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Ninja857142 Since: Nov, 2015
Apr 27th 2021 at 8:58:16 AM •••

Want to avoid an Edit War; the following entries were listed under Tear Jerker:

  • Shame. We learn that Natalie's friend and crush, "Joanne", rejected her and then went on a "friendship break" with her around the time Opulence was receiving its backlash. We also learn Natalie had been dating someone for the past year or so... only for her to break up with him on account of her coming to terms with being a lesbian. Natalie starts crying at a couple of points in the video. Even worse was what Natalie's crush said when she Natalie told her that she was making this video.
Natalie: And she said I might wanna mention that one of the reason she didn't wanna be with me is she'd be ashamed to date another trans woman. She said she feels that relationships between trans women are freakish behavior on the outskirts of society with no attempt to integrate. These are very painful words to hear from the woman you're in love with. But, I understand why she feels that way. Joanne gets validation from dating cis men or cis woman, but I can't be the hinge that connects her to mainstream society. And it's maddening to me that she feels that way, because I would have chosen her over every cis woman in the world. But I'm just another worthless freak without the authority of society behind me, so my love doesn't count.
  • Something of an undercurrent of Voting, which is no real surprise, given that the 2020 election is such a fraught subject, though in particular, there's a moment during her description of the difference of suicidal action and suicidal ideation, where a hypothetical therapist suggests medication. Where a typical Contrapoints example leans into exaggeration and humor, she just sounds... dead and defeated.

Tear Jerker is currently under No Real Life Examples, Please!, for being "Too Common." To the best of my understanding, this includes real life events explicitly referenced in news, memoirs, video essays, etc.

Any objections?

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ciyinwanderer Since: Dec, 2018
Apr 28th 2021 at 5:25:54 AM •••

I feel that on the Tear Jerker page it makes sense to not have real life examples.

But that's not the same as discussing specific media based on real life. The movie Selma has a Tear Jerker page, despite being based on real life. Contra Points videos are media that are being discussed and analyzed in the context of this wiki. It makes sense for it to have Tear Jerker moments just like any other tropes.

“Once you’ve been to Cambodia, you’ll never stop wanting to beat Henry Kissinger to death with your bare hands." ~Anthony Bourdain
Ninja857142 Since: Nov, 2015
Apr 28th 2021 at 8:42:40 AM •••

Fair. The line between fiction and non-fiction isn't a completely fine one. Ideally, I think any Tear Jerker examples should refrain from mentioning real life events, except insofar as they are crucially relevant to the fictional examples listed. This is why I left the Tiffany Tumbles entry, since Tiffany is a fictional character, albeit one meant to be based on real people. Conversely, the story of "Joanne," obligatory pseudonym notwithstanding, is itself explicitly a memoir of a real-life event. Selma, by contrast, while based on real events, is a movie fueled by actors and performances, and is not just a historical account or documentary. The performances could be said to be the core Tear Jerker, not specifically the events they are based upon (though obviously those are a significant factor).

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ciyinwanderer Since: Dec, 2018
Apr 28th 2021 at 9:49:59 AM •••

Yeah, Selma wasn't the best example. I was just trying to quickly think of "what's something based on actual events that contains tear jerkers." First thought was Schindler's List, but didn't want to go full Godwin.

Other examples include plenty of other YouTubers who have tear jerkers listed on their YMMV page or have enough for entire Tear Jerker pages. Or Stephen Colbert on The Colbert Report; he was playing a character but was also himself in much the same way Natalie has both played a character of herself, but is also kind of her real self. I think the application of "no real life examples" is too stringent here, following the letter of the law instead the intent.

Edited by ciyinwanderer “Once you’ve been to Cambodia, you’ll never stop wanting to beat Henry Kissinger to death with your bare hands." ~Anthony Bourdain
Ninja857142 Since: Nov, 2015
Apr 28th 2021 at 10:58:11 AM •••

You might want to take that up with the moderators then. Tear Jerker pages for YouTubers like The Philip De Franco Show and Philosophy Tube were recently cut for only containing real-life examples, so that appears to be the policy being enforced right now. If there are any other such YouTubers pages, they may not be valid either, and may be cut if reported to the cutlist.

That said, I think the "Voting" example could be kept with some edits. Something like this:

  • In "Voting," there's a moment during her description of the difference of suicidal action and suicidal ideation, where a hypothetical therapist suggests medication. Where a typical Contrapoints performance leans into exaggeration and humor, here she just sounds... dead and defeated.

Also remember, Rule of Cautious Editing Judgment applies to any real-life drama as well.

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Ninja857142 Since: Nov, 2015
May 5th 2021 at 9:59:02 AM •••

No objections for a week, so I'm making the discussed revisions. Please discuss further before reverting any changes.

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