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Basic Trope: A man who isn't the father of the child proposes to a pregnant woman.

  • Straight: Alice finds out she's pregnant, but has no idea who the father is. Bob agrees to marry her.
  • Exaggerated: Bob meets Alice (six months pregnant) for the first time on the bus. He sees that she has no ring, and proposes to her right then and there.
  • Downplayed: Alice is in a relationship with Bob, and one day she is raped on her way home from work. She finds out she is pregnant, and Bob (already supportive of her) asks her to marry him, so he can be there for her all the time.
  • Justified:
    • Alice and Bob live in a world where a woman who is pregnant outside of wedlock is considered Defiled Forever.
    • Single motherhood is hard. Alice is a dear friend, and Bob just wants to make sure she'll have someone around to help take care of the baby and bring in money.
    • Alice can't afford health insurance, and is worried about what would happen if she and her child were to get sick. Her close friend Bob works a job with great insurance for its employees... as well as their spouse and spouse's children.
    • Not only is Alice's pregnant out of wedlock in a society that would scorn her for it, Bob is gay, and thanks to the society's standards, can't come out. Marrying each other is a mutually beneficial cover-up, especially if Alice and Bob were close friends before that.
    • Alice and Bob both know that the father is Bob's brother Charles, who was drafted and died in battle without knowing about the baby. Marrying Bob will ensure that Charles's child is legally part of his family, and protect Alice from scandal.
  • Inverted:
    • Alice is pregnant, and has no idea who the father is. She asks Bob to marry her... Or tricks him into doing so.
    • Bob turns down Alice because she's pregnant and/or because the child is not his.
    • The father of Alice's baby, afraid of being tied down to a woman he doesn't love out of duty, is spurred on to elope with the one he does.
  • Subverted:
    • Bob asks Alice if she'd like to marry him, but Alice says she doesn't need a man to provide for her or the baby.
    • Bob takes notice of Alice and her conspicuously absent wedding ring, gets down on his knees... And prays that this sinful woman will see the light of God. Then he walks away, whistling.
  • Double Subverted: But Bob forms a close bond with Alice, helps her to raise the baby, and eventually they do get married.
  • Parodied: Alice buys a puppy. Bob thinks it's terrible that a single woman could even think of making that kind of commitment without a man around to provide for her, and proposes.
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  • Zig Zagged: ???
  • Averted: Alice is pregnant outside of wedlock, but Bob doesn't ask her hand in marriage.
  • Enforced: The writers had always planned to turn the Platonic Life-Partners into a family unit, but Alice's actress' real-life pregnancy comes a bit too early to write into that storyline, so they take a shortcut.
  • Lampshaded: "Oh, Bob... That's very sweet, but we're not in some 19th century Irish village."
  • Invoked: Alice fakes a pregnancy, and spins a heartbreaking sob-story around it, in order to convince Nice Guy Bob to marry her.
  • Exploited: ???
  • Defied:
    • Bob is afraid of what others will think of him for taking "damaged goods" as his wife, so he does nothing.
    • Alternatively, Alice turns down the proposal. (She doesn't know Bob well enough, she doesn't find him attractive, she doesn't like him, she doesn't feel like she needs a man to provide for her or the baby, she wants to Marry for Love, etc.)
  • Discussed:
    Bob: I do love you, Alice, but... Platonically, you know?
    Alice: Hmm... Would you marry me if we're both single when we're forty?
    Bob: [laughing] No.
    Alice: What if some heartless cad gets me pregnant and runs off in the night, leaving me raising a baby alone with crops to harvest and bandits to fight off?
    Bob: It's a deal.
  • Conversed: "Ugh, she's not really going to marry that loser, is she?" "Well, we may not like it, but in the world they live in it's realistically her only chance for a decent life..."
  • Deconstructed: This has a lot of Values Dissonance; in some more traditional cultures, this is a way of protecting a woman's reputation and ensuring that someone will be able to support her and the baby (see "Justified"). In other societies where sex and babies outside of marriage are more or less accepted, this is seen as anachronistic and sexist.
  • Reconstructed: Alice marries Bob because she loves him, not because she's knocked up and needs a provider.
  • Played For Laughs: Alice is Mistaken for Pregnant, and Bob has been reading too many Chivalric Romances.
  • Gender Flipped: Give the Baby a Mother. Bob is a widowed father. Alice proposes, thinking a man can't take care of a baby on his own.

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