they convene on Dantootine, they decide the Exile is still somehow to blame so they won't have to acknowledge the truth. This is the basis of "The Reason You Suck" Speech Kreia gives them.
  • Professor Kuriakin in Fahrenheit tells Lucas Kane that the Oracle must never kill directly. Instead, he possesses a random proxy to commit the murder.
  • Portal 2:
    • By the time of the final battle, Wheatley's incompetent management has left the Enrichment Centre on the brink of self-destruction. Wheatley rants at Chell for running off with Glados after he "reluctantly" assumed power, when in reality he jumped at the opportunity to take over and then tried to kill them. He even claims that there's nothing wrong with the facility, and all the alarms and warnings going off are just a conspiracy by the two of them trying to sabotage him, even as his lair starts to catch fire and the ceiling collapses around him.
    • After the final fight, Wheatley finally realizes he screwed up and admits to the camera that if he could see Chell again, he would apologize.
    • GLaDOS also shows signs of this, from the incinerator trap on through Portal 2. She acts like her destruction by Chell was an act of unprovoked aggression, even though she was blatantly trying to kill her, and treats Chell like a violent, ungrateful lunatic lashing out at the people trying to help her.
    • Cave Johnson. He blames Black Mesa and life for his company's failure, completely ignoring the fact that his continued abuse of ethics and ridiculous spending was what really got it done.
  • A rather dark example in Spec Ops: The Line. After committing numerous atrocities in Dubai, Walker develops a Dissociative Identity Disorder and starts hallucinating an imaginary colonel Konrad over the radio, on who he blames all the things that he himself has done, even though the real Konrad committed suicide quite some time ago after he couldn't deal with the consequences of his own actions. Even when confronted with Konrad's corpse Walker can still disbelieve that he is hallucinating by shooting the hallucination. That, or show he doesn't need him anymore to owe up to his mistakes (depending on what ending the player is aiming for).
    Walker: [[Reconstruction Stronger than you were]].
  • In Bully, the nerds' leader Earnest hires Jimmy to take some dirty pictures of the head cheerleader as part of his plan for revenge against the jocks. Later, after he blows the pictures up to poster size and posts them all over town, an angry mob of jocks storm his hideout. Gripped with panic, he quickly blames Jimmy for taking the pictures, even though he was the one who asked for them. This happens all through the game. Everything bad that ever happens is Jimmy's fault.
  • Played with in Batman: Arkham City. The Joker seems to partially blame his impending death from the poisonous side-effects of the Titan Super Serum on Batman, because he "left [him] to die" after their climactic battle at the end of the first game. He then immediately acknowledges that Batman probably doesn't remember it that way, and then just moves on with trying to constructively fix the problem without wasting any more time. Given that the Joker is the Trope Namer for Multiple-Choice Past, it is unclear whether he truly thinks he remembers Batman leaving him to die, or if he's just screwing around (and possibly Lampshade Hanging the villain's tendency to use this trope). The Joker is the one who injected himself with the serum and helped create it.
    • Also occurs when he gives his origin story to Hugo Strange (it's the same story from The Killing Joke). Strange points out the Joker has many different versions of his origin, and the only consistent thing is that he blames Batman for his condition in every one.
    • A more clear-cut example happens during the ending when Joker stabs Batman, causing him to drop the cure. His last hope for survival lost, Joker bitterly asks Batman if he's happy now, as if Batman had done it on purpose. Batman says he would've given Joker the cure, and Joker sees the irony. It comes up again in Batman: Arkham Knight; during the "Look Who's Laughing Now" musical number, the Joker hallucination refers to the events of Arkham City as "the night [Batman] let him [die]."
    • Though Mr. Freeze is treated sympathetically overall, Hugo Strange (fairly accurately) accuses him of this. Though he is fundamentally well-intentioned, Freeze's condition and supervillain career- and his wife Nora's present state- is at least partly grounded in his inability to admit to his mistakes, misdeeds or personal flaws. This is also demonstrated during your boss fight with him; there are breakable statues of Nora scattered around the room, and if Mr. Freeze accidently destroys one while shooting at you, he'll claim that you made him do it.
    • Likewise with the Penguin and his backstory who constantly blames the Wayne family for financially ruining his family. When in truth it was his own decisions that lead him down his path.
    • Hugo Strange accuses quite a few of his "patients" of this, and treats his sessions with them as a sort of dialog-based torture session. He points out how Two-Face likes to pin the blame of his crimes on fate or the flip of his coin rather than own up to the culpability of his own actions. However, unlike the others on this page, Two-Face is genuinely sick and wants to be treated to cease being a criminal. Strange's torment of him only serves to blame him for his own pathology, while at the same time re-enforcing it (their sessions end with Strange instigating the Two-Face persona and then letting him loose, knowing he'll commit more crimes).
  • In Ghost Trick, Yomiel blames everyone but himself for having a hand in his death. Yes, his vendetta against Detectives Jowd and Cabanela are kind of understandable, seeing as they arrested him, subjected him to merciless interrogation, and were going to shoot him when he tried to escape, all while he was innocent. But then, he also blames Lynn, who was just a little kid playing in the park when he was being chased by the police, and who only was involved in the situation because he chose to take her hostage. Which he blamed her for, by simple fact that he wouldn't have thought to take a hostage if she hadn't been there! It is played with later, as Yomiel admits that he knows Lynn was innocent, and knows that he screwed up his life.
  • In Harvest Moon: The Tale Of Two Towns, the cooking competitions are Serious Business. If you don't take part yourself, you can choose to just cheer your town's cooking team on. If you're a resident of Bluebell and the team loses, Jessica will say "If you'd been a bit more supportive we..." but she stops herself before finishing. Grady will also claim that the cooking team lost because you weren't cheering properly, but he apologies right away.
  • Averted with Gray Mann of Team Fortress 2. While he seethes at the fact all his robots are imbeciles, he admits it's his fault for designing them, and claims that the "hailing circuit" was his one moment of weakness.
  • Any game that has a focus on team gameplay (or, more often, just team gameplay in theory) will always have someone falling into this trope whenever they screw up and costs the team the win. Crosses with Small Name, Big Ego if they promptly take all the credit for when their team actually wins.
  • Tales of Xillia: After the death of Milla, Alvin tries to get Jude to snap out of his Heroic B.S.O.D. by attacking him... and takes it too far by shooting Leia In the Back. While initially horrified by it, he soon blows his stack and screams at an equally-enraged Jude that it's his fault. Sure, Alvin, you can blame Jude, but which one of you has the gun in his hand?
  • Tomb Raider (2013): After Alex's death, Reyes blames Lara for failing to save him and accuses her of being a Doom Magnet, apparently forgetting that she was the one who let Alex go off on his own in the first place.
  • Starscream of Transformers: Fall of Cybertron despite being the main reason for the loss of a large amount of Decepticon forces and the failure of a huge operation, he blames his soldiers, the Combaticons (who were the ones who bailed said operation out and cleaned up after Starscream) and tosses them into jail for insubordination when they protest.
    • Megatron considers Cybertron's state of shutdown all Optimus's fault, saying that he's stopped him from returning Cybertron to its natural state when he stopped the Core's corruption from Dark Energon. Already an absurd statement which is even more absurd when Dark Energon literally is Unicron's blood.
  • The krogan in the Mass Effect series have a pretty selective memory, believing, "We saved the galaxy from the rachni, then they neutered us all," completely skipping over the massive aggressive, expansionist war that they started in between. Only Wrex and a few other Krogan seem to realize this, with most Krogan remaining belligerent and unapologetic. If you cure the Genophage, Wrex's brother Wreav outright admits that as soon as the Reapers are defeated he's going to raise an army of krogan and take revenge on the galaxy.
    • The quarian race also applies. They despise the geth for driving them off their homeworld, apparently ignoring the fact that the only reason the geth did that was because the quarians were trying to wipe them out. If Shepard points this out to Tali in the first game, she claims that the quarians had no choice, which the third game shows is complete bullshit. Not only did the quarians provoke conflict with the completely docile and friendly geth, but the old quarian government killed off any quarians who spoke out against this state-ordered genocide. In the third game, this leads to the Flotilla going into an idiotic war with the geth thanks to one warmonger of an admiral who refuses to accept that he may be making a mistake. At that point Tali has gone through Character Development and realizes what a bunch of hypocrites/idiots the admirals are.
    • Liara has a small moment near the end of Lair of the Shadow Broker if the player chooses a certain dialogue option. She criticizes Kaidan/Ashley for not trusting Shepard after the latter was brought Back from the Dead by a known terrorist organization, conveniently leaving out the part where she was the one who left them in the dark on the subject, which allowed the Illusive Man to poison them with false information. She also slips into this in 3, repeatedly blaming Javik for not living up to her extremely romanticised view of the Protheans.
  • In League of Legends, "Defense of the Ancients: All-Stars" and every multiplayer game, even "Call of Duty", it is common that a player will yell at his teammates in a losing game, then proceed to say that he is the only competent person on said team, even if he is doing the worst and/or hardly contributes and judges solely on his KDA ratio.
  • Mega Man Zero: Dr. Weil blames the reploids for causing destruction all the time, but he considers it "the right thing" when he enacts Project Elpis and causes Elf Wars (decimating 90% of reploids and 60% of human population), and then blamed humans for punishing him. He might be right, considering that the humans are basically going vigilante... if not for the fact that the judges are reploids made by Weil himself.
