History PlayingWith / HonorRelatedAbuse

27th Jul '17 12:59:06 AM AgentKyles
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** AerithAndBob are together, but Aerith's [[ParentalMarriageVeto parents don't approve of Bob]]. They lecture her, saying some rather unnecessarily hurtful things, and tell her she's grounded.

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** AerithAndBob are together, but Aerith's [[ParentalMarriageVeto parents don't approve of Bob]]. [[BreakThemByTalking They lecture her, saying some rather unnecessarily hurtful things, things]], and tell finish their rant by telling her [[YouAreGrounded she's grounded.grounded]].



** If Aerith's parents choose not to punish her, their society will kill them as well as her. They had to choose LesserOfTwoEvils.

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** If Aerith's parents choose not to punish her, their society will kill them ([[ConvictedByPublicOpinion or at least their social cred]]) as well as her.her(s) "[[VillainByProxyFallacy for tolerating]] [[AccompliceByInaction her indecency]]". They had to choose LesserOfTwoEvils.



** Rather than harm Aerith, her parents kill or injure Bob.

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** Rather than harm Aerith, [[KnightTemplarParent her parents parents]] kill or injure Bob.



** [[NoWomansLand The setting of the story]] [[ValuesDissonance demands it]].

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** [[NoWomansLand The setting of the story]] [[ValuesDissonance [[DeliberateValuesDissonance demands it]].
12th Apr '17 3:49:36 AM AgentKyles
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** When Aerith's parents find out that she wants to refuse an ArrangedMarriage, they lock her up in a [[TortureCellar cellar]], [[DeniedFoodAsPunishment starve her]], [[ATasteOfLash whip her]], beat her, wound her, and [[ParentalIncest rape her]] until she either dies or [[TwoPlusTortureEqualsFive changes her mind]].

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** When Aerith's parents find out that she wants to refuse an ArrangedMarriage, they lock her up in a [[TortureCellar cellar]], [[DeniedFoodAsPunishment starve her]], [[ATasteOfLash [[ATasteOfTheLash whip her]], beat her, wound her, and [[ParentalIncest rape her]] until she [[OffingTheOffspring either dies dies]] or [[TwoPlusTortureEqualsFive changes her mind]].
7th Apr '17 9:04:46 AM AgentKyles
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** When Aerith's parents find out that she wants to refuse an ArrangedMarriage, they lock her up in a [[TortureCellar cellar]], [[DeniedFoodAsPunishment starve her]], whip her, beat her, wound her, and [[{{Squick}} rape her]] until she either dies or [[TwoPlusTortureEqualsFive changes her mind]].

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** When Aerith's parents find out that she wants to refuse an ArrangedMarriage, they lock her up in a [[TortureCellar cellar]], [[DeniedFoodAsPunishment starve her]], [[ATasteOfLash whip her, her]], beat her, wound her, and [[{{Squick}} [[ParentalIncest rape her]] until she either dies or [[TwoPlusTortureEqualsFive changes her mind]].



** Aerith is part of a BigScrewedUpFamily

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** Aerith is part of a BigScrewedUpFamilyBigScrewedUpFamily.



* '''Plot Foundation''' (combined with Rule of Drama UpToEleven): Aerith was a cheerful young girl who loved her family. However, she learned the hard way that her feelings are one-sided when she finds herself on the receiving end of an attempt to OffingTheOffspring for dating a boy from a wrong family because they thought it would damage the rep of their family. [[CorneredRattlesnake Desperate for her life]], [[SelfMadeOrphan she kills the parents]] and is soon arrested and sentenced to a long prison term for the CrimeOfSelfDefense. She comes out of the prison a [[BrokenBird bitter, roguish, antisocial shadow of her former persona]]. Now there are (usually) two ways to pick from: a) become [[HadToComeToPrisonToBeACrook a full-on criminal]] with no remorse or pity towards members of their society and a ''massive'' FreudianExcuse; or b) [[MiseryBuildsCharacter overcome her troubles]], mobilize her fellow women to stand up for their rights and grow into [[RebelLeader a head of a rebellion against the ultra-patriarchal society]] that tears it down and sets up a much more just one.

