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** ...until she defies them in public, after which they see no choice but to kill her.

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** ...until she defies them in public, after which they see no choice but to kill her.



* '''Parodied''': Aerith [[HoldingHands holds a boy's hand]] and her parents are so ashamed they whack her with a feather stuffed pillow.

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* '''Parodied''': Aerith [[HoldingHands holds a boy's hand]] and her parents are so ashamed they whack [[DisproportionateRetribution]] kill her with a feather stuffed pillow.and proceed to [[LeaveNoWitnesses shoot up the entire park]].



** Aerith's parents killed her [[AttentionWhore specifically to make headlines]] and become infamous.



** The author needs a reason why the protagonist isn't at home.



* '''Invoked''': Aerith's parents purposefully set up the affair so they have an excuse to punish her.
* '''Exploited''': Someone with a grudge against Aerith [[BlatantLies tells her parents]] that she [[MyGirlIsNotASlut has been unchaste]] outside of marriage.

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* '''Invoked''': '''Invoked''':
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Aerith's parents purposefully set up the affair so they have an excuse to punish her.
** Aerith's parents [[MoralEventHorizon rape her]] so that they can "honorably" kill her and say that she "[[BlamingTheVictim deserved it for having premarital sex]]".
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Someone with a grudge against Aerith [[BlatantLies tells her parents]] that she [[MyGirlIsNotASlut has been unchaste]] outside of marriage.marriage.
** [[RapeIsASpecialKindOfEvil Rape]] becomes an unpunishable crime because the victims are usually the only ones who are executed, simultaneously killing off the victim and silencing the rest of them. Rapists continue raping and families continue killing victims until the entire land becomes a GhostTown.


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** Aerith"s parents murder her to preserve their reputation. They go out in public and brag about their "heroic act". Everyone is horrified and they are arrested. [[DontCreateAMartyr Aerith's brother is now relentlessly bullied]] for having child murdering parents.
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** Aerith's action as actual crimes, up to and including killing commoners for sport. Her parents [[PragmaticVillainy don't actual care what she does only that it ruins their reputation]].

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** Aerith's action as actual crimes, up to and including killing commoners for sport. Her parents [[PragmaticVillainy don't actual actually care what she does does, only that it ruins their reputation]].

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** This is a form of DomesticAbuse; Aerith's rights are being violated in the name of [[ValuesDissonance family honor]] and her parents cross the MoralEventHorizon in the process.

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** This is a form of DomesticAbuse; Aerith's rights are being violated in the name of [[ValuesDissonance family honor]] and her parents cross the MoralEventHorizon [[KinslayingIsASpecialKindOfEvil in the process.process]].



** Being abused is scary enough, the fact that Aerith's parents [[ObliviouslyEvil think that they are in the right]], makes it even more horrifying.

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** [[RealismInducedHorror Being abused is scary enough, enough]], the fact that Aerith's parents [[ObliviouslyEvil [[TautologicalTemplar think that they are in the right]], makes it even more horrifying.
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** Aerith's action as actual crimes, up to and including killing commoners for sport. Her parents [[PragmaticVillainy don't actual care what she does only that it ruins their reputation.

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** Aerith's action as actual crimes, up to and including killing commoners for sport. Her parents [[PragmaticVillainy don't actual care what she does only that it ruins their reputation.reputation]].
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** Aerith's action as actual crimes, up to and including killing commoners for sport. Her parents [[PragmaticVillainy don't actual care what she does only that it ruins their reputation.

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** If Aerith's parents choose not to punish her, their society will kill them ([[ConvictedByPublicOpinion or at least their social cred]]) as well as her(s) "[[VillainByProxyFallacy for tolerating]] [[AccompliceByInaction her indecency]]". They had to choose LesserOfTwoEvils. ([[FalseDichotomy Couldn't they]] TakeAThirdOption and let her go, then say everyone that she fled?)

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** If Aerith's parents choose not to punish her, their society will kill them ([[ConvictedByPublicOpinion or at least their social cred]]) cachet]]) as well as her(s) "[[VillainByProxyFallacy for tolerating]] [[AccompliceByInaction her indecency]]". They had to choose LesserOfTwoEvils. ([[FalseDichotomy Couldn't they]] TakeAThirdOption and let her go, then say everyone that she fled?)



** Aerith is killed for being a PuritySue.

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** Aerith is killed for being a PuritySue.[[invoked]]PuritySue.



* '''Zig Zagged''': Sometimes Aerith is punished severely for doing things or seeing people her parents don't like, other times she gets off with barely a slap on the wrist.

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* '''Zig Zagged''': '''Zig-Zagged''': Sometimes Aerith is punished severely for doing things or seeing people her parents don't like, other times she gets off with barely a slap on the wrist.wrist, other times she gets an {{unishment}}, and other times she gets an outright reward.