  • Scylla Cartier-Wells from Remember Me. While she constantly blames her daughter, Nilin for a car accident that cost her a leg, it was her fault for turning around to talk to her daughter while driving, instead of stopping at the red light just up ahead. While it is true that Nilin was misbehaving before, she wasn't misbehaving for about a minute before the crash, which doesn't justify Scylla's behaviour.
  • In Sonic Rivals, Eggman Nega's motive is that the failures of his ancestor, Dr. Eggman, caused the world to refuse to recognize genius, motivating him to travel back in time, and kill his ancestor, erasing his failures and altering his family history. According to Shadow, though, this is just Nega blaming his own failures on the past.
  • Lyric, the Big Bad of Sonic Boom: Rise of Lyric, blames the other Ancients for his incurable disease, which necessitated his conversion into a cyborg, when in reality, it was his own reckless experiments with the Chaos Crystals that led to him contracting said disease in the first place.
  • ENIGMA: An Illusion Named Family: Unlike his younger brother Minhyuk, who blames himself for everything, Samoon's mantra is that his company's troubles were never his fault. No, it's all the fault of a single employee, and he shouldn't be held responsible for how they killed a patient with a faulty vaccine!
  • The Halo series's background info has the entire Office of Naval Intelligence do this. When the war against the Covenant ends, and the sins of the past are being looked at in detail, ONI decides to pin all of the unethical aspects of the SPARTAN-II program (kidnapping 75 children, replacing them with doomed-to-die flash clones, and subjecting said children to harsh military training and dangerous augmentations) on the project's head scientist Catherine Halsey, portraying her as an insane Mad Scientist who did it all For Science! ONI fails to mention that the SPARTAN-II Program was their idea; in fact, Halo: Ghosts of Onyx shows that ONI head Margaret Parangosky actually considered Halsey to be a "bleeding-heart" who was too concerned about the IIs' well-being.
  • In Dragon Age: Origins, Loghain is of this mind regarding the failure at Ostagar. When Anora asks him an Armor-Piercing Question over whether or not he indirectly killed Cailan, he looks away from her and mutters that Cailan's death was his own fault.
    • Loghain's first response to any mention of his crimes is to deflect the blame onto someone else. He left Cailan and the Grey Wardens to die? Cailan killed himself and/or the Grey Wardens goaded him into the charge (which to be fair isn't entirely inaccurate). Loghain allowed the darkspawn to pour into Ferelden since he was too busy igniting and fighting a needless civil war and/or Orlesian border patrol? It's the nobles' faults for not instantly bowing before him. The Warden points out he sold elves into slavery? It's the Wardens' fault because them raising their own army to fight the Blight he wasn't fighting meant it was somehow their fault he stretched his forces too thin and needed the money. Anora sides with the Warden because Loghain's many crimes, madness, and paranoia have finally gone too far for her? They brainwashed her. Only occasionally does he expand his defense to I Did What I Had to Do.
  • Yuuki Terumi of BlazBlue fame zigzags this trope all over the place. You see, it's whether accepting the blame is beneficial to him that determines whether he'll take it or dodge it.
    • Because he requires external observation to retain his existence (for him, being hated is easier), he's willing to accept the blame for screwing up other people's lives. This includes creating the Black Beast (Nine), killing Tomonori in cold blood (Jubei), murdering Nine and Trinity (Valkenhayn, Hakumen, Kokonoe) and everything he did to Ragna and Saya (Ragna, Noel).
    • On the other hand, if the consequences of accepting blame are harmful to him, he's all too willing to distort the truth of the affair, up to and including attacking (with intent to kill) any potential witnesses. See the affair of "Ministerial Secretary to Jin Kisaragi" as proof; he would rather tell Tsubaki that Noel stole the seat from her than admit his own role in the affair (also, she was Jin's sec in another world, but he left to chase Ragna anyway, one instance had her jump ship to Zero Squadron just to pursue him, and she winds up dead in the end) because (a) he'd rather keep an anti-Observer weapon pointed away from him and (b) he needs an anti-Hakumen shield close at hand. And the first spoilered bit is all the reason he needs to kill Makoto... amongst other things.
  • Huey Emmerich, as of Metal Gear Solid V: The Phantom Pain, is this to a T. When he is called out for his crimes: helping XOF destroy the MSF and the original Motherbase, helping Skull Face create the ST-84 Metal Gear, causing the Vocal Cord parasite mutation that resulted in the deaths of dozens of Diamond Dog's personnel, try to use his son in a weapon experiment, and for murdering his wife; he refuses any blame. He tells outright lies (such as claiming that his wife had committed suicide or that he was not aware of XOF's attack until it had started), shifts the blame onto someone else (trying to blame Venom Snake for the deaths of the Diamond Dogs personnel even though Snake had only killed them to prevent the spread of an infection caused by Huey, or claiming that Kaz was the traitor because he had contacts with Cipher in the past), or, after being caught out in the lie, tries to claim that he had done the right thing anyway (he claims that MSF and Diamond Dogs were just bands of murderers that needed to be destroyed).
  • The Legend of Dragoon: This shows up in Haschel's backstory of him being a lousy parent. As her martial arts master, he pokes and pokes at Claire to be more aggressive until she accidentally kills her sparring partner. Then he accuses her of "planting a murderous intention in her fist." No, what happened on his watch, as a result of his words to his student, wasn't his fault. By the time the game proper has started, he's realized this and his entire motivation is to track her down so she can forgive him.
  • Garrosh Hellscream in World of Warcraft infects his men with the Sha and when they all succumb, blames Anduin who up to that point, had done nothing beyond telling Garrosh he was making a grave mistake. He also orders an attack on the Alliance fleet in Twilight Highlands, despite both parties being present to fight the Twilight's Hammer, and then tells his men that the Alliance attacked first. In the final confrontation with Thrall, he accuses Thrall of leaving him to rule the Horde in spite of the fact that he wasn't ready, conveniently forgetting that Thrall had given him respected Horde leaders to advise him, whom Garrosh then proceeded to alienate and/or try to kill.
  • Mighty No. 9: The entire plot happened because years ago Gregory Graham tried to use Trinity to get ahead of weapon development, only to be stopped by Dr. Blackwell, who was incarcerated so Graham could avoid being arrested. Years later, he tries again and Trinity basically causes the robot apocalypse. He tries to shift blame to anyone he can think of, from Trinity's creators to his own parents.
  • In the Golden Ending of Crash Bandicoot: The Wrath of Cortex, Uka Uka attempts to blast Cortex, but he ducks out of the way and Uka Uka ends up hitting a part of the space station that causes a chain reaction. Uka Uka is quick to say that it's Cortex's fault for not letting himself be killed.
  • In Saints Row: Gat Out of Hell Satan blames Vlad the Impaler for the failure of one of his attacks on Heaven, as Vlad was the General he nominated to lead his forces. This is despite the fact that Vlad correctly predicted the attack would end in failure and tried to point out the multiple tactical flaws involved, but Satan ignored him and insisted the attack should go ahead regardless.
  • In Star Trek Online's "Delta Rising" expansion, one mission has the Player Character attempt to broker peace with the invading Vaadwaur. When Vaadwaur leader Gaul learns this means ending his invasion (as opposed to you joining him in conquering the quadrant), he loses his temper and starts massacring Talaxian civilians at the space station where you're holding the talks, then accuses you of laying a trap when Admiral Tuvok arrives with Turei reinforcements.

    Visual Novels 
  • Ace Attorney — both humorously and seriously:
    • In the third case of the first game, Gumshoe blames Phoenix for Edgeworth's state of depression. Maya aggressively counters "If he's depressed it's all your fault for doing sloppy detective work!" this leaves an embarrassed and humbled Gumshoe lost for words.
    • Justice for All:
      • Edgeworth puts Franziska down for "Still blaming others when things go wrong".
      • Matt Engarde displays no Psyche-Locks when questioned about the death of his rival. Though Exact Words probably played a small part in it - he hired an assassin rather than doing the deed himself - it's still heavily implied that he actually thinks this absolves him of any guilt, at least legally speaking. On top of that, his motive for doing so was that his rival was going to 'ruin his reputation' over the fact that he'd deliberately driven his ex-girlfriend to suicide (not that the rival, who'd dumped her after learning of her past relationship, was completely blameless either, but Matt treats the entire affair like it was just another way of one-upping the guy).
    • Trials and Tribulations:
      • Played seriously in the final case of the game. Godot blames Phoenix for Mia's death, despite the fact that there was nothing he could do to prevent it. Godot then blames Phoenix for Maya currently being in danger, when it was actually his plan (that he didn't tell Phoenix or Maya about) to save Maya that put her in that situation in the first place, also resulting in the death of her mother. At the end of the game, he admits that it wasn't Phoenix's fault, and that he just needed someone to blame. He also admitted that if he had come to Phoenix in the first place, Misty Fey would still be alive.
      • Dahlia Hawthorne blames everyone but herself for literally everything that was screwed up with her life. The fake kidnapping plot is apparently Valerie's fault for revealing it and Terry's fault for not getting hanged for it rather than Dahlia's for starting it in the first place. She also blames Mia for getting her to prison because she did her job and defended innocent man, rather than the fact that Dahlia murdered someone.
    • Every time the prosecutors lose, they cut Detective Gumshoe's salary.
    • Mr. Reus from Spirit of Justice blamed Magnifi Gramarye for throwing him out troupe Gramarye, which he did because Reus went to perform after being specifically told not to, after he screwed up and burned himself during practice.