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* '''Plot Foundation''' (combined with Rule of Drama UpToEleven): Aerith was a cheerful young girl who loved her family. However, she learned the hard way that her feelings are one-sided when she finds herself on the receiving end of an attempt to OffingTheOffspring for dating a boy from a wrong family because they thought it would damage the rep of their family. [[CorneredRattlesnake Desperate for her life]], [[SelfMadeOrphan she kills the parents]] and is soon arrested and sentenced to a long prison term for the CrimeOfSelfDefense. She comes out of the prison a [[BrokenBird bitter, roguish, antisocial shadow of her former persona]]. Now there are (usually) two ways to pick from: a) become [[HadToComeToPrisonToBeACrook a full-on criminal]] with no remorse or pity towards members of their society and a ''massive'' FreudianExcuse; or b) [[MiseryBuildsCharacter overcome her troubles]], [[MisfitMobilizationMoment mobilize her fellow women women]] to stand up for their rights and grow into [[RebelLeader a head of a rebellion against the ultra-patriarchal society]] that tears it down and sets up a much more just one.
2nd Apr '17 4:32:28 AM AgentKyles
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** Aerith is rewarded (not punished) for being involved with Bob.

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** Aerith is rewarded (not punished) for being involved with Bob. (See also MyGirlIsASlut.)
11th Feb '17 9:54:35 PM AgentKyles
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** Aerith is ConvenientlyAnOrphan and an only child that made it into becoming an adult, so no one is able to mess with her life.

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** Aerith is ConvenientlyAnOrphan and [[LonelyRichKid an only child child]] of a rich family that made it into becoming an adult, so no one is able to mess with her life.



** Aerith's parents realize that she is a person, and that she may do things they don't approve of. If religion is the issue, they pray to the PowersThatBe for her forgiveness, and [[BeYourself they accept her as she is]].

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** Aerith's parents realize [[KnowWhenToFoldEm realize]] that she is a person, and that she may do things they don't approve of. If religion is the issue, they pray to the PowersThatBe for her forgiveness, and [[BeYourself they accept her as she is]].
11th Feb '17 9:43:49 PM AgentKyles
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** Aerith is ConvenientlyAnOrphan and an only child that made it into becoming an adult, so no one is able to mess with her life.
9th Feb '17 9:28:58 AM AgentKyles
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** Bob comes to her rescue and he and Aerith fight back against the abuse. [[NiceJobFixingItVillain Their bonds strengthened because of that]].

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** Bob comes to her rescue and he and Aerith fight back against the abuse. [[FireForgedFriends Their bonds strengthened]] [[NiceJobFixingItVillain Their bonds strengthened because of that]].
4th Feb '17 5:02:52 AM AgentKyles
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* '''Plot Foundation''' (combined with Rule of Drama UpToEleven): Aerith was a cheerful young girl who loved her family. However, she learned the hard way that her feelings are one-sided when she finds herself on the receiving end of an attempt to OffingTheOffspring for dating a boy from a wrong family because they thought it would damage the rep of their family. [[CorneredRattlesnake Desperate for her life]], [[SelfMadeOrphan she kills the parents]] and is soon arrested and sentenced to a long prison term for the CrimeOfSelfDefense. She comes out of the prison a [[BrokenBird bitter, roguish, antisocial shadow of her former persona]]. Now there are (usually) two ways to pick from: a) become [[HadToComeToPrisonToBeACrook a full-on criminal]] with no remorse or pity towards members of their society and a ''massive'' FreudianExcuse; or b) [[MiseryBuildsTheCharacter overcome her troubles]] and mobilize her fellow women to stand up for their rights and grow into [[RebelLeader a head of a rebellion against the ultra-patriarchal society]] that tears it down and sets up a much more just one.