** Aerith has GoodParents that treat her well, even when she does/says/wears things or dates people they don't approve of.

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** Aerith has GoodParents that who treat her well, even when she does/says/wears things or dates people they don't approve of.



** [[NoWomansLand The setting of the story]] [[DeliberateValuesDissonance demands it]].
** The author was subjected to this, and is trying to use their work as therapy.

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** [[NoWomansLand The setting of the story]] [[DeliberateValuesDissonance demands it]].
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** The author was subjected to this, and is trying to use their work as therapy.



** Bob comes to her rescue and he and Aerith fight back against the abuse. [[FireForgedFriends Their bonds strengthened]] [[NiceJobFixingItVillain because of that]].

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** Bob comes to her rescue and he and Aerith fight back against the abuse. [[FireForgedFriends Their bonds strengthened]] [[NiceJobFixingItVillain because of that]].that.]]



* '''Played For Laughs''': Aerith's parents punish her for dating Bob... by [[{{Unishment}} taking away all her fancy dresses]] so that she has nothing but a set of ImpossiblyTackyClothes (or even [[ShamefulStrip her natural "costume"]], [[NakedPeopleAreFunny that is, her own skin]]) to wear while out, hoping that she'd be too ashamed to meet Bob again.
* '''Reconstructed''': Aerith has internalized her parents' ideas of honor, and thus cannot retaliate.
* '''Played For Drama''':

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* '''Reconstructed''': Aerith has internalized her parents' ideas of honor, and thus cannot retaliate.
* '''Played For for Laughs''': Aerith's parents punish her for dating Bob...Bob ... by [[{{Unishment}} taking away all her fancy dresses]] so that she has nothing but a set of ImpossiblyTackyClothes (or even [[ShamefulStrip her natural "costume"]], [[NakedPeopleAreFunny that is, her own skin]]) to wear while out, hoping that she'd be too ashamed to meet Bob again.
* '''Reconstructed''': Aerith has internalized her parents' ideas of honor, and thus cannot retaliate.
* '''Played For for Drama''':



* '''Played For Horror''': An examination of the things people have done to [[DisproportionateRetribution get retribution]] for dishonor (which includes and ''does not'' stops at maiming, rape, stoning people to death, setting them on fire and disfiguring them with powerful acids) is usually bone-chilling.
* '''Plot Foundation''' (combined with Rule of Drama UpToEleven): Aerith was a cheerful young girl who loved her family. However, she learned the hard way that her feelings are one-sided when she finds herself on the receiving end of an attempt to OffingTheOffspring for dating a boy from a wrong family because they thought it would damage the rep of their family. [[CorneredRattlesnake Desperate for her life]], [[SelfMadeOrphan she kills the parents]] and is soon arrested and sentenced to a long prison term for the CrimeOfSelfDefense. She comes out of the prison a [[BrokenBird bitter, roguish, antisocial shadow of her former persona]]. Now there are (usually) two ways to pick from: a) become [[HadToComeToPrisonToBeACrook a full-on criminal]] with no remorse or pity towards members of their society and a ''massive'' FreudianExcuse; or b) [[MiseryBuildsCharacter overcome her troubles]], [[MisfitMobilizationMoment mobilize her fellow women]] to stand up for their rights and grow into [[RebelLeader a head of a rebellion against the ultra-patriarchal society]] that tears it down and sets up a much more just one.

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* '''Played For for Horror''': An examination of the things people have done to [[DisproportionateRetribution get retribution]] for dishonor (which includes and ''does not'' stops at maiming, rape, stoning people to death, setting them on fire and disfiguring them with powerful acids) is usually bone-chilling.
* '''Plot Foundation''' (combined with (an ExaggeratedTrope version of the Rule of Drama UpToEleven): Drama): Aerith was a cheerful young girl who loved her family. However, she learned the hard way that her feelings are one-sided when she finds herself on the receiving end of an attempt to OffingTheOffspring for dating a boy from a wrong family because they thought it would damage the rep of their family. [[CorneredRattlesnake Desperate for her life]], [[SelfMadeOrphan she kills the parents]] and is soon arrested and sentenced to a long prison term for the CrimeOfSelfDefense. She comes out of the prison a [[BrokenBird bitter, roguish, antisocial shadow of her former persona]]. Now there are (usually) two ways to pick from: a) become [[HadToComeToPrisonToBeACrook a full-on criminal]] with no remorse or pity towards members of their society and a ''massive'' FreudianExcuse; or b) [[MiseryBuildsCharacter overcome her troubles]], [[MisfitMobilizationMoment mobilize her fellow women]] to stand up for their rights and grow into [[RebelLeader a head of a rebellion against the ultra-patriarchal society]] that tears it down and sets up a much more just one.