  • Monokuma from Danganronpa traps 15 students in a school, explains that the only way for them to escape is to start killing each other, and then if they don't, starts providing incentives for them to do so and generally psychologically tortures them until the body count rises. If he's ever called out on this, though, he'll act offended that anyone would even think to make such an accusation. After all, they're the one's doing all the killing. This escalates in the sequel, where his "incentives" include infecting a good chunk of the cast with a personality-altering disease and then withholding food until until somebody dies.

    Web Animation 
  • Homestar Runner: In the Strong Bad Email "long pants," Strong Bad edits down a lengthy email into nothing like what it was originally (by drawing on his laptop's screen with white-out fluid), then blames the sender when Homestar appears wearing Daisy Dukes and later freaks out over a remark regarding his apparent lack of pants (and The Cheat for covering his screen in white-out fluid).
    Original email: Why doesn't homestar ever wear pants? It's kind of creepy how he walks around with no pants on all the time. Anyway, I think you should get him some pants...
    Edited email: Why wear pants? Creepy pants all the time get some...
    Strong Bad: Noice work, Clanky. You made Homestar go nuts, and you've seriously creeped me out. And how am I supposed to get this crap offa here? Stupid... made-up technology... that I made up... paint pen... The Cheat! Call tech support and tell 'em you broke the Lappy again!
  • Red vs. Blue:
    • Caboose will often quip "Tucker did it" whenever something bad happens — regardless of who is actually to blame.
    • He later fumbled a grenade toss, leading to this immortal exchange:
      Washington: That, was the worst throw. Ever. Of all time.
      Caboose: Not my fault. Someone put a wall in my way.
    • Caboose once switches from gloating to this mid-sentence when things suddenly go south after he stops Tex from curb stomping the Reds and Tucker:
      Caboose: I did it! I beat up the girl! I—Not my fault! Not my fault! The computer made suggestions! And the default option was yes!
  • In If the Emperor Had a Text-to-Speech Device, the Emperor manages to deal with everything he's accused of by shifting the blame for it on either Chaos gods or fucking Horus.
  • Friendship is Witchcraft deliberately parodies this with Twilight Sparkle. In this universe, she's a psychotic narcissist who only cares about becoming a princess; as such, she refuses to believe that anything she does is wrong, often blaming Spike for things she clearly messed up. One episode even goes into her memory and shows that she willfully misremembers things just to make Spike look bad.
  • RWBY:
    • During her first day at Beacon, Ruby accidentally trips over some luggage, attracting the ire of the owner, Weiss. Weiss rants about Ruby's carelessness because the luggage contains highly volatile Dust. While complaining, Weiss shakes one of the Dust vials from the luggage. Some of the powered Dust puffs out into the air causing Ruby to sneeze. The sneeze sets off the Dust which explodes in Weiss's face. Weiss holds Ruby entirely responsible for the incident despite the fact it was Weiss who shook the volatile material in the first place.
    • Raven's bandits attacked Xion village, leaving it in a vulnerable state that attract the Grimm. Unable to defend themselves after the bandit attack, the Grimm destroys the village. When Qrow points out Xion's final fate to her, Raven's only response is to say that she didn't know the Grimm would attack so soon, which dismisses Qrow's point that she caused the suffering the Grimm were responding to.

    Web Comics 
  • In Motherly Scootaloo and its spin-off, although Rain Catcher does admit that he made a few mistakes, he blames Scootaloo for it overall, even though he was the one who gave her the idea, saying it would make her "cool", and pressured her into continuing when she had second thoughts at the last minute.
  • Girl Genius:
    • Silas Merlot is sentenced to work on Castle Heterodyne, a punishment reserved for particularly nasty criminals, after an incredibly lengthy situation involving indirectly killing someone important to Baron Wulfenbach's plans for running his empire, and later deliberately killing many, many people to hide the evidence of what they worked on. Since Agatha (who Merlot has despised as long as he's known her) was either at the center of, or even the specific subject of, every stage of the situation, Merlot decides that it's all her fault for being born in the first place.
    • Gil Wulfenbach has a bit of trouble with this too; his part in the above situation was to defend himself. Unfortunately, "defending himself" meant swatting a bomb away, and more unfortunately, "away" meant "back at the guy who threw it, who was the one who was important to the Baron's plans". For the rest of the scene everyone shouts at Gil for killing Dr. Beetle, and Gil eventually gives up on impotently crying that Dr. Beetle threw a bomb at him. It occasionally comes up afterward, because a lot of people seem to have heard the "Gil killed Beetle" part but not the rest:
      Random Person: You killed Beetle?
      Gil: He threw a bomb at me!!
    • Othar Trevveyson, GENTLEMAN ADVENTURER! is this for his relentless conviction that he's the hero, and should therefore have Protagonist-Centered Morality. In the Revenge of the Weasel Queen "radio drama", the Queen pours out her Tragic Villain backstory to him and as good as says she wants to reform and he can help. Othar, only half-listening, assumes this is an evil subterfuge and declares he will "do whatever it takes to destroy you!" When the Weasel Queen responds "Fine! Just ... fine!" and Othar is surrounded by killer rabbits, he criticises her for "resorting to violence instead of peaceful discussion".
  • In Strays, in Meela's dreams, after a Stalker with a Crush kills the mother, he sees the child andblames him.
  • The Order of the Stick:
    • This is Miko Miyazaki's downfall; when the gods strip her of her powers for killing Lord Shojo, she refuses to believe it was her own fault and places the blame on a conspiracy by the Order. When she dies, the spirit of the paladin Soon tells her that her inability to admit responsibility for her deeds is one of the reasons she will die unredeemed.
    • Start of Darkness posits that this is Redcloak's major flaw. If he admits that allying with Xykon — let alone making him a lich — was a mistake, then the deaths of all the goblins who aided him in executing "the Plan" will be on his shoulders. During "The Reason You Suck" Speech that Xykon delivers to Redcloak, Xykon bluntly states that Redcloak will never betray him because Xykon is Redcloak's excuse for his inexcusable deeds. Though it turns out that "the Plan" has involved betraying Xykon all along. Redcloak sees Xykon as just a pawn (though he was perfectly willing to let Xykon live until Redcloak killed Right-Eye). A very dangerous pawn who could kill him almost instantly if things go wrong, but a pawn nonetheless.
    • When Sabine's buffs start wearing off because she was given them by a low-level caster, she asks herself whose dumb idea it was to hire an apprentice wizard. Just over a hundred strips earlier, guess whose idea it was?
    • A comedic example is Mr. Jones and Mr. Rodriguez. Whenever they lose a case, Mr. Jones declares that the trial transcript clearly shows that Mr. Rodriguez was representing their client. Mr. Jones proudly noted his 5-0 record, while lambasting Mr. Rodriguez's 0-147... even though the two always work together and it's the same record.
  • Vriska from Homestuck. She initiates a Cycle of Revenge that leaves three of her companions paralyzed from the waist down, blind, and dead, respectively, then she says the other trolls are jerks and weaklings for not wishing to associate with her anymore. She amasses large numbers of pointy dice which she scatters across her floor and never cleans up, and then she says it's just bad luck that she keeps stepping on them. It's only in the last hours of her life that she admits to anyone else that there might be something wrong with her. At one point, she literally demands that Tavros (one of the aforementioned companions) apologize to her for being paralyzed- and she was the one who paralyzed him.
  • Lark in Mike Bookseller will blame anyone or anything to get out of trouble: "Lark, that's a cardboard display of Henry Winkler".
  • In Jack, this is a consistent trait among the damned. None of them will ever admit full guilt in their actions; doing so is actually the first step in getting out of hell, which most of them simply can't take. This is one of the reasons why the damned can't stand angels; easier to blame and hate an authority figure who sent you to hell (even if they didn't) than admit you might actually deserve being where you are.
  • In Dominic Deegan, Siegfried's inability to admit guilt for his misdeeds is ultimately what keeps him trapped in hell.
  • Ollie from Something*Positive considers Davan to be his Arch-Enemy, much to Davan's confusion. Ollie claims that Davan is the reason his theater career never took off, despite the fact that Ollie's big attempt was to put on a play that he hadn't paid the rights to. Davan was involved in the production, but didn't realize that Ollie was breaking copyright law; Ollie's apparently just mad that Davan managed to bounce back from the experience (being hired by the play's would-be sponsor) while he actually had to face the consequences of his actions.
  • In True Believers Joe Quesadilla tells Spider-Man and Mary Jane that he is breaking up their marriage because he thinks she is the reason people are losing interest in the comics. When Spider-Man points out the problem might be Quesadilla's own writing, he quickly defends himself and says that could not be the case.
  • Psionic Minmax in Goblins feels no guilt over the fact that he regularly tortures and kills others in order to advance his plans, because he has convinced himself that the universe itself is to blame if the fundamental rules that govern it allow things like pain and death to occur.
  • In Sluggy Freelance, Zoe has an unusually self-aware example when, after Riff incinerates her laundry, she goes to Gwynn and borrows a low-cut shirt that shows the curse tattoo on her upper chest. When Zoe's fellow students stare at her during a test, Zoe wants to "kill" Gwynn, but then remembers that she chose the shirt herself. Since she knows she can't "kill" herself, she decides she "can always kill Riff."
  • Stand Still, Stay Silent: Emil has been shown to be prone to this. For instance, he blames the teachers for his failure in the public school system after being taught by a Private Tutor that is implied to have coddled him. When he falls in a hole from ninety year old contruction work, he blames the hole's location rather than the attention he was paying to where he was going. The only good news is that when Sigrun tells him he's not working fast enough while actually taking her frustration out on him, Emil sees right through it and rebuffs Sigrun's statement that she will finish the job faster than he will.

