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** Alice is a young child and doesn't know better.
** Alice is a BigotWithACrush with prejudice against a social group Bob belongs to. She is so troubled by her feelings for Bob that she treats him with special contempt.



* '''Subverted''': When Bob complains about Alice picking on him, his friends suggest that she might actually like him and is simply bullying him to hide her feelings. But Alice reveals that she never had a crush on Bob and hates him through and through.

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* '''Subverted''': '''Subverted''':
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When Bob complains about Alice picking on him, his friends suggest that she might actually like him and is simply bullying him to hide her feelings. But Alice reveals that she never had a crush on Bob and hates him through and through.through.
** Someone mentions that Alice "loves" Bob, and she's later seen bullying him. But it turns out they're already a couple, and she's just kind of abusive.



* '''Parodied''': Alice, a {{tomboy}}ish bad girl who wears all-black clothing, is [[WeaknessTurnsHerOn attracted to the scrawny and nerdy Bob]] and bullies him as a way of loving him. Bob instantly falls in love with her because of her bullying.

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** Alice considers them to be a couple. Bob is just baffled by Alice's alternating shows of aggression and affection.
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Alice, a {{tomboy}}ish bad girl who wears all-black clothing, is [[WeaknessTurnsHerOn attracted to the scrawny and nerdy Bob]] and bullies him as a way of loving him. Bob instantly falls in love with her because of her bullying.bullying.
** Alice beats up Bob and then suddenly starts sincerely complimenting him without missing a beat. Bob is just baffled.



* '''Averted''': Alice is a straight-up bully and doesn't have a crush on Bob.

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* '''Averted''': '''Averted''':
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Alice is a straight-up bully and doesn't have a crush on Bob.Bob.
** Alice pursues her crush on Bob through more normal means.



* '''Lampshaded''': "I think she likes you, Bob."

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* '''Lampshaded''': "I think she likes you, Bob. Come on, there's no other reason for a girl to bully you ''that'' hard."


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** Bob genuinely doesn't mind Alice's bullying, but she makes him a target for other bullies.


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** Then Alice beats the other bullies up, emphatically declaring that [[HypocriticalHeartwarming only she can pick on him.]] No one crosses them again.
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** Bob, after being tormented by her one too many times, [[TalkToTheFist socks her in the face]] when she finally asks him out.
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** Alice tries to think of a way to hide her romantic feelings of Bob, when Claire suggests bullying, her response is to [[HaHaHaNo laugh and smack her friend in the face for suggesting it.]]

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* '''Discussed''': "If you really like me, Alice, why don't you just show it instead of bullying me to hide it?"

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* '''Discussed''': '''Discussed''':
--> '''Daniel''': "Dude, I think that Alice girl has a thing for you."
--> '''Bob''':
"If you Alice really like liked me, Alice, why don't you didn't she just show it instead of bullying picking on me to hide it?"
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** Alice's bullying is based on [[CompulsiveLiar lies]] and [[ManipulativeBastard manipulation]], and so when she tries to confess to Bob, he assumes [[CryingWolf it's just another one of her schemes]].

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* '''Inverted''': Bob wants Alice to pick on him because he has a crush on her.

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* '''Inverted''': '''Inverted''':
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Bob wants Alice to pick on him because he has a crush on her.
** Bob pretends to have a crush on Alice to hide the fact that he hates
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* '''Double Subverted''': Only because she's in denial. Or she doesn't want to admit it in front of Bob's friends.

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* '''Double Subverted''': Subverted''':
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Only because she's in denial. Or she denial.
** Alice
doesn't want to admit it in front of Bob's friends.



** Alternatively, Bob stands up to Alice and angrily gives a massive [[TheReasonYouSuckSpeech tangent on how horrible she is]] and that he doesn't want to take her bullshit anymore. Alice tries to remedy this by showing her true feelings for him, but he turns her down by claiming she's only doing that just for him to change his mind and have him MadeOutToBeAJerkass to everyone watching.

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** Alternatively, Bob stands up to Alice and angrily gives a massive [[TheReasonYouSuckSpeech tangent on how horrible she is]] and that he doesn't want to take her bullshit anymore. Alice tries to remedy this by showing her true feelings for him, but he turns her down by claiming she's only doing that just for him to change his mind and have him MadeOutToBeAJerkass to everyone watching.



** Alternatively, he develops a fear of her because of the trauma of her antics.
* '''Reconstructed''': Bob turning down Alice so emphatically [[MyGodWhatHaveIDone makes her realize how poorly she's treated Bob and how badly it hurt someone she loves]]. Later on, Bob gets targeted by Claire and Daniel but Alice comes to Bob's rescue this time by using the same bullying techniques on Claire and Daniel to get them to back off Bob. Alice and Bob eventually become friends, and though Alice will still pick on Bob verbally both of them understand Alice is doing it as her way of showing affection and Alice makes sure not to go too far. Bob may even start to get some zingers back at Alice, turning them into VitriolicBestBuds.
** Following the alternative, Alice suddenly comes to the realization that her antics might've been hurting Bob too much, and begins to become a better person.

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** Alternatively, he Bob develops a fear of her Alice because of the trauma of her antics.
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Bob turning down Alice so emphatically [[MyGodWhatHaveIDone makes her realize how poorly she's treated Bob and how badly it hurt someone she loves]]. Later on, Bob gets targeted by Claire and Daniel but Alice comes to Bob's rescue this time by using the same bullying techniques on Claire and Daniel to get them to back off Bob. Alice and Bob eventually become friends, and though Alice will still pick on Bob verbally both of them understand Alice is doing it as her way of showing affection and Alice makes sure not to go too far. Bob may even start to get some zingers back at Alice, turning them into VitriolicBestBuds.
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VitriolicBestBuds. And it might even develop into [[BelligerentSexualTension what Alice wanted from the alternative, start]].
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Alice suddenly comes to the realization that her antics might've been hurting Bob too much, and begins to become a better person.
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* Following the alternative, Alice suddenly comes to the realization that her antics might've been hurting Bob too much, and begins to become a better person.

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* ** Following the alternative, Alice suddenly comes to the realization that her antics might've been hurting Bob too much, and begins to become a better person.



* '''Implied''': When Alice is lamenting how she can never find a date, her friend Carla annoyedly snarks "Maybe you should not, y'know, be a totalk ass to them?".

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* '''Implied''': When Alice is lamenting how she can never find a date, her friend Carla annoyedly snarks "Maybe you should not, y'know, be a totalk total ass to them?".
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* '''Implied''': When Alice is lamenting how she can never find a date, her friend Carla annoyedly snarks "Maybe you should not y'know, yell at your objects of affections and beat them up?".

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* '''Implied''': When Alice is lamenting how she can never find a date, her friend Carla annoyedly snarks "Maybe you should not not, y'know, yell at your objects of affections and beat them up?".be a totalk ass to them?".
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* '''Implied''': When Alice is lamenting how she can never find a date, her friend Carla annoyedly snarks "Maybe you should not yknow, yell and beat them up?".

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* '''Implied''': When Alice is lamenting how she can never find a date, her friend Carla annoyedly snarks "Maybe you should not yknow, y'know, yell at your objects of affections and beat them up?".
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* '''Implied''': When Alice is lamenting how she can never find a date, her friend Carla annoyedly snarks "Maybe you should not yknow, yell and beat them up?".
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* '''Implied''': This can go down two ways.

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* '''Implied''': This can go down two ways.'''Implied''':

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** Alice doesn't know how to express her feelings.

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** Alice doesn't know how to express her feelings.feelings in a healthier way.



* '''Defied''': Alice shows how she feels about Bob.

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* '''Defied''': '''Defied''':
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Alice shows how she feels about Bob.

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** Alice is sadistic. If also following Inverted, Bob is masochistic. A match made in heaven.



* '''Implied''': This can go down two ways.
** Alice is constantly seen picking on Bob, though with some small hints of affection.
** Alice is seen being a bit lovey dovey towards Bob, but hints at a BDSM-esque relationship with him involving bullying.



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** Alternatively, Bob stands up to Alice and angrily gives a massive [[TheReasonYouSuckSpeech tangent on how horrible she is]] and that he doesn't want to take her bullshit anymore. Alice tries to remedy this by showing her true feelings for him, but he turns her down by claiming she's only doing that just for him to change his mind and have him MadeOutToBeAJerkass to everyone watching.


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* Following the alternative, Alice suddenly comes to the realization that her antics might've been hurting Bob too much, and begins to become a better person.
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* '''Subverted''': Alice reveals that she never had a crush on Bob and hates him through and through.
* '''Double Subverted''': She really is denying that she likes Bob.

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* '''Subverted''': When Bob complains about Alice picking on him, his friends suggest that she might actually like him and is simply bullying him to hide her feelings. But Alice reveals that she never had a crush on Bob and hates him through and through.
* '''Double Subverted''': She really is denying that Only because she's in denial. Or she likes Bob.doesn't want to admit it in front of Bob's friends.



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* '''Zig Zagged''': ???When Alice finally confess, Bob rejects her, causing her to bully him even more as a revenge.
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* '''Inverted''': ???

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* '''Inverted''': ???Bob wants Alice to pick on him because he has a crush on her.



* '''Exploited''': ???

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* '''Exploited''': ???Daniel starts picking on Claire the same way Alice picks on Bob to see if he can get away with it. After all, Alice has set a precedent.

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* '''Reconstructed''': Bob turning down Alice so emphatically [[MyGodWhatHaveIDone makes her realize how poorly she's treated Bob and how badly it hurt someone she loves]]. Later on, Bob gets targeted by Claire and Daniel but Alice comes to Bob's rescue this time by using the same bullying techniques on Claire and Daniel to get them to back off Bob. Alice and Bob eventually become friends, and though Alice will still pick on Bob verbally both of them understand Alice is doing it as her way of showing affection and Alice makes sure not to go too far. Bob may even start to get some zingers back at Alice, turning them into VitriolicBestBuds.



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* '''Invoked''': Claire tells Alice that showing your feeling for someone by bullying them is a social norm.

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* '''Invoked''': Claire tells Alice that showing your feeling romantic feelings for someone by bullying them is a social norm.
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* '''Parodied''': Alice, a bully who wears all-black clothing, is attracted to the scrawny and nerdy Bob and bullies him as a way of loving him. Bob accepts.

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* '''Parodied''': Alice, a bully {{tomboy}}ish bad girl who wears all-black clothing, is [[WeaknessTurnsHerOn attracted to the scrawny and nerdy Bob Bob]] and bullies him as a way of loving him. Bob accepts.instantly falls in love with her because of her bullying.



* '''Enforced''': "I find it cute that Alice is tormenting Bob. She'll make a great love interest for him."

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* '''Enforced''': "I find it cute that Alice is tormenting Bob. She'll make a great love interest for him."him!"



* '''Invoked''': Claire tells Alice that bullying someone because you like them is a social norm.

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* '''Invoked''': Claire tells Alice that showing your feeling for someone by bullying someone because you like them is a social norm.



* '''Played For Laughs''': Alice shows her love for Bob by beating him up, [[DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale and his peers find it hilarious]] and adorable.

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* '''Played For Laughs''': Alice shows her love for Bob by beating him up, [[DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale and his peers find it hilarious]] hilarious and adorable.]]

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* '''Parodied''': ???

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* '''Parodied''': ???Alice, a bully who wears all-black clothing, is attracted to the scrawny and nerdy Bob and bullies him as a way of loving him. Bob accepts.



* '''Enforced''': ???

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* '''Enforced''': ???"I find it cute that Alice is tormenting Bob. She'll make a great love interest for him."



* '''Invoked''': ???

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* '''Invoked''': ???Claire tells Alice that bullying someone because you like them is a social norm.



** Bob, after being tormented by her one too many times, [[ReasonYouSuckSpeech scornfully turns her down]] when she finally asks him out.

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** Bob, after being tormented by her one too many times, [[ReasonYouSuckSpeech [[TheReasonYouSuckSpeech scornfully turns her down]] when she finally asks him out.



* '''PlayedForDrama''': Bob gives Alice a chance, but she turns out to be, in reality, [[DomesticAbuse a toxic person.]]

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* '''PlayedForDrama''': '''Played For Laughs''': Alice shows her love for Bob by beating him up, [[DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale and his peers find it hilarious]] and adorable.
* '''Played For Drama''':
Bob gives Alice a chance, but she turns out to be, in reality, [[DomesticAbuse a toxic person.]]



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** Bob, after being tormented by her one too many times, scornfully turns her down when she finally asks him out.

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** Bob, after being tormented by her one too many times, [[ReasonYouSuckSpeech scornfully turns her down down]] when she finally asks him out.



* '''PlayedForDrama''': Bob gives Alice a chance, but she turns out to be, in reality, a toxic person.

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* '''PlayedForDrama''': Bob gives Alice a chance, but she turns out to be, in reality, [[DomesticAbuse a toxic person.]]

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* '''Deconstructed''': Bob, after being tormented by her one too many times, scornfully turns her down when she finally asks him out.

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* '''Deconstructed''': '''Deconstructed''':
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Bob, after being tormented by her one too many times, scornfully turns her down when she finally asks him out.

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* '''Deconstructed''': Bob, after being tormented by her one too many times, scornfully turns her down when she finally asks him out.
** Alternatively, he develops a fear of her because of the trauma of her antics.
* '''PlayedForDrama''': Bob gives Alice a chance, but she turns out to be, in reality, a toxic person.



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'''Basic Trope''': A character bullies someone to hide their true affections towards another.
*'''Straight''': Alice picks on Bob, but she's really doing that to hide the fact she likes him.
*'''Exaggerated''': Alice beats up Bob on a daily basis because she likes him.
*'''Downplayed''': Alice insults and belittles Bob to shield her feelings for him.
*'''Justified''':
** Alice doesn't know how to express her feelings.
** Alice hangs around a group of bullies. When she develops a crush on Bob, she only hides it to maintain her image with the group.
*'''Inverted''': ???
*'''Subverted''': Alice reveals that she never had a crush on Bob and hates him through and through.
*'''Double Subverted''': She really is denying that she likes Bob.
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*'''Zig Zagged''': ???
*'''Averted''': Alice is a straight-up bully and doesn't have a crush on Bob.
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*'''Lampshaded''': "I think she likes you, Bob."
*'''Invoked''': ???
*'''Exploited''': ???
*'''Defied''': Alice shows how she feels about Bob.
*'''Discussed''': "If you really like me, Alice, why don't you just show it instead of bullying me to hide it?"
*'''Conversed''': "The media seems to get a kick at characters who bully others because they like them."
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