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Theatre_Maven_3695 (4 Score & 7 Years Ago)
19th Jul, 2021 12:56:06 AM

Dear God, yes. That's just trashy.

Edited by Theatre_Maven_3695
Kuruni (Long Runner)
19th Jul, 2021 01:40:24 AM

I'll PM Dravencour and Aquila89. They're one who added some of those real life entries years ago and still active.

Edited by Kuruni
RobertTYL Since: Oct, 2019
19th Jul, 2021 01:58:33 AM

(bad joke edited out, ignore this part)

I'm leaning on cutting the actual notes, and then leaving a commented-out warning on top of the page saying "Please don't add real-life examples, blah blah blah etc.", that seems like the best option.

Edited by RobertTYL
Lermis Since: Nov, 2018
19th Jul, 2021 02:29:02 AM

Yeah, the main page doesn't seem to allow real life examples, so the quotes page should not allow them too.

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Bisected8 MOD (Primordial Chaos)
19th Jul, 2021 03:47:33 AM

^^ I agree. Why did you still post it?

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Walkinshadows Since: Jun, 2012
19th Jul, 2021 03:50:09 AM

^^^ Is it really appropriate to be joking about tropers with suicidal tendencies here?

Or ever, really?

harryhenry Since: Jan, 2012
19th Jul, 2021 03:57:00 AM

Agreed, that’s just a step too far. Robert, I think you need to pull back on the snark and jokes, or at least know when to use such things properly.

Edited by harryhenry
MichaelKatsuro Since: Apr, 2011
19th Jul, 2021 04:02:10 AM

Personally, I can't tell if it's a sincere black comedy joke or a parody of people who tell jokes like that.

Piterpicher (Series 2)
19th Jul, 2021 04:17:42 AM

Look, they might not have done the best thing with the joke, it happens. Not everyone has the same sense of humor or is offended by the same thing, though I am personally neutral on it based on what I grew up on and my overall personality. What matters is that the quotes page should not have real life quotes if the page doesn't have real life examples. I'll delete them and put a note.

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themayorofsimpleton (Experienced, Not Yet Jaded)
19th Jul, 2021 04:49:36 AM

Late to the discussion but the fact that there were actual suicide notes on the page is both horrifying and nauseatingly tasteless. I see Piterpicher added a commented-out note asking not to add them in the future—thanks. It's a bit rough to look at if you've actually suffered from thoughts like that.

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AyyItsMidnight Since: Oct, 2018
19th Jul, 2021 05:23:45 AM

Yeah, uh, this is really awful. Put them in the bin.

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RobertTYL Since: Oct, 2019
19th Jul, 2021 05:55:00 AM

Yeah, nice job Pitcher

Aquila89 (4 Score & 7 Years Ago)
19th Jul, 2021 06:35:54 AM

I only added Hunter S. Thompson's suicide note, the content of which was widely reported, since he was a famous person (it's on his Wikipedia page too.) I definitely wouldn't add the suicide note of someone non-famous, and if you want to remove Thompson's, I will not object.

Dravencour Since: Mar, 2015
19th Jul, 2021 06:45:11 AM

So I just got called into this thread due to what I ended up posting in that quotes page some years ago.

The suicide note in question was from a Reddit thread from some time ago, where people ended up posting some of the more notable suicide notes that they came across from news stories and elsewhere. This particular note came from a medical student who was apparently pushed into this by their parents, who it seems were real education-obsessed parents who didn't give a damn about what their kid themselves wanted, and as such, it had a very "fuck you" kind of feel to it that was quite striking in my mind.

I posted it because I was seeing a lot of real life notes on that page, quite a lot of which, like the one from Leelah Alcorn (the one that ended with "Fix society. Please."), were very saddening. No one deserves to be driven to the point where they feel that killing themselves is the only way out.

If you want the note that I posted removed, feel free to get rid of it.

Edited by Dravencour
Adept (Holding A Herring)
19th Jul, 2021 07:00:59 AM

I agree with outright cutting those real life notes.

Dravencour Since: Mar, 2015
19th Jul, 2021 07:10:07 AM

As for my thoughts on this, I believe that only the more notable real life notes (such as the ones from more famous people like Hunter S. Thompson and Robert E Howard, and things like the Leelah Alcorn thing which have become notable enough to be mentioned on Wikipedia) should be allowed to stay. Notes from more random, non-famous cases (such as what I ended up putting down) should not be put on the page. Furthermore, I see no problem with having new quotes vetted via locking the page and requiring people to go through the Edit Locked Pages thread if they want to add stuff to the thread.

Edited by Dravencour
Stardust5099 Since: Aug, 2017
19th Jul, 2021 07:18:26 AM

Ooof, Robert...that was in poor taste.

Really poor taste...

Dravencour Since: Mar, 2015
19th Jul, 2021 07:27:22 AM

I very much agree with everyone about Robert's joke. That joke was in very poor taste given the topic in question.

RobertTYL Since: Oct, 2019
19th Jul, 2021 07:27:46 AM

I already apologized for that — in the same post, no less. But yeah, if you guys have any issues I guess I can edit it out

mightymewtron Since: Oct, 2012
19th Jul, 2021 08:34:06 AM

Maybe we could find a compromise and allow public figures or those who are at least mainstream, as their suicide notes were already heavily publicized, but ordinary people's suicide notes should be off limits.

EDIT: Actually, looking at the page, I'd rather keep all the real life ones deleted. It's just uncomfortable when juxtaposed with all the fictional examples and parodies.

However, several of the deleted examples were fictional and deleted by mistake, like one from Homer Simpson, a joke from George Carlin (he didn't die of suicide), some song lyrics, and a gag from ASDF Movie. These should be re-added.

Edited by mightymewtron I do some cleanup and then I enjoy shows you probably think are cringe.
idonom Since: Apr, 2016
19th Jul, 2021 10:10:13 AM

Just re-added most (if not all) of the fictional examples that were mistakenly removed

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