    Web Original 
  • Plenty of villains in the Whateley Universe, but the Troll Bride may be the leading contender. Her son Nephandus even warns her repeatedly, but she never listens to him (or anyone else) and then blames everyone else (including Chaka, whom she attacked with superpowers) for failing in her plan, losing a cherished keepsake, and getting banished from Whateley Academy her son's school. Her son does this too. Wonder where he picked up the habit?
  • GameChap is a web series that, at the time of this update, has over twenty-two hundred videos. And in almost every single one of them, Bertie has set fire, crashed, obliterated, or blown up something. And after every incident, over twenty-two thousand incidents, he says one or both of the following:
    "It wasn't me!" "It has nothing to do with me at all!"
  • A_J of AJCO is quick to place blame on those around her when she makes mistakes, and it's always Played for Drama. After Doctor Pi dies in the re-education suite she instantly turns to Egg, who was forced to make the final decision, and places the blame on her despite the fact that she didn't want to let it happen, and despite the fact that Kaja, Crez and Req played an almost equal part in the affair. Egg immediately calls her out on it.
  • Angela and Esmeralda on The War Comms managed to drive Syrius into an epic suicidal depression episode, yet even after being called on it many times and punished for it they still insist it was his fault.
  • If Arin Hanson screws up a puzzle he immediately says that the game is poorly designed, even if the game is designed well.
  • DarkSydePhil! 97% of the time he plays a game and screws up or loses, he will blame the game on lag, a non-existent bug, or any number of other factors that don't involve him. If he's playing multiplayer, he almost always declares the one who beat to be a terrible player who must have cheated.
  • During the Yogscast Minecraft Series playthrough of Voltz, Sjin gets all of the blame from Sips for spawning in a Red Matter Bomb for the purposes of mining copper and nearly destroying the world. While Sjin was responsible for spawning the bomb in and setting it off, Sips had also been spawning stuff in and actively encouraged Sjin to use it, equally ignorant as to its effects.
  • Both Gaea and Omega Zell from Noob are good at putting blame on other people, especially each other. Sparadrap, actually responsible for part of the things that go wrong, is the most frequent recipient of the blame early in the series. The trope comes into play when Gaea complains about the guild fund being empty despite generally taking more out of it than she contributes, or Omega Zell simply screws up and won't admit it.
  • Super Mario Logan:
    • Shrek blames Mario for his own faults, such as clogging up the toilet and using all the toilet paper.
    • In "Bowser's Goldfish!", after Toad flushes Bowser's pet goldfish, Charleyyy Jr. down the toilet and CJ doesn't come back up, Toad blames Bowser Junior for not having a toilet with a fish-catching mechanism.
    • In "Jeffy's Bedtime!", Jeffy blames his pooping his pants on the (nonexistent) monster who lives under his bed.
    • In "Bowser Junior's Nintendo 3DS", Junior blames his broken 2DS on Brooklyn T. Guy, despite Junior breaking it in the first place.
    • In "Jeffy Sleepwalks!", Jeffy is completely convinced that he did not sleepwalk and make a mess.

    Western Animation 
  • The Adventures of Jimmy Neutron: Boy Genius:
    • In the episode "Journey to the Center of Carl", the other kids (mainly Cindy and Libby), blame Jimmy for his sick patch absorbing into their skin even though they were the ones who asked for it in the first place. Though it's still a little justified in that they're practically calling him out on something that he didn't know about the patch until it happened to him at exactly the same time.
    • In "The Vanishing Act", Cindy blames Jimmy for getting him, her, Sheen, Carl, and Betty lost in another dimension behind the vanishing box Jimmy made for his crush Betty Quinlan, despite the fact that Cindy was the one who caused the problem in the first place, which was even lampshaded by Jimmy himself.
    • Let's be honest here. Most of Jimmy's inventions may cause more mayhem than benefits, but he actually tried to warn certain people of a certain invention that may be detrimental. But the others often ignore his warnings and when something actually does cause problems, they end up blaming Jimmy for it instead of just admitting he was right. Sometimes it's because he didn't warn them in a way where they could actually understand him.
  • Adventures of Sonic the Hedgehog: Robotnik demotes Coconuts after being tricked by Sonic, despite Coconuts not being around when it happened. "I'M the boss! I can blame whoever I want!"
  • In the All Grown Up! episode, "All Broke Up", Tommy's friends hear about his girlfriend Rachel moving away and assume that he's hiding a lot of emotional pain about it even when he says to their faces otherwise. After Tommy takes Dil's advice to "give them what they want", he pretends to have trouble getting over the loss of Rachel to try and get his friends to stop bugging him. Tommy's friends arrange for Rachel to come back, unaware that Tommy has started dating Anita. Both girls get angry at Tommy and leave him. Finally, Tommy's friends turn on him too, though they instigated the issue.
  • Aqua Teen Hunger Force: Master Shake lives this trope to extremes. If he caused something, no matter what, he'll shift blame to anyone in the immediate area. He once wrote a self-help book dedicated to people living like this, and it didn't sell at all. True to Shake, he blames this not on his advice, but Frylock shutting his website down. He often delves deep into Insane Troll Logic to find a way to blame someone else. His protests never fool anyone around him, though, and they often call him out on his behavior; still, he manages to be a Karma Houdini most of the time.
  • Arthur:
    • A crux of the Sibling Rivalry between Arthur and D.W.
      D.W.: (in the "Two Sides of the Story" song) Why do I always get blamed for things I don't do, Mom?
    • In "Arthur's Big Hit",she breaks his model plane despite his warnings and because she thinks it could fly. She blames Arthur for not building the plane correctly before he punches her in retaliation.
    • Arthur gets one in "Sick As A Dog". After Pal falls ill, Arthur instantly accuses DW of causing Pal's sickness, even though it was Arthur who got Pal sick by feeding him candy.
  • Exemplified by many of the villains in Batman: Who didn't have someone other than themselves to blame, might be a better question. Even Bruce blames himself for the death of his parents which was beyond his ability to have stopped. Beautifully pointed out by the DA in The Animated Series episode, "The Trial", when she concludes, "Batman did not create any of you, you created him!" after all of the villains played the trope straight in their testimonies. Subverted when the villains actually acknowledged that Batman was not responsible for the way they turned out, but they were going to kill him anyway just For the Evulz.
  • The Batman featured several villains who became what they were because they refused to take responsibility for their actions.
    • Mr. Freeze blamed Batman and a homeless drifter for his accidental mutation that occurred after stealing diamonds. He even freezes the homeless man in an act of revenge. Batman actually does blame himself for a while, before getting back on his feet and calling Freeze out, saying it was his own fault for what happened.
    • Cluemaster was dedicated to killing three people he perceived as responsible for his humiliation as a child. What actually happened was he kept winning a game show but lost, fair and square, by getting a question wrong. Being a spoiled brat, he had his mother sue the show for being rigged and spend decades plotting revenge while becoming obese. Batman once again calls out his enemy, throwing away a promising future with his vast intellect all for revenge on something he legitimately got wrong on people who don't even remember him.
    • Harley Quinn snaps and becomes Joker's girlfriend and partner, and desires revenge on the network that cancelled her show. Her show was cancelled because of her insane attitude and unorthodox methods, which include giving advice to a girl to disobey her mother to date a boy she wasn't allowed to see and harassing Bruce Wayne with a jilted ex when Bruce was trying to talk about a charity fund.
  • The Buzz Lightyear of Star Command episode "Plasma Monster" has Mira and XR building a really big gun, which they then use to shoot a laser at the monster of the episode's title. The conversation that follows:
    Mira: Hate to pat myself on the back, but how about that laser shot?
    XR: We fried that monster but good! Ha ha!
    Petra: You idiot! That monster is my boyfriend! (pushes XR down)
    XR: (to Mira) You idiot! That monster was her boyfriend!
  • Camp Lakebottom: In one episode, Suzi and Buttsquat have jet skis. Suzi invites her brother to join her only to close a glass door on him every time he tries to accept her invitation. She blames him when the mechanism that opens and closes the door breaks.
  • Codename: Kids Next Door:
    • This was Numbuh 86's beef in her introduction episode, going hand-in-hand with her Drill Sergeant Nasty and Straw Feminist persona. She constantly blames Sector V (well, the men of Sector V) for everything going wrong in the mission despite the fact it was her overzealousness that hampered their efforts. Thankfully karma stepped in at the end of the episode when she finds out she inadvertently screwed up an undercover mission of another operative (a girl operative at that, and one of the highest ranking ones) and harshly gets chewed out for it.
    • When the Delightful Children have acquired the 4th flavor ice cream, they decide to add sprinkles to it. Numbuh Five tries to warn them not to do it, because it's wrong to add toppings to good ice cream flavor. They ignore her and add it, and they end up causing the cave they're in to collapse. They blame Numbuh Five for tricking them even though she calls them out on not letting her finish her warning first.
