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- In the Mega Man NT Warrior anime, Baryl opts to go with Duo.
- Lyrical Nanoha
- Nanoha Takamichi, by the third season, is living on the planet Mid-Childa and pursuing a career in their military. One wonders if she still has an Earth identity and specifically a Japanese citizenship; does her family still pay her taxes, or did she get disappeared paperwork-wise? (The TSAB has shown they'd probably be able to do that.)
- Hayate Yagami of the same series also does this. Given she was a nine-year old living alone and then suddenly has four people living with her who appeared out of nowhere there was likely less paperwork.
- Subverted by Gil Graham. Like Nanoha and Hayate, he moved to Mid-Childa when the joined the TSAB, but he moved back to Earth when he retired.
- Inverted by the Harlaown family (including Amy, who married into the family during the Time Skip). After the events of the second season they moved to Earth full time so Fate could keep going to school with her friends (that and Lindy is a Occidental Otaku). Fate would later move back to Mid-Childa with Nanoha and Hayate.
- The main protagonist in DearS in the end.
- Masaru/Marcus Daimon at the end of Digimon Savers.
- In Nextwave, we see that Aaron Stack wanted to stay... but the cosmic supergods kicked him out, on account of him being a giant #%@#.
- This happens at the end of the first arc in the Aliens Vs Predator comics. A later arc returns to the idea, and shows the human distanced from the Predators, and eventually returning to the humans when she finds out they're going to kill a bunch of them.
- Close Encounters of the Third Kind: At the climax Roy Neary enters the alien ship, disappears into the light and the ship departs Earth. Which is kind of awkward for his wife and kids. note
- The end of Stargate.
- At the end of Muppets from Space, after Gonzo decides I Choose to Stay, his people take the head of the extraterrestrial investigation agency who had been chasing after Gonzo with them.
- Mission to Mars. Gary Sinise's character stays behind to go off with the Martians. It helps that he has no one to come back to on Earth, as his wife died several years before.
- In Flight of the Navigator, it was accidental, or at least unavoidable, as the ship just was keeping the hero for study, but warping space and time kept him away for eight years.
- In The Last Starfighter, Alex and Maggie leave Earth so Alex can lead a rebuilt Starfighter squadron.
- While the final script of AVP: Alien vs. Predator ended with the other Predators giving the human protagonist the weapon of the fallen Predator who she had fought alongside and then leaving, an earlier script had them inviting her to join them instead. In that script, she accepted.
- Charlie from the Critters films. Subverted in that it's implied he pestered the alien bounty hunters into letting him tag along, although we don't actually see them make up their minds to do so.
- The children in the 2009 film Knowing. Although they used a godawful Adam and Eve ending with shitty CGI to boot.
- Paul: In what is presumably a Shout-Out to Close Encounters, at the end of the film Paul invites the little girl that saved him from the wreckage of his spacecraft, now an old woman, to come with him. Made easier since she was seen as crazy by everyone and her house was blown up earlier, so it's not like she had anything keeping her here on earth.
- While technically not dealing with aliens (although it does concern supernatural beings), the same basic concept is used at the end of Field of Dreams. The author Terrence Mann (played by James Earl Jones) is invited by Shoeless Joe Jackson (Ray Liotta) to come with him and the other ghostly ballplayers and vanish into the cornfield. This causes the protagonist Ray Kinsella (Kevin Costner) to become somewhat jealous that he too wasn't invited, until he realizes he has to stay behind so he can play catch with his dad.
- The Return of the King sends Bilbo and Frodo to the Western Shore - the land from which the Elves hail - with the Elves - who finally bid Middle-Earth a farewell - in recognition of a life /lives spent in humble wonder of their essence and unabashed longing for a view of the unearthly and beautiful land.
- This happens at the end of Philip Jackson's 1984 experimental film Music Of The Spheres. Telepathic scientist Melody (Anne Dansereau) is contacted by benevolent, poetic aliens who try (and fail) to stop a dangerous Earth project. The last shot in the film has Melody, invited to join them, standing alone, gazing up into brilliant light.
