Let your acquaintances be many,
but one in a thousand your confidant.
When you gain a friend, first test him,
and be not too ready to trust him.
For one sort is a friend when it suits him,
but he will not be with you in time of distress.
Another is a friend who becomes an enemy,
and tells of the quarrel to your shame.
Another is a friend, a boon companion,
who will not be with you when sorrow comes.
When things go well, he is your other self,
and lords it over your servants;
But if you are brought low, he turns against you
and avoids meeting you.
but one in a thousand your confidant.
When you gain a friend, first test him,
and be not too ready to trust him.
For one sort is a friend when it suits him,
but he will not be with you in time of distress.
Another is a friend who becomes an enemy,
and tells of the quarrel to your shame.
Another is a friend, a boon companion,
who will not be with you when sorrow comes.
When things go well, he is your other self,
and lords it over your servants;
But if you are brought low, he turns against you
and avoids meeting you.
—Sirach
Fujiwara... I have always thought of you as a friend. But were you to die tomorrow, I would not lift a finger to save you.
—Kaguya, Kaguya-sama: Love Is War
"No matter how rich you become, how famous or powerful, when you die the size of your funeral will still pretty much depend on the weather."
— Michael Pritchard
”If you’re loyal to everybody, can you really be loyal to anybody?”
— Thrust, Beast Machines
FRIENDSHIP, n.
A ship big enough to carry two in good weather, but only one in foul.
Birds of a feather flock together until the cat comes.
—Proverb
I thought that you'd stay by me
True to the very end
But you ran away the first rainy day
Just a fair weather friend
I had a heart I gave you
But you had one to lend
For, when skies were black
You took it right back
Just a fair weather friend
Foolish me, I couldn't see
The handwriting me on the wall
Sunny skies had dimmed my eyes
I never thought that rain would fall
Just when I needed someone
On whom I could depend
You walked out on me — what else can you be?
Just a fair weather friend.
— Henry King, Just A Fair Weather Friend