    • Numbuh Five's rival, Heinrich, constantly does this whenever something bad happens to him through his own mistakes. Such as in his first episode where he locates a headpiece but is warned by Numbuh Five that any candy he eats will taste like asparagus if he's greedy. He doesn't believe her, puts on the headpiece, turns into a candy monster (just roll with it) and... the curse goes into effect. To which of course he blames Numbuh Five. When he got turned into a chocolate monster while trying to make real live chocolate bunnies. Nope, not his own actions, it's Numbuh Five's fault. But the real kicker is his last appearance where we learn of the "Guatemala Incident" he keeps sprouting on about. He was actually a girl that got turned into a boy due to a curse that took the best attributes a person cared about (in his-er, her case, her beauty) and turned them into caramel. He nearly ate all of them and thought he was stuck like that, thus blaming Numbuh Five for "abandoning" her. Uh... yeah. It's a good thing this brat still has Numbuh Five as a friend after all of this. Though it did work out in the endsince Numbuh Five thought ahead and kept the last piece so she could help him/her return to normal. Though ironically the only reason it took so long to cure was because Heinrich was being too stubborn to listen to reason.
  • Courage the Cowardly Dog: A Running Gag is that Eustace scares or hurts Courage for fun, which results in Muriel promptly bashing him over the head with a rolling pin or whatever else may be handy at the time, after which Eustace angrily demands (or confusingly asks), "What did I do?!"
  • Danny Phantom:
    • Valerie in the Chained Heat episode, though at least Danny has the nerve to call her out on it:
    Valerie: This is all your fault!
    Danny: Right, 'cause clearly the maniac who cuffed us and dragged us in here didn't have anything to do with it!
    • This is Sam Manson's defining character trait. When she screws up, she always blames either ignorance (such as when she accidentally wishes Danny's powers away) or someone else (either Danny, Tucker, Jazz, or even the ghosts).
  • Dexter's Laboratory: In the episode "Game Over," when Dee Dee repeatedly beats Dexter at video games and Dexter snaps and angrily declares that he doesn't want to play games with her anymore, Dee Dee angrily calls him a Sore Loser and storms off, not taking into consideration that the entire reason Dexter snapped at her like that is because every time she beat him at a game, she relentlessly rubbed it in his face.
  • Ed, Edd n Eddy:
    • In "Stop, Look and Ed", the kids are talked into breaking the rules by Eddy, and when Edd finally decides to put an end to this by calling their parents, they all end up blaming Edd when it was their decision to break the rules in the first place. Let's also not forget the fact that they know how Eddy is the mastermind of the three Eds, so there was no reason for them at all to listen to what Eddy told them.
    • While they have a reason to dislike the Eds for their scams, they're the ones who made the decision to pay them for whatever scam the Eds devise and neither one of the Eds forced them to buy their merchandise, so the kids pretty much bring it upon themselves for being gullible enough to fall for the Eds' scams. Though even the Eds themselves are sometimes guilty of playing off of them without thinking about the consequences.
      • In "For Your Ed Only", Eddy blames Edd for getting him and the other two Eds caught by Sarah after she discovers that they have her diary, completely ignoring the fact that Eddy stole the diary in the first place.
      • In "From Here To Ed", Eddy blames Edd for their failed attempt to get back at Kevin after the latter (unintentionally) ruined the Eds' scam.
      • In "Dueling Eds," Eddy drives Rolf into depression when he throws one of his sea cucumber balls at the fence, shaming him. When Edd and Ed nag him to apologise to Rolf, Eddy insists he didn't do anything.
      • Also, in The BPS, Eddy accuses Edd for their scam that caused the injuries to the kids even though it was his scam he came up with.
    • In "The Day The Ed Stood Still", Edd and Eddy dress Ed up in a monster costume, causing Ed to believe he really is one. While Edd is out of the room, Ed attacks Eddy and then smashes out of Edd's garage. When Edd gets back, he scolds Eddy for this, despite it being Edd's idea to put Ed in a monster costume. Eddy even calls him out on this.
  • This trope drives most of the plot in the Elena of Avalor episode "Finders Leapers." During the exploration of the Maruvian Chamber, Esteban goes against Professor Mendoza's warnings to just chip away small portions of the wall and smashes it down, thus freeing one of the Duende; then his refusal to listen to Naomi's insistence that they need a plan allows the Duende to free one of his brothers; and finally, when they try to trap the Duendes to prevent them from freeing the third brother, he springs the trap too early and gets the group trapped in the chamber. All three times, he chooses to blame Naomi rather than accept responsibility, and after the third time, Elena calls him out over it, telling him point-blank that everything that's happened is his fault, not Naomi's.
  • The Fairly OddParents!:
    • In one episode, Vicky causes an avalanche that leaves Timmy and herself trapped in a cave and freezing to death, and then angrily tells Timmy that it's all his fault. Timmy, however, quickly points out that she was the one who caused the avalanche in the first place, and goes off on a "The Reason You Suck" Speech about how Vicky is responsible for all of his misery and how, even if he dies, at least Vicky is going down with him.
    • Timmy himself is not exactly innocent of this trope either, though. It's fairly common for him to blame other people for his own wishes going awry, despite the fact that it's almost always his own lack of foresight that leads to said wishes going awry.
    • In another episode, Timmy's friend AJ gloats over his intelligence, prompting a jealous Timmy to wish himself smarter than AJ. When Timmy starts gloating and showing off, AJ acts as though he's being an obnoxious jerk for no real reason when in fact Timmy probably wouldn't have been showing offnote  if he hadn't been gloating himself. However, AJ subverts this later on when he admits that if he hadn't been so busy gloating, Timmy might have agreed to let AJ help him study.
    • Mary Anne, an old evil godkid of Cosmo and Wanda's blames them for "deserting" her and plans to murder them for it when Timmy wishes her back to life. In perhaps the most extreme invocation of this trope, it turns out that Cosmo and Wanda were either taken away or quit because Mary Anne stole one of their wands, used it to assassinate Archduke Ferdinand and plunged the world into World War I, meaning that all of it was very clearly her fault. Yikes.
  • Family Guy:
    • Brian notes that Peter is a terrible liar. The scene then cuts to Peter and one other man in an elevator. Peter farts. The other man looks at him. Peter's remark? "Um... That was you."
    • Though Meg was already blaming Chris, Peter, mistaking the blame to be directed for having to relocate towards him, also blames Chris... even though it was Peter's fault in the first place for revealing Chris' identity to the crook who wanted him dead.
    • After hitting Brian with his car:
      Peter: I know we're not here to place blame or beat ourselves up, but I can't help feeling like this is somehow Meg's fault.
    • Stewie frequently meddles into Brian's attempts at finding women and gives him bad advice. When it inevitably fails and Brian confronts him, Stewie will always accuse him of trying to blame his incompetence on others. Not that Brian isn't capable of doing this on his own, such as cheating on Rita, his (older) fiancee, with a hot young thing, then saying he just needed one last fling before settling down with her. She doesn't buy it.
    • When Brian is finally able to publish a well-liked self-help book by deliberately pandering to the lowest common denominator of reader, he slowly starts believing his own hype and goes on a talk show to discuss it. While there, the guests eviscerate the book as terrible—but rather than admit his own failings, Brian blames Stewie, who's working as his agent, for booking him on the show. Even at the end when Brian "apologizes" to Stewie, he still acts as if the whole incident was Stewie's fault.
      • This is generally the case for Brian, especially in regards to his writing career and track record with women. He's never willing to say that he's not a very good author or that he can be a jerk to his dates, instead insisting that everyone else has a problem.
  • Fanboy and Chum Chum: Boog and Lenny blame Fanboy and Chum Chum in "Monster in the Mist" for pretending they were the eponymous monster, when in fact it was Boog and Lenny's impaired vision that made them see it. Lenny could be forgiven, though, since his eyesight was handicapped by them.
  • The Fantastic Four (1967): Victor Von Doom blames Reed Richards for the accident that ruined his face. Everything Reed did in this case was warning Doom about some miscalculations and Doom decided to ignore the warning.
  • The Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends episode "Eddie Monster," in which Eduardo runs away, needs to be listed, because in it, Bloo refuses to accept that it's actually his fault Eduardo ran away, and instead blames the others for it. Even at the end of the episode, he tells the big guy that "I am very sorry for all the mean things... that all the others said about you."
  • Futurama does this from time to time.
    • Most memorably after Leela is blinded, she crashes the Planet Express ship through the roof of the building. Hermes, having seen everything, turns to Zoidberg and says: "That's coming out of YOUR pay." Zoidberg is reduced to tears. This is normal for the show, as Zoidberg is the primary Butt-Monkey.
    • Also done by Zapp Brannigan, usually blaming his egregious mistakes on Kif, his beleaguered lieutenant.
      Zapp Brannigan: Prepare to take the blame in 3, 2, 1...
      Kif: Aaah!
    • In the episode, "That's Lobstertainment", Calculon grows vengeful against Bender, Zoidberg, and Harold Zoid for having him fund and star in a bomb of a movie that Bender promised would win him an Oscar. As things get worse for them, Bender puts it this way:
      Bender: Calculon's gonna kill us for sure. And it's all everyone else's fault.
  • Gargoyles:
    • Used for much more serious effect twice in identical instances with two different characters, Demona and Jon Canmore, as each realized (and then immediately denied) the full scope of the consequences of their actions:
    • This is one of Demona's defining character traits — she constantly finds a way to blame humans for her problems, even when things are clearly her own fault. It's Lampshaded in the final episode of the "City of Stone" arc, when the Weird Sisters put her in a trance and ask a series of questions.
      Demona: I will have vengeance for the betrayal of my clan. Vengeance for my pain.
      Brunette Sister: But who betrayed your clan?
      Silver-Haired Sister: And who caused this pain?
      Demona: The Vikings destroyed my clan.
      Brunette Sister: Who betrayed the castle to the Vikings?
      Demona: The Hunter hunted us down.
      Blonde Sister: Who created the Hunter?
