"I got some news for you
And you'll soon find out it's true
And then you'll have to eat your lunch all by yourself"
— Eagles, "Already Gone"
When someone is eating lunch alone in a communal context (school, army, etc.), it means he or she is being actively shunned by everyone else, or the student is the New Kid and has not yet made any friends
. It rarely ever means that he chose
to eat lunch by himself. Often, their return into the fold will be symbolized by someone else accepting to have lunch with them. Or if they keep their outcast status, having lunch with them will be a sign of independence of mind and refusing to follow the herd.
May end up being the fate of the Alpha Bitch
when her poor treatment of others comes back to haunt her.
Very much Truth in Television
. There are introverted people who enjoy the solitude, and even extraverts with normal social lives are known to do it for various reasons. More rarely, there are numerous anxiety disorders that can make one extremely self-conscious and uncomfortable about having others watch them eat.
Related to I Just Want to Have Friends
and sometimes to Intelligence Equals Isolation
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Anime and Manga
- In Sailor Moon, Makoto is seen eating her absolutely delicious and abundant lunch alone since everyone fears her for her huge height and bad reputation. Then Usagi bursts in and Mako lets her have some of it.
- Ai Haibara in Detective Conan claimed she was that. As a Child Prodigy, it is of course due to Intelligence Equals Isolation.
- In The Prince of Tennis, Kaidou Kaoru always eats lunch alone... the the point that the other students in his class scoot their desks away from his in order to give him a wide berth. In this case, it's not so much that he's shunned as that everyone is scared of him/creeped out by his aloof attitude. It doesn't help that he eats his mother's very high-quality traditional food in an overly reverent manner, which freaks them out.
- In the beginning of CLANNAD, Nagisa Furukawa is eating lunch alone at school, because she's repeating her last year, so she doesn't know anyone in the current senior class.
- Sasameki Koto: Back in middle school, Kazama ended up eating alone (until Sumi suddenly joined her) after she accidentally outed herself to her friends.
- Justified in a Tear Jerker way in Angel Beats!. Due to the system that the afterlife works in, Angel will always eat alone since being friends with her is automatic grounds to Ascend to a Higher Plane of Existence. This picture sums her life up◊, and for all we know, she may have lived this "life" for years.
- Granted that this was the implication, not the truth, as the members of the of the main cast found out when they befriend her, it still takes quite a while before they're able to 'move on'. She would eat alone because the people she wanted to help were antagonistic towards her instead.
- Bleach: Uryuu Ishida does this early on, and objects to being invited by Ichigo to eat with others.
- In Umineko no Naku Koro ni, Ange essentially eats lunch by herself every day because she is constantly shunned and bullied by the other girls at her private school. However, she uses this time to read her cousin Maria's diary, which she sees as a way of communing with her, and later learns to summon magical beings, Sakutarou and the Seven Sisters of Purgatory, to keep her company. Depending on your perspective, this is either genuine magic and a great source of happiness for the long-suffering Ange, or a truly pitiable case of someone who has to resort to deluding herself just to stay sane.
- Rei from Sangatsu No Lion is usually eating alone on the stairwell to the roof of the school or the roof itself, since he's yet to forge any bonds with his classmates. Only Hayashida, his teacher, comes up to eat with him on occasion.
- Yuuta of Chuunibyou Demo Koi ga Shitai! in his middle school years, due to his All of the Other Reindeer treatment (for being a Cloudcuckoo Lander due to his teenage delusions of grandeur). Thus he treats Makoto's offer to eat lunch with him in the first episode as a good start.
- In the beginning of Ao Haru Ride, Yuuri ate lunch by herself outside, even in cold weather, since most of the girls in the class don't like her.
- Chihiro and Yugami, who sit next to each other, both do this in Yugami-kun ni wa Tomodachi ga Inai. In the former's case, she's a New Transfer Student that's yet to make friends, while the latter insists on invoking this trope. He's rather displeased to discover Chihiro is eating lunch beside him.