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* '''Plot Foundation''' (combined with Rule of Drama UpToEleven): Aerith was a cheerful young girl who loved her family. However, she learned the hard way that her feelings are one-sided when she finds herself on the receiving end of an attempt to OffingTheOffspring for dating a boy from a wrong family because they thought it would damage the rep of their family. [[CorneredRattlesnake Desperate for her life]], [[SelfMadeOrphan she kills the parents]] and is soon arrested and sentenced to a long prison term for the CrimeOfSelfDefense. She comes out of the prison a [[BrokenBird bitter, roguish, antisocial shadow of her former persona]]. Now there are (usually) two ways to pick from: a) become [[HadToComeToPrisonToBeACrook a full-on criminal]] with no remorse or pity towards members of their society and a ''massive'' FreudianExcuse; or b) [[MiseryBuildsTheCharacter [[MiseryBuildsCharacter overcome her troubles]] and troubles]], mobilize her fellow women to stand up for their rights and grow into [[RebelLeader a head of a rebellion against the ultra-patriarchal society]] that tears it down and sets up a much more just one.
4th Feb '17 4:57:59 AM AgentKyles
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** Aerith's parents [[HandsOffParenting don't give a damn]] what (or whom) she does or doesn't do.

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** Aerith's parents [[HandsOffParenting don't give a damn]] what (or whom) she does or doesn't do. This is one of the few cases when ParentalNeglect is better than too much attention from them.



* '''Plot Foundation''' (combined with Rule of Drama UpToEleven): Aerith was a cheerful young girl who loved her family. However, she learned the hard way that her feelings are one-sided when she finds herself on the receiving end of an attempt to OffingTheOffspring for dating a boy from a wrong family because they thought it would damage the rep of their family. [[CorneredRattlesnake Desperate for her life]], [[SelfMadeOrphan she kills the parents]] and is soon arrested and sentenced to a long prison term for the CrimeOfSelfDefense. She comes out of the prison a [[BrokenBird bitter, roguish, antisocial shadow of her former persona]]. Now there are (usually) two ways to pick from: a) become [[HadToComeToPrisonToBeACrook a full-on criminal]] with no remorse or pity towards members of their society and a ''massive'' FreudianExcuse; or b) [[MiseryBuildsTheCharacter overcome her troubles]] and mobilize her fellow women to stand up for their rights and grow into [[RebelLeader a head of a rebellion against the ultra-patriarchal society]] that tears it down and sets up a much more just one.



Back to HonorRelatedAbuse.

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Back to HonorRelatedAbuse.Hey Aerith, you were at [[HonorRelatedAbuse the main page]] again?? You know how you are ruining our family's credit? Next time I see you there, there'll be a murder!
4th Feb '17 3:29:27 AM AgentKyles
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** Aerith's parents treat her well, even when she does/says/wears things or dates people they don't approve of.

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** Aerith's parents Aerith has GoodParents that treat her well, even when she does/says/wears things or dates people they don't approve of.



* '''Deconstructed''': This is a form of DomesticAbuse; Aerith's rights are being violated in the name of [[ValuesDissonance family honor]].
* '''Played For Laughs''': Aerith's parents punish her for dating Bob... by [[Unishment taking away all her fancy dresses]] so that she has nothing but a set of ImpossiblyTackyClothes (or even [[ShamefulStrip her natural "costume"]], [[NakedPeopleAreFunny that is, her own skin]]) to wear while out, hoping that she'd be too ashamed to meet Bob again.

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* '''Deconstructed''': '''Deconstructed''':
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This is a form of DomesticAbuse; Aerith's rights are being violated in the name of [[ValuesDissonance family honor]].
** When her parents decide to kill her for "ruining their family's honor", Aerith eventually [[TheDogBitesBack snaps and lashes out at them]], possibly even going as far as turning into a SelfMadeOrphan.
* '''Played For Laughs''': Aerith's parents punish her for dating Bob... by [[Unishment [[{{Unishment}} taking away all her fancy dresses]] so that she has nothing but a set of ImpossiblyTackyClothes (or even [[ShamefulStrip her natural "costume"]], [[NakedPeopleAreFunny that is, her own skin]]) to wear while out, hoping that she'd be too ashamed to meet Bob again.
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