- In My Stepmother Is An Alien, Steven Mills's brother Ron chooses to go to Celeste's home planet, when he sees that the all-female crew of the alien ship looks like his dream woman - Princess Stéphanie of Monaco. It's implied that his job will be to help the aliens understand things like emotions. Given their complete lack of knowledge about such things as sex, it can be assumed that Ron will have a lot of fun teaching them.
- In Robert J. Sawyer's "Calculating God," the aliens take with them the main character, who happens to be dying of cancer.
- This is totally subverted in the story "Alien Promises" by Janni Lee Simner, because thanks to someone forcing the narrator to tell her if the aliens come, and that someone telling others... next thing you know, everyone wants to go and the ship can't hold 'em all.
- Bruce Coville:
- The first book in the My Teacher Is an Alien series ends with Peter Thompson deciding to go with Bloxholm, since his father's indifferent to his existence and he believes no one will miss him. The next three books more or less deconstruct this decision.
- In the Sixth Grade Alien series, Linnsy chooses not to return to Earth after undergoing Mental Fusion with an alien symbiont, deciding instead to travel the galaxy.
- Dorothy returns home at the end of The Wonderful Wizard of Oz, but in the sequels she eventually decides to stay in Oz and become a Princess. (She brings Aunt Em and Uncle Henry with her.)
- At the end of Ghostmaker, a Gaunt's Ghosts novel, an Inquisitor is invited by a group of Eldar to return with them to their Craftworld, as she is the only one present at the time who can close their Webway Gate and prevent its discovery by the attacking Chaos troops.
- In Andre Norton's Star Ka'at, aliens have been living on Earth disguised as domestic cats. When they decide that humans are about to destroy the world in a war, they all leave; one of them has gotten fond enough of the orphaned boy who's his "owner" that he takes the boy with them, to the disgust of his fellow aliens.
- In Francis Carsac's Those From Nowhere, a young doctor encounters Humanoid Aliens in a forest and, after helping them fix their ship, agrees to go with them to their homeworld. There, he finds out that they are fighting a losing war against a race of Cosmic Horrors. They need his help to defeat them, as "those with red blood" are the only ones capable of resisting the enemy. After defeating them, the doctor goes home with his Love Interest (from a race of red-blooded Humanoid Aliens with four fingers) in order to put his affairs in order before leaving Earth forever to live on her planet. He also offers the writer a chance to join them.
- Not just the writer. He returned to Earth specifically to gather a group of open-minded people to go with him to help out his new friends in their war.
- In Dana Stabenow's Second Star, the aliens—a race of ultimate knowledge-collectors nicknamed The Librarians—were initially attracted by their discovery of a newly-sentient computer system, but when he turns down the offer to go with them, they extend it to the protagonist's Teen Genius niece; she accepts in a heartbeat.
- In the novel Aliens Vs Predator: Prey, the main character is marked (on the forehead, not the cheek) and taken aboard the ship. They treat her horribly, even after being key in the capture of a queen, so she decides to leave. The mark still works in her favor in subsequent encounters with the predators.
- In Fred Hoyle's "The Black Cloud" the scientist protagonist decides to leave Earth with the alien entity of the title (an intelligent nebula) apparently because he's estranged from his wife — at least that's how he explains it.
- In Decency by Robert Reed, a crippled alien Solar Sail vessel crash lands in Minnesota and the mortally wounded pilot is studied by a team of scientists desperately trying to stabilize the creature. When a security guard enters the medical chamber and realizes the alien is in absolute misery, he pulls out his gun and blows out its brains, serving five years hard labor for it. Twenty years later, a flotilla of similar vessels enter solar orbit and want the the guard to join them as humanity's representative - and as the only person to show them heartfelt decency.
