Mr. Satou: "So you would prefer to live with two cripples instead of with your own family?"
Alice explicitly insults Bob... without realizing that the insult applies equally well to Charlie, whom she most certainly did not
mean to insult. Why did she do it? Maybe she didn't think in the heat of the moment
, Charlie sneaked in, or Charlie has been hiding the trait that Alice unknowingly insulted. Charlie bears the full brunt of Alice's insult plus the sting of having a friend do so (whether knowingly or not).
Alice may attempt a Verbal Backspace
by saying "Present Company Excluded
" or "No offence [intended], Charlie."
See also Insult Backfire
, Insult Misfire
and You Know I'm Black, Right?
. Also compare Oblivious Guilt Slinging
and Insult to Rocks
. Not to be confused with Friendly Fireproof
If that insult actually hurts, it's Weapons-Grade Vocabulary
. If Charlie is surprisingly unaffected, it's a Milholland Relationship Moment
Compare Oblivious Mockery
, which is more humorous.
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Anime and Manga
- In Naruto, Sakura insults the main character for being an orphan, claiming that his Bratty Half-Pint nature is due to him not having parents to discipline him, not realizing that Sasuke, standing right there, was also an orphan.
- Vampire Knight has the protagonist telling another character that she understands now about how vampires can be seen as subhuman beasts to be exterminated like vermin, only to find out about half a minute later that he's a vampire himself. She later feels incredibly guilty about this, despite the fact that the other character gave no indication he'd even heard her (he was distracted enough at the time that he might not have), let alone cared or disagreed.
- It's A Dangerous Business, Going Out Your Door: While complaining to Applejack about how she can't keep up, Rainbow Dash adds that Rarity can't even teleport. Problem is, Twilight's attempts to teach her how caused her accident, and Rarity was already blaming herself for it... so overhearing Dash claiming her inability to teleport makes her The Load doesn't help one bit.
- In Lilly Epilogue Family Matters, Lilly Satou loses her temper with her father over him repeatedly referring to her boyfriend Hisao (who has arrhythmia) and her best friend Hanako (who has scars on almost half of her body) as "cripples", saying that he should consider her one too, as she is blind. He responds by accusing her of putting words in his mouth.
- There was a Tekken fanfic written several years ago in which, in one chapter of the tournament, Hwoarang was matched up against Nina Williams. He doesn't like her, so before the match he announces to an audience how much he thinks "my opponent" sucks, including insults that imply she's a whore, that she's weak, etc...the thing is, there's been a last-minute change-up in opponents (Hwoarang didn't get the memo), and Hwoarang has just ended up insulting nice girl Xiaoyu instead of Nina. Xiaoyu is driven to tears by the speech. (This matters because in the fanfic he and Xiaoyu are friends.)
- Any Twilight/Harry Potter crossover has at least a ninety percent chance of recreating the scene where Jessica tries to disparage the Cullens by talking about their being adopted, with Harry inevitably responding with some variation of "Bitch, I'm an orphan."
- In the Vorkosigan Saga story "Winterfair Gifts", Armsman Roic tells his new friend Taura about an encounter with a swarm of gene-modified bugs, and winds up with a comment about exterminating the grotesque genetically-engineered monsters — having temporarily forgotten that Taura is herself a grotesque genetically-engineered monster.
Live Action TV
- In Smallville, Clark has to say that he is a Kryptonian too multiple times when his parents or Chloe comment on how all of them are bent on death and destruction.
- In Friends, Ross and Rachel are having a fight in front of everyone. In an effort to attack Ross, Rachel refers to a previously raised issue by saying, "And just so you know, it's not that common, it doesn't happen to every guy and it is a big deal!", at which point Chandler jumps forward and says, "I knew it!"
- In another episode, Joey attempts to criticize the life choices of his pregnant, unmarried sister while not offending the also pregnant, also unmarried Rachel. Eventually, after going back and forth between the two, he gets frustrated and shouts "One pregnant lady at a time!"
- In General Hospital, Maxie does everything to put down Winnifred, calling her a geek with no fashion sense and pretty much belittling her in front of Spinelli. Seeing as how Winnie's basically a female version of Spinelli, you can imagine how he takes it.
- On Criminal Minds, Elle manages to accidentally insult the team's antisocial Boy Genius, Reid, while profiling an UnSub in the very second episode of the series:
Elle: I say student. You need self-confidence to lecture in front of a classroom full of 30 college kids. Arsonists are socially incompetent. This guy doesn’t go on dates, doesn’t go to parties, doesn’t feel comfortable in front of groups....
Reid: (gives Elle a strange look)
Elle: And of course he's a total psychopath.
Reid: Of course.
- Flipped sideways by The Drew Carey Show: While Drew hangs out in his backyard with friends, his neighbor Greg Clemens walks up with a live horse. Drew is not pleased:
Drew: Hey, Clemens. What has four legs, attracts flies, and shouldn't be in my yard?
Greg: *pointing to Drew's friends* Oswald and Lewis.
- In Will and Grace, they both step into this one at the doctor's office when they try to have a baby:
Grace: How about Sheila if it's a girl?
Will: We've been over this, Sheila is the name of a whore.
Grace: (to nurse after Will left) He's right, Sheila is a bit whorish.
Nurse: We haven't been introduced. Hi, I'm Sheila.
Grace: Oh god, I'm so sorry.
- In the Charmed episode "The Wedding from Hell", when Allison and the Charmed ones confront Jade D'mon at her attempted wedding to Elliot, Allison's boyfriend, Jade greets Allison with "Why, you little witch!", to which Piper says "Hey!".
