The criteria for Unintentionally Unsympathetic says:
"When a character's supposed insecurities or embarrassing quirks are supposed to inspire sympathy, but fail to impress the audience because they're mishandled or plain written badly. It can be made even worse if they have to learn a lesson. Without being at least somewhat invested in the characters, the audience might have passed the point of caring when the character finally comes around."
This is the basic criteria of the trope. There is more after but I am not sure what was present from the start and what was edited in afterwords to expand the definition. This trope is becoming more popular, with the page starting to be split-off into sub pages and such. And like all popular YMMV tropes this is causing an influx of bad examples that are probably just one-sided complaining, shoehorning, and bashing which is not in the spirit of this wiki. You can see this is causing issues just by looking at the pages discussion thread. I felt that the trope needed a dedicated cleanup thread. This way edits can be done without causing edit wars and getting people banned.
Some guidelines if a character or event is Unintentionally Unsympathetic.
1. It has to be unintentional on the authors part. It is in the title. All examples that were intentional on the author's part are disqualified by definition.
2. The example should state exactly why the author or narrative intended the subject to have been sympathetic and why it failed to resonate with the audience. If the example can not clearly state these two points, it is a bad example and needs to at minimum be rewritten.
3. Neutral tone: No insults. I know it is fun to complain about stuff but complaining is not in the spirit of the wiki. So long as one side isn't promoting hate speech examples should be written without taking a side. Examples that are heavily favoring one side or insulting the other side are probably not valid examples.
4. There should be a wide accepted disagreement between the audience and the author to be a valid example. By that I mean that there should be large consensus in the audience disagreeing with the author over why the character is unsympathetic instead of sympathetic. If the audience is too divided and one section thinks agrees with the author and the other doesn't, the example could be a pet peeve of a single person, which isn’t noteworthy.
Lastly, always consider Square Peg, Round Trope and be mindful if the example may fit better under a different trope such as Base-Breaking Character, Broken Base, and The Scrappy. Please visit other cleanup threads if you have questions about tropes that do not involve Unintentionally Unsympathetic.
Feel free to help if you spot some bad examples or can point out more rules for the trope. Or argue with me over the definitions, this is a cleanup thread after all.
MOD NOTICE: As of October 26, 2022, this thread now covers Unintentionally Sympathetic as well.
Edited by GastonRabbit on Oct 26th 2022 at 8:15:48 AM
So, I removed this from YMMV.The Stepford Wives:
- Unintentionally Sympathetic: Roger's more conservative partner is constantly embarrassed by the overly flamboyant and camp Roger. It's not by accident, either; Roger is going out of his way to embarrass his partner and make his political career a joke. When he decides to have Roger go through with the procedure, he's seen as being the bad guy but it's easy see why he was driven to said point.
I removed it because it felt like a big stretch to use that to justify brainwashing your partner because they embarrassed you. However, I am now thinking that I should have brought it here first. Thoughts? Should I add it back or keep it cut?
Fan-Preferred Couple cleanup threadYeah, maybe if there's evidence of that being a common reaction in the fandom it might fit.
Because by itself...well, your partner not respecting your career and intentionally trying to embarrass you are reasons to, you know, stop seeing them, not brainwash them into compliance. I have to imagine for most audiences that would be crossing a line into unsympathetic territory.
There's certainly a type of person who'd sympathize, though.
Current Project: Incorruptible Pure PurenessI looked around online and I couldn't find anyone calling him sympathetic. I mean I found a bunch considering the wives unsympathetic but none who find that specific character sympathetic.
Fan-Preferred Couple cleanup threadThen chop.
Current Project: Incorruptible Pure PurenessI found this on the Brown children.
- Unintentionally Sympathetic: Naughty as the Brown children are, it's hard not to feel sympathy for these motherless children with a workaholic father, no friends, and the threat of a Wicked Stepmother looming on the horizon...
- It's also implied that none of their previous nannies ever cared to get to know them individually.
How is this "unintentional"? I'm pretty sure all the points listed are SUPOSED to make us feel bad for the Brown kids.
This sounds more like it should be under Jerkass Woobie.
Agreed that it doesn't fit and the kids can be seen as Jerkass Woobie.