      Demona: Canmore destroyed the last of us.
      Sister: Who betrayed Macbeth to Canmore?
    • True to form, once the trance is lifted, Demona wastes no time in declaring "None of this was my fault!"
  • In an episode of House of Mouse, Donald offers to give Mickey the money he needs to pay the club's rent if he'll let Daisy do an act tonight. Mickey reluctantly accepts the offer, but after Donald reveals to Daisy that he paid Mickey to put her on stage, she declines, saying she wanted to get her act because she would be good at it, not out of monetary reasons. As she walks out, Donald complains to Mickey, "Now see what ya did?"
  • This is one of the negative traits of demon sorcerer Shendu and his son Drago in Jackie Chan Adventures. They like to blame their conscripted underlings or Jackie Chan himself for their defeats, and this doesn't fly well with their comrades.
    • In "Queen of the Shadowkhan", Finn, Ratso, and Chow pin the blame of their failure in stopping Jackie from escaping with the archive on the Shadowkhan themselvesnote . Shendu is not particularly happy with this.
    Shendu: The Shadowkhan are my puppets. They do only what I command. Are you suggesting this is my fault?!
  • Lucius on Jimmy Two-Shoes once destroyed every washroom in Miseryville to torment Jimmy...including his own. He immediately hands the detonator he used to Samy and says "Look what you've done!"
  • Justice League:
    • The Atom is battling a (relatively) large nano-machine, and jokingly blames it on his assistant.
      The Atom: He's bigger than my car now, Katie. Personally, I blame you.
      Katie: How can it possibly be my fault?
      The Atom: Because otherwise it would be my fault. That can't be right. I'm a professor.
    • Just like his comics incarnation, Luthor tends to do this. For instance, when he finds out that he's got radiation poisoning from exposure to Kryptonite, he blames Superman for it, despite Luthor being the one who carries the radioactive rock around in his pocket at all times. And before he blames him Superman even states he is willing to do whatever he could to help him.
      Luthor: This is your [Superman's] faut, all of it!
    • Emil Hamilton justifies siding with Luthor by blaming Superman for threatening his life at the end of Superman: The Animated Series. The reason Superman had threatened him is because Hamilton had initially refused to help save a wounded Supergirl's life, due to Superman being treated as a criminal after being temporarily Brainwashed and Crazy, and Hamilton was more concerned about saving his own ass than helping someone he'd previously called a friend.
  • Kaeloo: In the episode "Let's Play Golf", Stumpy says something to Kaeloo shortly before she hits a golf ball. When Kaeloo fails to hit the ball, rather than admit her bad golf skills, she accuses Stumpy of making her lose her concentration by talking. Stumpy even lampshades this.
  • King of the Hill
    • When Hank makes Bobby take up a summer job, which involves him being Buck Strickland's personal caddy. Hank tells him to respect what Buck does and says, which escalates from receiving Buck's prized watch to doing some unethical things, even though he fails to realize what he is doing is wrong and enjoys the perks he mistakenly believes he is entitled to. When Hank is furious over this, he tells Bobby to return the watch, not believing Buck would willingly give it away. When Bobby refuses, Hank responds by telling him to live with him, since he believes he won't stay with him. The episode ends with Bobby getting grounded for the rest of the summer. Now, Bobby, along with Buck, were under serious danger from the people who Buck had tried backing out of giving his lost pool ante (including his watch), but Hank never accounts for any of his own parenting negligence here involving Bobby's said naivete, and that he was indirectly responsible for many of the events that transpired here in the first place, so the grounding just seems wrong and inordinately excessive.
    • Due to her extreme ego, Peggy Hill rarely admits to making mistakes and more rarely takes responsibility for them. She's gone as far as to accidentally kidnap a Mexican girl due to her clearly limited Spanish, accidentally destroyed Hank's jeans and fell for a man on death row's lies about being a student of hers despite clearly being the same age. In almost every occasion this happens, she will attempt to put someone else in the blame (usually Hank) or try to downplay it as something simple (going as far as to compare laundry to surgery). That jeans incident also reveals she's not very good at sewing yet she claims it's the fault of her machine not being good, since Bobby used it without issue.
  • Looney Tunes:
    • In the short The Turn-Tailed Wolf, the Big Bad Wolf gives his nephew a VERY biased account on his encounter with The Three Little Pigs. At times, he even accidentally breaks character while telling the story, making it pretty clear to the audience ( and, by the end of the short, his nephew) that it's a fabrication.
    • 1941's The Trial of Mr. Wolf, taking place in a courtroom trial, has the Big Bad Wolf telling of how he was terrorized by the grandmother of Red Riding Hood, who was after his pelt. The jury is comprised on twelve wolves who are ultimately agreed to finding the Big Bad Wolf not guilty. When Big Bad finishes his testimony, the jury finds it so far-fetched that they're now skeptical.
      Big Bad: (groping) And if that ain't the truth, I hope... uh, I hope I get run over by a streetcar! (a streetcar bursts through the wall and runs over him) Well... maybe I did exaggerate just a little.
  • Miraculous Ladybug: Chloé Bourgeois is an Alpha Bitch who uses her father's status as the mayor as an excuse to make cruel, mean-spirited acts. Her treatment involved mocking Nathaniel for having a crush on Marinette, humiliating Kim after his attempt to ask her out failed and dropping Alix's family heirloom (admittedly an accident, but she didn't care). They would become targets for Hawk Moth to corrupt and would target her on some occassions, but she doesn't have the slightest inkling why because she "did nothing wrong".
  • In Moral Orel, Clay Puppington practically lives by shifting blame. In one episode, he teaches Orel the same (thankfully, Orel didn't keep that lesson for long). Orel counsels Principal Fakey to do the same, regarding Fakey's infidelity. This extends to claiming he's been faithful and accusing his wife of cheating on him and giving him gonorrhea, while he's having sex with the woman who gave the disease, as she tells him it's not that bad. He then states there's no decency in the world and goes home from school to throw her out. With his pants around his ankles the whole way. Clay's penchant for this trope goes so far that he blames Orel when Clay shot him in a drunken state. It's hard to say which is worse, the victim blaming, or that the only time he admitted to shooting Orel, he claimed to be glad about it.
  • My Life as a Teenage Robot: The Crust Cousins have it in for Jenny for getting them arrested by the police. The reason they were arrested: for causing a fire that burned down the school by interfering with Jenny's circuitry while operating a laser, in order to ruin her.
  • My Little Pony Friendship Is Magic:
    • In "Testing Testing 1, 2, 3" Rainbow Dash realizes she's going to fail the Wonderbolts history test, then turns around and blames Twilight for it, even though it was clearly her fault for not paying the slightest bit of attention when Twilight was trying to help her.
    • Lord Tirek hates his brother Scorpan for betraying him... despite the fact Scorpan tried his hardest to get Tirek to join him in performing a Heel–Face Turn with him, and Scorpan only betrayed him when Tirek left him with no other choice and thus Tirek has no-one to blame but himself.
  • NASCAR Racers: Lyle blames Charger for losing his job as a Fastex driver but he was fired because Jack Fassler doesn't approve what Lyle does to earn his nickname as "The Collector".
  • Lucy in Peanuts. In the animated special It's Your First Kiss, Charlie Brown, she pulls the football from Charlie Brown in an actual football game with a game-deciding last-second field goal on the line, and then later (with Peppermint Patty) blames him for missing. (Charlie Brown himself feels let down by this miss, even though it clearly wasn't his fault).
  • Phineas and Ferb:
    • Dr. Diminutive once "borrows" (read: stole) Doofenshmirtz's Schmaltz-inator and uses it for something he is arrested for. He blames Doof for his arrest just because it was Doof who invented the inator.
    • Doof blames Perry for his plans failing, even when he screws them up himself. In "That Sinking Feeling" he curses Perry when his lighthouse rocket ends up lodged in the Evil, Inc. building even though Perry had completely failed to foil him that time.
    • Also, when Doof failed to destroy the adult diaper factory, he blamed Perry despite acknowledging Perry had no role in it whatsoever.
  • The Powerpuff Girls:
    • One episode has a fat cop named Mike Brikowski who, rather than actually trying to fight crime, sits around and eats donuts. When he's fired for being a terrible police officer, Brikowski immediately claims that it's because the Powerpuff Girls are cleaning up all the crime in the city and making the police obsolete, rather than admitting his own laziness and refusal to work (when he sees a news report of himself sleeping on the job, it's implied that he realizes he's at fault, but instead blames the girls out of jealousy towards their competence and recognition). He then tries to murder the Girls for all of this, and tries to back up his actions by saying they make "cops look like bums"—the girls quickly correct him, insisting that they need the police and work with them to fight crime. True to form, the police arrive just in time to save them and arrest Brikowski.
    Brikowski: (about to be taken away) This is just another story of a good cop gone bad.
    Blossom: You're not a good cop gone bad. You're a bad cop gone worse!
    • Princess Morbucks always blames the girls for not accepting her as a Powerpuff Girl, and then blames her father for not giving her enough money for "cool gadgets" (when he seems to give her more each time).
    • One episode features Straw Feminist Femme Fatale, a supervillain who claims she's committing crimes to fight the patriarchal systems of Townsville. She temporarily sways the girls to her views and makes them mini man-haters, but Miss Bellum and Miss Keane help them realize that Femme Fatale isn't noble in the slightest, especially because she hurts and robs other women. When they confront Femme Fatale with their new knowledge, she tries to repeat her old view that men are to blame for what she's doing, when it's really all her own fault for being a jerk.