- In The Apprentice, Lord Sugar comments "You know what women are like" (in reference to a group of bickering female candidates). His aide Karren Brady is less than impressed.
- In the Stargate SG-1 episode "Redemption Part 1" O'Neill starts to say the reason he doesn't want Jonas Quinn on the team is because Jonas an alien. Then he realises halfway through the sentence that he is talking to Teal'c who is a team member and somewhat more alien than Jonas.
- In a Peanuts comic during a baseball game, with Lucy in right field:
Lucy: Come on, he's no hitter! He hits like my grandmother!
(A purse hits Lucy in the head from behind her.)
Lucy: Sorry, grandma... It was just an expression...
- Dragon Age II, after Bartrand betrays his brother, Varric:
Varric: I swear I will find that son of a bitch (sorry, mother) and I will KILL HIM.
- Shepard in Mass Effect 2, giving a pep-talk to a krogan, while his/her quarian teammate is present:
I said a badass
, not some scout whining like a quarian with a tummy-ache.
- Joker manages to do this to himself when talking about quarians; only after he disparages people who live aboard ships their entire lives does he realize he's practically welded to his pilot's seat. (It's real leather!)
Ah, I just burned myself. Great."
- In The Elder Scrolls V: Skyrim, it's possible for your Housecarls to proclaim "Skyrim for the Nords!" or other insults at their enemies despite the fact that the person they're serving is a non-Nord (or better yet, a non-human).
- Bobwhite. Ivy is talking with her teacher Frank, and she's worried about not having enough credits to graduate:
Ivy: I'll have to stay here over the summer... How am I gonna do that? I can't take three more months of this shit! What if I still can't pass? What if I end up coming back here year after year for the rest of my life? Um... no offense, Frank.
Frank: No no, I get it.
- In General Protection Fault:
- Ki's father, opposing Nick and Ki getting married, says that he does not approve of a mixed marriage. He is a Japanese man married to a Chinese woman; when Nick points it out, he gets beaten up, and when Ki points it out with her mother in earshot, he quickly loses the argument, and gets Exiled to the Couch even after he apologizes.
- Comes up in a flashback arc when Ki calls Sam out over his insulting Fooker.
Sam: Okay, okay, the guy's a total dork, but I'll leave him alone. He's still a geek, though.
Ki:Well, so am I, so don't forget that.
- Gunnerkrigg Court had the last quip William hurled at Kat applicable to his secret sweetheart. Which resulted in Janet's sharp elbow finding his ribs.
- In The Order of the Stick, while Elan and Nale are fighting, Elan insults Nale's penis. Then Nale points out that since they are identical twins, Elan just insulted himself. Later in the same fights, he calls Nale a bastard, getting the same reaction. See it here.
- In Rusty and Co., Mimic's reaction on seeing a gelatinous cube:
Mimic: Holy Cannoli! A hideous, disgusting, slimy, nasty, dripping, foul, stinking, oozing, loathsome...[realizes that he has a gelatinous cube in his own party]...er...
- In Sinfest, Squigley is shocked by Slick's Heel-Face Turn — next thing you know, he'll be reading nerdy square books — like Crimney does, whom Squigley to talking to.
- ''Twokinds: (Database Error) has a burning hatred of Keidran, which is unfortunate for him when he's paired up with one. It gets worse when it's revealed that the woman he's in love with is also a Keidran, so every time he insults the Keidran he hates, He's also insulting the woman he loves.
- In one episode of Noob, Sparadrap acts completely silly in a situation that is supposed to be taken seriously, in front of a crowd of other players. Arthéon eventually makes him stop and excuses his behaviour by saying "it's genetic". Sparadrap has a younger brother that is much more talented than him and was shown to be pard of the crowd earlier in the episode.
- In Futurama, when Leela reveals that her parents are visiting;
Amy: But they're mutants. They have to stay in the sewers because they're hideous, ugly, gross monsters...err, present company excluded.
- The New Batman Adventures, episode "Knight Time" - Superman and Robin find out that Bruce Wayne is being mind controlled by alien nanites.
- Another example can be found in Young Justice, in which one character (Wally aka Kid Flash in this continuity) makes several disparaging remarks about aliens. Cue to Superboy (Kryptonian) and Miss Martian (obviously a Martian) standing there.
- A weird case in Justice League happened in an early episode when Hawkgirl, Superman, Martian Manhunter and the Flash are traveling through space to see why Green Lantern would surrender so readily to the Manhunters. Hawkgirl says, "You humans are crazy", and then realizes she's talking to Superman, a Kryptonian. Though Superman takes it as a compliment to be lumped in with humanity.
- Sponge Bob Square Pants has Patrick's reaction to Doodlebob in the episode "Frankendoodle":
Patrick: Look at him! He's hideous! That square body, those bulging eyes, those buck teeth, and that stupid tie!
Spongebob: *clears throat*
Patrick: Oh, but it looks good on you, Spongebob!
- My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic: After prankster Gilda in "Griffon the Brushoff" gets pranked herself, she belts out a fierce "Reason You Suck" Speech at the presumed perpetrator, Pinkie Pie. It was really her own best friend, Rainbow Dash, who ends up sticking up for Pinkie.
- In almost every incarnation of Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, the word "Rat" will be used as an insult at some point, with the speaker quickly apologizing to Splinter after he or he does so.
- Batman Beyond: In "The Winning Edge", Terry is on his way to investigate the possibility that Bane is behind the appearance of a new street drug:
Remember, he was a formidable opponent. Be careful. Terry:
Come on; he must be a zillion years old! What trouble could an old geezer... (pause)