- Smax in Top 10 initially eats lunch alone by choice.
- Dead Kid Fred in The Intimates is a zombie, and is generally found repulsive by the other students at his Superhero School, forcing him to spend lunch hour effectively alone. He does have some company, but it's just Sykes, a walking vegetable who can't talk.
- The Blind Side: Except it's not lunch, but study hall: Michael always sits alone, until Collins leaves her study table to sit with him instead.
- Used twice in Mean Girls. On her first day of school, Cady Herron eats lunch alone in the restroom. Later, after her fall from popularity, she has to return to brown-bagging in the bathroom.
- Private Santiago is shown eating alone during the montage that sums up his miserable experience in the Marines in A Few Good Men.
- It doesn't seem to hurt Peter in Spider-Man.
- In Superbad there's a throwaway joke that depends on the viewer's understanding the mythos surrounding Eating Lunch Alone. Seth and Evan are eating lunch together when Evan gets up, claiming he has to leave. Seth protests, "You want me to eat lunch alone like I'm fuckin' Steven Glansberg?" and gestures to another table. We get a brief shot of a lone kid gazing into the middle distance and taking a pensive forkful of his canned peaches; then it's back to Seth and Evan, and Mr. Glansberg is never seen or heard from again.
- In Smart People, Vanessa Wetherhold (Ellen Page) eats alone during lunch. Though her outcast status seems self-inflicted, as she refers to others as stupid, often, to their face.
- The protagonist Brendan Frye eats alone, though he does it by choice.
- His friend also says that he finds lunchtime difficult, presumably for this reason.
- George McFly, in the first Back to the Future.
- Toula in My Big Fat Greek Wedding ate lunch alone as a child.
- Momoko in Kamikaze Girls is shown eating her (utterly adorable) lunch alone.
- Both played straight and subverted in How to Train Your Dragon, where Hiccup first eats his food alone in the great hall, then ends up literally mobbed when he starts doing very well at dragon training.
- In the Disney Channel Original Movie Brink, after the title character has a falling-out with his friends, he approaches them one day while they're eating lunch and says, "Can I sit here?" They all say yes... and then as soon as he sits down they get up and leave him there.
- Deb in Napoleon Dynamite, when Napoleon awkwardly compliments her. Napoleon himself would be, if not for Pedro.
- In Easy A, this happens to Olive after she's become ostracized by much of her school.
- In Welcome To The Dollhouse; a heart-breaking scene in a heart-breaking movie. This scene, where Dawn tries to find a place to sit in the school cafeteria and is rejected from every occupied table is also used in the film's trailer, because it completely encapsulates the deperate and hopeless mood of the film.
- In Pump Up The Volume , Nora uses this to identify Harry. He eats lunch alone in the stairwell.
- Warren Peace from Sky High eats lunch alone until the sidekicks start joining him. He's not happy about it.
- In Cant Buy Me Love the protagonist ends up eating lunch alone after his plans to become popular explosively fall apart when the truth is revealed.
- In The Lonely Guy Steve Martin's character, after a breakup, is uncomfortable eating alone in restaurants - until his lonely friend tells him what to do: act like you're a pretentious food critic. They'll assume you are and give you the best table, the best service, and the best food.
- The main character of the YA book Speak not only eats lunch alone, but in the bathroom.
- Harry Potter, at least once.
- Presumably, Harry would have had to do this every day at the Muggle school he attended before Hogwarts considering he was made a social pariah by Dudley's gang and their bullying.
- Rae Voight in Fingerprints looks for a different place to eat at lunchtime after her 'mental breakdown'.
- Tally in Uglies eats lunch alone when her operation is delayed, and later when she suspects that her friends know she's a spy.
- Ender’s Game: The title character at the beginning of his military training.
