Remarrying for Your Kids
Having a single parent in a work isn't uncommon in the slightest. If a character's Missing Mom or Disappeared Dad is explained as being a product of death or Parental Abandonment, though, it's unusually likely for the single parent to be paired up with another character by the end. This can be used to resolve the lack of spouse and parent in one swoop. This will often be a sub-plot within a story, often with the children as main characters. The character may intentionally be looking for a spouse/partner throughout the story, but this often isn't the case. The popularity of this trope may lead one to assume that anytime a widowed parent appears, they will be paired off in the end. If there are two single parents whose children are friendly it's doubly likely. May involve a plot that features Parent with New Paramour, though those cases are not always for the children's sake. Contrast Glamorous Single Mother, who makes being a single parent look easy. Compare Give the Baby a Father, which is when a pregnant woman gets married so she won't be a single parent in the first place.
- A major plot point of Nanny McPhee is Cedric Brown's necessity to get remarried after his wife's death, due to pressure put on him by the great aunt. By the end of the movie, he marries Evangeline.
- Love Actually. Liam Neeson's character's wife dies at the beginning of the movie and he is forced to raise their child alone. By the end, he is paired up with another woman, be this is an unusual variant of the trope, considering the son is his by marriage.
- Averted in Treasure Planet. Jim's lack of father is given an explicit explantation, but Mrs. Dawkins never enters another relationship.
- The Aristocats. Played straight with Duchess and O'Malley, but the kittens' lack of biological father is never mentioned or explained.
- In Disney's Enchanted, Robert has an extended relationship with Nancy, but end up with Giselle in the end. Morgan's mother is explicitly mentioned to have 'left,' which is actually pretty dark for a kid's movie.
- Rugrats in Paris has Chuckie's father decide to remarry because he wants to provide a mom for his son. Unfortunately, he's not very good at telling that Chuckie is terrified of his new girlfriend Coco. At the end Chaz marries a different woman, Kira, who too is a single parent.
- In Ever After, Danielle's father remarries when she is eight, shortly after he dies. Unfortunately, her stepmother turns out to be a wicked one
- Used in Glee. Kurt originally tried to pair up his dad and Finn's mom so he would have an excuse to spend more time with Finn. They eventually married, quite appropriate, considering they had both been widowed.
- Peaky Blinders: John Shelby sights his kids as the main reason he needs to remarry.
"Aunt Polly, you know what it's been like since Martha died… Truth is, my kids have been running bloody rings around me. Running barefoot with the dogs until all hours… What the kids need is a mother. So that's why I'm getting married."
- Deconstructed a bit in Wives and Daughters, Molly's mother dies when she's a little girl. When she's teenaged, her father thinks she really needs a mother-figure and marries because of it. However, while not being exactly Wicked Stepmother, she's a difficult woman and not helpful at all.
- Annie marries Philip in Enoch Arden largely for her children's sake, and also because he reveals that he has loved her for a long time. She comes to return his affection later.
- Min Ziqian was a Chinese model of filial piety. After his father discovered that his Wicked Stepmother was dressing her own children warmly, and not his first son, he told her he had married her to have someone to look after his son, and she is not doing it, so he would divorce her. Only Min Ziqian's intervention, reminding him that without her there, none of the children would be looked after, saved her.
- In The Green Knight, the king remarries because his daughter begs him to.
- In Rocket Power, the Missing Mom's disappearance was eventually explained, saying she died. Ray married shortly after this was mentioned.
- Abraham Lincoln's mother died of milk sickness when he was nine. A short time later his father went off for a week and brought home a Widow Woman specifically to be the new mother to his children. The new Mrs. Lincoln already had three children of her own, so the replacement went both directions.
Thomas Lincoln: "I have no wife and you no husband. I came a-purpose to marry you. I knowed you from a gal and you knowed me from a boy. I've no time to lose: and if you're willin' let it be done straight off."
- Truth in Television. This wasn't uncommon through much of human history, especially due to Death By Child Birth being much more common. (Which often left behind children, and sometimes Massive Numbered Siblings) The widower left behind would be expected to remarry to provide his children with a mother. A dead father would often produce a similar result. This was often motivated by the idea that children needed to be raised by a 'mother' and 'father' to flourish
- This was common enough in the Victorian-era that etiquette books even had guidelines for how long Wife #2 should mourn her dead predecessor (assuming the male remarried during his mourning period).