The Lion Guard's YMMV page has this Unintentionally Unsympathetic entry:
- Unintentionally Unsympathetic: Simba and Nala come across as this for putting the task of leading the lion guard onto their son while he is only a cub. Yes, it is a preschool show and the premise is to appeal to younger kids, so the lion guard itself is made up of children. But taking into account that Simba and Nala are putting the massive burden and responsibility of protecting the Pridelands and leading the guard on Kion while he was only a cub, without proper training or preparing him for such a role, does not reflect well on them as parents. Effectively speaking, Kion was stripped of his childhood for the most part, having to focus on his new responsibilities as guard leader. Said role involves him being placed in a ton of life-threatening situations daily (including the various predators he must fight against) and has a mountain of responsibility and pressure put on his back. While he has the Roar to aid him in times of need, the fact Simba and Nala are willing to put their young son's life at risk like this routinely is rather jarring, especially given how protective of their daughter the films depicted them to be. Further adding salt to the wound is the fact that, while they are supportive of Kion, they are rarely around to actually help him and are routinely gone whenever danger shows up, and at times effectively outsource some of their own responsibilities to their children.
To add some context here, the troper who wrote this entry apparently considers Simba and Nala to be abusive parents who forced their son to become a child soldier and care very little about him. This interpretation of their characters has already been debunked in the "Is This An Example?" thread, where it was determined that they don't fit the criteria for abusive parents, and most of the edits Biohazzard made (to The Lion Guard's main page, character page, and YMMV page) pushing this idea have already been deleted. This is the last one left (except for the show's fridge page and headscratchers page), so I thought I would get a second and third opinion here about whether or not this entry should be cut.
Edited by TheCoolKat1995 on May 2nd 2024 at 11:55:30 AM
I can refute it right away by asking if we're meant to "sympathize" with them. There's nothing to feel sorry for narratively.
Current Project: Incorruptible Pure PurenessI think the sympathetic part might be the effort to protect the pride from danger, but I doubt if this is more than the typical Fridge Horror associated with being a Kid Hero.
I do some cleanup and then I enjoy shows you probably think are cringe.I guess my thought is, if there's no actual discourse or even any evidence that we're supposed to feel one way or another about Simba and Nala, it doesn't really count. Like they're really just putting the plot in motion; it doesn't seem like something that the actual show would even dwell on.
Current Project: Incorruptible Pure PurenessThis is a preschool show, so the writers are going to find a way to put a Kid Hero front and center.
Yeah I don't think they count. We aren't really supposed to feel either way about them.
Fan-Preferred Couple cleanup threadThat and the entry just feels like complaining.
In honor of Akira ToriyamaWell, the consensus here is pretty clear, and the entry in question will be cut.
Thanks for all the feedback, everyone.
Thank you for your good work.
Discord: Waido X 255#1372 If you cant contact me on TV Tropes do it here.I found this on YMMV.Dead Boy Detectives 2024
- Unintentionally Unsympathetic:The audience is supposed to sympathise with Crystal for all the problems she faces due to the demon that has tormented her and encourage in her mission to recover her memories. Unfortunately many fans don't feel sympathetic to her plight due her of centering around her personal goals rather than trying to accommodate to others, being inconsiderate of Charles's romantic feelings, often withholding important information until most are forced to discover it, and her reckless actions that endanger the lives of Jenny and Niko.
I am not sure this was accidental. Like that main goal of her finding her memories. It results in her remembering that she was like a horrible person. So, I think these were like foreshadowing for that and the catalyst to her arc. I am not 100 percent sure though and would like more opinions.
Edited by Bullman on May 2nd 2024 at 7:51:29 AM
Fan-Preferred Couple cleanup threadIt's also just a very poorly written example. The grammar is such a mess that I'm not sure of what some sentences are even saying.
But yes, it sounds like this is Character With Deliberate Flaws and those being listed instead of explaining why the attempts to make her sympathetic failed. I'd know more if I saw the show, but that's the best I can do for now.
Although I kind of think it's early to make this kind of judgment in any case, because the show's only been out for a week.
I tried to clean it up honestly but it was just oddly written to begin with.
Fan-Preferred Couple cleanup threadGranted, I think characters with intentional flaws can count if they're a botched attempt at a Jerkass Woobie, but that's not as common as these examples would have you believe. At the very least they should say why we're supposed to feel sorry.
Current Project: Incorruptible Pure PurenessYeah that is another thing. It says we are supposed to feel sorry for her but doesn't really explain why we are.
Fan-Preferred Couple cleanup thread
This entry from the Pokémon page seems to argue against itself. Should we delete the entire entry or just the counterexample?