- In Oleg Divov's Trail of the Zombie trilogy, the protagonist of the first book, an incredibly powerful telepath created using Soviet Superscience, uses his powers to call out into the interstellar void. His call is answered by aliens, who take him with him. He settles on their planet, marries one of them, and lives a fulfilling life with his family. He periodically returns to Earth. At first, it's a part of his adaptation treatment. After that, it's mostly due to nostalgia and to visit the grave of his dead Love Interest. He has very little left on Earth. After the second book, he takes his dying friend (also a telepath) to his planet in order to allow him to survive for a few more years. The guy ends up dying eventually, but he is happy until that point. At the end of the third book, it's implied that he has decided to leave Earth for good. When he offers this book's protagonist a chance to leave with him, the guy refuses, explaining that he has a lot to do here.
Live Action TV
- The companions of Doctor Who. The Doctor seems to have a thing for picking up random humans from Earth.
- Gets a perspective flip in the Expanded Universe. In one story, after the Doctor stops a time-traveling alien tourist business that was mucking about in Ancient Greece and he sends them home in the last portal their machine could make, one of them decides to Stay with the Aliens (said aliens being us) instead.
- In one of the new Who episodes, the Doctor took Rose with him for a year of "our time", though it was hardly any time for them. (The Doctor simply made a mistake in his calculations.) When they came back, Rose's boyfriend said he'd been arrested several times by police who believed he had kidnapped or murdered her. Other people react realistically to someone simply vanishing for a year. During the escapades, they took a man with them, who had gone missing from Earth for months, but no one seemed concerned about the missing time, not even his mother.
- Wesley Crusher on Star Trek: The Next Generation
- And inverted in an episode "First Contact" (not to be confused with the movie), where the aliens refused to join the galactic community but the main alien from the episode decided to go with the humans.
- Star Trek: The Original Series: The Corbomite Maneuver. After the alien reveals it was all a Secret Test of Character, he asks for a human to teach him about humans. Kirk sends the crewmember that was pushing for the alien's death earlier.
- Babylon 5:
- John Sheridan ultimately stays with the other aliens of the series, even winding up being married to one of them. The Grand Finale implies that he ascended and went with Lorien beyond the Rim of the galaxy to join the First Ones.
- At the end of the first season, Jeffrey Sinclair became Ranger One, the leader of the Rangers after their ranks were expanded to include other races. He ultimately used several bits of Applied Phlebotinum to be transformed into a Minbari, and get sent back a thousand years in the past as Valen.
- Sebastian the Inquisitor and Mr Morden are the best examples, because the aliens they stayed with were far more "alien" to humans than Minbari were.
- The first episode of The Greatest American Hero has FBI Agent Bill Maxwell's old partner saying he's doing this with the aliens that gave Ralph the super hero suit. However, he clearly died earlier in the episode, so its ambiguous if he was simply re-animated or if his lifeless body was being controlled by the aliens so they would have some way of communicating beyond their bizarre radio trick.
- This trope is wholeheartedly embraced by Cassandra Spender from The X-Files, Agent Spender's mom, multiple alien abductee, and Cigarette-Smoking Man's ex-wife: she is convinced that the aliens preparing to colonize Earth wish only the best for humanity and that they will take a select few (including herself) to their world just before it begins. It ends very badly for her. Like, "burned alive by eyeless, mouthless aliens" badly.
- Allie in Steven Spielberg's Taken. She stays with the aliens after they decide The World Is Not Ready for her.
- Although to be fair in this case, Allie was the great-granddaughter of the alien who originally visited Earth in the first episode.
- Stargate SG-1:
- Daniel Jackson's granddad Nick Ballard stays with the GIANT ALIENS! at the end of the episode "Crystal Skull".
- Daniel Jackson's own example from the film section above received a Happy Ending Override in the show's pilot.
- Inverted with Martin Lloyd, who chooses to stay on Earth rather than leave with his fellow Human Aliens. From his viewpoint, this trope is still true.
