- Roaring Rampage of Revenge: If someone is directly responsible for the death, friends of the deceased will be tempted to hunt down and kill the perpetrator. They may be dissuaded if the person they want to avenge did not approve of killing or was too nice to hold a grudge.
- The Mourning After: The deceased's spouse or lover may shut out any possibility of finding a new partner. They may eventually realize that their lost loved one would want them to move on with life.
- Take Up My Sword: The deceased might have left unfinished business for a friend to take up on his behalf. If this entails sacrificing his own happiness, he may come to understand that the deceased would want him to follow his own path rather than someone else's.
- He decides (either through someone else's argument or his own realization) that what he intended to do is wrong, and refocuses his grief into something more constructive and consistent with the deceased's values.
- He replies with a Shut Up, Kirk!, usually something along the lines of "Too bad he's not here to stop me, then." or "The dead don't care what we do", though it can also be along the lines of "not doing this got them killed". The "avenge the dead (whether they would have wanted it or not)" option is particularly popular with anti-heroes, and in extreme cases may become a point of no return.
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- Itachi of Naruto took great measures to act as this for his brother Sasuke Uchiha. He grants him the power of Amaterasu and sets it to go off upon encountering Tobi( who knows the truth about why Itachi murdered his entire clan). He implanted a crow in Naruto that had Shisui's eye and was supposed to give the hypnotic command "Protect Konoha" to Sasuke assuming he had learned the truth and had subsequently taken Itachi's eyes to prevent blindness. Sadly, it's averted. Knowing full well that Itachi wanted Konoha protected, Sasuke becomes an Ax-Crazy Jerk Woobie, decides to go on a Roaring Rampage of Revenge, crosses the Moral Event Horizon a thousand times over and forever cements his status as Draco in Leather Pants! True He ultimately gets better but not because of anything Itachi said or did. Even after Itachi is restored to life and talks with him. he only says he hates Konoha even more. Everything Itachi did to keep him on the right path was All for Nothing.
- In A Scotsman in Egypt, the Scottish commander of an Egyptian fort is killed in battle, and a soldier says that he would have wanted to be buried there (the narration makes it very clear he hated the assignment, the climate, the people, and wanted nothing more than to go back home to Scotland, though apparently he put his duty first so no one realized).
Films — Animation
- In Big Hero 6, Baymax asks Hiro if killing Yokai would have been what Tadashi would have wanted.
Films — Live-Action
- In Batman Begins Bruce Wayne reveals to Rachel Dawes that he was considering avenging his parents by shooting Joe Chill, who murdered them. Rachel then slaps Bruce twice.
Rachel: Your father would be ashamed of you.
- In The Dark Knight Rises, the legacy of Harvey Dent provides a powerful impetus to clean up Gotham City in the years since the events of The Dark Knight. Subverted when Bane publicly reveals that it was based on a whitewashing of what really happened to Dent.
- In Kaze no Stigma, when Kazuma encounters the group that killed his beloved Cui Ling several years ago, he promptly goes from 'Anti-Hero' to 'Villain Protagonist', restarting the Roaring Rampage of Revenge that originally earned him the nickname 'Reaper of the Winds'. After finding out the backstory, Ayano confronts him and tells him that she wouldn't have wanted him to act like that. His response is to basically shrug and say "I know that, but she's dead, so she doesn't feel a thing. Meanwhile, I'M enjoying it."
- A Man Called Ove. The protagonist's wife serves as this.
- A variation shows up in the climax of Agent Carter when Howard Stark, in the grip of a hypnotic illusion, is about to drop Midnight Oil on Times Square. Jarvis goes after him to shoot him down, thinking that if he's doomed anyway he would want to be stopped before he killed anyone else Subverted after Peggy is able to snap Howard out of it:
Stark: You were gonna shoot me out of the sky?!Jarvis: Well, I thought that was what you would have wanted.Stark: No! No, it's not. And for future reference, under no circumstance would I want anyone to shoot or otherwise hurt me. You got that?Jarvis: Your point is amply made, sir.
- In one episode of Xena: Warrior Princess, Autolycus is hellbent on killing the villain of the week who is the same man who murdered Autolycus' beloved older brother who practically raised him. Autolycus' thieving career began when he robbed the villain blind in revenge. Xena is worried that Autolycus actually killing the man might start him on a career as an assassin (noting that with his skills in disguise and infiltration he'd be one of the best). She convinces Autolycus to stop by asking him what his brother would have wanted, reminding him that while the villain may have made him the thief, it was his brother who gave the thief his heart. Xena asks him if it was the heart of a murderer.