- Significant in that commanders have their own mess hall; a new commander cannot enter until after his first victory. Typically they're greeted enthusiastically. Ender is not only the youngest and smallest: he's the only commander ever to win in the Battle Room without having first been defeated a few times. The other commanders—envious, spiteful or intimidated—pointedly withhold the congratulatory rituals.
- The title character in Ethan, Suspended eats lunch on the stairs outside the cafeteria as often as not.
- Nikki, the protagonist of Dork Diaries, eats lunch alone at her new private school before she meets Chloe and Zoey.
- Lu, the protagonist of Murderess, does this frequently, out of disdain both for the food the cafeteria serves and for her classmates, although the disdain is mutual―other students think she’s a loner freak and a black-clad basket case.
- The Billy Talent song "Nothing To Lose":
My parents never knew that I ate all my lunches alone in the bathroom.
- The music video for Taylor Swift's song "Mean" shows one little girl eating alone in the bathroom after being snubbed by the other girls for wearing the wrong color sash.
- "Miss Invisible" by Marie Digby:
There's a girl who sits under the bleachers, just another day eating alone.
- In Adventures in Odyssey after a boy commits suicide a girl remembers that he used to sit alone when eating his lunch (it is hinted that he decided to commit suicide because of his loneliness). So she decides to invite a girl who was going to eat her lunch alone to sit with her.
- It is never said explicitly that he committed suicide. The girl does infer that if he had had at least one friend he would not have fallen to his death, because the train trestle he fell from was where he went when he was depressed.
- During the rehearsals for the original production of West Side Story, the cast members were encouraged to stick to their groups, even during their free time, leaving the actress who played Anybodys to complain, "No one will eat lunch with me!"
- Discussed in Wicked. Elphaba (ostracized since day one for her green skin) offers to share her lunch with her teacher, Dr. Dillamond, ostracized for being a Goat. She eats her sandwich; he eats the paper bag it came in.
- You do this in The Trail Of Anguish, being new and friendless. But the entire cafeteria applauds you for managing to finish your lunch at all.
- The Spectacular Spider-Man "Intervention" Gwen eats alone with Harry being Put on a Bus and Peter off under the influence of the alien symbiote. Mary Jane soon joins her, as she too has "Lost track of her clique."
- Valerie Gray of Danny Phantom in the episode "Shades of Gray." She's banned from the popular table thanks to her sudden lack of affluence and rather than sit with Danny, Sam, and Tucker, decides to sit on her own at another table.
- Poor "Big Patty" from Hey Arnold!, who's percieved as a bully but is really just shy, hates lunch period most because she's always eating alone. Harold, who befriends Patty and loves to eat, has difficulty comprehending this.
- Happens a few times in The Simpsons.
- More often than not, Meg Griffin from Family Guy sits alone at lunch time. Especially in the later seasons.
- Happened to Courtney Gripling from As Told by Ginger in the episode where she lost her position as the most popular girl in school to another girl named Hope.
- Happens to Lemongrab of Adventure Time in "Too Young" for a few reasons. He sent everyone in the kingdom to the dungeon, so he was alone anyway. Aside from this, he doesn't have any friends, and he doesn't like anybody because he's a jerk with social problems. Contrawise, nobody likes him, either.
- Hawkgirl in Justice League Unlimited. There's even a little bit of awkwardness beforehand when she and Wonder Woman reach for a tray at the same time.
- Mission Hill - Kevin tries to start a relationship with classmate Eunice, AKA 'Weirdie' (to get in good with her physicist father and get a letter of recommendation for college entry) - he introduces himself at the cafeteria where she's eating alone (however, she's quite comfortable in her loner status).
- In the Sponge Bob Square Pants episode "Boating Buddies", Squidward wants to sit at the lunch table at boating school, but refuses to sit with SpongeBob, so he has to eat alone behind a dumpster "just like in grade school".
- Young Justice: In "Terrors", the Riddler is regarded as such a loser that none of the other supervillains will let him sit with them in the Belle Reve dining hall.