Film: My Big Fat Greek Wedding
My Big Fat Greek Wedding
is a 2002 romantic comedy
film written by and starring Nia Vardalos, directed by Joel Zwick and produced by Tom Hanks
and his wife Rita Wilson. It is based on Vardalos' one woman show and at the 76th Academy Awards
, it was nominated for Best Original Screenplay.
Toula Portokalos is a single, voluptuous thirty-year-old Greek woman living with her parents and brother in a close-knit Chicago
Greek community and working in the family's Greek restaurant. They even have a Greek statue in their front lawn and proudly painted the Greek flag on their garage door. Deciding to invigorate her life, she breaks out on her own to go to college and start working at a travel agency. She also gets a makeover, taming her wild hair and getting contacts
In this new lifestyle she meets the handsome, charming but non-Greek
Ian Miller. They fall for each other and decide to get married. Her dad does not approve; how could she possibly marry a non-Greek?
Nevertheless, things get sorted out and a huge and very
Greek wedding is planned...Hilarity Ensues
Noted for being the highest-grossing film to never have a #1 weekend at the box office, the film slowly propelled past $200 million domestically thanks to strong word-of-mouth and gross holding that slowly led to wider releases. One of the reasons behind its success is the sharp indie-film dialogue and avoiding many of the pitfalls that plague other romantic comedies like Hollywood Homely
(Nia Vardalos is attractive but not the typical bombshell, giving her makeover more plot relevance than others) and the "teary-eyed breakup due to a misunderstanding."
Followed up by an unmemorable TV sitcom
, My Big Fat Greek Life
Provides examples of:
- An Aesop: Accept yourself and others.
- Bad Bad Acting
"Oh. Woe to me. Business is bad."
- Batman Gambit: Toula and her mother manage to convince her father that her getting a job is his own idea.
- Beautiful All Along: Toula.
- Bilingual Bonus: In all its regal (and, as "I have three testicles" indicates, not-so-regal) splendor.
- Black Sheep: Toula.
- Closer to Earth: Toula's mother, compared to her father. When Toula announces she's getting married, her father has a Heroic BSOD while her mother tries to convince him nothing's wrong with it.
- California Doubling: A movie about events that took place in Winnipeg, written by a Winnipeg writer, starring a Winnipeg actress... was set in Chicago and filmed primarily in Toronto.
- Chicago: The setting, albeit not the sets (see California Doubling)
- Close-Knit Community
- Converting for Love: Ian, to Greek Orthodoxy. Since the Church isn't used to adults converting, he is baptised in a kiddie-pool.
- Actually, there are plenty of adult conversions. You wear a white gown, not bathing trunks, then dress in a special outfit afterwards. There are special tubs for adult baptisms. The implication is that this specific parish doesn't see enough conversions to justify keeping the gowns, outfits, and tubs—which makes more sense for Winnepeg (pop. in 2000 630,000, Greek population minute) than Chicago (pop. in 2000 2.8 million, Greek population: They have a "Greektown," which used to be full of Greeks until they moved to the suburbs).
- Culture Clash / Not So Different: The entire point of the movie is An Aesop about this, with plenty of opportunity for jokes along the way.
- Cultural Posturing: There is nothing that Mr. Portokalos can't trace back to Greece. Even kimonos.
- Distracted by the Sexy: Toula, when she first sees Ian. Later Ian when he sees Toula in the tour office, leads to a brutal beatdown by an old lady.
- Engagement Challenge
- Fairytale Wedding Dress: Toula's dress, even though with the veil it looks overdone.
- Fourth Date Marriage
- Only if you go by the montage. They conceivably could've dated for weeks or months, even.
- From The Latin Intro Ducere: The father frequently claims that he can show the Greek root of any word. He makes it up as he goes.
- Fun with Foreign Languages
- Glad You Thought of It: The best way to get Gus' consent is to let him think it was his idea.
- The Glasses Gotta Go
- Greasy Spoon: The Portokalos establishment is an excellent example of a Greek-American diner in the city.
- Happily Married: Toula's parents. Probably Ian's parents.
- Hilarity Ensues: Every time Ian's family tries to interact with Toula's.
- If You Ever Do Anything to Hurt Her...: "I'll kill you and Make It Look Like an Accident."
- Subverted in that Toula's male relatives are just messing around with Ian. Probably.
- Impossibly Tacky Clothes: Toula's reaction to her giant-white-cupcake of a wedding dress. "I'm a snow beast!"