    • The Smith family, who live next door to the Girls, has this problem. Harold Smith, the family patriarch, dreams of being a supervillain (and is really, really bad at it), so when his wife invites the girls and Professor Utonium over for dinner, he tries "attacking" him with a ray gun that appears to be a common hairdryer. When the girls understandably fight back against the man they think is trying to kill their father, he ends up getting arrested, but his wife is somehow convinced that it's the girls' fault for ruining dinner and not her insane husband's (probably because they were one of the reasons he became a supervillain). This leads to a second episode in which the whole Smith family blames all of their problems on the Powerpuffs (except maybe their son, who claims to hate everything); they decide to become supervillains to fight them, never once considering their own culpability.
    • Blossom is implied to feel this way in "A Very Special Blossom" after she steals clubs to give to the Professor for Father's Day, as seen when she says "That's what drove me to crime!" when the Professor thinks it's his fault she did this for valuing a material possession more than his daughters.
    • When Buttercup is called out by Blossom for making fun of Elmer Sglue for his obsession with ingesting paste in "Paste Makes Waste", Buttercup simply responds with "Why am I the one always blamed for things around here?" Technically, a lot of the other kids were also making fun of him and she fell under their influence, but she might have took it a step further than they did.
    • In The Movie, when the girls enter self-imposed banishment when Mojo Jojo overruns Townsville with monkeys and the Professor seemingly rejects them, Blossom tries to shift the blame onto Buttercup by saying the game of tag that nearly destroyed the city wouldn't have started if Buttercup hadn't (accidentally) pushed Bubbles into the school.
  • Rick and Morty: "The ABC's of Beth", Beth tries to rescue her childhood friend Tommy so that she can prevent his dad from being executed for supposedly eating him. However, she refuses to apologize for the fact Tommy ended up trapped in an alternate dimension Rick created called "Froopy Land" because she pushed him out of jealousy for having a loving dad. She continues to deny that she did anything wwrong, and yet both Tommy and Rick call her out on this.
  • This comes up three (or four) times in the Rocket Power movie "Race Across New Zealand". First, when Otto's dirtboard falls apart and he loses the race to Theodore and Reggie, he blames his loss on Reggie refusing to give him her board. Then, when he loses the windsurfing race to Theodore after Reggie blocked his path to get her dad to notice her, Otto blames the loss on Sam giving him bad directions based on false information supplied by the Big Bad, as well as Reggie blocking his path (though he's not entirely wrong given the above circumstances). When Ray calls Reggie out on the act, she has a moment of her own, blaming her action on her dad shutting her out in favor of Otto. This actually causes Ray to realize that he might have also done this because he really was only focusing on Otto winning in order to get revenge on the Big Bad, which led to what he tried to blame Reggie for.
  • Rupert:
    • In the episode "Rupert and the Missing Snow", Rupert Bear consults Will, chief assistant to the Clerk of the Weather, on why it hasn't snowed in Nutwood. After Will makes the insistence that Rupert is mistaken because the alarms indicating no snow haven't gone off, Rupert finds that the alarms haven't gone off because they weren't plugged in. Will then states that it is his assistant's fault the alarms weren't plugged in. After Rupert points out to Will that he doesn't have an assistant, Will replies that his lack of an assistant is why it is his assistant's fault.
    • "Rupert in Timeland" has Rupert's friend Podgy Pig mistake Father Time's machine for a giant vending machine and ends up breaking it. After Father Time finds out what Podgy had done, Podgy blames Rupert for his actions.
    • In "Rupert and the Hedgehog", Rupert ends up carving his father's topiary of a camel into a small hedgehog after his friend Bill Badger ruined it by trying to make changes to it. Bill frequently tries to pin the blame for his actions on Rupert, much to the young bear's ire.
  • The Simpsons:
    • "Bart Star": Homer has a flashback to a floor gymnastics routine. Abe yells "You're gonna blow it" at him... and so he does, and Abe then gets mad at him. To add insult to injury, Abe's bitter condemnation to Homer — immediately after yelling this out — is "This is what I get for having faith in you."
    • In the episode "Rosebud," Adolf Hitler blames losing World War II on a teddy bear.
    • Homer in full Jerkass mode always finds someone else to blame:
      Gabriel: Homer, your problem is quite simple. You're a drunken, childish buffoon.
      Homer: Which is society's fault because...
      Gabriel: It's your fault!
    • When Homer tried to back out of donating a kidney to his dad (whose kidneys Homer was responsible for damaging):
      Homer: Oh, but I don't want them cutting up my soft, supple body! Why didn't someone tell me what I was volunteering for? This is everybody's fault but mine!
    • Sideshow Bob gives a slight variant in "Funeral for a Fiend".
      Bob: I did try to kill the Simpsons. I really did. But I would like to plead not guilty, on the grounds of insanity. Insanity, caused by my persecution, at the hands of (points at Bart) this- young- BOY!
    • In "Pokey Mom", Principal Skinner demands reformed prisoner Jack Crowley paint a cutesy mural on the school wall. Jack, under protest, does as he's told...and it's very poorly received by the crowd. When fingers point at Skinner, to save his own ass he neatly swings the situation around to make it Jack's fault. And then Jack himself does this when he burns both the mural and Skinnner's car in retaliation, the latter of which he does in full public view. Even after that Jack tries to insist that he didn't do it.
    • In "Bart the Lover", Bart plays a prank on Mrs. Krabappel, which affects her more deeply than he expected, and comments "I can't help but feel partly responsible."
    • In "Lisa the Vegetarian", Lisa uses a riding mower to destroy a barbecue organized by her father. She admits her fault, but not completely. Of course, Homer was a bit of a Jerkass to her, but this doesn't justify Lisa's behavior.
      Homer: Ohhhh. Lisa. I was looking for you. I wanted to apologize. I don't know exactly what went wrong, but it's always my fault.
      Lisa: Actually Dad, this time, I was wrong...
      Homer: Oooh!
      Lisa: ...too.
      Homer: Ohh.
    • Summed up by Homer with this quote from "I'm with Cupid". "Guys, It's easy to blame ourselves, but its even easier to blame Apu".
  • South Park:
    • Butters is used to being a scapegoat.
      Butters: It's great, you get to throw rocks at cars and if the driver gets angry, you blame me.
      Cartman: (after sending Butters to the store and then destroying the TV) It was just... I was just... BUTTERS YOU ASSHOLE!
    • Also done in The Movie, as the end of the song "Blame Canada" has the line We must blame them and cause a fuss/before somebody thinks of blaming us! due to them allowing their children to go see a movie with foul language, vulgar jokes, and various other things and blaming Canada for it instead of themselves.
    • In "Proper Condom Use", the parents are angry that the school is not teaching children about sex, something that is usually the responsibility of parents. At the end of the episode, they get called out on that by Chef, as the teachers they pick to explain are Mr. Mackey (who hasn't had sex in decades), Ms. Choksondik (who Does Not Like Men and thinks Sex Is Evil), and Mr. Garrison (no explanation necessary).
    • Butters is often a scapegoat for his own parents. In one episode, Butters is grounded because his dad mistakenly put Hamburger Helper in his milk.note 
    • In "Fishsticks", Jimmy comes up with the funniest joke ever (according to the show, at least) while Cartman is lounging on the couch eating pretzels. Cartman quickly takes half the credit. When Kyle rightly questions Cartman's involvement in writing the joke, Cartman has a flashback and decides that, yes, he did do the lion's share of the work, and Jimmy's the one who is taking more credit than is due. Naturally, he blames Kyle for being jealous. Kyle tells him that Cartman is exactly this trope and is able to easily fool himself. Another flashback later, and Cartman is convinced that he did all the work (while fighting off Jew-bots as the Human Torch) and uses Kyle's logic to convince Jimmy that he's this trope.
    • "Pinewood Derby" has Randy cheat on the soapbox derby race he and Stan are participating in by stealing a hadron collider. After the winning boxcar launches into space and is found by aliens, things escalate into a "Fawlty Towers" Plot where everyone lies about not finding "space cash" while hiding it. When things come to a head, Stan, who never wanted to cheat in the first place, comes clean about the car they used not using the approved items in their kit. Randy praises him for telling the truth before punishing him, clearly not taking any responsibility.
  • The Spectacular Spider-Man: Spider-Man/Peter Parker has his fair share (this being a Spider-Man cartoon and all)
    • In season 2 episode 3 Gwen gives Peter The Look and chews him out for not talking to her after their first kiss at the end of season 1. Petey did try to talk to her, but she was the one who was avoiding him.
    • Harry does this in season 1, claiming that he failed a test "'Cause Pete abandoned me!" In this case, his father Norman actually called him out on it. "You didn't fail because of Peter. Take some responsibility. If you want to pass a test, then study. You want to be popular? Be popular. Take control of your own destiny."
    • Also Sally blaming Peter for Liz breaking up with Flash in season 1, and then in season 2, claiming that he messed up the social order of the entire school.
    • Even Black Cat tears into him in "Opening Night", although this version is much more dramatic than most of the other examples. She yells at Spidey for her father choosing to stay in prison rather than escape with her. The man killed Uncle Ben, and she's crying because he didn't get away with it. Especially unfair, since she expected Spidey to pull off the Heroic Sacrifice to gas the escaped villains.