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* '''Played For Horror''': An examination of the things people have done to [[DisproportionateRetribution get retribution]] for dishonor (which includes and ''does not'' stops at maiming, rape, stoning people to death, setting them on fire and disfiguring them with powerful acids) is usually bone-chilling.

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* '''Subverted''': Aerith's parents discourage her from seeing Bob again but take no further action...

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* '''Subverted''': '''Subverted''':
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Aerith's parents discourage her from seeing Bob again but take no further action...



* '''Double Subverted''': ...until she defies them in public, after which they see no choice but to kill her.

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* '''Double Subverted''': ...Subverted''':
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until she defies them in public, after which they see no choice but to kill her.



* '''Implied''': Aerith is rescued from her tower. When asked why she was in there, she says, "Let's just say 'honor' is the dumbest thing ever."



* '''Implied''': Aerith is rescued from her tower. When asked why she was in there, she says, "Let's just say 'honor' is the dumbest thing ever."
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** Aerith is not killed for her involvement with Bob.


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** She is, however, badly maimed by having [[PoisonIsCorrosive strong acid]] thrown on her to disfigure her.
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** Aerith's parents are [[TheSociopath sociopaths]], so they only see her as a thing to be tossed aside as soon as she gets in their way.

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** HonorBeforeReason

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** HonorBeforeReasonThe author was subjected to this, and is trying to use their work as therapy.



* '''Reconstructed''': Aerith has internalized her parents' ideas of honor, and thus cannot retaliate.



* '''Implied''': Aerith is rescued from her tower. When asked why she was in there, she says, "Let's just say 'honor' is the dumbest thing ever."



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** This is a form of DomesticAbuse; Aerith's rights are being violated in the name of [[ValuesDissonance family honor]].

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** This is a form of DomesticAbuse; Aerith's rights are being violated in the name of [[ValuesDissonance family honor]].honor]] and her parents cross the MoralEventHorizon in the process.
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** Aerith breaks some minor promise, which overall is seen by everybody as a good thing because not doing it otherwise would have been much more abominable (such as, for example, telling the whereabouts of a runaway multiple rapist after being sworn not to say). Aerith's parents, however, see the breaking of the promise as an act abominable enough on its own that killing her (their own, and sole, daughter) in the goriest fashion possible is the best retribution they can think of.
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** If Aerith's parents choose not to punish her, their society will kill them ([[ConvictedByPublicOpinion or at least their social cred]]) as well as her(s) "[[VillainByProxyFallacy for tolerating]] [[AccompliceByInaction her indecency]]". They had to choose LesserOfTwoEvils.

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** If Aerith's parents choose not to punish her, their society will kill them ([[ConvictedByPublicOpinion or at least their social cred]]) as well as her(s) "[[VillainByProxyFallacy for tolerating]] [[AccompliceByInaction her indecency]]". They had to choose LesserOfTwoEvils. ([[FalseDichotomy Couldn't they]] TakeAThirdOption and let her go, then say everyone that she fled?)
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** AerithAndBob are together, but Aerith's [[ParentalMarriageVeto parents don't approve of Bob]]. They lecture her, saying some rather unnecessarily hurtful things, and tell her she's grounded.

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** AerithAndBob are together, but Aerith's [[ParentalMarriageVeto parents don't approve of Bob]]. [[BreakThemByTalking They lecture her, saying some rather unnecessarily hurtful things, things]], and tell finish their rant by telling her [[YouAreGrounded she's grounded.grounded]].



** If Aerith's parents choose not to punish her, their society will kill them as well as her. They had to choose LesserOfTwoEvils.

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** If Aerith's parents choose not to punish her, their society will kill them ([[ConvictedByPublicOpinion or at least their social cred]]) as well as her.her(s) "[[VillainByProxyFallacy for tolerating]] [[AccompliceByInaction her indecency]]". They had to choose LesserOfTwoEvils.



** Rather than harm Aerith, her parents kill or injure Bob.

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** Rather than harm Aerith, [[KnightTemplarParent her parents parents]] kill or injure Bob.



** [[NoWomansLand The setting of the story]] [[ValuesDissonance demands it]].

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** [[NoWomansLand The setting of the story]] [[ValuesDissonance [[DeliberateValuesDissonance demands it]].
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** When Aerith's parents find out that she wants to refuse an ArrangedMarriage, they lock her up in a [[TortureCellar cellar]], [[DeniedFoodAsPunishment starve her]], [[ATasteOfLash whip her]], beat her, wound her, and [[ParentalIncest rape her]] until she either dies or [[TwoPlusTortureEqualsFive changes her mind]].