- NYPD Blue: Claimed by a perp who had accidentally killed his partner (who was also his brother) when they ripped off a clothing warehouse of silk shirts and leather pants. The perp tossed the leather pants down to his brother and they hit him in the head, killing him. When the cops arrest the surviving brother selling the shirts and pants out of the trunk of his car the next day, they question the morality of doing so. He claims that his brother would have wanted him to do it.
- Doctor Who: In "Face the Raven", Clara's final speech tries to insure that her memory will dissuade the Doctor from going through with revenge threats.
- Averted in the final episode of Person of Interest.
Shaw: A few years ago, I would've just killed you without even a second thought. But then I met some people. Some good people. And they taught me the value of life.
Blackwell: Those people, they wouldn't want you to kill me.
Shaw: You're right. But they're all dead. (shoots him)
- In Boss, Kane is often visited by the ghost of Ezra Stone after he has him killed, though his effectiveness as a morality chain is less so than as a source of stress, exacerbated by Kane's dementia.
- On Day 7 when Tony explains his plan to Jack about getting revenge on the man who ordered the death of his wife Michelle, one that's endangered several people in the process, Jack calls Tony out and tells him that she would hate him if she knew what he has done. Tony simply gags Jack's mouth shut and continues on with his plan.
- At the end of Day 8, Jack's about to end his revenge spree by assassinating the President of Russia for being the mastermind behind the terrorist attacks on New York as well as in retaliation for the murder of Renee Walker, but Chloe reminds him of the consequences that would follow and asks him if that's would Renee would want. This ultimately convinces Jack to call off killing him and follow her plan instead.
- In the first season of Arrow, Oliver tries to talk Thea about her drug problems saying it isn't what their father would want for her, only for her to blow him off with "the dead don't want anything".
- In the Season 5 Premier, Oliver has started killing people again in wake of Laurel's death. Thea gives him a What the Hell, Hero? over it saying "This is not what she would want", only for him to repeat her above saying; and justify it by pointing out if he had used lethal force when he had the chance, Laurel would still be alive.
- At the end of Disgaea: Hour of Darkness, assuming you've fulfilled the requirement for the Best Ending, Laharl will halt himself from killing Seraph Lamington in revenge for him (apparently) executing Flonne, by realizing that if Flonne had still been there, she would've stopped him, just as she'd stopped him from killing so many others along the way... (If you DON'T fulfill the requirements, well...)
- In Chrono Trigger the protagonist, Chrono, is seemingly lost to Lavos in a battle. Soon after the party meets Magus, who is indirectly responsible for Chrono's fate, and Magus agrees to fight the party with his now greatly reduced powers, virtually ensuring his death if he does so. Should the player choose to spare Magus, and if Marle is at the head of the party, she will comment that Chrono wouldn't want them to engage in such a useless and pointless battle.
- In Injustice: Gods Among Us, Alternate Universe Joker mind controls Superman and forces him to kill Lois and their baby as well as level Metropolis. He goes off the deep end and installs himself as Earth's God Emperor, and the main universe DC heroes are pulled in to fight his regime. Several times he tries to justify his actions as what Lois would have wanted.
Superman: I know what you lost.
Regime Superman: And you judge me?! After I've killed you, I'll bring Lois here. When she sees how I've perfected this world—
Superman: She'll be afraid and disgusted!
- In Jedi Knight II: Jedi Outcast, the spirit of Morgan Katarn invokes Jan's memory to get through to Kyle Katarn:
Morgan Katarn: Do you believe this stream of power will ease your pain? Or that you can safely wield the Force with anger in your heart?
Kyle Katarn: Jan is dead; anger is all I have left. Anger and revenge.
Morgan Katarn: Is this how she would want to be remembered, with acts of anger and revenge?
Kyle Katarn: ...No...
Morgan Katarn: Then remember her as she was, and may the Force be with you...
Kyle Katarn: It hasn't been so far.
- Star Wars: The Old Republic: The Bounty Hunter storyline has Braden, your mentor and de facto father to Mako being murdered by rival bounty hunter Tarro Blood. At the end of the Chapter 1 arc, when you finally see Tarro locked up aboard a Republic cruiser that you've been assigned to blow up (after you kill a Jedi on board), he will try to goad you into letting him out so you can fight mano y mano. He'll tell you it's what Braden would want. But Mako says Braden would want to see him just as he is, trapped and humiliated and without the option of a big showdown. The decision is up to the player, let him fight you or leave him to die on the ship.
- In Marvel vs. Capcom 3, one of Zero's Victory Quotes has this.