    • And Harry blaming Spider-Man for Norman's "death" at the end of season two, claiming Spider-Man "should've helped him" despite the fact that one, Spidey had just figured out Norman was Green Goblin. 2. Norman was trying to kill him. 3. Norman had hired the Chameleon to be him to throw Spidey off his tail and lie to Harry. Oh yeah real nice reasoning Harry. note 
    • Also, when they try out for the football team. Harry whines about Peter being better than him in the try outs. He was the one who asked Peter to come along.
    • In general, Harry tends to do this quite a lot, which is likely a trait he picked up from his father Norman, who's catchphrase is "Don't apologize. I never do.". This nearly gets Norman killed in the very first episode where he refuses to apologize to the Vulture for stealing his life's work-while he's being flown above the city and being threatened with a long drop to the pavement. It may be possible to be a Magnificent Bastard and still be Too Dumb to Live, but you have to have to admire his dedication to that principle. note 
  • Spider-Man: The Animated Series:
    • Eddie Brock always blamed Spidey for anything that went wrong with his career as a journalist. Being unable to expose Kurt Konnors as the Lizard was the only thing he could actually blame Spidey. As for the others:
    • "The Spider Slayer": Eddie Brock announced on Jameson's TV network that Spider-Man was Flash Thompson. Sure, Flash might have decided to dress himself like Spidey to scare Peter Parker but it was Spidey's fault Jameson became laughingstock for all his competitors (even FOX). Jameson agreed it was Spidey's fault but fired Brock because he (as far as he knew) couldn't fire Spidey.
    • "Return of the Spider Slayers": Eddie Brock had just got another job as a journalist when a Spider Slayer sent after him by someone who put him (and several others) in the trope's other end. Alistair Smythe blamed Spidey, Eddie, Jameson and Norman for his father's "death" despite it being his father's fault for sending the first Spider Slayer after Spidey and the Kingpin's for being The Man Behind the Man in that case. (Ironically, the Kingpin was sponsoring this revenge) The incident caused Eddie's new boss to believe him to be the trouble Jameson described him to be and fired him. Eddie blamed Spidey for losing this other job despite Spidey's only role in the whole thing was saving Eddie.
    • In the three-part episode "The Alien Costume", Eddie Brock was near the site where a space shuttle crashed and had the chance to photograph Rhino stealing something and Spidey trying to catch him. When Jameson arrived there out of concern for his son (who was one of the astronauts), Brock didn't mention Rhino and lied that Spidey stole something from there and offered photos to prove it if Jameson rehired him. Spider would later confront Eddie and Jameson, telling the truth and demanding Jameson to call off the reward. Jameson didn't believe there was a man in a rhinoceros suit. When Jameson's son recovered consciousness and confirmed Spidey's version, Brock was fired, lost his reputation, his health (he sneezed while muttering about everything he lost), and his apartment (he found a notice of eviction at the door) and blamed Spidey for all those losses.
  • Spider-Man: The New Animated Series has it's fair share (this being a Spider-Man cartoon and all). In the second episode, when Kingpin tricks Spidey into stealing a very important chip, Peter is kidnapped by an FBI agent who interrogates him, and confiscates a videotape of a science lesson that Peter recorded for Mary-Jane, accusing Peter of being involved in Bio warfare. The agent later calls Peter and berates him for wasting time giving him the tape.
  • In the Steven Universe episode Coach Steven, Sugilite blames Pearl for leaving her behind while she was destroying the Communication Hub, stranding her there. She ignores that the reason Pearl took Steven and left was because Sugilite's reckless job was causing debris to fly everywhere and was making it too dangerous for Steven. And Pearl wasn't even responsible for stranding Sugilite- she just escaped through the Warp Pad before a piece of debris (that Sugilite was responsible for) destroyed it.
  • Stretch Armstrong and the Flex Fighters: Gabe has a vendetta against Nathan for stealing his date, Erika. In actuality, Gabe ignored her during the entire date so he could show off around all of the girls at the dance, so she went to Nathan, someone who actually likes her.
  • Superman: The Animated Series
    • Livewire's origin as a villain is a result of this when she, as a Superman-bashing Shock Jock, decided to host a party in the middle of a nasty thunderstorm. Superman literally saves her life by preventing her from being struck by lightning, but she gains her electrical powers in the process. She, of course, blames Supers for "ruining" her life.
    • Also plays a part in Luminus' origin. As LexCorp employee Edward Lytener, he gave Lois Lane information on the company's unethical acts (which cost him his job) not because it was right, but to get her to notice him. When she didn't, he decided to kill her. When stopped by Superman, he turned his murderous attention to the hero for "making a mockery of [him] and [his] work." Yes, Eddie, it's totally Lois's fault you got fired and she won't date you. And how dare Supes stop you from burning her to a crisp with lasers?
  • SWAT Kats:
    • As revealed in the Origins Episode, when Chance and Jake (a.k.a. T-Bone and Razor) were still in the Enforcers, they were pursuing Dark Kat with their jet, only for Feral to order them to fall back and leave Dark Kat to him. When they refused, he actually knocked their jet out of the sky and into Enforcer headquarters, causing significant damage to the building and allowing Dark Kat to escape. Feral flat-out refused to acknowledge that the entire mess was his fault for interfering in the first place, even after Chance point-blank told him so, and placed all the blame on Chance and Jake, kicking them off the force and sentencing them to work at the salvage yard until they pay off the damages. It actually makes Chance and Jake upstaging him as the Swat Kats throughout the series very satisfying.
    • Chance and Jake themselves pull this off in the second episode of the series, though. They manage to capture a villain named Morbulus, but decide to simply dump him in the sea so the Enforcers could pick him up there, this despite the Enforcers not being near them yet and the area where they dumped Morbulus being close to a rocky shore with access to the sewers. Naturally, Morbulus easily escapes into the sewers, and Feral calls the Swat Kats out on it. The one time Feral is right about them screwing up, they get angry and blame him for it (though not to his face), and to take it even further, even Callie blames Feral for what was clearly the Swat Kats' fault.
  • Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (2012):
    • In a first season episode, after being turned into Spider Bytez, Vic attacks the Turtles in a rage, blaming them for his mutation. However, if he hadn't been acting like such a Fat Bastard to them throughout the episode, and screwed up their attempt to save him from the Kraang, he never would have come in contact with the mutagen in the first place.
    • In the second season, Mutagen Man begins blaming the Turtles for his transformation into this horrific Blob Monster, except that he ended up that way despite their attempts to stop him deliberately exposing himself to mutagen. It may be justified, since it's implied that his mutation has destroyed his sanity.
    • Michelangelo has a habit of this. Such examples include saying that Donatello shouldn't have trusted him with the T-Pod in "I Think His Name is Baxter Stockman" (something Mikey himself wanted to test) and drinking Retro-Mutagen and blaming Donatello for not telling him that it was dangerous (the container of which had multiple signs on it telling Mikey specifically to not drink it) in "Mikey Gets Shellacne."
    • Shredder adamantly refuses to take responsibility for any of his actions, whether it be the death of Tang Shen or Karai/Miwa being transformed into a snake mutant, blaming both on Splinter even though they're both clearly Shredder's own fault. Even when he's pumping multiple mind control worms into Karai's head, he still blames Splinter and the Turtles for "bringing such pain" upon her. Also, more recently, after Splinter's death is averted in "Earth's Last Stand", he states that it is because of Splinter that Karai is gone.
  • Thomas the Tank Engine frequently shows railwaymen screwing up, causing no end of crashes and delays. But the engines will nearly always be blamed for it.
    • In "Thomas Comes to Breakfast", Thomas crashed through the station master's house because a cleaner had fiddled with his controls, but the Fat Controller still chewed Thomas out for it.
    • In the episode "One Good Turn", both Bill and Ben blame each other for the incident with the turntable, when the narrator very clearly said that it was the foreman's mistake.
    • Even Sir Topham Hatt ends up in this certain situations. In "Hiro Helps Out", Sir Topham Hatt scolds Hiro for giving the engines the wrong jobs, and Hiro responding that Sir Topham Hatt was too busy to answer, and didn't want to bother him. The problem was that Edward did ask the controller earlier about what he was suppose to do, with Sir Topham saying he was too busy.
    • Averted in "Wayward Winston". While Sir Topham Hatt scolds Winston for rolling away, he also admits that it's partially his fault for not putting the brake on.
  • Played for Drama in Transformers Animated:
    • Sentinel Prime hates Optimus Prime because Optimus was unable to save Elita-1 from the giant spiders on an alien planet, even though it was Sentinel's idea to go to the planet and search for the energon that made the spiders huge in the first place.
      Sentinel: I'm sorry too. Sorry we ever went to that stupid planet in the first place. Besides, it too late for apologies now, Optimus. Too late for all of us.
    • There's elements of this in Blackarachnia's behavior too. Even though she was just as eager to go to the planet and is strongly implied to have been responsible for talking Optimus into going, she lays all of the blame on Optimus. Oddly, she doesn't ever seem to hold as much of a grudge against Sentinel, even though it was his idea in the first place.
  • Wander over Yonder:
    • Brad Starlight thinks he's a hero who is following a prophecy to save a princess and marry her. He's actually her stalker who won't take no for an answer and gets beaten up, by her of all people. He refuses to admit he was wrong about everything. He also places all the blame on Wander, despite that Wander was actively helping him but only stopped helping when Brad was revealed to be a delusional fraud and didn't do anything else after that.
    • One of Lord Hater's main flaws. He blames his losing status as a villain and lack of arsenal on par with Lord Dominator's on Peepers, rather than his wasting his resources on trivial things or his obsession with destroying Wander. Peepers has to call him out on it.

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