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** When Aerith's parents find out that she wants to refuse an ArrangedMarriage, they lock her up in a [[TortureCellar cellar]], [[DeniedFoodAsPunishment starve her]], [[ATasteOfLash [[ATasteOfTheLash whip her]], beat her, wound her, and [[ParentalIncest rape her]] until she [[OffingTheOffspring either dies dies]] or [[TwoPlusTortureEqualsFive changes her mind]].
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** When Aerith's parents find out that she wants to refuse an ArrangedMarriage, they lock her up in a [[TortureCellar cellar]], [[DeniedFoodAsPunishment starve her]], whip her, beat her, wound her, and [[{{Squick}} rape her]] until she either dies or [[TwoPlusTortureEqualsFive changes her mind]].

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** When Aerith's parents find out that she wants to refuse an ArrangedMarriage, they lock her up in a [[TortureCellar cellar]], [[DeniedFoodAsPunishment starve her]], [[ATasteOfLash whip her, her]], beat her, wound her, and [[{{Squick}} [[ParentalIncest rape her]] until she either dies or [[TwoPlusTortureEqualsFive changes her mind]].



** Aerith is part of a BigScrewedUpFamily

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** Aerith is part of a BigScrewedUpFamilyBigScrewedUpFamily.



* '''Plot Foundation''' (combined with Rule of Drama UpToEleven): Aerith was a cheerful young girl who loved her family. However, she learned the hard way that her feelings are one-sided when she finds herself on the receiving end of an attempt to OffingTheOffspring for dating a boy from a wrong family because they thought it would damage the rep of their family. [[CorneredRattlesnake Desperate for her life]], [[SelfMadeOrphan she kills the parents]] and is soon arrested and sentenced to a long prison term for the CrimeOfSelfDefense. She comes out of the prison a [[BrokenBird bitter, roguish, antisocial shadow of her former persona]]. Now there are (usually) two ways to pick from: a) become [[HadToComeToPrisonToBeACrook a full-on criminal]] with no remorse or pity towards members of their society and a ''massive'' FreudianExcuse; or b) [[MiseryBuildsCharacter overcome her troubles]], mobilize her fellow women to stand up for their rights and grow into [[RebelLeader a head of a rebellion against the ultra-patriarchal society]] that tears it down and sets up a much more just one.

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* '''Plot Foundation''' (combined with Rule of Drama UpToEleven): Aerith was a cheerful young girl who loved her family. However, she learned the hard way that her feelings are one-sided when she finds herself on the receiving end of an attempt to OffingTheOffspring for dating a boy from a wrong family because they thought it would damage the rep of their family. [[CorneredRattlesnake Desperate for her life]], [[SelfMadeOrphan she kills the parents]] and is soon arrested and sentenced to a long prison term for the CrimeOfSelfDefense. She comes out of the prison a [[BrokenBird bitter, roguish, antisocial shadow of her former persona]]. Now there are (usually) two ways to pick from: a) become [[HadToComeToPrisonToBeACrook a full-on criminal]] with no remorse or pity towards members of their society and a ''massive'' FreudianExcuse; or b) [[MiseryBuildsCharacter overcome her troubles]], [[MisfitMobilizationMoment mobilize her fellow women women]] to stand up for their rights and grow into [[RebelLeader a head of a rebellion against the ultra-patriarchal society]] that tears it down and sets up a much more just one.
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** Aerith is rewarded (not punished) for being involved with Bob.

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** Aerith is rewarded (not punished) for being involved with Bob. (See also MyGirlIsASlut.)
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** Aerith is ConvenientlyAnOrphan and an only child that made it into becoming an adult, so no one is able to mess with her life.

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** Aerith is ConvenientlyAnOrphan and [[LonelyRichKid an only child child]] of a rich family that made it into becoming an adult, so no one is able to mess with her life.



** Aerith's parents realize that she is a person, and that she may do things they don't approve of. If religion is the issue, they pray to the PowersThatBe for her forgiveness, and [[BeYourself they accept her as she is]].

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** Aerith's parents realize [[KnowWhenToFoldEm realize]] that she is a person, and that she may do things they don't approve of. If religion is the issue, they pray to the PowersThatBe for her forgiveness, and [[BeYourself they accept her as she is]].
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** Aerith is ConvenientlyAnOrphan and an only child that made it into becoming an adult, so no one is able to mess with her life.
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** Bob comes to her rescue and he and Aerith fight back against the abuse. [[NiceJobFixingItVillain Their bonds strengthened because of that]].

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** Bob comes to her rescue and he and Aerith fight back against the abuse. [[FireForgedFriends Their bonds strengthened]] [[NiceJobFixingItVillain Their bonds strengthened because of that]].

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