- Even more so for the bridesmaids' dresses.
- It Runs in the Family: Toula is the only sane Portokalos.
- Lucky Charms Title: My Big Fat Grssk Wedding?*
- Meaningful Name: Portokali (πορτοκάλι) is Greek for "orange." Toula's father makes an Incredibly Lame Pun on the resemblance of Ian's name (Miller) to the Greek word for apple (μήλο, milo). Get it?
- Never Mess with Granny: The ouzo-guzzling grandmother is somewhere between this and Screw Politeness Im A Senior. On the night before Toula's wedding she gives Toula her wedding garlands and shows her some other keepsakes and photos, whereupon we learn that I Was Quite a Looker.
- Nuclear Family: Greek Americans don't believe in it. At least not the Portokalos. Truth in Television for many immigrants.
- Odd Name Out: Almost all of the young family members have the name (or variation) of Anita (including Athena and Angelo), Diane or Nick (including Nikki). The outsider? Toula.
"Costas, Nick, Nick, Nick, Costas..."
"And I am GUS!"
- This is pretty much Truth in Television for Greek families, since the eldest boy and girl in each branch of the family are usually named for their grandparents (giving you multiple cousins with the same names), but other children don't fit this pattern so they often have more unique names.
- Old Maid: Toula is only 30, but her parents seem to think she needs to get married right away. Her father started calling her old at FOURTEEN! This is Exaggerated Truth in Television, as any child of Greek immigrants will tell you. It's a pretty common attitude in the Eastern Mediterranean that any woman over 25 who isn't married is an embarrassment to the family.
- One Steve Limit:
- Aversion: Unlimited Nicks.
- Very many instances of Nikki.
- This is partly Truth in Television, as Greek children are traditionally named after their grandparents—and with only four grandparents to go around among the huge number of grandkids, there's going to be some overlap. Obviously it doesn't usually get that bad, but still.
- Pursue the Dream Job: Toula, in her early thirties, decides to invigorate her life, going to college and starting to work at a travel agency.
- Racist Grandma: Toula's grandmother despises Turkish people.
- Television airings cut all of her "ugly Turk" dialogue, which makes for some awkward dialogue jumps (like Grandma walking in, almost immediately hitting her son, and Toula's voice-over explaining that they told her the war was over). (What war; we didn't get her dialogue).
- Rant Inducing Slight: Toula goes into a long rant about her stifling family environment when her Greek ethnicity is brought up in conversation.
- Real Men Eat Meat: Ian is a vegetarian and Toula's family is naturally shocked by this. Leads to a funny exchange:
- This will hit a wrong note for many Greeks. Vegetarianism is common in Greece, often for religious reasons.
- Running Gag: Gus Portokalos thinks Windex is the solution to everything.
- Becomes a bit of a Brick Joke at the end of the film when Ian sprays some on a wedding-day zit and it actually works.
- Stay in the Kitchen: At the start, Toula's dad believes she should do this. As the film progresses, it appears to be more of "stay in the enclave", and applies to his son as well: Greeks hang out with Greeks, marry Greeks, work at the family business, and so forth.
- Tactful Translation: Unimpressed with Ian's attempt to wish him a happy Easter ("Cheestro Nasty!"note ), Gus mutters in Greek, "My people were writing philosophy when your people were still swinging in trees." At Ian's confused look, Toula says, "He likes you."
- There Are Two Kinds of People in the World: "...Greeks, and everybody else who wish they were Greek."
- Trolling Translator: This is Ian's Running Gag; in one memorable scene, he asks how to say "dinner's ready!" in Greek, but the phrase he's told actually means "I have three testicles!"
- In one instance, Nick tricks Ian into telling Toula's mother, "Nice tits." She immediately turns and slaps Nick upside the head.
- Truth in Television: As any Greek-American who's seen the film will readily tell you. And not only them.
- Indeed. This movie was a big hit because America is a nation of immigrants, meaning that a whole lot of us have wacky ethnic relatives - which ethnicity doesn't really matter because they are ALL like Toula's family, in their own way.
- "Well Done, Son!" Guy: Well, Toula is a female - but the same concept applies.
- It's hinted that Toula's brother Nick (who apparently wants to study art) has similar issues. His beautifully designed menus are dismissed with an "enh" by Gus.
- When I Was Your Age
Maria Portokalos: "Nicko! Don't play with the food! When I was your age, we didn't have food!"