- Colonel Harold Maybourne chooses to live among primitive Human Aliens. He ends up becoming their king by claiming to predict the future (in fact, he's using his knowledge of written Ancient language to translate future knowledge inscribed by a time-traveling Ancient). Even after his revelation that he's been lying about his powers, his people still want to keep him as their king, as he actually did a lot of good things for them (e.g. built a windmill, wrote a code of laws).
- In the Haven episode "301", the town gets hit by an alien invasion. Eventually, the heroes realize that an alien fanatic named Wesley is a Reality Warper and unknowingly created the aliens from his imagination. They try and fail to convince him of his powers (Wesley believes in aliens, but not in the Troubles). Running out of time (the mothership is charging up its weapons), Nathan convinces Wesley to offer to go with the aliens, and that Wesley's missing grandfather may be with the aliens too. The mothership beams Wesley aboard and the aliens leave. Duke calls Nathan out on this. For all they know, Nathan could have sent Wesley to his death or worse.
- Blue Öyster Cult's video to the song Take Me Away opens with a metallic human voice inviting members of the human race to leave the planet with us; the song and the video explore this concept. The song The Vigil on the Mirrors album also deals with the yearning of ufonuts to make contact, and possibly leave with the alien visitors.
- Peter Gabriel's Silbury Hill also deals with the idea of alien contact and leaving this planet in the company of enlightened aliens.
- Carpenters also get into leaving this world today in the song Calling Occupants Of Interplanetary Craft.
- A great part of Hawkwind'''s output concerns this idea.
- The Underground Zero song Canes Venaticii concerns an alien visitor arriving who isn't exactly enchanted at what she sees.
- Hanako of Disgaea 2 was born after her parents were turned into demons due to Zenon's curse; so she has been a demon all her life. Adell's success turned her into a human; but it she didn't want to be one; so left Veldime with Etna in order to find a way to become a true demon.
- The entire ending Playable Epilogue of Lunar 2 had Hiro looking for a way to follow Lucia after her But Now I Must Go ending. He succeeds and goes to Earth to be with her as she terraforms the planet.
- In Soul Nomad & the World Eaters, when Penn is given a chance to return home with his father Thorndyke, he chooses to stay with the Nereids. He's still proud of the fact that his dad is a renowned hero though.
- At the end of the Space Route in Shin Super Robot Wars, Char Aznable sends a message to Londo Bell, whom he expects to be in a festive mood, yet unjustified by what Char is convinced has been a horrific mistake for mankind. He reckons they got lucky with this victory, and points out that Balmar is sure to send a second, or third fleet to Earth, without any shortage of firepower. Just how far will Londo Bell's efforts last, he muses, ostentatiously checking himself and claiming sarcastically that sour grapes weren't the intent of the message. Since Char is worried about mankind too, in his fashion, he has chosen to accompany the aliens returning to their own worlds. Therefore, he is entrusting Londo Bell with all the alien technology he has been able to amass, telling them to put it to good use for humanity.
- Sonic Runners uses this trope to Hand Wave why the Wisps are still present despite their But Now I Must Go moment at the end of Sonic Colors as well as their previously unexplained presence in Sonic Lost World.
- Mrs. Primrose, Roofus the Robot, and the giant peanut butter monster in The Inexplicable Adventures of Bob!. Dean Martin (no, not the singer) asks for the same favor, but Princess Voluptua turns him down.
- In the Invader Zim episode "Vindicated," counselor Dwicky learns at the end that the kid he's been patronizing has been right all along, there are aliens, and one's trying to take over the earth! He's then given the opportunity to go joyriding with another set of aliens, which he gleefully accepts, leaving the task of defending the earth from hostile invasion in the hands of an eleven-year-old. He also takes the video camera with documented proof while he's at it. Whoops, his bad!
- Sari Sumdac leaves with Autobots at the end of Transformers Animated to learn more about her Cybertronian heritage. Had the series continued, we would have seen her attend a Cybertronian school.