If my friend X was here, he would've wanted to talk to you first. Unfortunately, he isn't here.
- In one of the side-quests in Mass Effect 2, you have to deal with a racist Asari who's been using her grief over the deaths of her daughters as an excuse to make other people's lives hell. The Paragon solution is to suggest that her daughters would not want to see her behave like that.
- In Shadowrun Returns Dragonfall, you can point this out to the Big Bad regarding his dead brother, who was killed by The Dragon without the Big Bad's knowledge. In the Director's Cut, this appeal will actually work if you have also done your research on his plan, convincing him that his brother wouldn't have let him gamble the entirety of humanity on such uncertain premises.
- In Jin's ending in Tekken 4, he is ready to deliver a killing blow to his defeated grandfather, Heihachi. As he pulls back to deliver the punch, a brief vision of his mother, Jun, appears, and he releases him, telling Heihachi to thank his mother for his life.
- In the Heavensward scenario in Final Fantasy XIV, Hraesvelgr, a dragon, is kept in check by his deceased love, Shiva, an Elezen woman. Before Shiva died, she asked Hraesvelgr to eat her so their souls can be intertwined. Due to bad blood between dragons and man over the past 1000 years, Hraesvelgr has very low opinions of mankind and if it wasn't for Shiva's influence on him, he would have joined his brethren in slaughtering man.
- A non-violent example from Otome wa Boku ni Koishiteru — the Genki Girl Yukari is attending the school because her idolized, late, 'onee-san' went there, and joined the track-team for the same reason. She's actually quite athletic, but her build and temperment lends itself best to short-distance sprints. Out of admiration for her dead sister, however, she insists on running the same long-distance races as she did, pushing herself to reach the same times despite being built differently. Naturally, it's Mizuho who has to gently remind her that her sister would have wanted her to do what she likes, instead of just blindly following in her footsteps...
- In Not a Villain, Kleya's drive to stop being a villain and become a hero seems to be largely driven by memories of her mother and a desire to become what her mother would want her to be. Her insistence on always wearing pink and yellow, and on playing Erbana despite its low publicity, are due to trying to emulate her mother. (Of course a simpler desire to simply stop having society at large view her as a villain is another strong factor in her actions.)
- Played for Laughs in season 4 of Acquisitions Incorporated: After Aeofel dies on a mission in season 3, Jim suggests that the rest of the party spends the wealth they got from that mission on "cool magical shit", because "that's what Aoefel would have wanted". Just before that, Aeofel's player had made it perfectly clear that "Use the money to bring me Back from the Dead" would have been Aeofel's actual wish.
- In Twig, Jamie had functioned as The Conscience for Sylvester prior to his Death of Personality, since Sylvester is morally a Blank Slate who adopts the characteristics of those around him. After Jamie is lost, Sy becomes increasingly more ruthless to fit the less moral tone of his other companions. However, when holding a hostage at gunpoint, Sy realizes that, in fact, he doesn't want to do this, and forces himself to hallucinate a spectre of Jamie to tell him not to, convincing him to spare the hostage.
- Parodied on The Simpsons when Homer accidentally kills his pet lobster Pinchy by putting him in a hot bath. He is then seen crying his eyes out while eating the lobster's remains, to which he says "Pinchy would have wanted it this way."
- Also parodied when Mr. Burns is shot. Smithers says that "As Montgomery Burns' closest friend, I am certain there's nothing he would want more than swift, brutal revenge against Homer Simpson."
- Batman: The Animated Series: An Only Mostly Dead example appears in "Deep Freeze", when Mr. Freeze agrees to help Grant Walker freeze the world (killing everyone outside his little utopian community) in exchange for a cure for Nora. Batman convinces Freeze that if he went through with it, Nora would hate him after she found out what he'd done.
Batman: You think you're alone now? Wait until she learns the truth!
- Justice League:
- In "Hereafter", Toyman apparently disintegrates Superman. Wonder Woman is ready to put a fist through his head when Flash runs up to stop her:
Flash: We don't do that to our enemies.
Wonder Woman: [enraged] Speak for yourself!
Flash: I'm trying to speak for Superman.
- In "A Better World", Justice Lord Batman wins an argument against Justice League Batman by claiming that under the iron-fisted Knight Templar rule of the Justice Lords, they've created a world where no young boy will ever have to see his parents gunned down in front of him, which League Batman has no comeback for. However, a little while later, League Batman sees a man getting arrested for complaining about his restaurant bill and finally gets his comeback in:
- In "Hereafter", Toyman apparently disintegrates Superman. Wonder Woman is ready to put a fist through his head when Flash runs up to stop her: