Playing With / Honor-Related Abuse

Basic Trope: A character's family and/or friends harm them because of Honor Before Reason.
Hey Aerith, you were at the main page again?? You know how you are ruining our family's credit? Next time I see you there, there'll be a murder!
http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/PlayingWith/HonorRelatedAbuse